• Notorious Wanted Terrorist Kingpin, Ado Aleru Holds Peace Talks With Nigerian Military, Community Chiefs in Katsina parallelfactsnews.com/terrorist-king…
    Notorious Wanted Terrorist Kingpin, Ado Aleru Holds Peace Talks With Nigerian Military, Community Chiefs in Katsina parallelfactsnews.com/terrorist-king…
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  • HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN


    Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose.

    And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent.

    If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here,

    1. Read, sis.

    I’m not saying become a professor overnight.

    But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts.

    Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips.

    2. Speak with sense.

    You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom.

    Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere.

    3. Dress like you respect yourself.

    You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes.

    Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class.

    4. Maturity in how you handle things.

    Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply.

    Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback.

    5. Improve your mindset.
    The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small.

    Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise.

    6. Don’t move with noise makers.
    Classy women are intentional about their company.

    Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day.


    7. Pray and glow differently.

    Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions.

    Real elegance comes from the inside out.HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN


    Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose.

    And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent.

    If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here,

    1. Read, sis.

    I’m not saying become a professor overnight.

    But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts.

    Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips.

    2. Speak with sense.

    You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom.

    Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere.

    3. Dress like you respect yourself.

    You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes.

    Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class.

    4. Maturity in how you handle things.

    Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply.

    Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback.

    5. Improve your mindset.
    The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small.

    Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise.

    6. Don’t move with noise makers.
    Classy women are intentional about their company.

    Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day.


    7. Pray and glow differently.

    Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions.

    Real elegance comes from the inside out.

    Every lady in the channel let's gather here with a blue
    HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose. And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent. If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here, 1. Read, sis. I’m not saying become a professor overnight. But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts. Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips. 2. Speak with sense. You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom. Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere. 3. Dress like you respect yourself. You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes. Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class. 4. Maturity in how you handle things. Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply. Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback. 5. Improve your mindset. The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small. Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise. 6. Don’t move with noise makers. Classy women are intentional about their company. Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day. 7. Pray and glow differently. Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions. Real elegance comes from the inside out.HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose. And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent. If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here, 1. Read, sis. I’m not saying become a professor overnight. But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts. Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips. 2. Speak with sense. You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom. Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere. 3. Dress like you respect yourself. You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes. Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class. 4. Maturity in how you handle things. Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply. Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback. 5. Improve your mindset. The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small. Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise. 6. Don’t move with noise makers. Classy women are intentional about their company. Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day. 7. Pray and glow differently. Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions. Real elegance comes from the inside out. Every lady in the channel let's gather here with a blue 💙
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  • “If Mercy Johnson didn’t give me that chance, you might never have known my name.”

    I was new, struggling, and almost gave up on acting. I had talent, but no one was looking my way — until Mercy Johnson saw me.

    She didn’t just talk; she gave me a role that changed my whole story. She believed in me when I had nothing but hope.

    Today, people call me a star. But I know where it started. I will always respect her for that one chance that opened many doors.”

    – Queen Nwokoye
    “If Mercy Johnson didn’t give me that chance, you might never have known my name.” I was new, struggling, and almost gave up on acting. I had talent, but no one was looking my way — until Mercy Johnson saw me. She didn’t just talk; she gave me a role that changed my whole story. She believed in me when I had nothing but hope. Today, people call me a star. But I know where it started. I will always respect her for that one chance that opened many doors.” – Queen Nwokoye
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  • Hi! This will be long because it's a complicated issue with a backstory.

    My husband who has a squalor/hoarding issue, from what I suspect is undiagnosed and untreated ADHD, wants another dog from a litter his dog sired and will be ready in 2 weeks. We have 2 dogs already plus a cat, and one of the dogs was a dog he brought home years ago even though I said no.
    Months ago I put up a boundary that I would need to see everything that he has trashed fully cleaned up and to maintain its cleanliness for 3 months, as that would show me that it is a truly changed habit, then we could talk about another dog.
    He did not get everything cleaned. He continued to put it off. Earlier this year he bred his dog as he is a hunting breed. Last month the puppies were born, and he brought it up again (wanting one of the puppies) - I reiterated what I needed to see, and he asked me "What if I get it done this week, would a month be long enough?" I told him no, that three months minimum would show me that he can actually maintain it. He got upset but I feel like this is a fair boundary. He had our home disgusting, truly disgusting and in squalor, for at least 5 years, with no way for me to keep up with it and each time he would start to clean it, it would go back in a week or two. I can post pictures in the comments but only if asked, if that is needed for context.

    Anyways, two days ago he brings it up again. He told me he got everything done - which he did - and said that he feels much better mentally now that it was no longer weighing on him. He said he "knows" he can maintain things now that he has it all cleaned up. He said it will be easier now because he feels "so much better mentally." He told me that he never got back to the person who has the puppies and asked if I would reconsider now that everything is done. He told me "I need to get back to her about it within the next couple days."

    I don't know what to do. I feel like if I say no, I am in the wrong.

    Any advice?? Thanks.
    Hi! This will be long because it's a complicated issue with a backstory. My husband who has a squalor/hoarding issue, from what I suspect is undiagnosed and untreated ADHD, wants another dog from a litter his dog sired and will be ready in 2 weeks. We have 2 dogs already plus a cat, and one of the dogs was a dog he brought home years ago even though I said no. Months ago I put up a boundary that I would need to see everything that he has trashed fully cleaned up and to maintain its cleanliness for 3 months, as that would show me that it is a truly changed habit, then we could talk about another dog. He did not get everything cleaned. He continued to put it off. Earlier this year he bred his dog as he is a hunting breed. Last month the puppies were born, and he brought it up again (wanting one of the puppies) - I reiterated what I needed to see, and he asked me "What if I get it done this week, would a month be long enough?" I told him no, that three months minimum would show me that he can actually maintain it. He got upset but I feel like this is a fair boundary. He had our home disgusting, truly disgusting and in squalor, for at least 5 years, with no way for me to keep up with it and each time he would start to clean it, it would go back in a week or two. I can post pictures in the comments but only if asked, if that is needed for context. Anyways, two days ago he brings it up again. He told me he got everything done - which he did - and said that he feels much better mentally now that it was no longer weighing on him. He said he "knows" he can maintain things now that he has it all cleaned up. He said it will be easier now because he feels "so much better mentally." He told me that he never got back to the person who has the puppies and asked if I would reconsider now that everything is done. He told me "I need to get back to her about it within the next couple days." I don't know what to do. I feel like if I say no, I am in the wrong. Any advice?? Thanks.
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  • JUST IN: “He was the reason I left the club and refused to play. It’s not the coach. It’s not the fans. I could not stay at the club after what he did. And he is still at the club doing it to ther other players.”- Karim Benzema have finally broken silence after revealing to the fans why he really left Real Madrid after many years at the club.
    Find Out Everything He Say Here:https://talk2soccer.com/he-was-the-reason-i-left-the-club-and-refused-to-play-its-not-the-coach-its-not-the-fans-i-could-not-stay-at-the-club-after-what-he-did-and-he-is-still-at-the-club-doing/
    JUST IN: “He was the reason I left the club and refused to play. It’s not the coach. It’s not the fans. I could not stay at the club after what he did. And he is still at the club doing it to ther other players.”- Karim Benzema have finally broken silence after revealing to the fans why he really left Real Madrid after many years at the club. Find Out Everything He Say Here:👉https://talk2soccer.com/he-was-the-reason-i-left-the-club-and-refused-to-play-its-not-the-coach-its-not-the-fans-i-could-not-stay-at-the-club-after-what-he-did-and-he-is-still-at-the-club-doing/
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  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 15/06/2025*

    Anger as suspected herders kill 100 in fresh Benue attack

    90 cheers for ‘Uncle Sam’ as dignitaries celebrate journalism icon

    IGP extends tinted glass permit deadline to August 12

    Soyinka to Tinubu: Unveil killers of Kudirat Abiola, Dele Giwa, Bola Ige

    Peter Obi betrayed me, says Kenneth Okonkwo

    National hospital faults NMA, denies sacking doctors

    Ogazi breaks 26-year record to win 400m NCAA title

    Israel-Iran: Trump, Putin hold talks

    Floods in DR Congo capital kill at least 19 – Minister

    Death toll in South Africa floods rises to 86

    US Senator, Rep shot inside their homes

    W’Bank allocates $40m loan to protect poor Nigerians

    Nigerians in Portugal to enjoy zero tax on foreign income

    Over 300 Nigerians seek asylum in Iceland

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    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * The world’s most translated author is Agatha Christie. Her books have been translated into at least 103 languages. She is best known for her detective novels featuring characters like Miss Marple and Hercule Poirot, and has sold over 2 billion copies of her books worldwide.

    * A group of flamingos is called a flamboyance.
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    Part-Time Parliament Will Affect Nigeria’s Democracy – Senate

    Reps summon finance minister, CBN gov over Fiscal Act breach

    Rep member Isiaka installed Seriki Adinni of Yewaland

    S’Court debunks allegations of justice’s political trip

    Lagos court jails man for assaulting govt worker

    Nigerian Army recruits over 6,000 soldiers to boost national security

    Civilian safety top priority in our operations – NAF Chief

    N200b Bodo/Bonny road project now open to traffic

    Tuggar seeks collaboration with China to deepen food security

    FG Condemns Israel’s Attack On Iran, Calls For De-Escalation

    FG plans review as 11,000 register for Safe Schools project

    Amaechi’s attack on Tinubu about power grab – Presidency

    Awaiting trial inmates exceed 53,000 – Report

    NNPCL records N5.89 trillion revenue

    Nigerians imported N1.67tn food, drinks in three months – NBS

    Firewood exports hit N65.85bn

    Nigeria closer to exiting FATF grey list – NFIU

    Agric ministry denies prayers for food security, cites staff deaths

    FCT ground rent payments surge 24 hours to deadline

    64,000 students sit for common entrance exam into federal colleges

    NECO conducts common entrance exams as Benin, Togo participate

    UNICAL clinical lecturers down tools over new VC selection

    First Lady commissions resettlement city for IDPs in Nasarawa

    Osinbajo urges youths to engage in politics for national transformation

    N/Delta ex-agitators declare unwavering support for Tinubu, Tompolo, Otuaro

    Over 129,000 young brides in Nasarawa now using contraceptives — SFH

    Bible didn’t forbid women’s trousers, bishop backs Abel Damina

    Trump earned $57m from crypto coin sales

    Nigeria’s female workforce participation hits new high – WEF

    Discos decry 5,500MW power generation amid huge gas reserves

    Lagos plastic ban not against profit – Marketers

    2027: Succession storm brews as 10 govs exit

    Anambra guber: Moghalu unveils running mate, reaffirms Obi’s support

    Obi allies flay Kenneth Okonkwo over betrayal comments

    PDP writes INEC as party holds NEC meeting June 30

    Eno, Oborevwori will face defection backlash in 2027 – PDP NEC members

    Defection: PDP, NNPP warn against politicising anti-corruption agencies

    Soludo approves N15m for mass burial of crisis victims

    Gombe gov endorses Tinubu for 2027

    Delta Assembly moves to enact law over rising house rents in Asaba, others

    Gombe perm sec, four others die from electrocution

    Ondo declares war against cocoa adulteration

    Heavy rainfall: Lagos warns residents against flash floods

    239 Jigawa teachers denied salaries over absenteeism

    Oto-Awori LCDA boss Ashafa dies at 68

    Police arrest 182 suspects in Kaduna raids

    Two arrested for abducting siblings in Anambra

    Sanmi Michael plans US tour with view to elevate African sound on global stage


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    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1667, the first human blood transfusion was administered. Jean-Baptiste Denys, physician to King Louis XIV of France, transfused sheep blood into a 15-year-old boy. He survived, most likely due to the relatively small amount of blood used.

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    The most exhausting activity is pretending to be what you know you aren’t. – Rick Warren

    Happy Father’s Day

    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 15/06/2025* Anger as suspected herders kill 100 in fresh Benue attack 90 cheers for ‘Uncle Sam’ as dignitaries celebrate journalism icon IGP extends tinted glass permit deadline to August 12 Soyinka to Tinubu: Unveil killers of Kudirat Abiola, Dele Giwa, Bola Ige Peter Obi betrayed me, says Kenneth Okonkwo National hospital faults NMA, denies sacking doctors Ogazi breaks 26-year record to win 400m NCAA title Israel-Iran: Trump, Putin hold talks Floods in DR Congo capital kill at least 19 – Minister Death toll in South Africa floods rises to 86 US Senator, Rep shot inside their homes W’Bank allocates $40m loan to protect poor Nigerians Nigerians in Portugal to enjoy zero tax on foreign income Over 300 Nigerians seek asylum in Iceland ------------------------------ *DID YOU KNOW?* * The world’s most translated author is Agatha Christie. Her books have been translated into at least 103 languages. She is best known for her detective novels featuring characters like Miss Marple and Hercule Poirot, and has sold over 2 billion copies of her books worldwide. * A group of flamingos is called a flamboyance. ------------------------------ Part-Time Parliament Will Affect Nigeria’s Democracy – Senate Reps summon finance minister, CBN gov over Fiscal Act breach Rep member Isiaka installed Seriki Adinni of Yewaland S’Court debunks allegations of justice’s political trip Lagos court jails man for assaulting govt worker Nigerian Army recruits over 6,000 soldiers to boost national security Civilian safety top priority in our operations – NAF Chief N200b Bodo/Bonny road project now open to traffic Tuggar seeks collaboration with China to deepen food security FG Condemns Israel’s Attack On Iran, Calls For De-Escalation FG plans review as 11,000 register for Safe Schools project Amaechi’s attack on Tinubu about power grab – Presidency Awaiting trial inmates exceed 53,000 – Report NNPCL records N5.89 trillion revenue Nigerians imported N1.67tn food, drinks in three months – NBS Firewood exports hit N65.85bn Nigeria closer to exiting FATF grey list – NFIU Agric ministry denies prayers for food security, cites staff deaths FCT ground rent payments surge 24 hours to deadline 64,000 students sit for common entrance exam into federal colleges NECO conducts common entrance exams as Benin, Togo participate UNICAL clinical lecturers down tools over new VC selection First Lady commissions resettlement city for IDPs in Nasarawa Osinbajo urges youths to engage in politics for national transformation N/Delta ex-agitators declare unwavering support for Tinubu, Tompolo, Otuaro Over 129,000 young brides in Nasarawa now using contraceptives — SFH Bible didn’t forbid women’s trousers, bishop backs Abel Damina Trump earned $57m from crypto coin sales Nigeria’s female workforce participation hits new high – WEF Discos decry 5,500MW power generation amid huge gas reserves Lagos plastic ban not against profit – Marketers 2027: Succession storm brews as 10 govs exit Anambra guber: Moghalu unveils running mate, reaffirms Obi’s support Obi allies flay Kenneth Okonkwo over betrayal comments PDP writes INEC as party holds NEC meeting June 30 Eno, Oborevwori will face defection backlash in 2027 – PDP NEC members Defection: PDP, NNPP warn against politicising anti-corruption agencies Soludo approves N15m for mass burial of crisis victims Gombe gov endorses Tinubu for 2027 Delta Assembly moves to enact law over rising house rents in Asaba, others Gombe perm sec, four others die from electrocution Ondo declares war against cocoa adulteration Heavy rainfall: Lagos warns residents against flash floods 239 Jigawa teachers denied salaries over absenteeism Oto-Awori LCDA boss Ashafa dies at 68 Police arrest 182 suspects in Kaduna raids Two arrested for abducting siblings in Anambra Sanmi Michael plans US tour with view to elevate African sound on global stage ------------------------------ *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1667, the first human blood transfusion was administered. Jean-Baptiste Denys, physician to King Louis XIV of France, transfused sheep blood into a 15-year-old boy. He survived, most likely due to the relatively small amount of blood used. ------------------------------ The most exhausting activity is pretending to be what you know you aren’t. – Rick Warren Happy Father’s Day *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*
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  • At a university, a professor asked his students: "If there are four birds on a tree and three of them decided to fly away, how many are left on the tree?"

    Everyone answered, "One."

    They were surprised when one student disagreed and said, "Four birds remain." This caught everyone's attention.

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    The professor asked him: "How so?"

    He replied: "You said they decided to fly, but you didn't say they actually flew. Making a decision doesn't mean taking action."

    And indeed, that was the correct answer.

    This story reflects the lives of some people — they have many slogans and catchy words, and they shine in gatherings and among friends, but in reality, their lives don’t reflect those words.

    Many people talk, but only a few act..!

    Making a (decision) is one thing...

    Taking (action) is something else entirely.
    At a university, a professor asked his students: "If there are four birds on a tree and three of them decided to fly away, how many are left on the tree?" Everyone answered, "One." They were surprised when one student disagreed and said, "Four birds remain." This caught everyone's attention. Follow Boniface ose The professor asked him: "How so?" He replied: "You said they decided to fly, but you didn't say they actually flew. Making a decision doesn't mean taking action." And indeed, that was the correct answer. This story reflects the lives of some people — they have many slogans and catchy words, and they shine in gatherings and among friends, but in reality, their lives don’t reflect those words. Many people talk, but only a few act..! Making a (decision) is one thing... Taking (action) is something else entirely.
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  • https://www.thip.media/expert-columns/breaking-the-taboo-talking-about-penile-hygiene/104815/?utm_source=wpchannel&utm_medium=Social&utm_campaign=columns
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    Good penile hygiene isn’t just about cleanliness—it plays a crucial role in preventing infections and maintaining overall well-being.
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  • *LESSONS FOR WOMEN IN MARRIAGE! +18*
    https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U

    Most women complain of sexual dissatisfaction but the question you should be asking yourself is: Are you playing your part as a woman? Do you know the things that turn your man on? Do you know that a man needs to be caressed and complimented in order to feel like making love to you?

    May You Try This It May Help:

    1. Be romantic, playful, and spontaneous. Touch your man play with his body flirt with him on the phone compliment him always tell him you love him send him dirty suggestive messages.


    2. Please do not be afraid: Ashamed or irritated to take him into your mouth it's exciting once you get the hang of it.

    3. Allow him unlimited access to your body: Allow him to go down on you. Do not hide your sensitive areas: surely why do hide your breasts ears and womanhood then claim he can't turn me on.

    4. Show him you like sex too: It kills a man's ego when he struggles to get it by the time he starts doing it he will be tired from wrestling with you and talking to you to convince you to have it please please if you can convince your man that you also like it and enjoy it it's very important.

    Your man thrives to bring you the latest album of your favorite musician which will stop him from bringing you a new style of sex if he knows you like it.

    5. Respond to his lovemaking: Do not lie there like you are dead run your hands on his back and spread out those legs for him and move up to meet him, moan and groan, hiss like a snake.

    6. If he hits the right spot say it and show it: Urge him on and hold him tight there, speak in tongues.

    7. Suggest positions: And fully participate in your favorite position do not be afraid to go on top.

    8. Satisfy him first he will eventually satisfy you: Make him happy and allow him to enjoy you he will return the compliment.

    9. Do everything he likes and enjoy pleasing him: You think most men leave you because they got what they wanted: No they would have discovered that you are not enjoying what they are offering you so enjoy what is offered first!
    *LESSONS FOR WOMEN IN MARRIAGE! +18* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U Most women complain of sexual dissatisfaction but the question you should be asking yourself is: Are you playing your part as a woman? Do you know the things that turn your man on? Do you know that a man needs to be caressed and complimented in order to feel like making love to you? May You Try This It May Help: 1. Be romantic, playful, and spontaneous. Touch your man play with his body flirt with him on the phone compliment him always tell him you love him send him dirty suggestive messages. 2. Please do not be afraid: Ashamed or irritated to take him into your mouth it's exciting once you get the hang of it. 3. Allow him unlimited access to your body: Allow him to go down on you. Do not hide your sensitive areas: surely why do hide your breasts ears and womanhood then claim he can't turn me on. 4. Show him you like sex too: It kills a man's ego when he struggles to get it by the time he starts doing it he will be tired from wrestling with you and talking to you to convince you to have it please please if you can convince your man that you also like it and enjoy it it's very important. Your man thrives to bring you the latest album of your favorite musician which will stop him from bringing you a new style of sex if he knows you like it. 5. Respond to his lovemaking: Do not lie there like you are dead run your hands on his back and spread out those legs for him and move up to meet him, moan and groan, hiss like a snake. 6. If he hits the right spot say it and show it: Urge him on and hold him tight there, speak in tongues. 7. Suggest positions: And fully participate in your favorite position do not be afraid to go on top. 8. Satisfy him first he will eventually satisfy you: Make him happy and allow him to enjoy you he will return the compliment. 9. Do everything he likes and enjoy pleasing him: You think most men leave you because they got what they wanted: No they would have discovered that you are not enjoying what they are offering you so enjoy what is offered first!
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  • • Talks with Bryan Mbeumo were verbal.. There is no official offer from Tottenham.

    The player's preference is still for Manchester United.
    🚨 • Talks with Bryan Mbeumo were verbal.. There is no official offer from Tottenham. The player's preference is still for Manchester United.
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
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    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • Title: My Arranged Marriage
    Episode 1: The Day My Bride Brought Her Ex to Our Wedding

    I always knew my family was chaotic, but I didn’t know they were diabolical until the day I walked into my own wedding and nearly fainted. Not because of cold feet — but because the bride, the woman I was supposed to marry, was sitting on the stage laughing with her ex-boyfriend, whom she brought along like a plus-one.

    Yes, her ex. To our wedding.

    Let me start from the beginning.

    It began two months ago when Mama burst into my room like a hurricane dressed in Ankara and holy anointing.
    "Obinna, your bachelorhood is a spiritual attack!"
    She clutched her Bible and her phone, scrolling through WhatsApp pictures of potential wives like it was Tinder for African mothers.

    I was 29, a civil engineer in Lagos, and deeply single—not because I couldn't find love, but because the last girl I loved used my rent money to buy a Brazilian wig and disappeared with a sugar daddy who sold building materials.

    So, when Mama insisted on arranging a marriage, I laughed. Until Papa added his voice.
    “If you don’t marry before July, forget your inheritance. We will donate your land to the church!”

    July was two months away.

    That was how I met Amaka.
    Photos first. Then video calls. She was pretty. Soft-spoken. From Enugu. A nurse. And, according to her mother, a virgin. (My cousin Ugochi whispered, “Aunty, check that thing well. These days, even calculators reset.”)

    I agreed to meet her. She smiled, giggled, and spoke gently. But something felt... rehearsed. Like she was playing a role.

    Still, the wedding date was fixed. Invitations printed. Cow bought. Church booked. DJ paid. Mama danced every night to Flavour’s songs as if the wedding was her own.

    And then the big day came.

    The hall glittered with decorations. Guests arrived in gele and agbada. My friends teased me “Obinna, you go finally chop life!”

    Then I saw her. Amaka. Dressed in white. Gorgeous. Smiling. Until I noticed the man sitting beside her, whispering in her ear and holding her hand.

    I frowned.
    “Who is that?” I asked my brother.

    My brother squinted. “I think he came with the bride.”

    “Came with the"

    Before I could finish, Mama appeared beside me, all smiles and sweat. “You look handsome, my son. Now go and smile at your bride.”

    “I will smile after I know who that guy is.”

    Mama hissed and walked off.

    So, I marched up to Amaka, heart racing. “Who is this?”

    She blinked, calm. “Oh! Meet Chuka. My best friend. He’s like… family.”

    Chuka stood, extended his hand, smiling like a goat that just chewed your exam script. “Nice to meet you, bro.”

    Bro?

    I ignored his hand. “Can we talk privately?”

    Amaka sighed, dragged me aside, and said the thing that nearly made me remove my agbada and run home in boxers.

    “I invited him because... well... he’s important to me. We dated for six years. He’s the one who taught me how to love. But my parents didn’t approve. So I had to settle for this... arrangement.”

    I stood still, blinking.
    “Settle?”

    “Yes,” she said. “But you’re kind. You’ll understand.”

    Ladies and gentlemen, I did not understand.

    My uncle, who saw me shaking like a leaf, whispered, “Is it heartbreak or hunger? Should we bring you small jollof rice to calm your nerves?”

    I wanted to run, but the hall was full, the gifts were stacked, and the caterers were serving. A pastor was waiting. A crowd was watching.

    Then I remembered what my grandmother once said:
    “If you must embarrass the devil, do it with boldness.”

    So, I climbed the stage, grabbed the mic, and said:
    “Ladies and gentlemen, I want to thank you all for coming. But I just found out that I am not the main actor in this wedding. I am an extra.”

    Gasps.

    Chuka choked on his zobo. Amaka’s face turned pale. Mama tried to grab the mic, but I raised my hand dramatically.

    “This wedding is cancelled. But don’t worry there’s plenty of food. Eat, drink, and take selfies. Just know that Obinna has left the chat!”

    I walked out, head high, heart free. That night, I ate the wedding jollof alone in my boxers and watched Nollywood movies till 2 a.m.

    A week later, I met Adaeze, my neighbor who had always lent me pepper without asking for it back. She knocked on my door with a plate of hot rice and a smile.

    And guess what?
    Title: My Arranged Marriage Episode 1: The Day My Bride Brought Her Ex to Our Wedding I always knew my family was chaotic, but I didn’t know they were diabolical until the day I walked into my own wedding and nearly fainted. Not because of cold feet — but because the bride, the woman I was supposed to marry, was sitting on the stage laughing with her ex-boyfriend, whom she brought along like a plus-one. Yes, her ex. To our wedding. Let me start from the beginning. It began two months ago when Mama burst into my room like a hurricane dressed in Ankara and holy anointing. "Obinna, your bachelorhood is a spiritual attack!" She clutched her Bible and her phone, scrolling through WhatsApp pictures of potential wives like it was Tinder for African mothers. I was 29, a civil engineer in Lagos, and deeply single—not because I couldn't find love, but because the last girl I loved used my rent money to buy a Brazilian wig and disappeared with a sugar daddy who sold building materials. So, when Mama insisted on arranging a marriage, I laughed. Until Papa added his voice. “If you don’t marry before July, forget your inheritance. We will donate your land to the church!” July was two months away. That was how I met Amaka. Photos first. Then video calls. She was pretty. Soft-spoken. From Enugu. A nurse. And, according to her mother, a virgin. (My cousin Ugochi whispered, “Aunty, check that thing well. These days, even calculators reset.”) I agreed to meet her. She smiled, giggled, and spoke gently. But something felt... rehearsed. Like she was playing a role. Still, the wedding date was fixed. Invitations printed. Cow bought. Church booked. DJ paid. Mama danced every night to Flavour’s songs as if the wedding was her own. And then the big day came. The hall glittered with decorations. Guests arrived in gele and agbada. My friends teased me “Obinna, you go finally chop life!” Then I saw her. Amaka. Dressed in white. Gorgeous. Smiling. Until I noticed the man sitting beside her, whispering in her ear and holding her hand. I frowned. “Who is that?” I asked my brother. My brother squinted. “I think he came with the bride.” “Came with the" Before I could finish, Mama appeared beside me, all smiles and sweat. “You look handsome, my son. Now go and smile at your bride.” “I will smile after I know who that guy is.” Mama hissed and walked off. So, I marched up to Amaka, heart racing. “Who is this?” She blinked, calm. “Oh! Meet Chuka. My best friend. He’s like… family.” Chuka stood, extended his hand, smiling like a goat that just chewed your exam script. “Nice to meet you, bro.” Bro? I ignored his hand. “Can we talk privately?” Amaka sighed, dragged me aside, and said the thing that nearly made me remove my agbada and run home in boxers. “I invited him because... well... he’s important to me. We dated for six years. He’s the one who taught me how to love. But my parents didn’t approve. So I had to settle for this... arrangement.” I stood still, blinking. “Settle?” “Yes,” she said. “But you’re kind. You’ll understand.” Ladies and gentlemen, I did not understand. My uncle, who saw me shaking like a leaf, whispered, “Is it heartbreak or hunger? Should we bring you small jollof rice to calm your nerves?” I wanted to run, but the hall was full, the gifts were stacked, and the caterers were serving. A pastor was waiting. A crowd was watching. Then I remembered what my grandmother once said: “If you must embarrass the devil, do it with boldness.” So, I climbed the stage, grabbed the mic, and said: “Ladies and gentlemen, I want to thank you all for coming. But I just found out that I am not the main actor in this wedding. I am an extra.” Gasps. Chuka choked on his zobo. Amaka’s face turned pale. Mama tried to grab the mic, but I raised my hand dramatically. “This wedding is cancelled. But don’t worry there’s plenty of food. Eat, drink, and take selfies. Just know that Obinna has left the chat!” I walked out, head high, heart free. That night, I ate the wedding jollof alone in my boxers and watched Nollywood movies till 2 a.m. A week later, I met Adaeze, my neighbor who had always lent me pepper without asking for it back. She knocked on my door with a plate of hot rice and a smile. And guess what?
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