• "One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women.

    And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.”

    From
    - Omotola Jalade Ekeinde

    Moral lesson: why then agreeing to become one if you don't or can't go through your partners phone
    "One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women. And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.” From - Omotola Jalade Ekeinde Moral lesson: why then agreeing to become one if you don't or can't go through your partners phone 🤔
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  • "One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women.

    And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.”

    - Omotola Jalade Ekeinde
    "One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women. And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.” - Omotola Jalade Ekeinde
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  • They laughed when she was forced to marry the village madman _ but what he did after the wedding shocked everyone.

    Episode 1

    Emily was called into the center of the village by her stepmother, Margaret, who stood with arms crossed and eyes blazing. The entire village gathered, eager for gossip. Margaret’s voice cut through the air like a blade, announcing that Emily would marry Jacob—the madman who lived near the woods. Shock rippled through the crowd, followed by gasps and stifled laughter. Emily’s heart pounded in her chest as tears welled up in her eyes. She had always hoped for a quiet, respectful life—not this public humiliation.
    She looked over at Jacob, who was being led out like livestock. He walked slowly, not making eye contact, his clothes ragged and hair unkempt. His face, though tired, showed no madness—just quiet pain. The villagers laughed louder as Emily crumbled under the weight of shame. No one knew the truth about Jacob, not even Emily herself. As she stood there, helpless and humiliated, her life changed forever in that moment—and so did his.
    The wedding was rushed, almost like a joke. Villagers dressed in their finest came not to celebrate, but to witness the mockery unfold. Women wore bold prints and headscarves, whispering to one another and pointing. The ceremony was held under the old mango tree, the same place where countless happy unions had taken place. But this time, it was different. Emily stood stiffly beside Jacob, her hands trembling as she held her wilted bouquet. The priest hesitated before beginning, as even he felt the discomfort in the air.

    Note - this story belongs to jennylight,any page aside from hers stole it.

    Jacob didn’t say a word during the entire ceremony. He simply looked at the ground, never once meeting Emily’s eyes. When the priest asked if he accepted her as his wife, he gave a slow nod. No smile. No joy. Just a nod. Emily could feel the eyes of the villagers boring into her skin. Her stepmother smirked, proud of what she had orchestrated. The priest declared them husband and wife, and instead of cheers, laughter echoed through the village square. Emily felt like a lamb led to slaughter, her dignity stripped, her heart hollow.
    After the ceremony, there was no celebration—just silence. Emily and Jacob walked down the dusty path toward his tiny hut at the edge of the village. She had never been so humiliated. Her veil fluttered in the breeze, catching on low branches as curious children followed them at a distance, giggling and whispering. Emily’s heart pounded with fear and uncertainty. She didn’t know what kind of man Jacob truly was—only what the village claimed. The madman. The one who talked to himself. The one who lived alone.
    Jacob’s home was barely more than a shack—wooden walls, a leaking roof, and a single bench inside. When they arrived, he stepped aside and let her walk in first. No words. Just a nod. Emily stepped into the small space and looked around. It was tidy, strangely enough. There were books stacked in a corner, a small blanket folded neatly on a mat, and a worn drawing pinned to the wall. It was a sketch of the village—but beautifully detailed. Her eyes lingered on it, and for a moment, she felt something shift. Maybe there was more to him than they told her. But fear still clung tightly to her chest.
    That night, Emily lay stiffly on one side of the hut, facing the wall. Jacob remained on the other, barely making a sound. The silence was louder than the laughter they had left behind. The wind rustled through the holes in the roof, and a faint drip echoed from a leaky spot near the corner. She couldn’t sleep. Her mind spun with shame, confusion, and fear. Yet, not once did he approach her. No threats. No crazed behavior. Just the occasional cough and the creak of his weight shifting on the mat.
    In the morning, she found a steaming cup of boiled herbs and a plate of roasted yam waiting for her on the bench. Jacob wasn’t in the hut. She blinked in confusion. He had gone to the stream, and when he returned, he placed a bundle of firewood beside the door without a word. Emily watched him from inside, her curiosity growing. Was this the madman the village spoke of? He hadn’t spoken to her, but his quiet actions spoke volumes. For the first time, she realized the village might have been wrong—or at least, they didn’t know the full story.

    Jennylight
    For full story kindly click https://youtu.be/OdGf95ntiXk?si=fEcleCZBdZSVKGbc
    They laughed when she was forced to marry the village madman _ but what he did after the wedding shocked everyone. Episode 1 Emily was called into the center of the village by her stepmother, Margaret, who stood with arms crossed and eyes blazing. The entire village gathered, eager for gossip. Margaret’s voice cut through the air like a blade, announcing that Emily would marry Jacob—the madman who lived near the woods. Shock rippled through the crowd, followed by gasps and stifled laughter. Emily’s heart pounded in her chest as tears welled up in her eyes. She had always hoped for a quiet, respectful life—not this public humiliation. She looked over at Jacob, who was being led out like livestock. He walked slowly, not making eye contact, his clothes ragged and hair unkempt. His face, though tired, showed no madness—just quiet pain. The villagers laughed louder as Emily crumbled under the weight of shame. No one knew the truth about Jacob, not even Emily herself. As she stood there, helpless and humiliated, her life changed forever in that moment—and so did his. The wedding was rushed, almost like a joke. Villagers dressed in their finest came not to celebrate, but to witness the mockery unfold. Women wore bold prints and headscarves, whispering to one another and pointing. The ceremony was held under the old mango tree, the same place where countless happy unions had taken place. But this time, it was different. Emily stood stiffly beside Jacob, her hands trembling as she held her wilted bouquet. The priest hesitated before beginning, as even he felt the discomfort in the air. Note - this story belongs to jennylight,any page aside from hers stole it. Jacob didn’t say a word during the entire ceremony. He simply looked at the ground, never once meeting Emily’s eyes. When the priest asked if he accepted her as his wife, he gave a slow nod. No smile. No joy. Just a nod. Emily could feel the eyes of the villagers boring into her skin. Her stepmother smirked, proud of what she had orchestrated. The priest declared them husband and wife, and instead of cheers, laughter echoed through the village square. Emily felt like a lamb led to slaughter, her dignity stripped, her heart hollow. After the ceremony, there was no celebration—just silence. Emily and Jacob walked down the dusty path toward his tiny hut at the edge of the village. She had never been so humiliated. Her veil fluttered in the breeze, catching on low branches as curious children followed them at a distance, giggling and whispering. Emily’s heart pounded with fear and uncertainty. She didn’t know what kind of man Jacob truly was—only what the village claimed. The madman. The one who talked to himself. The one who lived alone. Jacob’s home was barely more than a shack—wooden walls, a leaking roof, and a single bench inside. When they arrived, he stepped aside and let her walk in first. No words. Just a nod. Emily stepped into the small space and looked around. It was tidy, strangely enough. There were books stacked in a corner, a small blanket folded neatly on a mat, and a worn drawing pinned to the wall. It was a sketch of the village—but beautifully detailed. Her eyes lingered on it, and for a moment, she felt something shift. Maybe there was more to him than they told her. But fear still clung tightly to her chest. That night, Emily lay stiffly on one side of the hut, facing the wall. Jacob remained on the other, barely making a sound. The silence was louder than the laughter they had left behind. The wind rustled through the holes in the roof, and a faint drip echoed from a leaky spot near the corner. She couldn’t sleep. Her mind spun with shame, confusion, and fear. Yet, not once did he approach her. No threats. No crazed behavior. Just the occasional cough and the creak of his weight shifting on the mat. In the morning, she found a steaming cup of boiled herbs and a plate of roasted yam waiting for her on the bench. Jacob wasn’t in the hut. She blinked in confusion. He had gone to the stream, and when he returned, he placed a bundle of firewood beside the door without a word. Emily watched him from inside, her curiosity growing. Was this the madman the village spoke of? He hadn’t spoken to her, but his quiet actions spoke volumes. For the first time, she realized the village might have been wrong—or at least, they didn’t know the full story. Jennylight For full story kindly click 👉 https://youtu.be/OdGf95ntiXk?si=fEcleCZBdZSVKGbc
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  • Before you visit the next betting site, you might need to read this.

    Today is not about food.
    It is about your lifestyle.
    What can wreck you and leave you broke for life.

    Some of you cannot even afford good food because you are saving money for betting.

    Let’s be clear:
    Betting is a toxic habit.

    It doesn’t just drain your finances.
    It wrecks your mind, your peace, your body.

    Stress.
    Anxiety.
    Depression.
    Self-hate.
    Regret.
    Shame.

    Before women start feeling like saints, let me say it loud:
    Betting is destroying women too.

    Betting apps have made it easier for both men and women to dive headfirst into this madness.

    Women, be warned.
    The emotional trauma can be worse for you.
    The shame cuts deeper.
    The guilt can be unbearable.

    Betting will destroy you.
    It is a financial and emotional black hole.
    It will suck you in and spit you out broken.

    You are not just gambling money.
    You are gambling your sanity, your relationships, your dreams, your health, your future.

    Do not be fooled by the glamour in their adverts.
    Do not be seduced by the thrill of a quick win.

    Betting is a demon that will consume you whole.

    It is a habit that will cling to your soul like a disease.
    And once it takes root, breaking free will be a battle most people never win.

    Choose life.
    Choose sanity.
    Choose freedom.
    Choose your future.

    Do not gamble with your destiny.
    Before you visit the next betting site, you might need to read this. Today is not about food. It is about your lifestyle. What can wreck you and leave you broke for life. Some of you cannot even afford good food because you are saving money for betting. Let’s be clear: Betting is a toxic habit. It doesn’t just drain your finances. It wrecks your mind, your peace, your body. Stress. Anxiety. Depression. Self-hate. Regret. Shame. Before women start feeling like saints, let me say it loud: Betting is destroying women too. Betting apps have made it easier for both men and women to dive headfirst into this madness. Women, be warned. The emotional trauma can be worse for you. The shame cuts deeper. The guilt can be unbearable. Betting will destroy you. It is a financial and emotional black hole. It will suck you in and spit you out broken. You are not just gambling money. You are gambling your sanity, your relationships, your dreams, your health, your future. Do not be fooled by the glamour in their adverts. Do not be seduced by the thrill of a quick win. Betting is a demon that will consume you whole. It is a habit that will cling to your soul like a disease. And once it takes root, breaking free will be a battle most people never win. Choose life. Choose sanity. Choose freedom. Choose your future. Do not gamble with your destiny.
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  • Why are women so obsessed with a man's money?
    Why are women so obsessed with a man's money?🤔
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  • 1. Girls with gap teeth Chëāt a lot, they always have Space for another guy

    2. Relātionship strëss is so paînful, i scratçhed someone's head in a taxi thinking its mine

    3. I wonder why Women called it menstrúation Instead of womenstruation. They líke shifting all Their Prøblems to men.

    4. I always hãtëd weddings because the elderly would come over and poke me saying "You're next." They stopped doing it when I started doing it to them at fūnërals.

    5. I can't wait to marry 3 wives So that 3 of them will be fïghtiñg over who will slēep with me first

    6. Nothing is as paînful as swallōwing a stôlên meat without chewing because you thought that someone was coming
    Very very paînfül ♨

    7. Kids Of 2years Can Now Unlôck Phones And Play Candy Crūsh.
    At That Age I Was Chewíng Sand🙆‍😒

    8. Cant wait to get mārried, one little ārgúment I'm lèâving the ring on the table!

    9. That moment when you're tryíng to make a silēnt fárt while chilling with family and the devïl connects the speakers.


    10. I swêãr with my life to like and cômment on this post and also foll0w his páge and profile... Remember you don swêãr. Sørry

    11. It really paîns me, whenever I make some people laugh, they will go without a liking , cômment and shâre..............


    FOLLØW MY PÄGE FOR MORE JOKES DAILY Iyanu Melody the comedian Iyanu Melody
    1. Girls with gap teeth Chëāt 😬 a lot, they always have Space for another guy🙄😏 2. Relātionship strëss is so paînful, i scratçhed someone's head in a taxi thinking its mine😒😂 3. I wonder why Women called it menstrúation Instead of womenstruation. They líke shifting all Their Prøblems to men.😑🏃🏃 4. I always hãtëd weddings😏 because the elderly would come over and poke me saying "You're next💁‍♂️." They stopped doing it when I started doing it to them at fūnërals.🚶‍♂️😌 5. I can't wait to marry 3 wives So that 3 of them will be fïghtiñg over who will slēep with me first😂😂😂 6. Nothing is as paînful as swallōwing a stôlên meat without chewing because you thought that someone was coming😒😒😒 Very very paînfül ♨ 7. Kids Of 2years Can Now Unlôck Phones And Play Candy Crūsh. At That Age I Was Chewíng Sand🙆🙆‍😒 8. Cant wait to get mārried, one little ārgúment 🙄 I'm lèâving the ring on the table😌! 9. That moment when you're tryíng to make a silēnt fárt while chilling with family 😘 and the devïl connects the speakers.😭😭 😂😂😂😂😂😂 10. I swêãr with my life to like and cômment on this post and also foll0w his páge and profile... Remember you don swêãr. Sørry 🏃🏃 11. It really paîns me, whenever I make some people laugh, they will go without a liking , cômment and shâre..............🥺🥺🥺 ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️ FOLLØW MY PÄGE FOR MORE JOKES DAILY 👉👉 Iyanu Melody the comedian 🏆✨Iyanu Melody
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  • 10 TYPES OF WOMEN A MALE FARMER MUST AVOID
    Brutal Truths Every Focused Man Needs in 2025

    You don’t need witchcraft to fail — just the wrong woman in your space.
    Your farm, peace, and future can be destroyed silently… if you're not discerning.

    Here’s the harsh truth no one tells male farmers:

    1. The Beauty Without Brains – Fine face, empty mind. Can’t support your vision.
    2. The “Soft Life Only” Babe – No hustle. Just vibes and expensive taste.
    3. The Forever Victim – She’ll drain your emotions, not water your dreams.
    4. The Seductress – Knows your weakness, weaponizes it.
    5. The Classy Gold-Digger – She’s not in love — she’s in business.
    6. The Spiritually Dead – You’re sowing seeds, she’s sowing confusion.
    7. Miss Entitled – Wants queen treatment, won’t lift a finger.
    8. The Modern Rebel – Can’t build legacy with someone who hates structure.
    9. The Ex You Won’t Delete – If she still controls your heart, your hands can’t build.
    10. The Destiny Assassin – Sent to waste your time, money, and mind.

    Bro, protect your purpose.
    Some women aren’t partners… they’re spiritual potholes.

    Think legacy. Think vision. Choose wisely.

    #MaleFarmerWisdom #FarmWithFocus #AvoidDestinyKillers #AfricanFarmers #DoxaonFarmResort #FarmingAndPurpose #RealTalkForMen #GoatFarmerAfrica #AgropreneurLife
    10 TYPES OF WOMEN A MALE FARMER MUST AVOID Brutal Truths Every Focused Man Needs in 2025 You don’t need witchcraft to fail — just the wrong woman in your space. Your farm, peace, and future can be destroyed silently… if you're not discerning. Here’s the harsh truth no one tells male farmers: 1. The Beauty Without Brains – Fine face, empty mind. Can’t support your vision. 2. The “Soft Life Only” Babe – No hustle. Just vibes and expensive taste. 3. The Forever Victim – She’ll drain your emotions, not water your dreams. 4. The Seductress – Knows your weakness, weaponizes it. 5. The Classy Gold-Digger – She’s not in love — she’s in business. 6. The Spiritually Dead – You’re sowing seeds, she’s sowing confusion. 7. Miss Entitled – Wants queen treatment, won’t lift a finger. 8. The Modern Rebel – Can’t build legacy with someone who hates structure. 9. The Ex You Won’t Delete – If she still controls your heart, your hands can’t build. 10. The Destiny Assassin – Sent to waste your time, money, and mind. Bro, protect your purpose. Some women aren’t partners… they’re spiritual potholes. Think legacy. Think vision. Choose wisely. #MaleFarmerWisdom #FarmWithFocus #AvoidDestinyKillers #AfricanFarmers #DoxaonFarmResort #FarmingAndPurpose #RealTalkForMen #GoatFarmerAfrica #AgropreneurLife
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  • Rihanna's net worth: $1.4B
    ASAP Rocky's net worth: $20M

    Nicki Minaj's net worth: $200M
    Kenneth Petty's net worth: $500K

    Taylor Swift's net worth: $1.1B
    Travis Kelce's net worth: 60M

    These women are far richer & more famous than their husbands/fiance, yet they accept to be with them, love them and are humble to them
    Rihanna's net worth: $1.4B ASAP Rocky's net worth: $20M Nicki Minaj's net worth: $200M Kenneth Petty's net worth: $500K Taylor Swift's net worth: $1.1B Travis Kelce's net worth: 60M These women are far richer & more famous than their husbands/fiance, yet they accept to be with them, love them and are humble to them💯❤️
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  • MBOMUZO IN OKWUOHIA AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITY,
    OBOWO L.G.A., IMO STATE, NIGERIA.
    Okwuohia is a Community in Obowo
    L.G.A., of Imo state, Nigeria, that has enviable rich historical background and deep cultural heritage. Okwuohia is the only community in Obowo and the old ETITI District that has four markets covering the four market days in Igbo calendar, namely: Eke, Orie, Afor and Nkwo. All these have distinct locations and hold accordingly.
    The community prides herself with many cultural festivals which include Mbomuzo, Ntumaka, Nrim-ji (Iri ji) among others. But the one that attracts people in their numbers to the community is, "MBOMUZO", a-k-a "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA".
    MBOMUZO simply means, "clearing of the roads ", otherwise known as environmental cleansing, especially with regard to roads leading to traditional centres and matket places. It is intended to make the roads passable again in order to give proper access to the markets and homes of citizens.
    In Okwuohia, all roads are cleared very thoroughly starting from individual homes to the Eke-Okwuohia, Orie-Okwuohia, Afor-Okwuohia and Nkwo-Okwuohia market squares. Also, roads leading to major and significant rivers are cleared. For instance, the Onu-iyi-lolo-nwanyi (Onu-ngele) stream at Umuduru Mgbakam is usually kept cleared for the "AHIA-NGANGA" ceremony by the women of Okwuohia during the same period. It has to be noted that all the road clearing and cleansing must be completed on or before the NKWO market day preceding the EKE market day of the ceremony.
    NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA: As said earlier in this write-up, MBOMUZO Okwuohia is also referred to as NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA. Why?
    Ours, is an agrarian community. In those good old days, our people cultivated yams, coco-yams, maize, cassava and mkpokoro in large scales. Farming was done more at locations far away from homes. Due to this, farmers constructed make-shift structures there in the bush/farms, where they rested and had their meals during the toils of the day. Most times, people returned to their homes very late in the evening. Major foods eaten in the farms those days were bread-fruits (Ukwa), palm kernels, yams and coco-yams. The bread-fruits were eaten whole without removing the the shells or the outer covers. Farming took place between the months of January and May, during which period farmers fed on any available food items. When such farmers returned to their homes from their farms in the month of May, they settled down to enjoy more pleasant and well prepared food. They would no longer eat the bread-fruits with their shells. Also, they cleaned their environments that had been left bushy during the period of intensive farming activities in the farms. From their homes, clearing and cleansing progress to the roads that lead to other homes and traditional centres. At this time, people begin to exchange visits with relatives and friends both far and near to show that they have returned home after the farming period in the bush. Such visits are usually reciprocated. During such visits, entertainments are unlimited based on the dispositions of the parties involved. In Okwuohia, after the entertainment at home, people gather at the designated market square to demonstrate it the more. The venue is usually at the ORIE OKWUOHIA, where the EKWIRIKWE music music is played and danced in an organized manner.
    EKWIRIKWE MUSIC AND ORDER OF DANCING:
    After the presentation and blessing of kola-nuts by the traditional ruler of Okwuohia, who declares the ceremony open after his speech and brief demonstration of the dance, the ceremony begins. Ofeiyi people, who are the custodians of the EKWIRIKWE do a brief demonstration dance. Thereafter, the traditional order of seniority of the three sections of Okwuohia is strictly observed thus: MGBAKAM, OFEIYI and AMARAMOHIA. Finally, a general dance which is usually longer and more thrilling comes up and marks the end of the ceremony.
    The EKWIRIKWE music delivers messages which present Okwuohia as place with people of remarkable mutual respect, prowess and noted for wrestling. EKWIRIKWE music is used to caution Okwuohia people not to eat the bread-fruits with the shells again after the Mbomuzo. Hence, "ONYE ATALA UKWA NA MKPEKELE" and "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". This is demonstrated by hitting one's back-side to symbolically discharge the ones eaten previously. Before the EKWIRIKWE dance arena is approached, people sing various songs and dance along the road according to Age Grades, socicultural groups and sections.
    MBOMUZO AND THE PRONOUNCEMENT OF DATE.
    Only the Eze of Okwuohia, in consultation with you Traditional Council has the powers to announce the date for MBOMUZO every year. Above all, it is a known fact that Okwuohia community is the first among all the communities in Obowo and even the old ETITI District to perform Mbomuzo every year, thus determining the cultural calendar for other communities that perform the same and or related festivals.
    Mbomuzo holds in Okwuohia on the second EKE-Okwuohia market day in the month of June every year. Visitors, friends, in-laws and well -wishers of the community visit the community to enjoy the characteristic hospitality and conviviality associated with the ceremony. Entertainment items are unlimited especially according to the preparedness of the individual families and persons during the period. Such entertainment items include and not limited to polished bread-fruit meals, maize pudding, cassava foo-foo, oil-bean pudding and different kinds of drinks.
    PROBLEMS:
    The festival has suffered from various problems which include but not limited to wrong perceptions, misrepresentation, misconception, ignorance, ineptitude, iconoclasm and apathy. Many, especially the less informed and the neo-religious groups strongly hold to the perception that that the festival is fetish and wasteful (especially those who are not willing to spend their resources to host guests).
    ADVANTAGES:
    The period leads to keeping the surroundings clean, re-union of families, friends, in-laws and well -wishers, tourist attraction and advancing our cultural heritage including ensuring the acquisition and development of the EKWIRIKWE playing and dancing skills.
    In the good old days, women who earnestly took part in the road and market clearing and cleansing and later took part in the AHIA-NGANGA activities after bathing on serious intents at the Onu-Lolo-nwanyi (Onu-Ngele) stream, would appear at Mbomuzo the following year either pregnant or as nursing mothers if they either prayed for or desired such thereby.
    MODIFICATIONS SO FAR:
    Since culture is dynamic, efforts have been made by the leadership of Okwuohia community, over time, to modify certain aspects of the festival and programmes there-of in order to exponge some questionable and undesirable aspects of it. For instance, the timing and declaration of the date of the festival are now done by the Traditional ruler of Okwuohia in synergy with the Traditional Council. Also, no shrine or deity is either worshipped or honoured before, during and even after the festival. Most times, the traditional rulership open the festival with Christian thanks-giving worship at an agreed Christian church here in Okwuohia.
    CONCLUSION:
    In line with the realities of the present moments, efforts should be made to allow for acceptable modifications while there should be insistence on protecting and upholding the soul, spirit and purports of the cultural heritage of our dear Okwuohia community especially as regards affects MBOMUZO.
    Written by:
    Chief Emma C. Anyanwu, (DIKEMBA),
    1st Traditional Prime Minister and Currently the Chairman of Okwuohia Traditional Council,
    Being a lecture presented by me at the 2019 edition of MBOMUZO festival, at EKE-OKWUOHIA Market Square.
    MBOMUZO IN OKWUOHIA AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITY, OBOWO L.G.A., IMO STATE, NIGERIA. Okwuohia is a Community in Obowo L.G.A., of Imo state, Nigeria, that has enviable rich historical background and deep cultural heritage. Okwuohia is the only community in Obowo and the old ETITI District that has four markets covering the four market days in Igbo calendar, namely: Eke, Orie, Afor and Nkwo. All these have distinct locations and hold accordingly. The community prides herself with many cultural festivals which include Mbomuzo, Ntumaka, Nrim-ji (Iri ji) among others. But the one that attracts people in their numbers to the community is, "MBOMUZO", a-k-a "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". MBOMUZO simply means, "clearing of the roads ", otherwise known as environmental cleansing, especially with regard to roads leading to traditional centres and matket places. It is intended to make the roads passable again in order to give proper access to the markets and homes of citizens. In Okwuohia, all roads are cleared very thoroughly starting from individual homes to the Eke-Okwuohia, Orie-Okwuohia, Afor-Okwuohia and Nkwo-Okwuohia market squares. Also, roads leading to major and significant rivers are cleared. For instance, the Onu-iyi-lolo-nwanyi (Onu-ngele) stream at Umuduru Mgbakam is usually kept cleared for the "AHIA-NGANGA" ceremony by the women of Okwuohia during the same period. It has to be noted that all the road clearing and cleansing must be completed on or before the NKWO market day preceding the EKE market day of the ceremony. NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA: As said earlier in this write-up, MBOMUZO Okwuohia is also referred to as NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA. Why? Ours, is an agrarian community. In those good old days, our people cultivated yams, coco-yams, maize, cassava and mkpokoro in large scales. Farming was done more at locations far away from homes. Due to this, farmers constructed make-shift structures there in the bush/farms, where they rested and had their meals during the toils of the day. Most times, people returned to their homes very late in the evening. Major foods eaten in the farms those days were bread-fruits (Ukwa), palm kernels, yams and coco-yams. The bread-fruits were eaten whole without removing the the shells or the outer covers. Farming took place between the months of January and May, during which period farmers fed on any available food items. When such farmers returned to their homes from their farms in the month of May, they settled down to enjoy more pleasant and well prepared food. They would no longer eat the bread-fruits with their shells. Also, they cleaned their environments that had been left bushy during the period of intensive farming activities in the farms. From their homes, clearing and cleansing progress to the roads that lead to other homes and traditional centres. At this time, people begin to exchange visits with relatives and friends both far and near to show that they have returned home after the farming period in the bush. Such visits are usually reciprocated. During such visits, entertainments are unlimited based on the dispositions of the parties involved. In Okwuohia, after the entertainment at home, people gather at the designated market square to demonstrate it the more. The venue is usually at the ORIE OKWUOHIA, where the EKWIRIKWE music music is played and danced in an organized manner. EKWIRIKWE MUSIC AND ORDER OF DANCING: After the presentation and blessing of kola-nuts by the traditional ruler of Okwuohia, who declares the ceremony open after his speech and brief demonstration of the dance, the ceremony begins. Ofeiyi people, who are the custodians of the EKWIRIKWE do a brief demonstration dance. Thereafter, the traditional order of seniority of the three sections of Okwuohia is strictly observed thus: MGBAKAM, OFEIYI and AMARAMOHIA. Finally, a general dance which is usually longer and more thrilling comes up and marks the end of the ceremony. The EKWIRIKWE music delivers messages which present Okwuohia as place with people of remarkable mutual respect, prowess and noted for wrestling. EKWIRIKWE music is used to caution Okwuohia people not to eat the bread-fruits with the shells again after the Mbomuzo. Hence, "ONYE ATALA UKWA NA MKPEKELE" and "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". This is demonstrated by hitting one's back-side to symbolically discharge the ones eaten previously. Before the EKWIRIKWE dance arena is approached, people sing various songs and dance along the road according to Age Grades, socicultural groups and sections. MBOMUZO AND THE PRONOUNCEMENT OF DATE. Only the Eze of Okwuohia, in consultation with you Traditional Council has the powers to announce the date for MBOMUZO every year. Above all, it is a known fact that Okwuohia community is the first among all the communities in Obowo and even the old ETITI District to perform Mbomuzo every year, thus determining the cultural calendar for other communities that perform the same and or related festivals. Mbomuzo holds in Okwuohia on the second EKE-Okwuohia market day in the month of June every year. Visitors, friends, in-laws and well -wishers of the community visit the community to enjoy the characteristic hospitality and conviviality associated with the ceremony. Entertainment items are unlimited especially according to the preparedness of the individual families and persons during the period. Such entertainment items include and not limited to polished bread-fruit meals, maize pudding, cassava foo-foo, oil-bean pudding and different kinds of drinks. PROBLEMS: The festival has suffered from various problems which include but not limited to wrong perceptions, misrepresentation, misconception, ignorance, ineptitude, iconoclasm and apathy. Many, especially the less informed and the neo-religious groups strongly hold to the perception that that the festival is fetish and wasteful (especially those who are not willing to spend their resources to host guests). ADVANTAGES: The period leads to keeping the surroundings clean, re-union of families, friends, in-laws and well -wishers, tourist attraction and advancing our cultural heritage including ensuring the acquisition and development of the EKWIRIKWE playing and dancing skills. In the good old days, women who earnestly took part in the road and market clearing and cleansing and later took part in the AHIA-NGANGA activities after bathing on serious intents at the Onu-Lolo-nwanyi (Onu-Ngele) stream, would appear at Mbomuzo the following year either pregnant or as nursing mothers if they either prayed for or desired such thereby. MODIFICATIONS SO FAR: Since culture is dynamic, efforts have been made by the leadership of Okwuohia community, over time, to modify certain aspects of the festival and programmes there-of in order to exponge some questionable and undesirable aspects of it. For instance, the timing and declaration of the date of the festival are now done by the Traditional ruler of Okwuohia in synergy with the Traditional Council. Also, no shrine or deity is either worshipped or honoured before, during and even after the festival. Most times, the traditional rulership open the festival with Christian thanks-giving worship at an agreed Christian church here in Okwuohia. CONCLUSION: In line with the realities of the present moments, efforts should be made to allow for acceptable modifications while there should be insistence on protecting and upholding the soul, spirit and purports of the cultural heritage of our dear Okwuohia community especially as regards affects MBOMUZO. Written by: Chief Emma C. Anyanwu, (DIKEMBA), 1st Traditional Prime Minister and Currently the Chairman of Okwuohia Traditional Council, Being a lecture presented by me at the 2019 edition of MBOMUZO festival, at EKE-OKWUOHIA Market Square.
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  • WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU
    I hope am talking to mature people here.

    1. PREPARE HER
    Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood

    2. DO NOT FORCE HER
    Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful

    3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS
    If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body

    4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER
    If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle

    5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES
    If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better

    6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING
    If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure

    7. CUDDLE HER
    Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you

    8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE
    Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods

    9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER
    Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side.
    WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU I hope am talking to mature people here. 1. PREPARE HER Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to get her in the mood 2. DO NOT FORCE HER Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is demeaning and disrespectful 3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give you her body 4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina, clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about letting you have her. Learn to be gentle 5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES If there are matters in your marriage that are not being concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The sooner you solve them the better 6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay her fears and make her secure 7. CUDDLE HER Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with you 8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they are on their periods 9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out and show her that you are on her side.
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  • Menstrual health is a crucial aspect of women's health. Here are some key points:

    Importance of Menstrual Health
    1. Reproductive health: Menstruation is a natural part of reproductive health.
    2. Hormonal balance: Menstruation is regulated by hormones, and irregularities can indicate hormonal imbalances.
    3. Overall health: Menstrual health can impact overall physical and mental well-being.

    Common Menstrual Issues
    1. Dysmenorrhea: Painful periods, often accompanied by cramps, bloating, and mood changes.
    2. Menstrual irregularities: Irregular periods, heavy or light bleeding, and changes in menstrual cycle length.
    3. Premenstrual syndrome (PMS): Physical and emotional symptoms experienced before menstruation.

    Menstrual Hygiene
    1. Sanitary products: Pads, tampons, menstrual cups, and period panties.
    2. Hygiene practices: Regular changing of sanitary products, washing hands, and maintaining genital hygiene.
    3. Disposal: Proper disposal of sanitary products.

    Managing Menstrual Health
    1. Tracking periods: Keeping track of menstrual cycles to anticipate and prepare for periods.
    2. Pain management: Using pain relievers, heat therapy, or other methods to manage menstrual cramps.
    3. Lifestyle changes: Maintaining a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and managing stress to alleviate menstrual symptoms.

    Breaking the Stigma
    1. Open conversations: Encouraging open discussions about menstruation to break the stigma.
    2. Education: Providing accurate information about menstrual health to promote awareness and understanding.
    3. Support: Offering support and resources for individuals experiencing menstrual-related issues.

    By prioritizing menstrual health, women can better manage their symptoms, improve their overall well-being, and break the stigma surrounding menstruation.
    Menstrual health is a crucial aspect of women's health. Here are some key points: Importance of Menstrual Health 1. Reproductive health: Menstruation is a natural part of reproductive health. 2. Hormonal balance: Menstruation is regulated by hormones, and irregularities can indicate hormonal imbalances. 3. Overall health: Menstrual health can impact overall physical and mental well-being. Common Menstrual Issues 1. Dysmenorrhea: Painful periods, often accompanied by cramps, bloating, and mood changes. 2. Menstrual irregularities: Irregular periods, heavy or light bleeding, and changes in menstrual cycle length. 3. Premenstrual syndrome (PMS): Physical and emotional symptoms experienced before menstruation. Menstrual Hygiene 1. Sanitary products: Pads, tampons, menstrual cups, and period panties. 2. Hygiene practices: Regular changing of sanitary products, washing hands, and maintaining genital hygiene. 3. Disposal: Proper disposal of sanitary products. Managing Menstrual Health 1. Tracking periods: Keeping track of menstrual cycles to anticipate and prepare for periods. 2. Pain management: Using pain relievers, heat therapy, or other methods to manage menstrual cramps. 3. Lifestyle changes: Maintaining a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and managing stress to alleviate menstrual symptoms. Breaking the Stigma 1. Open conversations: Encouraging open discussions about menstruation to break the stigma. 2. Education: Providing accurate information about menstrual health to promote awareness and understanding. 3. Support: Offering support and resources for individuals experiencing menstrual-related issues. By prioritizing menstrual health, women can better manage their symptoms, improve their overall well-being, and break the stigma surrounding menstruation.
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  • SOME WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES

    10 Brutal Truths Women Learn Too Late After Destroying Their Own Marriage

    They thought they were upgrading. They thought leaving their husbands for “freedom” and “independence” would give them peace, happiness, and self-discovery.
    Now they’re out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights.
    Why?
    Because they listened to bitter, man-hating feminists online who’ve never built a home, who despise structure, and who thrive on chaos.

    Here are 10 painful realities women only realize after it’s too late:

    1. No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did

    That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside? No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior.

    2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent

    Online feminists will hype you up, but when you’re broke, lonely, and falling apart, they won’t offer a dime or a shoulder.

    3. Sexual Market Value Drops with Age

    You’re not 24 anymore. You’re older, more baggage, less patience. The options shrink. The demands increase. And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women.

    4. “Freedom” Is Just Loneliness in Disguise

    You thought you were escaping a “boring marriage,” now you’re eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence.

    5. Your Kids Suffer the Most

    You broke a family to chase trends. Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability. No structure.

    6. Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor

    You thought it made you strong? It made life 10x harder. Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden.

    7. Hypergamy Has a Deadline

    You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow.

    8. Attention Is Not the Same as Respect

    You may still get likes and DMs. But no one respects you anymore. You’re entertainment, not investment.

    9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away

    He wasn’t perfect, but he gave you peace. Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it.

    10. The Internet Doesn’t Care About Your Regret

    You followed strangers online, now you’re suffering offline. And guess what? They’ve moved on. You’re the one paying the price.

    This is the reality of modern women who traded submission for rebellion, family for fantasy, and wisdom for TikTok advice.

    Let this be a warning: not all that glitters is gold. The streets are cold.

    Chinedu Anichi TV cares!
    SOME WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES 10 Brutal Truths Women Learn Too Late After Destroying Their Own Marriage They thought they were upgrading. They thought leaving their husbands for “freedom” and “independence” would give them peace, happiness, and self-discovery. Now they’re out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights. Why? Because they listened to bitter, man-hating feminists online who’ve never built a home, who despise structure, and who thrive on chaos. Here are 10 painful realities women only realize after it’s too late: 1. No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside? No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior. 2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent Online feminists will hype you up, but when you’re broke, lonely, and falling apart, they won’t offer a dime or a shoulder. 3. Sexual Market Value Drops with Age You’re not 24 anymore. You’re older, more baggage, less patience. The options shrink. The demands increase. And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women. 4. “Freedom” Is Just Loneliness in Disguise You thought you were escaping a “boring marriage,” now you’re eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence. 5. Your Kids Suffer the Most You broke a family to chase trends. Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability. No structure. 6. Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor You thought it made you strong? It made life 10x harder. Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden. 7. Hypergamy Has a Deadline You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow. 8. Attention Is Not the Same as Respect You may still get likes and DMs. But no one respects you anymore. You’re entertainment, not investment. 9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away He wasn’t perfect, but he gave you peace. Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it. 10. The Internet Doesn’t Care About Your Regret You followed strangers online, now you’re suffering offline. And guess what? They’ve moved on. You’re the one paying the price. This is the reality of modern women who traded submission for rebellion, family for fantasy, and wisdom for TikTok advice. Let this be a warning: not all that glitters is gold. The streets are cold. Chinedu Anichi TV cares!
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