• Saturday June 28, 2025

    IMMACULATE HEART OF THE BVM (MEMORIAL)

    Office: Memorial, Psalter week 4

    Mass and preface of the memorial

    Vestment: White

    Today’s Rosary: The Joyful Mystery

    Vespers I of the solemnity of Ss Peter & Paul

    -FIRST READING-

    “Is anything too hard for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, and Sarah shall have a son.”

    A reading from the Book of Genesis (Genesis 18:1-15)

    In those days: The Lord appeared to Abraham by the Oaks of Mamre, as he sat at the door of his tent in the heat of the day. He lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, three men stood in front of him. When he saw them, he ran from the tent door to meet them, and bowed himself to the earth, and said, “My lord, if I have found favour in your sight, do not pass by your servant. Let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree, while I fetch a morsel of bread, that you may refresh yourselves, and after that you may pass on — since you have come to your servant.” So they said, “Do as you have said.” And Abraham hastened into the tent to Sarah, and said, “Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes.” And Abraham ran to the herd, and took a calf, tender and good, and gave it to the servant, who hastened to prepare it. Then he took curds, and milk, and the calf which he had prepared, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree while they ate. They said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “She is in the tent.” The Lord said, “I will surely return to you in the spring, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.” And Sarah was listening at the tent door behind him. Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in age; it had ceased to be with Sarah after the manner of women. So Sarah laughed to herself, saying; “After I have grown old, and my husband is old, shall I have pleasure?” The Lord said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh, and say, ‘Shall I indeed bear a child, now that I am old?’ Is anything too hard for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, in the spring, and Sarah shall have a son.” But Sarah denied, saying, “I did not laugh”; for she was afraid. He said, “No, but you did laugh.”

    The word of the Lord.

    RESPONSORIAL PSALM Luke 1:46-47.48-49.50 and 53.54-55(R. 54b)

    R/. The Lord has remembered his mercy.
    My soul magnifies the Lord,
    And my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour. R/.

    For he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden.
    For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed:
    for he who is mighty has done great things for me,
    and holy is his name. R/.

    R/. The Lord has remembered his mercy.

    And his mercy is on those who fear him
    from generation to generation.
    He has filled the hungry with good things,
    and the rich he has sent empty away. R/.

    He has helped his servant Israel,
    in remembrance of his mercy,
    as he spoke to our fathers,
    to Abraham and to his posterity for ever. R/.

    ALLELUIA Matthew 8:17

    Alleluia. Christ took our infirmities and bore our diseases. Alleluia.

    -GOSPEL-

    “Many will come from east and west and sit at table with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.”

    A reading from the holy Gospel according to Matthew (Matthew 8:5-17)

    At that time: As Jesus entered Capernaum, a centurion came forward to him, begging him and saying, “Lord, my servant is lying paralysed at home, in terrible distress.” And he said to him, “I will come and heal him.” But the centurion answered him, “Lord, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof; but only say the word, and my servant will be healed. For I am a man under authority, with soldiers under me; and I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes, and to another, ‘Come,’ and he comes, and to my slave, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.” When Jesus heard him, he marvelled, and said to those who followed him, “Truly, I say to you, not even in Israel have I found such faith. I tell you, many will come from east and west and sit at table with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven, while the sons of the kingdom will be thrown into the outer darkness; there men will weep and quash their teeth.” And to the centurion Jesus said, “Go; let it be done for you as you have believed.” And the servant was healed at that very moment. And when Jesus entered Peter’s house, he saw his mother-in-law lying sick with a fever; he touched her hand, and the fever left her, and she rose and served him. That evening they brought to him many who were possessed with demons; and he cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sick. This was to fulfil what was spoken by the prophet Isaiah, “He took our infirmities and bore our diseases.”

    The Gospel of the Lord.

    Today’s Reflection

    The humility of the centurion is noteworthy. His expression has been imprinted on our hearts through our Eucharistic worship when we pray: “Lord, I am not worthy to receive you…” Apart from humility, we see in the centurion the extraordinary love of one who goes to Jesus on behalf of a servant. We see his great respect; his awareness that a Jew who entered his home would be considered as defiled. We see a wise person making good use of his own experience in coming to understand others. Finally, we see the quality that amazes Jesus: his faith. We can discern a composite of virtues in the centurion. Let us reflect in gratitude upon our own stores of these qualities of heart, mind, reason and will, and how we might use them more creatively to build God’s Kingdom.

    Personal Devotional

    “For by the blood of Christ we are set free, that is, our sins are forgiven. How great is the grace of God” Ephesians 1: 7

    - I loose myself from all heart attacks rooted in fear, and I command all spirits of fear to leave in the name of Jesus.

    - I loose myself from all diabetes rooted in rejection, self-hatred, ancestral inheritance, and guilt in the name of Jesus.

    - I break all causes of sickness and diseases, and I command all hereditary spirits of sickness of come out of me in the name of Jesus.

    - I paralyze every activities of evil parasites, immune destroyers, demonic wasters and health devourers in my life in the name of Jesus.

    Let Us Pray

    Teach us, good Lord, to serve you as you deserve; to give and not to count the cost; to fight and not to heed the wounds; to toil and not to seek for rest; to labour and not ask for any reward, save that of knowing that we do your will. Amen.

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    VIGIL OF S. PETER AND S. PAUL, AP.

    At the vigil Mass

    This Mass is used on the evening of 28 June, either before or after First Vespers (Evening Prayer 1) of the Solemnity.

    Entrance Antiphon

    Peter the Apostle, and Paul the teacher of the Gentiles, these have taught us your law, O Lord.

    Collect

    Grant, we pray, O Lord our God, that we may be sustained by the intercession of the blessed Apostles Peter and Paul, that, as through them you gave your Church the foundations of her heavenly office, so through them you may help her to eternal salvation. Through our Lord..

    -FIRST READING-

    A reading from the Acts of the Apostles (Acts 3:1 -10)

    “I give you what I have, in the name of Jesus, rise and walk.”

    In those days: Peter and John were going up to the temple at the hour of prayer, the ninth hour. And a man lame from birth was being carried, whom they laid daily at that gate of the temple which is called Beautiful to ask alms of those who entered the temple. Seeing Peter and John about to go into the temple, he asked for alms. And Peter directed his gaze at him, with John, and said, “Look at us.” And he fixed his attention upon them, expecting to receive something from them. But Peter said, “I have no silver and gold, but I give you what I have; in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise and walk.” And he took him by the right hand and raised him up; and immediately his feet and ankles were made strong. And leaping up he stood and walked and entered the temple with them, walking and leaping and praising God. And all the people saw him walking and praising God, and recognised him as the one who sat for alms at the Beautiful Gate of the temple; and they were filled with wonder and amazement at what had happened to him.

    The word of the Lord.

    RESPONSORIAL PSALM Psalm19:2-3.4-5 (R. 5a)

    R/. Their sound goes forth through all the earth.

    The heavens declare the glory of God,
    and the firmament proclaims the work of his hands.
    Day unto day conveys the message
    and night unto night imparts the knowledge. R/.

    No speech, no word, whose voice goes unheeded;
    their sound goes forth through all the earth,
    their message to the utmost bounds of the world. R/.

    -SECOND READING-

    A reading from the Letter of Saint Paul to the Galatians (Galatians 1:11-20)

    “God set me apart before I was born.”

    Brethren: I would have you know that the Gospel which was preached by me is not man’s gospel. For I did not receive it from man, nor was I taught it, but it came through a revelation of Jesus Christ. For you have heard of my former life in Judaism, how I persecuted the Church of God violently and tried to destroy it; and I advanced in Judaism beyond many of my own age among my people, so extremely zealous was I for the traditions of my fathers. But when he who had set me apart before I was born, and had called me through his grace, was pleased to reveal his Son to me, in order that I might preach him among the Gentiles, I did not confer with flesh and blood, nor did I go up to Jerusalem to those who were apostles before me, but I went away into Arabia; and again I returned to Damascus. Then after three years I went up to Jerusalem to visit Cephas, and remained with him fifteen days. But I saw none of the other apostles except James the Lord’s brother. (In what I am writing to you, before God, I do not lie!)

    The word of the Lord.

    ALLELUIA John 21 .17d

    Alleluia. Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you. Alleluia.

    -GOSPEL-

    A reading from the holy Gospel according to John (John 21:15-19)

    “Feed my lambs, feed my sheep.”

    When [Jesus had revealed himself to his disciples and] they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” A second time he said to him, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you fastened your own belt and walked where you would; but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will fasten your belt for you and bring you where you do not wish to go.” (This he said to show by what death he was to glorify God.) And after this he said to him, “Follow me.”

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    PRAYER FOR NIGERIA IN DISTRESS

    All powerful and merciful Father,
    You are the God of justice, love and peace.
    You rule over the nations of the earth.
    Power and might are in your hands and no one can withstand you.
    We present our country Nigeria before you.
    We praise and thank you for you are the source of all we have and are.
    We are sorry for all the sins we have committed
    and for the good deeds we have failed to do.
    In your loving forgiveness,
    keep us safe from the punishment we deserve.
    Lord, we are weighed down not only by uncertainties,
    but also by moral, economic and political problems.
    Listen to the cries of your people who confidently turn to you,
    Our God of infinite goodness,
    our strength in adversity,
    our health in weakness,
    our comfort in sorrow;
    be merciful to us your people.
    Spare this nation Nigeria from chaos, anarchy and doom.
    Bless us with your kingdom of justice, love and peace.
    We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord.
    Amen.
    Saturday June 28, 2025 IMMACULATE HEART OF THE BVM (MEMORIAL) Office: Memorial, Psalter week 4 Mass and preface of the memorial Vestment: White Today’s Rosary: The Joyful Mystery Vespers I of the solemnity of Ss Peter & Paul -FIRST READING- “Is anything too hard for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, and Sarah shall have a son.” A reading from the Book of Genesis (Genesis 18:1-15) In those days: The Lord appeared to Abraham by the Oaks of Mamre, as he sat at the door of his tent in the heat of the day. He lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, three men stood in front of him. When he saw them, he ran from the tent door to meet them, and bowed himself to the earth, and said, “My lord, if I have found favour in your sight, do not pass by your servant. Let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree, while I fetch a morsel of bread, that you may refresh yourselves, and after that you may pass on — since you have come to your servant.” So they said, “Do as you have said.” And Abraham hastened into the tent to Sarah, and said, “Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes.” And Abraham ran to the herd, and took a calf, tender and good, and gave it to the servant, who hastened to prepare it. Then he took curds, and milk, and the calf which he had prepared, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree while they ate. They said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “She is in the tent.” The Lord said, “I will surely return to you in the spring, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.” And Sarah was listening at the tent door behind him. Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in age; it had ceased to be with Sarah after the manner of women. So Sarah laughed to herself, saying; “After I have grown old, and my husband is old, shall I have pleasure?” The Lord said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh, and say, ‘Shall I indeed bear a child, now that I am old?’ Is anything too hard for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, in the spring, and Sarah shall have a son.” But Sarah denied, saying, “I did not laugh”; for she was afraid. He said, “No, but you did laugh.” The word of the Lord. RESPONSORIAL PSALM Luke 1:46-47.48-49.50 and 53.54-55(R. 54b) R/. The Lord has remembered his mercy. My soul magnifies the Lord, And my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour. R/. For he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden. For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed: for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name. R/. R/. The Lord has remembered his mercy. And his mercy is on those who fear him from generation to generation. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent empty away. R/. He has helped his servant Israel, in remembrance of his mercy, as he spoke to our fathers, to Abraham and to his posterity for ever. R/. ALLELUIA Matthew 8:17 Alleluia. Christ took our infirmities and bore our diseases. Alleluia. -GOSPEL- “Many will come from east and west and sit at table with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.” A reading from the holy Gospel according to Matthew (Matthew 8:5-17) At that time: As Jesus entered Capernaum, a centurion came forward to him, begging him and saying, “Lord, my servant is lying paralysed at home, in terrible distress.” And he said to him, “I will come and heal him.” But the centurion answered him, “Lord, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof; but only say the word, and my servant will be healed. For I am a man under authority, with soldiers under me; and I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes, and to another, ‘Come,’ and he comes, and to my slave, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.” When Jesus heard him, he marvelled, and said to those who followed him, “Truly, I say to you, not even in Israel have I found such faith. I tell you, many will come from east and west and sit at table with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven, while the sons of the kingdom will be thrown into the outer darkness; there men will weep and quash their teeth.” And to the centurion Jesus said, “Go; let it be done for you as you have believed.” And the servant was healed at that very moment. And when Jesus entered Peter’s house, he saw his mother-in-law lying sick with a fever; he touched her hand, and the fever left her, and she rose and served him. That evening they brought to him many who were possessed with demons; and he cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sick. This was to fulfil what was spoken by the prophet Isaiah, “He took our infirmities and bore our diseases.” The Gospel of the Lord. Today’s Reflection The humility of the centurion is noteworthy. His expression has been imprinted on our hearts through our Eucharistic worship when we pray: “Lord, I am not worthy to receive you…” Apart from humility, we see in the centurion the extraordinary love of one who goes to Jesus on behalf of a servant. We see his great respect; his awareness that a Jew who entered his home would be considered as defiled. We see a wise person making good use of his own experience in coming to understand others. Finally, we see the quality that amazes Jesus: his faith. We can discern a composite of virtues in the centurion. Let us reflect in gratitude upon our own stores of these qualities of heart, mind, reason and will, and how we might use them more creatively to build God’s Kingdom. Personal Devotional “For by the blood of Christ we are set free, that is, our sins are forgiven. How great is the grace of God” Ephesians 1: 7 - I loose myself from all heart attacks rooted in fear, and I command all spirits of fear to leave in the name of Jesus. - I loose myself from all diabetes rooted in rejection, self-hatred, ancestral inheritance, and guilt in the name of Jesus. - I break all causes of sickness and diseases, and I command all hereditary spirits of sickness of come out of me in the name of Jesus. - I paralyze every activities of evil parasites, immune destroyers, demonic wasters and health devourers in my life in the name of Jesus. Let Us Pray Teach us, good Lord, to serve you as you deserve; to give and not to count the cost; to fight and not to heed the wounds; to toil and not to seek for rest; to labour and not ask for any reward, save that of knowing that we do your will. Amen. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ VIGIL OF S. PETER AND S. PAUL, AP. At the vigil Mass This Mass is used on the evening of 28 June, either before or after First Vespers (Evening Prayer 1) of the Solemnity. Entrance Antiphon Peter the Apostle, and Paul the teacher of the Gentiles, these have taught us your law, O Lord. Collect Grant, we pray, O Lord our God, that we may be sustained by the intercession of the blessed Apostles Peter and Paul, that, as through them you gave your Church the foundations of her heavenly office, so through them you may help her to eternal salvation. Through our Lord.. -FIRST READING- A reading from the Acts of the Apostles (Acts 3:1 -10) “I give you what I have, in the name of Jesus, rise and walk.” In those days: Peter and John were going up to the temple at the hour of prayer, the ninth hour. And a man lame from birth was being carried, whom they laid daily at that gate of the temple which is called Beautiful to ask alms of those who entered the temple. Seeing Peter and John about to go into the temple, he asked for alms. And Peter directed his gaze at him, with John, and said, “Look at us.” And he fixed his attention upon them, expecting to receive something from them. But Peter said, “I have no silver and gold, but I give you what I have; in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise and walk.” And he took him by the right hand and raised him up; and immediately his feet and ankles were made strong. And leaping up he stood and walked and entered the temple with them, walking and leaping and praising God. And all the people saw him walking and praising God, and recognised him as the one who sat for alms at the Beautiful Gate of the temple; and they were filled with wonder and amazement at what had happened to him. The word of the Lord. RESPONSORIAL PSALM Psalm19:2-3.4-5 (R. 5a) R/. Their sound goes forth through all the earth. The heavens declare the glory of God, and the firmament proclaims the work of his hands. Day unto day conveys the message and night unto night imparts the knowledge. R/. No speech, no word, whose voice goes unheeded; their sound goes forth through all the earth, their message to the utmost bounds of the world. R/. -SECOND READING- A reading from the Letter of Saint Paul to the Galatians (Galatians 1:11-20) “God set me apart before I was born.” Brethren: I would have you know that the Gospel which was preached by me is not man’s gospel. For I did not receive it from man, nor was I taught it, but it came through a revelation of Jesus Christ. For you have heard of my former life in Judaism, how I persecuted the Church of God violently and tried to destroy it; and I advanced in Judaism beyond many of my own age among my people, so extremely zealous was I for the traditions of my fathers. But when he who had set me apart before I was born, and had called me through his grace, was pleased to reveal his Son to me, in order that I might preach him among the Gentiles, I did not confer with flesh and blood, nor did I go up to Jerusalem to those who were apostles before me, but I went away into Arabia; and again I returned to Damascus. Then after three years I went up to Jerusalem to visit Cephas, and remained with him fifteen days. But I saw none of the other apostles except James the Lord’s brother. (In what I am writing to you, before God, I do not lie!) The word of the Lord. ALLELUIA John 21 .17d Alleluia. Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you. Alleluia. -GOSPEL- A reading from the holy Gospel according to John (John 21:15-19) “Feed my lambs, feed my sheep.” When [Jesus had revealed himself to his disciples and] they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” A second time he said to him, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you fastened your own belt and walked where you would; but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will fasten your belt for you and bring you where you do not wish to go.” (This he said to show by what death he was to glorify God.) And after this he said to him, “Follow me.” The Gospel of the Lord. Appreciation God Bless you Financial appeal We appreciate your support and contributions for the propagation of God's word You can also support us to evangelize by donating to this mission. God bless you. Account Name: OBTech Missal Account No. 5404019432 PROVIDUS BANK (NGN) Account No. 5404033159 PROVIDUS BANK (USD). Swift Code: UMPLNGLA Or donate directly here Email Address Amount Naira (NGN) PRAYER FOR NIGERIA IN DISTRESS All powerful and merciful Father, You are the God of justice, love and peace. You rule over the nations of the earth. Power and might are in your hands and no one can withstand you. We present our country Nigeria before you. We praise and thank you for you are the source of all we have and are. We are sorry for all the sins we have committed and for the good deeds we have failed to do. In your loving forgiveness, keep us safe from the punishment we deserve. Lord, we are weighed down not only by uncertainties, but also by moral, economic and political problems. Listen to the cries of your people who confidently turn to you, Our God of infinite goodness, our strength in adversity, our health in weakness, our comfort in sorrow; be merciful to us your people. Spare this nation Nigeria from chaos, anarchy and doom. Bless us with your kingdom of justice, love and peace. We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
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  • Friday June 27, 2025

    Sacred Heart of Jesus (Solemnity)

    Office: Prop., Te Deum

    Mass Proper; Gloria. Creed.

    Preface of Sacred Heart

    Vestment: White

    Today’s Rosary: Sorrowful Mystery

    Vespers II of the Most Sacred Heart

    World day of prayer for the sanctification of priests.

    -FIRST READING-

    A reading from the Book of the Prophet Ezekiel (Ezekiel 34:11—16)

    “I will be the shepherd of my sheep, and I will make them lie down.”

    “Thus says the Lord God: Behold, I, I myself will search for my sheep, and will seek them out. As a shepherd seeks out his flock when some of his sheep have been scattered abroad, so will I seek out my sheep; and I will rescue them from all places where they have been scattered on a day of clouds and thick darkness. And I will bring them out from the peoples, and gather them from the countries, and will bring them into their own land; and I will feed them on the mountains of Israel, by the fountains, and in all the inhabited places of the country. I will feed them with good pasture, and upon the mountain heights of Israel shall be their pasture; there they shall lie down in good grazing land, and on fat pasture they shall feed on the mountains of Israel. I myself will be the shepherd of my sheep, and I will make them lie down, says the Lord GOD. I will seek the lost, and I will bring back the strayed, and I will bind up the crippled, and I will strengthen the weak, and the fat and the strong I will watch over; I will feed them in justice.”

    The word of the Lord.

    RESPONSORIAL PSALM Psalm 23:1-3a.3b-4.5.6 (R. 1)

    R/. The Lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want.

    The Lord is my shepherd;
    there is nothing I shall want.
    Fresh and green are the pastures
    where he gives me repose.
    Near restful waters he leads me;
    he revives my soul. R/.

    He guides me along the right path,
    for the sake of his name.
    Though I should walk in the valley of the shadow of death,
    no evil would I fear, for you are with me.
    Your crook and your staff will give me comfort. R/.

    R/. The Lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want.

    You have prepared a table before me
    in the sight of my foes.
    My head you have anointed with oil;
    my cup is overflowing. R/.

    Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
    all the days of my life.
    In the Lord’s own house shall I dwell
    for length of days unending. R/.

    -SECOND READING-

    A reading from the Letter of Saint Paul to the Romans (Romans 5:5b- 11)

    “God shows his love for us.

    Brethren: God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. While we were yet helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. Why, one will hardly die for a righteous man — though perhaps for a good man one will dare even to die. But God shows his love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us. Since, therefore, we are now justified by his blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God. For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life. Not only so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received our reconciliation.

    The word of the Lord.

    ALLELUIA Matthew 11:29ab

    Alleluia. Take my yoke upon you, says the Lord, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart. Alleluia.

    Or the following: John 10:14

    Alleluia. I am the good shepherd, says the Lord; I know my own, and my own know me. Alleluia.

    -GOSPEL-

    A reading from the holy Gospel according to Luke (Luke 15:3-7)

    Share my joy. I have found my lost sheep.

    At that time: Jesus told the Pharisees and the scribes this parable: “What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost, until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing. And when he comes home, he calls together his friends and his neighbours, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep which was lost. ’ Just so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance.”

    The Gospel of the Lord.

    PRAYER OF THE FAITHFUL

    Celebrant:

    Gathered as one body of Christ on this solemnity of the sacred heart of Jesus, let us pray that our hearts may be filled with a sincere love for God and one another.

    FOR THE LEADERS OF THE CHURCH: That they, aware of their missionary identity, may strive to follow Christ faithfully and to proclaim his gospel to all peoples. Let us pray to the lord.

    FOR CIVIL LEADERS: that they may strive towards building a nation in which the freedom of each person to worship according to the dictates of his or her conscience is guaranteed. Let us pray to the Lord.

    FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LOST FAITH CHRIST: that they, like the lost sheep, may be redirected to the heart of Jesus, where they will dwell forever. Let us pray to the Lord.

    FOR OUR CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY: that we may hunger and thirst for Jesus in the most holy Eucharist and be fed and nourished by him. Let us pray to the Lord.

    FOR OTHER INTENTIONS: (the sick, church projects or other activities).

    FOR THE DEAD, ESPECIALLY THOSE OF OUR PARISH COMMUNITY AND FAMILY MEMBERS: that they may find eternal rest with the Lord. We pray O Lord.

    We pray in silence for our private intentions.

    Celebrant:

    God our Father, you are king and most high over all the earth. Graciously hear the prayers we offer to you and grant that we may always enjoy the inexhaustible graces that flow from the sacred heart of Jesus. Through Christ our Lord.

    R/. Amen.


    TODAY’S REFLECTION

    In today’s Gospel, the good shepherd goes in search of the lost sheep, and, after finding it, rejoices with his neighbours. Through this parable, Jesus reveals his compassionate love towards those who go astray.

    The Sacred Heart of Jesus is also a symbol of God’s tender love, compassion and mercy. Although we claim to have faith in the Sacred Heart, we sometimes hold the mistaken belief that God is like a policeman, watching our every move and punishing us when we fail.

    Our devotion to the sacred Heart of Jesus should lead us rather to trust more in the love and forgiveness of God, who desires our salvation and well- being. As disciples of Christ, we should also make an effort to become more compassionate and forgiving towards those who go astray.

    PERSONAL DEVOTIONAL

    “But because of our sins he was wounded, beaten because of the evil we did. We are healed by the punishment he suffered, made whole by the blows he received.” Isaiah 53:5

    - Pray for God to give you the grace to accept the reality of persecution in Christian faith.

    - Father, destroy every spirit of fear in my life.

    - O Lord Jesus, banish every ignorance and sentiments within me that makes me to get discouraged when persecution comes.

    Dear Lord, do not let me be separated from you because of hardship, persecution, hunger, poverty, danger or death. Help me to remain faithful to you. (Pray seriously).

    Let Us Pray,

    O Christ Jesus, when all is darkness, and we feel our weakness and helplessness, give us to have perfect trust in your protecting love and strengthening power, so that nothing may frighten or worry us, for, living close to you, we shall see your hand, your purpose, your will through all things.

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    PRAYER FOR NIGERIA IN DISTRESS

    All powerful and merciful Father,
    You are the God of justice, love and peace.
    You rule over the nations of the earth.
    Power and might are in your hands and no one can withstand you.
    We present our country Nigeria before you.
    We praise and thank you for you are the source of all we have and are.
    We are sorry for all the sins we have committed
    and for the good deeds we have failed to do.
    In your loving forgiveness,
    keep us safe from the punishment we deserve.
    Lord, we are weighed down not only by uncertainties,
    but also by moral, economic and political problems.
    Listen to the cries of your people who confidently turn to you,
    Our God of infinite goodness,
    our strength in adversity,
    our health in weakness,
    our comfort in sorrow;
    be merciful to us your people.
    Spare this nation Nigeria from chaos, anarchy and doom.
    Bless us with your kingdom of justice, love and peace.
    We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord.
    Amen.
    Friday June 27, 2025 Sacred Heart of Jesus (Solemnity) Office: Prop., Te Deum Mass Proper; Gloria. Creed. Preface of Sacred Heart Vestment: White Today’s Rosary: Sorrowful Mystery Vespers II of the Most Sacred Heart World day of prayer for the sanctification of priests. -FIRST READING- A reading from the Book of the Prophet Ezekiel (Ezekiel 34:11—16) “I will be the shepherd of my sheep, and I will make them lie down.” “Thus says the Lord God: Behold, I, I myself will search for my sheep, and will seek them out. As a shepherd seeks out his flock when some of his sheep have been scattered abroad, so will I seek out my sheep; and I will rescue them from all places where they have been scattered on a day of clouds and thick darkness. And I will bring them out from the peoples, and gather them from the countries, and will bring them into their own land; and I will feed them on the mountains of Israel, by the fountains, and in all the inhabited places of the country. I will feed them with good pasture, and upon the mountain heights of Israel shall be their pasture; there they shall lie down in good grazing land, and on fat pasture they shall feed on the mountains of Israel. I myself will be the shepherd of my sheep, and I will make them lie down, says the Lord GOD. I will seek the lost, and I will bring back the strayed, and I will bind up the crippled, and I will strengthen the weak, and the fat and the strong I will watch over; I will feed them in justice.” The word of the Lord. RESPONSORIAL PSALM Psalm 23:1-3a.3b-4.5.6 (R. 1) R/. The Lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want. The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want. Fresh and green are the pastures where he gives me repose. Near restful waters he leads me; he revives my soul. R/. He guides me along the right path, for the sake of his name. Though I should walk in the valley of the shadow of death, no evil would I fear, for you are with me. Your crook and your staff will give me comfort. R/. R/. The Lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want. You have prepared a table before me in the sight of my foes. My head you have anointed with oil; my cup is overflowing. R/. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life. In the Lord’s own house shall I dwell for length of days unending. R/. -SECOND READING- A reading from the Letter of Saint Paul to the Romans (Romans 5:5b- 11) “God shows his love for us. Brethren: God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. While we were yet helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. Why, one will hardly die for a righteous man — though perhaps for a good man one will dare even to die. But God shows his love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us. Since, therefore, we are now justified by his blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God. For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life. Not only so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received our reconciliation. The word of the Lord. ALLELUIA Matthew 11:29ab Alleluia. Take my yoke upon you, says the Lord, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart. Alleluia. Or the following: John 10:14 Alleluia. I am the good shepherd, says the Lord; I know my own, and my own know me. Alleluia. -GOSPEL- A reading from the holy Gospel according to Luke (Luke 15:3-7) Share my joy. I have found my lost sheep. At that time: Jesus told the Pharisees and the scribes this parable: “What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost, until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing. And when he comes home, he calls together his friends and his neighbours, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep which was lost. ’ Just so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance.” The Gospel of the Lord. PRAYER OF THE FAITHFUL Celebrant: Gathered as one body of Christ on this solemnity of the sacred heart of Jesus, let us pray that our hearts may be filled with a sincere love for God and one another. FOR THE LEADERS OF THE CHURCH: That they, aware of their missionary identity, may strive to follow Christ faithfully and to proclaim his gospel to all peoples. Let us pray to the lord. FOR CIVIL LEADERS: that they may strive towards building a nation in which the freedom of each person to worship according to the dictates of his or her conscience is guaranteed. Let us pray to the Lord. FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LOST FAITH CHRIST: that they, like the lost sheep, may be redirected to the heart of Jesus, where they will dwell forever. Let us pray to the Lord. FOR OUR CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY: that we may hunger and thirst for Jesus in the most holy Eucharist and be fed and nourished by him. Let us pray to the Lord. FOR OTHER INTENTIONS: (the sick, church projects or other activities). FOR THE DEAD, ESPECIALLY THOSE OF OUR PARISH COMMUNITY AND FAMILY MEMBERS: that they may find eternal rest with the Lord. We pray O Lord. We pray in silence for our private intentions. Celebrant: God our Father, you are king and most high over all the earth. Graciously hear the prayers we offer to you and grant that we may always enjoy the inexhaustible graces that flow from the sacred heart of Jesus. Through Christ our Lord. R/. Amen. TODAY’S REFLECTION In today’s Gospel, the good shepherd goes in search of the lost sheep, and, after finding it, rejoices with his neighbours. Through this parable, Jesus reveals his compassionate love towards those who go astray. The Sacred Heart of Jesus is also a symbol of God’s tender love, compassion and mercy. Although we claim to have faith in the Sacred Heart, we sometimes hold the mistaken belief that God is like a policeman, watching our every move and punishing us when we fail. Our devotion to the sacred Heart of Jesus should lead us rather to trust more in the love and forgiveness of God, who desires our salvation and well- being. As disciples of Christ, we should also make an effort to become more compassionate and forgiving towards those who go astray. PERSONAL DEVOTIONAL “But because of our sins he was wounded, beaten because of the evil we did. We are healed by the punishment he suffered, made whole by the blows he received.” Isaiah 53:5 - Pray for God to give you the grace to accept the reality of persecution in Christian faith. - Father, destroy every spirit of fear in my life. - O Lord Jesus, banish every ignorance and sentiments within me that makes me to get discouraged when persecution comes. Dear Lord, do not let me be separated from you because of hardship, persecution, hunger, poverty, danger or death. Help me to remain faithful to you. (Pray seriously). Let Us Pray, O Christ Jesus, when all is darkness, and we feel our weakness and helplessness, give us to have perfect trust in your protecting love and strengthening power, so that nothing may frighten or worry us, for, living close to you, we shall see your hand, your purpose, your will through all things. Appreciation God Bless you Financial appeal We appreciate your support and contributions for the propagation of God's word You can also support us to evangelize by donating to this mission. God bless you. Account Name: OBTech Missal Account No. 5404019432 PROVIDUS BANK (NGN) Account No. 5404033159 PROVIDUS BANK (USD). Swift Code: UMPLNGLA Or donate directly here Email Address Amount Naira (NGN) PRAYER FOR NIGERIA IN DISTRESS All powerful and merciful Father, You are the God of justice, love and peace. You rule over the nations of the earth. Power and might are in your hands and no one can withstand you. We present our country Nigeria before you. We praise and thank you for you are the source of all we have and are. We are sorry for all the sins we have committed and for the good deeds we have failed to do. In your loving forgiveness, keep us safe from the punishment we deserve. Lord, we are weighed down not only by uncertainties, but also by moral, economic and political problems. Listen to the cries of your people who confidently turn to you, Our God of infinite goodness, our strength in adversity, our health in weakness, our comfort in sorrow; be merciful to us your people. Spare this nation Nigeria from chaos, anarchy and doom. Bless us with your kingdom of justice, love and peace. We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
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  • Affordable Land in Awka For Sale – Alexander Estate, Enugu Expressway | N9M PROMO PRICE!

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  • 27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG-LASTING MARRIAGE

    Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc.
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate, and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage, and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance, which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, pray together & pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus' name
    27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG-LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖 Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc. Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate, and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage, and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance, which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, pray together & pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus' name
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  • Affordable Land For Sale in Lekki – Galaxy Residence Estate, Baba-Adisa

    GALAXY RESIDENCE – Where Luxury Meets Opportunity!

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    This estate offers 600sqm Freehold plots in one of Lagos’ most promising corridors. Whether you're buying to build or invest, Galaxy Residence is your ultimate destination.

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  • *"What the Rich Invest in, That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!"*
    *By Robert Kiyosaki*

    This powerful book explores key investment mindsets and strategies that set the wealthy apart. Here are *10 game-changing lessons* from Kiyosaki:

    *1. Invest in Financial Education*
    Wealth starts with knowledge. Continuously learn about money, markets, and investments. Financial literacy is your foundation.

    *2. Think Like an Investor*
    See opportunities where others see problems. Train your mind to seek value, not just income.

    *3. Know the Difference Between Assets & Liabilities*
    Assets put money in your pocket. Liabilities take it out. Focus on acquiring cash-generating assets.

    *4. Prioritize Cash Flow*
    Wealthy people invest for consistent income — not just appreciation. Think rental properties, businesses, and dividends.

    *5. Embrace Risk, Manage It Wisely*
    Fear keeps most people poor. Learn to evaluate and manage risk. The bigger the calculated risk, the bigger the potential return.

    *6. Build a Strong Network*
    Your circle matters. Connect with mentors, investors, and thinkers who elevate your mindset and open doors.

    *7. Use Leverage Strategically*
    Rich people use debt smartly — not recklessly. Leverage can multiply your growth if you understand it well.

    *8. Prepare for Market Volatility*
    Ups and downs are normal. Have a long-term view, stay informed, and don’t let fear ruin your strategy.

    *9. Start Small, Then Scale*
    Begin with what you can afford. Learn by doing, and grow as you gain confidence and experience.

    *10. Have a Financial Plan*
    Wealth doesn’t happen by accident. Set clear goals, monitor your progress, and adjust as needed.

    *Takeaway:*
    The rich don’t just work for money — they make money work for them.
    The difference isn’t income, it’s *mindset*.
    *"What the Rich Invest in, That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!"* 📚 *By Robert Kiyosaki* This powerful book explores key investment mindsets and strategies that set the wealthy apart. Here are *10 game-changing lessons* from Kiyosaki: *1. Invest in Financial Education* Wealth starts with knowledge. Continuously learn about money, markets, and investments. Financial literacy is your foundation. *2. Think Like an Investor* See opportunities where others see problems. Train your mind to seek value, not just income. *3. Know the Difference Between Assets & Liabilities* Assets put money in your pocket. Liabilities take it out. Focus on acquiring cash-generating assets. *4. Prioritize Cash Flow* Wealthy people invest for consistent income — not just appreciation. Think rental properties, businesses, and dividends. *5. Embrace Risk, Manage It Wisely* Fear keeps most people poor. Learn to evaluate and manage risk. The bigger the calculated risk, the bigger the potential return. *6. Build a Strong Network* Your circle matters. Connect with mentors, investors, and thinkers who elevate your mindset and open doors. *7. Use Leverage Strategically* Rich people use debt smartly — not recklessly. Leverage can multiply your growth if you understand it well. *8. Prepare for Market Volatility* Ups and downs are normal. Have a long-term view, stay informed, and don’t let fear ruin your strategy. *9. Start Small, Then Scale* Begin with what you can afford. Learn by doing, and grow as you gain confidence and experience. *10. Have a Financial Plan* Wealth doesn’t happen by accident. Set clear goals, monitor your progress, and adjust as needed. *Takeaway:* The rich don’t just work for money — they make money work for them. The difference isn’t income, it’s *mindset*.
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  • *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.*

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name

    Kindly share..
    *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.* No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..
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  • My Profound Appreciation goes to our Amiable CEO Gada.Chat for this great initiative!
    My Profound Appreciation goes to our Amiable CEO Gada.Chat for this great initiative!
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  • As our loved ones age, it's essential to show them love, respect, and care. Taking care of the elderly involves:

    1. Providing physical support and assistance
    2. Listening to their stories and experiences
    3. Offering emotional support and companionship
    4. Ensuring their safety and well-being
    5. Showing gratitude for their wisdom and contributions

    By caring for the elderly, we demonstrate our love and appreciation for the generations that came before us.

    JB WORLD.
    As our loved ones age, it's essential to show them love, respect, and care. Taking care of the elderly involves: 1. Providing physical support and assistance 2. Listening to their stories and experiences 3. Offering emotional support and companionship 4. Ensuring their safety and well-being 5. Showing gratitude for their wisdom and contributions By caring for the elderly, we demonstrate our love and appreciation for the generations that came before us. JB WORLD.
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  • Prayer works because it's a powerful way to connect with a higher power, find solace, and seek guidance. Through prayer, we can:

    1. Express gratitude and appreciation
    2. Seek comfort and strength in times of need
    3. Ask for guidance and wisdom
    4. Find peace and calm in turbulent times

    Prayer can bring hope, healing, and transformation, reminding us that we're not alone.

    JB WORLD.
    Prayer works because it's a powerful way to connect with a higher power, find solace, and seek guidance. Through prayer, we can: 1. Express gratitude and appreciation 2. Seek comfort and strength in times of need 3. Ask for guidance and wisdom 4. Find peace and calm in turbulent times Prayer can bring hope, healing, and transformation, reminding us that we're not alone. JB WORLD.
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  • IMPORTANCE OF SAYING SORRY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG

    Apologizing is an essential part of maintaining a healthy, strong, and resilient relationship or marriage. It serves as a bridge to healing, restoring trust, and building a deeper connection with your partner. Here’s why saying sorry is so important:

    WHY APOLOGIZE?

    1. Acknowledges hurt or wrongdoing
    An apology signals that you recognize the pain or harm caused by your actions, showing that you care about how your partner feels.

    2. Shows empathy and understanding
    It reflects an understanding of your partner's perspective and emotions, demonstrating that you value their feelings.

    3. Diffuses tension and conflict
    Apologizing helps to de-escalate difficult situations, calming emotions and clearing the air for healthy communication.

    4. Rebuilds trust and credibility
    A sincere apology demonstrates your willingness to take responsibility for your actions, which helps rebuild lost trust and re-establish credibility in your relationship.

    5. Demonstrates accountability and responsibility
    Apologizing shows you are accountable for your actions, accepting responsibility rather than deflecting blame.

    6. Encourages forgiveness and healing
    Saying sorry opens the door to forgiveness, allowing both partners to move forward and heal together.

    7. Strengthens communication and intimacy
    Apologizing fosters open, honest conversations, deepening emotional intimacy and mutual understanding.

    8. Sets a positive example for conflict resolution
    By apologizing, you teach the importance of humility, reconciliation, and healthy conflict resolution to others, especially children or those observing your relationship.

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    BENEFITS OF APOLOGIZING

    1. Reduces stress and anxiety
    Apologies clear the air, easing emotional tension and creating a more peaceful environment.

    2. Increases feelings of love and affection
    A heartfelt apology can rekindle affection, making your partner feel valued and loved, even after a disagreement.

    3. Improves communication and understanding
    Apologizing encourages open dialogue and helps both partners understand each other better, leading to stronger communication.

    4. Enhances relationship satisfaction
    Relationships where apologies are given sincerely are more likely to be fulfilling and positive.

    5. Encourages personal growth and self-awareness
    Apologizing invites self-reflection, allowing both partners to learn from their mistakes and grow individually and together.

    6. Fosters a culture of respect and empathy
    By apologizing, you reinforce a culture where mutual respect and empathy thrive, making the relationship a safe space for both partners.

    7. Helps to avoid resentment and anger
    Avoiding the “silent treatment” or holding grudges, a genuine apology helps to prevent negative emotions from building up over time.

    8. Promotes a healthier and happier relationship
    Relationships that feature regular, honest apologies are healthier and more likely to be enduring because they are rooted in love and respect.

    HOW TO APOLOGIZE EFFECTIVELY
    4
    1. Use the "3 Rs" of apology: Regret, Responsibility, and Remedy
    Regret the hurt caused, take responsibility for your actions, and suggest a remedy for moving forward.

    2. Be sincere and genuine in your apology
    Authenticity is key. A half-hearted apology can often do more harm than good.

    3. Listen actively to your partner's concerns
    Give your partner space to express their feelings and truly listen without interrupting or defending yourself.

    4. Validate your partner's feelings and experiences
    Acknowledge that your partner's feelings are valid, even if you didn’t intend to hurt them.

    5. Offer a specific solution or plan for change
    Demonstrate your commitment to improving by offering a clear solution or changes you’ll make moving forward.

    6. Follow through on your commitments
    An apology is only meaningful if it’s backed up by action. Ensure that you take steps to avoid repeating the same mistake.

    7. Show empathy and understanding
    Show that you truly understand how your actions have impacted your partner, not just in words but in actions as well.

    8. Be patient and open to feedback
    Healing takes time. Be patient with your partner and open to hearing how they feel, even if it takes time to forgive.

    TIPS FOR MEN

    1. Swallow your pride and admit fault
    It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong. Let go of your ego to foster a deeper connection.

    2. Use "I" statements to take ownership
    Phrases like “I am sorry for…” rather than “You made me do…” put the responsibility on you.

    3. Avoid making excuses or justifying
    Resist the urge to explain away the mistake. Just apologize and focus on your partner’s feelings.

    4. Show vulnerability and emotional intelligence
    Being open about your emotions builds trust and shows that you care about your partner's feelings.

    5. Be willing to make amends
    Your partner should feel that your apology is sincere, so be prepared to make real changes if necessary.



    TIPS FOR WOMEN

    1. Communicate clearly and assertively
    Share your feelings honestly and directly, avoiding passive-aggressive behavior or withholding.

    2. Specify what you need from your partner
    Let your partner know what will help resolve the issue or what you need moving forward.

    3. Avoid being critical or judgmental
    Offer a soft, loving approach when addressing the issue, rather than criticizing or pointing fingers.

    4. Show appreciation for your partner's apology
    When your partner apologizes, acknowledge their effort and express gratitude for their sincerity.

    5. Encourage open and honest communication
    Foster a space where both partners can freely express their feelings without fear of judgment.

    WHEN TO APOLOGIZE

    1. After a conflict or argument
    Don’t wait for too long to apologize. Address the issue as soon as possible to prevent lingering resentment.

    2. When you've hurt or offended your partner
    If your words or actions have caused pain, it’s important to recognize that and apologize immediately.

    3. When you've made a mistake or error
    A simple acknowledgment that you were wrong goes a long way in healing wounds.

    4. When you've broken a promise or commitment
    If you’ve failed to keep your word, apologize and demonstrate that you can be trusted moving forward.

    5. When you've disregarded your partner's feelings
    Apologizing when you’ve been insensitive shows respect for your partner's emotional well-being.

    Saying sorry isn’t just about saying words; it’s about understanding, acknowledging, and healing. By apologizing effectively, you strengthen your relationship, deepen trust, and build a stronger foundation for the future.
    IMPORTANCE OF SAYING SORRY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG Apologizing is an essential part of maintaining a healthy, strong, and resilient relationship or marriage. It serves as a bridge to healing, restoring trust, and building a deeper connection with your partner. Here’s why saying sorry is so important: WHY APOLOGIZE? 🤔 1. Acknowledges hurt or wrongdoing An apology signals that you recognize the pain or harm caused by your actions, showing that you care about how your partner feels. 2. Shows empathy and understanding It reflects an understanding of your partner's perspective and emotions, demonstrating that you value their feelings. 3. Diffuses tension and conflict Apologizing helps to de-escalate difficult situations, calming emotions and clearing the air for healthy communication. 4. Rebuilds trust and credibility A sincere apology demonstrates your willingness to take responsibility for your actions, which helps rebuild lost trust and re-establish credibility in your relationship. 5. Demonstrates accountability and responsibility Apologizing shows you are accountable for your actions, accepting responsibility rather than deflecting blame. 6. Encourages forgiveness and healing Saying sorry opens the door to forgiveness, allowing both partners to move forward and heal together. 7. Strengthens communication and intimacy Apologizing fosters open, honest conversations, deepening emotional intimacy and mutual understanding. 8. Sets a positive example for conflict resolution By apologizing, you teach the importance of humility, reconciliation, and healthy conflict resolution to others, especially children or those observing your relationship. Follow this channel ✅ https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1K BENEFITS OF APOLOGIZING 🥰 1. Reduces stress and anxiety Apologies clear the air, easing emotional tension and creating a more peaceful environment. 2. Increases feelings of love and affection A heartfelt apology can rekindle affection, making your partner feel valued and loved, even after a disagreement. 3. Improves communication and understanding Apologizing encourages open dialogue and helps both partners understand each other better, leading to stronger communication. 4. Enhances relationship satisfaction Relationships where apologies are given sincerely are more likely to be fulfilling and positive. 5. Encourages personal growth and self-awareness Apologizing invites self-reflection, allowing both partners to learn from their mistakes and grow individually and together. 6. Fosters a culture of respect and empathy By apologizing, you reinforce a culture where mutual respect and empathy thrive, making the relationship a safe space for both partners. 7. Helps to avoid resentment and anger Avoiding the “silent treatment” or holding grudges, a genuine apology helps to prevent negative emotions from building up over time. 8. Promotes a healthier and happier relationship Relationships that feature regular, honest apologies are healthier and more likely to be enduring because they are rooted in love and respect. HOW TO APOLOGIZE EFFECTIVELY 🙏 4 1. Use the "3 Rs" of apology: Regret, Responsibility, and Remedy Regret the hurt caused, take responsibility for your actions, and suggest a remedy for moving forward. 2. Be sincere and genuine in your apology Authenticity is key. A half-hearted apology can often do more harm than good. 3. Listen actively to your partner's concerns Give your partner space to express their feelings and truly listen without interrupting or defending yourself. 4. Validate your partner's feelings and experiences Acknowledge that your partner's feelings are valid, even if you didn’t intend to hurt them. 5. Offer a specific solution or plan for change Demonstrate your commitment to improving by offering a clear solution or changes you’ll make moving forward. 6. Follow through on your commitments An apology is only meaningful if it’s backed up by action. Ensure that you take steps to avoid repeating the same mistake. 7. Show empathy and understanding Show that you truly understand how your actions have impacted your partner, not just in words but in actions as well. 8. Be patient and open to feedback Healing takes time. Be patient with your partner and open to hearing how they feel, even if it takes time to forgive. TIPS FOR MEN 🤜🤛 1. Swallow your pride and admit fault It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong. Let go of your ego to foster a deeper connection. 2. Use "I" statements to take ownership Phrases like “I am sorry for…” rather than “You made me do…” put the responsibility on you. 3. Avoid making excuses or justifying Resist the urge to explain away the mistake. Just apologize and focus on your partner’s feelings. 4. Show vulnerability and emotional intelligence Being open about your emotions builds trust and shows that you care about your partner's feelings. 5. Be willing to make amends Your partner should feel that your apology is sincere, so be prepared to make real changes if necessary. TIPS FOR WOMEN 👗 1. Communicate clearly and assertively Share your feelings honestly and directly, avoiding passive-aggressive behavior or withholding. 2. Specify what you need from your partner Let your partner know what will help resolve the issue or what you need moving forward. 3. Avoid being critical or judgmental Offer a soft, loving approach when addressing the issue, rather than criticizing or pointing fingers. 4. Show appreciation for your partner's apology When your partner apologizes, acknowledge their effort and express gratitude for their sincerity. 5. Encourage open and honest communication Foster a space where both partners can freely express their feelings without fear of judgment. WHEN TO APOLOGIZE 🤝 1. After a conflict or argument Don’t wait for too long to apologize. Address the issue as soon as possible to prevent lingering resentment. 2. When you've hurt or offended your partner If your words or actions have caused pain, it’s important to recognize that and apologize immediately. 3. When you've made a mistake or error A simple acknowledgment that you were wrong goes a long way in healing wounds. 4. When you've broken a promise or commitment If you’ve failed to keep your word, apologize and demonstrate that you can be trusted moving forward. 5. When you've disregarded your partner's feelings Apologizing when you’ve been insensitive shows respect for your partner's emotional well-being. Saying sorry isn’t just about saying words; it’s about understanding, acknowledging, and healing. By apologizing effectively, you strengthen your relationship, deepen trust, and build a stronger foundation for the future.
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