I don’t really know who told some people that flaunting a relationship means fidelity? That the person is faithful ke;? Cheating can happen regardless of public displays of affection. Flaunting a relationship on social media doesn't necessarily mean the person is faithful. In fact, some people might use the display of affection as a way to hide their infidelity, present a perfect image, or distract from their true intentions. You have not seen people who post their husband/ wife but are terr!ble cheat? The ones that flaunt their boyfriend/girlfriend; yet, they have other intimate partners? When you understand this; life will seem different to you. I have seen so many ladies that flaunt their partner yet are entertaining more guys, doing hookŭps and other things. Abi, the guys that will deny the girlfriend they just posted on their wall in a lady’s inbox, with the claim that it’s not a serious thing or the lady is not giving him peace? If a married man can boldly wear his wedding ring, have the pictures of his family on his profile and yet, flirt with ladies, it’s enough reminder that one can be “a flaunting cheating partner” lol! As I stated earlier; I don’t have issues with Public Display of Affection; some people are just true to it, they do it with their heart and mind, but in a generation that you don’t even know the plans your partner have for you, you need to slow it down especially in RELATIONSHIP, and as a woman too. When a relationship ends, most ladies line up for the guy as a replacement, but some men might withdraw from the lady. Women are always in the receiving end; the pain, shame, and tears are more on them. Celebrate your partner at the right times and places, but know when to be private. Relationships can be a test of compatibility or a game to some. You can love someone with your heart, but they are just passing time with you. These things don't have formular, still thread carefully. #yourfriend #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Stop associating with single ladies as a married woman! Before you attáck me listen; this is the quote you will often hear when you are about getting married or after your wedding ceremony. Men and women will tell you this; some men will even enforce their wives to let go of all their female single friends. I won’t practically say that the statement is inaccurate, but I’ll tell you that there is an exception to it: It’s literally unfair to generalize that all single ladies are a thrèat to married women. True friends, regardless of marital status, bring value and support to our lives. The single ladies you should be scared of are those who belittle marriage or make you feel like you’re missing out. The ones that often come around you to ring a bell that marriage is not an achievement; The ones that never see anything good about marriage, the reasons you will be careful of them is for them not to influence you wrongly, to make you insecure or to feel like there is something you are doing wrong or you are missing out on something, and NOT the genuine friends that have been there with you sincerely. Not the good single friends that give you the best advice, tell you when you are wrong ; and commend when you did well. The ones that try to make sure you are fine and give you motivations when you are down. *Don’t assume married friends are automatically better; some may bring unnecessary drama and competition, more than the single friends you are asked to avoid. Don’t just do away with good friends because you’re married, unless there is a genuine reason for it . Being single is not a disease. It’s a life stage and choice. You never know when you might need these friends. #yourfriend Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice