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Date with a purpose.
You deserve someone who has plans on marrying you one day.
You deserve to find someone who understands love is not a game. It’s actually an investment.
You know, as a person dating someone you should look at your partner as the mother or father of your future children.
If you can’t picture them in the aisle, walking towards you with tears in your eyes, do me a favor ..... leave them alone.
If you can’t picture the two of you building your dream home together or leaving homemade cookies out for Santa the night before Christmas with your children, there again .... leave them alone.
Take my advice and if you don't plan on marrying them and building a future with them, take your hands off another person's future.
~ Cody Bret

“RAISING A CHILD WITHOUT RULES IS RAISING A DISASTER”

(Why freedom without boundaries is destroying today’s kids)

Let’s stop lying to ourselves:
Children don’t need too much freedom — they need firm direction.
You think you're giving them "space to express themselves"?
But what you're really doing is giving them a fast-lane ticket…
To self-destruction.

A child without boundaries will test everything.

They’ll test time.
They’ll test truth.
They’ll test how far they can go — until something breaks.
And when there are no rules, no “NOs,” no clear lines drawn…
They don’t become confident. They become confused.

You’re not helping their self-esteem.
You’re raising someone who won’t respect law, leadership, or life.

Parents, wake up:

It’s not “modern parenting” to allow your 12-year-old do what they like.
It’s not “freedom” to let your 15-year-old lock their door 24/7 and live like a tenant.
It’s not “trust” to hand them a phone, laptop, and data without supervision.

That’s not love. That’s neglect with WiFi.

Look around you:

Kids cursing their parents online.

Teenagers dressing like strippers and calling it “fashion.”

Boys addicted to porn and calling it “freedom of expression.”

Girls posting half-naked pictures with captions like “God’s masterpiece.”

Young boys who can’t say “yes sir” or “no ma” because they were “raised to speak their minds.”

What’s the result?
A generation that wants respect but knows nothing about discipline.

Let’s be clear:

Boundaries don’t destroy children — they build them.

Rules don’t limit children — they shape them.

Discipline is not wickedness — it’s protection.

Correction is not abuse — it’s love in motion.

A child who grows up without consequences becomes an adult who disrespects everything — including God, law, and you.

Many of you are afraid to say “NO” because you want to be liked.

But parenting is not about popularity.
Your job is not to be their best friend.
Your job is to raise a man, to mold a woman, to train a future leader.

And yes, it will involve:

Saying no.

Checking phones.

Cutting off bad friends.

Seizing devices.

Setting curfews.

And making tough decisions that your child will not like — but will thank you for later.

Don’t wait till damage is done:

Don’t wait until the police call you.
Don’t wait until you’re dragged to a hospital.
Don’t wait until you’re kneeling in church, crying, “Where did I go wrong?”

The time to guide is now. The time to lead is now.

Final Word:

Give your child structure, not just softness.
Give them discipline, not just data.
Give them correction, not just comfort.

Because no matter how sweet your child is,
freedom without rules will turn even an angel into a problem.

Happy parenting to us all. Copied!!!!!!!

Dear Men...

When the time comes for you to choose a wife, don’t just look for beauty, curves, charm, or even just intelligence.
Marry a woman who knows how to go to war in the spirit.

Because in these last days, anti-marriage demons have gone on a wild rampage.
Homes are under siege.
Marriages are crumbling.
Families are falling apart—not just from misunderstandings, but from unseen spiritual battles many are too blind or too passive to fight.

You need more than a good cook or a beautiful face.
You need a woman who can stand in prayer—not only beside you but ahead of you when needed.
A woman who understands spiritual warfare, who doesn’t run to people to solve marital issues, but runs to her knees before God.

Let me tell you something many won’t say out loud:

> There is no such thing as “happily ever after” if your wife has no spiritual depth.
If she doesn't have the Bible, go to church
Don't participate in church activities iii

Marriage may look like a physical union—flesh and blood—but it is ultimately governed in the spiritual realm.

It’s either the Holy Spirit is guiding and sustaining it,
or an evil spirit is tearing it down,
depending on who you and your wife yield to.

If she’s not sensitive to spiritual atmospheres...
If she doesn’t discern attacks before they happen...
If she doesn’t know how to speak the Word over your home, cover your children, or pray through the night when the enemy comes knocking...

Then, no matter how sweet she is on the outside, she becomes a spiritual liability—easily manipulated by demonic forces to cause division, resentment, bitterness, or worse.

So my son, marry a woman who will be your battle partner in prayer,
Not just your partner in pictures.

Marry a woman who can lift her voice to Heaven,
Not just lift her lashes for selfies.

Marry a woman who will fast with you when things are tough,
Not one who runs when the storm comes.

Marry a woman who fears God more than she fears losing followers on social media.

Because when the real battles of life come—and they will—
You’ll thank God you married a woman who knows how to fight.

Love is beautiful. Marriage is sacred. But without spiritual backing, it becomes fragile.

So don’t just ask,

> “Is she lovely?”

Ask,

> “Can she pray?”

Because your destiny, your peace, your children, and your calling depend on it.

When you see the first picture your mind is fan bu

There nothing pregnant no go do just look pictures before pregnant and pregnant

Show me a harder picture

S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
You are losing:
Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).
Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:
Doing this every day.
Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.
How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
Now imagine using that time to:
Learn a high-income skill.
Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.
If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s£xual weakness.
Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.
A woman respects men who have:
Purpose.
Self-control.
A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P0rn kills your brain.
M@sturbation destroys your energy.
Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.
Struggling financially.
Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
But you can’t even:
Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.
Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

S€x is a tool.
The weak use it for pleasure.
The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
A broke man lets s€x control him.
That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s£x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.
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