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*BREAKING OF CURSES 3.*

*SCRIPTURE READING Gen 4:4-10.*

*KEY VERSE:* As the bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying, so the curse causeless shall not come.
Prov 26:2.

Brethren, there are reasons for curses.
The Bible clearly states that curse causeless shall not come, which means there must be a reason for a curse to be placed on individuals, families, communities and Nations.
Behind every curse there is a cause.
To every affliction in a man's life, there is a root; and when the root is discovered and rooted out, then comes refreshment.

He that diggeth a pit shall fall into it; and whoso breaketh an hedge, a serpent shall bite him.
Ecl 8:10.
For a curse to be in operation, it is either, you break the hedge or your parents break the hedge for the curse to show up in your life.

A curse is little different from a spell, a spell is cast from the region of the occult, from witchcraft, from satanic altar, you don't need to offend anybody, as long they don't want you to be blessed, they will just cast a spell to punish you or to frustrate your destiny.
But for every curse there must be a cause.

*FOR EXAMPLES*

1. Adam suffer a curse because he disobey God by eating the fruit of the tree in the midst of the garden. Gen 3:17

2. There was famine in the days of David, year to year because Saul killed the Gibeonites. Israel had sworn in the name of the Lord to keep them alive but Saul break the oath of the Lord by killing them and it's resulted to a curse on the entire Nation of Israel, year to year famine was prevailing, David have to go and appeal to the Gibeonites for the curse to be removed 2 Samuel 21:1-3.

*WHAT TO DO.*

1. Since there is no smoke without fire, if you want the smoke to stop, look for the fire and put it off. The same with a curse, you need to find the cause. Who did you offend? Who did your parents offend?

2. When you find the the reason why you or your family members are under a curse (who you offended) then go and apologise, ask for forgiveness, make restitution where necessary.

3. Go to a deliverance minister to break the curse or go to God in prayers on curse breaking deliverance prayers.

For counselling and prayer requests contact at Christ Royal Evangelical ministry on phone/wassap +2349044906193,
I will get back to you.

*MORNING PRAYERS*

1. Lord, reveal to me what area of my life I need repentance or restitution, in Jesus' name

2. Lord, exposed the root cause of the curse ravaging my family in Jesus' name

3. Lord, forgive me for the Sins of my ancestors and delivered me from inherited curses in Jesus' name

4. Lord, I take authority over inherited curses and command them broken now, in Jesus' name

5. Lord, I take authority over any curse emanating from my past associations and relationship, i command them broken now, in Jesus' name

6. Lord, I break every curse that have been in my family even to ten generations before me, in both father and mother sides of my family, in Jesus' name.

7. Lord, i renounce and break every curses in my family lineage in Jesus' name.

8. Lord, I command the spirit behind curses in my family, be bound and get out, in Jesus' name

9. Lord, I break the curse of automatic failures working in my family, in Jesus' name

10. Lord, I take authority over the curse of (sickness, infirmity, deformity) in my family, in Jesus' name

11. Lord, I command every curses that was issued against me, be broken, in Jesus' name

12. Add your personal prayers

*NIGHT PRAYERS*

*SCRIPTURE FOR MEDITATION: Genesis 12:2-3.*

1. Lord, I take authority over every curses that is unconsciously working against me, break, in Jesus' name

2. Lord, let the root of my life be purged by the fire of the Holy Spirit, in Jesus' name

3. Lord, let my foundation be washed in the blood of Jesus in Jesus' name

4. Lord, I break every curse in my family, that was placed on the children to punish their parents, in Jesus' name

5. Lord, I break every curse placed on me out of jealousy, in Jesus' name

6. Lord, I break every clinical and medical curse in my family, in Jesus' name

7. Lord, I break every curse issued against me by satanic ministers, and false prophets, in Jesus' name.

8. Lord, I break every curse from evil prophecies, in Jesus' name

9. Holy Ghost Fire, burn to ashes every sacrifices offered against me, in Jesus' name

10. Lord, I command all evil spirits associated with any curse, to get out of me now, in Jesus' name

Have a great night rest🏿👋

*JESUS IS LORD*

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐇𝐚𝐬 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐀𝐬 𝐀 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 ?
By Peter Obi

We pleaded that the President should show Leadership and visit Benue and Niger States in the spirit of deep national mourning, to offer compassion and solidarity to families torn apart by the senseless massacre of over 200 innocent Nigerians in Benue State and flooding that killed similar number in Niger State.

But what we saw in Benue visit was instead of a solemn, reflective visit, a display that would have been more befitting for the commissioning of reconstructed Enugu-Makurdi highway, a critical road connecting South and Northern Nigeria which had become impassable for years.

The President arrived not in mourning cloth but in celebratory agbada attire, like it was an occasion for joy.

Even more heartbreaking is the role of the State. Rather than been in mourning mood and weeping declared a public holiday, not for reflection or prayer, but to organize fanfare. Schools were shut down. Children who should be mourning their slaughtered classmates, and parents were instead lined up under the rain, rehearsed to sing and dance for the President. In what kind of country does this happen?

We have tragically arrived at a point where condolence visits have become carnivals. A time that should be marked by silence and solemnity is now polluted by banners, music, and rehearsed spectacles. Precious Nigerian lives have been lost, yet we’re clapping, singing, and organizing processions, as though this were a campaign rally.

This is not how any compassionate nation behaves. The energy, resources, and logistics poured into this charade could have gone into food supplies, temporary shelters, medical aid, school support, and trauma counselling for grieving families. Instead, we chose optics over empathy.

Look elsewhere: When President Ramaphosa visited Mthatha after the floods in South Africa, there were no drums. No staged crowds. No rented cheers. Just presence, silence, and action. When Prime Minister Modi went to the site of a crash, no one lined up to welcome him. He came, he mourned, he acted. That is what leadership looks like in moments of pain.

We must ask ourselves: What kind of people have we become?

Enough of this culture of impunity. We are not at war yet our nation is bleeding, and we are clapping. It is not only insensitive, it is dangerous.

Let us not forget: These were human beings, children, mothers, fathers whose blood cries out for justice.

When very sad incidents like this turns to campaign or festival, our Nation Losing Its Soul.

A new Nigeria is POssible! -PO

HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

WATCH YOUR TONE
When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

TIMING
Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

WATCH YOUR EYES
Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

SOOTHE HIM
If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

NO INSULTS
Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

DON'T BOY HIM
Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

DON'T TALK AT HIM
Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

TAKE HIM ON A DATE
Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

DON'T PUSH HIM
Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

BE FLEXIBLE
Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
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Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

Date nights are a must.
Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
We all don’t perceive love the same way.

Go to bed mad sometimes.
Don’t force a resolution.
Sleeping on it does help.

When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
It’s normal.
It will fade.
This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
It helps.
It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

Talk about money.
Talk about your financial goals.
Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

Ask questions like

“What do you need to see more of from me?”
“How can we understand each other better?”

And most importantly, be kind to each other.

Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

Fight for each other.

Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>

*5 WAYS TO COMMUNICATE BETTER WITH YOUR PARTNER*



James 1:19 My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,

A lady complained to me about how her husband rarely listens to her.

She said that anytime she wants to talk with her husband, it's either he is watching TV or he is using his phone.

When she requests his full attention, he will say that she should say what she wants to say, that he's hearing her.

This had happened for several years in their marriage, and she was very sad about it.

During my session with both partners, I decided to find out why he was doing that.

I asked him several questions and discovered that he had seen his parents live that way in his growing up years. So he grew up thinking that that's the right way for a husband to live and interact with his wife..

During my counselling session with them, I shared several tips with them on how to communicate better as couples.

I shared with them something that many couples do not pay attention to - the way you communicate with your spouse is frequently a pattern you picked up in your growing up years from your parents and other adults that you lived with. Your spouse probably picked up some other communication pattern in their growing up years.

Communication is the heart of any successful relationship. Whether you're newly dating or have been married for years, the way you communicate can make or break the bond you share with your partner.

Unfortunately, like the couple whose story I shared, many couples struggle with expressing themselves effectively, leading to misunderstandings, resentment, and emotional distance.

The good news is that regardless of the communication pattern you were exposed to in your growing up years, improving your communication skills is possible!

Here are some of the ways you can communicate better with your partner and foster a deeper connection.

1. Listen to Understand, Not to Respond: Often, we listen to our partners with the intent to respond rather than understand. Active listening involves focusing entirely on what your partner is saying without interrupting or thinking of your reply. By doing this, you show empathy, which can strengthen emotional bonds and make your partner feel truly heard.

2. Be Clear and Direct: Beating around the bush or using passive-aggressive language can create confusion and tension in a relationship. Using passive-aggressive language is a pattern of indirectly expressing negative feelings instead of openly addressing them. So learn to be clear and direct about your thoughts, feelings, and needs. Use “I” statements instead of “You…” to avoid placing blame and encourage open dialogue.

3. Practice Patience: Not every conversation will be easy or comfortable. Learning to be patient with your partner, especially during difficult discussions, can make a huge difference. Give them the time and space to express themselves, and resist the urge to react impulsively. Sometimes, it’s best to take a break if things get too heated.

4. Use Non-verbal Communication: Words aren’t the only way to communicate. Non-verbal cues such as body language, eye contact, and touch can convey affection, concern, and attentiveness. A warm hug or holding hands during a conversation can reinforce emotional connection and make your partner feel supported.

5. Check-In Regularly: Life gets busy, and it’s easy for couples to drift apart if they don’t make time to check in with each other. Schedule regular conversations to talk about how you're feeling and what you both need. These check-ins can help prevent issues from piling up and strengthen your relationship over time.

Effective communication is an ongoing effort that requires practice, patience, and intentionality. It’s not just about what you say, but how you say it. Small shifts in communication habits can lead to a deeper connection and a happier partnership.

By the end of the session with me, this couple recognized where they are not doing well and apologized to each other.

Today, they are living happily and improving their communication skills.

Wife of a former President of Nigeria, Patience Jonathan, has earned a Doctor of Philosophy degree in Psychology, Guidance and Counselling from Ignatius Ajuru University of Education.

This is as she used the occasion to inspire Nigerian women and youths to embrace lifelong learning.

This was disclosed in a statement released by the former first lady’s media adviser, Chris Okeke, on Sunday.

Jonathan speaking at the university’s 43rd Postgraduate Convocation Ceremony on Saturday, highlighted the transformative power of education, stressing that age should never be a barrier to academic


She said,”I feel that no age is too late to achieve your academic dreams, whether you are young or old.

“If I can do it, you can also do it

“I believe that even in retirement, you are not too old to go back to school because education provides the opportunity for one to always refresh his or her brain and learn new things.

“Let me use this opportunity to encourage Nigerian women and the youth to aspire to become the best of themselves through qualitative education.”

She pledged to intensify her efforts in advocating for their upliftment and to continue promoting dialogue for the betterment of society.

Reflecting on the journey, she credited divine grace and the support of her family for her success.

“First of all, I am very grateful to the Almighty God who has made today a reality.

“He saw me through the programme so I am very happy today.

“I also thank my family sincerely, especially my lovely husband, His Excellency Dr Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, former President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, for all his support and very useful suggestions.


“I am also very grateful to my beautiful and lovely children for showing great understanding and love throughout the period I was engaged in this programme.

“I appreciate all my friends for their encouragement. I feel very happy today.”

Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

Date nights are a must.
Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

Learn each others love language.
We all don’t perceive love the same way.

Go to bed mad sometimes.
Don’t force a resolution.
Sleeping on it does help.

When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

It will get boring sometimes.
Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
It’s normal.
It will fade.
This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
It helps.
It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

Talk about money.
Talk about your financial goals.
Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

Ask questions like

“What do you need to see more of from me?”
“How can we understand each other better?”

And most importantly, be kind to each other.

Love each other.

Fight for each other.

Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

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The devastating impact of loneliness in young children.

Loneliness is a silent struggle that often goes unnoticed, even when kids seemingly have everything they need – a roof over their heads, food on the table, nice clothes, and material comforts. But the truth is, these external things are not enough.

As parents, we may get caught up in the busyness of life, juggling work, responsibilities, and commitments.

....And often we may unintentionally overlook the profound importance of our presence in our children's lives.

We might assume that material provisions are sufficient, but they are not. Our children need more than just physical necessities – they need our love, attention, and emotional support.

Loneliness can be especially devastating for young minds. When kids feel disconnected, isolated, and unheard, it can have long-lasting effects on their mental and emotional well-being. It's heartbreaking to think that children, who should be experiencing the joy and wonder of childhood, are instead battling feelings of emptiness and despair.

.....We need to recognize the significance of building open lines of communication with our kids. We must create an environment where they feel safe, heard, and understood. It's crucial to encourage them to express their thoughts, feelings, and struggles without fear of judgment or rejection.

By fostering a culture of open communication, we can help prevent the unimaginable pain that some children endure. Suicide rates among young people are alarmingly high, and loneliness often plays a role in their struggles. We cannot underestimate the power of being present and attentive in our children's lives.

Let's prioritize quality time with our kids – not just physically being in the same space, but truly engaging with them, listening to their stories, dreams, and fears. Let's create meaningful connections, nurturing their emotional well-being and helping them navigate life's challenges.

Remember, it's not about the material possessions we provide; it's about the love and support we offer. Our children deserve our unwavering presence and the reassurance that they are never alone in this world.

Together, let's make a difference by being there for our children, building bridges of understanding, and instilling in them a sense of belonging and love. Their precious hearts and minds depend on it.

LOVE YOUR CHILDREN! ~ Lorena Acosta.

I am not a parent but I was once a child. If I can give one piece of advice to all parents is that, TIME is priceless, it is everything.

Be present and consistent with your kids, every day of their life. Yes, food, housing, clothes, school is important but it's not enough. Make sure to have a one on one with your kid every day, or at least a couple times a week. Make them feel heard, included, appreciated, safe. Be their best friend but most of all their parents to protect and guide them.

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Stella Etoh-Nombo
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"PROFESSIONS IN NIGERIA THAT END IN POVERTY — AND HOW TO ESCAPE BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE"

This one hits hard, exposes painful truths, makes people emotional, and offers real escape plans. It’s designed to go viral, especially with Nigerian audiences.

“35 YEARS OF SERVICE... AND NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT?”
A painful post about teaching, civil service, healthcare, and other respected professions that leave people broke after retirement.

Have you ever seen a retired teacher in Nigeria?

Bent back… faded glasses… walking to a ministry office every Monday with a pension file tucked under one arm, hoping—praying—that this will be the day his name finally enters payment batch?

Ever watched a civil servant who once wore sharp suits and supervised millions… now begging his son for ₦2,000?

Have you seen a nurse who worked night shifts for 30 years… now sitting in her one-room apartment, sharing malaria drugs with her neighbors because she can’t afford to refill her own prescription?

This post is for them.

This post is for anyone still believing that passion, loyalty, and salary alone will protect them from poverty.

In Nigeria, some professions will give you respect while you’re working… and regrets when you retire.

And here’s the painful part:

It’s not the job that’s the problem.
It’s the mindset people carry while doing it.

1. TEACHING – THE POVERTY HEADQUARTERS IN NIGERIA

Let’s not even sugarcoat it.
Teaching is 001 when it comes to professions that give you a big heart and an empty account.

You build nations, raise presidents, shape doctors and engineers…

Yet when your legs grow weak, and your voice gets tired, the same system throws you into silence.

Let’s talk facts:

Starting salary? Between ₦75k to ₦80k.

Transport fare and food? ₦1,500 – ₦2,000 per day.

What’s left after family, church contributions, and survival? PEANUTS.

You wake up by 5 a.m., go teach stubborn students, mark 120 scripts, attend endless meetings, go home with headaches, and repeat it 5 days a week…

…Only to retire and depend on pension money that doesn’t even come regularly.

Reality:

Teachers get respect, not results.

Teachers are praised in speeches but punished by salary structures.

Teachers retire tired and often broke.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Monetize what you know: Start online tutorials, digital lesson notes, or eBooks for students.

Private coaching: Set up home lessons for rich kids. They’ll pay you more than government ever did.

Start educational businesses: Lesson centres, daycare, education consulting.

Don’t wait for pension—start investing in land, side businesses, or even digital products now.

> "You can die for education in Nigeria—and still die poor."

2. CIVIL SERVANTS – OGA IN OFFICE, STRUGGLER AT HOME

You see them every day:
They dress sharp, hold titles like “Chief Planning Officer” or “Deputy Director”…

But many civil servants are just surviving on loans and promises.

You spend 30 years working… then 3 years chasing your pension.

By the time you retire, your firstborn is already feeding you.

Why does it happen?

Blind loyalty to government.

Zero investment mindset.

Living above their means just to “look the part.”

ESCAPE PLAN:

Use your salary as seed, not your source.
Invest in small businesses, land, or trade.

Learn financial literacy.
Budget, save, and plan your exit before retirement catches you unaware.

Build side income: farms, rentals, retail, even POS.

3. NURSES & HEALTH WORKERS – YOU SAVED OTHERS, BUT WHO SAVED YOU?

Long nights. Ward duties. Emergency calls. Saving lives every day.

But in Nigeria? Nurses retire to high blood pressure, unpaid pensions, and hospitals they can’t afford to enter.

You worked for the system—but the system didn’t work for you.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Start private elderly care or mobile health services.

Build an online brand: health tips, consultations, and products.

Create health coaching services for busy professionals.

Learn to turn your medical knowledge into a product or service.

4. POLICE & MILITARY – “RISKED LIFE, REWARDED WITH POVERTY”

You carried gun. Protected lives. Slept in bush. Fought robbers.

But guess what?

When you remove that uniform, you’ll see that poverty has no respect for bravery.

Many ex-officers are suffering. Not because they didn’t serve—but because they didn’t build.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Start a security consulting firm.

Offer VIP protection services or training programs.

Invest in logistics, transport, or real estate while still in service.

Don’t spend all your salary drinking at mess—buy land.

5. CLERGY & CHURCH WORKERS – “GOD’S WORKER, YET HUNGRY”

Not every pastor is rich.

Many preach for 40 years and still die broke. Why?

No financial plan.

No personal investment.

Total dependence on unpredictable offerings.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Write devotionals, run marriage counselling, or record online teachings.

Start a Christian YouTube or podcast platform.

Sell books or branded spiritual journals.

Use your influence to raise partnerships for income projects.

Even Apostle Paul made tents. Why are you depending only on tithe?

6. ENGINEERS, DOCTORS, LAWYERS – IT’S NOT BY TITLE

Yes, you read that right.

In Nigeria, title is not equal to success.
There are engineers begging for jobs.
Doctors borrowing transport fare.
Lawyers trekking to court.

Why?

Because school taught them how to be professionals—but not how to build wealth.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Learn business. Learn branding. Learn packaging.

Use your knowledge to offer premium services online.

Start side hustles that fund your future—don’t wait for “better job offers.”

Network with business-minded people, not just fellow professionals.

7. FARMERS – THE PEOPLE WHO FEED THE NATION… BUT CAN’T FEED THEMSELVES

No jokes.

Farmers work from dawn to dusk… only to sell at bad prices, face middlemen, and lose harvests to lack of storage.

They produce for Nigeria, yet they beg to survive.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Join or create farming co-ops.

Invest in agro-processing or distribution.

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HOW TO FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE


1. When your spouse entertains another person, don't attack or confront the other person, address the matter with your spouse and get to the root of the matter. Is there a lust issue, an unmet need, or a misunderstanding?

2. Don't wait for problems to come in your marriage to start praying for your marriage. The best time to cover your marriage is when things are good

3. When your in-laws don't like you, don't focus so much on pushing back on them; focus more on improving the quality of bond you have with your spouse - that is the most important relationship

4. When your spouse makes a mistake, separate the mistake from the person. Don't end up hating or pushing away the same person you would like to build marriage with. Hate the sin, not the sinner

5. When people are gossiping or talking ill about your marriage, don't lose sleep over it. What matters most is what do you both think about your marriage

6. When your marriage is under spiritual attack, remember your spouse is not your enemy. "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." ~ Ephesians 6:12

7. When your spouse no longer spends much time with you, don't complain, order, give an ultimatum or threaten; be peaceful, warm, kind and your spouse will be attracted back to you

8. When you think counselling might help your marriage, don't tell your spouse he/she needs to go for therapy because they are the problem, suggest counselling so you both can understand each other and improve your marriage. It will make your spouse feel less judged

9. When you realize you two are suddenly fighting or arguing frequently, change strategies. Lose the arguments, tell your spouse "I hear you" and go on appreciation mode, praising your spouse. It will restore back peace and you two will have less reasons to quarrel. Focus on the bigger picture

10. When you notice your spouse is spending a lot of time using the phone. Send your spouse flirtatious messages, you two get to chat even if it is in the same house. Be fun, naughty, conversational, use the phone to your advantage

It’s know as reverse way of dealing with things to make the best of it

PLEASE READ THIS!!

1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends.

2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife.

3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies

4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow.

5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life.

6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future.

7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security.

9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart.

10. Put on your Wedding ring always

11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you.

12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity.

14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head.

15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.

16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them.

17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married.

18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted

19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away.

20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women.

21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor

22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs.

23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere.

24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details.

25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move

26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm.

27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties.

28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol.

29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure.

30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom.

31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow.

32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it.

33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it.

34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife.

35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that.

36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you.

37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down.

38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady.

39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about

40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere.

41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man.

42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection.

43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world.

44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that.

45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted

46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself.

47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife.

48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is

49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble.

50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife.

51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying.

52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you.

53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage.

54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife.

55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together.

56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife.

57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy

58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure.

59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage.

60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage.

God bless you .

PLEASE READ THIS!!

1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends.

2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife.

3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies

4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow.

5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life.

6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future.

7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security.

9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart.

10. Put on your Wedding ring always

11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you.

12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity.

14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head.

15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.

16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them.

17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married.

18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted

19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away.

20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women.

21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor

22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs.

23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere.

24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details.

25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move

26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm.

27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties.

28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol.

29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure.

30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom.

31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow.

32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it.

33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it.

34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife.

35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that.

36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you.

37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down.

38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady.

39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about

40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere.

41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man.

42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection.

43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world.

44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that.

45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted

46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself.

47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife.

48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is

49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble.

50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife.

51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying.

52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you.

53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage.

54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife.

55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together.

56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife.

57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy

58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure.

59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage.

60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage.

God bless you .