“I’ll never do ads for alcohol or gambling. Not because they’re illegal or because I have a problem with those who partake, but simply because I don’t drink or gamble myself.

So why would I encourage others to do it? I believe in only promoting things that I personally use or stand behind.

I have no issue with advertising—I’ve had a very successful career in it. I’ve done Super Bowl commercials, Toyota ads, Nike campaigns, and I’m proud to represent brands that align with my values. But if I don’t use or believe in a product, people will know—it won’t be authentic.

It’s the same with my movie career. I’ve turned down countless roles where I’d just be running around, sleep—ing with different women. That’s just not the kind of image I want to portray.”

— Hollywood star Terry Crews

UNBEATABLE CREATURES OF GOD. .. WOMEN.

Bedtime Stories
Let's Gada under the Village tree, Mama Africa is Here
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The Lost Cowrie and the Wise Old Woman

In a small Kanga village in West Africa, there lived a little girl named Adama. She was known for her bright smile and her love for storytelling. Every evening, she sat under the baobab tree, listening to the elders share tales of the past.

One day, Adama’s grandmother gave her a special gift—a shiny cowrie shell. “This is a symbol of good fortune,” her grandmother said. “Keep it safe, for it will guide you when you are in need.”

Adama cherished her cowrie, carrying it everywhere. But one afternoon, while playing by the river, she tripped, and the cowrie slipped from her fingers into the rushing water. She searched and searched, but it was gone.

Heartbroken, she ran to the wise old woman of the village, Nana Yaa, who knew many secrets of the land. “Nana Yaa,” she said, wiping her tears, “I lost my cowrie. What do I do?”

The old woman smiled. “Adama, the river never takes without giving back. Go to the market tomorrow, and you will find what you seek.”

The next day, Adama went to the bustling village market. She walked past traders selling colorful fabrics, women pounding yam, and children chasing chickens. Then, near the bead seller’s stand, something caught her eye—a beautiful necklace with a cowrie shell just like hers.

She asked the seller where it came from. He laughed. “A fisherman found it in his net this morning!”

Adama smiled, realizing Nana Yaa was right. She bought the necklace and hurried home. When she told her grandmother, the old woman nodded. “See, my child, in our land, everything has a way of returning to where it belongs.”

That night, Adama sat under the baobab tree, sharing her story with the village children. She learned a valuable lesson—what is meant for you will always find its way back.

I like s#x. Stop pretending you don't like it. When he finishes having s#x with you, tell him, Good job! -- Funke Felix-Adejumo, tells women.

WHAT ARE THE RESPONSIBILITIES THAT COMES WITH YOUR RIGHTS AS A NIGERIAN

As a Nigerian, along with your rights, you also have responsibilities that help maintain a harmonious and functioning society. Here are some key responsibilities that complement your rights:

Civic Responsibilities
1. *Obey the Law*: Respect and obey the laws of Nigeria, including those related to taxation, traffic, and public order.
2. *Pay Taxes*: Contribute to the development of Nigeria by paying your taxes and duties promptly.
3. *Participate in the Democratic Process*: Exercise your right to vote, participate in public debates, and engage with your elected representatives.
4. *Respect Public Institutions*: Treat public institutions, such as courts, schools, and hospitals, with respect and dignity.

Social Responsibilities
1. *Respect the Rights of Others*: Recognize and respect the rights and freedoms of fellow Nigerians, including those from different ethnic, religious, or cultural backgrounds.
2. *Promote National Unity*: Foster a sense of national unity and cohesion by embracing Nigeria's diversity and promoting peaceful coexistence.
3. *Protect the Environment*: Contribute to the preservation and protection of Nigeria's natural resources and environment.
4. *Support Vulnerable Groups*: Show compassion and support for vulnerable groups, such as children, women, and people with disabilities.

Personal Responsibilities
1. *Be a Good Neighbor*: Maintain good relationships with your neighbors and contribute to the well-being of your community.
2. *Take Care of Your Health*: Prioritize your physical and mental health by adopting healthy habits and seeking medical attention when necessary.
3. *Pursue Personal Development*: Continuously seek knowledge, skills, and personal growth to enhance your contributions to society.
4. *Be Accountable*: Take responsibility for your actions, apologize when necessary, and make amends for any harm caused.

Community Responsibilities
1. *Participate in Community Development*: Contribute to the development of your community through volunteer work, community service, or participation in local initiatives.
2. *Support Local Institutions*: Strengthen local institutions, such as schools, hospitals, and community centers, by providing resources, expertise, or volunteer services.
3. *Foster Community Cohesion*: Promote social cohesion and inclusivity within your community by organizing or participating in community events and activities.
4. *Protect Community Resources*: Help protect community resources, such as public facilities, parks, and natural resources, for future generations.

By embracing these responsibilities, you'll not only exercise your rights but also contribute to the well-being and prosperity of Nigeria.

Every man wishes he had a good woman, but what he doesn't realize is that good women with kind hearts have real emotions.

They feel deeply, love passionately, and are extremely affectionate and loyal.

Because of their tender hearts, they can easily become frustrated, upset, or emotional. However, they will love you with all their heart and soul.

They might be moody, but you can be sure that they will offer a love that is hard to find anywhere else.

SIX (6) WAYS MEN CAN ESCAPE POVERTY

∆. Get the right woman - Forget the slay queens and women with looks but zero brains. Get a woman who will not only support your vision but will also push you to achieve more. A woman who will inspire you to work hard and not a woman who just makes you hard. He who finds a real woman finds a good thing and obtains favour and power to create wealth.

∆. Stop Taking Cheap Drinks - I have no problem with having drinks during social interaction and networking. However, when you drink cheap drinks or drink in cheap places, you hang out with cheap people who have cheap ideas and a cheap future. Big business opportunities are found in places where the drinks are expensive. In fact, in places where they sell cheap drinks, the only people you will find there are people who will be asking you for money. They even clap when you come knowing 'big buyer' has come.

∆. Stop being Lazy - "Man ooh Man, why art thou Lazy?" You are too lazy for your own good. You sleep the whole day and blame the government for your poverty. "A Little Sleep, a Little Slumber, poverty shall overtake you like a political cadre in overalls". A lot of men are just lazy when it comes to making money. They have enough energy to give a woman five orgasms, but have no energy to start one organization, that's why it is so easy for men to manufacture children than it is to make even pegs for putting children's clothes on the line..

∆. Know Productive Things - If you keep too much junk in your head, you get a junk life. I know a lot of men who are so sharp when you are talking about girls, about soccer and about street politics, Who is Rich who is not,Who has a good house but you can't bring a topic about investment, innovation and business, they start looking at their phone, yawning or saying bye.. Useless things, videos and memes go viral fast than constructive things.. A man must know how to do at least one productive thing (have one skill) even without having gone to college.

∆. Get Connected to Big Men Who are better than you - A lot of men are failing because they are not mentored. They don't have anyone to whom they can sit down and listen, with obedience. In the old days, old men would sit young men down and show them how to hunt and kill animals... and no man was considered a man enough until he has personally killed an animal... now these men of nowadays are not mentored and can't even kill a bird. There are men out there who have made it in life, find a way to get mentored by big men who are making waves and impacting people in our community.

∆. Work - Stop Spending your whole day just praying and fasting yet you know that both Quran and Bible tells you that God will bless the work of your hands. Yes yes The blessing finds you on your way doing something,Stop using Prayer as an excuse not to work. Work hard.

It’s an error for your pockets to be empty and your brain to be empty too.

Listen son, women do not fall in love based on logic. They always do it being guided by th3ir emotion. They enter a relationship being guided by their feelings, depending on what they feel that very moment. This is why they will always leave an engineer to date a tout. This is why you cannot advice them in their prime. They wanna date the bad boy who is not serious with them because he stirs their feelings. This is why advising your teenage daughter about marrying certain type of men will prove futile.

Always understand that this strategy changes with phases, time and age. They will now stop following their emotions when loving a man when they have already made mistakes of their lives. When their prime have lapsed and they are now single modas with baggage, when their value has depleted. They will now tend to use logic in dating because they want security. Only f00l!sh meπ will offer this security when they are done done messing.

Let them carry their own crosses. As a father, you will find yourself feeling sad because of your daughter who could not listen to you and now she married the wrong man. This happened in my family. My grandfather warned one of his daughters about marrying into a certain family. According to my grandmother, he told her,

"I know these people. Do not dare, my daughter. You will cry and I will hear in my grave." This came to pass. My grandfather was long dead when our aunt saw shege in broad daylight.

When women are young and wild, they follow their desires, they give themselves to whomever makes them go gaga! They follow where pleasure is served until it is time to settle down when they change moves.

This is why as a man you should never lie to yourself that you are the one she loves not that she agreed to marry you, no! You can afford to pay her bills, you have a house, some money and security. This is why she forego the other guy she truly loved for you. Her love for you is intentional.

She may be seeing her ex. And she might sleep with any other man she had before you. She married you because she needed the security which other men who made her go gaga could not fulfil. So, you were accepted because you came with a package others could not afford. So stop bragging, eh.

This is why you should strive in looking for a younger woman who've had no history with men because all of them will always live engraved in her soul. They will live rent free in her mind. It is like a form of digital print in a dark web that cannot be erased.

Whoever has found himself a womaπ with zero body count has found himself a good thing. The relationship is likely to be more solid than the one the womaπ is a retired veteran..

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

African is completely blessed also with women.
Meet Aminetuo Abdallahi from Senegal.

Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs

Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing.

Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value.

Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income:

1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money
A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money.

2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man
If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible.

3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources
As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset.

4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom
Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny.

5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation
A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage.

6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men
No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done.

7. You Have No Voice Without Resources
In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke.

8. Survival Demands It
There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it.

Final Warning

Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire.

A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship