Once you graduate from the university as a lady, there is this marriage competitions that takes place. Every eke market days, you will get wedding invitation from a Coursemate. Sometimes, the pressure isn’t that much when you are still a student because some people do not desire to marry while in school. But, after graduation, the pressure might be coming in any time the news of a Coursemate who got married is shared. It can even become an intense pressure when your friends start getting married one after the other. Some might be getting married, others will be traveling out, some will be securing a job, getting quality skills and all that. And there is you who doesn’t know what to do and where next to go. You might decide to start dating with purpose and it will seem as if none of the men you are meeting have purpose. You will try to secure a job and it will be like nothing is out there for you, you even barely have money to learn a skill. This is for you; when the lifter of men remembers you, your blessings will rain! Life is not a competition, it’s a personal race. It’s not about how far, it is how well. It’s not about who got to the race first, it is the question of, did you also win? You are not doing anything bad or different as long as you are trying to better your life, your time is yet to come. Hold on to hope, stay away from comparisons and the pressure to compare your progress to others. God has not forsaken you, He is preparing you. Jehova wants to take glory from your story. Hold on, Keep trying, keep praying, keep being close to God and doing your best. When it’s your time, you will become the latest. Our God is the father of those who have been forsaken. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice Happy weekend everyone.

When I saw people dragging solomon Buchi, I smiled. I'm glad he spoke up about this; at least he didn't keep it to himself while his previous post might have misled others.. Life is in stages, and phases! Some people react to things based on their current life stage. Do not speak from a place of limitation. I've seen some women label others materialistic for enjoying luxury or fashion, but when they can afford it themselves, their tune changes. I have seen people who praised simplicity suddenly develop an appreciation for luxury when their finances improve. I have seen people say they would never spend a certain amount on something, only to change their mind when they can afford it. I have seen people who championed privacy just because they have camera issues or doesn’t stay in a good place, suddenly start flaunting their lives once they leveled up. I have seen those who claim to hate politics carry it on their head when opportunities are given to them. I have seen those who claimed they don’t want popularity, doing everything now to get fame . Some people condemn what they can't have, and many justify their views based on their current circumstances. Don’t be like that! Don't be quick to speak based on stress, envy, or your current circumstances, because if your words mislead others, you both will reap the consequences. Don’t deceive people with your words, sieve what you post online and what you say offline. Don’t be too quick to say things! When you grow and unlearn, and realize that you were wrong, own up and correct your previous stance. Unfortunately, even some of the people throwing stones at him are guilty of this but in a different way. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

When I noticed Evan Okoro on Facebook, she was still staying in a self com apartment or so. That particular day she was addressing people who were trolling her for not cleaning up, not acting like a celebrity and not wearing designers. She said; I have responsibilities to take care of and I don’t need to fake it to meet up with people’s expectations. LIFE NA JEJE, LIFE NA TURN BY TURN. I don’t forget this statement of hers because that’s what made me to follow her inasmuch some of her contents then wasn’t really fun for me. This lady has proved that life na turn by turn. In this space, I have seen her evolve so much. She has accomplished a lot and one of the things she did that I loved was building a home for her parents. The way she takes care of her mum makes me smile. I am her mum’s top fan. I just want to say this to you, too. Life na jeje, life na turn by turn. Don’t allow anyone to use comparison to make you run faster than your shadow. Keep building, keep preparing, keep practicing, keep working, keep showing up, one day, it will be your turn. And today, she’s also married. All the best to you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Let your wife be better than you met her. That is what shows that the head of the house is a good one. A good husband helps his wife become a better version of herself. When your wife improves and grows after marriage, it's a testament to your leadership and love. Try to be a partner who uplifts, supports, and empowers your wife to become her best version, it’s an honour to you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

The desire to peppêr or show off to your ex only works if they are still interested in you. Before some individuals end or walk out of a relationship or marriage, they may have exhausted every love they feel for you. They may have endured immense pain, emotional trauma, and chosen silence over drama. They may have concealed their thoughts and kept their pains to themselves. They may have experienced situations that have made them see the part of you they can’t forget. So, it's not every ex who is interested in whatever you are doing. Some just want their peace. Some have unloved you and you are just a random person to them. Not everyone who breaks up or gets divorced wants to get back together especially when they left because of abúse, be it physically, verbally or emotionally 📌 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I read a post where a lady asked women“what’s your greatest regret in life” and most of the comments said MARRIAGE. Someone commented on the post, asking why people marry the wrong person, here are some reasons; 1. Pressure; most people just get married because of family pressure. A family where everyone is directly and indirectly pushing them to marry. They keep reminding you of your age and making reference to your friends or cousins that are married. Additionally , some ladies also pressure themselves, they marry because their friends are all married, they are so desperate to get the “Mrs” title and they may settle for just marry anyone. 2. Money; some women from poor backgrounds are often intentional to marry a rich man. This can make them to settle for any man as long as he is rich. They would rather cry in a rich man’s house than to suffer with any man. 3. Pity; There are people who have married men they never love just out of pity: they don’t want to look like a bad person, especially if they have dated for long. 4. Low self esteem; there are women who settle with someone they are aware that he won’t treat them well because they feel they will never find someone better or someone who loves them. 5. Fear of the unknown; the fear of “what if I didn’t get to meet another person”. Some women might settle for the available person even when they are not happy with their choice, just to avoid the fear of loneliness. 6. Family foundation; some women come from homes where the women rarely experience peaceful marriages. it’s just like a pattern that seems to follow the women. 7. Change; humans are prone to change: some women got married to men who seem amazing only to be faced with an unexpected change in the marriage on the long run. 8. Ignoring red flags; some women are so eager to settle down that they ignore warning signs, believing they can be able to change him. To mention but a few…. Happy and healthy marriage is achievable, while some people regret their marriages, there are people sincerely enjoying their marriages. I’m not talking about those who mask their truth online. I am talking about those who are genuinely happy. A healthy marriage is achievable. know what you want, write it down, and make it bold and clear. Choose the right person for yourself,( Someone you are compatible with, someone you can tolerate, someone you have same vision with) and involve God in your decision. Make the right choice, and if things change tomorrow, you will have peace knowing it was not always that way. My prayer is that God will align you with the right person and make your home peaceful, Amen! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

There are ladies that are meant to marry rich men, it has been destined. This kind of ladies don’t even do too much about it, the Grace will just connect them to the made men when the time comes. They don’t struggle for it, they don’t make numerous posts about it, all they just do is to live. Then, there are ladies that are meant to build with a man, this type rarely meet men that are already made, they always attract hustling guys. Sometimes, the reason some ladies often attract men that are struggling can be a pattern, or bad spirits, but most times, these kind of ladies are called KING MAKERS. There is something about them that compels anyone they are committed to, to grow and become better. It’s a grace that gives idea to create wealth and to multiply it. A true King Maker has the power to transform her own status by becoming the feminine equivalent of the man she desires. Most King Makers attract high value partners only after they have built themselves up to a similar level of greatness they desire from a man. If they simply wait for a man to rescue them, they will likely end up with someone who is financially unstable. With God's guidance, whether they marry someone wealthy or not, their partner’s life and status often change for good. But, walking in this grace comes with challenges. Satan will try to obscure it, just to make it seem like a cursè instead of a blessing. Instead of the man to see the blessings, situations will arise that can make the grace to appear like bad luck. If you notice that people around you experience beautiful changes and increase when they meet you, stay consecrated, and prayerful. This will help prevent the enemy from sabotaging your gift and spoiling the good work. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

One of the noticeable flaws about some successful ladies is pride and arrogance. Money itself is not bad; it's not the root of evíl. It becomes evíl in the wrong hands. It's the Lord's desire that we prosper as our souls prosper. Your success and wealth shouldn't be a ticket to disrespect people, look down on others, and belittle men. Arrogance doesn't look good on anyone. Your success as a woman is more evident and soothing when you maintain your feminine charms. Bragging shouldn't be part of your approach. Queens are not loud. If you are a family oriented lady, pray for the grace to sustain success and wealth without it negatively impacting your marriage and home. Don't let success turn you into someone you are not or make you feel like you're in competition with men. Maintain your femininity; it's not inferiority, it's your power. Being feminine is a blessing. We are not in competition with men. The goal is to have a good life, and to propagate the gospel of God. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

A man can be the only provider in the house and still be a family oriented man. He will hustle and still make out time for family, and still value his home. Being a career woman is never an excuse to neglect your home, or to be less accessible by loved ones . Success shouldn't pave the core values of life. Unless you don't desire marriage or having a family, which is fine; otherwise, learn to balance your desire for success with being lovable. Many children have been emotionally traumat!zèd by their career driven parents. These parents seems to be physically present, but act like absent parents. Maintain a balance between fame, wealth, success, and being family oriented. You can be a loving mother and wife and still be a great woman of valor. You can be anything you want to be and still be lovely🥰 Just find a supportive partner, it makes it easier for you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You can’t settle for less right? I hope you are not female version of the ‘less’ you don’t want to settle for? If everyone should marry someone in the same status and level with them, will you still be able to marry your dream man? I hope you are not the female version of the kind of ‘Less’ you don’t want to settle with? While you are avoiding men who are financially struggling, many successful men are avoiding ladies with no direction or purpose in life. I shaa hope you are not someone else’s version of ‘less’. Be productive! Happy new week beloved 🥂💖 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

The dánger of feeling that your beauty is your only way of attracting wealthy men is that, when things don’t go as planned, you may feel pressured to start commercializing your body. If you have the opportunity and resources to hustle, please, hustle like no man is coming to save you. See eh? Hustle as if your beauty won't attract wealthy men. Hustle as if no one will come to save you if you don’t make it. When we talk about hustling, it can sound ambiguous. But I tell you, doing something that can at least cover your bills is part of hustling. It might not satisfy your wants now, but it can cover your basic needs. All I'm advocating for is for you to have the right mindset. Believe in your ability to create wealth, change your mentality, and stop seeing money as gender based. You don’t also need to do illegal and immoral things before you can make it. Let me tell you, there are women who achieved success and climbed the ladder of fame without compromising their values. They shifted their mindset from feeling entitled to support and took responsibility for their own success. Just have the right mindset and determination, you will be shocked how much you will achieve. Doubts and entitlement are your only distraction! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

No one is happy when they are not doing well financially. No matter how much you try to be happy, responsibilities will remind you of your financial predicaments. Dear men, do not relent on your financial freedom. Life is not fair to a poor man. This is not about impressing baddies. There's happiness when you can afford basic needs comfortably without stress. You will end up taking the wrong path to make money if your only motivation for financial freedom is to impress ladies and chase after them. Stay clear from distractions. Womanising is a financial mistake. There's no gain attached to it. It's an unhealthy lifestyle. Your responsibility as a man is numerous. As a man, the probability of having someone to save you is low unless you come from a financially secured family. Nnaaa, Get focused. Let them mock and broke shame you. All these won't matter when you are comfortable. Be diligent in all you do, be closer to your maker, get a decent woman, and stay clear from distractions. Your success is close. Never be comfortable with being poor. You are worth more. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice