• Ile-Akun is a small town where Chioma and Kunle lived before. They had known each other since they were kids. They climbed mango trees together, whispering great plans and dreams to each other long into the night . Meeting like that always rekindled a special spark between them. As they grew older, their friendship deepened, and it turned into something more. They started dating during their last year of secondary school.

    Chioma was lively and outgoing , while Kunle was more of a quiet thinker . They balanced each other well, and everyone in the community admired their bond. However, as the long holiday approached, things started to change.

    One sunny afternoon , Chioma excitedly planned her holiday. She wanted to join a charity group helping orphaned children in the community. Kunle, on the other hand, had plans to work at his uncle’s mechanic shop to save money for university. As they sat under a big Udala tree discussing their plans, Chioma said,

    "Kunle, I really want to help these kids. It’s important to me. Can’t you consider joining me?"

    Kunle shrugged and replied, "That’s great, Chioma, but I need to help my uncle this holiday. I can’t just leave that behind."

    Chioma felt disappointment wash over her. She had really hoped he would want to be part of something meaningful. "But we can make a difference together! The program is only a few hours a week," she insisted.

    "I just think working is more practical," Kunle said, trying to sound reasonable. "I need to focus on my future too."

    The discussion turned into an argument.

    "Kunle, you never want to do anything fun or different, do you? " Chioma exclaimed.
    "And you never think about what’s necessary in life! " Kunle shouted back.

    After that day, they barely spoke. The silence between them grew heavier. Chioma signed up for the volunteering program, while Kunle spent long hours at the mechanic shop, fixing cars and motorcycles . Once, they used to gist and laugh together, but now, everything was different. They would see each other at the junction where people sold roasted corn and suya but barely exchanged words.

    Weeks passed, and soon, the town announced the annual Ile-Akun New Yam Festival . Everyone was excited—it was a tradition for Chioma and Kunle to attend together. But this year was different. Chioma wanted to spend time with her new friends from the volunteer group, leaving Kunle alone at home, feeling left out .

    On the day of the festival, the air was filled with the aroma of jollof rice, grilled fish, and palm wine . Chioma had fun dancing to Afrobeats 🕺🏾, playing ayo olopon , and helping set up stalls. Yet, a part of her missed Kunle’s company. She caught a glimpse of him across the street, laughing with some guys near a suya stand. Seeing him enjoy himself without her made her heart ache .

    Kunle also spotted her, their eyes locked for a few seconds. Memories of childhood, of sneaking puff-puff from Mama Nkechi’s roadside shop, of watching Nollywood movies together, flooded his mind. But just as quickly as the moment came, it disappeared, and they both turned away.

    After the festival, Chioma felt lonely. She realized how much she missed Kunle . One evening, as the sun set in golden hues over the red earth , she decided to visit him. She knocked on his door, her heart beating fast. Finally, Kunle opened it, surprised to see her.

    "Hi," Chioma said softly, playing with the edge of her Ankara dress.

    "Hey," Kunle replied, his voice carrying both surprise and caution.

    They stood there in silence before Chioma finally spoke.

    "I’ve missed you, Kunle. "

    "I missed you too," Kunle admitted. "But things have been… complicated."

    "I know," she sighed. "I thought this holiday would bring us closer, but it feels like the opposite happened."

    Kunle nodded, rubbing his forehead. "I didn’t mean to push you away. I just thought I needed to focus on work."

    "I understand, but I also wanted to share this experience with you," Chioma replied softly. "I didn’t want to lose you."

    Kunle looked down, realization hitting him. "I guess I was so focused on my own plans that I didn’t see what I was missing."

    Chioma stepped closer. "Can we fix this? I think we should support each other, but communication is key."

    Kunle smiled for the first time in weeks . "Okay. I’ll try to make more time for us and listen to you. I promise to support your dreams as long as I have breath."

    They both exhaled, as if a weight had been lifted. The warmth of resolution spread between them like the first rain after harmattan . Chioma reached out and held Kunle’s hand .

    "Let’s promise to always talk, no matter what."

    "Deal," Kunle said, his heart lighter.

    From that day, they made a real effort to balance their lives. Kunle sometimes helped at the orphanage, and Chioma brought food to the mechanic shop while they chatted. They learned to respect and appreciate each other even more.

    As the long holiday ended and school resumed, they knew their bond had grown stronger. One evening, sitting on their favorite bench under the stars , Kunle turned to Chioma and said,

    "I think we can face anything if we just keep talking."

    Chioma smiled. "We are a team, Kunle. No matter what."

    And that began a new chapter for Chioma and Kunle—side by side, ready to take on whatever life threw at them.

    @highlight

    #viralstory #viralstories
    Ile-Akun is a small town where Chioma and Kunle lived before. They had known each other since they were kids. They climbed mango trees 🥭 together, whispering great plans and dreams to each other long into the night 🌙. Meeting like that always rekindled a special spark between them. As they grew older, their friendship deepened, and it turned into something more. They started dating during their last year of secondary school. Chioma was lively and outgoing 💃, while Kunle was more of a quiet thinker 🤔. They balanced each other well, and everyone in the community admired their bond. However, as the long holiday approached, things started to change. One sunny afternoon 🌞, Chioma excitedly planned her holiday. She wanted to join a charity group helping orphaned children in the community. Kunle, on the other hand, had plans to work at his uncle’s mechanic shop 🔧 to save money for university. As they sat under a big Udala tree 🍏 discussing their plans, Chioma said, "Kunle, I really want to help these kids. It’s important to me. Can’t you consider joining me?" Kunle shrugged and replied, "That’s great, Chioma, but I need to help my uncle this holiday. I can’t just leave that behind." Chioma felt disappointment 😞 wash over her. She had really hoped he would want to be part of something meaningful. "But we can make a difference together! The program is only a few hours a week," she insisted. "I just think working is more practical," Kunle said, trying to sound reasonable. "I need to focus on my future too." The discussion turned into an argument. "Kunle, you never want to do anything fun or different, do you? 😡" Chioma exclaimed. "And you never think about what’s necessary in life! 😠" Kunle shouted back. After that day, they barely spoke. The silence between them grew heavier. Chioma signed up for the volunteering program, while Kunle spent long hours at the mechanic shop, fixing cars 🚗 and motorcycles 🏍️. Once, they used to gist and laugh together, but now, everything was different. They would see each other at the junction where people sold roasted corn 🌽 and suya but barely exchanged words. Weeks passed, and soon, the town announced the annual Ile-Akun New Yam Festival 🥘🎉. Everyone was excited—it was a tradition for Chioma and Kunle to attend together. But this year was different. Chioma wanted to spend time with her new friends from the volunteer group, leaving Kunle alone at home, feeling left out 😔. On the day of the festival, the air was filled with the aroma of jollof rice, grilled fish, and palm wine 🥘🍹. Chioma had fun dancing to Afrobeats 🕺🏾, playing ayo olopon 🎲, and helping set up stalls. Yet, a part of her missed Kunle’s company. She caught a glimpse of him across the street, laughing with some guys near a suya stand. Seeing him enjoy himself without her made her heart ache 💙. Kunle also spotted her, their eyes locked for a few seconds. Memories of childhood, of sneaking puff-puff from Mama Nkechi’s roadside shop, of watching Nollywood movies together, flooded his mind. But just as quickly as the moment came, it disappeared, and they both turned away. After the festival, Chioma felt lonely. She realized how much she missed Kunle 💭. One evening, as the sun set in golden hues over the red earth 🌅, she decided to visit him. She knocked on his door, her heart beating fast. Finally, Kunle opened it, surprised to see her. "Hi," Chioma said softly, playing with the edge of her Ankara dress. "Hey," Kunle replied, his voice carrying both surprise and caution. They stood there in silence before Chioma finally spoke. "I’ve missed you, Kunle. 😞" "I missed you too," Kunle admitted. "But things have been… complicated." "I know," she sighed. "I thought this holiday would bring us closer, but it feels like the opposite happened." Kunle nodded, rubbing his forehead. "I didn’t mean to push you away. I just thought I needed to focus on work." "I understand, but I also wanted to share this experience with you," Chioma replied softly. "I didn’t want to lose you." 💞 Kunle looked down, realization hitting him. "I guess I was so focused on my own plans that I didn’t see what I was missing." Chioma stepped closer. "Can we fix this? I think we should support each other, but communication is key." Kunle smiled for the first time in weeks 😊. "Okay. I’ll try to make more time for us and listen to you. I promise to support your dreams as long as I have breath." They both exhaled, as if a weight had been lifted. The warmth of resolution spread between them like the first rain after harmattan 🌧️. Chioma reached out and held Kunle’s hand 🤝. "Let’s promise to always talk, no matter what." "Deal," Kunle said, his heart lighter. 💕 From that day, they made a real effort to balance their lives. Kunle sometimes helped at the orphanage, and Chioma brought food 🍛 to the mechanic shop while they chatted. They learned to respect and appreciate each other even more. As the long holiday ended and school resumed, they knew their bond had grown stronger. One evening, sitting on their favorite bench under the stars ✨, Kunle turned to Chioma and said, "I think we can face anything if we just keep talking." Chioma smiled. "We are a team, Kunle. No matter what." 💑 And that began a new chapter for Chioma and Kunle—side by side, ready to take on whatever life threw at them. 🚀💖 @highlight #viralstory #viralstories
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  • Plateau My Pride:
    Born in the city of Jos, a home of calmness, plateau state the home of peace and tourism, one day I took stroll to land of my imagination, there I met an old man who told me these things, he said to me, "do you wonder why Plateau is so green, beautiful and blessed, and he went on, Plateau is all this because God saw that it was good, He also said to me, "my Daughter God knew that Plateau would be your birth place, He knew you and the other, He knew that placing you in the plateau will bring life and colours to this land" I looked at the old man and smiled, I replied Papa thank you for opening my eyes to see how unique and blessed I am, I looked up to heaven and thanked the Lord for making me who I am. Can you also be appreciative today, God has created you to do exploit on this land let us come together and make plateau green again again#mcliz@followers@highlight
    Plateau My Pride: Born in the city of Jos, a home of calmness, plateau state the home of peace and tourism, one day I took stroll to land of my imagination, there I met an old man who told me these things, he said to me, "do you wonder why Plateau is so green, beautiful and blessed, and he went on, Plateau is all this because God saw that it was good, He also said to me, "my Daughter God knew that Plateau would be your birth place, He knew you and the other, He knew that placing you in the plateau will bring life and colours to this land" I looked at the old man and smiled, I replied Papa thank you for opening my eyes to see how unique and blessed I am, I looked up to heaven and thanked the Lord for making me who I am. Can you also be appreciative today, God has created you to do exploit on this land let us come together and make plateau green 💚again again#mcliz@followers@highlight
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  • When we realize that Nosa rex is a big lover of yansh ....when I say yansh I mean the big ones ooo no be small yansh as in big bunda ..we decided to dedicate this beautiful portrait to him. As a solid reminder of his legacy in Nollywood... Hope we did a good job..?

    Moral lesson-Odogwu pararan wey no get money na slay queen ...hellooooooooo

    #tinglespicey #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #highlighteveryonefollowers #PulseViral #viralreelschallenge #mercyaigbe #nollywood #ayrastarr #viral
    When we realize that Nosa rex is a big lover of yansh ....when I say yansh I mean the big ones ooo 🤣 no be small yansh as in big bunda ..we decided to dedicate this beautiful portrait to him. As a solid reminder of his legacy in Nollywood... Hope we did a good job..? Moral lesson-Odogwu pararan wey no get money na slay queen ...hellooooooooo 🤣 #tinglespicey #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #highlighteveryonefollowers #PulseViral #viralreelschallenge #mercyaigbe #nollywood #ayrastarr #viral
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  • THE GREAT BETRAYAL: APA STATE, WATER SCARCITY, AND INSECURITY—THE POLITICS OF DEATH IN BENUE ZONE C IDOMALAND

    For decades, Apa State has been dangled before us like a poisoned carrot, a deceptive mirage designed to keep us pacified while the real business of oppression continues. David Mark whispered its name in our ears for years, feeding us hope while tightening the chains of underdevelopment. Abba Moro came along, mouthing the same tired script, and like clockwork, Apa State was swept under the rug while other regions secured their new states.

    This is not coincidence. This is systematic suppression. The strategy is clear—keep Idomaland, Zone C, Apa/Agatu weak, keep us distracted, and keep us thirsty.

    THE WATER SCANDAL: MAKING OTUKPO KNEEL IN THIRST
    Let’s speak plainly—denying a people water is an act of war.
    Otukpo, the so-called (too neglected, unattractive, bad roads, no security, waterless and dirty) “capital” of Idoma land, has been reduced to a parched wasteland where residents drink from filthy, mud-infested pools like abandoned cattle. The Otobi Water Works, once a beacon of survival, has been left to rot, just like every other promise made to us.

    Tell me—how can a land that birthed senators, ministers, and supposed “billionaires” allow its people to drink from the dirt like beggars? Where is the wealth? Where is the leadership? Where is the outrage?

    The answer is simple: they do not care.
    They sit in their mansions, drinking imported water while we fight over buckets of filth. They attend political meetings in Abuja, making deals with the same people who have ensured Apa/Agatu remains a graveyard of forgotten promises.

    INSECURITY: TURNING OUR HOMES INTO KILLING FIELDS
    As if thirst wasn’t enough, now death prowls our streets.
    Otukpo has become a hunting ground for kidnappers and killers. The people are screaming for help, yet the government remains silent. Protests have erupted, bodies are piling up, yet the only response is indifference.

    Tell me again, who are these leaders serving? Because it is certainly not us.

    The lawmaker representing Otukpo-Ohimini has raised alarms, but words are not enough. Our people are being hunted like animals, yet those in power act as if this is normal.
    Let me be clear—this is not normal. This is engineered chaos.

    CONNECTING THE DOTS: A MASTERPLAN OF OPPRESSION
    Water scarcity and insecurity are not accidents. They are the tools of control.

    Deny them water, and they will beg.
    Deny them safety, and they will cower.
    Deny them Apa State, and they will remain trapped.

    For too long, our politicians have played us for fools. But here’s the truth—the fear is gone.

    THE FINAL WARNING: 2027 WILL NOT BE BUSINESS AS USUAL
    Otukpo will not die in thirst. Apa/Agatu will not kneel in fear.
    Let it be known—the people are awake.
    We will no longer listen to the lies of billionaires who made their wealth off our backs. We will not be fooled by another cycle of empty promises, false hope, and engineered suffering.

    If Apa State is not prioritized, if water is not restored, if security is not enforced—2027 will be a reckoning.
    No more business as usual. No more deception.
    The people will remember. And when the time comes, they will act.

    Adanehi Adamu Audu Ibrahim, PhD
    Clinician, Educator, and Advocate
    Part-Time Lecturer at Benue State University, J.S. Tarka University, NACEST
    Expert in Stakeholder Engagement, Public Health Advocacy, and Clinical Psychology
    Founder of Research Initiatives on Health-Seeking Behavior, Migration, and ICT in Clinical Service Delivery
    UNICEF Enumerator and Field Officer (Vitamin A PECS 2025)
    Researcher and Consultant in Psychology, Public Health, and Education
    Advocate for Apa State and Socio-Political Transformation in Zone C

    Sahara Reporters Fr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia Nigerian Tribune SUN News Punch Newspapers TVC NEWS NIGERIA CNN NTA News Nigeria LTM @friends @followers @highlight @everyone
    THE GREAT BETRAYAL: APA STATE, WATER SCARCITY, AND INSECURITY—THE POLITICS OF DEATH IN BENUE ZONE C IDOMALAND For decades, Apa State has been dangled before us like a poisoned carrot, a deceptive mirage designed to keep us pacified while the real business of oppression continues. David Mark whispered its name in our ears for years, feeding us hope while tightening the chains of underdevelopment. Abba Moro came along, mouthing the same tired script, and like clockwork, Apa State was swept under the rug while other regions secured their new states. This is not coincidence. This is systematic suppression. The strategy is clear—keep Idomaland, Zone C, Apa/Agatu weak, keep us distracted, and keep us thirsty. THE WATER SCANDAL: MAKING OTUKPO KNEEL IN THIRST Let’s speak plainly—denying a people water is an act of war. Otukpo, the so-called (too neglected, unattractive, bad roads, no security, waterless and dirty) “capital” of Idoma land, has been reduced to a parched wasteland where residents drink from filthy, mud-infested pools like abandoned cattle. The Otobi Water Works, once a beacon of survival, has been left to rot, just like every other promise made to us. Tell me—how can a land that birthed senators, ministers, and supposed “billionaires” allow its people to drink from the dirt like beggars? Where is the wealth? Where is the leadership? Where is the outrage? The answer is simple: they do not care. They sit in their mansions, drinking imported water while we fight over buckets of filth. They attend political meetings in Abuja, making deals with the same people who have ensured Apa/Agatu remains a graveyard of forgotten promises. INSECURITY: TURNING OUR HOMES INTO KILLING FIELDS As if thirst wasn’t enough, now death prowls our streets. Otukpo has become a hunting ground for kidnappers and killers. The people are screaming for help, yet the government remains silent. Protests have erupted, bodies are piling up, yet the only response is indifference. Tell me again, who are these leaders serving? Because it is certainly not us. The lawmaker representing Otukpo-Ohimini has raised alarms, but words are not enough. Our people are being hunted like animals, yet those in power act as if this is normal. Let me be clear—this is not normal. This is engineered chaos. CONNECTING THE DOTS: A MASTERPLAN OF OPPRESSION Water scarcity and insecurity are not accidents. They are the tools of control. Deny them water, and they will beg. Deny them safety, and they will cower. Deny them Apa State, and they will remain trapped. For too long, our politicians have played us for fools. But here’s the truth—the fear is gone. THE FINAL WARNING: 2027 WILL NOT BE BUSINESS AS USUAL Otukpo will not die in thirst. Apa/Agatu will not kneel in fear. Let it be known—the people are awake. We will no longer listen to the lies of billionaires who made their wealth off our backs. We will not be fooled by another cycle of empty promises, false hope, and engineered suffering. If Apa State is not prioritized, if water is not restored, if security is not enforced—2027 will be a reckoning. No more business as usual. No more deception. The people will remember. And when the time comes, they will act. Adanehi Adamu Audu Ibrahim, PhD Clinician, Educator, and Advocate Part-Time Lecturer at Benue State University, J.S. Tarka University, NACEST Expert in Stakeholder Engagement, Public Health Advocacy, and Clinical Psychology Founder of Research Initiatives on Health-Seeking Behavior, Migration, and ICT in Clinical Service Delivery UNICEF Enumerator and Field Officer (Vitamin A PECS 2025) Researcher and Consultant in Psychology, Public Health, and Education Advocate for Apa State and Socio-Political Transformation in Zone C Sahara Reporters Fr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia Nigerian Tribune SUN News Punch Newspapers TVC NEWS NIGERIA CNN NTA News Nigeria LTM @friends @followers @highlight @everyone
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  • "In 2001, I had to stop acting because I was going through a lot. I got an opportunity to travel to London, and I took it. I needed to clear my head after losing my mom because I was the one taking care of them.

    While abroad, I worked as a caregiver, taking care of both the old and young. My parents were waiting for me to return, but sadly, my mom passed away before she could fully enjoy the fruits of my hard work. I miss her dearly.

    When I finally returned home, I had saved enough money to start a business before going back into acting. I have been through a lot in this life. Unless I tell you, you would never know.

    I didn’t succeed in a day, and that’s why I love helping others."— Rita Dominic

    May our parents be alive to reap the fruit of their labour

    #tinglespicey #labakeolododo #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #ayrastarr #viralreelschallenge #nollywood #highlightseveryonefollowers
    "In 2001, I had to stop acting because I was going through a lot. I got an opportunity to travel to London, and I took it. I needed to clear my head after losing my mom because I was the one taking care of them. While abroad, I worked as a caregiver, taking care of both the old and young. My parents were waiting for me to return, but sadly, my mom passed away before she could fully enjoy the fruits of my hard work. I miss her dearly. When I finally returned home, I had saved enough money to start a business before going back into acting. I have been through a lot in this life. Unless I tell you, you would never know. I didn’t succeed in a day, and that’s why I love helping others."— Rita Dominic May our parents be alive to reap the fruit of their labour 🌹❤️🖤 #tinglespicey #labakeolododo #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #ayrastarr #viralreelschallenge #nollywood #highlightseveryonefollowers
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  • I DON'T UNDERSTAND 2FACE!
    If you're going to leave your wife, it should be for someone prettier and sexier, a slay queen like me, not Mary Amaka.

    ~ Bobrisky

    #viral #everyone #virals #follower #followers #highlightseveryonefollowers
    I DON'T UNDERSTAND 2FACE! If you're going to leave your wife, it should be for someone prettier and sexier, a slay queen like me, not Mary Amaka. ~ Bobrisky 🙄 #viral #everyone #virals #follower #followers #highlightseveryonefollowers
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  • TYPES OF WIVES WE HAVE IN OUR SOCIETIES
    1. BOXING WIVES : These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene.
    2. HEADMASTER WIVES :
    These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands.
    3. POLICE WIFE :
    This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages.
    If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities.
    4. DICTIONARY WIFE :
    These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to listen to their mother or sister or friend.
    Whenever their husband says something, they quickly go to verify from either the mother, sister, friend e.t.c like a dictionary to know if she should go ahead with what their husband instructed or not.
    5. PARTY WIVES :
    They prefer to buy every available handbag and shoe to attend any available party even though her family does not have the financial muscle to entertain such expenses...They are readily available at every party and drinkathon thereby neglecting their children, husband and home..
    6. PAMPERED WIVES :
    These are also known as daddy's little girl...They call and report their husband to their father at any slight argument or conversation. The rich ones are highly dangerous especially when the husband is working directly for the father..
    7. DUSTBIN WIVES ;
    The name might sound harsh but they exist...These wives leave the home unkept and dirty and you only see them rushing to clean the house only when they have a visitor at the door...There are several occasions were some husbands get home after a days work only to find the house upside down and dirty.
    8. GOD FEARING WIVES :
    They are caring and loving. Provides emotional needs and creates extra time for family. Guides home spiritually, Very responsible and treats husband and family with respect.
    9. FACEBOOK WIVES :
    They are always on the internet, instagram, posting pictures with twisted legs, chatting and even forget to do basic shores because they want to know what is happening on FB.
    10. Unappreciated Wives:
    These are wives who stay home and take care of everything and everybody but are treated like children. Seen and not heard.. So for the ladies which one are you and for the guys which one do you currently have...Kindly go through so that you can work on yourself if need be.
    #everyonehighlights
    #relationship
    TYPES OF WIVES WE HAVE IN OUR SOCIETIES 1. BOXING WIVES : These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene. 2. HEADMASTER WIVES : These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands. 3. POLICE WIFE : This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages. If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities. 4. DICTIONARY WIFE : These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to listen to their mother or sister or friend. Whenever their husband says something, they quickly go to verify from either the mother, sister, friend e.t.c like a dictionary to know if she should go ahead with what their husband instructed or not. 5. PARTY WIVES : They prefer to buy every available handbag and shoe to attend any available party even though her family does not have the financial muscle to entertain such expenses...They are readily available at every party and drinkathon thereby neglecting their children, husband and home.. 6. PAMPERED WIVES : These are also known as daddy's little girl...They call and report their husband to their father at any slight argument or conversation. The rich ones are highly dangerous especially when the husband is working directly for the father.. 7. DUSTBIN WIVES ; The name might sound harsh but they exist...These wives leave the home unkept and dirty and you only see them rushing to clean the house only when they have a visitor at the door...There are several occasions were some husbands get home after a days work only to find the house upside down and dirty. 8. GOD FEARING WIVES : They are caring and loving. Provides emotional needs and creates extra time for family. Guides home spiritually, Very responsible and treats husband and family with respect. 9. FACEBOOK WIVES : They are always on the internet, instagram, posting pictures with twisted legs, chatting and even forget to do basic shores because they want to know what is happening on FB. 10. Unappreciated Wives: These are wives who stay home and take care of everything and everybody but are treated like children. Seen and not heard.. So for the ladies which one are you and for the guys which one do you currently have...Kindly go through so that you can work on yourself if need be. #everyonehighlights #relationship
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  • WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT,
    READ THIS AND LEARN.

    "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father.

    "What for son?", his father asked.

    "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost".

    Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé.

    "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked.

    "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered.

    His father held him by the shoulder and said
    "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room".
    "Yes dad", Kola obliged.
    Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room.
    "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's
    father asked.
    "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance.
    "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father.
    They sat down.
    "Thank you dad"
    "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father.
    "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé.
    "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola.
    "Why do you want to have a big wedding?",
    father asked.

    "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied.
    "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé.
    "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé.
    "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father.
    "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola.

    "How many true friends do you really have?",
    I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father.
    Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other.
    "Countable", the fiancé answered.
    "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father.
    Silence.
    "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father.

    "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola.
    "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a
    committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage"
    Silence.

    The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence.

    "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father.
    "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé.
    "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for?

    People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt?
    Marriage is what is more important than a
    wedding", continued the father.
    "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's
    okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is
    just you and me, not people".

    The father spoke, "My son, in all the years
    you have been a man, you have never come
    to me asking for money, but now you are
    asking for money to put up a show? I look
    further, I look at your marriage. I admire
    how people come together in a wedding
    committee to raise money and I wonder,
    what if couples and people use that same
    energy to put up a business that will uplift
    families. Those members who will be part of
    your wedding committee, imagine if they
    become your investors, imagine if you build
    a company where you can make profit and
    feed your homes. Something sustainable."
    Kola and his fiancé nodded.
    "My son, I have longed for the day you
    would come and ask me to invest in your
    business idea. But today I will make the first
    move", the father said taking his cheque
    book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé.

    "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million
    naira, not for your wedding but as start up
    capital for a business of your choice. I am
    giving the cheque to your wife because as
    the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk
    with you in building an empire for your
    family. Focus on your family, give your family
    the best; forget about the public and
    opinions of people who don't matter. Build
    a future for your family. Build your family on
    a foundation of surplus not debt".
    "Thank you so much" said the fiancé.
    Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His
    father stood up too. The father and son hugged.

    "Thank you dad for being a great figure and
    your counsel. I don't know what to say. You
    have challenged me not to merely get
    married but to have a vision, a vision for my
    family. I don't know what to say" he spoke.
    The father held his shoulder, "You will make
    a great husband and father. I wish I had the
    same counsel when I was getting married,
    all those people I fed on my wedding day
    didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I
    was to organize an event and feed
    multitudes, I would do so for the less
    fortunate and those in need.

    Marriage is not for show.
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    WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, READ THIS AND LEARN. "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father. "What for son?", his father asked. "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost". Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé. "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked. "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered. His father held him by the shoulder and said "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room". "Yes dad", Kola obliged. Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room. "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's father asked. "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance. "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father. They sat down. "Thank you dad" "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father. "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé. "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola. "Why do you want to have a big wedding?", father asked. "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied. "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé. "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé. "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father. "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola. "How many true friends do you really have?", I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father. Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other. "Countable", the fiancé answered. "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father. Silence. "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father. "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola. "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage" Silence. The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence. "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father. "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé. "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for? People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt? Marriage is what is more important than a wedding", continued the father. "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is just you and me, not people". The father spoke, "My son, in all the years you have been a man, you have never come to me asking for money, but now you are asking for money to put up a show? I look further, I look at your marriage. I admire how people come together in a wedding committee to raise money and I wonder, what if couples and people use that same energy to put up a business that will uplift families. Those members who will be part of your wedding committee, imagine if they become your investors, imagine if you build a company where you can make profit and feed your homes. Something sustainable." Kola and his fiancé nodded. "My son, I have longed for the day you would come and ask me to invest in your business idea. But today I will make the first move", the father said taking his cheque book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé. "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million naira, not for your wedding but as start up capital for a business of your choice. I am giving the cheque to your wife because as the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk with you in building an empire for your family. Focus on your family, give your family the best; forget about the public and opinions of people who don't matter. Build a future for your family. Build your family on a foundation of surplus not debt". "Thank you so much" said the fiancé. Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His father stood up too. The father and son hugged. "Thank you dad for being a great figure and your counsel. I don't know what to say. You have challenged me not to merely get married but to have a vision, a vision for my family. I don't know what to say" he spoke. The father held his shoulder, "You will make a great husband and father. I wish I had the same counsel when I was getting married, all those people I fed on my wedding day didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I was to organize an event and feed multitudes, I would do so for the less fortunate and those in need. Marriage is not for show. Pls follow Eunice home of fashion &hair Don’t forget to share to enlighten more people #highlightseveryone #fbreels23 #fypシ゚viralシ #fbyシvideo #highlightseveryonefollowers #highlightsシ゚ #fbyシviral #fbreelsvideo #reelsfypシ
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  • DEAR MEN..

    When you keep MALICE with your WIFE and IGNORE her, DEPRIVE her of her CONJUGAL RIGHTS, REJECT her FOOD and STOP SPENDING TIME, MONEY on her or giving her COMPANIONSHIP..

    You are not PUNISHING your WIFE, you are actually TEACHING HER INDEPENDENCE. You are TEACHING her to be able to LIVE WITHOUT you.

    And if you keep doing this over time, one day, she will GRADUATE from your SCHOOL and you will CEASE to have MEANING in her LIFE.

    Don't FORGET as you AGE, you will NEED her MORE than she NEEDS you. And remember the CHILDREN are LIKELY to SUPPORT her than. You think she's SUFFERING all these YEARS but she's only ADJUSTING, so instead of TEACHING her to LIVE WITHOUT you, TALK to her when she OFFENDS you and WORK THINGS out.

    Truth is a REAL MAN APOLOGIES to his WOMAN whether he is RIGHT or WRONG in order to SAVE his HOME and for PEACE to REIGN. A HEALTHY MARRIAGE is one where TODAY'S MISUNDERSTANDING doesn't AFFECT TOMORROW'S COMMUNICATION.

    Lesson for all.
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    DEAR MEN.. When you keep MALICE with your WIFE and IGNORE her, DEPRIVE her of her CONJUGAL RIGHTS, REJECT her FOOD and STOP SPENDING TIME, MONEY on her or giving her COMPANIONSHIP.. You are not PUNISHING your WIFE, you are actually TEACHING HER INDEPENDENCE. You are TEACHING her to be able to LIVE WITHOUT you. And if you keep doing this over time, one day, she will GRADUATE from your SCHOOL and you will CEASE to have MEANING in her LIFE. Don't FORGET as you AGE, you will NEED her MORE than she NEEDS you. And remember the CHILDREN are LIKELY to SUPPORT her than. You think she's SUFFERING all these YEARS but she's only ADJUSTING, so instead of TEACHING her to LIVE WITHOUT you, TALK to her when she OFFENDS you and WORK THINGS out. Truth is a REAL MAN APOLOGIES to his WOMAN whether he is RIGHT or WRONG in order to SAVE his HOME and for PEACE to REIGN. A HEALTHY MARRIAGE is one where TODAY'S MISUNDERSTANDING doesn't AFFECT TOMORROW'S COMMUNICATION. Lesson for all. Keep following my page please 🙏 #highlight
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  • HOW YOUR FAMILY SEES YOUR PARTNER DEPENDS ON YOU!

    In every relationship, family plays a crucial role in shaping perceptions. This perception may hold for years helping to mould the marriage or shatter it. A man is the determinate factor of how his wife-to-be is seen by his family. If he speaks highly of her, treats her with respect, and positions her well, his family will follow his lead. If he allows negativity, disrespect, or unnecessary interference, they may never truly accept her. Many battles some wives are having with their in-laws started way back during their courtship. He projected her in bad light so they (his family) took it up from there.

    Likewise, a woman is the determinate factor of how her husband-to-be is seen by her family. If she honours him in her words and actions, her family will learn to do the same. But if she constantly complains, belittles him, or shares his weaknesses, she gives them reasons to disregard him.

    So you hold the brush that will paint your parents' perception of your intended spouse. What picture are you painting? One of love, respect, and partnership? Or one of doubt, conflict, and mistrust? Be intentional about how you present your partner to your family because first impressions often last a lifetime.

    If you project him or her to your family as one you hold in high esteem, your family will also do same (if not now later).

    No matter what happens, never position yourself as the one instigating your partner against their parents.
    Even if their family is difficult, don’t become the source of division. Instead, encourage unity, patience, and wisdom in handling family matters.

    You see, nobody loves to be told that their family is bad (or receive a negative report or evaluation) even if they personal know that. Once you vocalize it and your partner is not mature enough to absorb it then you might start hearing statements like "you hate my parents" etc. Any of your actions is judged from the impression of "it's because you don't like my family".

    Make yourself a system that helps protect your partner.
    Be their shield in the face of misunderstandings. Stand up for them when necessary, but do so with wisdom and diplomacy. Families may not always understand your relationship at first, but consistency and honour will win their trust.

    Build a system that protects your partner’s image and projects them as good.
    People will see your partner through the lens you provide. If you present them as irresponsible, difficult, or unworthy, that’s exactly how your family will see them. If you highlight their strengths and virtues, your family will learn to appreciate them as you do.

    Again, don't speak bad of your own family to your partner.
    If you tell your partner that your family is bad, he/she will not regard them as part of her family.
    He/she won't have respect for your parents and siblings. There will be no peace and respect among them.
    HOW YOUR FAMILY SEES YOUR PARTNER DEPENDS ON YOU! In every relationship, family plays a crucial role in shaping perceptions. This perception may hold for years helping to mould the marriage or shatter it. A man is the determinate factor of how his wife-to-be is seen by his family. If he speaks highly of her, treats her with respect, and positions her well, his family will follow his lead. If he allows negativity, disrespect, or unnecessary interference, they may never truly accept her. Many battles some wives are having with their in-laws started way back during their courtship. He projected her in bad light so they (his family) took it up from there. Likewise, a woman is the determinate factor of how her husband-to-be is seen by her family. If she honours him in her words and actions, her family will learn to do the same. But if she constantly complains, belittles him, or shares his weaknesses, she gives them reasons to disregard him. So you hold the brush that will paint your parents' perception of your intended spouse. What picture are you painting? One of love, respect, and partnership? Or one of doubt, conflict, and mistrust? Be intentional about how you present your partner to your family because first impressions often last a lifetime. If you project him or her to your family as one you hold in high esteem, your family will also do same (if not now later). No matter what happens, never position yourself as the one instigating your partner against their parents. Even if their family is difficult, don’t become the source of division. Instead, encourage unity, patience, and wisdom in handling family matters. You see, nobody loves to be told that their family is bad (or receive a negative report or evaluation) even if they personal know that. Once you vocalize it and your partner is not mature enough to absorb it then you might start hearing statements like "you hate my parents" etc. Any of your actions is judged from the impression of "it's because you don't like my family". Make yourself a system that helps protect your partner. Be their shield in the face of misunderstandings. Stand up for them when necessary, but do so with wisdom and diplomacy. Families may not always understand your relationship at first, but consistency and honour will win their trust. Build a system that protects your partner’s image and projects them as good. People will see your partner through the lens you provide. If you present them as irresponsible, difficult, or unworthy, that’s exactly how your family will see them. If you highlight their strengths and virtues, your family will learn to appreciate them as you do. Again, don't speak bad of your own family to your partner. If you tell your partner that your family is bad, he/she will not regard them as part of her family. He/she won't have respect for your parents and siblings. There will be no peace and respect among them.
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