Once you graduate from the university as a lady, there is this marriage competitions that takes place. Every eke market days, you will get wedding invitation from a Coursemate. Sometimes, the pressure isn’t that much when you are still a student because some people do not desire to marry while in school. But, after graduation, the pressure might be coming in any time the news of a Coursemate who got married is shared. It can even become an intense pressure when your friends start getting married one after the other. Some might be getting married, others will be traveling out, some will be securing a job, getting quality skills and all that. And there is you who doesn’t know what to do and where next to go. You might decide to start dating with purpose and it will seem as if none of the men you are meeting have purpose. You will try to secure a job and it will be like nothing is out there for you, you even barely have money to learn a skill. This is for you; when the lifter of men remembers you, your blessings will rain! Life is not a competition, it’s a personal race. It’s not about how far, it is how well. It’s not about who got to the race first, it is the question of, did you also win? You are not doing anything bad or different as long as you are trying to better your life, your time is yet to come. Hold on to hope, stay away from comparisons and the pressure to compare your progress to others. God has not forsaken you, He is preparing you. Jehova wants to take glory from your story. Hold on, Keep trying, keep praying, keep being close to God and doing your best. When it’s your time, you will become the latest. Our God is the father of those who have been forsaken. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice Happy weekend everyone.

When I saw people dragging solomon Buchi, I smiled. I'm glad he spoke up about this; at least he didn't keep it to himself while his previous post might have misled others.. Life is in stages, and phases! Some people react to things based on their current life stage. Do not speak from a place of limitation. I've seen some women label others materialistic for enjoying luxury or fashion, but when they can afford it themselves, their tune changes. I have seen people who praised simplicity suddenly develop an appreciation for luxury when their finances improve. I have seen people say they would never spend a certain amount on something, only to change their mind when they can afford it. I have seen people who championed privacy just because they have camera issues or doesn’t stay in a good place, suddenly start flaunting their lives once they leveled up. I have seen those who claim to hate politics carry it on their head when opportunities are given to them. I have seen those who claimed they don’t want popularity, doing everything now to get fame . Some people condemn what they can't have, and many justify their views based on their current circumstances. Don’t be like that! Don't be quick to speak based on stress, envy, or your current circumstances, because if your words mislead others, you both will reap the consequences. Don’t deceive people with your words, sieve what you post online and what you say offline. Don’t be too quick to say things! When you grow and unlearn, and realize that you were wrong, own up and correct your previous stance. Unfortunately, even some of the people throwing stones at him are guilty of this but in a different way. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

When I noticed Evan Okoro on Facebook, she was still staying in a self com apartment or so. That particular day she was addressing people who were trolling her for not cleaning up, not acting like a celebrity and not wearing designers. She said; I have responsibilities to take care of and I don’t need to fake it to meet up with people’s expectations. LIFE NA JEJE, LIFE NA TURN BY TURN. I don’t forget this statement of hers because that’s what made me to follow her inasmuch some of her contents then wasn’t really fun for me. This lady has proved that life na turn by turn. In this space, I have seen her evolve so much. She has accomplished a lot and one of the things she did that I loved was building a home for her parents. The way she takes care of her mum makes me smile. I am her mum’s top fan. I just want to say this to you, too. Life na jeje, life na turn by turn. Don’t allow anyone to use comparison to make you run faster than your shadow. Keep building, keep preparing, keep practicing, keep working, keep showing up, one day, it will be your turn. And today, she’s also married. All the best to you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Let your wife be better than you met her. That is what shows that the head of the house is a good one. A good husband helps his wife become a better version of herself. When your wife improves and grows after marriage, it's a testament to your leadership and love. Try to be a partner who uplifts, supports, and empowers your wife to become her best version, it’s an honour to you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

The desire to peppêr or show off to your ex only works if they are still interested in you. Before some individuals end or walk out of a relationship or marriage, they may have exhausted every love they feel for you. They may have endured immense pain, emotional trauma, and chosen silence over drama. They may have concealed their thoughts and kept their pains to themselves. They may have experienced situations that have made them see the part of you they can’t forget. So, it's not every ex who is interested in whatever you are doing. Some just want their peace. Some have unloved you and you are just a random person to them. Not everyone who breaks up or gets divorced wants to get back together especially when they left because of abúse, be it physically, verbally or emotionally 📌 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I read a post where a lady asked women“what’s your greatest regret in life” and most of the comments said MARRIAGE. Someone commented on the post, asking why people marry the wrong person, here are some reasons; 1. Pressure; most people just get married because of family pressure. A family where everyone is directly and indirectly pushing them to marry. They keep reminding you of your age and making reference to your friends or cousins that are married. Additionally , some ladies also pressure themselves, they marry because their friends are all married, they are so desperate to get the “Mrs” title and they may settle for just marry anyone. 2. Money; some women from poor backgrounds are often intentional to marry a rich man. This can make them to settle for any man as long as he is rich. They would rather cry in a rich man’s house than to suffer with any man. 3. Pity; There are people who have married men they never love just out of pity: they don’t want to look like a bad person, especially if they have dated for long. 4. Low self esteem; there are women who settle with someone they are aware that he won’t treat them well because they feel they will never find someone better or someone who loves them. 5. Fear of the unknown; the fear of “what if I didn’t get to meet another person”. Some women might settle for the available person even when they are not happy with their choice, just to avoid the fear of loneliness. 6. Family foundation; some women come from homes where the women rarely experience peaceful marriages. it’s just like a pattern that seems to follow the women. 7. Change; humans are prone to change: some women got married to men who seem amazing only to be faced with an unexpected change in the marriage on the long run. 8. Ignoring red flags; some women are so eager to settle down that they ignore warning signs, believing they can be able to change him. To mention but a few…. Happy and healthy marriage is achievable, while some people regret their marriages, there are people sincerely enjoying their marriages. I’m not talking about those who mask their truth online. I am talking about those who are genuinely happy. A healthy marriage is achievable. know what you want, write it down, and make it bold and clear. Choose the right person for yourself,( Someone you are compatible with, someone you can tolerate, someone you have same vision with) and involve God in your decision. Make the right choice, and if things change tomorrow, you will have peace knowing it was not always that way. My prayer is that God will align you with the right person and make your home peaceful, Amen! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

There are ladies that are meant to marry rich men, it has been destined. This kind of ladies don’t even do too much about it, the Grace will just connect them to the made men when the time comes. They don’t struggle for it, they don’t make numerous posts about it, all they just do is to live. Then, there are ladies that are meant to build with a man, this type rarely meet men that are already made, they always attract hustling guys. Sometimes, the reason some ladies often attract men that are struggling can be a pattern, or bad spirits, but most times, these kind of ladies are called KING MAKERS. There is something about them that compels anyone they are committed to, to grow and become better. It’s a grace that gives idea to create wealth and to multiply it. A true King Maker has the power to transform her own status by becoming the feminine equivalent of the man she desires. Most King Makers attract high value partners only after they have built themselves up to a similar level of greatness they desire from a man. If they simply wait for a man to rescue them, they will likely end up with someone who is financially unstable. With God's guidance, whether they marry someone wealthy or not, their partner’s life and status often change for good. But, walking in this grace comes with challenges. Satan will try to obscure it, just to make it seem like a cursè instead of a blessing. Instead of the man to see the blessings, situations will arise that can make the grace to appear like bad luck. If you notice that people around you experience beautiful changes and increase when they meet you, stay consecrated, and prayerful. This will help prevent the enemy from sabotaging your gift and spoiling the good work. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

One of the noticeable flaws about some successful ladies is pride and arrogance. Money itself is not bad; it's not the root of evíl. It becomes evíl in the wrong hands. It's the Lord's desire that we prosper as our souls prosper. Your success and wealth shouldn't be a ticket to disrespect people, look down on others, and belittle men. Arrogance doesn't look good on anyone. Your success as a woman is more evident and soothing when you maintain your feminine charms. Bragging shouldn't be part of your approach. Queens are not loud. If you are a family oriented lady, pray for the grace to sustain success and wealth without it negatively impacting your marriage and home. Don't let success turn you into someone you are not or make you feel like you're in competition with men. Maintain your femininity; it's not inferiority, it's your power. Being feminine is a blessing. We are not in competition with men. The goal is to have a good life, and to propagate the gospel of God. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

A man can be the only provider in the house and still be a family oriented man. He will hustle and still make out time for family, and still value his home. Being a career woman is never an excuse to neglect your home, or to be less accessible by loved ones . Success shouldn't pave the core values of life. Unless you don't desire marriage or having a family, which is fine; otherwise, learn to balance your desire for success with being lovable. Many children have been emotionally traumat!zèd by their career driven parents. These parents seems to be physically present, but act like absent parents. Maintain a balance between fame, wealth, success, and being family oriented. You can be a loving mother and wife and still be a great woman of valor. You can be anything you want to be and still be lovely🥰 Just find a supportive partner, it makes it easier for you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You can’t settle for less right? I hope you are not female version of the ‘less’ you don’t want to settle for? If everyone should marry someone in the same status and level with them, will you still be able to marry your dream man? I hope you are not the female version of the kind of ‘Less’ you don’t want to settle with? While you are avoiding men who are financially struggling, many successful men are avoiding ladies with no direction or purpose in life. I shaa hope you are not someone else’s version of ‘less’. Be productive! Happy new week beloved 🥂💖 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

The dánger of feeling that your beauty is your only way of attracting wealthy men is that, when things don’t go as planned, you may feel pressured to start commercializing your body. If you have the opportunity and resources to hustle, please, hustle like no man is coming to save you. See eh? Hustle as if your beauty won't attract wealthy men. Hustle as if no one will come to save you if you don’t make it. When we talk about hustling, it can sound ambiguous. But I tell you, doing something that can at least cover your bills is part of hustling. It might not satisfy your wants now, but it can cover your basic needs. All I'm advocating for is for you to have the right mindset. Believe in your ability to create wealth, change your mentality, and stop seeing money as gender based. You don’t also need to do illegal and immoral things before you can make it. Let me tell you, there are women who achieved success and climbed the ladder of fame without compromising their values. They shifted their mindset from feeling entitled to support and took responsibility for their own success. Just have the right mindset and determination, you will be shocked how much you will achieve. Doubts and entitlement are your only distraction! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

No one is happy when they are not doing well financially. No matter how much you try to be happy, responsibilities will remind you of your financial predicaments. Dear men, do not relent on your financial freedom. Life is not fair to a poor man. This is not about impressing baddies. There's happiness when you can afford basic needs comfortably without stress. You will end up taking the wrong path to make money if your only motivation for financial freedom is to impress ladies and chase after them. Stay clear from distractions. Womanising is a financial mistake. There's no gain attached to it. It's an unhealthy lifestyle. Your responsibility as a man is numerous. As a man, the probability of having someone to save you is low unless you come from a financially secured family. Nnaaa, Get focused. Let them mock and broke shame you. All these won't matter when you are comfortable. Be diligent in all you do, be closer to your maker, get a decent woman, and stay clear from distractions. Your success is close. Never be comfortable with being poor. You are worth more. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Consistency is the reason many people here have large followers. When their posts got no engagement, they continued to post, and when their posts went viral, they maintained their posting schedule. In good and bad, they posted. Some individuals might find it annoying to see their posts popping up every day, only to wake up one day to see those consistent posters celebrating a turning point of gaining a large following. Consistency is what set people apart. It's consistency in prayers that makes people have more answered prayers over others. It's consistency in reading that makes some students more knowledgeable than their peers. It's consistency that makes some business people to sell more. It’s consistency and diligence that makes some people more successful than others. Some may achieve success easily, but, if it's hard for you to achieve easily, be consistent. Although it might look like you're not making progress, one day, you might wake up to success. Be consistent in everything you do to improve 🥂💖 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Anything your mind can’t conceive, your hands can’t achieve. When there is a will, there will be a way. Whatever you can’t envision will never become a reality. If you don’t see yourself as a prospective successful person, it’s impossible to be successful. If you don’t think success, you might not be successful. If you don’t dream big, you achieve little. Don’t feel that you are too little or too small to achieve greater things. Don’t be comfortable in your status or level. Anything is possible to anyone who believes. When you believe and work towards it, God will bring them to fruition . Think big!! Think things that seem impossible. Everything change starts from the mind. See it that you can do it, that you can make it, that you can become better. Your present situation shouldn’t determine your mindset, even in the little, think big. Your background shouldn’t make you feel you can’t, you can! All things are possible for those who believe. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You need to read this if you are living abroad. Staying abroad without having an investment is a financial mistake . You see that the desires to support friends, family and strangers should be balanced. I understand that one of the top reasons to make money is to help family and support others, but know your limit. Invest your money wisely. I have seen how people who have been living abroad can go broke within weeks or months of returning home. Aside from their daily or monthly salaries, some have no sustainable assets to boast of. What if situations that are bigger than you should arise and force you to come home, how will you cope? If you are not a citizen of a country, you are a stranger, anything can happen. Invest! Don’t eat or spend all. Not every emergency should be your emergency. When you come home and go broke, those who you once outdid yourself for might abandon and even ridicule you. There should be limits to your expenses even when it comes to family. Buy landed properties, buy things in Naira that are valuable, buy shares, save in dollars, start a business, etc. For the ones that are unmarried, reconsider using your money to impress women. Make a good choice of a woman who will be supportive. Remember, as a stranger in a foreign land (unless you have obtained citizenship) anything can happen, including natural disasters. Make hay while the sun shines. Also, be careful of people you entrust valuable documents, properties and even money to; no one rises by unnecessary wastage. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Achalugo, if Odogwu Panaran decides to support your business or equip you with skills, are you prepared? If an opportunity that would help you to create wealth arises, are you prepared for it? Making money begins with a mindset shift, where you tell yourself it's time to start preparing by learning skills, starting a business, being serious with your studies, taking action, and being committed with anything that you are doing . When preparations meet opportunity, it leads to success. If you don't have a skill or business now, start preparing. Write down the things you want to learn or do; your aim and strategy. If it's something you can start by practicing on YouTube, start now. If it requires a physical office, do a market survey and know what the shop rent costs. Prepare as if the opportunity is around. There are men who can support and develop a woman; don't be a type that will be confused on what to do, when you meet someone like that. You need to have ideas, skills, a career that can be invested in, and the strength to do it, so that the business won’t flop. Achalugo, even if you don’t have a sustainable source of living now, have ideas that can create wealth. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You hate broke men, right? One day, you might realize that settling down with a broke woman is a deep seated fear for some men. You will also come to the light that some men detest dependency and are only attracted to intelligent women who can sustain themselves financially. One day, you will realize that beauty and love might be the least things men might start considering before settling down. It is said that a man's heart is through his stomach; I pray you won't wake up to find men choosing to cook for themselves rather than being the sole provider. The era of a prince going to the village to marry a naive girl only exists in movies now. Soon, not coming from a comfortable background or lacking financial stability might become reasons some women may remain unmarried. Considering the current state of the economy, having a stable income might become a top priority for men when considering settlement. Get a skill! You might not be as wealthy as Vekee James yet, but focus on acquiring skills that will sustain you. If you are unaware, a woman's profession and career have become key considerations for men before settling down. Even the rich are now settling with the rich. If someone is encouraging you to become self sufficient, take their advice seriously. Just make sure in all these, you won’t lose the core values of life and your feminine energy. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

"YOU ARE MY WIFE, I WILL MARRY YOU," Is not a guarantee that he is your husband. The fact that he knows what he wants in a partner shouldn't make you forget what you desire from a partner. 'You are my wife or I will marry you' should only make you happy when it's coming from someone you love and want. Don't allow the sound of 'you are my wife' to cloud your sense of reasoning. As much as he wants to marry you, be certain that you also have the desire to marry him. A man can have a clear vision of his ideal partner from the start, and still not be a great partner. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I will marry well, and I will marry right; should not be a statement you say casually. It is something you should turn into a prayer and pray about it fervently. Declare it and pray intentionally, and when you pray, look out for instructions. The reason we pray sometimes and feel it wasn't answered is because we don't wait for instructions or heed to instructions. Don't be too quick to disregard the ‘NO’ from family or friends, It might be the voice of God. God does not come down on earth to tell us when we are making a mistake, He can use people’s voices. Test the voice that is saying ‘NO’ through prayers and check if it's the voice of envy, anger, or God. God allows us to make our choices. When you pray and refuse to submit to God's instructions, He will allow you to live. Pray for discerning spirit to know when He is saying ‘NO, YES OR WAIT’. Marrying the wrong partner might not be a vïolent partner. You are in the wrong home when you are physically, emotionally, or verbally abúsed. A partner who doesn't have control of their anger is a red flag, even if they don't hït you. You will fight unnecessary battles when you are in the wrong place. Everyone has someone who fit into their destiny, life, and calling. If you get linked to someone who is incompatible with you in all areas, you will lose yourself. You are lucky if you're not yet married, you have time to make the best choice. Do not be emotionally manipulated to make the wrong choice. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I have seen and met women who are married to very rich men, but they are very broke, unhappy, and living poorly than those who feel they are poor. Make money as a woman; so that your only reason for settling down won’t be survival. When you also have a livelihood, even if you desire to marry for money, you will have your time to make the best choice. Not every married woman that is in the front car, beautiful home, wearing nice hair and nice clothes, is happy. I know you will say; it’s better to cry on a yacht than in KEKENAPEP shee? Pray you don’t experience what it means to cry in Lamborghini. You will understand why women divorce their rich husbands. One day, you will understand that happiness, peace, and joy can’t be emphasized. Empower yourself! There are good rich men, but you can only find them when your reason for settling down isn’t for survival. A lady told me how she is bankrupt, she's married to a man who's very wealthy, but she has no money in her account. He prefers to buy her gifts than to give her money. He refused to open a business for her or allow her work. He locked her out, disrespected her family, broke shamed them, and left her outside till it's night because they had an argument. He brings in girls anytime he wants without any respect for the woman, to mention but a few. Pray to be happy in your marriage; do not even desire to cry anywhere, both in yacht or Keke. Most importantly, empower yourself so you won't marry wholly on survival. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I don’t really know who told some people that flaunting a relationship means fidelity? That the person is faithful ke;? Cheating can happen regardless of public displays of affection. Flaunting a relationship on social media doesn't necessarily mean the person is faithful. In fact, some people might use the display of affection as a way to hide their infidelity, present a perfect image, or distract from their true intentions. You have not seen people who post their husband/ wife but are terr!ble cheat? The ones that flaunt their boyfriend/girlfriend; yet, they have other intimate partners? When you understand this; life will seem different to you. I have seen so many ladies that flaunt their partner yet are entertaining more guys, doing hookŭps and other things. Abi, the guys that will deny the girlfriend they just posted on their wall in a lady’s inbox, with the claim that it’s not a serious thing or the lady is not giving him peace? If a married man can boldly wear his wedding ring, have the pictures of his family on his profile and yet, flirt with ladies, it’s enough reminder that one can be “a flaunting cheating partner” lol! As I stated earlier; I don’t have issues with Public Display of Affection; some people are just true to it, they do it with their heart and mind, but in a generation that you don’t even know the plans your partner have for you, you need to slow it down especially in RELATIONSHIP, and as a woman too. When a relationship ends, most ladies line up for the guy as a replacement, but some men might withdraw from the lady. Women are always in the receiving end; the pain, shame, and tears are more on them. Celebrate your partner at the right times and places, but know when to be private. Relationships can be a test of compatibility or a game to some. You can love someone with your heart, but they are just passing time with you. These things don't have formular, still thread carefully. #yourfriend #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

At your lowest, not everyone who shows support is genuinely rooting for you. Some people only love you when you're struggling because it makes them feel superior. Their smiles and support will likely fade when you start doing better. They might even reduce their gifts and support, because it was never from the heart; they only loved the version of you at your lowest. They're happy to help as long as you remain beneath them. Some people are not genuinely cheering you on; they're rooting for your poor and helpless version. They get angry when life improves for you, feeling disconnected as you rise above. But there are others who stick by you through thick and thin, they are there in your lowest and still sincerely clap for you in your best moments. Their hearts don't palpitate when they hear your good news; they don't feel threatened by your wins. Recognize these genuine supporters and keep them close. As for those who only show up when you're down and feel bad when you're winning, let them go! Fortunately, if your growth is ordained by God. no one can stop it. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You do not need to sit with women who always say; my husband did this, he bought me that, he promised me that, this and that, if you are still building with your husband. You need to flee from friends who remind you how they will never cook or do chores for their wives if you do chores at home . Be careful of societal pressures that destrǒy home; it entraps you the more you listen to it. It creates unnecessary comparison in your mind that’s disastroùs. Every day, we preach that couples should get a formula that works for them. Why then do you allow another person’s formula to destroy yours? Be careful! You give room to all these unnecessary pressures when you pay attention to it. Sometimes; allow those ladies to feel they married better, just allow them to feel themselves and remove yourself from such situations. You won’t know how bad you have lost your peace if you keep listening to them. Sometimes, give space to those guys who don’t believe being faithful in marriage as a man, the ones that make infidelity look normal. Most times; Do not listen to these podcasts that are against what works for you in your home. Do not read those writeup! If it is working for you; then it’s your recipes. Preserve it. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Recommending someone for marriage or a serious relationship is okay, but forcing your choice is not. Respect individuals autonomy in choosing their partners. Understand that a good person may not be the right partner for someone. Don’t impose your choice on others, even if they’re close to you. Give people the right to make their own decisions unless they ask for help. Limit your involvement to suggestions, don’t make it mandatory. For instance “I feel/think this lady/guy will make a good partner for you”. You don’t merge two people that have different ideology because you feel they are good. Recognize that different ideologies and mindsets can lead to division. Pray and advise, but don’t force your choice on them. It is important to respect their agency in choosing a partner. Forced relationships can lead to unhappiness and even damage relationships with loved ones. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You can marry the right person and not marry the person right. Having the right partner doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage if you don’t work on yourself and the relationship. Some people have direct revelation/ convictions that their spouse is perfect for them, yet they are struggling in their marriage to understand themselves. God can show you that someone is destined for you, but he won't come down to treat them well for you. God provides guidance, not control. He has given you the key to a successful marriage. Men love your wives, and women submit to your husband. You also need to understand that submission and love don't just happen if you don't give room for it. Stop blaming God for your own mistakes. Take responsibility of your shortcomings. Find what works for you and your partner to foster a healthy, and loving relationship. It takes commitment from both partners to make healthy and loving marriage. Can two work together unless they agree? #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

We live in a world where men are naturally the providers, shouldering responsibilities from a young age. Kudos to those whose parents paved a path of wealth, but I feel for the ones that are forced to mature too quickly. The pressure intensified after Adam's curse. Men often ask, 'Who will save me?' They prioritize others' needs over their own, struggling to make ends meet, lest they face mockery and financial shame, even from fellow men. Masculinity is often measured by responsibilities taken , love received is based by financial status, and friendships by what they can offer. Daily, many compromise their values to be called 'Odogwu'. Some delay starting families, believing 'a man without money shouldn't have an erection. In this world, men are often told, No excuses for failure; be strong and make money. Even sisters may money-shame and belittle them. Dear young man, remember you're human first, regardless of gender. Don't let societal expectations define you. Do your best, seek Christ's guidance, try various good paths, and expect the best. Life is challenging, but remember, you are a human, deserving of love and respect. Remind yourself, all will be well. IF YOU DON’T EARN LIKE THEM, DON’T SPEND LIKE THEM. Appreciate life's gift, stay where you're valued, find joy in simple things, love yourself and God. You won't fail, the lifter of men is still changing and blessing lives! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I find it surprising that some individuals assume all married women are subjected to maltreatment, abúse, and unhappiness. Sadly, these views often originate from people who are experiencing abuse in relationships, and not even marriage. Some of the singles are in a relationship, and you know what? Many of them are abúsed, especially the bròke ladies dating Yahǒò guys! I have seen a lot, but the abúse that comes from those guys to their bròke girlfriends? It’s unimaginable! When it comes to cheating nko? Many single ladies are abúsed in their relationship, physically, emotionally, verbally, and the issues is that? They still desire to end up with the man mistreating them. So, what’s the fuss about married ladies? You’re not even married and you’re being mistreated this way. Some are in a very abus!ve relationship because they don’t want their iPhones taken, they want to be able to still live up to their lifestyle, get wigs and dresses. The abuse some married ladies are experiencing in marriage didn’t just start, it started from relationship, and they stayed. Just as some of you are already in a very tòxíc relationship and you don’t want to leave. This is just common in T!KTOk, once a lady makes a video with the husband, you see comments making it looking she’s not happy. How una take get the statistics? You can’t come from a beautiful home and shaa believe such nonsense! Stop pointing fingers when you are not treated rightly in a relationship, Not everyone is your partner, some people are nicely raised💖 And if you don’t want to be among the ladies abúsed in marriage, make a good choice now, and stop generalizing. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice Happy Sunday Everyone ❤️

"May this new dawn and new month bring forth God's blessings, favor, and more open doors for each of us by God's grace. Amen. Never mock a pain you haven't experienced. Sometimes, don't even counsel or redirect them, just learn! Life is full of ups and downs; you can be tested with the same thing you felt you could overcome. Just learn from the experience and pray for them. There are pains that take only the Holy Spirit to heal from. Just learn from the experience and pray for them. Good morning, my people! Happy new month, everyone! #LekwaPrincessIjeoma #TheVoice"

I overheard these ladies speaking bâdly about a friend because she over exaggerated her wedding plans, only for them to get there with high hopes but was utterly disappointed. Most of the things the lady told them was all mirage and lies. The decorations, accommodations and everything she claimed to put in place was not the standard she told them. At first, I felt bad that they were talking bâdly about a supposed friend, but in the other hand, I learnt something; She wouldn’t have been a subject of discussions if she didn’t go on to give them high hopes, she raised their expectations and some of them overdid themselves to look their best just to be utterly disappointed. I know that people will often talk, but never give them the reasons to talk, do not intentionally fuel their stũp!díty, let them talk on assumptions and eñvy. Don’t be a loud mouth. Don’t always share unnecessary things. Most stories are better off as testimonies. It is better shared when it is done, you won’t know how much this will save you. Whether you shared it during the process or after, the people that are meant to know will still know. I appear so public, but any information about me you didn’t get from myself is just an assumption. I can stay with you in the same room and you won’t know anything serious about me. Some call it being secretive, I call it being careful. Keep those discreet stories for testimony time, when it must have been accomplished. If you must have to say too much to earn respect, to be seen, heard and be valued, you will be threading on a slippery road. It’s not everyone that should know how good you are doing, let them see it, don’t say it, unless it’s a testimony. If there is need to share, do it with few trusted people, those who are not mouthed, too. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

What is 6 years of marriage like without a child? “I asked a man, whose wife had just given birth to a beautiful baby after six years of waiting” I have always wanted to ask him because of the relationship we have, but boundaries made me stay off. I got the opportunity last night to share in their joy, and randomly I asked, and he said; I married my wife because I love her, her presence brings me peace and happiness, I wanted her for a keep. I was tired of watching her visit and go, I wanted to stay with her for the rest of my life. I married her for companionship, for love and friendship. During our courtship, we already planned it out that we would bond and live for us before the conception of children. He added, that one of the reasons some men stay away from getting married is because of the responsibility of catering for children. He knew he was comfortable but not too comfortable for the arrival of kids immediately, so they deliberately waited for two years, but after the wait, the dev!l gave them another Wait. He said that they had to run some medical tests again to know their fertility, and the results showed they were medically okay. He said at some point, worries and pressure was setting in from family’s and people they barely know, but what held them is the bond and commitment they had. He said to me; I love my wife so much, and I was ready to spend my life with her even if we didn’t get a biological child, there are other options to augment. Why am I sharing this? In a world where love, marriage and friendship are failing, some people are still practicing commitment, genuine love and sincere respect. Don’t engulf yourself with the ugly situations that are flooded online, don’t mock or make contents out of it, just learn and say to yourself, May God help me. It’s only by His mercy that we can prevail. The institution of love and marriage is ordained by God, and if He should direct you to make the right choice, you will always prevail irrespective of the challenges. Most people are still genuinely inlove. The world is not full of mean people, considerate, kind and patient people still exist. True and genuine love is still here, people that are ready to commit and bring the best out of themselves and make Jesus proud still live! #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

I know a lady who had her traditional marriage without her husband present. Friends mocked her, saying, 'What kind of traditional marriage is this that the man is not present?' They nicknamed her marriage mobile marriage. Irony struck when one of her mockers did her own traditional marriage recently without the husband present. Bridle your tongue, and tame envy and jealousy. Many people speak and belittle others out of envy and jealousy, and I ask, onye ma echi,(who knows tomorrow)? It’s more funny when people mock others for things they are yet to get, Why mock others when you're unsure of your own fate?? See! Life doesn’t often happen as predicted! Tame your envy! You stay with your friends and all you guys do is to criticize other people’s life. Do you know what tomorrow holds for you? Be careful! Tame your envy and bridle your tongue. You have things to say about others, have you taken a minute to observe your life? Are you much better? I heard a story of a man that was very wealthy, but currently he has sold everything he has, battling with his health and life. If a once rich man can be in a position that he will be begging, you need to be careful. Most of the things you despise, you will hardly get. When you criticize other people’s life to feel better, it’s a first step to know that life will be d!fficult for you. When you don’t like someone, remove your attention from them. Unfriend, block, delete their contacts if possible, stay off from their news, make sure you stay off from them than to breed bitternêss that is dêstruct!ve. I mute statuses , I block people, I unfriend and I delete contacts if I notice I don’t fancy your lifestyle or there’s something about you that makes me uncomfortable. Stay off, than to be a w!tch or w!zard. No one knows tomorrow! Your life might not even be better than those you’re mocking. Be careful! Tame your envy, and jealousy. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Take your time, marriage no dey run, is not entirely true. Don't assume marriage will always be available. Some people are meant to marry earlier; missing that window can make settling down later challenging. At Wednesday prayers, I see ladies (29-40 years old) desperately seeking marriage. When I interact with some of them, you will find out that some rejected eligible suitors, some were awaiting 'better' options, some weren’t ready, and many other reasons. Now, they struggle to find suitable partners and they now pray to settle with just anyone. Life's path varies for everyone. Unless God says 'Wait' or 'No,' position yourself for settlement when ready. Pray for discernment to choose the right partner, and don’t be too quick to say NO! Some women has prime and time when they can find a suitable partner, when they pass that phase, it will take lots of divine intervention to settle it. Unless you don’t have interest in marriage, like you sincerely care less if you marry or not, do not be quick to say NO, do not be too quick to play with eligible suitors. That AmAka is not interested in marriage shouldn’t make you that’s family oriented/love to build a home to be carefree about it. Marrying right never stops you from achieving anything, rather, it push you the more. Just pray that God should make you marry the right person for you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

I SAID YES- To prioritize my look. I started being a fashion enthusiast from a very young age, and one thing it did in my life was to boost my self-esteem. My lady, invest in your appearance😊 Your femininity is your charm and power💅 Aside from attracting men, your appearance can build your confidence. You will feel a different aura when you walk into a place looking great and beautiful. You will become confident and happy. Your appearance can make you feel proud of yourself, to feel enough, and never intimated. Your confidence as a lady starts with your appearance, which can introduce you when you don’t have the chance to show your intelligence or kind heart. You can dress very well and still be very decent. I see Muslims who cover from head to toe, look neat and nice. If it is about your church or personal values, there are decent yet stylish outfits you can wear. You are the human representation of Christ, He made us in His image, let people see you, and appreciate God. Just be intentional about looking good. It’s not that difficult. Don't be stingy on yourself. Remember, it is not a waste of money when you invest in your appearance , don’t just be desperate to wear the latest, be more interested in dressing nice and neat. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Stop associating with single ladies as a married woman! Before you attáck me listen; this is the quote you will often hear when you are about getting married or after your wedding ceremony. Men and women will tell you this; some men will even enforce their wives to let go of all their female single friends. I won’t practically say that the statement is inaccurate, but I’ll tell you that there is an exception to it: It’s literally unfair to generalize that all single ladies are a thrèat to married women. True friends, regardless of marital status, bring value and support to our lives. The single ladies you should be scared of are those who belittle marriage or make you feel like you’re missing out. The ones that often come around you to ring a bell that marriage is not an achievement; The ones that never see anything good about marriage, the reasons you will be careful of them is for them not to influence you wrongly, to make you insecure or to feel like there is something you are doing wrong or you are missing out on something, and NOT the genuine friends that have been there with you sincerely. Not the good single friends that give you the best advice, tell you when you are wrong ; and commend when you did well. The ones that try to make sure you are fine and give you motivations when you are down. *Don’t assume married friends are automatically better; some may bring unnecessary drama and competition, more than the single friends you are asked to avoid. Don’t just do away with good friends because you’re married, unless there is a genuine reason for it . Being single is not a disease. It’s a life stage and choice. You never know when you might need these friends. #yourfriend Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Marriage is not a reward for good character; it is not a moral achievement award. Anyone can be lucky to find a life partner. There's a partner for everyone who desire to settle down. The goal isn't to be decent, godly, or responsible solely for marriage; it's to please Christ. We are living for Christ. Don't be dismayed when someone with a different lifestyle gets married; everyone has their match. Our focus is to please our Heavenly Father, live for His glory, to win souls for Him, and to wait for the bridegroom. Being responsible solely for marriage is a 50/50 gamble; luck or disappointment may follow. Even if marriage is considered a reward for living right, it's not just any marriage. God desires Kingdom marriages, that will align with God's will. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Pray for wisdom and discernment in choosing a life partner. Pray earnestly to God not to lead you to the wrong person. Life is governed by spirituality, and one of the ways destinies and greatness are subdued is through wrong marriage. The dêv!l knows this and he is ready to push you to the wrong partner untill he has completely destroyEd you. Most times, it’s not you, the mistake is not from you, you didn’t intentionally choose that person, something pushed you just to dôom you: You can marry 10 times and still marry the wrong person. Marriage will not döom me is a prayer I’ll always tell every female around me to pray. You can even meet the right person and some unknown forces will frÚstrtate that union. They can start from by disabling your finances, making childbearing difficult, cheating or anything. The same partner that you left or that left you can be someone else’s angel. If you can set things right spiritually before settling down, you will have little battles to fight. Don’t start when you’ve met the person, emotions and feelings can distract you, start now! “May I never end up with the wrong person.” A wrong partner might not even be v!olent, but your greatness, destiny and light will be dimmed around them. You can marry a person that’s spiritual but he or she might be wrong for your destiny. Invite Christ if you desire to marry. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #The voice

Dear friend, a reminder from my heart: never count anyone out in life! Things may seem unstable and unsteady for someone now, and it may appear like others are doing better. But remember, life can change in a day. It can only take a minute for God to lift someone from dust to glory, surpassing even those who seemed more successful. Be cautious, for we never know what the future holds! Never count out a man or woman who still has breath in them. Never count anyone out, for tomorrow holds unfathomable possibilities and promises. As long as they're still breathing, their story is still being written, and their best days may be yet to come. Dear you? Don’t count yourself out! God is not done with you. Your story is not over yet. Onye ma echi? Mmadu abughi Chukwu. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

It can be funny to some people who are using the latest iPhone to see someone celebrating buying an ITEL phone. Some might even ask, what is there to celebrate about an ITEL phone?. But one thing we fail to understand is that our progress is not the same. It might not be up to what you expected, but you don't really know the efforts they put in to get it. It might not really make sense to you, I mean, the happiness of finally getting an apartment with no properties, the joy of moving out of home, or using flight for the first time, getting married, getting admission, etc. The fact it’s not up to your expectations shouldn't make you discredit it. You don't know where they are coming from and the efforts and time they have invested to be where they are. Learn to celebrate people’s achievements, no matter how small they may seem to you. What you feel is not worthy to be celebrated could be their greatest achievement. Dear you? You only understand your progress, where you are coming from and how far you have come. Do not allow societal expectations to make you celebrate little or feel it is not enough. You are trying! #Lekwa princess ijeoma

Divorce is an option, But, be cautious of what you listen to and accept. Filter what you feed your mind. Remember, your marriage can suffer due to your thoughts and actions. There is no perfect person without flaws, there must be misunderstandings in marriage, because you’re settling with someone with a different personality and background. When you constantly harbour the thoughts of divorcing in every provocation unnecessarily can become a self-fulfilling prophecy, leading to divorce. Instead of having divorce as a backup plan, affirm: “I will marry right, and I'll marry well.' Confess positivity, believe, and work towards it. You have the power to speak life into anything . Remember, you can speak reality into being. Why prophesy divorce? Proclaim a loving, lasting union instead. Don't proclaim divorce unnecessarily. Give it the benefit of doubt, do your best, involve Christ, and seek God’s direction . *Only consider divorce as a last resort, if there is a need for it.* How we think create our reality. Lekwa princess ijeoma

Being simple is different from dressing poorly. Learn to dress well; to combine colors and to appear nice. The same people calling you simple, will one day mock you. There’s nothing more beautiful than to see a lady who appears nice in any outfit. Dressing poorly has nothing to do with being simple, because simplicity is not even cheap. If you prefer thrifts, please combine your outfits with good footwears and a nice bag. If you can only afford ABA brand, don’t make your outfit to be all shiny, go for moderate colors and style with good footwear, bag or accessories. Hope you know there’s something like thrift Footwears and bags too? Just reminding you, incase you don’t have enough to buy expensive ones. If you can then afford it, please invest in your wardrobe. Your look will always pave the way for you. Your hair is very important, if you can’t afford a good blend or hair, do more of braiding, a bad hair can take your outfit from 100 to 0. The confidence that comes with appearing nice when necessary is amazing. Know the colors that fits you, I always get shocked when dark skinned ladies dislike black clothes, lol! Know the outfit to wear for an occasion. Invest in your skin too. You will miss so many opportunities if your appearance is not presentable enough! A queen doesn’t look shabby! Lekwa princess ijeoma.

We live in the world where people over polish their realities. Where a relationship counselor will mount to the alter of God and lie that he or she has never had a misunderstanding with the partner, just for validations. Where people hide their fears. A life where lies are growing and growing! A world where those who soaked garri can come on media to mock others for doing so. A world where many claim what they are not, and who they are not. A place people scäm with others predicament. A life where we hide the truth and our realities just to be celebrated. A place people can be in abúsive homes and still come online to praise their partner. The world is actually projecting a flawless, over painted and over polished life. It’s rare to see people who say their truth. A world we only desire to be validated by people. A life where sucess stories are based on what will trend and not the truth. It is okay to spice it with lies, as long as it will trend. Dear you, Live the rest of your life understanding that people show you what they want you to see, people show what they want to trend, and what can trigger “congratulations” even if they are lies. Whatsoever you see online should remain online. You might be tearing yourself for a story and life that is over painted and over polished that is never the truth and reality. This is a phase that we are in the world , a world of content! Anything can go, as long as people will validate and give engagement. Be aware! Lekwa princess ijeoma

It is extremely inappropriate for you to impose your views and opinion on others. If you do not understand the reason someone is doing something, as long as their choices are not morally wrong , respect it . Refrain from imposing your views or meddling in matters that don't concern you. Avoid making someone's decisions appear unreasonable or unjustified. Sometimes, silence isn't always golden; this is the reason I shút some voices. It doesn’t need to make sense to you before you respect it. Everyone is living a different life, respect it. It’s not always about you and what you think is right, learn to shut it when you don’t understand their reasons. This is the reason Jesus rebuked Peter, your views are not important if you don’t know the reason. There’s a place for wisdom, as Lami often say. Lekwa princess ijeoma

Don’t spend too much time mending hearts you didn’t break. The disadvantage of trying to mend a heart that’s broken is that you can end up getting broken too, especially when the person is not ready to heal. If your partner has more bad days than happy moments, and it affects their behavior towards you, you need to reassess if it’s something you can cope and tolerate. I believe that when your partner is going through tough times, you should be a shoulder for them to lean on, but when this is a consistent pattern, you need to reevaluate that relationship. Ask yourself, is this the energy i want to build my life on? People should learn to heal, not just for themselves, but to make their partner feel safe. You shouldn’t dwell so much on whatever that has broken you, so that it won’t come in between what you share with someone. When you take so long to heal, you make the relationship you share tóx!c, people get tired of saying sorry or always seeing you moody. You need to do your best to heal for others to feel safe, you shouldn’t always allow your bad times, tough times and situations to make your partner feel uneasy , as much as they are willing to help, be willing to heal. #ijeoma #TheVoice Lekwa princess ijeoma

I say this to people, you’re not running same race with others. You’re living you. Stop comparing your life with those eating their harvest or wasting their investments. Do not overspend in your growing season. You are not in any competition with anyone. Do you, love you and be you. When your harvest season comes, even those that felt your case is closed, will have no choice than to congratulate you. Enjoy your waiting season. Don’t rush! I repeat, you’re not in any competition with anyone! When your time will come, your story will become the latest! Happy new week everyone ❣️ Lekwa princess ijeoma

In all circumstances give thanks to the Lord. Very difficult to oblige but necessary to obey. One of the places where i have found major pain relief is the hospital. The hospital is a place full of people, where some are having their best day; celebrating life, survival, and strength. Others are having their worst day. Some are just entering the world, while some came and left immediately. For some, it is their last days. In the same environment, different things and situations are happening. You might feel your situation is worse untill you see another with a more serious and painful medical report . It is difficult to give thanks in ugly situations, but giving thanks is a necessity. One thing I have come to understand is, God can do without us, but we can’t do without him. He can reign, rule, and live without us, but we can barely survive without His mercy. If he allows it, good or bad, give thanks to God💖 1st Sunday of February. Lekwa princess ijeoma

Girl to Girl.💏 Take care of yourself emotionally. Heal from every trǎumå you've inherited from loved ones. The times you witnessed your mom being härássed by your dad, the days you felt alone, the hurt people around you have experienced, heal from them. Don't be hard on yourself. Remember that other people’s relationship or marriage struggles aren't yours to bear. Their pains and traumas don't define you, it’s them and not you. Heal, grow, and attract better . Don't let emotional weight drag you down; be a beacon of hope for others. Take care of yourself, don’t wear your trouble on your face. Accept corrections, cultivate a teachable spirit, focus on personal growth. Learning is progressive. Girl to Girl.👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 No one should love you more than you love yourself, except God. Self-love gives you the freedom to break free from everything that doesn't reflect true affection and love. Don't expect too much . Nurture your spiritual well-being; it governs your physical reality. Take heed of your spiritual life. It's the foundation of your overall well-being. Lekwa princess ijeoma.

We live in the world where people over polish their realities. Where a relationship counselor will mount to the alter of God and lie that he or she has never had a misunderstanding with the partner, just for validations. Where people hide their fears. A life where lies are growing and growing! A world where those who soaked garri can come on media to mock others for doing so. A world where many claim what they are not, and who they are not. A place people scäm with others predicament. A life where we hide the truth and our realities just to be celebrated. A place people can be in abúsive homes and still come online to praise their partner. The world is actually projecting a flawless, over painted and over polished life. It’s rare to see people who say their truth. A world we only desire to be validated by people. A life where sucess stories are based on what will trend and not the truth. It is okay to spice it with lies, as long as it will trend. Dear you, Live the rest of your life understanding that people show you what they want you to see, people show what they want to trend, and what can trigger “congratulations” even if they are lies. Whatsoever you see online should remain online. You might be tearing yourself for a story and life that is over painted and over polished that is never the truth and reality. This is a phase that we are in the world , a world of content! Anything can go, as long as people will validate and give engagement. Be aware! Lekwa princess ijeoma

𝗙𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵, 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹-𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗲. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲: 1. YOUR PHYSICAL WELL-BEING - Eat well: Choose foods that energize and nourish you. - Exercise daily: Stay active with something you enjoy. - Rest enough: Sleep well so you can recover and perform. - Self-care matters: Look after your hygiene, appearance, and relaxation. 2. YOUR HABITS - Be disciplined: Create routines and stick to them. - Stay organized: Keep your tasks and space in order. - Read more: Learn something new every day. - Practice mindfulness: Meditate to stay focused and calm. 3. YOUR MINDSET - Think positively: Focus on solutions, not problems. - Keep learning: Stay curious and open to new ideas. - Manage stress: Develop ways to stay calm under pressure. - Know yourself: Understand your strengths, values, and goals. 4. YOUR BELIEFS - Question limits: Challenge beliefs that hold you back. - Adopt growth: Believe you can improve and learn. - Visualize success: Picture your goals clearly. - Use affirmations: Repeat empowering phrases daily. Success isn’t about luck. It’s about choices. - The habits you build. - The routines you follow. - The decisions you make. - Your resilience in the face of challenges. - Your drive to learn and grow. - And your unwavering determination. Start today. Your future begins with you. Lekwa Princess ijeoma

Take your time, marriage no dey run, is not entirely true. Don't assume marriage will always be available. Some people are meant to marry earlier; missing that window can make settling down later challenging. At Wednesday prayers, I see ladies (29-40 years old) desperately seeking marriage. When I interact with some of them, you will find out that some rejected eligible suitors, some were awaiting 'better' options, some weren’t ready, and many other reasons. Now, they struggle to find suitable partners and they now pray to settle with just anyone. Life's path varies for everyone. Unless God says 'Wait' or 'No,' position yourself for settlement when ready. Pray for discernment to choose the right partner, and don’t be too quick to say NO! Some women has prime and time when they can find a suitable partner, when they pass that phase, it will take lots of divine intervention to settle it. Unless you don’t have interest in marriage, like you sincerely care less if you marry or not, do not be quick to say NO, do not be too quick to play with eligible suitors. That AmAka is not interested in marriage shouldn’t make you that’s family oriented/love to build a home to be carefree about it. Marrying right never stops you from achieving anything, rather, it push you the more. Just pray that God should make you marry the right person for you. Lekwa princess ijeoma

Pray for wisdom and discernment in choosing a life partner. Pray earnestly to God not to lead you to the wrong person. Life is governed by spirituality, and one of the ways destinies and greatness are subdued is through wrong marriage. The dêv!l knows this and he is ready to push you to the wrong partner untill he has completely destroyEd you. Most times, it’s not you, the mistake is not from you, you didn’t intentionally choose that person, something pushed you just to dôom you: You can marry 10 times and still marry the wrong person. Marriage will not döom me is a prayer I’ll always tell every female around me to pray. You can even meet the right person and some unknown forces will frÚstrtate that union. They can start from by disabling your finances, making childbearing difficult, cheating or anything. The same partner that you left or that left you can be someone else’s angel. If you can set things right spiritually before settling down, you will have little battles to fight. Don’t start when you’ve met the person, emotions and feelings can distract you, start now! “May I never end up with the wrong person.” A wrong partner might not even be v!olent, but your greatness, destiny and light will be dimmed around them. You can marry a person that’s spiritual but he or she might be wrong for your destiny. Lekwa princess ijeoma