MOST MODERN LOVE ISN’T BUILT ON LOVE ANYMORE Let’s be honest. Dating today isn’t about love. It’s about leverage. It’s about “who has more options?” It’s about “who needs who less?” It’s about “who can hurt who and still walk away like a boss?” We’ve entered an era where: * Vulnerability = weakness. * Effort = desperation. * Commitment = stupidity. Men are not dating with their hearts anymore. They’re dating with survival in mind. Because they’ve seen: 💔 The man who loved deeply… got cheated on. 💔 The man who provided endlessly… got replaced quickly. 💔 The man who stayed loyal… ended up forgotten. So now? Men are cold. Women are calculative. Everyone is scared. We’re chasing “talking stages” and “vibes”, not soul ties. We sleep with each other before we ever speak our fears. We call “healthy love” boring and “toxic love” exciting. It’s sickening! Men are now afraid to love — not because they don’t want to — but because the price of being a lover in this generation is too damn high. They don’t want to be used. They don’t want to be laughed at in group chats. They don’t want to build with someone who’s secretly looking for someone else. So they choose silence over softness. Detachment over devotion. Sex over soul. And it’s killing connection. Let’s be honest again: * Many men are in relationships where they can’t be soft or safe. * Many women are dating men they don’t even like — they just like what he brings. * And many people are trying to heal from love… while still in love. Modern love is no longer love. It’s marketing. It’s manipulation. It’s war disguised as romance. 💔 We have trust issues from people who said “I love you.” 💔 We have broken hearts in healed bodies. 💔 We have relationships with no friendship, no direction, and no damn peace. No one’s fighting for love. Everyone’s protecting their ego. And until we heal our fears and re-learn love — we’ll keep dating with masks… and crying behind closed doors.

AS A LADY, ARE YOU THIS OR THAT???

She was drowning. And nobody noticed… Nobody, except her. It was June 2022, at the World Championships in Budapest. Anita Álvarez, an American artistic swimmer with Mexican roots, was performing a flawless routine. But when her performance ended… she didn’t come up for air. She had lost consciousness. Her body floated for a few seconds, then began to sink. Slowly. All the way to the bottom of the pool. The audience didn’t notice. Neither did the judges. Everyone was clapping. But her coach, Andrea Fuentes, noticed. She knew Anita—knew exactly how long it took her to surface. She felt in her heart that something was wrong. Without thinking twice, she dove in. Fully dressed. Shoes and all. She swam straight down, grabbed Anita by the waist, and brought her back up. She saved her life. This story left me thinking… Who knows you well enough to notice when you’re not okay, even if you’re still smiling? Who would dive in for you without hesitation when you no longer have the strength to come up for air? And more importantly… Would you be that person for someone else? Are you present enough in your loved ones’ lives to sense the moment they start to sink? Or are you just another spectator, clapping, not realizing that inside, they’re fading? In this life, we all need someone who doesn’t just see us— but truly notices us. Someone who knows when we’re about to give up, and has the courage to jump in and save us. YNWA.....

Your Phone Remembers Things You Forgot—Because Your Brain Outsourced It. In 2012, you could remember your best friend’s number. Today, if you lose your phone, you lose your memory. Why? Because your brain doesn’t bother remembering what it knows it can Google. This is called the Google Effect (aka “digital amnesia”). And it’s rewiring your brain. Every time you: •Save it in Notes •Screenshot it •Bookmark it •Send it to yourself on WhatsApp You’re training your brain to forget on purpose. Your mind is like, “Why store this when the phone is doing the job?” You now have the capacity of a supercomputer in your pocket— But the attention span of a goldfish. And here’s the scary part: People don’t even think deeply anymore. They just “consume” content, “store” quotes, and “save” for later. But that “later”? It never comes. You’re not dumb. You’re just disconnected from your internal intelligence. Your thoughts are being outsourced. Your instincts are being dulled. We’re not losing our memory. We’re losing our minds..YNWA

HOW CAN YOU LEAD, WHEN YOU CAN'T CONTROL YOUR LUST???

Wisdom is Profitable to direct, Fear is also wisdom in the face of Danger....Stay alive so you can win your Life Battles..YNWA

Happy New Month, This is a Month to Remember for Different Good Reasons....Just Count your Blessings and name them One by One.YNWA

Christ is the Reason for the Season

Gada me and I will gada you

TRUST THE PROCESS.....

Never let what you hear or see, define your Purpose.