"I was once married to a British man, Roderick James Nuttal. At first, things seemed okay, but with time, the marriage became stressful. He always accus£d me of ch£ating, even when I was faithful and focused on building our home. Meanwhile, he was the one ch£ating and hiding things. It got to a point where I couldn’t take it anymore. I had to choose my peace and my sanity. So I walked away. Since then, I’ve been doing well. Sometimes, no matter how much you try, if it’s not working, don’t force it. Peace of mind is more important." — Kate Henshaw

DON’T MARRY JUST ANY WOMAN, MARRY A WOMAN WITH COMMON SENSE. 1. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that respect in marriage is mutual, not one-sided. 2. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that you are not an ATM machine, and providing for the family is a shared responsibility when necessary. 3. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that love is not just about what she can receive but also what she can give. 4. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that being a man does not mean you don’t have emotions and that your struggles and mental health matter too. 5. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that submission does not mean slavery, and partnership does not mean control. 6. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that when you are tired or stressed, she should also be willing to support, whether by cooking, making things easier, or simply being considerate. 7. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that intimacy is not a weapon for manipulation or punishment but an expression of love that should be mutual and consensual. 8. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that disagreements are normal but should be handled with maturity, not silent treatment, disrespect, or emotional manipulation. 9. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that your dreams and aspirations matter just as much as hers and that marriage should be a place of support, not competition. 10. Marry a woman who loves your soul, not just your status, money, or what she can gain. Marry a woman who enjoys talking to you, not just demanding from you. May you not miss it in marriage

DON’T MARRY JUST ANY WOMAN, MARRY A WOMAN WITH COMMON SENSE. 1. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that respect in marriage is mutual, not one-sided. 2. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that you are not an ATM machine, and providing for the family is a shared responsibility when necessary. 3. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that love is not just about what she can receive but also what she can give. 4. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that being a man does not mean you don’t have emotions and that your struggles and mental health matter too. 5. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that submission does not mean slavery, and partnership does not mean control. 6. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that when you are tired or stressed, she should also be willing to support, whether by cooking, making things easier, or simply being considerate. 7. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that intimacy is not a weapon for manipulation or punishment but an expression of love that should be mutual and consensual. 8. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that disagreements are normal but should be handled with maturity, not silent treatment, disrespect, or emotional manipulation. 9. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that your dreams and aspirations matter just as much as hers and that marriage should be a place of support, not competition. 10. Marry a woman who loves your soul, not just your status, money, or what she can gain. Marry a woman who enjoys talking to you, not just demanding from you. May you not miss it in marriage

BOOM💥 If you want to marry me these are the very simple things that you will bring to my people (1) My bride price: 20 million naira (2) Toyota Highlander jeep for my dad (3) Toyota Venzer 2019 model for my mum (4) Toyota Corolla for my elder brother (5) 25 keke-napep for the 25 elders in my community (6) 50 bicycle for my community women (7) 100 b0yfriend jeans trouser for my community girls (8) 200 jeans for my community boys Last and not the least you must buy a land and build a house for me in my village before i leave my fathers house to follow you! If you are interested, drop your number and I will contact you directly #fypシ #nigeria #marriage #fypシ゚ #fypシ゚viralシ

Actress Mercy Johnson brutally replies a critic who insinuated that her marriage has crashed. The mother of four had shared a post where she was advertising a product, and she was not wearing her wedding ring.. A critic who saw the post shared her observation and asked if her marriage to her husband, Prince Odi Okojie, was still intact, and she reacted. Photo credit - Mercy Johnson Okojie/Instagram

Actress Mercy Johnson brutally replies a critic who insinuated that her marriage has crashed. The mother of four had shared a post where she was advertising a product, and she was not wearing her wedding ring.. A critic who saw the post shared her observation and asked if her marriage to her husband, Prince Odi Okojie, was still intact, and she reacted. Photo credit - Mercy Johnson Okojie/Instagram

Ladies, here’s some low-key funny advice: If your man uses a white towel and white underwear, just go ahead and say yes already! Sign those marriage papers immediately! That’s the kind of man who will notice the little things, values neatness, pays attention to details, and will most likely cherish you the same way — with care, thoughtfulness, and attention. Anyone brave enough to maintain a spotless white towel is brave enough to handle love, responsibility, and even in-laws! Jokes🌝 (White towels and white underwear don’t survive carelessness — haha. Only a careful man dares to keep them pristine!) #Laughs I think I just hurt the feelings of some men with colored towels, and colored underwear and boxers… Oops!😅😅😅🌈🌈 This is a joke. A good heart is better than any white towel or boxers. Know this and know peace.

*No marriage is perfect, those celebrating 30,40,50 years of togetherness, they are celebrating forgiveness, tolerance, ignoring husband's stupidity.* Overlooking the wife misbehavior . *Money does not determine a better marriage but character and loyalty does. ♥️👌*

hubby came home with snails, I told my boy to prepare it, the boy was almost set to start preparing when hubby walked in and said he shouldnt do it. He packed them inside a rubber and kept in our bedroom. At night I was deep asleep when he came and said we should practice what one of his friends told him. He took off my pants and brought out a very big snail. He had already shaved off my vg hairs a day before. So the place was left with no hairs. I was just lying down then he washed the snail and then placed the snail on my vg and told me to relax, this thing started moving on my vg. It gave me the kind of feeling I never felt before, hubby was just watching, then the snail whitish substance was all over my vg, hubby now took it away, rub his manhood over the whitish thing and made love to me, I swear we both d.ie.d and came back. In our ten years of marriage, we never had such intimacy. When he was done, he told me his Liberian friend told him to practice good hygiene during sex. Since then we have been using snail during love making. This might be scary, but someone might wish to try. Wetin be dis 😂😭😭

HOW MY CHILDREN DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE 😭😭😭😭 I am a medical doctor while my husband is a software developer. We both had good jobs until when the crises in NW and SW started and my husband lost his job and getting another well paid job became difficult, we both decided that I should travel to Canada for a job I got around that time and when I am stabilised, he would join me with the children. We are blessed with 2girls. We continued with our lives. December 2018, I decided to come to Cameroon for the festivities and to celebrate or 20th wedding anniversary. When I arrived, I noticed a tensed atmosphere between my daughters and their father. I thought it was the teenager – parent’s issue, so I ignored it. But when I noticed that my daughters would sometimes be rude to their father, I demanded to know what was going on. This became a matter of concern because, my daughters used to adore their father. I tried several times to get my daughters to speak with me but all they had to say was for me to talk to my husband. I had to ask my husband what was going on. He told me it was nothing he could not handle and that our daughters were keeping bad company in school and because of this, he decided to disallow them from going out and attending parties. He drops them in school and created time to pick them from school. I was happy as such strong hand is needed for teenage girls. I then ignored their attitude. Few days to when I was to travel back to Canada. I called my daughters to speak with them. After a long talk, they told me that daddy did not want them to go out because he was having sex with both of them. When my husband came back from the office, I confronted him and they repeated what they told me in his presence. My husband denied vehemently but the girls insisted that it was happening. I was confused and I sought the counsel of our pastor and his parents. They called our daughters and they said the same thing. I didn’t know who to believe. My husband kept begging me to believe him but I just was not ready to listen because I could not see reason why our children would lie about such. I made arrangement and took my children back to Canada with me despite the loans I had to take, for the extra costs. While I filed for divorce. I raised my children alone for about 3years. Then I heard the news that my now ex husband was getting married to someone else. I mentioned it to the girls and expressed how sad I was that a man that would do that to his daughters went scotfree because there is no evidence to push a case. I bursted out crying while apologizing to my girls about what he put them through. It was there that they confessed that their father did not touch them. That they lied because their father did not give them the freedom to do what they wanted and they wanted to leave Cameroon. My world shattered. where do I start from? How do I beg my husband? What do I say? Probably, I should have trusted my husband, but I was just trying to be a good mother. I lost a good man. How do I get him to forgive his children and I ? Can I still save my home ? Please help me.

10 séxual rules for men. 1. Do not sleep with your students, employees, staff, or anyone you have considerable power over. It will definitely not end well. 2. So not be foolish enough to indulge in one night stands. You could easily be set up or killed if you are known to indulge perpetually. 3. If you must have sex outside your relationship or marriage, make sure you pay for it and ensure there is a virtual receipt of the transaction. Just in case..... 4. Refrain from promising a woman marriage in order to sleep with her. It is a gutter behavior. Also refrain from making promises when you are naked. 90% of the time you will be unable to keep them. 5. Do not sleep with a woman who is in a lower social standing than you. I don't care how beautiful she is. Especially if you have nothing serious intended with her. Because all her hopes and dreams will be entrusted to you.... And it is a dangerous place to be. 6. Do not sleep with lady who has nothing going on for herself. (i.e; No job, No career, No skills, No ambition.... Etc.) They are most likely to trap you with a pregnancy, to ensure you continue to feed them. 7. If you find yourself using a condom, then you probably shouldn't be sleeping with that particular woman. 8. Stay away from the Ex's of your friends, brothers or family. Because, human emotions are complicated. Your friends and family may verbally give you the go ahead but deep down they may resent you for it; especially if there are still lingering feelings for the so called Ex'es. 9. In the course of your life, a lot of women will willingly offer you séx. Be highly selective. Not out of pride, but out of responsibility. Because the result of séx is pregnancy. Sleep only with women you are sure can effectively raise your kids. 10. A high body count will mess you up mentally. Many times you will find yourself out of the blue craving sěx with a séxual partner from the past. This is because of the highly chemical and spiritual nature of sèx. Keep your body count low.

Happy marriage in advance