You will not lack parental care and money this month 🙏🏻

THE BEST TEA IN THE MORNING AND AFTER DINNER.
1) ONION 2)GINGER 3) GARLIC 4) TUMERIC

Ladies....

Leave Love for Men...your duty as a woman is to respect your man, respecting a man is a whole lot to do on it own,dont join love with it ..loving and showing a man will hurt you...it can affect your mental health.

Respecting a man means ..you must not cheat on the Man, your body belongs to him and him alone..no other man must see your nakedness again!

Respecting a man means, total submission to a man, respecting every of his decisions, whatever he says is the final, though he can always bend or adjust if u make him understand why he should adjust his decision.

Respecting a man means,you accepting his family as yours, never stop him from helping or assisting his family, never join him in fighting his family, his family will later forgive him...and they will never forgive you.

Respecting a man means, you are loyal to him 100%, no secrets ,no lies, no games, nothing hidden on your phones, he can pick ur phones and nothing will happen..he knows your whereabout 24/7...

Respecting a man means,making him feel like a King, believe me sincerely he would reciprocate by making you feel like a Queen.

Allow a Man to do the lovey lovey, allow him check on you, allow him spend on you without asking, he will never ignores you, he will always tells u his whereabouts,he will remember ur birthdays,he will never watch u struggle or suffer,he will pamper you.

Allow him to tell you...."i love you"...and u will reply .."i love you too'' .You will never get hurt when ure with a Man that loves you, he would protect you,he will provide for you,he will be available for u.

Leave love for men and save yourself from heartbreaks.
#boychildadvocate

*UPDATE! STEPMOTHER CONFESSES TO POISONING THREE SISTERS IN DSC—SAYS SHE DIDN’T MEAN FOR THEM TO DIE!*

DSC has become a river of tears as the three sisters who mysteriously died after a birthday party were finally taken to the mortuary. Neighbors are crying, family members are wailing, and people are asking: What did these innocent girls do to deserve such wickedness?

But the real bombshell has just dropped—the stepmother has confessed!

According to our reporter in the area, she broke down and admitted that she poisoned the egg sauce and yam she served them last night. She claims she didn’t intend to kill them, only to make them a little sick!

But why?

Locals say it stems from bad blood between her and the sisters, who never accepted her as their new mother. After all, it hasn’t even been a year since their biological mother passed away before she married their father! To make matters worse, she was close friends with their late mother before her death.

People are now dragging the father too—how could he marry his late wife’s best friend in less than a year? This situation is no small matter!

The stepmother has had children with three different men, all of whom died before she married her late friend’s husband.

Now that she has confessed, what’s next? Forgive and forget?

Life imprisonment seems certain—or should she face the same fate she dealt?

SHOULD YOU DO A COURT WEDDING? (PART 1)

Dear Anonymous Brother,

There are three recognized types of marriages in Nigeria:

1. Statutory Marriage (or marriage Under the Act)
• Conducted under the Marriage Act in a government-approved registry (not court) or church licensed for statutory weddings.
(Some churches have government licenses to conduct this however, most churches don’t have license for this).

2. Customary Marriage
• Conducted according to the traditions and customs of the ethnic groups involved.
• Typically includes the payment of bride price and traditional rites.

3. Islamic Marriage
• Performed according to Islamic (Sharia) law.
• Requires a bride price (Sadaq) and a Nikah (marriage contract).

I want to believe that the reason you’re having reservations about statutory wedding or marriage under the act (not court wedding as people call it) is because of the consequences and rigors of divorce.

Most men are scared of statutory wedding because, in the case of divorce, properties are bound to be split, child custody laws may not favour them, and the consequence of polygamy (because the law prohibits that).

If this is the case, I can boldly tell you that you’re entering marriage with the wrong mentality. You’re most likely going to end in divorce when conflict arises because you created room for it before entering the marriage. (Don’t forget that conflict must arise whether you like it or not).

Note: Statutory weddings are not legally called court weddings. They are conducted in a marriage registry, a place of worship or any place of your choice by an authorized marriage registrar or licensed minister of a church.
However, divorce can only take place in a high court or court with a higher jurisdiction.

To be continued………

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Mazi Nnamdi Kanu’s Prophecies and Nigeria’s Current Realities

Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), has long been a controversial figure in Nigerian politics. Love him or hate him, his words and warnings over the years have had a profound impact, particularly among his followers. Many of his past statements, once dismissed as conspiracy theories or alarmist rhetoric, appear eerily accurate in light of Nigeria’s current situation.

1. Insecurity and the Rise of Banditry

One of Kanu’s most striking warnings was his prediction of Nigeria’s descent into widespread insecurity. He repeatedly cautioned that terrorism, banditry, and herdsmen attacks would escalate if unchecked. Fast forward to today, and Nigeria is grappling with a security crisis of unprecedented proportions. From Boko Haram in the Northeast to armed bandits in the Northwest and killer herdsmen in the South, the nation is in turmoil. Even Abuja, the federal capital, is not spared from kidnappings and violent attacks.

2. Economic Collapse and Hardship

Kanu had often spoken about an impending economic crisis in Nigeria, warning that bad governance, corruption, and poor leadership would lead to severe economic hardship. Today, Nigeria’s inflation rate is at an all-time high, the naira has depreciated significantly, fuel prices have skyrocketed, and unemployment continues to rise. Millions of Nigerians struggle daily with the cost of living, a situation that validates his warnings about the consequences of poor governance.

3. Political Instability and the Struggle for Power

Another prophecy that seems to be manifesting is Nigeria’s deepening political instability. Kanu predicted that Nigeria’s political structure would become more chaotic as ethnic and regional divisions intensify. Today, the country is more polarized than ever, with calls for secession from different groups, electoral controversies, and a lack of trust in the government. The 2023 elections, marred by allegations of fraud and manipulation, only deepened the nation’s divide.

4. The Alleged Identity Controversy of Buhari

Perhaps one of Kanu’s most controversial claims was his insistence that Nigeria’s President, Muhammadu Buhari, had been replaced by an imposter, whom he identified as ‘Jubril from Sudan.’ While this claim was widely dismissed by government officials and critics, it fueled speculation and debates about Buhari’s health and public appearances. Whether or not one believes in this theory, the secrecy surrounding Buhari’s medical travels and long absences from the country made the claim resonate with many Nigerians.

5. The Marginalization of the South-East

Kanu has consistently spoken about the marginalization of the Igbo people in Nigeria. Today, many Igbos feel politically sidelined, especially after the 2023 elections, where Peter Obi, the candidate with strong Igbo backing, was controversially defeated. The continued military operations in the South-East, the detention of Kanu himself, and the economic neglect of the region further confirm the long-standing grievances he has championed.

Conclusion

While opinions on Nnamdi Kanu remain divided, it is undeniable that many of his warnings about Nigeria’s future have come true. From insecurity to economic hardship and political instability, the country is experiencing the very crises he predicted. Whether one sees him as a prophet, a revolutionary, or a rebel, history is proving that his words were not mere rhetoric but reflections of a deeper reality within Nigeria.

The question now is: Will Nigeria heed the warnings and address these issues, or will the country continue its downward spiral?

7 WAYS TO BUILD TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE (PART 1)

The short story in between should teach you a lesson.

Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship.

It’s what makes love safe, secure, and long-lasting. But trust isn’t automatic—it is built through consistent actions, honesty, and reliability.

Here are seven powerful ways to build trust in your relationship or marriage:

1. BE HONEST, EVEN ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS

Let me tell you a short story

Chijioke and Ada had been married for three years when Chijioke suddenly started acting restless. He was distant, easily irritated, and always on his phone. Ada noticed but assumed it was work stress.

One evening, a strange number called his phone while he was in the shower. Out of curiosity, Ada answered.

“Mr. Chijioke, this is our final warning. Pay back the ₦2 million loan or face legal action.”

Ada’s heart dropped. A loan? For ₦2 million? She had no idea her husband had borrowed money.

When he came out, she confronted him. He sighed and said, “I didn’t want to stress you, so I didn’t tell you.”

Ada felt betrayed. Not because of the debt, but because he had kept it a secret.

That night, she lay awake thinking, “If he can hide this, what else is he hiding?”

And that was the foundation of distrust she developed towards her husband. She started doubting most of the things he says

Here’s the truth:

Hiding the truth, even with good intentions, damages trust. Ada wasn’t upset about the loan itself—she was upset about the secrecy.

When you are honest, even about small things, your partner feels safe and secure. When you start keeping secrets, doubt creeps in.

How do you achieve this?

Speak the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable.
If you make a mistake, own up to it instead of covering it up.
Never assume small lies won’t matter—they always do in the long run.

Biblical Wisdom: “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22

To be continued……..


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"You see , back in the day when I was still under Mavin Records, I dropped one of the biggest love songs in Africa—'Romantic.' I featured Tiwa Savage on the track, and the plan was for us to play lovebirds in the music video. You know, hold hands, dance a little, maybe even vibe like a real couple.

But guess what? Tiwa said, 'I can’t do this. You’re like a child to me. I’m 17 years older than you. I can’t let a small boy rock my body in a music video.'

I was shocked! I mean, it’s just acting na. But she no gree. Because of that, the director had to find a vixen to replace her for the romantic scenes. No wahala, we moved.

Fast forward a few years later, this same Tiwa was not just dancing but tw£rking for Wizkid! She was all over him, online and offline, and mind you, she’s still older than him—about 11 years difference. But this time, age no be problem again.”

Life no balance at all.

— Korede Bello.

Saying NO to the wrong person is also a step toward meeting and saying YES to the right person.

It’s not a LOSS but a WIN to you.

Dear Anonymous Brother/Sister,

Before answering, do you mind sharing one or two reservations you heard and have about court wedding, so I can give a better response.

Thank you Sir/ma

THE GREAT BETRAYAL: APA STATE, WATER SCARCITY, AND INSECURITY—THE POLITICS OF DEATH IN BENUE ZONE C IDOMALAND

For decades, Apa State has been dangled before us like a poisoned carrot, a deceptive mirage designed to keep us pacified while the real business of oppression continues. David Mark whispered its name in our ears for years, feeding us hope while tightening the chains of underdevelopment. Abba Moro came along, mouthing the same tired script, and like clockwork, Apa State was swept under the rug while other regions secured their new states.

This is not coincidence. This is systematic suppression. The strategy is clear—keep Idomaland, Zone C, Apa/Agatu weak, keep us distracted, and keep us thirsty.

THE WATER SCANDAL: MAKING OTUKPO KNEEL IN THIRST
Let’s speak plainly—denying a people water is an act of war.
Otukpo, the so-called (too neglected, unattractive, bad roads, no security, waterless and dirty) “capital” of Idoma land, has been reduced to a parched wasteland where residents drink from filthy, mud-infested pools like abandoned cattle. The Otobi Water Works, once a beacon of survival, has been left to rot, just like every other promise made to us.

Tell me—how can a land that birthed senators, ministers, and supposed “billionaires” allow its people to drink from the dirt like beggars? Where is the wealth? Where is the leadership? Where is the outrage?

The answer is simple: they do not care.
They sit in their mansions, drinking imported water while we fight over buckets of filth. They attend political meetings in Abuja, making deals with the same people who have ensured Apa/Agatu remains a graveyard of forgotten promises.

INSECURITY: TURNING OUR HOMES INTO KILLING FIELDS
As if thirst wasn’t enough, now death prowls our streets.
Otukpo has become a hunting ground for kidnappers and killers. The people are screaming for help, yet the government remains silent. Protests have erupted, bodies are piling up, yet the only response is indifference.

Tell me again, who are these leaders serving? Because it is certainly not us.

The lawmaker representing Otukpo-Ohimini has raised alarms, but words are not enough. Our people are being hunted like animals, yet those in power act as if this is normal.
Let me be clear—this is not normal. This is engineered chaos.

CONNECTING THE DOTS: A MASTERPLAN OF OPPRESSION
Water scarcity and insecurity are not accidents. They are the tools of control.

Deny them water, and they will beg.
Deny them safety, and they will cower.
Deny them Apa State, and they will remain trapped.

For too long, our politicians have played us for fools. But here’s the truth—the fear is gone.

THE FINAL WARNING: 2027 WILL NOT BE BUSINESS AS USUAL
Otukpo will not die in thirst. Apa/Agatu will not kneel in fear.
Let it be known—the people are awake.
We will no longer listen to the lies of billionaires who made their wealth off our backs. We will not be fooled by another cycle of empty promises, false hope, and engineered suffering.

If Apa State is not prioritized, if water is not restored, if security is not enforced—2027 will be a reckoning.
No more business as usual. No more deception.
The people will remember. And when the time comes, they will act.

Adanehi Adamu Audu Ibrahim, PhD
Clinician, Educator, and Advocate
Part-Time Lecturer at Benue State University, J.S. Tarka University, NACEST
Expert in Stakeholder Engagement, Public Health Advocacy, and Clinical Psychology
Founder of Research Initiatives on Health-Seeking Behavior, Migration, and ICT in Clinical Service Delivery
UNICEF Enumerator and Field Officer (Vitamin A PECS 2025)
Researcher and Consultant in Psychology, Public Health, and Education
Advocate for Apa State and Socio-Political Transformation in Zone C

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I took a loan of 5 million naira from a bank to fund my wedding, using my landed property as collateral. It was only after everything was over that I realized I had made a huge mistake.

During the preparations, my phone was constantly ringing, everyone was calling, giving their suggestions, and offering advice. I felt like people were really with me.

I rented the biggest hall, bought expensive clothes, and ordered a world-class cake. Everything looked perfect that day.

I actually enjoyed the wedding and all the paparazzi, our wedding was the talk of the town.

But I didn’t realize my mistake until after the reception, when people started leaving, the event planners were taking down the decorations, and the chairs were being packed up.

When we got to the hotel room, I expected my phone to keep ringing like before, but it was silent. No one called. It was just me and my wife.

I looked at her, and it hit me, I had wasted 5 million naira just to impress people. A sudden wave of anger consumed me that night.

My wife had no idea I had borrowed the money because I had lied to her, saying it was from my savings.

When she tried to get close to me that night, I couldn’t respond. I told her I had a headache and went to sleep.

I spent the next four years painfully repaying that debt.

If I were to get married again, I wouldn’t even do a reception. I would just pay the dowry, have a small family dinner, and take my wife home.
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The problem is, people hardly listen. Everyone wants to learn from their own experience.

How can someone borrow 5 million naira just to fund a wedding?

Omo, na overjoy dey cause this kind thing!

It was a huge financial mistake, but thank God you came out of it well.