• How to Make Millions From Your Knowledge or Skills This Year


    I started making money from my skill as far back as 2019, during my NYSC.

    You’ve probably come across my story, how I hired someone to design my blog, but what he delivered wasn’t quite what I had in mind.

    I remember staring at that site like, “Precious, this is not it.”

    So, I said to myself, “Since you’ll be blogging for a while, why not learn how to design your own website? At least you won’t have to chase someone to update your own work.”

    That one decision born out of frustration—set me up for life.

    In less than 2 months, I had learned website design. I’m a fast learner, so I picked it up quickly.

    One day, a friend in the family house saw what I’d done and asked me to design for him. I think I charged him around 30,000 then. Another person came, then another. The money kept rolling in from that one skill.

    Even just days to my wedding in 2022, I charged 500,000 for a website project. I still design sales pages for clients to this day.

    All because I decided to take ownership of a skill that solved a personal problem.


    Now it’s your turn.


    Maybe you’re wondering:
    “What do I even know that someone will pay for?”
    Or maybe you’ve said before, “I don’t have any skill, Precious.”

    Let me tell you the truth: That’s not true.

    You already know or enjoy something that can make you money, if only you’ll package and position it right.


    Let me show you 3 simple ways to turn what you already know, love, or enjoy into money (and potentially millions) this year:


    1. Monetise What You Know or Do

    This is the most direct route. What do you already know how to do? What have you learned from school, work experience, volunteering, or even survival?

    Examples:

    You’ve worked at a bank for years, maybe even in investment or savings advisory.

    You can become a personal finance coach, teaching working-class people how to save, invest, and manage money better.


    You studied Law and know how to draft agreements and read documents.

    You can teach real estate investors or business owners how to avoid getting scammed by helping them understand what to check in contracts.


    You know how to bake cakes or make shawarma? You can teach beginners through online classes or create a weekend bootcamp for kids and teens.


    ACTION: Make a list of 5 things you know how to do well. These can be professional, domestic, or even “random” things.

    Then ask yourself: Who needs this knowledge?
    How can I turn this into a service, product, or training?


    2. Monetise What You Love

    Some of us have hobbies or interests that we absolutely enjoy. You may not even realize people would pay you for them.

    But with the right offer and structure, your passion can pay you.

    Examples:

    You love DIY crafts and décor? Start a YouTube channel or even start here on Facebook showing tutorials, then sell craft kits or host paid virtual workshops.


    You love makeup? Start a series teaching beginner-friendly tutorials and offer makeup classes or personal shopping services.


    You love organizing and planning? Offer virtual assistance services, help people declutter their homes or plan their events.


    ACTION: Identify 1 thing you love doing, even if you’d do it for free.

    Then research 3 people online who are already making money from that thing. Study how they offer their service or package their knowledge. Model it.


    3. Monetise What You Enjoy Talking or Writing About

    If you’re that person who always finds themselves educating others about a certain topic, or you love to write long threads, posts, or voice notes about a subject, you’ve got something valuable.

    Examples:

    You’re always advising people about their careers? Package that into a career clarity program or resume writing service.


    You love talking about relationships and emotional intelligence? You can start a teach these tooics here on Facebook, then monetize through coaching, courses, or sponsorship.


    Build an audience, then sell your insight through ebooks, strategy calls, or memberships.


    ACTION: Pick your favourite topic of conversation. What do people come to you for advice on?

    Create a simple 3-post content series about that topic this week on your social media. Watch who engages–those are your potential buyers.


    You don’t need to have 5 different skills or 10 digital products.

    You just need to identify one thing, position yourself well, and start talking about it confidently.

    Start with what you know. Build with what you love. And show up with what you enjoy.

    If I could go from 30k websites to six-figure projects just by starting with frustration.

    Imagine what you can do by starting with intention.


    You feel me?

    I’m rooting for you.


    Precious Ngozika Oli
    How to Make Millions From Your Knowledge or Skills This Year I started making money from my skill as far back as 2019, during my NYSC. You’ve probably come across my story, how I hired someone to design my blog, but what he delivered wasn’t quite what I had in mind. I remember staring at that site like, “Precious, this is not it.” So, I said to myself, “Since you’ll be blogging for a while, why not learn how to design your own website? At least you won’t have to chase someone to update your own work.” That one decision born out of frustration—set me up for life. In less than 2 months, I had learned website design. I’m a fast learner, so I picked it up quickly. One day, a friend in the family house saw what I’d done and asked me to design for him. I think I charged him around 30,000 then. Another person came, then another. The money kept rolling in from that one skill. Even just days to my wedding in 2022, I charged 500,000 for a website project. I still design sales pages for clients to this day. All because I decided to take ownership of a skill that solved a personal problem. Now it’s your turn. Maybe you’re wondering: “What do I even know that someone will pay for?” Or maybe you’ve said before, “I don’t have any skill, Precious.” Let me tell you the truth: That’s not true. You already know or enjoy something that can make you money, if only you’ll package and position it right. Let me show you 3 simple ways to turn what you already know, love, or enjoy into money (and potentially millions) this year: 1. Monetise What You Know or Do This is the most direct route. What do you already know how to do? What have you learned from school, work experience, volunteering, or even survival? Examples: You’ve worked at a bank for years, maybe even in investment or savings advisory. You can become a personal finance coach, teaching working-class people how to save, invest, and manage money better. You studied Law and know how to draft agreements and read documents. You can teach real estate investors or business owners how to avoid getting scammed by helping them understand what to check in contracts. You know how to bake cakes or make shawarma? You can teach beginners through online classes or create a weekend bootcamp for kids and teens. ACTION: Make a list of 5 things you know how to do well. These can be professional, domestic, or even “random” things. Then ask yourself: Who needs this knowledge? How can I turn this into a service, product, or training? 2. Monetise What You Love Some of us have hobbies or interests that we absolutely enjoy. You may not even realize people would pay you for them. But with the right offer and structure, your passion can pay you. Examples: You love DIY crafts and décor? Start a YouTube channel or even start here on Facebook showing tutorials, then sell craft kits or host paid virtual workshops. You love makeup? Start a series teaching beginner-friendly tutorials and offer makeup classes or personal shopping services. You love organizing and planning? Offer virtual assistance services, help people declutter their homes or plan their events. ACTION: Identify 1 thing you love doing, even if you’d do it for free. Then research 3 people online who are already making money from that thing. Study how they offer their service or package their knowledge. Model it. 3. Monetise What You Enjoy Talking or Writing About If you’re that person who always finds themselves educating others about a certain topic, or you love to write long threads, posts, or voice notes about a subject, you’ve got something valuable. Examples: You’re always advising people about their careers? Package that into a career clarity program or resume writing service. You love talking about relationships and emotional intelligence? You can start a teach these tooics here on Facebook, then monetize through coaching, courses, or sponsorship. Build an audience, then sell your insight through ebooks, strategy calls, or memberships. ACTION: Pick your favourite topic of conversation. What do people come to you for advice on? Create a simple 3-post content series about that topic this week on your social media. Watch who engages–those are your potential buyers. You don’t need to have 5 different skills or 10 digital products. You just need to identify one thing, position yourself well, and start talking about it confidently. Start with what you know. Build with what you love. And show up with what you enjoy. If I could go from 30k websites to six-figure projects just by starting with frustration. Imagine what you can do by starting with intention. You feel me? I’m rooting for you. ©️Precious Ngozika Oli
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  • Dears friends, always remember that someone elses enemy might be your OWN Helper, so
    be careful how you fight battles that are not yours. Do not allow yourself to be recruited to hate or avoid who never offended you.
    Good evening everyone
    Relationships and Dating
    Admin
    Dears friends, always remember that someone elses enemy might be your OWN Helper, so be careful how you fight battles that are not yours. Do not allow yourself to be recruited to hate or avoid who never offended you. Good evening everyone 💕💕💕💕 Relationships and Dating Admin
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  • As a lady, you are free to marry a guy who is abûsive, mean and also chéats on you.

    In fact, when you see a man that fîghts in public and is always ready to qûarel, just to get his rights, my dear, marry him.

    As long as you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, it doesn't really matter.

    After all, you are meant to love people the way they are and not try to fórce them to become who you want.

    Hehehehehe, I see you giving me that ‘Coach, what are you saying? ' look.

    Smiles. Ok, let's get this straight.

    You are always quick to tell a guy that as long as he loves you as a lady, he should be able to put up with your weaknesses.

    But when it's about the guy and his weaknesses, we always put up a wide eye, that screams ‘NO WAY!'

    Yesterday, I made a random funny post about how Bro Theo ended up not proposing to sister Nkechi because he saw her dragging food at a wedding.

    And then, some ladies were saying that Bro Theo doesn't love sister Nkechi, that if he does, he would have put up with that attitude.

    Smiles. It's easier to tell a guy to put up with a négative attitude that a lady displays than to tell the lady to do the same thing.

    When it's the lady displaying the attitude, we call it being herself, but when it's a guy, we call it réd flags.

    We have gradually started applauding attitudinal issûes as part of being ourselves, and that is why we have refused to work on them.

    The end point is this

    If you can't marry a guy because he smókes, fîghts in public and even abûses you; you shouldn't expect a guy to go ahead and marry you when you are always disgràcing your village people in public by dràgging and fîghting for food, just because you are a lady.

    Oh! You call it T.Pàin? Smiles... A guy can as well excusé his attitude to be a psychological result of T. Paîn too

    You are getting it now, right? Just the way you want a great guy with demure and steeze, this is the same way a guy wants to see that in you too.

    What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Be the kind of lady a guy will be proud to call his, just the way you want to proudly call him yours.

    Be unto your partner what you would like your partner to be unto you.

    I hope this makes sense to you

    #wholisticcoach #TMAcademy #relationship #love #marriage #purpose #women #ladies

    As a lady, you are free to marry a guy who is abûsive, mean and also chéats on you. In fact, when you see a man that fîghts in public and is always ready to qûarel, just to get his rights, my dear, marry him. As long as you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, it doesn't really matter. After all, you are meant to love people the way they are and not try to fórce them to become who you want. Hehehehehe, I see you giving me that ‘Coach, what are you saying? ' look. Smiles. Ok, let's get this straight. You are always quick to tell a guy that as long as he loves you as a lady, he should be able to put up with your weaknesses. But when it's about the guy and his weaknesses, we always put up a wide eye, that screams ‘NO WAY!' Yesterday, I made a random funny post about how Bro Theo ended up not proposing to sister Nkechi because he saw her dragging food at a wedding. And then, some ladies were saying that Bro Theo doesn't love sister Nkechi, that if he does, he would have put up with that attitude. Smiles. It's easier to tell a guy to put up with a négative attitude that a lady displays than to tell the lady to do the same thing. When it's the lady displaying the attitude, we call it being herself, but when it's a guy, we call it réd flags. We have gradually started applauding attitudinal issûes as part of being ourselves, and that is why we have refused to work on them. The end point is this 👇 If you can't marry a guy because he smókes, fîghts in public and even abûses you; you shouldn't expect a guy to go ahead and marry you when you are always disgràcing your village people in public by dràgging and fîghting for food, just because you are a lady. Oh! You call it T.Pàin? Smiles... A guy can as well excusé his attitude to be a psychological result of T. Paîn too 😂 You are getting it now, right? Just the way you want a great guy with demure and steeze, this is the same way a guy wants to see that in you too. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Be the kind of lady a guy will be proud to call his, just the way you want to proudly call him yours. Be unto your partner what you would like your partner to be unto you. I hope this makes sense to you ❣️ #wholisticcoach #TMAcademy #relationship #love #marriage #purpose #women #ladies
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  • Great relationships don’t just happen — they’re built.

    Whether you’re dating or married, a strong and sweet relationship takes time, patience, and the right principles.

    Here are 5 simple reminders that’ll help you grow together and build something beautiful:

    1. Pray together, grow together – Keep God at the center of your journey. If it’s not God then it’s not good.

    2. Communicate with love and honesty – Communication is the blood of the union. Talk, listen and enjoy each other’s company.

    3. Give, Give, Give - relationship and marriage is sweet when both parties are givers and not the other way round.

    4. Respect each other’s differences – You’re a team, not twins, so don’t fight each other.

    5. Invest in friendship, not just feelings – Deep friendship sustains what passion starts.

    Take it one day at a time — love built right is always worth the wait.


    this fine girl decided to plait tomatoes after cutting her hair to start afresh

    I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo
    #relationshipcoach
    #marriagecounselor
    #lovebankers
    #nicholasmichaeloriarewo
    Great relationships don’t just happen — they’re built. Whether you’re dating or married, a strong and sweet relationship takes time, patience, and the right principles. Here are 5 simple reminders that’ll help you grow together and build something beautiful: 1. Pray together, grow together – Keep God at the center of your journey. If it’s not God then it’s not good. 2. Communicate with love and honesty – Communication is the blood of the union. Talk, listen and enjoy each other’s company. 3. Give, Give, Give - relationship and marriage is sweet when both parties are givers and not the other way round. 4. Respect each other’s differences – You’re a team, not twins, so don’t fight each other. 5. Invest in friendship, not just feelings – Deep friendship sustains what passion starts. Take it one day at a time — love built right is always worth the wait. 📸 this fine girl decided to plait tomatoes after cutting her hair to start afresh 😂 ©️ I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers #nicholasmichaeloriarewo
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  • 50 LIES NIGERIAN WOMEN TELL MEN

    1. "I’m fine." – When she’s actually upset and wants you to figure out why.

    2. "I’ve never been with anyone like you." – She says this every time, and you think you’re special.

    3. "I don’t need money, I’m okay." – Until the next shopping spree.

    4. "I’m not interested in your friend." – But she’s been flirting with him on social media.

    5. "I love surprises." – She only loves them if they’re the right kind of surprises.

    6. "I don’t know how to cook." – Until you see her preparing a full course meal for her friends.

    7. "It’s not a big deal." – When it’s actually a huge deal, and she’s really mad.

    8. "I don’t want anything for my birthday." – But she’s secretly expecting an expensive gift.

    9. "I’m not like the others." – A line she uses to make herself seem different, but... really?

    10. "I’m busy." – She’s actually busy chatting with her friends or browsing Instagram.

    11. "I’m not hungry." – Until you start eating, then she suddenly wants your food.

    12. "I don’t mind if you’re friends with your ex." – But she’s side-eyeing you every time you talk about her.

    13. "I’m not jealous." – But she’s checking your phone every five minutes.

    14. "I’m not a materialistic person." – She’s just waiting for the designer bag.

    15. "I’ll be ready in 5 minutes." – Which turns into an hour.

    16. "I love your friends." – But deep down, she can’t stand them.

    17. "I don’t care what you do for a living." – But she’s judging your career based on your earnings.

    18. "I’ve never lied to you." – Even though she’s been caught in a few fibs.

    19. "You’re the only one I’m talking to." – But you’ve seen the countless other guys texting her.

    20. "I’m not materialistic." – But she only dates guys with the latest cars and phones.

    21. "I can pay for it myself." – Until the bill arrives, and she expects you to cover it.

    22. "I don’t need help with anything." – But she’s waiting for you to volunteer.

    23. "I’m just being friendly." – When she’s actually flirting with every guy in sight.

    24. "I’m not ready for a relationship." – But she’s already planning your wedding in her mind.

    25. "I don’t like drama." – But she creates it every chance she gets.

    26. "I’ve been single for so long." – While she’s had a string of ex-boyfriends.

    27. "I’m not checking up on you." – But she knows exactly where you were last night.

    28. "I’ll come to your place anytime." – But there’s always a “good reason” why she can’t make it.

    29. "I don’t want to rush into anything." – But she’s secretly pushing for commitment.

    30. "I’m not looking for anything serious." – But she’s planning your life together.

    31. "You’re perfect just the way you are." – But she’s constantly suggesting you change your style or habits.

    32. "I’ve never been married." – Even though there’s a divorcee label she’s hiding.

    33. "I’m not interested in your money." – But she’s always asking for gifts and financial support.

    34. "I don’t mind if you’re busy." – But she’s getting upset that you’re not prioritizing her.

    35. "I’m cool with your friends." – But she’s criticizing them behind their backs.

    36. "It’s okay, I’m not offended." – When she’s actually deeply hurt by something you did or said.

    37. "I’ve never been in a toxic relationship." – But her past relationships were a mess.

    38. "I love simple dates." – Until you suggest a low-budget one, then she’s unimpressed.

    39. "I can’t do anything for you right now." – When she’s fully capable but just doesn’t want to.

    40. "I’m not interested in your hobbies." – But she’s asking you a thousand questions about them.

    41. "I like it when you’re quiet." – But she won’t stop talking.

    42. "I don’t mind sharing you with other people." – But you can tell she’s possessive.

    43. "I’m happy for you." – But she’s secretly jealous.

    44. "I’m not keeping track of your mistakes." – But she’s quick to bring them up every chance she gets.

    45. "I’m not the jealous type." – But she checks your social media obsessively.

    46. "I’ll forgive you, it’s okay." – But she holds grudges for months.

    47. "I just want peace." – But she knows how to stir things up just to get attention.

    48. "I can live without you." – But she keeps calling and texting, hoping for reassurance.

    49. "I don’t like surprises." – Until you show up with flowers and she melts.

    50. "I’ve never done anything like this before." – Yet she’s been through this routine multiple times.
    50 LIES NIGERIAN WOMEN TELL MEN 1. "I’m fine." – When she’s actually upset and wants you to figure out why. 2. "I’ve never been with anyone like you." – She says this every time, and you think you’re special. 3. "I don’t need money, I’m okay." – Until the next shopping spree. 4. "I’m not interested in your friend." – But she’s been flirting with him on social media. 5. "I love surprises." – She only loves them if they’re the right kind of surprises. 6. "I don’t know how to cook." – Until you see her preparing a full course meal for her friends. 7. "It’s not a big deal." – When it’s actually a huge deal, and she’s really mad. 8. "I don’t want anything for my birthday." – But she’s secretly expecting an expensive gift. 9. "I’m not like the others." – A line she uses to make herself seem different, but... really? 10. "I’m busy." – She’s actually busy chatting with her friends or browsing Instagram. 11. "I’m not hungry." – Until you start eating, then she suddenly wants your food. 12. "I don’t mind if you’re friends with your ex." – But she’s side-eyeing you every time you talk about her. 13. "I’m not jealous." – But she’s checking your phone every five minutes. 14. "I’m not a materialistic person." – She’s just waiting for the designer bag. 15. "I’ll be ready in 5 minutes." – Which turns into an hour. 16. "I love your friends." – But deep down, she can’t stand them. 17. "I don’t care what you do for a living." – But she’s judging your career based on your earnings. 18. "I’ve never lied to you." – Even though she’s been caught in a few fibs. 19. "You’re the only one I’m talking to." – But you’ve seen the countless other guys texting her. 20. "I’m not materialistic." – But she only dates guys with the latest cars and phones. 21. "I can pay for it myself." – Until the bill arrives, and she expects you to cover it. 22. "I don’t need help with anything." – But she’s waiting for you to volunteer. 23. "I’m just being friendly." – When she’s actually flirting with every guy in sight. 24. "I’m not ready for a relationship." – But she’s already planning your wedding in her mind. 25. "I don’t like drama." – But she creates it every chance she gets. 26. "I’ve been single for so long." – While she’s had a string of ex-boyfriends. 27. "I’m not checking up on you." – But she knows exactly where you were last night. 28. "I’ll come to your place anytime." – But there’s always a “good reason” why she can’t make it. 29. "I don’t want to rush into anything." – But she’s secretly pushing for commitment. 30. "I’m not looking for anything serious." – But she’s planning your life together. 31. "You’re perfect just the way you are." – But she’s constantly suggesting you change your style or habits. 32. "I’ve never been married." – Even though there’s a divorcee label she’s hiding. 33. "I’m not interested in your money." – But she’s always asking for gifts and financial support. 34. "I don’t mind if you’re busy." – But she’s getting upset that you’re not prioritizing her. 35. "I’m cool with your friends." – But she’s criticizing them behind their backs. 36. "It’s okay, I’m not offended." – When she’s actually deeply hurt by something you did or said. 37. "I’ve never been in a toxic relationship." – But her past relationships were a mess. 38. "I love simple dates." – Until you suggest a low-budget one, then she’s unimpressed. 39. "I can’t do anything for you right now." – When she’s fully capable but just doesn’t want to. 40. "I’m not interested in your hobbies." – But she’s asking you a thousand questions about them. 41. "I like it when you’re quiet." – But she won’t stop talking. 42. "I don’t mind sharing you with other people." – But you can tell she’s possessive. 43. "I’m happy for you." – But she’s secretly jealous. 44. "I’m not keeping track of your mistakes." – But she’s quick to bring them up every chance she gets. 45. "I’m not the jealous type." – But she checks your social media obsessively. 46. "I’ll forgive you, it’s okay." – But she holds grudges for months. 47. "I just want peace." – But she knows how to stir things up just to get attention. 48. "I can live without you." – But she keeps calling and texting, hoping for reassurance. 49. "I don’t like surprises." – Until you show up with flowers and she melts. 50. "I’ve never done anything like this before." – Yet she’s been through this routine multiple times.
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  • TO GET ALONG WITH WOMEN, YOU NEED TO DEVELOP A THICK SKIN

    If you want to get along with weemen and maintain your power, influence, respect and authority over them in your relationship and interactions with them...

    You MUST learn to be emotionally tough and have a "stone heart. Here's what I mean...

    You must learn to be comfortable with her silent treatment, and even be tough enough to be able to return the energy to her, even more than the measure which she is giving it to you.

    That is NOT t0xicity. That is NOT malice. That is NOT childish.

    No, it is NOT. Because weemen are very smart and manipulative... when they give you a certain energy, they expect you to feel bad, bend over backwards for them, and crawl your way into submission to her frame.

    And for men who are either naive, ignorant about Game or inexperienced in the affairs of dealing with weemen... they become emotionally weak and cannot handle the pressure, so they are forced to succumb to the whoman's whims of manipulations and bend into her frame.

    A whoman will piss you off, and when you get angry and yell at her, she will get angry at you for getting angry at her, put all the blame on you, and expect you to apologize to her.

    Then when you refuse to apologize... she ignores you and gives you silent treatment.

    You think she doesn't know what she's doing?

    But then... when you are equal to the task and you're emotionally tough enough to match her energy... she begins to tell you that you are insensitive, weekehd, t0xic, and that you are keeping malice with her... that men don't keep malice, and since you're doing that - then you are childish. Bro! Don't ever fall for this.

    If she ignores or ghosts you for 1 day, ghost her for 3 days or even more. If she gives you silent treatment for 1 week, return the energy to her and give her the same silent treatment for 3 extra weeks.

    All the BS (bullish!t) that weemen give to men... when the energy is returned to them, they cannot handle it.

    Weemen are emotional beings, and everything about the interaction with them is centered on emotional intelligence.

    So, you the man can either be emotionally sound, mature and tough... or emotionally weak, dumb and feeble.

    Weemen use their own emotional circus to punish men that are emotionally weak, and submit to, and follow the leadership of the men that are emotionally tough and rugged.

    But I know that SIMPle men are not strong enough to apply my teachings, because they are scared that they will lose the whoman.

    But the truth is... that whoman you're scared of losing by being emotionally weak and unable to punish her for her misbehaviour... you have already lost her. And the worse part is that, you have not only lost her, but you have also lost your Frame, your Coordination, and Masculinity. Cos you will breathe dust, choke and d!e, and she will move on to the next man to test his Masculinity.

    When she finally meets a Vamos Oriented man... she will lay down her frame and follow the man.

    This is the kind of man I am training you to become. My job is to teach you. Your job is to either learn and apply, or ignore and breathe dust.
    TO GET ALONG WITH WOMEN, YOU NEED TO DEVELOP A THICK SKIN If you want to get along with weemen and maintain your power, influence, respect and authority over them in your relationship and interactions with them... You MUST learn to be emotionally tough and have a "stone heart. Here's what I mean... You must learn to be comfortable with her silent treatment, and even be tough enough to be able to return the energy to her, even more than the measure which she is giving it to you. That is NOT t0xicity. That is NOT malice. That is NOT childish. No, it is NOT. Because weemen are very smart and manipulative... when they give you a certain energy, they expect you to feel bad, bend over backwards for them, and crawl your way into submission to her frame. And for men who are either naive, ignorant about Game or inexperienced in the affairs of dealing with weemen... they become emotionally weak and cannot handle the pressure, so they are forced to succumb to the whoman's whims of manipulations and bend into her frame. A whoman will piss you off, and when you get angry and yell at her, she will get angry at you for getting angry at her, put all the blame on you, and expect you to apologize to her. Then when you refuse to apologize... she ignores you and gives you silent treatment. You think she doesn't know what she's doing? But then... when you are equal to the task and you're emotionally tough enough to match her energy... she begins to tell you that you are insensitive, weekehd, t0xic, and that you are keeping malice with her... that men don't keep malice, and since you're doing that - then you are childish. Bro! Don't ever fall for this. If she ignores or ghosts you for 1 day, ghost her for 3 days or even more. If she gives you silent treatment for 1 week, return the energy to her and give her the same silent treatment for 3 extra weeks. All the BS (bullish!t) that weemen give to men... when the energy is returned to them, they cannot handle it. Weemen are emotional beings, and everything about the interaction with them is centered on emotional intelligence. So, you the man can either be emotionally sound, mature and tough... or emotionally weak, dumb and feeble. Weemen use their own emotional circus to punish men that are emotionally weak, and submit to, and follow the leadership of the men that are emotionally tough and rugged. But I know that SIMPle men are not strong enough to apply my teachings, because they are scared that they will lose the whoman. But the truth is... that whoman you're scared of losing by being emotionally weak and unable to punish her for her misbehaviour... you have already lost her. And the worse part is that, you have not only lost her, but you have also lost your Frame, your Coordination, and Masculinity. Cos you will breathe dust, choke and d!e, and she will move on to the next man to test his Masculinity. When she finally meets a Vamos Oriented man... she will lay down her frame and follow the man. This is the kind of man I am training you to become. My job is to teach you. Your job is to either learn and apply, or ignore and breathe dust.
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  • Been in a relationship in Nigeria now is monetized so guys you have to be very careful
    Been in a relationship in Nigeria now is monetized so guys you have to be very careful 🤭😅😆😆😂
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  • The more a man lives, the more he learns and becomes better in terms of relationships. For every failed relationship to a man leaves a big lesson that gives him insight on dos and don'ts in a relationship.

    A woman is different. For every relationship she's had leaves trauma. This is what will thwart/jeopardize her next relationship. The bigger the age, the higher the body count and the bigger the trauma. The more the trauma, the more she is not suitable for dating.

    The purer she is, the more she is likely to give you peace. The more damaged she is, the more she will be careful with you. This will see her treat you as if you are a culprit. You have heard them say, "men are all the same." This is a big sign.

    She has a heavy heart and is full of bitterness. Most times she will subconsciously start taking precautions of imaginary occurrences that play in the back of her mind. She will overthink all the time because in her mind she tries to relate her past experiences with what might happen because it started or played out in the same pattern last time with someone else.

    She will forever compare your relationship with the previous relationships she've had. If the other one used to buy her flowers and you don't, she will get upset. If the other one used to l!ck her and you don't, that's a ground to get vexed. The other one had a car and you don't, so it is annoying now.

    Just remember that you cannot delete these experiences that frustrate her due to the comparison she is ever making. You cannot heal her from this trauma no matter what. She is damaged and your therapy will never cure what she is ailing from. You cannot save her from herself.

    This is why you should leave older womeπ alone.

    Virgins are the best.
    The more a man lives, the more he learns and becomes better in terms of relationships. For every failed relationship to a man leaves a big lesson that gives him insight on dos and don'ts in a relationship. A woman is different. For every relationship she's had leaves trauma. This is what will thwart/jeopardize her next relationship. The bigger the age, the higher the body count and the bigger the trauma. The more the trauma, the more she is not suitable for dating. The purer she is, the more she is likely to give you peace. The more damaged she is, the more she will be careful with you. This will see her treat you as if you are a culprit. You have heard them say, "men are all the same." This is a big sign. She has a heavy heart and is full of bitterness. Most times she will subconsciously start taking precautions of imaginary occurrences that play in the back of her mind. She will overthink all the time because in her mind she tries to relate her past experiences with what might happen because it started or played out in the same pattern last time with someone else. She will forever compare your relationship with the previous relationships she've had. If the other one used to buy her flowers and you don't, she will get upset. If the other one used to l!ck her and you don't, that's a ground to get vexed. The other one had a car and you don't, so it is annoying now. Just remember that you cannot delete these experiences that frustrate her due to the comparison she is ever making. You cannot heal her from this trauma no matter what. She is damaged and your therapy will never cure what she is ailing from. You cannot save her from herself. This is why you should leave older womeπ alone. Virgins are the best.
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  • "No Nigerian girl should date a Nigerian man. Nigerian men and women should not be in relationships with each other.

    The problem is that we share the same foundation and upbringing, and that’s why it can never work. It’s like police and thief—no matter what, there will always be wahala. Even if nothing is wrong, we will still find something wrong."

    — Timaya
    "No Nigerian girl should date a Nigerian man. Nigerian men and women should not be in relationships with each other. The problem is that we share the same foundation and upbringing, and that’s why it can never work. It’s like police and thief—no matter what, there will always be wahala. Even if nothing is wrong, we will still find something wrong." — Timaya
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  • Hmmm life no balance o,
    After 18 years relationship see wetin Happened in 2 weeks I Do...
    Hmmm life no balance o, After 18 years relationship see wetin Happened in 2 weeks I Do...😭😭
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  • *"Your mouth is the first enemy of your life. If you want to live long, close it and think twice before you speak. Words once spoken cannot be taken back, and careless speech can ruin relationships, opportunities, and even lives. Silence, at times, is the best wisdom one can have. Guard your words and likewise guard your life."*

    GOOD DAY
    *"Your mouth is the first enemy of your life. If you want to live long, close it and think twice before you speak. Words once spoken cannot be taken back, and careless speech can ruin relationships, opportunities, and even lives. Silence, at times, is the best wisdom one can have. Guard your words and likewise guard your life."* GOOD DAY 🙏
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  • TYPES OF WOMEN.

    By Mr VIDAMBU Sam.

    So many men see a Lady, like her, love and want to marry her without trying to find out what type of Lady she is and if she's the type they want to go down the high with. Beauty doesn't make a Lady, personality does and Ladies have so amazing personalities if only you can get to understand your Lady and she's the perfect match for your person, not a perfect Lady. There is no perfect human being.

    There are different types of Ladies out there. We encounter them every day but pay little or no attention to their persons because we get carried away with their beauty, shapes, accents and worth. Sir, stop being distracted, stay focused.

    In this article, I'm going to share with us, the types of women we encounter now and then so that we can have a better understanding of whom we are dealing with at the time.

    Please, note that the level of religion your Lady operates in doesn't change or affect her personality. Men change spiritually, women don't because they are spiritually made and can operate simultaneously both spiritually and physically unlike men who are physically made.

    1.FAMILY LADY.
    This kind of woman is very emotional. She is very attached to every member of her family. You will come to identify her if she keeps on telling you about her cousins or relatives people you never met; on your date nights. They take a firm stand on political and equality issues. Pick your discussion topics very wisely.

    2.MOMMY LADY.
    You will not recognize her instantly. This kind of woman possesses motherly instincts that come out during the delicate or sensitive stages of your life. They are genuinely caring in nature. If you miss texting or calling her after reaching home, expect a minimum of Ten missed calls waiting for you. If you get a minor paper cut, she’ll appear with substantial first aid. A sneeze can end up with a thermometer in your mouth and at least three days of rest!

    3.HUSTLER.
    This kind of woman is very hard-working by nature. Her priority will always be her dreams. Don’t misjudge/doubt or condemn her if she cancels the date for any assignment/work. You may raise your expectations, but in reality, be mentally prepared to support her career decisions. You may wish to help her in any way possible, but this kind of woman prefers playing their game independently.

    4.GOSSIP LADY.
    This type of lady is Google in human skin. They usually have a record of everyone and everything including you. You may find it difficult at times when you want to have some deep, meaningful conversation, but on days when you want something to cheer up your mood, her enthusiastic voice would be enough.

    5.THE LISTENER.
    This is the favourite type for the majority of men in the world. She’ll always be there to listen to you without any judgment or interruption. She is the silent observer kind. These kinds of women are introverts or ambiverts. She takes her own time to open up to you. Once found, she’ll be your first go-to person whenever you are feeling low and just need someone to listen to you.

    6.SUPER LADY.
    These women are an upgraded version of the hustler types. They do work hard and no matter what they are going through physically, emotionally, mentally or financially they will never let you know. They are emotionally convincing. They hardly lose their calm during the emergency. They are experts in multi-tasking and hiding their emotions. If you have found someone of this kind, then you need to be very careful about your actions because no matter how strong they are, they also need someone to look after them.

    7.Ms PERFECTIONIST.
    A woman with all positive habits. Disciplined life, clean home, hygienic environment, healthy eating habits and, focused on goals. You are making the wrong choice if you are exactly opposite to her. Compatibility is going to be a significant issue. But if you are looking to improve your current lifestyle, then this kind of woman is your best choice.

    8.PANDA LADY.
    She is a cute, lazy, sloth bear who can be your great partner in crime to hang out with. Your weekends will never be the same after you have found her. Get ready for disappeared hoodies, unlimited pizza deliveries, and binge-watching during the weekends. If you are too lucky, then she will also be your video game and watching a football match partner.

    9.BOSS LADY.
    The dominating ones. The Ms. Always Right. If you are in a relationship with her, be ready to change your schedules, according to her. And of course! Never dare to end up with any kind of disagreement with her. However, if you are someone who has lost track in life, nobody is better than her to help you get back to find yourself. She may appear like the most aggressive one but stick to her till the end, and you may discover amazing facts about her that nobody else knows.

    10. DRAMA QUEEN.
    This type of lady is the one who will exaggerate the given situation. Be sure that you won’t be allowed to spend much of your time with friends or relatives. Forget about talking to other girls. Most of your time is spent in shopping malls or wiping her tears. No matter how much possessive she is for you, this action will make you adore her even more.

    11. PARTY LADY.
    This is the type of woman who can make you feel insecure if your personality is not understanding types, then she is the one. She spends most of her weekends at the disco parties. She’s the kind who will make time for you according to her mood. Be prepared for cancelled date nights. You can try to get involved in her inner circle of friends, which may take time, and you may not feel comfortable too. Anyways, stay safe.

    12. FAIRYTALE LADY.
    This is a Daydreamer Queen. For her, logical thinking is of the least priority. She’s the emotional kind who breaks down quickly. If she says Unicorns exist, just say yes. She still has a touch of innocence in her nature. Be there to take care of her, and she’ll treat you the same.

    13.DIFFICULT LADY.
    These women are ambitious and bold, adventurous and emotional, brainy and defiant, incorrigible and outlandish, determined and badass. They are about pleasing themselves as much as those around them. They don't say yes simply because it is expected of them.

    14.STRONG MINDED LADY.
    This is a courageous Lady, one who doesn't depend on anyone else. She knows who she is. She build herself and builds others up. She doesn't see showing emotion as a weakness. She follows her intuition and doesn't overthink everything. She is truly happy and knows what it takes to make her own happiness.

    15.ELEGANT LADY.
    This lady displays self-respect, class, appreciation, and etiquette. She does not allow her mood to affect her manners. She is wise to know that being an elegant lady doesn’t mean that one should be snobby or stuck up, but that one should have dignity, consideration, and moderation in one's daily actions.

    No matter which kind of woman you may come across, just respect the way they are, and you will get the same treatment. And make sure, whoever you end up with, you won’t force her to change her current self.

    Changing a Lady is indirectly creating a monster. You will not like the result. Your best bet is to leave her to herself. Accept her for who she is and find a means to manage her person. That is the only way you can have the best of her.

    Marrying a good mother to your kids is better than marrying a good wife for yourself.

    (You can forward this information to others but without removing Vidambu's name and put yours. This information has been copy righted under Sam Vidambu, any form of plagiarism will be regarded as an offence).

    You Are Blessed.
    TYPES OF WOMEN. By Mr VIDAMBU Sam. So many men see a Lady, like her, love and want to marry her without trying to find out what type of Lady she is and if she's the type they want to go down the high with. Beauty doesn't make a Lady, personality does and Ladies have so amazing personalities if only you can get to understand your Lady and she's the perfect match for your person, not a perfect Lady. There is no perfect human being. There are different types of Ladies out there. We encounter them every day but pay little or no attention to their persons because we get carried away with their beauty, shapes, accents and worth. Sir, stop being distracted, stay focused. In this article, I'm going to share with us, the types of women we encounter now and then so that we can have a better understanding of whom we are dealing with at the time. Please, note that the level of religion your Lady operates in doesn't change or affect her personality. Men change spiritually, women don't because they are spiritually made and can operate simultaneously both spiritually and physically unlike men who are physically made. 1.FAMILY LADY. This kind of woman is very emotional. She is very attached to every member of her family. You will come to identify her if she keeps on telling you about her cousins or relatives people you never met; on your date nights. They take a firm stand on political and equality issues. Pick your discussion topics very wisely. 2.MOMMY LADY. You will not recognize her instantly. This kind of woman possesses motherly instincts that come out during the delicate or sensitive stages of your life. They are genuinely caring in nature. If you miss texting or calling her after reaching home, expect a minimum of Ten missed calls waiting for you. If you get a minor paper cut, she’ll appear with substantial first aid. A sneeze can end up with a thermometer in your mouth and at least three days of rest! 3.HUSTLER. This kind of woman is very hard-working by nature. Her priority will always be her dreams. Don’t misjudge/doubt or condemn her if she cancels the date for any assignment/work. You may raise your expectations, but in reality, be mentally prepared to support her career decisions. You may wish to help her in any way possible, but this kind of woman prefers playing their game independently. 4.GOSSIP LADY. This type of lady is Google in human skin. They usually have a record of everyone and everything including you. You may find it difficult at times when you want to have some deep, meaningful conversation, but on days when you want something to cheer up your mood, her enthusiastic voice would be enough. 5.THE LISTENER. This is the favourite type for the majority of men in the world. She’ll always be there to listen to you without any judgment or interruption. She is the silent observer kind. These kinds of women are introverts or ambiverts. She takes her own time to open up to you. Once found, she’ll be your first go-to person whenever you are feeling low and just need someone to listen to you. 6.SUPER LADY. These women are an upgraded version of the hustler types. They do work hard and no matter what they are going through physically, emotionally, mentally or financially they will never let you know. They are emotionally convincing. They hardly lose their calm during the emergency. They are experts in multi-tasking and hiding their emotions. If you have found someone of this kind, then you need to be very careful about your actions because no matter how strong they are, they also need someone to look after them. 7.Ms PERFECTIONIST. A woman with all positive habits. Disciplined life, clean home, hygienic environment, healthy eating habits and, focused on goals. You are making the wrong choice if you are exactly opposite to her. Compatibility is going to be a significant issue. But if you are looking to improve your current lifestyle, then this kind of woman is your best choice. 8.PANDA LADY. She is a cute, lazy, sloth bear who can be your great partner in crime to hang out with. Your weekends will never be the same after you have found her. Get ready for disappeared hoodies, unlimited pizza deliveries, and binge-watching during the weekends. If you are too lucky, then she will also be your video game and watching a football match partner. 9.BOSS LADY. The dominating ones. The Ms. Always Right. If you are in a relationship with her, be ready to change your schedules, according to her. And of course! Never dare to end up with any kind of disagreement with her. However, if you are someone who has lost track in life, nobody is better than her to help you get back to find yourself. She may appear like the most aggressive one but stick to her till the end, and you may discover amazing facts about her that nobody else knows. 10. DRAMA QUEEN. This type of lady is the one who will exaggerate the given situation. Be sure that you won’t be allowed to spend much of your time with friends or relatives. Forget about talking to other girls. Most of your time is spent in shopping malls or wiping her tears. No matter how much possessive she is for you, this action will make you adore her even more. 11. PARTY LADY. This is the type of woman who can make you feel insecure if your personality is not understanding types, then she is the one. She spends most of her weekends at the disco parties. She’s the kind who will make time for you according to her mood. Be prepared for cancelled date nights. You can try to get involved in her inner circle of friends, which may take time, and you may not feel comfortable too. Anyways, stay safe. 12. FAIRYTALE LADY. This is a Daydreamer Queen. For her, logical thinking is of the least priority. She’s the emotional kind who breaks down quickly. If she says Unicorns exist, just say yes. She still has a touch of innocence in her nature. Be there to take care of her, and she’ll treat you the same. 13.DIFFICULT LADY. These women are ambitious and bold, adventurous and emotional, brainy and defiant, incorrigible and outlandish, determined and badass. They are about pleasing themselves as much as those around them. They don't say yes simply because it is expected of them. 14.STRONG MINDED LADY. This is a courageous Lady, one who doesn't depend on anyone else. She knows who she is. She build herself and builds others up. She doesn't see showing emotion as a weakness. She follows her intuition and doesn't overthink everything. She is truly happy and knows what it takes to make her own happiness. 15.ELEGANT LADY. This lady displays self-respect, class, appreciation, and etiquette. She does not allow her mood to affect her manners. She is wise to know that being an elegant lady doesn’t mean that one should be snobby or stuck up, but that one should have dignity, consideration, and moderation in one's daily actions. No matter which kind of woman you may come across, just respect the way they are, and you will get the same treatment. And make sure, whoever you end up with, you won’t force her to change her current self. Changing a Lady is indirectly creating a monster. You will not like the result. Your best bet is to leave her to herself. Accept her for who she is and find a means to manage her person. That is the only way you can have the best of her. Marrying a good mother to your kids is better than marrying a good wife for yourself. (You can forward this information to others but without removing Vidambu's name and put yours. This information has been copy righted under Sam Vidambu, any form of plagiarism will be regarded as an offence). You Are Blessed.
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