Don’t spend too much time mending hearts you didn’t break. The disadvantage of trying to mend a heart that’s broken is that you can end up getting broken too, especially when the person is not ready to heal. If your partner has more bad days than happy moments, and it affects their behavior towards you, you need to reassess if it’s something you can cope and tolerate. I believe that when your partner is going through tough times, you should be a shoulder for them to lean on, but when this is a consistent pattern, you need to reevaluate that relationship. Ask yourself, is this the energy i want to build my life on? People should learn to heal, not just for themselves, but to make their partner feel safe. You shouldn’t dwell so much on whatever that has broken you, so that it won’t come in between what you share with someone. When you take so long to heal, you make the relationship you share tóx!c, people get tired of saying sorry or always seeing you moody. You need to do your best to heal for others to feel safe, you shouldn’t always allow your bad times, tough times and situations to make your partner feel uneasy , as much as they are willing to help, be willing to heal. #ijeoma #TheVoice Lekwa princess ijeoma