I overheard these ladies speaking bâdly about a friend because she over exaggerated her wedding plans, only for them to get there with high hopes but was utterly disappointed. Most of the things the lady told them was all mirage and lies. The decorations, accommodations and everything she claimed to put in place was not the standard she told them. At first, I felt bad that they were talking bâdly about a supposed friend, but in the other hand, I learnt something; She wouldn’t have been a subject of discussions if she didn’t go on to give them high hopes, she raised their expectations and some of them overdid themselves to look their best just to be utterly disappointed. I know that people will often talk, but never give them the reasons to talk, do not intentionally fuel their stũp!díty, let them talk on assumptions and eñvy. Don’t be a loud mouth. Don’t always share unnecessary things. Most stories are better off as testimonies. It is better shared when it is done, you won’t know how much this will save you. Whether you shared it during the process or after, the people that are meant to know will still know. I appear so public, but any information about me you didn’t get from myself is just an assumption. I can stay with you in the same room and you won’t know anything serious about me. Some call it being secretive, I call it being careful. Keep those discreet stories for testimony time, when it must have been accomplished. If you must have to say too much to earn respect, to be seen, heard and be valued, you will be threading on a slippery road. It’s not everyone that should know how good you are doing, let them see it, don’t say it, unless it’s a testimony. If there is need to share, do it with few trusted people, those who are not mouthed, too. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice