If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror.

What is threatening about the choice they're making?

What would it mean about you if you did it?

How does it make you feel?

What does it remind you of?

People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person.

But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices.

And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people.

When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents?

What is that judgment trying to protect you from?

What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this?

It's eliciting an emotion in you.
Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling.

Can you meet that judgment with curiosity?

Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them.

What story are you projecting onto this person?

Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have.

Get curious.

What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?

If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror.

What is threatening about the choice they're making?

What would it mean about you if you did it?

How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of?

People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person.
But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices.

And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people.

When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents?

What is that judgment trying to protect you from?

What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this?

It's eliciting an emotion in you.
Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling.

Can you meet that judgment with curiosity?

Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them.

What story are you projecting onto this person?

Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one.

Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have.

Get curious.

What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?

Ngugi wa Thiong'o, the renowned Kenyan author and academic, has passed away at the age of 87 in Atlanta, USA.

His daughter, Wanjiku Wa Ngugi, announced his passing on Facebook, stating that he lived a full life and fought a good fight. According to his family's wishes, details of his celebration of life will be announced soon.

Ngugi wa Thiong'o was a celebrated novelist, playwright, and scholar known for his works that explored themes of colonialism, cultural identity, and social justice. Some of his notable works include:

- Novels:
- Weep Not, Child (1964)
- The River Between (1965)
- A Grain of Wheat (1967)
- Petals of Blood (1977)
- Devil on the Cross (1980)

- Essays:
- Decolonising the Mind (1986)
- Moving the Center (1994)
- Penpoints Gunpoints and Dreams (1998)

He was a vocal advocate for the use of indigenous languages in literature and was known for his critique of neocolonialism.

Ngugi wa Thiong'o held academic positions at esteemed institutions such as Yale University, New York University, and the University of California, Irvine, where he was a Distinguished Professor of English and Comparative Literature.

Farewell to a Literary Giant: Honoring the Pen of Prof. Ngũgĩ wa Thiong’o

Here are Ngugi Wa Thiong'o's books, categorized by genre:

Novels
- Weep Not, Child (1964) - a powerful story about the effects of the Mau Mau war on ordinary Kenyans
- The River Between (1965) - explores the conflict between traditional and modern ways of life
- A Grain of Wheat (1967) - considered one of Thiong'o's greatest literary achievements
- Petals of Blood (1977) - a novel about corruption and capitalism in post-independence Kenya
- Devil on the Cross (1980) - written in Gikuyu while Thiong'o was in prison
- Matigari (1986) - a mythical story about a revolutionary in an unnamed country
- Wizard of the Crow (2004) - a magical realist narrative about Africa's place in the modern world
- The Perfect Nine (2018) - a novel exploring themes of identity and culture

Memoirs
- Dreams in a Time of War (2005) - a memoir about Thiong'o's childhood during the Mau Mau Uprising
- In the House of the Interpreter (2012) - a memoir about Thiong'o's experiences in prison
- Birth of a Dream Weaver (2016) - a memoir about Thiong'o's journey as a writer
- Wrestling with the Devil: A Prison Memoir (2018) - a memoir about Thiong'o's experiences in prison

Short Stories/Novellas
- The Upright Revolution (2016) - a short story exploring themes of power and identity
- Minutes of Glory and Other Stories (2019) - a collection of short stories

Plays
- The Black Hermit (1968) - a play about identity and culture
- The Trial of Dedan Kimathi (1976) - a play about Kenya's struggle for independence
- I Will Marry When I Want (1982) - a play about the legacies of colonialism

Non-Fiction Books
- Homecoming (1972) - essays about African culture and identity
- Decolonising the Mind (1981) - a collection of essays about language and culture
- Writers in Politics (1981) - essays about the role of writers in society
- Globalectics (2012) - essays about literature and culture
- The Language of Languages (2022) - a book about language and identity
- Decolonizing Language and Other Revolutionary Ideas (2025) - a book about language and culture.

In the book Outwitting the Devil, there is this profound statement that I came across:
"It is a sin to remain in ignorance because that leads to poverty and loss of self-reliance."

In 2025, while the world debates AI disruption, economic downturns, and talent wars, a quieter plague keeps spreading unchecked.

Not the absence of data, but the absence of deliberate understanding. That distinction matters.

Napoleon Hill’s Outwitting the Devil didn’t miss words: “It is a sin to remain in ignorance because that leads to poverty and loss of self-reliance.”
And it’s true. The greatest mountain you’ll ever face is not your competition, your background, or your economy, it’s what you don’t know and refuse to learn.

Every time you outsource your thinking, ignore emerging trends, or operate by outdated assumptions, you’re silently licensing poverty, not just in your wallet, but in your decisions, relationships, and influence.

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Day 1: The Contagiousness of Habits that Destroys Kings
Day 2: Governing One's Invisible Economy
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In the first quarter of 2025, over 62% of startup failures globally weren’t due to funding. They died from strategic ignorance, misreading market signals, misjudging buyer behavior, or misunderstanding internal capabilities.
Not lack of opportunity. Lack of perception.

Ignorance isn’t passive. It’s aggressive.
It robs confidence, delays execution, and deceives you into thinking you’re safer than you are.

The solution?
Kill ignorance like it’s your sworn enemy, because it is.
Read, study & practice obsessively.
Ask uncomfortable questions.
Audit what you “know.”
Seek perspective like your success depends on it, because it does.

Growth doesn’t begin with action. It begins with awareness.
And those who scale in impact, income, and influence, are those who treat ignorance as a problem to be solved, not a personality trait to be excused.

The truth? You don’t rise by chance. You rise by clarity, earned through the disciplined demolition of what you don’t yet understand.

And that journey starts today.

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

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I thank God for looking out for me even after going through my punishment and coming out victorious in my place.

Jesus is indeed King of kings.

If you’re someone who deeply self-reflects, you need to be very aware of something crucial for which most people are not aware of., ... Most people project!

This is an incredibly important awareness to cultivate because you might mistakenly self-reflect on their projections, thinking that they, too, are engaging in honest introspection.

You can easily get lost in this confusing loop of self-questioning, often based on people gaslighting you or subtly inducing self-doubt, simply because they are unwilling or unable to turn the mirror toward themselves.

So, before you consider what someone else says to you about yourself, first of all, be absolutely sure that it comes from a person who is not only able to take accountability for themselves, but is also genuinely in the state of mind of trying to understand you, rather than judge.

Understand that many people are not willing to confront their own flaws or turn the mirror to themselves. They don't care if they induce self-doubt and mental fog in you, as long as it helps them get away from their own wrong-doing. Not to forget those who know you are someone who self-reflects, and are simply using that very quality against you to manipulate you.

Self-awareness is beautiful, a powerful tool for personal growth. But that being said, external awareness—awareness of others' patterns and intentions—is just as important, if not more so, in order not to fall into other people's toxic traps. This commitment to truth, even when uncomfortable, allows you to live with unfiltered emotions and clarity.

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Can you humbly acknowledge that you are wrong so God can help you?

Jesus Loves Me Irrespective of my Wrongs and ready to answer to my call as soon as I acknowledge I am wrong.

When Jesus loves you, there's nothing you will do to yourself to stop him from loving you and running to your rescue when you hit the wall and turn to God and cry for His intervention.

Read within the lines of Psalms 107 and you will realize that no matter what you think you have done, which by your judgement should not grant you audience before God is really nothing God cannot overlook and run to your rescue as soon as you recognize that you are wrong and ask for His help.

That's how much He love me & you!

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It’s been a hard few years—for a lot of people.⁠
You’ve carried so much.⁠
Worked through loss, grief, heartbreak…⁠
And still, you’ve stayed open.⁠
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That matters.⁠
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Because loving anything deeply means risking the pain of losing it.⁠

Grief is a double-edged sword.⁠
It cuts because you cared.⁠
It aches because it meant something.⁠
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That’s the gift.⁠
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You put your heart on the line knowing it might break.⁠
And sometimes, it does.⁠
But if you let those feelings move through you,⁠
if you trust the process…⁠
you’ll find your way to the other side of it.⁠
⁠
You don’t have to fear heartbreak.⁠
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It might feel overwhelming at times—but that pain is proof you really lived.⁠
You gave it everything.⁠
You said yes to the experience.⁠
You loved fully, knowing it would change.⁠
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And that’s something to be proud of.⁠
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The time you spend with someone or something…⁠
That’s the real beauty of this whole thing.⁠
You grow.⁠
You learn.⁠
You expand.⁠
And even if it ends,⁠
you walk away a better version of yourself.⁠
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So when the grief rushes in,⁠
don’t run.⁠
Feel it.⁠
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It’s not here to destroy you.⁠
It’s here to remind you just how deeply you love.⁠
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Grief is a gift—its proof you lived with your heart open.

-The Better Man Project

Make Money: How to Find 5 Things You Can Sell, Make Money & Without Creating Anything New

You’re sitting on a goldmine, but you keep waiting to “create” something new.
Truth is: you already have sellable value. You just haven’t seen it yet.

Many professionals & entrepreneurs already have what people would pay for, they just don’t know how to extract it, position it, and sell it.
The value is in your head, your history, your hard drive, your hands.
Let’s uncover 5 sellable assets you already own.

In a few minutes, I will help you find 5 powerful things you can sell right now, without creating anything new.

1. Your Process
You have a way of doing something that works, whether it’s writing proposals, recruiting talent, closing deals, parenting, or getting out of debt.

Package it as:
– A template
– A checklist
– A mini training
– A process map
People don’t buy information. They buy shortcuts ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

Free download 3 in 1 templates (a free course also) to help you Identify, Package & Profit from What You Know (skills & experience) https://stan.store/Joybert

2. Your Past Work
Old presentations, proposals, spreadsheets, research, even recorded Zoom calls…

Package it as:
– A digital bundle
– Swipe file
– Resource vault
– Framework archive
What you’ve already used once… can be sold many times.

3. Your Conversations
Your WhatsApp chats, DMs, voice notes, and coaching calls are filled with answers people are already seeking.

Package it as:
– Q&A vault
– Ebook of answers
– Private podcast
– “Ask me anything” compilation
You’ve been dropping gems and wisdom. Now it’s time to get paid for them. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

4. Your Results
You lost weight. Built a business. Got scholarships. Raised capital.
What you did, others want to do. And they’ll pay for your roadmap.

Package it as:
– Case study + breakdown
– Before-after + method
– Story + strategy + step-by-step
– “How I did it” walkthrough
Your journey is a monetizable blueprint.

5. Your Skills in Action
You’ve written CVs, run ads, managed teams, planned events, built websites, launched a product, or solved a hard problem.

Package it as:
– Done-for-you service
– 1-on-1 consultation
– Skill-based micro-cohort
– Weekend implementation session

You don’t need new tools. You need to put your tools to work.

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6. BONUS: Your Failures
Yes. Even your mistakes are monetizable.
Especially if you survived what others are afraid of starting.

Package it as:
– “Don’t do this” training
– Lessons from failure
– Recovery & reset plan
– Anti-blueprint
Cautionary wisdom is a valuable product in this generation. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

7. Use This 5-Box Audit To Start Now:
Take a piece of paper. Divide into 5 sections:

a) What have I done more than 3 times?

b) What do people ask me for advice on?

c) What tools/templates have I created for myself?

d) What outcomes have I achieved?

e) What did I learn the hard way?
That’s your product line.

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8. From Value to Offer in 3 Simple Moves:
- Pick ONE of the assets above
- Package it in a simple, useful format (PDF, 30-min call, Google Doc, etc.)
- Put a price on it (even $10 is a start)

You don’t need a big launch. You need a bold clear offer.

9. Your Audience Doesn’t Need More Content, They Need a Way to WIN.
You don’t need to wait to be perfect.
You need to give people something that makes their life easier, faster, cheaper, better.
That’s the job of a product and you can create one without starting from scratch.

10. Clarity Kills Overwhelm.
Execution Kills Fear.
Don’t wait to be ready. Start with what’s real.
You already have value.
The market is not waiting for new.
It’s waiting for what is clear, useful and essential.

COMMENT “SELLABLE” if this impacted you to take action today.

And if you lead a team, community, or cohort and want me to train your people on how to monetize what they already have, let’s talk.

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
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Urgent Update for men

PEFI MEN’S SUMMIT | Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income (GII-Summit)

This is not another motivational event.
This is a summit of serious men, those ready to confront what quietly ruin kings, take ownership of their invisible economies, and walk in laws that produce undeniable results.

June 10, 11 & 12, 2025 | 8PM GMT+1 Daily | Zoom & YouTube
With Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

For 3 nights, Dr. Joybert Javnyuy, renowned global strategist, trainer of high-level professionals, leaders & executives in 4 continents will deliver transformational teachings that dismantle average thinking and awaken your dominion as a man of impact, influence, and income.

Day 1: The Contagiousness of Habits that Destroys Kings
Day 2: Governing One's Invisible Economy
Day 3: The Ultimate Divine Law of Impact, Influence & Income for Every Man

If you’re a man, your future is being summoned.
If you’re a woman, challenge the men in your life to attend. Your sons, husbands, brothers, and fathers need this.

Don’t miss it.
Don’t delay.
Great men aren’t born, they are built, sharpened, and aligned.
This summit is where that happens.

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The Deeper You Think, The Further You See

"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world."

Thoughts shape your world—dig deeper, and you’ll uncover truths hidden in the shallow.

Think better, live better—because a cluttered mind builds a crumbling life.

Think deeper, fly higher—roots don’t just anchor you, they fuel your rise.

Think broader, spread wider—small minds build cages, great ones open doors.

Crush narrow thinking, escape a narrow life—fear shrinks you before the world ever does.

Think better, act wiser—your choices are just thoughts turned solid.

Think better, behave brighter—how you see yourself is how the world sees you.

Think dry, run dry—starvation starts in the mind before it hits the body.
Think full, live full—abundance isn’t luck, it’s a mindset.

Think small, stay small—limits you accept become walls you can’t escape.

Think great, become great—vision isn’t prophecy, it’s preparation.

Think up or fade out—growth isn’t optional, it’s survival.

Start thinking deeper, stop sinking slowly—the weight of the surface will drown you.

Listen to Apostle Paul "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." — Philippians 4:8 (NIV)

Now go think. Then go do.

Good morning. Have a great day...

This was a great laugh.

Let’s be honest: chasing your dreams isn’t easy. There will be days when everything feels stacked against you, when doubt creeps in, and when giving up seems like the only option.

But here’s the truth—the moment you let bitterness or negativity take over, you shut the door on your own progress. It’s not about pretending things are perfect. It’s about choosing to believe they can get better.

Your attitude shapes your journey. If you stay stubbornly hopeful, relentlessly focused, and refuse to quit, you’ll rise higher than you ever imagined.

Success doesn’t just “happen.” It’s built—day by day, step by step, even when it feels impossible. So no matter what anyone says, no matter how long it takes, keep pushing. Your vision is worth fighting for.

Don’t stop. Don’t give up. Your breakthrough might be closer than you think.

Now go make it happen.

Good morning and happy New month

Journalist of the century

Heart Break, really?

Join me celebrate this beautiful couple!

We’re 6 months and 9 days into this beautiful journey of marriage and yes, we are celebrating!

Because if we can’t pause to appreciate the little wins, how will we ever fully embrace the big victories?

Marriage is more than a ceremony or a milestone it’s a journey of daily choices, silent prayers, deep growth, and shared grace. It stretches and shapes you in every area: spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and even physically.

We didn’t walk into this season based on emotions or excitement alone. No! we prayed, we prepared, and we surrounded ourselves with wise counsel. That’s why we’re here today still smiling, still standing, still growing.

To our spiritual parents and our marriage counselor (Pht Emos Abamukong and Pst Mrs Abigail Abamukong ) thank you from the depths of our hearts. You walked us through the process, challenged us to be intentional, and reminded us that real love is built, not stumbled into. Counseling hasn’t stopped, and it won’t, we’re committed to growing, together, over and over again.

And through it all, one truth remains: God has been faithful. The challenges have come but instead of breaking us, they’ve made us stronger. More united. More rooted.

So yes we’re just 6 months and 9 days in. But every single day has been a step of grace, growth, and genuine love. And that, to us, is worth celebrating.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗝𝗲𝘀𝘂𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗸𝗻𝗲𝘄 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗶𝗻 𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝟯𝟬❜𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻

1. Was He just going about praying everywhere and everyday for God to empower Him for the work He had to do?

2. Did He spend all His time in the synagogues listening to the Rabbi's of His time teach so that He could have good argument to bring against them and to skillfully discredit their work when it would be time to begin his work?

𝑺𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝑱𝒆𝒔𝒖𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒔

3. Did He give Himself into deep studies of different subjects so that he could be knowledgeable enough to help His would-be followers when the need arose as he went about His work?

4. Was he just another carpenter like many were in His days who tried surviving, but since things were not going for him in business he then gave up and ventured into the "church business"?

5. Was he a man who was an expert in carpentry/woodwork, and had made a great name for Himself in the process, empowering others to do what he did, so that He could have time to move into the real work His Father-God had sent Him on earth to do?

6. Was He a lazy son of Mary - "mummy's boy", who hardly did any work around the house spending most of His time praying and studying the word waiting for his 30th birthday?

7. Was He a responsible son of Mary and Joseph who learned everything His earthly parents taught Him and took up the role of family head when His earthly father Joseph died and managed the family business to great heights and then handed over the management of the business to His brothers before starting the Work His Heavenly Father-God had prepared for Him?

8. Was He poor or rich in Earth's standard? Before He began His work of revealing the kingdom of God, scripture records He spoke with leaders of the synagogue while only 12, was missing for over 24 hours and yet was still found among these high status fellows. Can a boy from a poor background be exchanging with these church leaders who were very picky with the caliber of people they interacted with?

Who was Jesus and what really did He do before we heard about Him in the accounts of His Disciples as recorded in Matthew, Mark, Luke and John and in the letters of Apostle Paul?

𝘿𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙘𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙅𝙚𝙨𝙪𝙨 𝙬𝙖𝙨, 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙃𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙣 𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙮 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙗𝙚𝙜𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙖𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚

Is it possible that any rich man of today's context can really fratanise with this Jesus? Is it possible that He was a friend of the rich of His day?

𝑺𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝑱𝒆𝒔𝒖𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒔

Learning never stops.

This is a family of geniusis

Life’s too short to waste on things that don’t matter.

Every minute you spend on distractions, negativity, or half-hearted efforts is a minute stolen from your dreams. Be ruthless with your focus. Cut out what doesn’t serve you.

Your goals won’t happen by accident. You have to choose them—clearly, fiercely. Write them down. Chase them without apology.

Negative thoughts will creep in. But don’t let them stay. What you feed grows. Feed courage, not doubt. Feed action, not fear.

Your mind shapes your world. Think small, and your life stays small. Think bold, and suddenly, everything changes.

Fill your mind with words that lift you, push you, remind you of your strength. You are not here to play small.

There’s greatness inside you—waiting, restless, ready. Stop ignoring it.

Live like a warrior—not because life is a battle, but because you refuse to settle for less than you deserve.

Now go. Make your life extraordinary. It starts today.

Wishing you a fun-filled weekend.

How to Post on Social Media in a Way That Builds a Strong Personal Brand that Makes Money

You can post on social media for 10 years and still have no brand, no clients, and no income.

Do not confuse the difference between popularity (having many followers and likes) and a brand.

There are people who have many followers, but when they post something to sell, no one buys. That is popularity without a strong brand. There is a reason for that.

Posting alone is not strategy. Visibility without clarity won’t build a brand you can monetize.

Here’s how to post on social media in a way that builds a strong personal brand you can monetize, with systems, scale, and strategic clarity.

1. Stop posting for likes. Start posting for positioning.
You’re not here to entertain (except you are in the entertainment industry).
You’re here to signal & build authority, build trust, and attract aligned buyers.
When you post for positioning your posts will address issues like these:
- “Here’s the problem I solve.”
- “Here’s what I’ve helped others achieve.”
- “Here’s how to work with me.”
- "Here's how this and that works."
- “Here’s a mistake people often make — and what to do instead.”
This kind of content doesn’t just inform, it positions you as a trusted authority.
Don’t just show up. Show up with strategic purpose.

I have a free course for you to help you grow your value & distribute more value. Get Value Ascension Course now here: https://stan.store/Joybert

2. Build a branded content ecosystem (1 →Model).
Pick 3–4 content lanes tied to your brand and monetizable identity:
Your skillset
Your results or client wins
Your thought process or framework
Personal stories that reveal values & mission
Career and industry stories that reveals impact
Rotate consistently. Let people remember and repeat who you are and what you solve. (read that again)

3. Write a bio that opens doors — not confusion.
When I look at somepeople's bio on social media, sometimes I am like....(let me not say it ahah)
Your bio should say:
- Who you help
- What you help them achieve
- How they can start working with you
Clarity > Cleverness
People don’t buy mystery. They buy solutions.

4. Create posts that are bridges — not broadcasts.
Every post should do one or more of these:
Educate
Solve a problem
Invite action
Build trust through proof or story
Make your offer visible
Don’t just talk. Lead people somewhere.

5. Use testimonials and results like marketing assets.
- Screenshot kind words
- Share before/after snapshots
- Tell client transformation stories
- Highlight how your method works
Social proof is not bragging. It’s trust fuel.

6. Use your pinned post like a 24/7 sales rep.
Pin a post that introduces:
- Who you are
- What you do
- Who it’s for
- How to get started (Add your contacts)
Let your first impression carry conversion weight.

7. Turn your best-performing posts into repeatable series.
If a post works, don’t post once and move on.
- Turn it into a mini-series
- Create a workshop around it
- Build a paid product from it
Scale your best work. Don’t let it die in the feed.

8. Repurpose across platforms with intentionality.
One message. Multiple formats:
- Facebook post - LinkedIn thread
- WhatsApp voice note - Instagram carousel
- Live session - YouTube short clip
Brand consistency breeds recognition.
Recognition builds trust.
Trust drives income.

9. Include calls to action that lead to real conversations or conversions.
- “Comment YES for the free guide.”
- “DM me ‘READY’ to work together.”
- “Click the link in my bio to book.”
If people can’t take the next step, you’re not building a brand, you’re just journaling and making social media noise.

10. Track what converts. Build systems around it. (systems thinking)
- What kind of post attracted clients?
- What language got people DMing?
- What structure made your offer clear?
Turn insights into content SOPs. Build a brand that works while you rest.

Which of these points challenged you? COMMENT “BRAND BUILDER”

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |

Kaizen is a Japanese term that means "continuous improvement." It's made up of two words:

"Kai" (change)

"Zen" (good)

So, Kaizen = Change for the better.

Kaizen is the idea of constantly making small improvements over time, instead of waiting for a big breakthrough.

Where It's Used:

- In businesses: Improving processes, reducing waste, increasing efficiency.

- In personal life: Building better habits, learning news skills & being organised

Key Principles of Kaizen:

+ Small steps: Focus on small, consistent improvements.

+ Everyone involved: Improvement is everyone's responsibility.

+ No blame: Focus on the process, not the person.

+ Standardize and improve: Once something works, make it the new standard-then improve again.

Example:

Instead of overhauling a whole factory, a Kaizen approach might:

+ Rearrange tools for easier access.

+ Improve how tasks are handed over between workers.

+ Fix small quality issues before they become big problems.

+Over time, these small changes lead to major improvements.

#wellness #kaizen

Good morning ladies and gents.

Welcome to a new day.

This Saturday, 31st, we will be having a great time together to discuss things related to menstruation.

Boys and Girls are invited to be a part, for we shall be discussing intergenerational stories and much more about the menstrual cycle.

Details are on the flyer, tombs up if you will be there and will come with someone.

Is this possible in your country?

If you are a driver I guess you will better understand what this boy went through in the hands of that driving school instructor.

Healing can be passed down too!

You don't have to be the bully because you were bullied or shamed.

I remember in secondary school my classmates had annoying nick names for everyone in class and to deal with the hurts it brought, I had to see another's problems as bigger than mine to feel better about myself.

I was called 'tolambo' apparently to them I had the biggest big toes amongst everyone in class. Others had names like 'anaki, trapee' and the list goes on.

This is just to tell you that, people may smile at some very irritating joke but it sickens them. Try to be sensitive and please don't find comfort by comparing others' woes to yours in a bid to feel good.

Find comfort in embracing yourself, it's perfect perfections and it's perfect imperfections.
I choose to spread this healing I've gotten to everyone.

There's no need to be the great CEO with people pleasing or autocratic tendencies all soaked in gross fear or need to prove that you're the boss. Doesn't it get tiring?

Healing and holistic wellness is available, if you would just reach out.

Just knowing that I'm able to pass down healing instead of hurts to my siblings makes my heart glow.

Many people are dealing with traumas that have become inter-generational. But it is within you that Bliss is found and you have the part to change the trajectory of your life if you're intentional to put in the work.

We can make healing a part of our legacy.

In what ways are you going to make healing your legacy today?

Go for therapy?
Pick a new hobby?

Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you

#stellaeyabi
#useyourvoice #godsloveneverfails #findyourvoice
#findyourself

Now are You the Sons of God by the Man of God Pht. Emos Abamukong is now available on the YouTube channel. Watch, like, comment, share. Click on the following link to watch.

https://youtu.be/k_UA3zlFaTQ?si=QXDw5iaYPF4XBKX3

Here's an Article from an electrical engineer who's work I really admire. I encourage you to read it and follow him for more content if you have interest in electrical things..

Choosing the right cable for your #construction project isn’t just technical, it’s essential for safety and #performance.

Whether it’s for lighting, power circuits, or HVAC systems, the right selection makes all the difference.

Before installing, check and Calculate

- Load current

- Voltage drop (keep under 3–5%)

- Cable length (longer runs need adjustments)

- Ambient temperature

- Installation method (buried, in conduit, or on tray?)

- Short circuit capacity (can it handle faults?)

- Type of load (lighting, motors, HVAC, elevators)

- Applicable standards (NEC, IEC, BS 7671, or local codes)

- Cable Material (Copper = performance, Aluminum = cost savings)

Make Money via WhatsApp - How to use WhatsApp to close clients & make money.

If you have WhatsApp + value + a way to get paid, you have a business.
Let me briefly show you how (10 things to do).

Stop saying you don’t have a system. I have heard many people starting use this complaint.
WhatsApp is one of the most underrated client-closing platforms in Africa and across the world.
Here’s how to use WhatsApp to close clients and make money — with systems, simplicity, and serious results.

I am sharing with you what I have done over and over for years.

Let's go!

1. Stop treating WhatsApp like a chat app.
This is for those who truly have value to sell and want to run a business.
Start treating it like a conversion tool.
This is not just where you “talk.”
It’s where you:
- Attract clients
- Nurture clients
- Convert them into paying clients
- Follow up and upsell
- Deliver the value
WhatsApp is your funnel & Checkout. All in one.

Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert

2. Package your offer clearly — before bringing people in.
Before you start broadcasting:
- What’s the offer?
- What’s the result you create?
- What’s the price?
- How can they pay?
Don’t invite people into confusion. Invite them into a clear next step on WhatsApp.

3. Pin one authority message on your status daily.
Think of WhatsApp status like a sales billboard:
- Testimonial screenshot
- Client win
- Offer highlight
- Countdown
- Simple pricing & booking instructions
If 300 people view it, and 3 buy, you’ve closed clients without ads.

Due to my busy schedule, I will stop posting this kind of content here consistently however I will post daily on my Whatsapp channel. Join here: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaDx298KmCPKgNd9j93W

4. Use voice notes for emotional connection.
Text builds logic. Voice builds trust.
When someone shows interest:
- Send a 45-sec voice note explaining the outcome. Be specific. Do not go and send a long keynote address lol.
- Let them hear your tone. Confidence. Clarity.
Voice notes close better than paragraphs. Ask for permission. Something like "Kindly permit me send you a 45 seconds VN."

5. Set up a “first-message” response script.
Every serious offer should have:
- A welcome message
- A quick outline of what they’ll get
- A payment link (number) or booking step
- Optional testimonial or result screenshot
Make buying easy. Don’t let curiosity die in your DMs on WhatsApp.

6. Segment your audience using Broadcast Lists or groups.
Group by:
- Leads
- Buyers
- Free class attendees
- Product interest (e.g., skincare, consulting, coaching)
Speak to each list based on what they care about.
Relevance = Revenue.

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7. Use PDF, video or voice bundles to deliver value at scale.
- Create a simple e-guide
- Record a 3-part audio training
- Package your service explainer in a quick video
Deliver it directly via WhatsApp.
Zero tech. 100% connection.

8. Follow-up like a closer, not a beggar.
- “Just checking if you had any questions before the slots close.”
- “I’m confirming your spot. Here are the payment details before 5 slots left get sold-out?”
- “Let me know how you'd like to proceed.”
Professional. Polite. Profitable.

9. Build systems from wins.
Every conversion becomes a repeatable flow.
- Save your best messages as templates
- Document the Q&As that lead to “yes”
- Build a micro-process from client DM → payment → delivery

Now your system runs on clarity, not chaos.

10. Collect payments through the best way you can
(mobile money, Zelle, PayPal, or bank — and track it.)
You don’t need fancy checkout pages. However, if you can have it, great.
You just need:
- An account that receives money
- A method to confirm payment
- Excellent process to deliver the offer
WhatsApp isn’t a limitation. It’s a lean startup advantage for those starting.

Many people have not started doing amazing things because they think they are under-equipped. No, many people are not just resourceful and just focus on complaining because it is easier. You’re under-utilizing what’s already in your hand.

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |
Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert

Link To Apply For Nigeria Health Watch West Africa Solutions Journalism Fellowship 2025

Nigeria Health Watch invites committed journalists across West Africa to apply for the West Africa Solutions Journalism Fellowship 2025, a four-month programme designed to strengthen the practice of solutions-oriented health reporting in the region.

Benefits:

- Capacity-Building Workshops
- Mentorship and Editorial Support
- Story Development:
- Peer Learning
- Funding support

Link:
https://cookuf.net/link-to-apply-for-nigeria-health-watch-west-africa-solutions-journalism-fellowship-2025/


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Discover the Vibrant Lebialem Division

Located in the South West region of Cameroon, Lebialem Division is a treasure trove of hospitality, rich culture, and breathtaking traditions. Comprising 17 fondoms and home to the stunning Lebialem Waterfall, this division is a must-visit destination.

Lebialem has a strong online presence, with various WhatsApp forums and social media platforms that bring people together. Some of these platforms include:

- Ndiah Allah Community forums (e.g., Soñ Nweh Ndet Nweh, Ndiah Allah, Ndiah Bekweh Allah)
- Lebialem Entertainment Forum
- Lebialem Cultural Forum
- Inclusive Lebialem Forum
- Lebialem Teachers Forum
- Lebialem Music Bar
- Lebialem Bloggers Forum
- Asamor Promo Team
- Lebialem Sons and Daughters
- Minka Systems Community
- Nkeundem Forum
- Anu ndem nkoh Nweh
- Lebialem Youths Forum etc.

Join these forums, participate in discussions, and share your thoughts and ideas. Let's make these platforms vibrant and engaging, showcasing the best of Lebialem Division to the world.

Patronize these forums and let's stay connected

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"Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice, and most of all, love of what you are doing." — Pelé

Stay strong and go after your dreams, no matter how tough things get.

It’s really important to keep a positive attitude. When you feel bitter, it makes it harder for good things to come your way.

Remember, your mindset or attitude decides how high you’ll rise.

- Stay stubborn. Even when it feels impossible.

- Ignore the doubters. They don’t know your strength.

- Keep pushing. Success isn’t luck—it’s built step by step.

Chase your vision with all your heart.

Success doesn’t just happen by chance. It comes from sticking with it.

Here is a promise you can cling on to given by Apostle Paul: "Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." — Galatians 6:9 (ESV)

Everyday you keep pushing, you get closer to the finish line So don’t quit. Not today. Not ever. Push forward. Your breakthrough is definitely coming.

Wishing you a good morning, a great day and a productive week.

BOOKMARK FOR WHEN YOU OVER-THINK.

Over thinking is a shame response.

We over-think when we feel the shame of being exposed— as not perfect, not good enough, or as being defective in some way.

All of us have a go to coping response. For some it’s self isolation, replaying the conversation over and over again, social media scrolling, or binge eating. All of this is an attempt to numb the shame and soothe the dysregulation in the body.

Here’s what you can do when you get caught in the shame cycle from a comment:

1. Breathe and Move:

If you’re at work go into the bathroom. Shake your arms and legs out. Take "slow" deep breaths as you do it. If you have an urge to cry, let yourself. Tears bring the body back to a parasympathetic state.

2. Open your Notepad or a Journal:

Write down all the feelings that are coming up, what you wish you would have said as a “comeback” or anything else you’re thinking of that person. Don’t censor yourself or judge yourself. Being accepting of where you’re at instead of resisting the emotions will help to calm them.

3. Note the Messenger:

Passive aggressive comments, attempting to making you look incompetent, or anyone engaging in a power dynamic reveals they’re struggling with their own communication. Typically, we think we "made" them react that way. Or they reacted because of what we did.

In reality, this reveals how they feel about themselves. Don’t engage in an ego battle. Remind yourself you’re safe and that the "only" thing you’re responsible is responding as your highest self (this will help to break through shame and build confidence.

DO YOU OVERTHINK? How can we help you?

Comment "LIGHT to get 1 free therapy session".

Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you

#stellaeyabi
#youareenough
#therapy

Helping people is good, but when it becomes frequent, that's dependency right there and it can form codependency patterns. Help people but much more:

Empower people to help themselves, that helps them evolve and break patterns and they can stand apart.
This could look like,
Getting them a job instead of sending them money always
It could be teaching them or paying for them to learn a trade
It could be supporting them to start their own business until it picks speed
It could be cutting off hand downs and teaching them to create
It could be telling the truth to them in love about their flaws
It could be paying for therapy or counseling sessions for them, to help them gain clarity, work out healthy coping skills and strategies to deal to everyday life's stresses and challenges etc ...

How have you empowered someone to help themselves?

Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you

#mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #stellaeyabi

Happiness isn’t something you can travel to, buy, earn, wear, or eat. It comes from living each moment with love, kindness, and gratitude.

Good morning and Happy Sunday.

It's the end of another week.

A moment to remind ourselves wahala no di finish.

A child observes his mother’s turning grey hairs. He was curious to know the reason.

So one day he asks his mother, ”Mom, why are some of your hairs turning grey?”

The mother thinks of teaching something good to him on this question.

She replies,” Every bad action of yours turns one of my hairs grey!”

The child replies, ”Now i get it , Why grandmother’s all hairs are grey”

Ahhhh emotional damage 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️

Dealing with children can be very tricky.

I don't know about you but here's what I think.

1. *Dishonesty can backfire* – The mother’s fib was meant to guilt the child, but it ended up exposing her in a funny way.

2. *Kids can be brutally honest* – Children often say exactly what they think, unintentionally turning the tables on adults.

3. *Manipulative tactics don’t always work* – Trying to control behavior through guilt or fear can lead to unexpected and humorous results.

What about you? What did you learn? Have you ever been guilt trapped by an adult or are you the adult guilt trapping children?

Wishing you a fun-filled weekend and reminding you to love live and laugh wholeheartedly.

YOU MUST Watch this if you don't want to fall for it!

"You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him find it within himself." — Galileo Galilei

Back in secondary school, I was that kid—the one who actually enjoyed math. I know, I know. Somebody had to be the weirdo. I loved it so much that it became my favorite subject all the way through high school and university. To this day, I still enjoy solving complex math problems just for fun

While most students groaned at equations, I was having fun solving problems. Naturally, because I was good at it, some of my classmates came to me for help.

But here’s the twist: my teaching style was a bit unusual. At least, that’s what they told me.

Instead of just handing them the answers (which, let’s be honest, is what most of them wanted), I bombarded them with questions, starting from the basics and working our way up. I wanted them to think for themselves:

"Okay, what do you already understand about this problem?"
"If we break it down, what’s the first step?"
"Why do you think that formula applies here?"

It drove them crazy. They’d groan, roll their eyes, and beg me to just give them the answer already. But the few who stuck with me? They didn’t just pass their exams—they actually understood math. And that made all the difference.

I didn’t realize it back then, but I’ve since learned that asking questions is incredibly powerful. When someone asks for advice or an opinion, they usually expect a direct answer, not a series of questions. But I’ve found that asking the right questions can lead to clarity and better responses.

Have you noticed how people can get defensive when you ask them questions? It’s like flipping a switch! They don’t realize that without clarity, any answers you give will be superficial.

Ask someone for advice, and they’ll give you a quick fix. Tell a doctor you have a headache, and a quack will throw painkillers at you. But a real doctor? They’ll ask you:

"Where exactly does it hurt?"

"How long has this been going on?"

"Any other symptoms?"

Why? Because he understands that a headache is just a symptom, not the cause. He might even run a few tests. This is all about seeking clarity to give you the best treatment.

The same goes for consultants, pastors, coaches, and even friends. If you jump straight to solutions without asking questions, you’re just slapping a band-aid on a wound.

Think about it:

Questions bring clarity. (Ever argued with someone only to realize you weren’t even talking about the same thing?)

Questions uncover the real problem. (That "money issue" might actually be a spending habit, a fear, or a bad business model.)

Questions make people think for themselves. (And that’s how real change happens.)

But here’s the funny part—people hate questions.

Ask someone "Why do you think that?" and they’ll either:

1. Get defensive ("Why are you interrogating me?!")
2. Get annoyed ("Just tell me what to do!")
3. Realize they don’t actually know (...awkward silence.)

And that’s a shame—because the best answers come from them, not you.

I love this funny definition of a consultant: "A consultant is someone who takes the watch off your wrist, tells you what time it is, and then keeps the watch."

It’s funny because it’s true. A good consultant (or doctor, or pastor, or friend) doesn’t just give answers—they pull them out of you. Because deep down, you probably already know the solution. You just need the right questions to help you see it.

If I could give one piece of advice to pastors, it would be this: when someone comes to you with a problem, instead of jumping straight into prayer and casting out demons (that may not even exist), take a moment to ask questions. Find out what’s really going on before diving into the spiritual stuff. You might discover that you’re not the right person to help, and that’s okay. You can direct them to someone who can.

Did you know you can have a money problem, and I might not have any cash to give you? But through asking the right questions, I could help you find a solution that doesn’t cost a dime!

So, to all the consultants, doctors, coaches, pastors, and anyone who helps others: embrace the power of questioning.

Next time someone asks you for advice, don’t give them an answer right away. Ask them:

"What have you tried so far?"

"What’s stopping you from fixing this?"

"If you did know the answer, what would it be?"

Watch their reaction. Some will get frustrated. But the ones who stick with it? They’ll walk away with something better than an answer—they’ll walk away with understanding.

And if you’re the one asking for help? Let people ask you questions. It might feel annoying at first, but trust me—it’s the fastest way to a real solution. Superficial questions lead to flimsy solutions that don't last.

By the way, if you’ve ever been annoyed by someone answering your question with another question… maybe it’s time for a little self-reflection.

Good morning and have a great day.

The devastating impact of loneliness in young children.

Loneliness is a silent struggle that often goes unnoticed, even when kids seemingly have everything they need – a roof over their heads, food on the table, nice clothes, and material comforts. But the truth is, these external things are not enough.

As parents, we may get caught up in the busyness of life, juggling work, responsibilities, and commitments.

....And often we may unintentionally overlook the profound importance of our presence in our children's lives.

We might assume that material provisions are sufficient, but they are not. Our children need more than just physical necessities – they need our love, attention, and emotional support.

Loneliness can be especially devastating for young minds. When kids feel disconnected, isolated, and unheard, it can have long-lasting effects on their mental and emotional well-being. It's heartbreaking to think that children, who should be experiencing the joy and wonder of childhood, are instead battling feelings of emptiness and despair.

.....We need to recognize the significance of building open lines of communication with our kids. We must create an environment where they feel safe, heard, and understood. It's crucial to encourage them to express their thoughts, feelings, and struggles without fear of judgment or rejection.

By fostering a culture of open communication, we can help prevent the unimaginable pain that some children endure. Suicide rates among young people are alarmingly high, and loneliness often plays a role in their struggles. We cannot underestimate the power of being present and attentive in our children's lives.

Let's prioritize quality time with our kids – not just physically being in the same space, but truly engaging with them, listening to their stories, dreams, and fears. Let's create meaningful connections, nurturing their emotional well-being and helping them navigate life's challenges.

Remember, it's not about the material possessions we provide; it's about the love and support we offer. Our children deserve our unwavering presence and the reassurance that they are never alone in this world.

Together, let's make a difference by being there for our children, building bridges of understanding, and instilling in them a sense of belonging and love. Their precious hearts and minds depend on it.

LOVE YOUR CHILDREN! ~ Lorena Acosta.

I am not a parent but I was once a child. If I can give one piece of advice to all parents is that, TIME is priceless, it is everything.

Be present and consistent with your kids, every day of their life. Yes, food, housing, clothes, school is important but it's not enough. Make sure to have a one on one with your kid every day, or at least a couple times a week. Make them feel heard, included, appreciated, safe. Be their best friend but most of all their parents to protect and guide them.

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Stella Etoh-Nombo
#parentingchallenges #counselling #support #motivation #mentalhealth #traumahealing #help #healingtrauma

Taking care of yourself is important, seeing yourself as God sees you is "important-er."

When we understand ourselves we get to own our power and live unafraid.

Here's what this is about:
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1. Divørced: She can’t keep a man

2. Råpëd: What was she wearing??

3. Childless Marriage: She is bårrën 🤰🏿

4. Doesn't give birth to a male child: it's all her fault, there's no son in her wømb

5. Rich and Independent: she's a prøstïtutë 💃🏿

6. A båd child: It's all the mother’s fault because she spøilt him

7. She wants to play some sports: You're a girl!! It's too difficult for you, that's not your purpose in life

8. She is single and drives a car: she would drive away all potential suitors.

9. She speaks her mind: She is bøssy.🙎🏿

10. Unmarried in her /30s/40s: She is irrespønsible. 🤦🏿

11. Married: Becomes her husband's property.

12. Chëâting spouse: Its her fāult, She made him do it, she should be prayerful

13. Widøwëd: She kïlléd her husband to take over his properties.

14. Remarries: She didn’t Møürn her lâte husband enough

15. Dømëstìc Abüse: What did the woman do?.

It ain't easy being a woman in this part of the world..

Respect to Every women out there!!!! -The Love Doctor Ken.

Choose your mental wellness every single time else you'll spiral into darkness. I love you and welcome to a blissful week.

Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you
Stella E. Eyabi

#stellaeyabi #contentment #emotionalintelligence #contentmentishappiness #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealthmatters

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Discovering your own Gift involves introspection, self-assessment, and a willingness to learn and adapt.

Here are some strategies to help you get started:

1. Set clear goals: Establish what you want to achieve in different areas of your life, such as career, relationships, or personal growth.

2. Track your progress: Keep a journal, log your accomplishments, or use a habit-tracking app to monitor your progress.

3. Reflect on your strengths and weaknesses: Identify areas where you excel and areas that need improvement.

4. Seek feedback: Ask for constructive feedback from trusted friends, family, or colleagues.

5. Practice self-awareness: Recognize your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how they impact your productivity and quality of work.

6. Develop a growth mindset: Be open to learning, experimenting, and taking calculated risks.

7. Prioritize tasks: Focus on high-impact activities that align with your goals and values.

8. Eliminate distractions: Minimize procrastination and optimize your workflow.

9. Celebrate small wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small.

10. Continuously learn and improve: Stay updated with industry trends, best practices, and new skills to enhance your quality and efficiency.

By implementing these strategies, you'll be better equipped to discover your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, ultimately enhancing your overall quality and efficiency.

What specific area of your life do you want to improve?

I remember coming across these words "anger is a poison we drink, hoping it will hurt someone else—but it only hurts us." It shifted my perspective about anger.

When we let frustration take over, we lose twice: if we’re right, anger is unnecessary, and if we’re wrong, we’ve lost the right to be angry in the first place. The alternative? Patience. Not just waiting, but choosing how we respond.

Patience wears different faces depending on where we direct it.

With family, patience is love—accepting imperfections because the bond matters more.

With strangers, it’s respect—recognizing their humanity even when they test ours.

With ourselves, patience becomes confidence, the quiet understanding that growth takes time.

And with faith, patience is trust—letting go of the need to control what we can’t.

It’s easy to get lost dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. One brings regret, the other anxiety. But the present moment? That’s where life happens. A deep breath, a conscious smile—these small acts shift our perspective. Challenges will come; they always do.

Every hardship tests us, offering a choice: let it harden us or refine us. The difference lies in whether we see ourselves as victims of circumstance or students of experience.

There’s a subtle truth in the way things work: not everything beautiful is good, but good things carry their own beauty. Kindness, honesty, patience—these aren’t always glamorous, but they leave a lasting light.

Happiness sweetens life, but the reverse is also true: choosing sweetness—gentleness, gratitude, patience—creates happiness. It’s a cycle worth starting. So the next time anger knocks, pause. Ask what patience might do instead. The answer could change everything.

Wishing you a great week.