Ladies, understand this clearly: men pursue women for two main reasons — sex and love. But here’s the reality that’s often overlooked. Most men do not marry for sex, and they do not marry solely for love. Men marry for stability. Let me break this down. A man can love you with all his heart and still not marry you. He can enjoy your company, share intimate moments, and even spend years with you without ever making you his wife. But the moment he encounters a woman who brings stability into his life — true, undeniable stability — he will marry her. And when I say stability, I’m talking about peace of mind. I’ve heard men confess, “I love her, but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.” Why? Because love alone is not enough. Sex is not enough. Men are visionaries when it comes to marriage. They don’t fantasize about wedding dresses, flower arrangements, or the color scheme of the big day. Instead, they ask themselves essential questions: Can this woman build a home with me? Can she nurture me and our future children? Can she give me the peace of mind I crave? Men run from discomfort. They avoid chaos. This is exactly why a man can stay with a woman for years without commitment, and then meet another woman and marry her within a month. It’s not about how long you’ve known him — it’s about the comfort and calm she brings to his life. Sex is pleasure. Love is affection. But respect — respect is stability. And stability is what ultimately leads a man to say, “This is the woman I want to build my life with. This is my wife.” So ladies, don’t just aim to be loved or desired — aim to be a woman of peace. Aim to be the calm in his storm, the stability in his vision, the respect in his heart. Because when a man finds peace with you, he finds his forever in you.

Marriage is not 4 every woman, if u are 2big 2 respect a man, marriage is not 4 u, if u believe in gender equality, Aunty leave marriage alone, if u are not submissive pls stay single. In marriage a Man & a Woman are not the same & will never be. Aisha Yusuf drop her opinion on this trending issue.

As a lady, you are free to marry a guy who is abûsive, mean and also chéats on you. In fact, when you see a man that fîghts in public and is always ready to qûarel, just to get his rights, my dear, marry him. As long as you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, it doesn't really matter. After all, you are meant to love people the way they are and not try to fórce them to become who you want. Hehehehehe, I see you giving me that ‘Coach, what are you saying? ' look. Smiles. Ok, let's get this straight. You are always quick to tell a guy that as long as he loves you as a lady, he should be able to put up with your weaknesses. But when it's about the guy and his weaknesses, we always put up a wide eye, that screams ‘NO WAY!' Yesterday, I made a random funny post about how Bro Theo ended up not proposing to sister Nkechi because he saw her dragging food at a wedding. And then, some ladies were saying that Bro Theo doesn't love sister Nkechi, that if he does, he would have put up with that attitude. Smiles. It's easier to tell a guy to put up with a négative attitude that a lady displays than to tell the lady to do the same thing. When it's the lady displaying the attitude, we call it being herself, but when it's a guy, we call it réd flags. We have gradually started applauding attitudinal issûes as part of being ourselves, and that is why we have refused to work on them. The end point is this 👇 If you can't marry a guy because he smókes, fîghts in public and even abûses you; you shouldn't expect a guy to go ahead and marry you when you are always disgràcing your village people in public by dràgging and fîghting for food, just because you are a lady. Oh! You call it T.Pàin? Smiles... A guy can as well excusé his attitude to be a psychological result of T. Paîn too 😂 You are getting it now, right? Just the way you want a great guy with demure and steeze, this is the same way a guy wants to see that in you too. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Be the kind of lady a guy will be proud to call his, just the way you want to proudly call him yours. Be unto your partner what you would like your partner to be unto you. I hope this makes sense to you ❣️ #wholisticcoach #TMAcademy #relationship #love #marriage #purpose #women #ladies

Juliet Okonkwo (E-money's wife) remembers that “When we started dating, my friends were surprised that I sidestepped all the rich guys in Lekki, where I was resident for a man who lived in Ajegunle, but I was not bothered. I looked forward to getting a good job upon my graduation from the University. He didn't even have enough money to take us back to Lagos after our traditional marriage. KCee was the one who lent me N20,000. I used it to pay our fare in Lagos.”..........Me:For those waiting for a Man to make it in life before you marry him listen!Men don't fall in Love after making money.

Great relationships don’t just happen — they’re built. Whether you’re dating or married, a strong and sweet relationship takes time, patience, and the right principles. Here are 5 simple reminders that’ll help you grow together and build something beautiful: 1. Pray together, grow together – Keep God at the center of your journey. If it’s not God then it’s not good. 2. Communicate with love and honesty – Communication is the blood of the union. Talk, listen and enjoy each other’s company. 3. Give, Give, Give - relationship and marriage is sweet when both parties are givers and not the other way round. 4. Respect each other’s differences – You’re a team, not twins, so don’t fight each other. 5. Invest in friendship, not just feelings – Deep friendship sustains what passion starts. Take it one day at a time — love built right is always worth the wait. 📸 this fine girl decided to plait tomatoes after cutting her hair to start afresh 😂 ©️ I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers #nicholasmichaeloriarewo

Marriage is not 4 every woman, if u are 2big 2 respect a man, marriage is not 4 u, if u believe in gender equality, Aunty leave marriage alone, if u are not submissive pls stay single. In marriage a Man & a Woman are not the same & will never be. Aisha Yusuf drop her opinion on this trending issue.

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My husband earns about 800k monthly. He gives me 200k for the home, and we have three kids. Then he gives me 60k to give to the kids to take to school till it's finished and then he gives 100k for me to use for petty expenses (electricity and other unforseen needs that may rise, like buying a pill or socks or anything petty). That makes a total of 360k. So he keeps 440k for himself. So recently, I asked him to show me his account balance since he has always kept that much to himself, but he ignored me. So I later went to check the account myself and saw he had just about 14M there. Meanwhile it's been over three years and I was expecting to see more. He eats at home except lunch. He doesn't do anything except send money to his parents and mine once a while and pay the kids school fees thrice in a year and it's nothing more than 300k for a term. He may help his siblings, but that's also once a while. So I demanded he explain how he had only 14M in his account. This man started to gaslight me. Asking if he ever asked me how much I had in my account and talking about my 130k salary. We haven't spoke for days because of this issue and he won't even apologise and explain himself. Can you believe he told me this morning to leave the marriage if I want to because he's never going to talk about the money with me? Is this a serious man who wants a future for his family? How can I stay with a man who is not accountable with finances?? I am leaving #highlightseveryonefollowers2025 #everyone

BREAKING NEWS 🚨‼️ Toni Braxton files for DÎV0RCE with Birdman just 1-month after their marriage because she's B0red and Tîred of the marriage 🥶 Toni Braxton and Birdman dated for over 16-years and got married last month in sēcrêt but today, Toni Braxton got tîred of the marriage and filed for a Dîv0rce. Birdman will have to pay her more than half of his over $160-million fortune for investing so much in their 1-month marriage. Out of 24-hours in a day, use 22-hours to FÊAR W0men and the remaining 2-hours to FÊAR those who don't FÊAR W0men 🙌 #Afrocania #viral #followers #everyone #follower #virals #naturevibes #highlightseveryonefollowers

"A happy marriage is a union of two forgivers" - Robert Quillen

TRENDING 🚨‼️ Canadian rapper, Nav's wife in sh0ck after she filed for a dîvorce seeking for half of his over $5-million fortune only to discover in c0urt during the dîvorce that all Nav's assets are registered under his mother's name 😆 The rapper's wife who dated him for 10-years before marriage and thought she knew everything about him was shocked when the c0urt revealed that her millionaire husband is worth $0.00 💔🤦‍♂️ And everything he ever bought for her when they were still married including clothes, jewelry, a car, wigs and other accessories belonged to his mom so she had the return everything to Nav's mother because Nav's mother said that she only bought all those things for her son. 4ollow us KogiReporta for update like this Another Graduate From The University Of HAKIMOLOGY, he just made the brotherhood proud ✊ #KogiReporta

8 important medical tests you should take before marriage Marriage is a beautiful and lifelong commitment, but before saying “I do,” it is important for couples to undergo important medical tests to ensure a healthy future together. These tests help in preventing potential health risks, ensuring compatibility, and preparing for a healthy family. Ignoring these screenings could lead to unforeseen medical and genetic challenges. Here are the important medical tests every couple must take. 1. Blood Group and Rhesus Factor Test Understanding blood compatibility is essential, especially for pregnancy. If a woman with Rh-negative blood type marries an Rh-positive man, their baby may develop Rhesus incompatibility, which can lead to severe health issues. 2. Genotype Compatibility Test This test is crucial to prevent sickle cell disease. If both partners have the AS, SS, or SC genotype, there is a high chance of giving birth to a child with sickle cell anemia, a painful and lifelong condition. Couples should ensure genotype compatibility before marriage. 3. HIV/AIDS Test,HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is a serious disease that affects the immune system. Getting tested before marriage ensures that both partners are aware of their status and can take the necessary precautions to protect their health and that of their future children. 4. Hepatitis B and C Screening Hepatitis B and C are viral infections that affect the liver and can be transmitted through unprotected sex, blood transfusion, or from mother to child. Early detection can help in managing the disease and preventing transmission. 5. Fertility Test Many couples face fertility challenges after marriage without prior knowledge of their reproductive health. Testing for sperm count, ovulation status, and hormone levels can help in identifying any potential fertility issues early and finding possible solutions. 6. Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) Screening STIs such as syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and herpes can cause complications if left untreated. They may lead to infertility, pregnancy complications, or transmission to the baby. Screening ensures early detection and treatment. 7. Genetic and Hereditary Diseases Screening Genetic disorders like cystic fibrosis, hemophilia, and Tay-Sachs disease can be passed from parents to children. A genetic screening test helps determine if either partner carries genes for inherited conditions. This makes them plan accordingly. 8. Diabetes and Hypertension Test Diabetes and high blood pressure (hypertension) can affect fertility, pregnancy, and overall health. Checking for these conditions allows couples to manage their health before starting a family. These important medical tests before marriage are essential for a healthy and happy future. Couples should visit a qualified healthcare provider for these tests and seek professional advice based on the results. #health #marriage