Dear Men...

When the time comes for you to choose a wife, don’t just look for beauty, curves, charm, or even just intelligence.
Marry a woman who knows how to go to war in the spirit.

Because in these last days, anti-marriage demons have gone on a wild rampage.
Homes are under siege.
Marriages are crumbling.
Families are falling apart—not just from misunderstandings, but from unseen spiritual battles many are too blind or too passive to fight.

You need more than a good cook or a beautiful face.
You need a woman who can stand in prayer—not only beside you but ahead of you when needed.
A woman who understands spiritual warfare, who doesn’t run to people to solve marital issues, but runs to her knees before God.

Let me tell you something many won’t say out loud:

> There is no such thing as “happily ever after” if your wife has no spiritual depth.
If she doesn't have the Bible, go to church
Don't participate in church activities iii

Marriage may look like a physical union—flesh and blood—but it is ultimately governed in the spiritual realm.

It’s either the Holy Spirit is guiding and sustaining it,
or an evil spirit is tearing it down,
depending on who you and your wife yield to.

If she’s not sensitive to spiritual atmospheres...
If she doesn’t discern attacks before they happen...
If she doesn’t know how to speak the Word over your home, cover your children, or pray through the night when the enemy comes knocking...

Then, no matter how sweet she is on the outside, she becomes a spiritual liability—easily manipulated by demonic forces to cause division, resentment, bitterness, or worse.

So my son, marry a woman who will be your battle partner in prayer,
Not just your partner in pictures.

Marry a woman who can lift her voice to Heaven,
Not just lift her lashes for selfies.

Marry a woman who will fast with you when things are tough,
Not one who runs when the storm comes.

Marry a woman who fears God more than she fears losing followers on social media.

Because when the real battles of life come—and they will—
You’ll thank God you married a woman who knows how to fight.

Love is beautiful. Marriage is sacred. But without spiritual backing, it becomes fragile.

So don’t just ask,

> “Is she lovely?”

Ask,

> “Can she pray?”

Because your destiny, your peace, your children, and your calling depend on it.

When you see the first picture your mind is fan bu

There nothing pregnant no go do just look pictures before pregnant and pregnant

Show me a harder picture

S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
You are losing:
Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).
Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:
Doing this every day.
Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.
How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
Now imagine using that time to:
Learn a high-income skill.
Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.
If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s£xual weakness.
Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.
A woman respects men who have:
Purpose.
Self-control.
A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P0rn kills your brain.
M@sturbation destroys your energy.
Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.
Struggling financially.
Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
But you can’t even:
Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.
Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

S€x is a tool.
The weak use it for pleasure.
The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
A broke man lets s€x control him.
That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s£x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.
@highlight
@topfans

His name is Felix. This is one of our brothers from Nigeria that came to buy goods in China. So 3 days ago he felt sičk and this sickness made him to have a partial strokě. Which took him to hospital and he was revived, but as God may have it, he's alive. We want to know any of his family members. And unfortunately none of his family members is in China and no way to open his phone to contact any of his family or friends, But we are meant to know that he owns shops in lagos and is from Aba, Abia State.

So we are trying to know in case if you know who is this person is. Please send contacts to get to his family. Atleast he is shaking his body and his alive. Please help share this post with this picture here. So that people who knows him can come so that we can take him back. Please share this video, So that it can get to his people, please Save a brother.

#save #highlightseveryone

Please share to reach his family members

Still finding it difficult to upload picture here.
Don't know why

Still find it difficult to upload picture here.
Don't know why

For those that claim they took a picture on 30km

Let’s drive in a Nigerian made car and do a straight 30km drive

When you I am ready accept the challenge

I am ready

~~ Oseni Rufia

Every time His Excellency Mr. @PeterObi speaks about how the system tries to silence him, I listen. But I never imagined I would witness it firsthand—until Saturday, 31st May 2025. Let me walk you through what happened.👇🏽

I accompanied Mr. Obi to London Business School, where he engaged in a Fireside Chat hosted by the Africa Business Club. The theme?
“From Promise to Prosperity: Charting Africa’s Development with Political Will and Vision.”
A powerful and inspiring session with Q & A.

After the event, we boarded an Uber to Brentford Community Stadium, where Nigeria faced Jamaica in the Unity Cup Final. At the entrance, we ran into D’Banj, who came to perform at the event. We slipped in and sat near the Nigerian team.

The match ended 2-2 and went to penalties. As it got intense, the crowd—mostly young Nigerians—started chanting: “Obi! Obi! Obi! Obi!”
Some players began noticing him too.

To avoid becoming a distraction, Mr. Obi quietly stepped back, cheering the team from a distance during the penalty shootout. But after Nigeria won, some officials invited him to join their post-match photo session.

True to form, he politely asked them to get clearance from the officials. Suddenly, everything changed.
One of the officials, after a phone call, returned with a hardened face and shouted: "He is not allowed to take pictures with the team!"

Just moments earlier, the same officials were been visibly excited about Mr. Obi’s presence. The transformation was disturbing. It was clear someone had given a directive. The atmosphere shifted instantly.

One player, still determined, tried to greet him after the photos. But from the pitch, a voice thundered:
"You have been told not to greet him!"
Security physically blocked the player from reaching Mr. Obi.

The player, visibly upset, walked off the pitch straight to the dressing room. It was shocking to witness. Even efforts to see the team even in the dressing room was met with same instructions from above. Unbelievable!

Meanwhile, both Nigerian and Jamaican fans continued swarming Mr. Obi for photos. They didn’t care about politics—only the man they respect.

I left the stadium thinking:
Even in football, a sport meant to unite us, politics has been weaponised.
That moment deepened my resolve: In 2027, we must build a country where no one is silenced based on party affiliation. A nation where everyone is equal. ✊🏽
-TheEnd-

Mazi Ezeoke