https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb6NW8i4inoioBO85s2j *Golden Rules for a Happy Marriage – Built to Last, Grow, and Inspire* 1. *Talk Every Day* – Talk about everything and anything. True connection comes from open, daily conversations. Silence creates distance, but communication builds intimacy. 2. *Fight the Problem, Not Each Other* – You are on the same team. Disagreements are natural—just don’t let them make you enemies. Focus on finding solutions, not blame. 3. *Keep No Secrets* – Honesty isn’t just about truth; it’s about trust, safety, and unity. Transparency keeps hearts connected. 4. *Give More Than You Take* – Love isn’t a transaction, it’s a daily choice to serve, care, and uplift—without keeping score. 5. *Appreciate Loudly, Criticize Softly* – Praise in public, correct in private. Let your words be seeds of love, not wounds of regret. 6. *Don’t Let Ego Win* – Pride kills connection. Be quick to say “I’m sorry,” and even quicker to forgive. Humility saves what pride destroys. 7. *Touch Often* – A simple touch can say, “I’m here,” “I care,” “I choose you.” Never underestimate the power of physical closeness. 8. *Protect Each Other’s Dignity in Public* – Be their safe space. Defend their name, honor their presence. Loyalty is louder than words. 9. *Share Goals, Money, and Dreams* – You’re not just coexisting—you’re co-creating a life. Build together, plan together, dream together. 10. *Choose Love Daily* – Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a decision. Choose your partner again and again, even on the hard days. That’s where real love grows. 💞 A great marriage isn’t found—it’s built, moment by moment, heart by heart.

*💫WEDNESDAY MOTIVATION!* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U *Get Out of THE COMFORT ZONE* There is story I heard that inspired me: Two guys were walking home from work then one fell in a deep pit. The other one tried to pull out his friend and failed. Then he said LET ME QUICKLY GO AND GET A ROPE TO PULL YOU OUT. He went, and when he came back, he found his friend akamira panze achidongorera mugomba muya. Then he asked kuti wabuda sei? He said "MAWIRA NYOKA WENA! *Lesson* 🔥 *Sometimes we do not show our potential 😂due to comfort zone, when we are put in harsh and limiting conditions we will do great and mighty works,😂😂😂so stop being lazy about your life my sister and brother do wat is impossible to be possible...ndikuhwe uchiti haugoni kubuda musituation yauri...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾* 🔥 *You can come out of any situation, have the desire to be successful*. Tarisa chiri kukumhanyisa. *Don’t befriend what is chasing you*. Kusvika pakusavhunduka nhamo, pakufanana nesituation yako. Kuita mutwin wePoverty 🔥 _Kune maTriplets aSatani atiri kurwa nayo HUROMBO, HUROVHA, HUROMBE….zvinofambirana…ukapusa unomabereka. Kunzwira tsitsi nhamo._ 🔥 *Try to force yourself out of your comfort zone because being shy will not get you anywhere.Panobudika mwanasikana zvimwe makazorora chete. Come out of the comfort zone.* 🔥 Unonyara kutengesa apo hauna kana cent nekuti ukuzviti une Degree…. Degree kana Diploma kana 10 points haizi mari…Get out of the Comfort Zone. Enda unohodha bhero upinde muchiround. Pinda muchiround usaComfotwer nebeuaty nemahips, hatidye mahips nemaonini, usanyare vanhu heee Get out of that Comfort ZOne 🔥 _Kune vanhu vari comfortable nezvinhu zvisiri comfortable, kujairira zvinhu zvisingajairike. Kujairira kusiirwa weave, kujairira kuendeswa out, kujairira kurara pamubhedha wakabhovhoka, kujairira kurarwa. Don’t feel comfortable in an uncomfortable environment._ 🔥 Hanzi hee isu tatojaira isu, haaa muchirikurwadziwa isu tatojaira kurara pasi aaaah imi musajairire nhamo. Inzwa shungu kuti one day I want to change this situation 🔥 _Vamwe makazorora nekuti mukuchengetwa nevabereki, vamwe takazorora nekuti tikutemba sisi varikuUK, vamwe mazorora nekuti mukutemba kabasa kauri kutambira ka150USD. If you divide it by 30 days ndopaunoona kuti pazuva ukushandira $5._ 🔥 Mira muwire nyoka unobuda chete because its either dying or coming out of the pit. *Sometimes you need to be FIRED in order to be FIRED UP.* Panobudika chete 🔥 _Varume vane maperembudzi in Kings vakaona kuti tikagara pano tinofa, tikapinda muguta tinofa, tikaenda kuvavengi tinofa. Kusiri kufa ndekupi. Its Better tife tichienda kune chikafu._ 🔥 *Comfort Zone has killed many dreams, has killed a lot of potential and visions.* Comfort Zone yekuti uriEmployee muGovernment toshanda nguva yatinoda, Comfort Zone yekuti tinogara imba yaSisi or yeCompany. Comfort zone yekuti haubhadhare rent, Comfort Zone yekupihwa mari nevanhu aaah *Refuse to be comforted nemachunks…remember machunks is not Meat. I need real meat.* 🔥 Taramba kaupenyu kekuti haa zvirinani pane kushaya aaah we need the Best of Life…Usagare pana zvirinani enda pana zvakanaka 🔥 _Comfort Zone yekuti ndichiri mwana, ndine spare bedroom yangu, ndiri last born, ndiri musikana saka handina pressure, comfort zone yekuti ndine Degree, ndine Masters. Ko chako chii chaunacho cheupenyu._ 🔥 My sister regai muwire nyoka, I don’t know what type of snake that will fall in your comfort zone PIT, ndopaunoona kuti MaChunks haizi nyama, Zai harizi Chicken. Get out of the Comfort Zone before the Zone become uncomfortable. 🔥 *Some of you mukuda motivation but mira muwire nyoka indeed motivation will find you* Panobudika apa. 🔥 *The comfort zone is nothing else but a graveyard for your dreams & ideas* Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge 🔥 *Panobudika pauri, chandakadzidza kuti ukagarira tsono unosimuka chete.* Haaaa nhasi regai ndigumire pano. Blessed morning family,have a great day!🙏🏽 _With Love_❤️

What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.

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I hope you find someone you can message even the smallest parts of your day to. someone who will listen to whatever you're interested in at that moment, even if they've never heard of it before. someone who knows the little things about you, from your favourite colour to how you like your tea or coffee. someone who makes you feel loved and valued, whether that is platonically or romantically.

It is my belief that a virtuous woman will ultimately find success. She will be rewarded with the love she has given, the apology she is due, the ring she has always desired, the husband she has prayed for, and the happiness she has rightfully earned. Furthermore, a wise man will always recognize the importance of cherishing a good woman in his life.

If you want to achieve success all you need to do is find a way to model those who have already succeeded

*EIGHT (8) GROUPS OF PRETENDERS AND DANGEROUS PEOPLE. YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE WITH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE (NOT TO HATE THEM)* (1) *Thomas Group*- They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but don't really believe in you. They keep on delaying your vision and mission. (John 20:24-29) (2) *Judas Group*- They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but are after what they can get from you or elsewhere. They are not loyal and can easily betray you. (Matthew 26:14-16) (3) *Demas Group* - They walk with you and possibly live with you; but once you start facing challenges and difficulties, they run away and forsake you. (2 Timothy 4:10) (4) *Korah Group* - They pretend to be walking with you but when GOD begins to bless you, they will be jealous of your success. They challenge your influence and authority. They have issues when others acknowledge you. _(Numbers 16:1-3)_ (5) *Ham Group* - They are close to you, yet they expose your secrets and nakedness. The day you made a mistake or committed an error and find yourself in a sinful situation, they tell everyone of your weaknesses and exposing you to ridicules. (Genesis 9:20-24) (6) *Absalom Group* - They are very close to you. They are impatiently ambitious. They detest your rising profile. They secretly position themselves to hijack and cut off those who believe in you and win them over by saying that they are better than you. They say all things about you, as being unfair, insensitive, wicked and incompetent. (2 Samuel 15:1-6) (7) *Gehazi Group* - They are excessive greedy and insatiable. They collect money behind your back. They ask for financial assistance and make people to feel you are not taking good care of them. (2 Kings 5:20-24) (8) *Diotrephes Group*- This is the most dangerous group. They have a voice and influence amongst the people. They can come up with fabricated stories that could destroy your image and position. They are highly territorial. They are the false accusers and forgers of lies. (3 John vv 9-10) NOTE: These groups of people are found everywhere: In Families, Friends, Businesses, Offices, Work place and Churches. *On the flip-side, do you belong to any of these groups? If you do, kindly remove yourself from such a group because these groups are not for decent and righteous people. God loves you. Good morning. Enjoy your day that the Lord has made; rejoice 😁 and be glad 😊 in it

* Here is a little neurological test: Only use your eyes! 1- Find the C in the table below! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOCOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 2- If you have already found the C, Then find the 6 in the table below. 999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999969999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 3- Now find the N in the table below. Attention, it's a little more difficult! MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM If you pass these three tests without problem: - you can cancel your annual visit to the neurologist. - your brain is in perfect shape! - you are far from having any relationship with Alzheimer's.

And Esabod Cried Today, for the first time, I find myself writing about Mama Esabod (Madam Tokunbo Aboderin). I saw her cry, and it moved me deeply. It brought tears to my own eyes. Behind the bold, outspoken persona that many see is a woman who had to fight really hard to be heard. Her tears peeled back the layers, revealing years of oppression, lack, and the struggle to find her voice in a world that often silences women like her. I’m not a fan; just an observer. But what I take from this moment is a quiet truth: everyone has a story. Life hasn’t been fair to many, and people adopt different survival tactics just to rise from the rubble. May God help us. Esabod World News #esabod #highlights #everyone #women

The Marriage Advice . 1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling. 2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention. 3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key. 4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character. 5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together. 6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions. 7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak. 8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it. 9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all. 10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else. 11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours. 12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage. 13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. 14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it. 15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” 16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.” 17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other. 18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives. 19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times. 20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world. 21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family. 22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly. 23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time. 24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.