From His videos, I learned 4 key lessons about Women.

1. Marriage does not guarantee her loyalty or fidelity.

2. When faced with money, women deny all moral values. Only their interests prevail

3. When they want to get something without making any effort, they are ready to make the worst compromises.

4. Even if she is married, she will always hope to meet a man who is wealthier than her husband. And if, unfortunately, she meets him, she will cheat on you without pity or remorse.

And guys if a woman ever cheats on you!!!!
DONT TAKE HER BACK! anything that gave her the mind to open her legs for another man, is stronger than acceptance. Forgive her but make she go stay with the man.

Both men and women must be committed to your relationship and marriage. There is no excuse for cheating!!!

If you feel like the devil's knocked you down, God can lift you up. He is a God of restoration—whether it's your finances , marriage , relationships , health , or the joy of your salvation , He can restore it all. With God, your comeback can be greater than your setback. 1 Peter 5:10 says, "The God of all grace will personally and powerfully restore you, and make you stronger than ever. Yes, He will set you firmly in place, and our God will build you up."

Heal Before You Enter Another Relationship
Unhealed wounds can poison new beginnings. If you haven’t taken time to process your pain, forgive yourself, and grow from past relationships, you'll carry the same baggage into your next one.
Healing is not just about moving on. It’s about sitting with your pain, learning the lessons, and becoming a healthier version of yourself. It means understanding your patterns and making better choices.
Without healing, you risk repeating cycles. You may sabotage good love because you haven’t learned to trust again. Or you may settle because you’re afraid of being alone. Healing helps you choose better — not just love better.
No one can heal you but you. A new partner can love you, but they can't fix what's broken within. Give yourself the gift of emotional wholeness before inviting someone else into your heart.
Healthy love begins with a healed you.
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The Danger of Comparing Your Marriage to Social Media
Social media often gives us a romanticized version of reality. Perfect vacations, surprise proposals, anniversary gifts — it all looks beautiful. But behind every perfect post, there could be hidden struggles, years of hard work, or even turmoil.
Comparing your relationship to what you see online can breed discontent. You begin to measure love by what is seen, not what is felt. You forget the private victories you and your partner have overcome. You forget the value of your shared journey.
Relationships aren't built in photo filters. They're built in sacrifice, late-night talks, forgiveness, and compromise. When you compare, you diminish the realness of your love and chase a fantasy that doesn't exist.
Remember, real love is not always picture-perfect. It’s in the quiet mornings, the inside jokes, the shared responsibilities, and the unwavering support during hard times. Don’t trade authentic connection for staged perfection.
Celebrate your story. Be present in your love.
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RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY:

PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES:

1. Providing financial support
2. Emotional guidance and support
3. Disciplining and setting boundaries
4. Role-modeling values and behavior
5. Protecting and ensuring family safety

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT:

1. Listening and validating feelings
2. Offering comfort and reassurance
3. Encouraging open communication
4. Supporting partner's emotional needs
5. Modeling healthy emotional expression

DISCIPLINE AND GUIDANCE:

1. Setting clear expectations and rules
2. Teaching life skills and values
3. Encouraging responsibility and independence
4. Modeling respectful communication
5. Providing constructive feedback

FINANCIAL PROVISION:

1. Managing household finances
2. Providing for family's basic needs
3. Planning for future financial security
4. Saving for children's education
5. Ensuring family's economic stability

ROLE-MODELING:

1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty
2. Modeling respectful relationships
3. Teaching respect for authority
4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being
5. Embodying values and principles

PARENTING PARTNERSHIP:

1. Co-parenting with mother
2. Sharing childcare responsibilities
3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance
4. Supporting partner's parenting style
5. Maintaining united front in parenting

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT:

1. Participating in children's activities
2. Volunteering in community or school
3. Building relationships with neighbors
4. Role-modeling social responsibility
5. Fostering community connections

PERSONAL GROWTH:

1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies
2. Continuing education and self-improvement
3. Maintaining physical and mental health
4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care
5. Seeking support and resources when needed

INFLUENCING CHILDREN'S DEVELOPMENT:

1. Shaping moral and ethical values
2. Encouraging educational and career goals
3. Modeling healthy relationships
4. Teaching life skills and independence
5. Fostering emotional intelligence.

Edith Paul

Defining relationship:. Do you define your relationship from the beginning or after some months or even years.

1. If you want to own a house, you start by buying a land
2. If you want to own an empire, you start by growing your business
3. If you want to be fit, you start by eating healthy
4. If you want to be wise, you start by reading books
5. If you want to travel the world, you start by saving money
6. If you want to be happy, you start by being grateful
7. If you want to be wealthy, you start by managing your finances
8. If you want to be a good leader, you start by leading yourself first
9. If you want to be a good parent, you start by being a good role model
10. If you want to be successful, you start by taking small steps
11. If you want to be confident, you start by believing in yourself
12. If you want to learn a new skill, you start by practicing daily
13. If you want to be creative, you start by trying new things
14. If you want to be respected, you start by respecting others
15. If you want to build strong relationships, you start by being trustworthy
16. If you want to achieve your goals, you start by setting them clearly
17. If you want to be organized, you start by decluttering your space
18. If you want to be free, you start by letting go of your fears
19. If you want to make a change, you start by changing yourself first

20. If you want to run a marathon, you start by walking daily
21. If you want to start a business, you start by identifying a need
22. If you want to help others, you start by helping yourself first
23. If you want to learn a language, you start by practicing every day
24. If you want to be productive, you start by managing your time wisely
25. If you want to gain knowledge, you start by asking questions
26. If you want to be healthy, you start by exercising regularly
27. If you want to be at peace, you start by letting go of grudges
28. If you want to be strong, you start by enduring challenges with faith
29. If you want to be kind, you start by being kind to yourself first
30. If you want to make an impact, you start by being authentic

Success doesn't happen overnight, and achieving anything significant requires consistent effort. Whether it's owning a home, starting a business, or gaining respect, the journey begins with a single step. Don't get discouraged by the enormity of the goal ahead. Focus on taking that first step, then the next, and before you know it, you'll be well on your way to realizing your dreams. The key is to start, no matter how small, and stay persistent. Keep believing, and you'll see progress.1. If you want to own a house, you start by buying a land
2. If you want to own an empire, you start by growing your business
3. If you want to be fit, you start by eating healthy
4. If you want to be wise, you start by reading books
5. If you want to travel the world, you start by saving money
6. If you want to be happy, you start by being grateful
7. If you want to be wealthy, you start by managing your finances
8. If you want to be a good leader, you start by leading yourself first
9. If you want to be a good parent, you start by being a good role model
10. If you want to be successful, you start by taking small steps
11. If you want to be confident, you start by believing in yourself
12. If you want to learn a new skill, you start by practicing daily
13. If you want to be creative, you start by trying new things
14. If you want to be respected, you start by respecting others
15. If you want to build strong relationships, you start by being trustworthy
16. If you want to achieve your goals, you start by setting them clearly
17. If you want to be organized, you start by decluttering your space
18. If you want to be free, you start by letting go of your fears
19. If you want to make a change, you start by changing yourself first

20. If you want to run a marathon, you start by walking daily
21. If you want to start a business, you start by identifying a need
22. If you want to help others, you start by helping yourself first
23. If you want to learn a language, you start by practicing every day
24. If you want to be productive, you start by managing your time wisely
25. If you want to gain knowledge, you start by asking questions
26. If you want to be healthy, you start by exercising regularly
27. If you want to be at peace, you start by letting go of grudges
28. If you want to be strong, you start by enduring challenges with faith
29. If you want to be kind, you start by being kind to yourself first
30. If you want to make an impact, you start by being authentic

Success doesn't happen overnight, and achieving anything significant requires consistent effort. Whether it's owning a home, starting a business, or gaining respect, the journey begins with a single step. Don't get discouraged by the enormity of the goal ahead. Focus on taking that first step, then the next, and before you know it, you'll be well on your way to realizing your dreams. The key is to start, no matter how small, and stay persistent. Keep believing, and you'll see progress.

Apart from the POP in bread, nothing wreaks havoc on your health like an abusive relationship.
Yes, I said it.
You’re avoiding gluten but sleeping beside your trigger.
You stopped seasoning cubes but you’re digesting verbal abuse every day.
You quit processed foods but stayed with someone who processes your peace into powder.
And then you wonder why your blood pressure is high.
Why your chest is tight.
Why you’re forgetting things.
Why your period has gone mad.
Why your skin is breaking out.
Why your immune system is weak.
Let me break it for you:
Abuse is not just emotional.
It’s metabolic.
That toxic relationship is cooking up:
– High blood pressure
– Stroke risk
– Infertility
– Chronic anxiety
– Inflammation
– Hormonal imbalance
– Cancer
And you’ll blame village people.
No.
It’s the person beside you killing you slowly.
Stop praying for them to change.
Most of the time, you will die before they do.
Leave the table where your peace is always the sacrifice.
Leave the room where your nervous system can’t breathe.
Leave the cycle where your health keeps paying the price.
Healing is not just about food.
It’s about the people, the patterns, and the peace you permit.

Stop telling yourself that you’re ****** for loving them!
Stop regretting the fact that you loved them so deeply, that you unconditionally gave them your entire heart, your soul, your mind, your body, and everything that you had to offer.
That’s exactly what you’re meant to do!
You were meant to love them deeply.
You were meant to fight for your relationship and for the person you loved so dearly.
What they chose to do with your love has absolutely nothing to do with the value of your love.
There is nothing to regret, and there’s no reason to keep telling yourself that you were ****** for not seeing things sooner.
You weren’t ******, you loved and trusted someone in good faith who should have loved you back.
You weren’t supposed to be looking out for things.
You were supposed to feel safe and loved.
What they did has nothing to do with you.
What they did comes from who they were long before you came along, and they chose not to deal with it.
So take all of the hurt and all of the pain, heal from it but learn the lessons from it because you’ll be better for it.
Sometimes the reason things don’t work out is because you deserve so much better than what you were settling for; and you now get to take the beautiful new person that you’re becoming as a result of everything you’ve been through, and give that to someone who truly deserves your heart.
You get to give the best version of yourself to someone who actually appreciates you, who appreciates how hard you've worked on yourself, and to someone who matches the effort and love that you give to them.
Someone who knows how to love properly, and who’s ready to give love from a place of love.
Someone who sees your worth for not only who you already are, but who you’re also becoming.
So don’t let the person who lost you steal that away from you.
Feel proud of the love you gave.
Feel proud that you gave them your soul, and that you loved as deeply as you could have because that says more about who you are as a person, and that’s something to be truly proud of.
Feel proud about knowing that the one who treats you right will receive all of you.
Know your worth and never forget how valuable your love and presence really is.
You weren't ******, you did exactly what you were meant to do because what you gave was a reflection of your character and the values that you place around love

Meet Emmanuel Macron, the 47 year old President of France and his 72 year old wife, Bridget who he married in 2007.

Macron's first stepson is 52 years and the 2nd is 50 years and the third born is 48 years old. This makes Macron the youngest member of his family which he is the father.
The two met in 1993 at Providence high school where the 40 year old Bridget was a teacher and 15 year old Macron was a student and a classmate of her daughter.

The Macron's parents originally thought he was seeing Brigit’s daughter, but they were wrong. They were astonished and embarrassed to find out their son had feelings for the teacher and they immediately sent to boarding school.
The two kept in touch over the years, but Brigit was married at the time and had three children who were all older than Emmanuel Macron.

Brigit, who is 25 years older than Emmanuel, was already married for over three years before he was born in December 1977.
All of Briggit children went on to be successful in their own careers, becoming a cardiologist, lawyer and a statistical engineer. When Brigit started her relationship with Emmanuel, she knew that it would hurt her children, but after putting it off for a decade, she also realized she had to do what would make her happy.
Emmanuel and Brigitte tied the knot in 2007, a year afer she divorced her ex-husband, who later died in 2019.



Note: Emmanuel Macron has no child of his own with her or any other woman.

PRESIDENT BOLA TINUBU AND POLITICS OF LAGOS GOVERNORS

There Is no gain saying that President Bola Ahmed Tinubu is the architect of modern Lagos

Even if his supporters disagree with me , President Tinubu never had the best of relationships with all the people that he picked as Lagos State Governors

He did everything possible to stop Babatunde Raji Fashola from getting a second term. It was a fierced battle but against all odds BRF succeeded

He was opposed to BRF's nomination as a Minister but Muhammadu Buhari stood his ground Spy Nigeria recalls.

He fell out with Akinwumi Ambode and stopped his second term bid

Babajide Sanwo-Olu was smart enough, he remained a " good boy " , did his biddings inorder to also get a second term

If what is happening between them now happened during his first term , he would have kicked his second term good bye

It is also on records that Tinubu’s two deputies when he was Governor were impeached after they fell out with him

1. Kofo Bucknor
2. Femi Pedro

The question i am asking , Is the problem that of President Bola Tinubu or his loyalists ?

Chris Kehinde Nwandu is Executive Editor CKNNews