Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅ Follow our other Channel for only relationship teachings and guidance. Click the link below and follow 👇https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1K

The devastating impact of loneliness in young children. Loneliness is a silent struggle that often goes unnoticed, even when kids seemingly have everything they need – a roof over their heads, food on the table, nice clothes, and material comforts. But the truth is, these external things are not enough. As parents, we may get caught up in the busyness of life, juggling work, responsibilities, and commitments. ....And often we may unintentionally overlook the profound importance of our presence in our children's lives. We might assume that material provisions are sufficient, but they are not. Our children need more than just physical necessities – they need our love, attention, and emotional support. Loneliness can be especially devastating for young minds. When kids feel disconnected, isolated, and unheard, it can have long-lasting effects on their mental and emotional well-being. It's heartbreaking to think that children, who should be experiencing the joy and wonder of childhood, are instead battling feelings of emptiness and despair. .....We need to recognize the significance of building open lines of communication with our kids. We must create an environment where they feel safe, heard, and understood. It's crucial to encourage them to express their thoughts, feelings, and struggles without fear of judgment or rejection. By fostering a culture of open communication, we can help prevent the unimaginable pain that some children endure. Suicide rates among young people are alarmingly high, and loneliness often plays a role in their struggles. We cannot underestimate the power of being present and attentive in our children's lives. Let's prioritize quality time with our kids – not just physically being in the same space, but truly engaging with them, listening to their stories, dreams, and fears. Let's create meaningful connections, nurturing their emotional well-being and helping them navigate life's challenges. Remember, it's not about the material possessions we provide; it's about the love and support we offer. Our children deserve our unwavering presence and the reassurance that they are never alone in this world. Together, let's make a difference by being there for our children, building bridges of understanding, and instilling in them a sense of belonging and love. Their precious hearts and minds depend on it. LOVE YOUR CHILDREN! ~ Lorena Acosta. I am not a parent but I was once a child. If I can give one piece of advice to all parents is that, TIME is priceless, it is everything. Be present and consistent with your kids, every day of their life. Yes, food, housing, clothes, school is important but it's not enough. Make sure to have a one on one with your kid every day, or at least a couple times a week. Make them feel heard, included, appreciated, safe. Be their best friend but most of all their parents to protect and guide them. wa.me/237675407460⁩ Stella Etoh-Nombo #parentingchallenges #counselling #support #motivation #mentalhealth #traumahealing #help #healingtrauma

"PROFESSIONS IN NIGERIA THAT END IN POVERTY — AND HOW TO ESCAPE BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE" This one hits hard, exposes painful truths, makes people emotional, and offers real escape plans. It’s designed to go viral, especially with Nigerian audiences. “35 YEARS OF SERVICE... AND NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT?” A painful post about teaching, civil service, healthcare, and other respected professions that leave people broke after retirement. Have you ever seen a retired teacher in Nigeria? Bent back… faded glasses… walking to a ministry office every Monday with a pension file tucked under one arm, hoping—praying—that this will be the day his name finally enters payment batch? Ever watched a civil servant who once wore sharp suits and supervised millions… now begging his son for ₦2,000? Have you seen a nurse who worked night shifts for 30 years… now sitting in her one-room apartment, sharing malaria drugs with her neighbors because she can’t afford to refill her own prescription? This post is for them. This post is for anyone still believing that passion, loyalty, and salary alone will protect them from poverty. In Nigeria, some professions will give you respect while you’re working… and regrets when you retire. And here’s the painful part: It’s not the job that’s the problem. It’s the mindset people carry while doing it. 1. TEACHING – THE POVERTY HEADQUARTERS IN NIGERIA Let’s not even sugarcoat it. Teaching is 001 when it comes to professions that give you a big heart and an empty account. You build nations, raise presidents, shape doctors and engineers… Yet when your legs grow weak, and your voice gets tired, the same system throws you into silence. Let’s talk facts: Starting salary? Between ₦75k to ₦80k. Transport fare and food? ₦1,500 – ₦2,000 per day. What’s left after family, church contributions, and survival? PEANUTS. You wake up by 5 a.m., go teach stubborn students, mark 120 scripts, attend endless meetings, go home with headaches, and repeat it 5 days a week… …Only to retire and depend on pension money that doesn’t even come regularly. Reality: Teachers get respect, not results. Teachers are praised in speeches but punished by salary structures. Teachers retire tired and often broke. ESCAPE PLAN: Monetize what you know: Start online tutorials, digital lesson notes, or eBooks for students. Private coaching: Set up home lessons for rich kids. They’ll pay you more than government ever did. Start educational businesses: Lesson centres, daycare, education consulting. Don’t wait for pension—start investing in land, side businesses, or even digital products now. > "You can die for education in Nigeria—and still die poor." 2. CIVIL SERVANTS – OGA IN OFFICE, STRUGGLER AT HOME You see them every day: They dress sharp, hold titles like “Chief Planning Officer” or “Deputy Director”… But many civil servants are just surviving on loans and promises. You spend 30 years working… then 3 years chasing your pension. By the time you retire, your firstborn is already feeding you. Why does it happen? Blind loyalty to government. Zero investment mindset. Living above their means just to “look the part.” ESCAPE PLAN: Use your salary as seed, not your source. Invest in small businesses, land, or trade. Learn financial literacy. Budget, save, and plan your exit before retirement catches you unaware. Build side income: farms, rentals, retail, even POS. 3. NURSES & HEALTH WORKERS – YOU SAVED OTHERS, BUT WHO SAVED YOU? Long nights. Ward duties. Emergency calls. Saving lives every day. But in Nigeria? Nurses retire to high blood pressure, unpaid pensions, and hospitals they can’t afford to enter. You worked for the system—but the system didn’t work for you. ESCAPE PLAN: Start private elderly care or mobile health services. Build an online brand: health tips, consultations, and products. Create health coaching services for busy professionals. Learn to turn your medical knowledge into a product or service. 4. POLICE & MILITARY – “RISKED LIFE, REWARDED WITH POVERTY” You carried gun. Protected lives. Slept in bush. Fought robbers. But guess what? When you remove that uniform, you’ll see that poverty has no respect for bravery. Many ex-officers are suffering. Not because they didn’t serve—but because they didn’t build. ESCAPE PLAN: Start a security consulting firm. Offer VIP protection services or training programs. Invest in logistics, transport, or real estate while still in service. Don’t spend all your salary drinking at mess—buy land. 5. CLERGY & CHURCH WORKERS – “GOD’S WORKER, YET HUNGRY” Not every pastor is rich. Many preach for 40 years and still die broke. Why? No financial plan. No personal investment. Total dependence on unpredictable offerings. ESCAPE PLAN: Write devotionals, run marriage counselling, or record online teachings. Start a Christian YouTube or podcast platform. Sell books or branded spiritual journals. Use your influence to raise partnerships for income projects. Even Apostle Paul made tents. Why are you depending only on tithe? 6. ENGINEERS, DOCTORS, LAWYERS – IT’S NOT BY TITLE Yes, you read that right. In Nigeria, title is not equal to success. There are engineers begging for jobs. Doctors borrowing transport fare. Lawyers trekking to court. Why? Because school taught them how to be professionals—but not how to build wealth. ESCAPE PLAN: Learn business. Learn branding. Learn packaging. Use your knowledge to offer premium services online. Start side hustles that fund your future—don’t wait for “better job offers.” Network with business-minded people, not just fellow professionals. 7. FARMERS – THE PEOPLE WHO FEED THE NATION… BUT CAN’T FEED THEMSELVES No jokes. Farmers work from dawn to dusk… only to sell at bad prices, face middlemen, and lose harvests to lack of storage. They produce for Nigeria, yet they beg to survive. ESCAPE PLAN: Join or create farming co-ops. Invest in agro-processing or distribution. Partner with people who can help scale, export, or digitize farming. Create farm tours, organic products, or digital farm courses. THE REAL ENEMY IS NOT THE JOB. IT’S YOUR MINDSET. Suffering is not holy. Loyalty is not a retirement plan. Start investing now. Start building side income. Stop eating all your salary. Stop saying “It’s too late.” Whether you’re 25 or 55… the best time to start was yesterday. The next best time is NOW. IF THIS POST TOUCHED YOU: Tag a teacher. Tag a civil servant. Tag a nurse or police officer. Tag that your uncle who believes pension will save him. SHARE this post. Let the world see the truth. Because in Nigeria? Profession can give you praise… but only financial wisdom can give you peace. *Copied*

HOW TO FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 1. When your spouse entertains another person, don't attack or confront the other person, address the matter with your spouse and get to the root of the matter. Is there a lust issue, an unmet need, or a misunderstanding? 2. Don't wait for problems to come in your marriage to start praying for your marriage. The best time to cover your marriage is when things are good 3. When your in-laws don't like you, don't focus so much on pushing back on them; focus more on improving the quality of bond you have with your spouse - that is the most important relationship 4. When your spouse makes a mistake, separate the mistake from the person. Don't end up hating or pushing away the same person you would like to build marriage with. Hate the sin, not the sinner 5. When people are gossiping or talking ill about your marriage, don't lose sleep over it. What matters most is what do you both think about your marriage 6. When your marriage is under spiritual attack, remember your spouse is not your enemy. "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." ~ Ephesians 6:12 7. When your spouse no longer spends much time with you, don't complain, order, give an ultimatum or threaten; be peaceful, warm, kind and your spouse will be attracted back to you 8. When you think counselling might help your marriage, don't tell your spouse he/she needs to go for therapy because they are the problem, suggest counselling so you both can understand each other and improve your marriage. It will make your spouse feel less judged 9. When you realize you two are suddenly fighting or arguing frequently, change strategies. Lose the arguments, tell your spouse "I hear you" and go on appreciation mode, praising your spouse. It will restore back peace and you two will have less reasons to quarrel. Focus on the bigger picture 10. When you notice your spouse is spending a lot of time using the phone. Send your spouse flirtatious messages, you two get to chat even if it is in the same house. Be fun, naughty, conversational, use the phone to your advantage It’s know as reverse way of dealing with things to make the best of it 👌

PLEASE READ THIS!! 1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends. 2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife. 3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies 4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow. 5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life. 6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future. 7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners 8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security. 9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart. 10. Put on your Wedding ring always 11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you. 12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly 13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity. 14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head. 15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet. 16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them. 17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married. 18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted 19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away. 20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women. 21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor 22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs. 23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere. 24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details. 25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move 26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm. 27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties. 28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol. 29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure. 30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom. 31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow. 32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it. 33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it. 34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife. 35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that. 36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you. 37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down. 38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady. 39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about 40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere. 41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man. 42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection. 43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world. 44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that. 45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted 46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself. 47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife. 48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is 49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble. 50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife. 51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying. 52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you. 53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage. 54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife. 55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together. 56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife. 57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy 58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure. 59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage. 60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage. God bless you .

PLEASE READ THIS!! 1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends. 2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife. 3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies 4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow. 5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life. 6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future. 7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners 8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security. 9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart. 10. Put on your Wedding ring always 11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you. 12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly 13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity. 14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head. 15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet. 16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them. 17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married. 18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted 19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away. 20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women. 21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor 22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs. 23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere. 24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details. 25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move 26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm. 27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties. 28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol. 29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure. 30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom. 31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow. 32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it. 33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it. 34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife. 35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that. 36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you. 37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down. 38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady. 39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about 40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere. 41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man. 42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection. 43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world. 44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that. 45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted 46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself. 47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife. 48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is 49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble. 50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife. 51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying. 52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you. 53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage. 54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife. 55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together. 56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife. 57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy 58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure. 59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage. 60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage. God bless you .

MARRIED MEN PLEASE READ THIS! 1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends. 2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife. 3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies 4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow. 5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life. 6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future. 7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners 8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security. 9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart. 10. Put on your Wedding ring always 11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you. 12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly 13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity. 14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head. 15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet. 16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them. 17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married. 18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted 19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away. 20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women. 21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor 22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs. 23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere. 24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details. 25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move 26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm. 27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties. 28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol. 29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure. 30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom. 31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow. 32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it. 33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it. 34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife. 35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that. 36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you. 37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down. 38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady. 39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about 40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere. 41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man. 42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection. 43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world. 44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that. 45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted 46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself. 47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife. 48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is 49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble. 50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife. 51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying. 52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you. 53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage. 54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife. 55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together. 56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife. 57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy 58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure. 59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage. 60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage. God bless you ❣️

MARRIED MEN PLEASE READ THIS! 1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends. 2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife. 3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies 4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow. 5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life. 6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future. 7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners 8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security. 9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart. 10. Put on your Wedding ring always 11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you. 12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly 13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity. 14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head. 15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet. 16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them. 17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married. 18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted 19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away. 20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women. 21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor 22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs. 23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere. 24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details. 25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move 26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm. 27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties. 28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol. 29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure. 30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom. 31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow. 32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it. 33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it. 34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife. 35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that. 36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you. 37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down. 38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady. 39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about 40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere. 41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man. 42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection. 43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world. 44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that. 45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted 46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself. 47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife. 48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is 49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble. 50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife. 51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying. 52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you. 53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage. 54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife. 55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together. 56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife. 57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy 58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure. 59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage. 60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage. God bless you ❣️ #ccto #everyonehighlights #buhaymayasawa #relationshipgoals #marriedlife #familyfirst #Relationship #loveislove #highlights2024 #monizationtools