THINGS HUSBANDS AND WIVES TRULY ENJOY IN MARRIAGE.📍📍📍📍 I watched a serious debate on Facebook between men and women about whether marriage favors one gender over the other. Some men argued that marriage primarily benefits women, claiming it is a punishment for men because they have to work tirelessly to provide for their wives and children for the rest of their lives. In contrast, women argued that marriage actually favors men because they are often expected to take care of their children and support their husbands emotionally. Some men even stated that if they had the understanding they possess today, they would choose not to get married. The question is: Does marriage benefit both men and women? A healthy, happy marriage is built on mutual love, trust, and intentional actions. While everyone is unique, most husbands and wives share common needs and joys in a loving relationship. Here are things that both men and women typically enjoy in marriage — and how you can bring more of them into your home. 💙 What Husbands Often Enjoy in Marriage: 1. 📍Respect and Honor > “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” — Ephesians 5:33 A man deeply enjoys being respected by his wife — it strengthens his confidence and role as leader. Men feel deeply fulfilled when they are respected, especially in front of others. Respect speaks louder than love for many husbands. 2. 📍A Peaceful and Supportive Wife > “It is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” — Proverbs 21:9 A man enjoys peace at Home – A calm, loving environment helps him recharge and feel safe. A husband treasures peace in the home and a wife who uplifts him rather than constantly tears him down. 3. 📍$exual Fulfillment and Delight > “Let your fountain be blessed and rejoice in the wife of your youth… let her breasts satisfy you at all times.” — Proverbs 5:18-19 God designed $ex as a gift in marriage, and a husband is to find joy and fulfillment in his wife. 4. 📍Encouragement and Support > “Two are better than one… If either of them falls, one can help the other up.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 A husband enjoys knowing his wife stands by him in struggles and supports his dreams. 💥Emotional Support – A wife who believes in him, listens without judgment, and cheers him on through both wins and losses. 5. 📍Her Wisdom and Counsel > “A prudent wife is from the Lord.” — Proverbs 19:14 Men value a woman who is not just beautiful but also wise and spiritually discerning. 6. 📍Physical & Emotional Intimacy – Beyond $ex, husbands value being touched, held, kissed, and emotionally connected. 7. 📍Affirmation & Appreciation – Simple words like “Thank you for working hard” or “I’m proud of you” go a long way. 8. 📍Companionship – Sharing fun, laughter, movies, meals, and hobbies helps him feel connected beyond just being a provider. 9. 📍Shared Responsibilities – A wife who’s a teammate, not just a task-giver, makes marriage feel like a partnership. 10. 📍Admiration – Husbands love to feel admired for who they are, not just what they do. 11. 📍Freedom to Lead & Be Vulnerable – He thrives in a space where he can lead sometimes and still be vulnerable without shame. 12. 📍Encouragement in His Dreams – A woman who supports his goals and celebrates his growth wins his heart repeatedly.