I took a loan of 5 million naira from a bank to fund my wedding, using my landed property as collateral. It was only after everything was over that I realized I had made a huge mistake. During the preparations, my phone was constantly ringing, everyone was calling, giving their suggestions, and offering advice. I felt like people were really with me. I rented the biggest hall, bought expensive clothes, and ordered a world-class cake. Everything looked perfect that day. I actually enjoyed the wedding and all the paparazzi, our wedding was the talk of the town. But I didn’t realize my mistake until after the reception, when people started leaving, the event planners were taking down the decorations, and the chairs were being packed up. When we got to the hotel room, I expected my phone to keep ringing like before, but it was silent. No one called. It was just me and my wife. I looked at her, and it hit me, I had wasted 5 million naira just to impress people. A sudden wave of anger consumed me that night. My wife had no idea I had borrowed the money because I had lied to her, saying it was from my savings. When she tried to get close to me that night, I couldn’t respond. I told her I had a headache and went to sleep. I spent the next four years painfully repaying that debt. If I were to get married again, I wouldn’t even do a reception. I would just pay the dowry, have a small family dinner, and take my wife home. ________________________________________________ The problem is, people hardly listen. Everyone wants to learn from their own experience. How can someone borrow 5 million naira just to fund a wedding? Omo, na overjoy dey cause this kind thing! It was a huge financial mistake, but thank God you came out of it well.

There is one funny thing about Nigerian politics, it's not those that received standing ovation during argument that wins. Dino was bigger and stronger than Natasha but his refusal to adopt political caution lead to his early retirement from politics, don't forget how he lunched a needless political battle against President Buhari and how Yahaya Bello took advantage of his carelessness. Again, Natasha has started her own by fighting a solid system with lies as her sole format for defense, those people she is currently rubbishing are studying her carefully, but for her, she can not be too careful because the applause of the crowd are too loud and deceiving. She believes so much in the power of the tongue of a woman but with time her lies will start fading and the sound of applause will start going down too, and that is the end of her political career. A-s Okama _ _ _ _ #viralpost #history #movies #post #fellowers #PoliticalNews #entertainment

SELF-GROWTH and SELF-WORTH come from within, not from external validation. When you focus on becoming the best version of yourself, your actions and success will speak louder than any words. Keep striving! Keep building, and let your value do the talking! HAPPY NEW MONTH FRIENDS!

Na this woman Senator Natasha H Akpoti that that red Chief said she no fine...? Taaah, Oga go and rest. Ebē gwõ, Ãnmõ Edu (When a meat passes you by you condemn it) Agatu proverb.. Beauty, bravery ,courage, confidence and intelligence laced in one soul. Distinguished Senator Natasha, pls take your flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌹 🌹🌹

“God got you Annie, you are a strong woman." Actress Annie Idibia shares adorable video while having fun with her second daughter, Olivia. This came shortly after Annie made her comeback online following her separation from her husband of many years, 2baba. The heartwarming video of Annie having a good time with Olivia sparked a series of reactions from Nigerians, with some of them advisingher. Photo credit : @annieidibia1/ Instagram

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

Davido, who recently appreciated Annie Idibia was spotted in an event with 2baba's new boo Natasha and they way he reacted around her has left netizens sharing conflicting hot takes. Video, full details in comments.

“What Have You Ever Done for Me?” — The Final Slap Every Simp Receives This is the bitter reality simps refuse to accept until it’s too late. You break your back, you sacrifice, you play sponsor, you pay her fees, you fund her dreams, and the moment she levels up, the words that pierce your soul are: “What have you ever done for me?” Or worse… “Did I ask you to do it?” This is the currency of an ungrateful woman. And it is the death sentence every simp receives after investing in a woman who never respected him in the first place. You see, you thought by giving, funding, and sacrificing, you were securing love. Wrong. You were only paying for temporary company. She’ll smile while she’s broke. She’ll act submissive when she needs help. But the second that degree is in her hand, and she steps into a new circle, you instantly become “too local,” “too small,” “too average.” Now, you’re just the illiterate mechanic, the village boy, the one who was “just helping,” not the man she wants to build with. Make no mistake—women don’t stay with men out of pity. They stay with men they admire. When you sponsor her without demanding accountability, without vetting her character, you are setting yourself up for humiliation. The Code Is Simple: Stop playing philanthropist to ungrateful women. Invest in yourself first. Build your empire before you attempt to build anyone else’s. If you’re not a king, don’t be surprised when she jumps ship for one. Simping is not love—it’s self-inflicted slavery. Be wise. Be ruthless. Be Alpha.

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We need to teach our daughters that, there are five (5) main dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime. These are: 1. School uniform 2. Matriculation gown 3. Graduation gown 4. Wedding gown 5. Maternity dress Let our daughters know this too; That if any girl skips the second dress, she will not get to wear the third one. Our daughters must not rush to wear the fifth dress just because a man has promised them the fourth... ...More so, the fourth one fits better and more prestigious if worn before the fifth dress. If you choose to circulate this message, it will change the future of our young ladies.

TYPES OF WIVES WE HAVE IN OUR SOCIETIES 1. BOXING WIVES : These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene. 2. HEADMASTER WIVES : These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands. 3. POLICE WIFE : This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages. If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities. 4. DICTIONARY WIFE : These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to listen to their mother or sister or friend. Whenever their husband says something, they quickly go to verify from either the mother, sister, friend e.t.c like a dictionary to know if she should go ahead with what their husband instructed or not. 5. PARTY WIVES : They prefer to buy every available handbag and shoe to attend any available party even though her family does not have the financial muscle to entertain such expenses...They are readily available at every party and drinkathon thereby neglecting their children, husband and home.. 6. PAMPERED WIVES : These are also known as daddy's little girl...They call and report their husband to their father at any slight argument or conversation. The rich ones are highly dangerous especially when the husband is working directly for the father.. 7. DUSTBIN WIVES ; The name might sound harsh but they exist...These wives leave the home unkept and dirty and you only see them rushing to clean the house only when they have a visitor at the door...There are several occasions were some husbands get home after a days work only to find the house upside down and dirty. 8. GOD FEARING WIVES : They are caring and loving. Provides emotional needs and creates extra time for family. Guides home spiritually, Very responsible and treats husband and family with respect. 9. FACEBOOK WIVES : They are always on the internet, instagram, posting pictures with twisted legs, chatting and even forget to do basic shores because they want to know what is happening on FB. 10. Unappreciated Wives: These are wives who stay home and take care of everything and everybody but are treated like children. Seen and not heard.. So for the ladies which one are you and for the guys which one do you currently have...Kindly go through so that you can work on yourself if need be. #everyonehighlights #relationship

April we welcome you, it's the Lord's doing, The month of resurrection, the month of celebration of Christ victory over death, We shall experience the power of Christ victory which will give us course to celebrate all through the year, may we be the light to shine in the dark through Christ our Lord amen, happy New month to all of us,