Nchendia Edwin is a seasoned marketing professional with over 10 years of experience. He is an evangelist, trainer, kingdom financier, business coach, and consultant.
As a freelance marketer and entrepreneur, Nchendia has founded Eagle Minds, a startup dedicated to identifying and coaching young entrepreneurs to unlock their full business potential. He is passionate about empowering others and providing a safe environment for aspiring entrepreneurs to thrive.
Nchendia's expertise lies in marketing strategy, business coaching, kingdom financing, evangelism, and training and development. With a track record of success, Nchendia is making a significant impact in the entrepreneurial landscape.
As a freelance marketer and entrepreneur, Nchendia has founded Eagle Minds, a startup dedicated to identifying and coaching young entrepreneurs to unlock their full business potential. He is passionate about empowering others and providing a safe environment for aspiring entrepreneurs to thrive.
Nchendia's expertise lies in marketing strategy, business coaching, kingdom financing, evangelism, and training and development. With a track record of success, Nchendia is making a significant impact in the entrepreneurial landscape.
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How I Slept on a Cybercafé Floor to Finish School
"I used to sleep on a cybercafé floor just to finish school, no mattress, no money, just stubborn hope & faith."
Let me give some context for Gen Zs. There used to be this booming business in the early 2000s until about maybe 2016, especially in Cameroon, before mobile phone penetration scaled. That business was the cybercafé.
Around 2011, I used to work in a cybercafé in Bamenda, and I mostly took the night shifts. I was not on any salary. The guy who owned the cybercafé did not need any extra worker, so I negotiated my way through. I told him I would work for free so I could have access to the internet because I was doing my undergraduate program through a distance learning program.
On top of that, I had computer repair skills. So, I struck a deal, I’d promote my services to customers with home computers, and they could call me for repairs. That’s how I planned to earn some money.
So, some nights, I would sleep on the floor of that cybercafé. At the time, internet speed was higher at night, so we had clients who would buy internet time from 10 p.m. till 5 a.m. That is why I had to sleep on the floor sometimes.
At that age of 21, I was broke, half starved and sleeping on the floor of cybercafe most nights just to finish my undergraduate. No mattress, no steady income, just stubborn faith and hopes that after my undergraduate life will be better.
Now? I advise executives across nations, I design curriculums for institutions, I help leaders build institutions that can compete across nations, I have travelled 20+ nations across 4 continents to speak, train and consult and more.
But back then, I was just a hungry boy living most at times on borrowed money.
That particular season of my life always play so fresh in my memories.
Seasons like that will reveal a lot to you and me.
a) Comfort is not a requirement for calling and destiny
Many wait for ideal conditions before building their lives and destinies. Destiny blueprints and capacity are often handed and developed in wilderness seasons. Ask Jesus Christ, ask Joseph, ask David etc.
b) Honor your obscurity
While others chased applause and reasons to impress others, build discipline in that season that will sustain you for life. That hidden season shaped my capacity and more. What I am saying is, do not resent your silence or your season of obscurity, use it to your advantage.
Reminder: Join Skills & Knowledge Monetization Academy cohort 3. Admission opens in the next few days. Join the admission waitlist. I only take 15 people. https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T
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c) Education isn't just academic
The cybercafe floor taught me resourcefulness, resilience, negotiation, survival, relationships and more. Lessons no university can match.
d) Experiences are your real destiny CV (resume)
Years later, I still reference that floor, that cybercafe experience, I still remember the fights etc. Not as trauma, but as my training ground. I learned a lot from the streets during that season. Put me anywhere, I will build.
That floor became part of my foundation.
Free download Skill to Value to Income Starter Pack: https://stan.store/Joybert
Dr. Joybert JavnyuyHow I Slept on a Cybercafé Floor to Finish School "I used to sleep on a cybercafé floor just to finish school, no mattress, no money, just stubborn hope & faith." Let me give some context for Gen Zs. There used to be this booming business in the early 2000s until about maybe 2016, especially in Cameroon, before mobile phone penetration scaled. That business was the cybercafé. Around 2011, I used to work in a cybercafé in Bamenda, and I mostly took the night shifts. I was not on any salary. The guy who owned the cybercafé did not need any extra worker, so I negotiated my way through. I told him I would work for free so I could have access to the internet because I was doing my undergraduate program through a distance learning program. On top of that, I had computer repair skills. So, I struck a deal, I’d promote my services to customers with home computers, and they could call me for repairs. That’s how I planned to earn some money. So, some nights, I would sleep on the floor of that cybercafé. At the time, internet speed was higher at night, so we had clients who would buy internet time from 10 p.m. till 5 a.m. That is why I had to sleep on the floor sometimes. At that age of 21, I was broke, half starved and sleeping on the floor of cybercafe most nights just to finish my undergraduate. No mattress, no steady income, just stubborn faith and hopes that after my undergraduate life will be better. Now? I advise executives across nations, I design curriculums for institutions, I help leaders build institutions that can compete across nations, I have travelled 20+ nations across 4 continents to speak, train and consult and more. But back then, I was just a hungry boy living most at times on borrowed money. That particular season of my life always play so fresh in my memories. Seasons like that will reveal a lot to you and me. a) Comfort is not a requirement for calling and destiny Many wait for ideal conditions before building their lives and destinies. Destiny blueprints and capacity are often handed and developed in wilderness seasons. Ask Jesus Christ, ask Joseph, ask David etc. b) Honor your obscurity While others chased applause and reasons to impress others, build discipline in that season that will sustain you for life. That hidden season shaped my capacity and more. What I am saying is, do not resent your silence or your season of obscurity, use it to your advantage. Reminder: Join Skills & Knowledge Monetization Academy cohort 3. Admission opens in the next few days. Join the admission waitlist. I only take 15 people. https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T Identify, Extract, Package, and Make Money Your Skills & Experience in 21 Days. Join now c) Education isn't just academic The cybercafe floor taught me resourcefulness, resilience, negotiation, survival, relationships and more. Lessons no university can match. d) Experiences are your real destiny CV (resume) Years later, I still reference that floor, that cybercafe experience, I still remember the fights etc. Not as trauma, but as my training ground. I learned a lot from the streets during that season. Put me anywhere, I will build. That floor became part of my foundation. Free download Skill to Value to Income Starter Pack: https://stan.store/Joybert Dr. Joybert JavnyuyCHAT.WHATSAPP.COMCohort 3 Waitlist - Monetization AcademyWhatsApp Group Invite0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 91 Views 0 ΠροεπισκόπησηΠαρακαλούμε συνδέσου στην Κοινότητά μας για να δηλώσεις τι σου αρέσει, να σχολιάσεις και να μοιραστείς με τους φίλους σου! -
If only there was a means to send this boy to a school that can strengthen his mindIf only there was a means to send this boy to a school that can strengthen his mind 🤔🤔🤔
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HAVE YOU ever wanted something badly, and then, once you got it, you were so sorry you had asked for it?
If this resonates with you can you please share your experience in the comment section, there's a lesson I would like to learn from your contributions and then share a meaningful message that will brighten your whole week!HAVE YOU ever wanted something badly, and then, once you got it, you were so sorry you had asked for it? If this resonates with you can you please share your experience in the comment section, there's a lesson I would like to learn from your contributions and then share a meaningful message that will brighten your whole week!0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 66 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
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𝟑𝟏 𝐃𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐀𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝟐
𝐈 𝐀𝐦 𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐆𝐨𝐝
“But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8 KJV)
One of man’s greatest needs is love. And God, in His grace, has poured His love into your life.
The Bible says God commended His love toward us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). In giving His Son, God showed the highest kind of love (John 3:16).
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends (John 15:13). To lay down your life for someone is love beyond comprehension.
Christ’s death gave us more than forgiveness—it gave us the very life and nature of God. When you received Christ, you received the gift of God’s love.
So, in trials or in peace, always remember: You are loved by God.
Say it boldly:
𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒆𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒚 𝑮𝒐𝒅!
Let this be your meditation today.
Visit: www.emosabamukong.com
#31DaysAffirmation
#INewCreationInChrist
#EmosAbamukong
#LovedByGod
#JesusIsEnough
#ChristDiedForMe
#FaithDeclaration
#ChristianAffirmation
#IdentityInChrist
#DailyAffirmation𝟑𝟏 𝐃𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐀𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝟐 𝐈 𝐀𝐦 𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐆𝐨𝐝 “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8 KJV) One of man’s greatest needs is love. And God, in His grace, has poured His love into your life. The Bible says God commended His love toward us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). In giving His Son, God showed the highest kind of love (John 3:16). Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends (John 15:13). To lay down your life for someone is love beyond comprehension. Christ’s death gave us more than forgiveness—it gave us the very life and nature of God. When you received Christ, you received the gift of God’s love. So, in trials or in peace, always remember: You are loved by God. 🔥 Say it boldly: 𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒆𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒚 𝑮𝒐𝒅! 📌 Let this be your meditation today. 📌 Visit: www.emosabamukong.com #31DaysAffirmation #INewCreationInChrist #EmosAbamukong #LovedByGod #JesusIsEnough #ChristDiedForMe #FaithDeclaration #ChristianAffirmation #IdentityInChrist #DailyAffirmation -
Who speaks for you when hard times call? Friends may stand with you or hold your hand. They may speak to you with words of courage and truth. But can they speak for you?
In the midst of a trial, when the pressure squeezes you from all sides, only your character can testify on your behalf.
Character speaks of your moral, ethical, and spiritual undergirding that rests on truth, reinforces a life, resists the temptation to compromise.Who speaks for you when hard times call? Friends may stand with you or hold your hand. They may speak to you with words of courage and truth. But can they speak for you? In the midst of a trial, when the pressure squeezes you from all sides, only your character can testify on your behalf. Character speaks of your moral, ethical, and spiritual undergirding that rests on truth, reinforces a life, resists the temptation to compromise. -
Anne Frank said her Daddy said: "All children must look after their own upbringing." Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
What are you doing today that is helping you form a commendable character?Anne Frank said her Daddy said: "All children must look after their own upbringing." Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands. What are you doing today that is helping you form a commendable character?0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 117 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
This guy is an expert at reconciliation using intimate tactics. See how his spouse blushes during and after the phone call.This guy is an expert at reconciliation using intimate tactics. See how his spouse blushes during and after the phone call.😂😂🔥🔥
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How to Turn Online Inquiries into Paid Clients (How to Make More Money Through Inquiries)
In one of my coaching sessions with a business owner, after reviewing what has been going on in his business in the last 6 months, I told him "You don't have a sales problem, you have an inquiry conversion problem."
I developed this strategy to convert inquiries into paid clients after that call with the client.
So follow me, and you will learn at least 10 ways to convert dm or face to face inquiries into paid clients.
Every day, someone asks about your service or product…
But they don’t pay. They disappear.
They “will think about it.”
Maybe you have been wondering, why is it that I get so many inquiries but few buyers. Well, let me solve that problem for you. Remember to come and collect my bank details and drop a thank you lol (smiles)
If you can’t convert inquiries, your business won’t scale.
DMs, comments, referrals, or face-to-face inquiries are not just interest.
They’re open doors to sales and cash flow. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
Here’s how to turn inquiries into income.
1. Respond Like a Professional, Not a Peer
Stop responding to inquiries like you are talking to your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speed + clarity + professional tone builds trust.
Start doing this:
Acknowledge the inquiry
Thank them for reaching out
Clarify what they’re interested in
Never respond casually to a serious opportunity.
Your tone teaches people how to treat your business.
For someone reading this, if you change only this your business will change. Comment "I agree" if I am talking to you. Don't be shy.
2. Ask a Filter Question to Guide the Conversation
Don't drop your price. Don’t pitch yet.
Start with:
- “Can I ask, what outcome are you hoping to get help with?”
- “Have you tried anything in the past for this?”
People don’t buy offers. They buy solutions to pain. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
Register for Leadership Summit 2025 organized by Lead Missions International USA.
2 key events you cannot miss:
- The Data Science Conference July 3
- The Leadership Summit July 4-5
Venue: Palaise des Congress, Yaoundé
Fill this form https://leadmissionsintl.com/Cameroon-2025/
Call now to pay registration fee: Call +237 677-357-142
Every Professional, Entrepreneur, Executive, Leader should be at this Summit.
3. Lead With Confidence, Not Convincing
Your energy should say:
“I solve this daily. You’re in good hands.”
If your reply sounds like begging for approval or apologizing for your price, you’ve already lost.
You are not trying to be chosen.
You are showing them why you’re the right choice.
You are demonstrating why the best decision they made was to reach out to you.
4. Shift From Conversation to Conversion
Once you understand their pain and desires;
- Offer one of your solutions.
- Be direct and simple.
Example:
“I actually help people with that through [product or service]. Would you like the details?” or
"In the last 3 months, I have helped 6 people with almost the same kind of problem using this solution. Let me share with you the details."
No jargons. No pressure. Just clarity of solutions and impact.
5. Always Anchor the Value Before Mentioning Price
Don’t drop your price out of context.
Say this:
“For what you’ve shared, here’s what I’d recommend… [Insert outcome or transformation focused description]. That’s available for [$]. It comes with…”
Make them see what they gain, before they feel what they pay. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
This always changes the game.
6. Create Easy Decision Paths
Confused people don’t buy.
Make the next step obvious:
- “To move forward, here’s the link.”
- “We can get started as soon as payment is confirmed.”
- “Would you like me to send payment details?”
Remove friction. Remove difficulties. Make action feel easy.
7. Use Urgency Without Desperation
People delay unless there's a reason not to.
Use:
- Limited spots
- Upcoming start date
- Fast-action bonuses
But don’t lie. Real urgency builds trust. Fake urgency destroys it.
8. Use Testimonials & Results Strategically
When they’re close to buying but unsure, send this:
“Here’s a quick win from someone I recently helped with the same issue…”
Nothing sells like social proof in the middle of momentum.
9. Know When to Follow Up and When to Let Go
If they ghost after a proposal:
- Follow up once with value (“Just checking in. Let me know if you have any questions.”)
- Then move on.
Chasing isn’t selling. You attract better clients when you respect your time.
Admission Open: Join Skills & Experience Monetization Academy (SKEMA) - Cohort 2
Identify, Extract, Package, and Make Money Your Skills & Experience in 21 Days and start making 6 to 7 figures.
Start: July 1st, 2025 - 15 Slots Only
Join the waitlist now for more info:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T
10. Turn Every Inquiry Into a System Asset
Create a template doc or notepad with:
- Common reply scripts
- Filter questions
- Offer response flows
- Quick voice note samples
So every inquiry becomes easier and more effective to convert every time. Systems turn skill into scalability.
No more leaving money in the inbox or in inquiries. Apply the above and you will see practical impact in sales in the next few days, weeks and months. Come and share with me the impact.
Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |How to Turn Online Inquiries into Paid Clients (How to Make More Money Through Inquiries) In one of my coaching sessions with a business owner, after reviewing what has been going on in his business in the last 6 months, I told him "You don't have a sales problem, you have an inquiry conversion problem." I developed this strategy to convert inquiries into paid clients after that call with the client. So follow me, and you will learn at least 10 ways to convert dm or face to face inquiries into paid clients. Every day, someone asks about your service or product… But they don’t pay. They disappear. They “will think about it.” Maybe you have been wondering, why is it that I get so many inquiries but few buyers. Well, let me solve that problem for you. Remember to come and collect my bank details and drop a thank you lol (smiles) If you can’t convert inquiries, your business won’t scale. DMs, comments, referrals, or face-to-face inquiries are not just interest. They’re open doors to sales and cash flow. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy Here’s how to turn inquiries into income. 1. Respond Like a Professional, Not a Peer Stop responding to inquiries like you are talking to your boyfriend or girlfriend. Speed + clarity + professional tone builds trust. Start doing this: 📌 Acknowledge the inquiry 📌 Thank them for reaching out 📌 Clarify what they’re interested in Never respond casually to a serious opportunity. Your tone teaches people how to treat your business. For someone reading this, if you change only this your business will change. Comment "I agree" if I am talking to you. Don't be shy. 2. Ask a Filter Question to Guide the Conversation Don't drop your price. Don’t pitch yet. Start with: - “Can I ask, what outcome are you hoping to get help with?” - “Have you tried anything in the past for this?” People don’t buy offers. They buy solutions to pain. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy ✅Register for Leadership Summit 2025 organized by Lead Missions International USA. 2 key events you cannot miss: - The Data Science Conference July 3 - The Leadership Summit July 4-5 Venue: Palaise des Congress, Yaoundé 👉Fill this form https://leadmissionsintl.com/Cameroon-2025/ Call now to pay registration fee: Call +237 677-357-142 ✅ Every Professional, Entrepreneur, Executive, Leader should be at this Summit. 3. Lead With Confidence, Not Convincing Your energy should say: “I solve this daily. You’re in good hands.” If your reply sounds like begging for approval or apologizing for your price, you’ve already lost. You are not trying to be chosen. You are showing them why you’re the right choice. You are demonstrating why the best decision they made was to reach out to you. 4. Shift From Conversation to Conversion Once you understand their pain and desires; - Offer one of your solutions. - Be direct and simple. Example: “I actually help people with that through [product or service]. Would you like the details?” or "In the last 3 months, I have helped 6 people with almost the same kind of problem using this solution. Let me share with you the details." No jargons. No pressure. Just clarity of solutions and impact. 5. Always Anchor the Value Before Mentioning Price Don’t drop your price out of context. Say this: “For what you’ve shared, here’s what I’d recommend… [Insert outcome or transformation focused description]. That’s available for [$]. It comes with…” Make them see what they gain, before they feel what they pay. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy This always changes the game. 6. Create Easy Decision Paths Confused people don’t buy. Make the next step obvious: - “To move forward, here’s the link.” - “We can get started as soon as payment is confirmed.” - “Would you like me to send payment details?” Remove friction. Remove difficulties. Make action feel easy. 7. Use Urgency Without Desperation People delay unless there's a reason not to. Use: - Limited spots - Upcoming start date - Fast-action bonuses But don’t lie. Real urgency builds trust. Fake urgency destroys it. 8. Use Testimonials & Results Strategically When they’re close to buying but unsure, send this: “Here’s a quick win from someone I recently helped with the same issue…” Nothing sells like social proof in the middle of momentum. 9. Know When to Follow Up and When to Let Go If they ghost after a proposal: - Follow up once with value (“Just checking in. Let me know if you have any questions.”) - Then move on. Chasing isn’t selling. You attract better clients when you respect your time. 💥 Admission Open: Join Skills & Experience Monetization Academy (SKEMA) - Cohort 2 Identify, Extract, Package, and Make Money Your Skills & Experience in 21 Days and start making 6 to 7 figures. Start: July 1st, 2025 - 15 Slots Only Join the waitlist now for more info: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T 10. Turn Every Inquiry Into a System Asset Create a template doc or notepad with: - Common reply scripts - Filter questions - Offer response flows - Quick voice note samples So every inquiry becomes easier and more effective to convert every time. Systems turn skill into scalability. No more leaving money in the inbox or in inquiries. Apply the above and you will see practical impact in sales in the next few days, weeks and months. Come and share with me the impact. Dr. Joybert Javnyuy I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 180 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Admission Open: Skills & Experience Monetization Academy (SKEMA)
Cohort 2
Identify, Extract, Package, and Make Money Your Skills & Experience in 21 Days and start making 6 to 7 figures.
Included:
Recorded & Live 21 courses
Practical templates
Q&A/Hot Seats with Dr. Joybert
Certification
Lifetime Access to Monetization Community
Who Is This For?
Anyone ready to turn skills & experience into income
Coaches, consultants, creators, professionals, and side-hustlers
Start: July 1st, 2025
15 Slots Only
Register Now!
Join the waitlist now for more info:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T
We are going to cover the following short courses:
1. How to go From Undervalued to High Demand
2. How to Identify Your Most Profitable Skill & Make Money
3. How to Know What to Sell From Your Experience
4. How to Make Money From Any Idea
5. How I Help Clients Convert Knowledge to Influence & Results (Knowledge Obesity to Elite Execution)
6. How to Productize & Make Money From Your Knowledge & Skills
7. How to Show Up Online Like an Expert & Make Money
8. How to Build Authority in Your Industry Even With a Small Audience
9. How to Share Content (Post) on Social Media & Build a Strong Personal Brand
10. How to Turn Your Social Media Profile into a Money Making System
Join the waitlist now for more info:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T
11. How to Create & Sell High Demand Solutions (Applying Distinctiveness Value Framework)
12. How to Make Money From Your Skills & Solutions (Applying The Blue Flame Effect)
13. How to Build Industry Authority, Influence & Double Your Income (Applying Authority Acceleration)
14. How to Stand Out & Double the Money You Make (Applying Anti Commoditization Framework)
15. How to test your idea before launching
16. How to turn your experience into a 6-figure coaching offer
17. How to package your knowledge into an online course
18. How to create a consulting business from your experience
19. How to create multiple income streams from one area of expertise
Join the waitlist now for more info:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T
20. How to Sell What You Already Know
21. How to attract high-paying clients through content
22. How to Create a High-Value Service from Your Skill
23. How to Know What You Can Teach and Get Paid
24. How to Sell One Service to 3 Different Audiences
25. How to Build a Mini-Workshop People Want to Pay For
Bonus:
a. 5 Public Speaking Courses
b. Skills to Profit AI Assistant I have trained to enable you work effortlessly in monetizing your idea.
Join the waitlist now for more info:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1TAdmission Open: Skills & Experience Monetization Academy (SKEMA) Cohort 2 Identify, Extract, Package, and Make Money Your Skills & Experience in 21 Days and start making 6 to 7 figures. Included: Recorded & Live 21 courses Practical templates Q&A/Hot Seats with Dr. Joybert Certification Lifetime Access to Monetization Community Who Is This For? Anyone ready to turn skills & experience into income Coaches, consultants, creators, professionals, and side-hustlers Start: July 1st, 2025 15 Slots Only Register Now! Join the waitlist now for more info: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T We are going to cover the following short courses: 1. How to go From Undervalued to High Demand 2. How to Identify Your Most Profitable Skill & Make Money 3. How to Know What to Sell From Your Experience 4. How to Make Money From Any Idea 5. How I Help Clients Convert Knowledge to Influence & Results (Knowledge Obesity to Elite Execution) 6. How to Productize & Make Money From Your Knowledge & Skills 7. How to Show Up Online Like an Expert & Make Money 8. How to Build Authority in Your Industry Even With a Small Audience 9. How to Share Content (Post) on Social Media & Build a Strong Personal Brand 10. How to Turn Your Social Media Profile into a Money Making System Join the waitlist now for more info: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T 11. How to Create & Sell High Demand Solutions (Applying Distinctiveness Value Framework) 12. How to Make Money From Your Skills & Solutions (Applying The Blue Flame Effect) 13. How to Build Industry Authority, Influence & Double Your Income (Applying Authority Acceleration) 14. How to Stand Out & Double the Money You Make (Applying Anti Commoditization Framework) 15. How to test your idea before launching 16. How to turn your experience into a 6-figure coaching offer 17. How to package your knowledge into an online course 18. How to create a consulting business from your experience 19. How to create multiple income streams from one area of expertise Join the waitlist now for more info: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T 20. How to Sell What You Already Know 21. How to attract high-paying clients through content 22. How to Create a High-Value Service from Your Skill 23. How to Know What You Can Teach and Get Paid 24. How to Sell One Service to 3 Different Audiences 25. How to Build a Mini-Workshop People Want to Pay For Bonus: a. 5 Public Speaking Courses b. Skills to Profit AI Assistant I have trained to enable you work effortlessly in monetizing your idea. Join the waitlist now for more info: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1TCHAT.WHATSAPP.COMCohort 2: Skill Monetization WaitlistWhatsApp Group Invite0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 238 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
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"You do not have to look beautiful while walking down the streets. You do not have to look beautiful while eating.
You do not have to look beautiful while talking. You do not have to look beautiful while laughing. While doing sports. While having sex. While singing. While dancing. You were not born to look beautiful, my love.
You are here to enjoy, to feel, to live. There is no point in worrying what you look like when you are doing things you actually enjoy because that joy will be taken away by the fear of not looking good enough. Again, it is not your purpose to look beautiful, darling.
Your purpose is to fall in love with life, to laugh until your belly hurts, to express your feelings, to sing from the top of your lungs, to dance as silly as you want to - without worrying about your appearance. For all that matters is that your soul is beautiful and happy."
— Unknown
— Artwork : Yaoyao Ma Van
Enjoy your Sunday, royalties!
And don’t forget to laugh today. Truth is, nothing really has to be funny for you to smile or giggle. I make myself laugh all the time — if you ever lived close to my house, you’d probably wonder what on earth is going on in there.
And the reverse is true too. I can be so quiet sometimes, you wouldn’t even know someone was around. I choose to make the most of every little moment. I laugh at my own silly jokes, my random thoughts, my made-up songs — and it’s honestly one of the most beautiful gifts I’ve given myself.
In fact, I’m writing this now and smiling because I realize just how beautiful my voice sounds when I’m happy.
Try it. Laugh for no reason. Smile at your own thoughts. It’s so worth it."You do not have to look beautiful while walking down the streets. You do not have to look beautiful while eating. You do not have to look beautiful while talking. You do not have to look beautiful while laughing. While doing sports. While having sex. While singing. While dancing. You were not born to look beautiful, my love. You are here to enjoy, to feel, to live. There is no point in worrying what you look like when you are doing things you actually enjoy because that joy will be taken away by the fear of not looking good enough. Again, it is not your purpose to look beautiful, darling. Your purpose is to fall in love with life, to laugh until your belly hurts, to express your feelings, to sing from the top of your lungs, to dance as silly as you want to - without worrying about your appearance. For all that matters is that your soul is beautiful and happy." — Unknown — Artwork : Yaoyao Ma Van Enjoy your Sunday, royalties! 🥰 And don’t forget to laugh today. Truth is, nothing really has to be funny for you to smile or giggle. I make myself laugh all the time — if you ever lived close to my house, you’d probably wonder what on earth is going on in there. 😂😂 And the reverse is true too. I can be so quiet sometimes, you wouldn’t even know someone was around. I choose to make the most of every little moment. I laugh at my own silly jokes, my random thoughts, my made-up songs — and it’s honestly one of the most beautiful gifts I’ve given myself. In fact, I’m writing this now and smiling because I realize just how beautiful my voice sounds when I’m happy. Try it. Laugh for no reason. Smile at your own thoughts. It’s so worth it. ❤️✨0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 196 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Oh Vusi..., This presentation by Jack Ma is truly a game changer to young entrepreneurs looking to get into the business of entrepreneurship.
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"Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our growth." — Viktor E. Frankl
We all face moments when our instincts pull us in the wrong direction. That little voice says, Give up. Take the easy way. Shut down. Lash out. But what if the key to becoming stronger, wiser, and more successful isn’t in following those impulses—but in resisting them?
Think about it:
- When you’re hurt and want to snap back, choose kindness instead. It doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you’re strong enough not to let anger control you.
- When you’re overwhelmed and want to scroll mindlessly, choose focus. Five minutes of real effort will always beat an hour of half-hearted distraction.
- When fear whispers, You can’t do this, choose courage. Not because you’re fearless, but because you refuse to let fear decide your future.
- When laziness tugs at you, choose discipline. Not because you have to, but because you owe yourself the satisfaction of knowing you showed up.
- When it feels easier to shut people out, choose generosity. The world needs more warmth, not more walls.
Every temptation is a test—not of your willpower, but of your growth. The easy choice keeps you where you are. The harder one moves you forward.
So next time you feel that pull toward the comfortable, the careless, or the cynical, pause. Ask yourself: What would the best version of me do? Then do that.
Because growth isn’t about being perfect. It’s about choosing, again and again, to be better than your excuses.
"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." — Romans 12:21
Wishing you a great day.
© Godlove NJISONG"Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our growth." — Viktor E. Frankl We all face moments when our instincts pull us in the wrong direction. That little voice says, Give up. Take the easy way. Shut down. Lash out. But what if the key to becoming stronger, wiser, and more successful isn’t in following those impulses—but in resisting them? Think about it: - When you’re hurt and want to snap back, choose kindness instead. It doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you’re strong enough not to let anger control you. - When you’re overwhelmed and want to scroll mindlessly, choose focus. Five minutes of real effort will always beat an hour of half-hearted distraction. - When fear whispers, You can’t do this, choose courage. Not because you’re fearless, but because you refuse to let fear decide your future. - When laziness tugs at you, choose discipline. Not because you have to, but because you owe yourself the satisfaction of knowing you showed up. - When it feels easier to shut people out, choose generosity. The world needs more warmth, not more walls. Every temptation is a test—not of your willpower, but of your growth. The easy choice keeps you where you are. The harder one moves you forward. So next time you feel that pull toward the comfortable, the careless, or the cynical, pause. Ask yourself: What would the best version of me do? Then do that. Because growth isn’t about being perfect. It’s about choosing, again and again, to be better than your excuses. "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." — Romans 12:21 Wishing you a great day. © Godlove NJISONG -
On his very first day at the Belie Health Foundation Community Kids Learning Club, this my little learner went home with an assignment to practice the sh and ch digraphs.
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#theinvaluablewomanOn his very first day at the Belie Health Foundation Community Kids Learning Club, this my little learner went home with an assignment to practice the sh and ch digraphs. To my delight, he returned the very next day having mastered every single word, eagerly waiting to read them out loud to me with pride and confidence! You can tell my excitement 😄 Our children are not dull. They simply need the right environment and approach to learning and they’ll amaze us every time. Support our work and help give a child the support they need to thrive before the new school year begins. Let us invest in their future. #communityservice #theinvaluablewoman -
7 Mental Upgrades to Start Making Money by Breaking Poverty Indoctrination
I have been providing one-on-one coaching for close to 15 years now. When it comes to money, I’ve observed that most people have certain mental limitations that keep them from breaking into financial breakthroughs through what they do.
In this short article, let me show you 7 of these limitations along with quick tips on what to do to break out and start winning financially.
1. Upgrade from Scarcity Thinking to Opportunity Awareness
Stop believing there's “not enough.”
Start training your mind to believe there is so much money to make and you have all it takes to make the money you need.
Start training your mind to spot overlooked opportunities.
Wealth flows to those who solve problems, not those who avoid them.
Just to add, jealousy often stems from a scarcity mindset, the belief that someone else's success limits your own opportunities.
But when you have an abundance and opportunity driven mindset, you won’t feel jealous. Instead, you’ll celebrate others' success, knowing that more success creates more opportunities for everyone.
2. Upgrade from Waiting for Permission to Taking Initiative
Poverty conditioning teaches obedience and approval-seeking.
Wealth mindsets are built on bold decision-making and self-leadership.
Don’t wait. Move. Test. Adjust. Win.
People who take initiatives always end up making more money because money follows movement. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
3. Upgrade from Passive Learning to Income-Driven Execution
Poor mindsets collect information with no transformation.
Wealth builders turn every insight into income-producing action.
Your notebooks are full. It's time your wallet is too.
This can only happen when you stop learning passively and start taking actions on what you have been learning.
Learners do not make money. Money making is for those who deploy knowledge acquired.
4. Upgrade from Money Avoidance to Money Mastery
Poverty indoctrination makes you feel guilty about desiring more money.
Do not confuse loving money so much that you're willing to make it at all costs, even through unethical means, with desiring more money so you can use it as a tool to improve your life and positively impact others.
The wealthy learn how money moves, grows, and multiplies. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
Study money like your life depends on it, because it does.
Religious people avoid money and spiritual people master money and use it to serve humanity.
5. Upgrade from Skill Hoarding to Value Packaging
It’s not about how much you know, it’s about how you package what you know for impact and income.
Knowledge is potential wealth. Packaging is real wealth.
You can only monetize the knowledge you have packaged. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
By the way, I am admitting cohort 2 of Knowledge & Skill Monetization Academy. Interested?
Join the WhatsApp waitlist here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T
In under 30 days, you'll have at least 5 sellable products crafted from your knowledge, experience, and skills, ready to launch and start earning.
6. Upgrade from Victim Stories to Ownership Identity
Poverty loves blame. Wealth loves responsibility.
Even when it's not your fault, it is your future.
Take the driver’s seat. Rewrite the narrative.
Poor people are experts in blaming and complaining and wealthy people are experts in taking responsibility and initiative.
7. Upgrade from ‘One Day’ Thinking to 90-Day Wealth Projects
Stop dreaming “someday.” Start committing to bold 90-day goals.
Stop saying, "I will start this in the next few days." Start saying, "In the next 90 days, I will have completed this, achieved that, and accomplished those goals."
Every quarter should have a money mission.
Time doesn’t build wealth, execution does.
Poor people think in terms of time only, while wealthy people have projects for every season.
Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |7 Mental Upgrades to Start Making Money by Breaking Poverty Indoctrination I have been providing one-on-one coaching for close to 15 years now. When it comes to money, I’ve observed that most people have certain mental limitations that keep them from breaking into financial breakthroughs through what they do. In this short article, let me show you 7 of these limitations along with quick tips on what to do to break out and start winning financially. 1. Upgrade from Scarcity Thinking to Opportunity Awareness Stop believing there's “not enough.” Start training your mind to believe there is so much money to make and you have all it takes to make the money you need. Start training your mind to spot overlooked opportunities. Wealth flows to those who solve problems, not those who avoid them. Just to add, jealousy often stems from a scarcity mindset, the belief that someone else's success limits your own opportunities. But when you have an abundance and opportunity driven mindset, you won’t feel jealous. Instead, you’ll celebrate others' success, knowing that more success creates more opportunities for everyone. 2. Upgrade from Waiting for Permission to Taking Initiative Poverty conditioning teaches obedience and approval-seeking. Wealth mindsets are built on bold decision-making and self-leadership. Don’t wait. Move. Test. Adjust. Win. People who take initiatives always end up making more money because money follows movement. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy 3. Upgrade from Passive Learning to Income-Driven Execution Poor mindsets collect information with no transformation. Wealth builders turn every insight into income-producing action. Your notebooks are full. It's time your wallet is too. This can only happen when you stop learning passively and start taking actions on what you have been learning. Learners do not make money. Money making is for those who deploy knowledge acquired. 4. Upgrade from Money Avoidance to Money Mastery Poverty indoctrination makes you feel guilty about desiring more money. Do not confuse loving money so much that you're willing to make it at all costs, even through unethical means, with desiring more money so you can use it as a tool to improve your life and positively impact others. The wealthy learn how money moves, grows, and multiplies. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy Study money like your life depends on it, because it does. Religious people avoid money and spiritual people master money and use it to serve humanity. 5. Upgrade from Skill Hoarding to Value Packaging It’s not about how much you know, it’s about how you package what you know for impact and income. Knowledge is potential wealth. Packaging is real wealth. You can only monetize the knowledge you have packaged. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy By the way, I am admitting cohort 2 of Knowledge & Skill Monetization Academy. Interested? Join the WhatsApp waitlist here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T In under 30 days, you'll have at least 5 sellable products crafted from your knowledge, experience, and skills, ready to launch and start earning. 6. Upgrade from Victim Stories to Ownership Identity Poverty loves blame. Wealth loves responsibility. Even when it's not your fault, it is your future. Take the driver’s seat. Rewrite the narrative. Poor people are experts in blaming and complaining and wealthy people are experts in taking responsibility and initiative. 7. Upgrade from ‘One Day’ Thinking to 90-Day Wealth Projects Stop dreaming “someday.” Start committing to bold 90-day goals. Stop saying, "I will start this in the next few days." Start saying, "In the next 90 days, I will have completed this, achieved that, and accomplished those goals." Every quarter should have a money mission. Time doesn’t build wealth, execution does. Poor people think in terms of time only, while wealthy people have projects for every season. Dr. Joybert Javnyuy I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |CHAT.WHATSAPP.COMCohort 2: Skill Monetization WaitlistWhatsApp Group Invite0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 209 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
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Wahala no di finish
I went to this restaurant to eat and when I finished, I made the first payment and before it could conclude, the MOMO network was misbehaving. I had to redo the transaction and paid 4,500 FRS.
Later that evening, I got a double alerts. The both payments actually went through.
I went the next day and complained and they told me they’ll check as the accountant wasn’t on seat. I said no wahala. I left.
One week later, I didn’t hear from them. I went back. They told me to hold on while they check.
They did and told me the money actually all went through but the problem is that the accountant wasn’t not on seat but I should drop my account details.
I told them, this you people’s seat must be very hot for accountant not to be ever available. I dropped my account details and left.
I went back there yesterday and asked why they’ve not sent my money and they said the account will do it shortly. That I just missed the person.
I said okay. I ordered what I wanted to eat plus takeout.
When I finished, they asked me to pay.
Me: who will I pay when the accountant is not on seat? Who will collect the money?
The lady: The accountant doesn’t need to do that. We can all receive payments.
Me: Okay. How much is my total?
Her: 5,000 FRS
Me: You people owe me 5,000. If you deduct it, it means I’m owing 500 FRS.
Her: We can’t deduct. You have to pay and the accountant will refund you please.
Me: AHH. That means you people will arrest me na. I brought out my two hands and kept on the table for her to handcuff me.
She: We account for everything we sell. If we don’t reconcile today’s payment, they’ll fine us.
Me: Are you people owing me 4,500 FRS? Yes. Why are you doing like you don’t know maths? You’re owing me 4,500. I don chop 5,000. Case closed.
I carried my bag and stood up.
One guy came out from one corner.
Him: But even if we’re to deduct, you’ll have to balance us 500 FRS
Me: You’re who again?
Him: I’m the accountant.
Me: Ahhh (I screamed in a very dramatic way) You’re around sir? Please give me one water and follow me to the car let me give you 500 and another 500 for the water. Add the water to my bill.
We came outside and he was sweating.
Me: 500 eh? Are you thirsty? You can have my water.
Him: Yes Sir. Total of 1,000. He collected the water.
Me: Oya na, see you next time.
Him: The money Sir. 1,000.
Me: Sorry. Remind me your role again.
Him: Accountant
Me: The one that’s not always on seat right? Pay them 1,000 when you enter inside. 500 for my balance and 500 for the water you collected from me. As your seat is usually hot and you can’t sit on it, pour the cold water on your sit make e cool down so that you can be staying “on seat” Is the maths clear accountant?
Him:
By the way that was just for your laughing pleasure because truly wahala no di finish.
It's the start of another week.
Let nothing steal your joy; not your tiredness, boss, friend, children, partner etc.
And remember to love deeply, laugh like no man's business and live like there's no tomorrow.
Wishing you a fun-filled week.Wahala no di finish I went to this restaurant to eat and when I finished, I made the first payment and before it could conclude, the MOMO network was misbehaving. I had to redo the transaction and paid 4,500 FRS. Later that evening, I got a double alerts. The both payments actually went through. I went the next day and complained and they told me they’ll check as the accountant wasn’t on seat. I said no wahala. I left. One week later, I didn’t hear from them. I went back. They told me to hold on while they check. They did and told me the money actually all went through but the problem is that the accountant wasn’t not on seat but I should drop my account details. I told them, this you people’s seat must be very hot for accountant not to be ever available. I dropped my account details and left. I went back there yesterday and asked why they’ve not sent my money and they said the account will do it shortly. That I just missed the person. I said okay. I ordered what I wanted to eat plus takeout. When I finished, they asked me to pay. Me: who will I pay when the accountant is not on seat? Who will collect the money? The lady: The accountant doesn’t need to do that. We can all receive payments. Me: Okay. How much is my total? Her: 5,000 FRS Me: You people owe me 5,000. If you deduct it, it means I’m owing 500 FRS. Her: We can’t deduct. You have to pay and the accountant will refund you please. Me: AHH. That means you people will arrest me na. I brought out my two hands and kept on the table for her to handcuff me. She: We account for everything we sell. If we don’t reconcile today’s payment, they’ll fine us. Me: Are you people owing me 4,500 FRS? Yes. Why are you doing like you don’t know maths? You’re owing me 4,500. I don chop 5,000. Case closed. I carried my bag and stood up. One guy came out from one corner. Him: But even if we’re to deduct, you’ll have to balance us 500 FRS Me: You’re who again? Him: I’m the accountant. Me: Ahhh (I screamed in a very dramatic way) You’re around sir? Please give me one water and follow me to the car let me give you 500 and another 500 for the water. Add the water to my bill. We came outside and he was sweating. Me: 500 eh? Are you thirsty? You can have my water. Him: Yes Sir. Total of 1,000. He collected the water. Me: Oya na, see you next time. Him: The money Sir. 1,000. Me: Sorry. Remind me your role again. Him: Accountant Me: The one that’s not always on seat right? Pay them 1,000 when you enter inside. 500 for my balance and 500 for the water you collected from me. As your seat is usually hot and you can’t sit on it, pour the cold water on your sit make e cool down so that you can be staying “on seat” Is the maths clear accountant? Him: 🥺🥺🥺 By the way that was just for your laughing pleasure because truly wahala no di finish. It's the start of another week. Let nothing steal your joy; not your tiredness, boss, friend, children, partner etc. And remember to love deeply, laugh 🤣 like no man's business and live like there's no tomorrow. Wishing you a fun-filled week.0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 217 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts."— Winston Churchill
Every person who's ever achieved something great has stood exactly where you are right now—exhausted, questioning, wondering if the struggle is worth it. The path to greatness isn't smooth or easy. It's messy. It's full of setbacks that sting and moments when quitting seems like the only sane option.
But here's what separates those who make it from those who don't: When they fell, they looked up. When they hurt, they wiped their tears. When the world said "stop," they took one more step.
Winners are not people who never struggle. They’re people who refuse to stay down.
Life doesn't test us randomly—it prepares us. The bigger your dream, the tougher the challenges. That initial excitement will fade. What remains is your choice: Will you keep going when everything in you wants to quit?
You might stumble today. That's normal. Get up anyway. Take the next step. Then another. Greatness isn't about never falling—it's about always rising.
Because here’s what I know: You were not made to give up. You were made to push through. To rise. To keep moving, even when it hurts.
Greatness isn’t for the lucky or the fearless. It’s for the ones who refuse to quit.
You weren't created to surrender. You were built to endure, to overcome, to rise stronger every time. This isn't just motivation—it's your truth.
"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." — Isaiah 40:31 (NIV)
Greatness isn’t handed out; it’s fought for. So keep moving. One step. Then another. And another. Your story isn’t over yet.
Wishing you a great weekend.
©Godlove NJISONG"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts."— Winston Churchill Every person who's ever achieved something great has stood exactly where you are right now—exhausted, questioning, wondering if the struggle is worth it. The path to greatness isn't smooth or easy. It's messy. It's full of setbacks that sting and moments when quitting seems like the only sane option. But here's what separates those who make it from those who don't: When they fell, they looked up. When they hurt, they wiped their tears. When the world said "stop," they took one more step. Winners are not people who never struggle. They’re people who refuse to stay down. Life doesn't test us randomly—it prepares us. The bigger your dream, the tougher the challenges. That initial excitement will fade. What remains is your choice: Will you keep going when everything in you wants to quit? You might stumble today. That's normal. Get up anyway. Take the next step. Then another. Greatness isn't about never falling—it's about always rising. Because here’s what I know: You were not made to give up. You were made to push through. To rise. To keep moving, even when it hurts. Greatness isn’t for the lucky or the fearless. It’s for the ones who refuse to quit. You weren't created to surrender. You were built to endure, to overcome, to rise stronger every time. This isn't just motivation—it's your truth. "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." — Isaiah 40:31 (NIV) Greatness isn’t handed out; it’s fought for. So keep moving. One step. Then another. And another. Your story isn’t over yet. Wishing you a great weekend. ©Godlove NJISONG0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 210 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Make More Money as a Man, How to Improve Your Net Worth as a Man
We just rounded up the gentlemen's summit. I wanted to drive this discussion.
Let me share a powerful practice I do every year & also teach my coaching clients.
At the end of each year, I make it a point to calculate my net worth and compare it with the previous year’s figure. This practice isn’t just about numbers; it’s about tracking progress and making smart financial decisions.
After calculations, my 2023 net worth is….. Ahahaha that is classified information for now. Go calculate yours. See formula below.
You see, as we navigate through life, especially as young adults in Cameroon and Africa and even across Europe, America, Middle East etc, understanding our financial health is crucial. A key aspect of this is knowing our net worth.
So, what is net worth? Simply put, it’s the total value of what you own (your assets) minus what you owe (your liabilities).
Let me clarify this. When we hear Forbes mentioning millionaires or billionaires, they’re referring to net worth, not the cash in someone’s bank account.
Calculating your net worth is straightforward: Assets minus Liabilities equals Net Worth.
But there's also something called 'liquid net worth'. I like talking about this.
This is the part of your net worth that’s readily available in cash or cash equivalents. For example, if you have savings in a bank account or investments that can be quickly converted to cash without significant loss, that’s your liquid net worth.
Regularly calculating your net worth has impactful benefits. It provides a clear picture of your financial standing, helping you make informed decisions.
Here are four practical ways to improve your net worth, even amidst inflation and economic challenges across Cameroon and other countries:
a) Budget Wisely: Create a realistic budget that prioritizes savings and investments. Stick to it! It requires self discipline.
b) Invest Smartly: Look for investment opportunities that balance risk and return. Diversify your portfolio to protect against market volatility. This point B is for people that have been saving and have some money to invest. If not, start saving with an investment plan in mind.
c) Reduce Liabilities: Focus on paying off high-interest debts. Avoid accumulating unnecessary debts. Stop buying liabilities oh.
Watch this video: “26 Mistakes Getting Poor People Into More Debt & How to Get Out”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ecJc6Wjn55c&t=340s
d) Increase Assets: Explore additional income streams. This could be a side business or freelance work. Buy assets like land, equity, stock, shares etc. Just explore.
e) Increase Your Net Worth Potential: Many people don't talk about this. Also known in elite wealth circles as your "Wealth Activation Index. This is not your current net worth.
This is your monetizable capacity, the income-generating potential buried in your skills, expertise, experiences, relationships, and unique intellectual capital.
Net Worth Potential is the projected financial value of your existing high-income skills, rare knowledge, and monetizable experience if strategically deployed and consistently monetized over time.
Remember, improving your net worth is a journey. Start small, stay consistent, and watch your financial health grow!
Net Worth Framework (Expanded):
You can now structure your net worth conversation like this:
a. Tangible Net Worth – Assets minus liabilities (bank, land, stock, etc.)
b. Liquid Net Worth – Readily available cash/cash equivalents
c. Net Worth Potential – Your hidden, deployable wealth locked in skills, experiences, and solutions
Your 2025 should be different abeg...especially financially.
What did you pick out?
Link to the 3 days Gentlemen Summit of Influence & Income:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnBahpwHlhC6UK8lsLEfGUkOZELXV7sOW
Cheers
Dr. Javnyuy Joybert
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |
#Money #Wealth #prosperityMake More Money as a Man, How to Improve Your Net Worth as a Man We just rounded up the gentlemen's summit. I wanted to drive this discussion. Let me share a powerful practice I do every year & also teach my coaching clients. At the end of each year, I make it a point to calculate my net worth and compare it with the previous year’s figure. This practice isn’t just about numbers; it’s about tracking progress and making smart financial decisions. After calculations, my 2023 net worth is….. Ahahaha that is classified information for now. Go calculate yours. See formula below. You see, as we navigate through life, especially as young adults in Cameroon and Africa and even across Europe, America, Middle East etc, understanding our financial health is crucial. A key aspect of this is knowing our net worth. So, what is net worth? Simply put, it’s the total value of what you own (your assets) minus what you owe (your liabilities). Let me clarify this. When we hear Forbes mentioning millionaires or billionaires, they’re referring to net worth, not the cash in someone’s bank account. Calculating your net worth is straightforward: Assets minus Liabilities equals Net Worth. But there's also something called 'liquid net worth'. I like talking about this. This is the part of your net worth that’s readily available in cash or cash equivalents. For example, if you have savings in a bank account or investments that can be quickly converted to cash without significant loss, that’s your liquid net worth. Regularly calculating your net worth has impactful benefits. It provides a clear picture of your financial standing, helping you make informed decisions. Here are four practical ways to improve your net worth, even amidst inflation and economic challenges across Cameroon and other countries: a) Budget Wisely: Create a realistic budget that prioritizes savings and investments. Stick to it! It requires self discipline. b) Invest Smartly: Look for investment opportunities that balance risk and return. Diversify your portfolio to protect against market volatility. This point B is for people that have been saving and have some money to invest. If not, start saving with an investment plan in mind. c) Reduce Liabilities: Focus on paying off high-interest debts. Avoid accumulating unnecessary debts. Stop buying liabilities oh. Watch this video: “26 Mistakes Getting Poor People Into More Debt & How to Get Out” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ecJc6Wjn55c&t=340s d) Increase Assets: Explore additional income streams. This could be a side business or freelance work. Buy assets like land, equity, stock, shares etc. Just explore. e) Increase Your Net Worth Potential: Many people don't talk about this. Also known in elite wealth circles as your "Wealth Activation Index. This is not your current net worth. This is your monetizable capacity, the income-generating potential buried in your skills, expertise, experiences, relationships, and unique intellectual capital. Net Worth Potential is the projected financial value of your existing high-income skills, rare knowledge, and monetizable experience if strategically deployed and consistently monetized over time. Remember, improving your net worth is a journey. Start small, stay consistent, and watch your financial health grow! Net Worth Framework (Expanded): You can now structure your net worth conversation like this: a. Tangible Net Worth – Assets minus liabilities (bank, land, stock, etc.) b. Liquid Net Worth – Readily available cash/cash equivalents c. Net Worth Potential – Your hidden, deployable wealth locked in skills, experiences, and solutions Your 2025 should be different abeg...especially financially. What did you pick out? Link to the 3 days Gentlemen Summit of Influence & Income: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnBahpwHlhC6UK8lsLEfGUkOZELXV7sOW Cheers Dr. Javnyuy Joybert I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak | #Money #Wealth #prosperity0 Σχόλια 2 Μοιράστηκε 345 Views 1 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
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My Father's Day Tribute to every Father in this compound.
Brothers, in this Father’s Day, stand tall in the 'quiet pride' of shaping souls.
You are imprinting your character upon your children—a work demanding courage, not convenience.
Feel the 'weight of your love': the strength to hold close and the wisdom to correct; the presence that anchors and the balance that elevates.
May this holy calling ignite in you a 'fervent responsibility'—to shepherd them toward their divine purpose, under the gaze of God and man.
Fatherhood is not taught in theory but forged in the fire of daily sacrifice. 'Trust becomes your anchor'. Lean into the Lord’s wisdom as you navigate uncharted waters—learning parenthood 'while living it'.
Let your heart seek His guidance relentlessly, so your children emerge as testaments to your faithfulness: godly, unwavering, and ablaze with light (Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 5:16).
You are not merely raising children. You are cultivating legacies. Walk in that truth.My Father's Day Tribute to every Father in this compound. Brothers, in this Father’s Day, stand tall in the 'quiet pride' of shaping souls. You are imprinting your character upon your children—a work demanding courage, not convenience. Feel the 'weight of your love': the strength to hold close and the wisdom to correct; the presence that anchors and the balance that elevates. May this holy calling ignite in you a 'fervent responsibility'—to shepherd them toward their divine purpose, under the gaze of God and man. Fatherhood is not taught in theory but forged in the fire of daily sacrifice. 'Trust becomes your anchor'. Lean into the Lord’s wisdom as you navigate uncharted waters—learning parenthood 'while living it'. Let your heart seek His guidance relentlessly, so your children emerge as testaments to your faithfulness: godly, unwavering, and ablaze with light (Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 5:16). You are not merely raising children. You are cultivating legacies. Walk in that truth.1 Σχόλια 3 Μοιράστηκε 319 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Have you ever struggled to find a good electrician, plumber, or any technician when you really needed one?
Or maybe you’ve craved a specific dish but weren't sure where to get it?
Perhaps you needed a product or service but couldn’t find a contact for a seller?
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Getting started is simple.
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If you own a business and want to get noticed, I can guide you through the listing process.
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Let’s make life easier together.Have you ever struggled to find a good electrician, plumber, or any technician when you really needed one? Or maybe you’ve craved a specific dish but weren't sure where to get it? Perhaps you needed a product or service but couldn’t find a contact for a seller? We understand how frustrating that can be, and we have a solution for you. With Errandia, everything you need is just a click away. Errandia is a simple, powerful platform that connects you directly to businesses and service providers in your area. Whether you're looking for a last-minute handyman, a pharmacy open late, or even a home-cooked meal, just post your request—and nearby businesses will reach out to you. Imagine getting on-demand services in an instant! Need a pharmacy on call by night nearby? Errandia has you covered with contact details for all the pharmacies around you. Getting started is simple. Simply download the Errandia app from the Play Store or App Store. Or you can sign up directly using this link: https://errandia.com/signup?ref=GN777396). Best of all, it’s completely free for users. If you own a business and want to get noticed, I can guide you through the listing process. With Errandia, you’ll find solutions to your needs, and businesses will find their customers. Let’s make life easier together.0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 186 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
She is 72 and yet still has a beautiful appearance. You should learn her secret!She is 72 and yet still has a beautiful appearance. You should learn her secret!
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RESPECT THE INVISIBLE
A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking!
I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the cars rear.
It reads...
"Physically challenged; Please be patient.”
And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm and slowed down!!
In fact I got a little protective of the car and the driver.
I reached work a few minutes late, but it was ok!
And then it struck me. Would I have been patient if there was no sticker!?
Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!?
Will we be more patient and kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads?
Labels like:
~ Lost my job
~ Fighting cancer
~ Going through a bad divorce
~ Suffering Emotional abuse
~ Lost a loved one
~ Feeling worthless
~ Financially messed up
.....and more like these.
Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about.
The least we can do is be patient and kind.
We don't have to put people through the pressures of explaining over times before we understand their pains and offer our little best.
As you go through each passing day always remember there's an invisible label on everyone.
A simple virtue of patience may just be the respect you're according that invisible label. ~ Dr M. A. Chaudhary
PATIENCE is a priceless virtue! we all need to exercise a considerable amount of it. I am never so much in a hurry as to cause unkindness to anyone. A few seconds or minutes will not make that much difference!
Have you been patient with yourself lately? If not, join our wellness retreat beginning June 05, for a worry and stress detox. I'm rooting for you Royal Leader.
Never forget to keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you
#stellaeyabi #perspective #kindness #love #patienceRESPECT THE INVISIBLE A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking! I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the cars rear. It reads... "Physically challenged; Please be patient.” And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm and slowed down!! In fact I got a little protective of the car and the driver. I reached work a few minutes late, but it was ok! And then it struck me. Would I have been patient if there was no sticker!? Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!? Will we be more patient and kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads? Labels like: ~ Lost my job ~ Fighting cancer ~ Going through a bad divorce ~ Suffering Emotional abuse ~ Lost a loved one ~ Feeling worthless ~ Financially messed up .....and more like these. Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about. The least we can do is be patient and kind. We don't have to put people through the pressures of explaining over times before we understand their pains and offer our little best. As you go through each passing day always remember there's an invisible label on everyone. A simple virtue of patience may just be the respect you're according that invisible label. ~ Dr M. A. Chaudhary PATIENCE is a priceless virtue! we all need to exercise a considerable amount of it. I am never so much in a hurry as to cause unkindness to anyone. A few seconds or minutes will not make that much difference! Have you been patient with yourself lately? If not, join our wellness retreat beginning June 05, for a worry and stress detox. I'm rooting for you Royal Leader. Never forget to keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you ❤️ #stellaeyabi #perspective #kindness #love #patience0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 201 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
She never expected this from himShe never expected this from him😂😂😂
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Did you ever know of the origins of Numbers?
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Read and learn so you don't fall victim!Read and learn so you don't fall victim!0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 106 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση
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Yesterday, some additional shelves were being installed at the BHF Community Kids Library Center, so I stopped by to check on the progress. Upon arrival, I met a father with his two children who was discussing enrollment for his children.
You could clearly see the excitement in the children’s faces. I asked the little girl to pick any book of her choice and read to me.
She was overjoyed. At first, she was unsure of what to choose, but she eventually settled on Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. It was her first time seeing the book and reading the story.
Her attention span was impressive! She read the entire story, and afterward, we identified some new words she had learned: flutter, grumpy, dungeon, among others.
The more words children are exposed to and read, the better their vocabulary and speaking skills become.
Have you enrolled a child yet in the Belie Health Foundation Community Kids Library Center? Our first class for members of the Learning Club begins this Wednesday at 8 a.m.
#theinvaluablewomanYesterday, some additional shelves were being installed at the BHF Community Kids Library Center, so I stopped by to check on the progress. Upon arrival, I met a father with his two children who was discussing enrollment for his children. You could clearly see the excitement in the children’s faces. I asked the little girl to pick any book of her choice and read to me. She was overjoyed. At first, she was unsure of what to choose, but she eventually settled on Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. It was her first time seeing the book and reading the story. Her attention span was impressive! She read the entire story, and afterward, we identified some new words she had learned: flutter, grumpy, dungeon, among others. The more words children are exposed to and read, the better their vocabulary and speaking skills become. Have you enrolled a child yet in the Belie Health Foundation Community Kids Library Center? Our first class for members of the Learning Club begins this Wednesday at 8 a.m. #theinvaluablewoman -
You can always learn a lot by seeing what others have done, and that's absolutely true when it comes to mushroom growing.
That’s why we’re excited to send you this video featuring five inspiring mushroom farmers who turned their passion into a thriving business.
YouTube Video: https://ci3.googleusercontent.com/meips/ADKq_NYBBKSwOnFFrvI1yYLwvcrqgL6UtxMip6ozDYqWaRuovm8NJcbBCmDkIFwNN7Mf_Xi4ndq555nUPlWPvMxXCTrhJYoaZMbqXeBEGQL7MSnjWBWUS0B9S-zoOSVYZ3iSNP9Jw9vARIBJvyWtyDJTagvHaOoOSg=s0-d-e1-ft#https://storage.googleapis.com/msgsndr/NMazBpWDbU7eXyA3F9A2/media/678f7094070992577f51ebec.jpeg
Hear about their journeys, the challenges they faced, and the successes they’re celebrating—so you can forge your own path to mushroom-growing success. Watch the video and be inspired!You can always learn a lot by seeing what others have done, and that's absolutely true when it comes to mushroom growing. That’s why we’re excited to send you this video featuring five inspiring mushroom farmers who turned their passion into a thriving business. YouTube Video: https://ci3.googleusercontent.com/meips/ADKq_NYBBKSwOnFFrvI1yYLwvcrqgL6UtxMip6ozDYqWaRuovm8NJcbBCmDkIFwNN7Mf_Xi4ndq555nUPlWPvMxXCTrhJYoaZMbqXeBEGQL7MSnjWBWUS0B9S-zoOSVYZ3iSNP9Jw9vARIBJvyWtyDJTagvHaOoOSg=s0-d-e1-ft#https://storage.googleapis.com/msgsndr/NMazBpWDbU7eXyA3F9A2/media/678f7094070992577f51ebec.jpeg Hear about their journeys, the challenges they faced, and the successes they’re celebrating—so you can forge your own path to mushroom-growing success. Watch the video and be inspired!0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 167 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Shalom beloved!
Join us every morning at 5:00am as we pray in the Secret Place with prophet Emos Abamukong. Your life will never remain the same again.
Invite someone and God bless you as you pray this
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A LONG READ
How do we choose the people we fall in love with?
The Romantic answer is that our instincts naturally guide us to individuals who are kind and good for us.
Love is a sort of ecstasy that descends when we feel ourselves in the presence of a benign and nourishing soul, who will answer our emotional needs, understand our sadness and strengthen us for the hard tasks of our lives.
In order to locate our lover, we must let our instincts carry us along, taking care never to impede them through pedantic psychological analysis and introspection or else considerations of status, wealth or lineage.
Our feelings will tell us clearly enough when we have reached our destiny. To ask someone with any degree of rigour why exactly they have chosen a particular partner is – in the Romantic world-view – simply an unnecessary and offensive misunderstanding of love: true love is an instinct that accurately and naturally settles on those with a capacity to make us happy.
The Romantic attitude sounds warm and kind. Its originators certainly imagined that it would bring an end to the sort of unhappy relationships previously brokered by parents and society. The only difficulty is that our obedience to instinct has, very often, proved to be a disaster of its own.
Respecting the special feelings we get around certain people in nightclubs and train stations, parties and websites and that Romanticism so ably celebrated in art appears not to have led us to be any happier in our unions than a Medieval couple shackled into marriage by two royal courts keen to preserve the sovereignty of a slice of ancestral land. ‘Instinct’ has been little better than ‘calculation’ in underwriting the quality of our love stories.
Romanticism would not at this point, however, give up the argument quite so easily. It would simply ascribe the difficulties we often have in love to not having looked hard enough for that central fixture of Romantic reverie: the right person. This being is inevitably still out there (every soul must have its soulmate, Romanticism assures us), it is just that we haven’t managed to track them down – yet.
So we must continue the search, with all the technology and tenacity necessary, and maybe, once the divorce has come through and the house has been sold, we’ll get it right. But there’s another school of thought, this one influenced by psychoanalysis, which challenges the notion that instinct invariably draws us to those who will make us happy.
The theory insists that we don’t fall in love first and foremost with those who care for us in ideal ways, we fall in love with those who care for us in familiar ways. Adult love emerges from a template of how we should be loved that was created in childhood and is likely to be entwined with a range of problematic compulsions that militate in key ways against our chances of growth.
We may believe we are seeking happiness in love, but what we are really after is familiarity. We are looking to re-create, within our adult relationships, the very feelings we knew so well in childhood – and which were rarely limited to just tenderness and care.
The love most of us will have tasted early on was confused with other, more destructive dynamics: feelings of wanting to help an adult who was out of control, of being deprived of a parent’s warmth or scared of his or her anger, or of not feeling secure enough to communicate our trickier wishes.
How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little too right – in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding and reliable – given that in our hearts, such rightness feels foreign and unearned.
We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration. Psychoanalysis calls the process whereby we identify our partners ‘object choice’ – and recommends that we try to understand the factors semi-consciously governing our attractions in order to interrupt the unhealthier patterns that might be at play.
Our instincts – our strong undercurrents of attraction and revulsion – stem from complicated experiences we had when we were far too young to understand them, and which linger in the antechambers of our minds.
Psychoanalysis doesn’t wish to suggest that everything about our attractions will be deformed. We may have quite legitimate aspirations to positive qualities: intelligence, charm, generosity… But we are also liable to be fatefully drawn towards trickier tendencies: someone who is often absent, or treats us with a little disdain, or needs to be surrounded all the time by friends, or cannot master their finances.
However paradoxical it can sound, without these tricky behaviours, we may simply not be able to feel passionate or tender with someone.
Alternatively, we may have been so traumatised by a parental figure, we cannot approach any partner who shares qualities with them of any kind, even ones disconnected from their negative sides. We might in love be rigidly intolerant of anyone who is intelligent, or punctual or interested in science, simply because these were the traits of someone who caused us a great deal of difficulty early on.
To choose our partners wisely, we need to tease out how our compulsions to suffering or our rigid flights from trauma may be playing themselves out in our feelings of attraction. A useful starting place is to ask ourselves (perhaps in the company of a large sheet of paper, a pen and a free afternoon) what sort of people really put us off.
Revulsion and disgust are useful first guides because we are likely to recognize that some of the traits that make us shiver are not objectively negative and yet feel to us distinctly off-putting. We might, for example, sense that someone who asks us too much about ourselves, or is very tender or dependable, will seem extremely eerie and frightening.
And we might equally well, along the way, recognize that a degree of cruelty or distance belong to an odd list of the things we appear genuinely to need in order to love. It can be tricky to avoid self-censorship here, but the point isn’t to represent ourselves as reassuring, predictable people, but to get to know the curious quirks of our own psyches.
We’ll tend to find that some ostensibly pretty nice things are getting caught in our love filters: people who are eloquent, clever, reliable, sunny can set off loud alarms. This is vital knowledge. We should pause and try to fathom where the aversions come from, what aspects of our past have made it so hard for us to accept certain sorts of emotional nourishment.
Each time we recognize a negative, we’re discovering a crucial association in our own minds: we’re alighting on an impossibility of love based on associations from the past projected onto the present. An additional way we can get at the associations which circulate powerfully in the less noticed corners of our brains is to finish stub-sentences, that invite us to respond to things that might charm or repel us about someone.
We get to see our own reactions more clearly when we write things down without thinking too much about our answers, catching the mind’s unconscious at work.
For instance, we can deliberately jot the first things that come into our heads when we read the following:
• If I tell a partner how much I need them, they will…
• When someone tells me they really need me, I…
• If someone can’t cope, I…
• When someone tells me to get my act together, I …
• If I were to be frank about my anxieties …
• If my partner told me not to worry, I’d…
• When someone blames me unfairly, I …
Our honestly described reactions are legacies. They are revealing underlying assumptions we have acquired about what love can look like. We may start to get a clearer picture that our vision of what we are looking for in another person might not be an especially good guide to our personal or mutual happiness.
Examining our emotional histories, we see that we can’t be attracted to just anyone. Getting to know the past, we come to recognise our earlier associations for what they are: generalisations we formed – entirely understandably – on the basis of just one or, hugely impressive, examples.
We’ve unknowingly turned some local associations into strict rules for relationships. Even if we can’t radically shift the pattern, it’s useful to know that we are carrying a ball and chain. It can make us more careful of ourselves when we feel overwhelmed by a certainty that we’ve met the one, after a few minutes chatting at the bar.
Ultimately, we stand to be liberated to love different people to our initial ‘types’, because we find that the qualities we like, and the ones we very much fear, are found in different constellations from those we encountered in the people who first taught us about affection, long ago in a childhood we are starting at last to understand and free ourselves from.
The CounsellorA LONG READ How do we choose the people we fall in love with? The Romantic answer is that our instincts naturally guide us to individuals who are kind and good for us. Love is a sort of ecstasy that descends when we feel ourselves in the presence of a benign and nourishing soul, who will answer our emotional needs, understand our sadness and strengthen us for the hard tasks of our lives. In order to locate our lover, we must let our instincts carry us along, taking care never to impede them through pedantic psychological analysis and introspection or else considerations of status, wealth or lineage. Our feelings will tell us clearly enough when we have reached our destiny. To ask someone with any degree of rigour why exactly they have chosen a particular partner is – in the Romantic world-view – simply an unnecessary and offensive misunderstanding of love: true love is an instinct that accurately and naturally settles on those with a capacity to make us happy. The Romantic attitude sounds warm and kind. Its originators certainly imagined that it would bring an end to the sort of unhappy relationships previously brokered by parents and society. The only difficulty is that our obedience to instinct has, very often, proved to be a disaster of its own. Respecting the special feelings we get around certain people in nightclubs and train stations, parties and websites and that Romanticism so ably celebrated in art appears not to have led us to be any happier in our unions than a Medieval couple shackled into marriage by two royal courts keen to preserve the sovereignty of a slice of ancestral land. ‘Instinct’ has been little better than ‘calculation’ in underwriting the quality of our love stories. Romanticism would not at this point, however, give up the argument quite so easily. It would simply ascribe the difficulties we often have in love to not having looked hard enough for that central fixture of Romantic reverie: the right person. This being is inevitably still out there (every soul must have its soulmate, Romanticism assures us), it is just that we haven’t managed to track them down – yet. So we must continue the search, with all the technology and tenacity necessary, and maybe, once the divorce has come through and the house has been sold, we’ll get it right. But there’s another school of thought, this one influenced by psychoanalysis, which challenges the notion that instinct invariably draws us to those who will make us happy. The theory insists that we don’t fall in love first and foremost with those who care for us in ideal ways, we fall in love with those who care for us in familiar ways. Adult love emerges from a template of how we should be loved that was created in childhood and is likely to be entwined with a range of problematic compulsions that militate in key ways against our chances of growth. We may believe we are seeking happiness in love, but what we are really after is familiarity. We are looking to re-create, within our adult relationships, the very feelings we knew so well in childhood – and which were rarely limited to just tenderness and care. The love most of us will have tasted early on was confused with other, more destructive dynamics: feelings of wanting to help an adult who was out of control, of being deprived of a parent’s warmth or scared of his or her anger, or of not feeling secure enough to communicate our trickier wishes. How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little too right – in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding and reliable – given that in our hearts, such rightness feels foreign and unearned. We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration. Psychoanalysis calls the process whereby we identify our partners ‘object choice’ – and recommends that we try to understand the factors semi-consciously governing our attractions in order to interrupt the unhealthier patterns that might be at play. Our instincts – our strong undercurrents of attraction and revulsion – stem from complicated experiences we had when we were far too young to understand them, and which linger in the antechambers of our minds. Psychoanalysis doesn’t wish to suggest that everything about our attractions will be deformed. We may have quite legitimate aspirations to positive qualities: intelligence, charm, generosity… But we are also liable to be fatefully drawn towards trickier tendencies: someone who is often absent, or treats us with a little disdain, or needs to be surrounded all the time by friends, or cannot master their finances. However paradoxical it can sound, without these tricky behaviours, we may simply not be able to feel passionate or tender with someone. Alternatively, we may have been so traumatised by a parental figure, we cannot approach any partner who shares qualities with them of any kind, even ones disconnected from their negative sides. We might in love be rigidly intolerant of anyone who is intelligent, or punctual or interested in science, simply because these were the traits of someone who caused us a great deal of difficulty early on. To choose our partners wisely, we need to tease out how our compulsions to suffering or our rigid flights from trauma may be playing themselves out in our feelings of attraction. A useful starting place is to ask ourselves (perhaps in the company of a large sheet of paper, a pen and a free afternoon) what sort of people really put us off. Revulsion and disgust are useful first guides because we are likely to recognize that some of the traits that make us shiver are not objectively negative and yet feel to us distinctly off-putting. We might, for example, sense that someone who asks us too much about ourselves, or is very tender or dependable, will seem extremely eerie and frightening. And we might equally well, along the way, recognize that a degree of cruelty or distance belong to an odd list of the things we appear genuinely to need in order to love. It can be tricky to avoid self-censorship here, but the point isn’t to represent ourselves as reassuring, predictable people, but to get to know the curious quirks of our own psyches. We’ll tend to find that some ostensibly pretty nice things are getting caught in our love filters: people who are eloquent, clever, reliable, sunny can set off loud alarms. This is vital knowledge. We should pause and try to fathom where the aversions come from, what aspects of our past have made it so hard for us to accept certain sorts of emotional nourishment. Each time we recognize a negative, we’re discovering a crucial association in our own minds: we’re alighting on an impossibility of love based on associations from the past projected onto the present. An additional way we can get at the associations which circulate powerfully in the less noticed corners of our brains is to finish stub-sentences, that invite us to respond to things that might charm or repel us about someone. We get to see our own reactions more clearly when we write things down without thinking too much about our answers, catching the mind’s unconscious at work. For instance, we can deliberately jot the first things that come into our heads when we read the following: • If I tell a partner how much I need them, they will… • When someone tells me they really need me, I… • If someone can’t cope, I… • When someone tells me to get my act together, I … • If I were to be frank about my anxieties … • If my partner told me not to worry, I’d… • When someone blames me unfairly, I … Our honestly described reactions are legacies. They are revealing underlying assumptions we have acquired about what love can look like. We may start to get a clearer picture that our vision of what we are looking for in another person might not be an especially good guide to our personal or mutual happiness. Examining our emotional histories, we see that we can’t be attracted to just anyone. Getting to know the past, we come to recognise our earlier associations for what they are: generalisations we formed – entirely understandably – on the basis of just one or, hugely impressive, examples. We’ve unknowingly turned some local associations into strict rules for relationships. Even if we can’t radically shift the pattern, it’s useful to know that we are carrying a ball and chain. It can make us more careful of ourselves when we feel overwhelmed by a certainty that we’ve met the one, after a few minutes chatting at the bar. Ultimately, we stand to be liberated to love different people to our initial ‘types’, because we find that the qualities we like, and the ones we very much fear, are found in different constellations from those we encountered in the people who first taught us about affection, long ago in a childhood we are starting at last to understand and free ourselves from. ©️The Counsellor0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 236 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
RED FLAGS: How to Shift From Low-Value to High-Value Activities That Leads to Money & Influence
Many people are not broke because they are lazy, they are stuck because their daily actions are low-value.
Low value actions or activities daily cannot lead to influence and high income.
Here is how (10 strategies to apply) to shift from low value activities to high value, money making, influence building moves starting today.
Most people wake up into distraction and hustle into nothingness.
They stay “busy” doing what keeps them broke, obscure, and overworked.
In this quick strategy content, I’ll show you how to restructure your daily life around high-value activities that actually lead to influence and income.
This is not theory. I use this, and I have restructure the lives of hundreds of clients through this and more.
Let's get started.
1. Audit Your Day Like an Investor
Write down what you did for the last 3 days.
Categorize every activity into the following:
$0 activity
$10/hr task
$100/hr move
$1,000/hr decision
Then ask: Why am I doing what’s keeping me small?
Clarity before strategy.
This will help you see where you are dedicating most of your time and energy that is either leading to zero impact or high impact.
3. Identify Your Income-Triggering Activities
Many people are clueless about this.
There are only 3 that matter:
1. Value Creation (what you produce, teach, or offer)
2. Offer Placement (where/how you sell it)
3. Relationship Building (clients, partners, mentors) Everything else must serve these three.
Note: I am currently hosting Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income Summit.
Day 1 was yesterday.
Day 2 is today at 8pm GMT+1.
Here is link for day 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vidm_X-6YWE&t=3s
Zoom details to join for day 2 and day 3 at 8pm GMT+1
Meeting ID: 883 5775 0906 Passcode: 0000
Join the Gentlemen WhatsApp group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HEH7vZ35YHO5nwnCJl66VY
4. Combine “To-Do” Lists with “Power Blocks”
I don't just have a to-do list. I have times within the day I block to focus on these core things. I put my phone on flight mode. I am writing this content during my block time.
Stop reacting all day.
Let's say you are in business...
Design 3 Power Blocks per day:
- Creation (content, product, value)
- Conversion (DMs, calls, offers)
- Connection (follow-up, networking)
You’ll get more done in 3 blocks than most do in a week.
Try it and come share your testimony (smiles).
7. Put Your Value in Circulation Daily
Post your value.
Pitch your value.
Publish your value.
DM people about your value.
Do something daily that puts your value in front of people.
No circulation, no money.
Visibility is a money magnet. You can’t get paid in silence.
Comment "I hear you Sir."
Free: If you want to elevate your value, download my free value ascension course for free here: https://stan.store/Joybert
10. Make Boldness a Daily Practice
Boldness is a skill and it’s profitable. One of my mentor taught me this.
- Make the uncomfortable ask.
- Show up when it’s inconvenient.
- Sell before you feel “ready.”
Your money will never grow beyond your courage.
To read all the strategic actions click: https://javnyuyjoybert.substack.com/p/red-flags-how-to-shift-from-low-value
Comment “High Value” if this challenged you.
Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |
To read all the strategic actions click: https://javnyuyjoybert.substack.com/p/red-flags-how-to-shift-from-low-valueRED FLAGS: How to Shift From Low-Value to High-Value Activities That Leads to Money & Influence Many people are not broke because they are lazy, they are stuck because their daily actions are low-value. Low value actions or activities daily cannot lead to influence and high income. Here is how (10 strategies to apply) to shift from low value activities to high value, money making, influence building moves starting today. Most people wake up into distraction and hustle into nothingness. They stay “busy” doing what keeps them broke, obscure, and overworked. In this quick strategy content, I’ll show you how to restructure your daily life around high-value activities that actually lead to influence and income. This is not theory. I use this, and I have restructure the lives of hundreds of clients through this and more. Let's get started. ✅ 1. Audit Your Day Like an Investor Write down what you did for the last 3 days. Categorize every activity into the following: $0 activity $10/hr task $100/hr move $1,000/hr decision Then ask: Why am I doing what’s keeping me small? Clarity before strategy. This will help you see where you are dedicating most of your time and energy that is either leading to zero impact or high impact. ✅ 3. Identify Your Income-Triggering Activities Many people are clueless about this. There are only 3 that matter: 1. Value Creation (what you produce, teach, or offer) 2. Offer Placement (where/how you sell it) 3. Relationship Building (clients, partners, mentors) Everything else must serve these three. Note: I am currently hosting Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income Summit. Day 1 was yesterday. Day 2 is today at 8pm GMT+1. Here is link for day 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vidm_X-6YWE&t=3s Zoom details to join for day 2 and day 3 at 8pm GMT+1 Meeting ID: 883 5775 0906 Passcode: 0000 Join the Gentlemen WhatsApp group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HEH7vZ35YHO5nwnCJl66VY ✅ 4. Combine “To-Do” Lists with “Power Blocks” I don't just have a to-do list. I have times within the day I block to focus on these core things. I put my phone on flight mode. I am writing this content during my block time. Stop reacting all day. Let's say you are in business... Design 3 Power Blocks per day: - Creation (content, product, value) - Conversion (DMs, calls, offers) - Connection (follow-up, networking) You’ll get more done in 3 blocks than most do in a week. Try it and come share your testimony (smiles). ✅ 7. Put Your Value in Circulation Daily Post your value. Pitch your value. Publish your value. DM people about your value. Do something daily that puts your value in front of people. No circulation, no money. Visibility is a money magnet. You can’t get paid in silence. Comment "I hear you Sir." Free: If you want to elevate your value, download my free value ascension course for free here: https://stan.store/Joybert ✅ 10. Make Boldness a Daily Practice Boldness is a skill and it’s profitable. One of my mentor taught me this. - Make the uncomfortable ask. - Show up when it’s inconvenient. - Sell before you feel “ready.” Your money will never grow beyond your courage. To read all the strategic actions click: https://javnyuyjoybert.substack.com/p/red-flags-how-to-shift-from-low-value Comment “High Value” if this challenged you. Dr. Joybert Javnyuy I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak | To read all the strategic actions click: https://javnyuyjoybert.substack.com/p/red-flags-how-to-shift-from-low-value0 Σχόλια 1 Μοιράστηκε 217 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income Summit.
Did you miss day 1 yesterday?
Here is the link.
https://youtu.be/Vidm_X-6YWE?si=IE5qe7Ob1_VMS2Ez
Don't miss day 2 today at 8pm GMT+1.
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