Sex after marriage gone wrong

My husband earns about 800k monthly. He gives me 200k for the home, and we have three kids. Then he gives me 60k to give to the kids to take to school till it's finished and then he gives 100k for me to use for petty expenses (electricity and other unforseen needs that may rise, like buying a pill or socks or anything petty). That makes a total of 360k. So he keeps 440k for himself.

So recently, I asked him to show me his account balance since he has always kept that much to himself, but he ignored me. So I later went to check the account myself and saw he had just about 14M there. Meanwhile it's been over three years and I was expecting to see more.

He eats at home except lunch. He doesn't do anything except send money to his parents and mine once a while and pay the kids school fees thrice in a year and it's nothing more than 300k for a term. He may help his siblings, but that's also once a while.

So I demanded he explain how he had only 14M in his account. This man started to gaslight me. Asking if he ever asked me how much I had in my account and talking about my 130k salary. We haven't spoke for days because of this issue and he won't even apologise and explain himself.

Can you believe he told me this morning to leave the marriage if I want to because he's never going to talk about the money with me? Is this a serious man who wants a future for his family?

How can I stay with a man who is not accountable with finances?? I am leaving

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BREAKING NEWS

Toni Braxton files for DÎV0RCE with Birdman just 1-month after their marriage because she's B0red and Tîred of the marriage

Toni Braxton and Birdman dated for over 16-years and got married last month in sēcrêt but today, Toni Braxton got tîred of the marriage and filed for a Dîv0rce.

Birdman will have to pay her more than half of his over $160-million fortune for investing so much in their 1-month marriage.

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"A happy marriage is a union of two forgivers" - Robert Quillen

TRENDING

Canadian rapper, Nav's wife in sh0ck after she filed for a dîvorce seeking for half of his over $5-million fortune only to discover in c0urt during the dîvorce that all Nav's assets are registered under his mother's name

The rapper's wife who dated him for 10-years before marriage and thought she knew everything about him was shocked when the c0urt revealed that her millionaire husband is worth $0.00
And everything he ever bought for her when they were still married including clothes, jewelry, a car, wigs and other accessories belonged to his mom so she had the return everything to Nav's mother because Nav's mother said that she only bought all those things for her son.

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8 important medical tests you should take before marriage

Marriage is a beautiful and lifelong commitment, but before saying “I do,” it is important for couples to undergo important medical tests to ensure a healthy future together.

These tests help in preventing potential health risks, ensuring compatibility, and preparing for a healthy family. Ignoring these screenings could lead to unforeseen medical and genetic challenges. Here are the important medical tests every couple must take.

1. Blood Group and Rhesus Factor Test
Understanding blood compatibility is essential, especially for pregnancy. If a woman with Rh-negative blood type marries an Rh-positive man, their baby may develop Rhesus incompatibility, which can lead to severe health issues.

2. Genotype Compatibility Test
This test is crucial to prevent sickle cell disease. If both partners have the AS, SS, or SC genotype, there is a high chance of giving birth to a child with sickle cell anemia, a painful and lifelong condition. Couples should ensure genotype compatibility before marriage.

3. HIV/AIDS Test,HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is a serious disease that affects the immune system. Getting tested before marriage ensures that both partners are aware of their status and can take the necessary precautions to protect their health and that of their future children.

4. Hepatitis B and C Screening
Hepatitis B and C are viral infections that affect the liver and can be transmitted through unprotected sex, blood transfusion, or from mother to child. Early detection can help in managing the disease and preventing transmission.

5. Fertility Test
Many couples face fertility challenges after marriage without prior knowledge of their reproductive health. Testing for sperm count, ovulation status, and hormone levels can help in identifying any potential fertility issues early and finding possible solutions.

6. Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) Screening
STIs such as syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and herpes can cause complications if left untreated. They may lead to infertility, pregnancy complications, or transmission to the baby. Screening ensures early detection and treatment.

7. Genetic and Hereditary Diseases Screening

Genetic disorders like cystic fibrosis, hemophilia, and Tay-Sachs disease can be passed from parents to children. A genetic screening test helps determine if either partner carries genes for inherited conditions. This makes them plan accordingly.

8. Diabetes and Hypertension Test
Diabetes and high blood pressure (hypertension) can affect fertility, pregnancy, and overall health. Checking for these conditions allows couples to manage their health before starting a family.

These important medical tests before marriage are essential for a healthy and happy future. Couples should visit a qualified healthcare provider for these tests and seek professional advice based on the results.
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WAKE-UP CALL

Toni Braxton files for DÎV0RCE with Birdman just 1-month after their marriage because she's B0red and Tîred of the marriage

Toni Braxton and Birdman dated for over 16-years and got married last month in sēcrêt but today, Toni Braxton got tîred of the marriage and filed for a Dîv0rce.

Birdman will have to pay her more than half of his over $160-million fortune for investing so much in their 1-month marriage.

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Toke Makinwa Receives Marriage Proposals After Sharing Openness to Becoming a Second Wife

Popular Nigerian media personality and fashion influencer, Toke Makinwa, has revealed that she’s already receiving marriage proposals just hours after opening up about her willingness to remarry—even if it means becoming a second, third, or fourth wife.

During a recent podcast appearance, Toke candidly admitted she’s now open to the idea of joining a polygamous union.
“Honestly, at this stage in my life, if the chance to be a second, third, fourth, or even fifth wife comes, I’d take it,” she shared.

She went on to explain that being in control all the time can be exhausting:
“I’m always the boss—it gets tiring. Sometimes, you just want someone else to take charge, even with little things like deciding what’s for dinner.”

Shortly after the episode went viral, Toke posted a screenshot of her inbox on social media, showing that several suitors had already reached out. One email boldly asked:
“GOAL: Can we get married?”—from a senior data analyst based in Ibadan.

Her revelation sparked a buzz online, with social media users reacting with mixed emotions—some amused by the quick responses and others debating her comments on polygamy.

Here are some reactions from users:

@dearolaa: “They said no one wants to marry her, but clearly, she’s just not settling. She wants a rich man, even if she’s the 5th wife.”
@Dnpassion: “They just want a bite of the national cake.”
@MarindotiLesh: “All na to taste BBL yansh and run.”
@Stg_pop: “She’s just trying to prove men want her. It’s a PR stunt.”
@icecoldlifestyl: “Let men taste the national cake jare.”
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WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed.

It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept People before attempting to change them. Of course, your wives are not from your backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I don’t believe that your MARRIAGE can’t work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

May Almighty God continue to be with us, guide and protect us in all our affairs Amen!!! Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies,Bros and Married ones here.

You will have the marriage of your dreams. A marriage made in heaven.

No Matter How Much You Love Her, Never Tell A Woman These 2 Things In Relationship or Marriage

Did you know that women can tolerate mild insults very well, especially if they come from a partner or a close friend? Choose this lesson if you were not aware of this knowledge. Imagine meeting a stunning woman who possesses all of these unique traits as well as a nice appearance. You would undoubtedly pay attention to this woman

You both decide to begin dating one another after falling in love, and you’re all eager to start your new love lives. When you get to that point, when you’re completely smitten with her, you’ll feel as though you can tell her anything without worrying that she’ll reject you. Permit me to interrupt you there: love should never make you forget the reality about certain things, no matter how much you might want to.

1. You absolutely must not ever tell her how many different women you have been in your life.

In this situation, she would always be on the lookout for you. I know that being open and honest about things isn’t necessarily the worst course of action, but there’s a chance that doing so can have unforeseen effects. If you have had romantic relationships with more than 15 different women, you may disclose that you have an ex-girlfriend; otherwise, you should keep this information to yourself

You shouldn’t bring up any unfavorable things your family has said about her.

Because of this, she might grow to hate your family, break up with you, and be upset about it, which could lead her to develop unjustified resentment toward them. You should never discuss the derogatory things that your family has said about her, instead of trying to correct her when she makes a mistake.

Nawa for marriage, love today enemy tomorrow

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

1. Laziness kills marriage.
2. Suspicion kills marriage.
3. Lack of Trust kills marriage.
4. Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage.
5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage.
6. Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage.
7. Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage.
8. Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage.
9. Poor Communication kills marriage.
10. Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect.
11. Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage.
12. Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage.
13. Nagging kills marriage.
14. Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage.
15. Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage.
16. Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage.
17. Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage.
18. Exposing Your Spouse's Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage.
19. Neglecting Spiritual Practices and Not Praying Together kills not only marriage but also your life.
20. Spurning Correction and Reprimand kills marriage.
21. Always Wearing a Sad Face and Being Moody kills marriage.
22. Extreme Feminism Advocacy kills marriage.
23. Male Chauvinism kills marriage.
24. Uncontrolled Temper and Anger kill marriage.
25. Not Understanding Your Role and Responsibility in Marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.
26. Ignoring the Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical Needs of Your Spouse kills marriage.
27. Threatening the Security of a Spouse will have detrimental effects on the marriage.
28. Lack of Knowledge of and Obedience to the Word of God kills marriage.