Let your wife be better than you met her. That is what shows that the head of the house is a good one. A good husband helps his wife become a better version of herself. When your wife improves and grows after marriage, it's a testament to your leadership and love. Try to be a partner who uplifts, supports, and empowers your wife to become her best version, it’s an honour to you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

The desire to peppêr or show off to your ex only works if they are still interested in you. Before some individuals end or walk out of a relationship or marriage, they may have exhausted every love they feel for you. They may have endured immense pain, emotional trauma, and chosen silence over drama. They may have concealed their thoughts and kept their pains to themselves. They may have experienced situations that have made them see the part of you they can’t forget. So, it's not every ex who is interested in whatever you are doing. Some just want their peace. Some have unloved you and you are just a random person to them. Not everyone who breaks up or gets divorced wants to get back together especially when they left because of abúse, be it physically, verbally or emotionally 📌 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I read a post where a lady asked women“what’s your greatest regret in life” and most of the comments said MARRIAGE. Someone commented on the post, asking why people marry the wrong person, here are some reasons; 1. Pressure; most people just get married because of family pressure. A family where everyone is directly and indirectly pushing them to marry. They keep reminding you of your age and making reference to your friends or cousins that are married. Additionally , some ladies also pressure themselves, they marry because their friends are all married, they are so desperate to get the “Mrs” title and they may settle for just marry anyone. 2. Money; some women from poor backgrounds are often intentional to marry a rich man. This can make them to settle for any man as long as he is rich. They would rather cry in a rich man’s house than to suffer with any man. 3. Pity; There are people who have married men they never love just out of pity: they don’t want to look like a bad person, especially if they have dated for long. 4. Low self esteem; there are women who settle with someone they are aware that he won’t treat them well because they feel they will never find someone better or someone who loves them. 5. Fear of the unknown; the fear of “what if I didn’t get to meet another person”. Some women might settle for the available person even when they are not happy with their choice, just to avoid the fear of loneliness. 6. Family foundation; some women come from homes where the women rarely experience peaceful marriages. it’s just like a pattern that seems to follow the women. 7. Change; humans are prone to change: some women got married to men who seem amazing only to be faced with an unexpected change in the marriage on the long run. 8. Ignoring red flags; some women are so eager to settle down that they ignore warning signs, believing they can be able to change him. To mention but a few…. Happy and healthy marriage is achievable, while some people regret their marriages, there are people sincerely enjoying their marriages. I’m not talking about those who mask their truth online. I am talking about those who are genuinely happy. A healthy marriage is achievable. know what you want, write it down, and make it bold and clear. Choose the right person for yourself,( Someone you are compatible with, someone you can tolerate, someone you have same vision with) and involve God in your decision. Make the right choice, and if things change tomorrow, you will have peace knowing it was not always that way. My prayer is that God will align you with the right person and make your home peaceful, Amen! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

There are ladies that are meant to marry rich men, it has been destined. This kind of ladies don’t even do too much about it, the Grace will just connect them to the made men when the time comes. They don’t struggle for it, they don’t make numerous posts about it, all they just do is to live. Then, there are ladies that are meant to build with a man, this type rarely meet men that are already made, they always attract hustling guys. Sometimes, the reason some ladies often attract men that are struggling can be a pattern, or bad spirits, but most times, these kind of ladies are called KING MAKERS. There is something about them that compels anyone they are committed to, to grow and become better. It’s a grace that gives idea to create wealth and to multiply it. A true King Maker has the power to transform her own status by becoming the feminine equivalent of the man she desires. Most King Makers attract high value partners only after they have built themselves up to a similar level of greatness they desire from a man. If they simply wait for a man to rescue them, they will likely end up with someone who is financially unstable. With God's guidance, whether they marry someone wealthy or not, their partner’s life and status often change for good. But, walking in this grace comes with challenges. Satan will try to obscure it, just to make it seem like a cursè instead of a blessing. Instead of the man to see the blessings, situations will arise that can make the grace to appear like bad luck. If you notice that people around you experience beautiful changes and increase when they meet you, stay consecrated, and prayerful. This will help prevent the enemy from sabotaging your gift and spoiling the good work. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

One of the noticeable flaws about some successful ladies is pride and arrogance. Money itself is not bad; it's not the root of evíl. It becomes evíl in the wrong hands. It's the Lord's desire that we prosper as our souls prosper. Your success and wealth shouldn't be a ticket to disrespect people, look down on others, and belittle men. Arrogance doesn't look good on anyone. Your success as a woman is more evident and soothing when you maintain your feminine charms. Bragging shouldn't be part of your approach. Queens are not loud. If you are a family oriented lady, pray for the grace to sustain success and wealth without it negatively impacting your marriage and home. Don't let success turn you into someone you are not or make you feel like you're in competition with men. Maintain your femininity; it's not inferiority, it's your power. Being feminine is a blessing. We are not in competition with men. The goal is to have a good life, and to propagate the gospel of God. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

A man can be the only provider in the house and still be a family oriented man. He will hustle and still make out time for family, and still value his home. Being a career woman is never an excuse to neglect your home, or to be less accessible by loved ones . Success shouldn't pave the core values of life. Unless you don't desire marriage or having a family, which is fine; otherwise, learn to balance your desire for success with being lovable. Many children have been emotionally traumat!zèd by their career driven parents. These parents seems to be physically present, but act like absent parents. Maintain a balance between fame, wealth, success, and being family oriented. You can be a loving mother and wife and still be a great woman of valor. You can be anything you want to be and still be lovely🥰 Just find a supportive partner, it makes it easier for you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You can’t settle for less right? I hope you are not female version of the ‘less’ you don’t want to settle for? If everyone should marry someone in the same status and level with them, will you still be able to marry your dream man? I hope you are not the female version of the kind of ‘Less’ you don’t want to settle with? While you are avoiding men who are financially struggling, many successful men are avoiding ladies with no direction or purpose in life. I shaa hope you are not someone else’s version of ‘less’. Be productive! Happy new week beloved 🥂💖 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

The dánger of feeling that your beauty is your only way of attracting wealthy men is that, when things don’t go as planned, you may feel pressured to start commercializing your body. If you have the opportunity and resources to hustle, please, hustle like no man is coming to save you. See eh? Hustle as if your beauty won't attract wealthy men. Hustle as if no one will come to save you if you don’t make it. When we talk about hustling, it can sound ambiguous. But I tell you, doing something that can at least cover your bills is part of hustling. It might not satisfy your wants now, but it can cover your basic needs. All I'm advocating for is for you to have the right mindset. Believe in your ability to create wealth, change your mentality, and stop seeing money as gender based. You don’t also need to do illegal and immoral things before you can make it. Let me tell you, there are women who achieved success and climbed the ladder of fame without compromising their values. They shifted their mindset from feeling entitled to support and took responsibility for their own success. Just have the right mindset and determination, you will be shocked how much you will achieve. Doubts and entitlement are your only distraction! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

No one is happy when they are not doing well financially. No matter how much you try to be happy, responsibilities will remind you of your financial predicaments. Dear men, do not relent on your financial freedom. Life is not fair to a poor man. This is not about impressing baddies. There's happiness when you can afford basic needs comfortably without stress. You will end up taking the wrong path to make money if your only motivation for financial freedom is to impress ladies and chase after them. Stay clear from distractions. Womanising is a financial mistake. There's no gain attached to it. It's an unhealthy lifestyle. Your responsibility as a man is numerous. As a man, the probability of having someone to save you is low unless you come from a financially secured family. Nnaaa, Get focused. Let them mock and broke shame you. All these won't matter when you are comfortable. Be diligent in all you do, be closer to your maker, get a decent woman, and stay clear from distractions. Your success is close. Never be comfortable with being poor. You are worth more. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Consistency is the reason many people here have large followers. When their posts got no engagement, they continued to post, and when their posts went viral, they maintained their posting schedule. In good and bad, they posted. Some individuals might find it annoying to see their posts popping up every day, only to wake up one day to see those consistent posters celebrating a turning point of gaining a large following. Consistency is what set people apart. It's consistency in prayers that makes people have more answered prayers over others. It's consistency in reading that makes some students more knowledgeable than their peers. It's consistency that makes some business people to sell more. It’s consistency and diligence that makes some people more successful than others. Some may achieve success easily, but, if it's hard for you to achieve easily, be consistent. Although it might look like you're not making progress, one day, you might wake up to success. Be consistent in everything you do to improve 🥂💖 #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Anything your mind can’t conceive, your hands can’t achieve. When there is a will, there will be a way. Whatever you can’t envision will never become a reality. If you don’t see yourself as a prospective successful person, it’s impossible to be successful. If you don’t think success, you might not be successful. If you don’t dream big, you achieve little. Don’t feel that you are too little or too small to achieve greater things. Don’t be comfortable in your status or level. Anything is possible to anyone who believes. When you believe and work towards it, God will bring them to fruition . Think big!! Think things that seem impossible. Everything change starts from the mind. See it that you can do it, that you can make it, that you can become better. Your present situation shouldn’t determine your mindset, even in the little, think big. Your background shouldn’t make you feel you can’t, you can! All things are possible for those who believe. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You need to read this if you are living abroad. Staying abroad without having an investment is a financial mistake . You see that the desires to support friends, family and strangers should be balanced. I understand that one of the top reasons to make money is to help family and support others, but know your limit. Invest your money wisely. I have seen how people who have been living abroad can go broke within weeks or months of returning home. Aside from their daily or monthly salaries, some have no sustainable assets to boast of. What if situations that are bigger than you should arise and force you to come home, how will you cope? If you are not a citizen of a country, you are a stranger, anything can happen. Invest! Don’t eat or spend all. Not every emergency should be your emergency. When you come home and go broke, those who you once outdid yourself for might abandon and even ridicule you. There should be limits to your expenses even when it comes to family. Buy landed properties, buy things in Naira that are valuable, buy shares, save in dollars, start a business, etc. For the ones that are unmarried, reconsider using your money to impress women. Make a good choice of a woman who will be supportive. Remember, as a stranger in a foreign land (unless you have obtained citizenship) anything can happen, including natural disasters. Make hay while the sun shines. Also, be careful of people you entrust valuable documents, properties and even money to; no one rises by unnecessary wastage. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Achalugo, if Odogwu Panaran decides to support your business or equip you with skills, are you prepared? If an opportunity that would help you to create wealth arises, are you prepared for it? Making money begins with a mindset shift, where you tell yourself it's time to start preparing by learning skills, starting a business, being serious with your studies, taking action, and being committed with anything that you are doing . When preparations meet opportunity, it leads to success. If you don't have a skill or business now, start preparing. Write down the things you want to learn or do; your aim and strategy. If it's something you can start by practicing on YouTube, start now. If it requires a physical office, do a market survey and know what the shop rent costs. Prepare as if the opportunity is around. There are men who can support and develop a woman; don't be a type that will be confused on what to do, when you meet someone like that. You need to have ideas, skills, a career that can be invested in, and the strength to do it, so that the business won’t flop. Achalugo, even if you don’t have a sustainable source of living now, have ideas that can create wealth. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You hate broke men, right? One day, you might realize that settling down with a broke woman is a deep seated fear for some men. You will also come to the light that some men detest dependency and are only attracted to intelligent women who can sustain themselves financially. One day, you will realize that beauty and love might be the least things men might start considering before settling down. It is said that a man's heart is through his stomach; I pray you won't wake up to find men choosing to cook for themselves rather than being the sole provider. The era of a prince going to the village to marry a naive girl only exists in movies now. Soon, not coming from a comfortable background or lacking financial stability might become reasons some women may remain unmarried. Considering the current state of the economy, having a stable income might become a top priority for men when considering settlement. Get a skill! You might not be as wealthy as Vekee James yet, but focus on acquiring skills that will sustain you. If you are unaware, a woman's profession and career have become key considerations for men before settling down. Even the rich are now settling with the rich. If someone is encouraging you to become self sufficient, take their advice seriously. Just make sure in all these, you won’t lose the core values of life and your feminine energy. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

"YOU ARE MY WIFE, I WILL MARRY YOU," Is not a guarantee that he is your husband. The fact that he knows what he wants in a partner shouldn't make you forget what you desire from a partner. 'You are my wife or I will marry you' should only make you happy when it's coming from someone you love and want. Don't allow the sound of 'you are my wife' to cloud your sense of reasoning. As much as he wants to marry you, be certain that you also have the desire to marry him. A man can have a clear vision of his ideal partner from the start, and still not be a great partner. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I will marry well, and I will marry right; should not be a statement you say casually. It is something you should turn into a prayer and pray about it fervently. Declare it and pray intentionally, and when you pray, look out for instructions. The reason we pray sometimes and feel it wasn't answered is because we don't wait for instructions or heed to instructions. Don't be too quick to disregard the ‘NO’ from family or friends, It might be the voice of God. God does not come down on earth to tell us when we are making a mistake, He can use people’s voices. Test the voice that is saying ‘NO’ through prayers and check if it's the voice of envy, anger, or God. God allows us to make our choices. When you pray and refuse to submit to God's instructions, He will allow you to live. Pray for discerning spirit to know when He is saying ‘NO, YES OR WAIT’. Marrying the wrong partner might not be a vïolent partner. You are in the wrong home when you are physically, emotionally, or verbally abúsed. A partner who doesn't have control of their anger is a red flag, even if they don't hït you. You will fight unnecessary battles when you are in the wrong place. Everyone has someone who fit into their destiny, life, and calling. If you get linked to someone who is incompatible with you in all areas, you will lose yourself. You are lucky if you're not yet married, you have time to make the best choice. Do not be emotionally manipulated to make the wrong choice. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I have seen and met women who are married to very rich men, but they are very broke, unhappy, and living poorly than those who feel they are poor. Make money as a woman; so that your only reason for settling down won’t be survival. When you also have a livelihood, even if you desire to marry for money, you will have your time to make the best choice. Not every married woman that is in the front car, beautiful home, wearing nice hair and nice clothes, is happy. I know you will say; it’s better to cry on a yacht than in KEKENAPEP shee? Pray you don’t experience what it means to cry in Lamborghini. You will understand why women divorce their rich husbands. One day, you will understand that happiness, peace, and joy can’t be emphasized. Empower yourself! There are good rich men, but you can only find them when your reason for settling down isn’t for survival. A lady told me how she is bankrupt, she's married to a man who's very wealthy, but she has no money in her account. He prefers to buy her gifts than to give her money. He refused to open a business for her or allow her work. He locked her out, disrespected her family, broke shamed them, and left her outside till it's night because they had an argument. He brings in girls anytime he wants without any respect for the woman, to mention but a few. Pray to be happy in your marriage; do not even desire to cry anywhere, both in yacht or Keke. Most importantly, empower yourself so you won't marry wholly on survival. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

I don’t really know who told some people that flaunting a relationship means fidelity? That the person is faithful ke;? Cheating can happen regardless of public displays of affection. Flaunting a relationship on social media doesn't necessarily mean the person is faithful. In fact, some people might use the display of affection as a way to hide their infidelity, present a perfect image, or distract from their true intentions. You have not seen people who post their husband/ wife but are terr!ble cheat? The ones that flaunt their boyfriend/girlfriend; yet, they have other intimate partners? When you understand this; life will seem different to you. I have seen so many ladies that flaunt their partner yet are entertaining more guys, doing hookŭps and other things. Abi, the guys that will deny the girlfriend they just posted on their wall in a lady’s inbox, with the claim that it’s not a serious thing or the lady is not giving him peace? If a married man can boldly wear his wedding ring, have the pictures of his family on his profile and yet, flirt with ladies, it’s enough reminder that one can be “a flaunting cheating partner” lol! As I stated earlier; I don’t have issues with Public Display of Affection; some people are just true to it, they do it with their heart and mind, but in a generation that you don’t even know the plans your partner have for you, you need to slow it down especially in RELATIONSHIP, and as a woman too. When a relationship ends, most ladies line up for the guy as a replacement, but some men might withdraw from the lady. Women are always in the receiving end; the pain, shame, and tears are more on them. Celebrate your partner at the right times and places, but know when to be private. Relationships can be a test of compatibility or a game to some. You can love someone with your heart, but they are just passing time with you. These things don't have formular, still thread carefully. #yourfriend #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

At your lowest, not everyone who shows support is genuinely rooting for you. Some people only love you when you're struggling because it makes them feel superior. Their smiles and support will likely fade when you start doing better. They might even reduce their gifts and support, because it was never from the heart; they only loved the version of you at your lowest. They're happy to help as long as you remain beneath them. Some people are not genuinely cheering you on; they're rooting for your poor and helpless version. They get angry when life improves for you, feeling disconnected as you rise above. But there are others who stick by you through thick and thin, they are there in your lowest and still sincerely clap for you in your best moments. Their hearts don't palpitate when they hear your good news; they don't feel threatened by your wins. Recognize these genuine supporters and keep them close. As for those who only show up when you're down and feel bad when you're winning, let them go! Fortunately, if your growth is ordained by God. no one can stop it. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

You do not need to sit with women who always say; my husband did this, he bought me that, he promised me that, this and that, if you are still building with your husband. You need to flee from friends who remind you how they will never cook or do chores for their wives if you do chores at home . Be careful of societal pressures that destrǒy home; it entraps you the more you listen to it. It creates unnecessary comparison in your mind that’s disastroùs. Every day, we preach that couples should get a formula that works for them. Why then do you allow another person’s formula to destroy yours? Be careful! You give room to all these unnecessary pressures when you pay attention to it. Sometimes; allow those ladies to feel they married better, just allow them to feel themselves and remove yourself from such situations. You won’t know how bad you have lost your peace if you keep listening to them. Sometimes, give space to those guys who don’t believe being faithful in marriage as a man, the ones that make infidelity look normal. Most times; Do not listen to these podcasts that are against what works for you in your home. Do not read those writeup! If it is working for you; then it’s your recipes. Preserve it. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice