Worst mistake man/woman will make

The worst mistake you can make as a man is to choose a random woman to become your wife. When you’ve worked hard, earned money, and become financially stable, it’s time to think carefully about the woman you choose as your life partner. Remember, you should look for a wife who loves you, one who can nurture your children, and take care of both you and your family. Marry a woman who genuinely desires to be a loving wife and a caring mother, not just a random woman you meet on the streets.

Men, when searching for a wife, you should look for someone who can:

Cook for the family

Handle household chores

Is not greedy

Respects you

Loves children

Is religious

Embraces traditional values

Isn’t a feminist

Doesn’t have a complicated past

These qualities are vital, and even if the woman doesn't have a job, that’s okay. Her primary job should be to take care of the family.

Men, how can you consider picking someone from a club to be your wife? How can you choose a woman who drinks alcohol to be your partner, bro? Trust me, you won’t be able to change her, and you’ll regret marrying her. If you want a happy family, avoid women who frequent clubs, party, and drink alcohol. Remember, you are looking for a mother who can take care of your children and nurture them.

Your future wife shouldn’t be someone who drinks every weekend. It’s essential to avoid the places where alcohol is the center of attention when searching for a life partner. Marrying a woman you met at a club will only lead to divorce, unhappiness, and regret.

You can’t turn a woman you met at the club into a housewife. The only thing she truly cares about is attention from other men. She doesn’t belong in your kitchen—she belongs to the streets.

MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN FOR THE EXPERIENCE. WOMEN SLEEP WITH MEN FOR A CONNECTION. That’s Why One Leaves Smiling, The Other Leaves Crying...✍🏽

This generation is so sexually active, yet so emotionally broken.

Let’s stop pretending — sex has never meant the same thing to men and women.

1. Men chase sex for variety. Women give sex for meaning.

Men don’t need a reason. They just need an opportunity.

They’ll sleep with you because you're tall, short, thick, slim, or just available.
No emotions, no intentions, no plans.

But women? They give their bodies with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or belief that “this might lead somewhere.”

That’s why after sex, the man rolls over and forgets your name.
But you lie there, wondering what the two of you are now.

2. For men, the goal is sex. For women, sex is a door to more.

A man can spend money, take you out, buy you gifts — not because he loves you, but because he sees it as “payment for access.”

After he sleeps with you, he walks away feeling like the transaction is complete.

You, on the other hand, start to wonder why he changed.

It’s not wickedness. That’s just how most men operate — sex first, emotion nowhere.

3. Women still believe in love. But most men today are running games.

A man will say anything just to get you:
“You’re special.”
“I’ve never met someone like you.”
“You’re my peace.”
“You’re wife material.”

And once you fall and give him sex, the game ends.
He runs. Not because you're bad — but because his lies are about to expire.

A man who tells the truth and stays? He’s rare.
But if he disappears after sleeping with you, it’s because he came with a plan to escape.

4. Women feel sex. Men just release it.

When a woman sleeps with a man, her brain releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone.
Her heart attaches.
Her soul connects.
Her mind starts planning a future.

Meanwhile, the man is just waiting to put on his boxers and leave.

No emotions. No connection. Just “mission accomplished.”

5. Women are wired to nurture. So they give too much.

Give a woman love, she multiplies it.
Give her a house, she makes it a home.
Give her a man — even a broken one — and she’ll pour her life into fixing him.

But give her heartbreak? She’ll carry that pain for years.

That’s why a woman will cry over a man that didn’t even care.
Because she wasn’t just having sex — she was giving her all.

6. For a woman, sex is submission.

She doesn’t just say yes on the bed.
She’s already said yes in her heart, in her thoughts, in her spirit.
She shaved. She dressed nice. She came prepared.

And when it happens, she gives you not just her body — but her trust.

You didn’t seduce her.
She convinced herself.
And that’s why she’s shattered when you ghost her.

7. Women use sex to bond. Men use sex to sample.

After sex, a woman assumes something deep just happened.

She assumes you felt it too.

But you? You’re already texting someone else.

She thinks you shared energy. You just wanted variety.

That’s why she’s hurt. Not because the sex was bad, but because she thought it meant more.

8. Women attach life to sex. Men don’t.

She moans like she’s surrendering her soul because in that moment, she is.

You’re killing her softly — and she’s saying, “Don’t stop,” because she’s fully invested.
She’s not acting.
She’s bonding.

But you? You’re just performing. For you, it’s a workout. For her, it’s worship.

9. Women respect the man who gives them orgasms.

You might think sperm is just liquid, but for many women, the man who makes them climax owns a piece of their memory.

That’s why many marriages collapse — the woman was never emotionally tied to her husband.
But the man who made her cum? She still dreams about him.

And sadly, most men don’t even know how to make their own wives feel anything.

10. Women think of the consequences. Men only think of the moment.

Before you even finish round one, she’s already calculating pregnancy, shame, her reputation, and what her future holds.

You? You’re just looking for water to drink and maybe some jollof rice.

She thought it was baby-making love.
You thought it was chicken-eating fun.

That’s the tragedy.

AND THE SAD TRUTH:

This generation now trades sex for data, iPhones, shawarma, birthday gifts, and hair.

Girls sleep with men they don’t even like — just to upgrade their lifestyle.
And in the process, they’ve turned their emotions into ashes.

Now love is dead. Trust is rare.
And true relationships are harder to find than a loyal politician.

ADVICE TO THIS GENERATION:

Don’t treat sex like chewing gum.

Don’t give your body just because he spent small money.

Don’t give your love just because she called you “handsome.”

Sex is not a game. It’s power. It’s trust. It’s energy.

Save it. Value it. Respect it.

May the enjoyment of today not become the regret of tomorrow.

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MOTHER ABANDONED HER BABY BY THE RIVERBANK

EPISODE 7

Life in Lagos should have felt like a new beginning for Oma. The bustling city lights, the well-furnished apartment Michael provided, and the comfort of knowing she was loved should have filled the void in her heart.

But nothing seemed to touch the emptiness that had settled in her soul. Michael was a good man—attentive, supportive, and kind. He made sure she lacked nothing.

They went on outings, visited parks, ate at expensive restaurants. From the outside, theirs was a beautiful love story.

But for Oma, it was like living inside a glass house. Everything looked perfect, yet one emotional crack threatened to shatter it all. The memory of her baby girl haunted her, silently threading itself through every moment of her new life.

When Michael noticed it, he brought it up one evening after dinner. "Oma, why don’t you go back to school? You’ve always wanted to study. Maybe that will help you loosen up.

She stared at him with wide eyes, unsure how to respond. She obtained a form and began university. Each morning, she left home dressed in modest clothes, blending into a sea of youthful students. She took the bus, attended lectures, read until late into the night. She studied sociology.

At school, her brilliance began to shine. Her lecturers praised her essays. She found new confidence in discussions, and some of her course mates even looked up to her like a big sister. Michael was so proud of her. Years passed.

She was in her fourth and final year when she discovered she was pregnant again. Michael was overjoyed. Nine months later, she gave birth to a healthy baby boy. They named him Chibuikem, meaning, God is my strength.

Michael beamed with pride, and even Oma, for a fleeting moment, felt joy ripple through her. Oma sang to him, held him, rocked him to sleep. But the shadow remained.

Every time she held Chibuikem, she imagined Chiwendu’s face, the baby girl she left crying by the riverbank. Every time Chibuikem smiled, it reminded her of the smile she never saw her daughter give. She still refused to tell Michael the truth, even though she knew he deserved to know

At night, she would sneak out of bed and cry silently on the bathroom floor. She often looked at herself in the mirror, wondering if motherhood would ever feel complete.

Her arms were full, but her heart was not. She longed to return to Umu Oma, to stand by the river again, to speak to the wind and beg for forgiveness.

One day, Michael touched her face gently as they lay in bed. "You’re always far away, Oma. Even when you smile. Where do you go?" She forced a laugh. "Nowhere. Just tired." He believed her. But deep down, he knew something was missing. Something she wasn’t telling him.

Back to the ev!l forest, eight years had passed since Ujunwa found Chiwendu whom she named Ifunanya. Ifunanya had grown into a radiant girl—sharp-eyed, full of questions, and wise beyond her years.

Her laughter filled the forest hut. Ujunwa had taught her everything she knew. Divination. Herbal healing. How to whisper to the forest and listen to the wind. Ifunanya absorbed it all like the earth drinks rain.

To Ujunwa, she was no longer a child found in grief—she was a daughter born of destiny. Ujunwa had resigned to fate and settled for the forest, but one morning, everything changed.

She had risen early, as always, to gather herbs from the southern slope of the forest. As she bent over a bed of bitterleaf, she suddenly froze. A warm breeze swept past her, and then, a voice deep, echoed in her ears.

“Go back to Umu Oma… it is time.” She gasped, falling backward onto the ground. The leaves trembled around her. Her hands gripped her staff tightly as she looked around, but no one was there.

That night, she knelt by the fire, watching Ifunanya sleep. Could it be the gods calling her home? The same gods whose name had been used to banish her? Or had destiny circled back?

By morning, her mind was made up. “Ifunanya,” she said gently as she woke the girl. “Get dressed, my love. We’re going on a journey.” “To where?” Ifunanya asked, blinking. “Home,” Ujunwa whispered.

They packed a small bag with herbs, and clothes and then set out. Ujunwa didn’t know the way, but somehow, they kept moving. The journey through the forest took them two days.

At dawn on the third day, the villagers saw two figures, emerging from the shadows of the evil forest. Gasps rang out. Women held their wrappers. Children peeked from behind doorways. Few of the villagers recognized Ujunwa

Whispers swirled through Umu Oma like a rising storm. The return of Ujunwa from the dreaded forest was shocking enough. But the unfamiliar girl beside her, ignited even deeper curiosity.

People gathered in clusters, exchanging wild guesses, their eyes fixed on the woman once branded a curse.

But Ujunwa didn’t stop to answer questions. She walked with quiet authority straight to the palace, her staff tapping against the earth with every determined step.

Ifunanya walked quietly beside her. When they reached the palace gate, the head of the guards who recognized her, was shocked. No one had seen Ujunwa in eight years, and none had expected her return.

“I need to speak to the king,” she said calmly. Moments later, word reached the king and she was let in.

TO BE CONTINUED…

Dear readers, you can't know the extent to which keeping a secret could affect you mentally, eating away at your peace and well-being. Consider opening up to someone you trust – it might be the relief you need.

“ If Giving money is a proof of Love , Why don’t men receive some from women “ Tiwa

“ Women keep saying a man who loves you will give you money and take good care of you to look good for him . Did you as a woman invest in a man to look good ? Young men should stop carrying certain burdens and make their life better first . It’s not a bad thing to give a woman money but if money becomes what you use to prove love then they are using you “ Tiwa
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I Met Him in Church… But I Didn't Know the Devil Also Wore Suits."

I thought the safest place to meet a good man was the house of God.
I thought wrong.

When I met Samuel, I was 25 and deeply broken.

I had just come out of a toxic relationship — the kind that leaves you doubting your own worth, your own beauty, your own intelligence.

I needed healing.
I needed God.

So when Samuel found me crying quietly after service one evening, and offered me his handkerchief, I thought:

> "Maybe this is how God gives second chances."

He was everything a "church man" should be.

Well-dressed.

Well-spoken.

Bible study leader.

Quoting scriptures like breathing air.

He never missed midweek service.
He always led prayer sessions with fire.
People respected him.
Pastor adored him.

And somehow... he adored me.

He courted me “the godly way.”

No kissing.
No touching.
No secret sleepovers.

Just prayers, fasting, long conversations about our future.

He would say:

> "Let’s make heaven together, baby."

I believed him.

I introduced him to my family.

He knelt down before my parents and said:

> "I will honor her. I will cherish her. I will protect her in Christ."

My father cried that day.

My mother started sewing Aso-Ebi for a wedding that hadn’t even been proposed yet.

Everyone said I was lucky.

That I had found a rare gem.

Three months to our introduction, things started changing.

Little things.

He started picking on my dressing.

> "That skirt is too tight. Godly women are modest."

He started controlling who I could talk to.

> "Your best friend is too worldly. She’s a distraction."

He started monitoring my social media.

> "Why are men liking your posts? Delete it."

I thought it was love.
I thought it was protection.

I didn’t know it was the first signs of a cage.

Then came the financial requests.

First, it was ₦20,000 to “sow a seed” into a new church project.

Then ₦50,000 because his car broke down on the way to evangelism.

Then ₦100,000 because his younger brother needed urgent school fees — "and as his future wife," he said, "our burdens are shared."

I drained my savings without blinking.

Because isn't that what Proverbs 31 women do?
Support their men in times of need?

Besides, he always said:

> "God will bless you double."

I was sowing into my future, I thought.

I was watering the garden of marriage, I thought.

One night, two weeks to our traditional wedding, I visited him unannounced.

I just wanted to surprise him.

Bring him some food.
Maybe wash his clothes.
Be a good fiancée.

The door was locked.
I knocked.

He came out half-naked.

Another woman was inside.
Wearing my favorite Ankara wrapper.

Cooking in his kitchen.

She looked me dead in the eyes and said:

> "Who are you?"

I couldn’t speak.
My tongue glued itself to my grief.

Samuel pulled me outside roughly and whispered:

> "Don't embarrass me. She's my real fiancée. You were just... spiritual support."

Just.
Spiritual.
Support.

Six months of prayers.
Six months of fasting.
Six months of giving.

For what?

For another woman to wear my wrapper?
For another woman to sleep in the bed I helped pay rent for?

He blocked me the next day.

Changed churches.

Moved on.

I found out later he had three other women from three other churches he was "courting" at the same time.

Different rings.
Different promises.
Same lies.

I thought the pain would kill me.

I thought my chest would split open from heartbreak.

I questioned God:

> "Was I not faithful enough?
Was I not prayerful enough?
Was I not good enough?"

But the more I wept, the clearer it became:

It wasn't about me.
It was about him.

Some men use the name of God as camouflage.
They speak in tongues, but their hearts speak in manipulation.
They sing worship songs, but their souls are tuned to destruction.

Today, I am healing.

Slowly.

Learning that God is good, even when people are wicked.

Learning that real love doesn't control, it cherishes.
Real love doesn't use, it protects.
Real love doesn’t need a stage and a microphone — it’s humble, it’s patient, it’s kind.

Life Lesson:

Don’t confuse spirituality with character.

Don’t let your love for God blind you to red flags waving like banners.

And never, ever surrender your mind just because someone carries a Bible louder than you.

Love should feel like peace — not war.
Not confusion.
Not fear.

Today, I still believe in love.
I still believe in God.

But now, I know better:

> Even the devil can wear suits.
Even the devil can preach sermons.

Test spirits.
Test hearts.
Test character.

Before you hand over your heart.

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#HealingIsAMiracle #ChurchGirlDiaries #LoveAndLessons #RealLifeStories #GuardYourHeart

The pastor wives 3️⃣

Written by Oluchi M. Okike

How can the smallest voice in the room end the loudest war?
While three women battle for power, one quiet usher holds the truth that could tear down everything—and raise something unexpected in its place.

Joy Benson was the kind of woman no one noticed. She moved with the grace of someone used to staying in the background. A soft-spoken usher. A single mother. A face often hidden behind white gloves and church protocol. But on that Tuesday morning, she became the headline.

The Press Conference
The church gates were flooded again, but this time not with fighting wives or chanting members. Joy stood alone, flanked by two women from the legal aid clinic and a file of documents.

No makeup. No drama. Just quiet pain.

She held up a photograph—an old, blurry image of her and Pastor Gideon at a beachside retreat.

She didn’t cry. She didn’t shout. She simply said,
“He promised to protect us. But when I got pregnant, he begged me to keep it secret. Said it would destroy everything. So I did… for eight years.”

In the photograph, a small child could be seen playing in the background. Her daughter.

The media had questions. Too many. But Joy didn’t stay long.
She handed over the DNA report—signed, verified, and stamped.

And just like that, everything changed.

The Silence That Followed
Mama Glo refused to speak to the press.
Chinaza went completely off-grid.
Stella collapsed at a pharmacy later that day and was taken to the hospital.

Inside Fire River Ministries, the congregation began to murmur.
Some felt betrayed. Others confused. But the board had to act quickly.

By the following Sunday, a church bulletin was released:
“Pending further verification, the burial of Pastor Gideon is on hold.”

Chinaza’s Secrets Surface
Just when things seemed to settle, something unexpected broke online.

A clip.
Grainy, uncut, but chilling.

It showed a deliverance session from five years earlier. A private, behind-the-scenes moment somehow leaked to the internet.

In it, Pastor Gideon was praying over a woman possessed by a "marine spirit."
That woman… was Chinaza.

The video showed her writhing, screaming, speaking in a voice not her own.

And at the end, Pastor Gideon whispered something into her ear—words the microphone barely picked up.

But someone enhanced the audio and shared it again.

It sounded like he said:
“Your secrets are safe with me… as long as you stay mine.”

People were stunned.
Was Chinaza delivered—or marked?
Was she a wife—or something darker?

And if so… why would he marry her?

Stella’s Test Results Arrive
Meanwhile, Stella was discharged from the hospital.
Her test results came in.

The truth?

The child in her womb was not Pastor Gideon’s.

The betrayal cut deep. Not just for the church, but for Stella herself.
She had loved him. Or maybe… she had loved the platform.

In an emotional online video, she confessed:
“We were already drifting. I didn’t know I was pregnant until after his death. I thought… I could still belong.”

It went viral.

People wept. People mocked. People debated. But one thing was certain: Stella had nothing to gain anymore.

The Unexpected Shift
Then came the twist no one could have predicted.

Instead of hiding or fighting, Mama Glo did something no one expected.

She went live on Facebook.
She told her story—not with anger, but with grace.

How she met Gideon in the early days, when he was a young boy preaching with cracked lips and torn Bibles.

How she fed him, clothed him, prayed for him.

How she sold her wrappers to help him print flyers.

And how, after all the fame, he stopped calling her “wife” and started calling her “burden.”

But she ended with a smile.

“I don’t need his name to prove my worth. I knew who he was before the world knew. I only came to give him a proper burial. Now… let the truth rest with him.”

That video reached over 2 million views in two days.

And Then Came Joy
As the church leaders deliberated over what to do, the members quietly began to do something else.

They visited Joy.

Bags of food. School supplies. Little envelopes tucked with handwritten prayers.

A hashtag was born:
#WeChooseJoy

And for the first time since the chaos began, the church found unity—not through titles or tradition—but through compassion.

The Board decided to honor Pastor Gideon with a private burial.

No wife would lead.
No cameras.
Just peace.

And standing beside the casket, holding the hand of her daughter, was the woman no one had noticed… but who had always carried the truth.

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On my twenty-ninth birthday, I prayed to God about my relationship. I told Him the next man I meet should be my last stop because I wasn’t growing any younger. I was ready to settle down and wanted to date a man He Himself had chosen for me.

At that time, Josh was around, pestering me with a relationship proposal, so I mentioned his name in my prayer and asked God to reveal to me if indeed Josh was the one. After that prayer, I must admit, I didn’t do anything else but went ahead to accept Josh’s proposal because he had been pursuing me for over a month.

Before accepting his proposal, I told him what I needed in love and what I hoped to get in the near future. I even told him the reason why I was accepting his proposal was that he looked like a serious guy who was ready to settle down. I asked him, “Or am I wrong?” He nodded his head and smiled before saying, “You can’t be wrong. What’s a relationship if it’s not about settling down?”

I saw some red flags, but I ignored them. To me, the love was new, so I was giving it some time to see if things would change. Anytime he was coming to visit, he would call and ask what I had cooked before he would come. He would come empty-handed, eat, sleep, and leave. If he didn’t like what I cooked, he would ask me, “Can’t you prepare banku and okro for me? I’ve been yearning for that all week.”

I would prepare it, he would come and eat without giving me anything. He wouldn’t even come with a small gift in hand and say, “Oh babe, I got this on the way for you.” I love to receive gifts. Even when I had to visit him, he asked me to bring stuff to cook for him.

One day, he put his phone on charge and entered the toilet. His phone’s screen was already on before he put it on charge, so I quickly picked it up before the screen went off. I checked his messages. I didn’t even bother about his chats with other women. I went straight to the chat between him and his friend Kaylu.

Kaylu said, “Charley, Alberta has been calling me oo. She says you’ve been avoiding her. What’s happening?” Josh responded, “Oh, don’t mind that girl. She loves marriage too much. Every small conversation, this girl will talk about marriage. Is she the only woman in this world without a husband?”

They had dated for over four years, according to what Kaylu said, and “after four years, what do you expect a woman to talk about?” Kaylu asked. Josh responded, “Then she should go and find another man because I’m not ready.”

I was like, “Oh, is that so?”

I put the phone down quietly and went to the kitchen. When he came out of the toilet, he asked for his food. I told him I mistakenly put sugar in the okro instead of salt, so the stew had gone bad. He laughed at me. He said, “Oh, so we can’t eat it at all?” I answered, “If you try it, you’ll **** for a whole month.”

I saw him off, and that very day, I texted him that I couldn’t continue anymore. He was like, “Oh, but how? What did I do? I thought everything was fine?” I answered, “It was fine until I realised it wasn’t fine. It’s not your fault but mine.” He said, “If you need space, I can give you that, but we don’t have to break up because of an unknown issue.”

I didn’t want to argue about what I saw in his message. Plus, anything he was going to say would amount to nothing, so why bother? When I agreed I needed the space, the next thing he said was, “But it doesn’t mean I can’t come home and eat if I miss your meals, right?” The answer that came to my head wasn’t pretty, so I hushed it and instead told him he couldn’t call me while he was giving me space.

That’s how we ended. No drama. No back-and-forth argument. Go your way; let me go mine.

"One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women.

And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.”

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- Omotola Jalade Ekeinde

Moral lesson: why then agreeing to become one if you don't or can't go through your partners phone

"One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women.

And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.”

- Omotola Jalade Ekeinde

They laughed when she was forced to marry the village madman _ but what he did after the wedding shocked everyone.

Episode 1

Emily was called into the center of the village by her stepmother, Margaret, who stood with arms crossed and eyes blazing. The entire village gathered, eager for gossip. Margaret’s voice cut through the air like a blade, announcing that Emily would marry Jacob—the madman who lived near the woods. Shock rippled through the crowd, followed by gasps and stifled laughter. Emily’s heart pounded in her chest as tears welled up in her eyes. She had always hoped for a quiet, respectful life—not this public humiliation.
She looked over at Jacob, who was being led out like livestock. He walked slowly, not making eye contact, his clothes ragged and hair unkempt. His face, though tired, showed no madness—just quiet pain. The villagers laughed louder as Emily crumbled under the weight of shame. No one knew the truth about Jacob, not even Emily herself. As she stood there, helpless and humiliated, her life changed forever in that moment—and so did his.
The wedding was rushed, almost like a joke. Villagers dressed in their finest came not to celebrate, but to witness the mockery unfold. Women wore bold prints and headscarves, whispering to one another and pointing. The ceremony was held under the old mango tree, the same place where countless happy unions had taken place. But this time, it was different. Emily stood stiffly beside Jacob, her hands trembling as she held her wilted bouquet. The priest hesitated before beginning, as even he felt the discomfort in the air.

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Jacob didn’t say a word during the entire ceremony. He simply looked at the ground, never once meeting Emily’s eyes. When the priest asked if he accepted her as his wife, he gave a slow nod. No smile. No joy. Just a nod. Emily could feel the eyes of the villagers boring into her skin. Her stepmother smirked, proud of what she had orchestrated. The priest declared them husband and wife, and instead of cheers, laughter echoed through the village square. Emily felt like a lamb led to slaughter, her dignity stripped, her heart hollow.
After the ceremony, there was no celebration—just silence. Emily and Jacob walked down the dusty path toward his tiny hut at the edge of the village. She had never been so humiliated. Her veil fluttered in the breeze, catching on low branches as curious children followed them at a distance, giggling and whispering. Emily’s heart pounded with fear and uncertainty. She didn’t know what kind of man Jacob truly was—only what the village claimed. The madman. The one who talked to himself. The one who lived alone.
Jacob’s home was barely more than a shack—wooden walls, a leaking roof, and a single bench inside. When they arrived, he stepped aside and let her walk in first. No words. Just a nod. Emily stepped into the small space and looked around. It was tidy, strangely enough. There were books stacked in a corner, a small blanket folded neatly on a mat, and a worn drawing pinned to the wall. It was a sketch of the village—but beautifully detailed. Her eyes lingered on it, and for a moment, she felt something shift. Maybe there was more to him than they told her. But fear still clung tightly to her chest.
That night, Emily lay stiffly on one side of the hut, facing the wall. Jacob remained on the other, barely making a sound. The silence was louder than the laughter they had left behind. The wind rustled through the holes in the roof, and a faint drip echoed from a leaky spot near the corner. She couldn’t sleep. Her mind spun with shame, confusion, and fear. Yet, not once did he approach her. No threats. No crazed behavior. Just the occasional cough and the creak of his weight shifting on the mat.
In the morning, she found a steaming cup of boiled herbs and a plate of roasted yam waiting for her on the bench. Jacob wasn’t in the hut. She blinked in confusion. He had gone to the stream, and when he returned, he placed a bundle of firewood beside the door without a word. Emily watched him from inside, her curiosity growing. Was this the madman the village spoke of? He hadn’t spoken to her, but his quiet actions spoke volumes. For the first time, she realized the village might have been wrong—or at least, they didn’t know the full story.

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