If you feel like the devil's knocked you down, God can lift you up. 🙏 He is a God of restoration—whether it's your finances 💰, marriage 💍, relationships 🤝, health 🏥, or the joy of your salvation ✨, He can restore it all. With God, your comeback can be greater than your setback. 1 Peter 5:10 says, "The God of all grace will personally and powerfully restore you, and make you stronger than ever. Yes, He will set you firmly in place, and our God will build you up." 💪📖🦦🫀✝️

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The Danger of Comparing Your Marriage to Social Media Social media often gives us a romanticized version of reality. Perfect vacations, surprise proposals, anniversary gifts — it all looks beautiful. But behind every perfect post, there could be hidden struggles, years of hard work, or even turmoil. Comparing your relationship to what you see online can breed discontent. You begin to measure love by what is seen, not what is felt. You forget the private victories you and your partner have overcome. You forget the value of your shared journey. Relationships aren't built in photo filters. They're built in sacrifice, late-night talks, forgiveness, and compromise. When you compare, you diminish the realness of your love and chase a fantasy that doesn't exist. Remember, real love is not always picture-perfect. It’s in the quiet mornings, the inside jokes, the shared responsibilities, and the unwavering support during hard times. Don’t trade authentic connection for staged perfection. Celebrate your story. Be present in your love. Follow Lolly Gold Talkshow for more heartfelt truths, powerful reflections, and real conversations that heal, inspire, and empower. 💛

MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE... My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you. Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock. As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one, My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away. One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away! Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise Be very careful of a pretending partner. A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see! No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone, then don’t let her go. But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have trained you! If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage! I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings. May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you... EYA Oliver Uchenna®️

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Fulfillment Isn’t a Destination; It’s a Daily Decision” You’ve been told that fulfillment comes after success, after marriage, after wealth. But what if fulfillment begins when you stop waiting and start living intentionally? Fulfillment isn’t found in the future. It’s found in the present moment—in the joy of breathing, the warmth of the sun, the laughter of a friend. It’s in choosing gratitude even when life feels heavy. It’s waking up and deciding to live fully, not just exist. Start asking yourself: What makes me feel alive? Who drains my energy? What does my soul need right now? Fulfillment isn’t about having everything; it’s about creating peace in the midst of everything. You are allowed to seek more but never forget to value the “now.”

I used to be womanizer – Actor Daniel Etim-Effiong Popular Nollywood actor, Daniel Etim-Effiong, has revealed that he used to be a womanizer at some point in his life, but added that it was brief. In an interview with Chude Jideonwo, the engineer-turned-actor recalled “exploring” with multiple women at the same time. He described the experience as a learning process. He said he often advised young people to shun womanizing because it can affect their relationships and marriages in the future, stressing that it might prove difficult to quit. Chude asked: “Were you a womanizer before you got married?” Etim-Effiong replied: “It depends on what is your definition of a womanizer.” Chude inferred: “A man who dates multiple women at the same time.” Etim-Effiong: “Maybe there was a time in my life I was. Definitions would differ, but in that definition, maybe there was a period in my life that I was, I wouldn’t say for long periods of my life. Maybe for some certain periods that I explored. So, perhaps.” Chude asked: “Was it good periods?” Etim-Effiong replied: “Yes, they were periods of learning for me. If I learned, then they were good periods.” Chude asked: “What did you learn?” Etim-Effiong replied: “I learned that certain things don’t necessarily bring you the fulfilment that you think they would. On paper, it feels like that is the life, but in experientially maybe not. “I tell young people a lot that it is cool to be a player but if you develop that habit or lifestyle, you won’t automatically change overnight. “So, don’t develop something you don’t want to continue for the rest of your life. If you are not able to commit to one person, if you jump from one relationship to another, that won’t automatically change when you marry. “When you marry that muscle hasn’t been developed so you encounter one challenge and you want to immediately jump or you just be like, ‘I’m talking to you, you are not listening to me, let me find somebody that would listen to me.’ “If you are the kind of person that before you got married it was easy for you to just walk away, keep different relationships, keep ladies on the string, that won’t change when you get married.”

THE REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BATH WITH YOUR SPOUSE EVERY NIGHT 😊❤️ Sharing a bath allows you and your spouse to unwind together, away from the distractions of daily life. It's a precious opportunity to connect on a deeper level and strengthen your bond as a couple. Bathing with your partner is sweet, intimate, and a great way to become more comfortable with each other's bodies. Consider scheduling regular baths together, especially at night, to enjoy this shared experience. Suggestions for Bathing Together: A. Ask your spouse to help scrub your back as you bathe together. B. Make it playful! Bathing together can be a lighthearted experience; from splashing each other with water to sharing playful banter, enjoy each other's company in a fun and carefree way. Take your time. Enjoy your moments together. 😊 C. Explore physical intimacy—allow your husband to explore and enjoy your body, and do the same for him. Enjoy playing with your husband’s pen!s. Relax and let your husband play with yours too and enjoy your br€asts. D. Share passionate k!sses under the shower. 😜 E. Hold your spouse closely from behind, letting him do the same, and embrace each other passionately. F. Don’t shy away from making l0ve in the bathroom. A couple's bath sets the stage for romance like nothing else. The warm water, soft lighting, and tranquil atmosphere heighten the senses and ignite the spark of intimacy. HERE ARE A FEW REASONS YOU SHOULD SHOWER TOGETHER WITH YOUR SPOUSE: 1. IT RELIEVES STRESS: Did you have a stressful day at work? Why not try taking a shower with your spouse. There are endless things that can make couples become stressed in life. Taking time to shower together is considered one of the effective ways to deal with different forms of stress. Showers are known to be relaxing places after a busy, tiring day, and adding your spouse into the mix can only make the deal sweeter. Showering together with your spouse can ease the tension in your nerves and reignite the sparkle between both of you. 2. Showering together helps to save time when both of you wake up late: So, you rush into the shower with your spouse to catch up with time. 3. It’s hygienic: It is easier to get your back watched by your spouse: You bathe and clean each other better. 4. Showering with your spouse is romantic: It creates a nice atmosphere of romance as your bodies crease together and water runs through. There is nothing more romantic than getting wet with the person you love. It starts the day on a lovely note. 5. It enhances intimacy: According to research, showering together enhances intimacy between couples like nothing else. It helps you create an unshakable bond with your spouse. 6. Showering together makes you comfortable with your body: You get more comfortable taking off your clothes in the bathroom with your spouse. It builds your confidence level when you are naked with your spouse. 7. It makes you free with each other. 8. It can also enhance your s€x life. 9. It’s another kind of for€play 10. It’s a way to try a new shower s€x position: The bathroom can be a fun place to make l0ve but you should be extra careful because the bathroom can be slippery because of soap 😊 11. Showering together with your spouse enhances your love life: it becomes easier to fall in love with your spouse all over again 12. It enhances your friendship: as it brings you closer, you will see it as a form of recreating and pleasure, thereby making you friendlier with each other. Avoid becoming just roommates. Make sure you continue to be affectionate in your home by cuddling, touching and k!ssing your spouse. That is marriage. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

WEEK OF SPIRITUAL FOCUS AND EMPOWERMENT UPDATE JUNE THEME: *PREPARING FOR THE KING'S RETURN* DAY TWO: *VITAL PREPARATIONS REQUIRED TO MEET THE KING OF KINGS* SCRIPTURES FOR MEDITATION AND PRAYERS Revelation 19:1-9 And after these things I heard a great voice of much people in heaven, saying, Alleluia; Salvation, and glory, and honour, and power, unto the Lord our God: For true and righteous are his judgments: for he hath judged the great whore, which did corrupt the earth with her fornication, and hath avenged the blood of his servants at her hand. And again they said, Alleluia. And her smoke rose up for ever and ever. And the four and twenty elders and the four beasts fell down and worshipped God that sat on the throne, saying, Amen; Alleluia. And a voice came out of the throne, saying, Praise our God, all ye his servants, and ye that fear him, both small and great. And I heard as it were the voice of a great multitude, and as the voice of many waters, and as the voice of mighty thunderings, saying, Alleluia: for the Lord God omnipotent reigneth. Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God. PRAYERS 1. DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER, THANK YOU FOR THE SACRIFICE OF THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST FOR MY SALVATION AND RESTORATION. ACCEPT MY THANKSGIVING AND APPRECIATION IN JESUS NAME. 2. OH LORD GOD OF HOSTS, I YIELD MYSELF TO YOU NOW, MAKE ME READY FOR YOUR SECOND COMING AND USE ME TO GET OTHERS READY FOR YOU IN JESUS NAME. 3. OH LORD GOD OF HOSTS, DELIVER ME NOW FROM EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE STANDING BETWEEN ME AND YOU, BY ALL MEANS, HELP ME TO STAY FOCUSED ON YOU ALWAYS TILL I SEE YOUR FACE IN JESUS NAME. JOIN US TODAY ONLINE OR IN CHURCH BY 5PM FOR CORPORATE PRAYERS. SHALOM, MARANATHA!

Join me celebrate this beautiful couple! We’re 6 months and 9 days into this beautiful journey of marriage and yes, we are celebrating! Because if we can’t pause to appreciate the little wins, how will we ever fully embrace the big victories? Marriage is more than a ceremony or a milestone it’s a journey of daily choices, silent prayers, deep growth, and shared grace. It stretches and shapes you in every area: spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and even physically. We didn’t walk into this season based on emotions or excitement alone. No! we prayed, we prepared, and we surrounded ourselves with wise counsel. That’s why we’re here today still smiling, still standing, still growing. To our spiritual parents and our marriage counselor (Pht Emos Abamukong and Pst Mrs Abigail Abamukong ) thank you from the depths of our hearts. You walked us through the process, challenged us to be intentional, and reminded us that real love is built, not stumbled into. Counseling hasn’t stopped, and it won’t, we’re committed to growing, together, over and over again. And through it all, one truth remains: God has been faithful. The challenges have come but instead of breaking us, they’ve made us stronger. More united. More rooted. So yes we’re just 6 months and 9 days in. But every single day has been a step of grace, growth, and genuine love. And that, to us, is worth celebrating.

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*MARRY A MAN WITH COMMON SENSE.* 1: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you. 2: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour. 3: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you. 4: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to sex at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood. 5: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag boobs and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, Your sag boobs or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood. (Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.) 6: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo. 7: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions. 8: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry" 9: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity. 10: Marry a man who loves your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you. May you not miss it in marriage.