*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

"Monopoly Of Nonsense"! A bomb as always from the erudite scholar and Theologian. "IF I HAVE MY WAY I WILL SEIZE TO BE A NIGERIAN BECAUSE THERE'S NO SENSE OF NATIONHOOD". - Bishop Matthew Kukah. Bishop Mathew Hassan Kukah speaks the truth to power. His words: "Anyone who thinks the Biafra agitation is a nuisance and irritating should know that it is not the collective aspiration of all Igbos but especially that no one has the monopoly of nusinace. Nuisance begets nuisance. When you stay with potash loaders you too will share in their dusty hair. It is in this country that the same standards are not held against all. Some can get away with anything but others cannot get away with something. I shudder at those who blame the agitators for agitating. Everyone knows what is good for them. If you don't know what is good for you then shut up and don't obstruct those who know what is good for them. If I have my way I will cease to be a Nigerian because there is no sense of nationhood. Those who have leverage over others use it to oppress them. Otherwise how can you explain the audacious impunity of a certain section of this country. They can intimidate everybody even a sitting president and get away with it. When GEJ was president he was literally harassed by this same people until they sent him packing and we thought they will be appeased. But a las we were mistaken! Now how do I love a country where a murderous terrorist group like the herdsmen acclaimed even internationally as deadly is being openly defended by a govt. that wants my loyalty. Do you know as I make this comment, a first class Chief of Bokkos LGA in plateau state was murdered by a certain group of Fulanis almost a year now and no one has been arrested not to talk of prosecution; there are many villagers in my parish who cannot go to farm again except to farm their backyard because their farms have been forcefully annexed by their Fulani murderers; that in Bokkos a wife and a daughter can be taken away right before her husband or father and be repeatedly raped then released at the convenience of the barbaric Fulani tribesmen and no one dares talk; police will advise you to go and settle the matter through dialogue? I want independence from a country where terrorists are embraced and agitators are terrorized. At the slightest excitement Hausa or Fulani man can kill you and get away with it; it has happened and continues to happen but when you gear up to defend yourself because security will not, then you are caught by the same security who will lecture you on how to be peaceful and law abiding. This country will end unless there is justice for all. Rubbish! I hate the lie that Nigeria is. Let's say the truth and die but it is what will set us free. Nigeria is negotiable to me the oppressed even if it's not to the oppressor and that is normal. "The only right Nigerians concede to you is the right to agree with them" - Bishop Matthew Kukah.

WHEN PARENTS GET OLD ... Let them grow old with the same love that they let you grow ... Let them speak and tell repeated stories with the same patience and interest that they heard yours as a child ... Let them overcome, like so many times when they let you win ... Let them enjoy their friends just as they let you … Let them enjoy the talks with their grandchildren, because they see you in them ... Let them enjoy living among the objects that have accompanied them for a long time, because they suffer when they feel that you tear pieces of this life away ... Let them be wrong, like so many times you have been wrong and they didn’t embarrass you by correcting you ... LET THEM LIVE and try to make them happy the last stretch of the path they have left to go; give them your hand, just like they gave you their hand when you started your path! ~shared

WHEN PARENTS GET OLD ... Let them grow old with the same love that they let you grow ... Let them speak and tell repeated stories with the same patience and interest that they heard yours as a child ... Let them overcome, like so many times when they let you win ... Let them enjoy their friends just as they let you … Let them enjoy the talks with their grandchildren, because they see you in them ... Let them enjoy living among the objects that have accompanied them for a long time, because they suffer when they feel that you tear pieces of this life away ... Let them be wrong, like so many times you have been wrong and they didn’t embarrass you by correcting you ... LET THEM LIVE and try to make them happy the last stretch of the path they have left to go; give them your hand, just like they gave you their hand when you started your path! ~shared

I was at the fueling station earlier today. While on the queue, the Napep man beside me also on queue to the same pump was on call with his wife. His phone had rang twice before he eventually picked. His wife mentioned that he didn’t drop any money for the children to eat, and in response, he said reminded her that he already told her he wanted to use the money left with him to buy fuel into his Keke so that he can work and send money. The call was audible as it was on speaker. The worried wife kept mentioning that the children were already crying. But he kept telling his wife that he would send money immediately he works. After the call, he was speaking with himself and talking how people weren’t going out as the normal days. With his eyes fixed at a particular spot of the keke. I was so bothered for him, his wife and the hungry children. When we got to the pump, the attendant could either sell to me or him as we were beside each other due to the position of our fuel tanks. And he told the pump attendant to sell for me. I immediately told the attendant to sell for him. “Oya, sell One thousand two hundred own” While he stretched his hand to give the attendant the money. Then I said young lady, Pls fill the tank of his keke” He looked at me like, No, she shouldn’t as he doesn’t have that money to pay. I told him not to worry, and that I will pay. And he said, since I started driving this keke, I have never bought full tank. With tears on his eyes, he went down and I carried him up. After I bought mine and as I was driving out of the staton, I didn’t know he was waiting for me just outside the gate. When I saw him, I stopped he couldn’t stop thanking me. I simply told him, I overheard the call with his wife wish caught my emotions. My parents taught me how to be kind to people. My dad would say, a help you render today is coming for you tomorrow. One thousand two hundred can not feed husband and wife, let alone with the children. I requested for his account details and sent him money. I equally asked him to call his wife and I spoke with her. When she sent her details, I sent her money to buy some food stuffs. He was literally in tears as I drove off, and I prayed for them that God eases their affairs. And the one reason why I share this— If life is kind to you, Pls extend it and be kind to people. Oluwanishola Akeju

🛑 LET'S TALK ABOUT LICKING POCKET 🛑 (OHI MMỤỌ) LICKING POCKET WHICH SIMPLE SPIRITUAL STEALING (OHI MMỤỌ) DO YOU KNOW THAT SOME SPIRITS YOU KNOW CAN COURSE YOU SPIRITUAL STEALING... Do you know that there are some times your money will be missing or reducing in quantity from the amount it was unknowingly to you Sometimes you will be suspecting if it falls on your way or someone steal from you or you spent it somewhere else unknowingly Sometimes, no matter how hard you work, you won't see the outcome of the money.. You can't boast of saves in your account or in your ✋ hands(Aka nkuchasi) Some of the the forces that can course you are 👇👇👇👇👇👇 Ogbon'uke/Akaliogheli (though they are being used by your Spiritual forces to frustrate you) Your reincarnator (Chi onye uwa) for not recognizing him or her, for keep them hungry, they can decide to use evil spirit and steal from you. Your Marine spiritual mates,(Ndi Ḿmíri gi) for not recognizing and appeasing them... Your Spiritual mates(Ndị otu gi) Spiritual spouses (Di or nwunye Ḿmíri gi) Your revelation spirit (agwụ) Your foundational or Ancestral Akwali Ọmụmụ Deity and other Deities (arusi or alusi be nna na nne gi) Failure to appease and align with them, failure to recognize them can bring to you licking pocket.... The your personal spirits love you but when you fail to show them love, they can use an evil spirit called Uke to deal with you... They can use witchcraft(Amosu entities) to block your way of progress.... There's nothing you do in this life that can bring progress, even remove the face of those that can help you from you... They can frustrate you sometime you fall in troubles, even cause you to steal sometimes you don't see yourself doing it..... So many people are victim of this licking pocket without knowing the cause of it, especially the business men Acknowledge your spiritual forces dear sisters and brothers is not evil as alleged... Always use Afa consultation to check your spirit and the forces frustrating your life... I am tired of hearing I don't know what's happening to my money, people hardly help.... Spiritual husband will frustrate to the last core, till holy ghost fire finish for your mouth... If you find yourself in this problems please try to do the needful YAGAZIE #highlights2025 #everyonehighlightsfollowers #highlightseveryone #viralreelsfbpage #reelsviralシ #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚viralシalシ #highlightseveryonefollowers2025 #viralreelsシ #highlightseveryonefollowers #highlightsシ゚ #foryoupagereels #foryoupageシ #foryoupageviralシ゚ #foryouシ #foryoupageシforyou #foryourpage #exploremore #explore #explorepage #explorar #explorereels #ExploreTheWorld

"The monies that my husband kept for Nigeria, in a few months, the monies vanished. People are not talking about that... I pray for Nigerians. We should stop telling lies..." - Former First Lady and General Abacha's widow, Maryam Sani Abacha

THE POWER OF SILENCE They wonder why you don’t talk much. Why you don’t explain yourself. Why you’re always lost in thought. But they don’t see the battles you fight in silence. They don’t hear the conversations you have with yourself at night. They don’t know you’re either carrying the weight of pain or building the blueprint for something great. . . . Not all silence is weakness. Sometimes, it’s preparation. Be that man who quietly plots his growth. 🧏‍♂️

NATIVE INTELLIGENCE! (Let's reflects on these word's of wisdom ). 1. Burial rice tastes nice until it’s cooked in your compound. 2. ⁠When the axe came to the forest, the trees said the handle is one of us. Until they felt its cuts; BETRAYAL IS within. 3. ⁠When a kid grows up, a pencil is replaced by a pen just to make the kid realize that now it is not easy to erase the mistake. 4. ⁠One day, the ground we walk on will be our roof. 5. ⁠If loyalty was real, water is not supposed to cook the fish. 6. ⁠People don’t abandon people they love. They abandon people they are using. 7. ⁠How I wish RIP means "Return If Possible"; 8. ⁠One Sad Truth about life is that you may not even be part of the future you’re stressed about. 9. ⁠The day you lose your father is the day you will realize that you have lost the only man who wanted to see you better than him. 10. ⁠The sheep lived all her life, fearing the wolf, but it was the shepherd that finally ate it. 11. ⁠When we were kids, we cried loudly to be noticed. But now we cry silently because we don’t want anyone to know. 12. ⁠My mom always said, "don’t talk while eating." I never knew she was talking about life. 13. ⁠Just because you have a good mom, doesn’t mean your dad has a good wife. 14. ⁠Is this the life we were kicking our mothers' stomachs for? 15. ⁠Just because you’re a good person, doesn’t mean the world owes you kindness. 16. ⁠When the blind man sees, he throws away the stick that has been helping him for years. 17. ⁠Nowadays you need money to become a member of your own family. 18. ⁠FAMILY is like a FOREST from a distance. They are all close until you get closer to see how SEPARATED trees are: 19. ⁠Just play along.....

Not everything that looks like support is support. Stay wise. Stay grounded. Stay watching. #LifeLesson #HumbleThoughts #RealTalk

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Lîsten up, Mên! Here’s Why Yóu Don’t Marry a W0man Over 35 The Math, the Biology, the Reality Whelên I tell you don’t marry a woman over 35, I’m nôt just throwing opinions. I’m giving you cold logic, fãcts, and brutal masculine truth that society is too scared to say out loud. Let’s brêak it down. Let’s say she became sêxua||y active at 18. She’s nôw 35. That’s 17 years of sêxual activity. If she ãveraged just 10 men per year and believe me, that’s modest for many in this era of “exploring” and “experiencing” that’s 170 men. Yes, 170 dîfferent men have had access to her body. 170 opportunities to pair-bond, create soul ties, and destroy her ability to submit to one man. Yôu want peace with a woman like that? Bro, you’ll be fighting emotîônal ghosts and soul trauma daily. Nôw let’s talk biology. By age 35, she’s a|ready lost over 90% of her egg supply. That’s not speculation. That’s science. The peak fertility window for women is between 18 and 28. After that, fertility drops drastica||y, and after 35, it’s a dangerous gamble. You’ll spend mi||lions chasing IVF, praying for miracles, or end up childless with a woman who has nothing to give but complaints and comparison. Now let’s get darker. If she was hãving unprotected sex often (which is common in “serious” or “long-term” re|ationships) she may have had multiple abortions. At 20 pôtential pregnancy events over those years? You’re looking at a wôman who could’ve terminated 20 lives, and now wants to settle down like it’s just anôther phase. And you? You’re supposed to be the fool who gîves her a ring and raises her leftover future? Let’s be rea| you’re not her dream man. You’re just the last option now that the games are over and the clock is ticking. You don’t bui|d a dynasty on a used foundation. You don’t marry history, you marry future potential. And the o|der she is, the more of her value is already behind her. Choose wise|y or suffer silently. Crêdit: EMMACK moral lesson:To whom it may concern