• Street photography
    lasu ojo lagos Nigeria

    #candidphotography #relateable #story #fyp #viral_video #lasu #streetphotography #photographers #nigerian
    Street photography lasu ojo lagos Nigeria 🇳🇬 #candidphotography #relateable #story #fyp #viral_video #lasu #streetphotography #photographers #nigerian
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  • Behold the essence of Tiv royalty — elegance draped in tradition, beauty wrapped in heritage.
    This breathtaking queen radiates grace and pride in the iconic black-and-white stripes of the Tiv A'nger — a fabric that speaks not just of fashion, but of identity, resilience, and rich cultural legacy.

    From the intricate gele (headwrap) that crowns her like royalty, to the bold jewelry and the symbolic horsetail, every detail tells the story of a people proud and unshaken. She is not just dressed in tradition — she embodies it.

    A true daughter of the soil. A vision of strength. A masterpiece of African beauty.
    #TivPride #BenueBeauty #AfricanRoyalty #TivCulture #TraditionAndElegance #NaijaNoDeyCarryLast #BlackAndWhiteBoldness #fypシ #fypシ#viralpost
    Behold the essence of Tiv royalty — elegance draped in tradition, beauty wrapped in heritage. This breathtaking queen radiates grace and pride in the iconic black-and-white stripes of the Tiv A'nger — a fabric that speaks not just of fashion, but of identity, resilience, and rich cultural legacy. From the intricate gele (headwrap) that crowns her like royalty, to the bold jewelry and the symbolic horsetail, every detail tells the story of a people proud and unshaken. She is not just dressed in tradition — she embodies it. A true daughter of the soil. A vision of strength. A masterpiece of African beauty. #TivPride #BenueBeauty #AfricanRoyalty #TivCulture #TraditionAndElegance #NaijaNoDeyCarryLast #BlackAndWhiteBoldness #fypシ #fypシ゚ #viralpost
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  • José Mourinho React After Being Handed 3 Match Ban And A Fine By The Turkish Federation For pinching The Nose of Galatasaray’s Coach Okan Buruk

    Jose respond after The Turkish Professional Football Disciplinary Board issued him a three-match ban along with a fine of 292,500 Turkish Lira £5,975 or $7,699

    He is also banned from entering the dressing room and the bench for the three official matches

    Mourinho -
    “This was not just a football rivalry, but an orchestrated effort to provoke our bench, our squad, our players, and our manager.”

    #NFF #EmpoweringOurGame #aj #virals #fyp #fypviral #SoarSuperFalcons #fyp #aj #fypシ#nigeria #canada #LaLiga #worldcup #AFCON
    #Leo #messi #CristianoRonaldo #EPL #LaLiga
    #Trending

    #AJTOTHEWORLD
    ♻️José Mourinho React After Being Handed 3 Match Ban And A Fine By The Turkish Federation For pinching The Nose of Galatasaray’s Coach Okan Buruk Jose respond after The Turkish Professional Football Disciplinary Board issued him a three-match ban along with a fine of 292,500 Turkish Lira £5,975 or $7,699 He is also banned from entering the dressing room and the bench for the three official matches Mourinho - “This was not just a football rivalry, but an orchestrated effort to provoke our bench, our squad, our players, and our manager.” #NFF #EmpoweringOurGame #aj #virals #fyp #fypviral #SoarSuperFalcons #fyp #aj #fypシ゚ #nigeria #canada #LaLiga #worldcup #AFCON #Leo #messi #CristianoRonaldo #EPL #LaLiga #Trending #AJTOTHEWORLD
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  • TYPES OF MEN WOMEN NEVER LEAVES

    1. A man who doesn’t give a f*ck

    When you’re unbothered, she’s obsessed.

    The second she realizes your world doesn’t revolve around her,

    She’ll do everything to stay in your orbit.

    2. A man who walks away without a second thought.

    Most men beg when she pulls away.

    You? You pack your sh*t and move on like she never mattered.

    That’s when she comes running back, crying about “missing you.”

    3. A man who treats her like an option.

    The guys who act like kings never chase.

    You text her back when you feel like it, take her out when you want,

    And she starts trying harder to “prove herself” to you.

    4. A man who keeps other women in her face.

    She’ll cry, throw fits, and call you a “player,

    But if she knows other women want you,

    She’ll never let you go—she’ll just fight harder for your attention.

    5. A man who checks her disloyalty the moment it happens.

    She flirts with some dude at the bar? You walk out without a word.

    She hides her phone? You cut her off for 3 days.

    She fears losing you more than she loves testing you.

    6. A man who treats her feelings like a suggestion, not a command.

    She cries about something dumb, and you say, “That’s life, babe.”

    She throws a tantrum, and you shrug.

    She stays because women love men who won’t bend to their bullsh*t.

    7. A man who never makes her the center of his world.

    You’ve got a grind, a mission, a life that doesn’t revolve around her.

    She sees your ambition and knows she’ll never find another man like you.

    She clings harder because she knows you’re going places: with or without her.

    8. A man who keeps her guessing.

    You’re unpredictable, and she never knows what you’ll say, do, or feel next.

    Women don’t leave excitement, they leave routine.

    Stay ahead of her mind games by keeping her on her toes.

    9. A man who doesn’t tolerate her fcking bullsht.

    She tries to guilt trip you? You laugh and say, “Not happening.”

    She threatens to leave? You open the door.

    Women crave boundaries from men who won’t fold.

    10. A man who’s always ready to replace her.

    You know your worth, so if she steps out of line,

    You’re already mentally moving on to the next girl.

    That unshakable confidence keeps her locked in and terrified of losing you.

    Follow this space if you want appreciate me.

    #YOURrelationshiptherapist #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚ #relationship #ChannelGrowth #abujaconnect #marriage #follower
    TYPES OF MEN WOMEN NEVER LEAVES 1. A man who doesn’t give a f*ck When you’re unbothered, she’s obsessed. The second she realizes your world doesn’t revolve around her, She’ll do everything to stay in your orbit. 2. A man who walks away without a second thought. Most men beg when she pulls away. You? You pack your sh*t and move on like she never mattered. That’s when she comes running back, crying about “missing you.” 3. A man who treats her like an option. The guys who act like kings never chase. You text her back when you feel like it, take her out when you want, And she starts trying harder to “prove herself” to you. 4. A man who keeps other women in her face. She’ll cry, throw fits, and call you a “player, But if she knows other women want you, She’ll never let you go—she’ll just fight harder for your attention. 5. A man who checks her disloyalty the moment it happens. She flirts with some dude at the bar? You walk out without a word. She hides her phone? You cut her off for 3 days. She fears losing you more than she loves testing you. 6. A man who treats her feelings like a suggestion, not a command. She cries about something dumb, and you say, “That’s life, babe.” She throws a tantrum, and you shrug. She stays because women love men who won’t bend to their bullsh*t. 7. A man who never makes her the center of his world. You’ve got a grind, a mission, a life that doesn’t revolve around her. She sees your ambition and knows she’ll never find another man like you. She clings harder because she knows you’re going places: with or without her. 8. A man who keeps her guessing. You’re unpredictable, and she never knows what you’ll say, do, or feel next. Women don’t leave excitement, they leave routine. Stay ahead of her mind games by keeping her on her toes. 9. A man who doesn’t tolerate her fcking bullsht. She tries to guilt trip you? You laugh and say, “Not happening.” She threatens to leave? You open the door. Women crave boundaries from men who won’t fold. 10. A man who’s always ready to replace her. You know your worth, so if she steps out of line, You’re already mentally moving on to the next girl. That unshakable confidence keeps her locked in and terrified of losing you. Follow this space if you want appreciate me. #YOURrelationshiptherapist #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚ #relationship #ChannelGrowth #abujaconnect #marriage #follower
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  • So I stumbled on this really sad news where a man had bea¥ his wife to death.

    Stories says that she already had two girls and gave birth for the third time... another girl and that's her only offense forgetting that what you put in there as a man is what you take out.

    He happens to be Igbo.

    So I remember recently I was talking with this highly educated Igbo Man who is my friend.

    His wife has 5 girls already and pregnant with a six child.

    And I told him jokingly, I know this last born will enjoy so much... with all these sisters to pamper him or her.

    And he said, how am I sure she's last born...it depends on it it's a boy.

    I said wow....so he will not stop giving birth until he has a boy child.

    He said to me...is that even a question to be asking him?
    He's a bonafide Igbo Man and what has he come to life to do it he doesn't have a boy child, so who will inherit all the fruit of the sweat and labour? It will just scatter with the wind like that? Noo na.

    I emphasized his educational level at the beginning intentionally for obvious reasons... that this is the mentality of a man who has a sound education, but can't help still with such archaic thinking.

    Rip to the deceased who's only crime was...not because she was barren, but not birthing a boy.

    Boy or girl, a child is a blessing and should accepted and raised in love and care and the woman who birth them should be adored and honoured.
    #trendingreels #reelsfypシ #viralvideoシ #endgbvnow #reelsfbシ #reelsviralシ #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚viralシalシ #foryoupageシforyou #reelsviralfb #reelsvideoシ #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚ #viralpost #focus
    So I stumbled on this really sad news where a man had bea¥ his wife to death. Stories says that she already had two girls and gave birth for the third time... another girl and that's her only offense forgetting that what you put in there as a man is what you take out. He happens to be Igbo. So I remember recently I was talking with this highly educated Igbo Man who is my friend. His wife has 5 girls already and pregnant with a six child. And I told him jokingly, I know this last born will enjoy so much... with all these sisters to pamper him or her. And he said, how am I sure she's last born...it depends on it it's a boy. I said wow....so he will not stop giving birth until he has a boy child. He said to me...is that even a question to be asking him? He's a bonafide Igbo Man and what has he come to life to do it he doesn't have a boy child, so who will inherit all the fruit of the sweat and labour? It will just scatter with the wind like that? Noo na. I emphasized his educational level at the beginning intentionally for obvious reasons... that this is the mentality of a man who has a sound education, but can't help still with such archaic thinking. Rip to the deceased who's only crime was...not because she was barren, but not birthing a boy. Boy or girl, a child is a blessing and should accepted and raised in love and care and the woman who birth them should be adored and honoured. #trendingreels #reelsfypシ #viralvideoシ #endgbvnow #reelsfbシ #reelsviralシ #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚viralシalシ #foryoupageシforyou #reelsviralfb #reelsvideoシ #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚ #viralpost #focus
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  • "No Title Is Worth Losing Your Dignity" – Police PRO Reacts To Natasha Akide Adopting 2Face's Surname.

    ‘’A man who easily replaces a woman will do it again. How he treats women is reflection of his character... My fellow gender, no title is worth losing your dignity over. If he left her for you, don’t celebrate just yet your turn may come. Protect your…” - The Federal Capital Territory (FCT) police Public Relations Officer (PRO), SP Josephine Adeh, has issued a strong message urging women to protect their dignity, following Natasha Osawaru’s decision to adopt the surname of Nigerian singer 2Face Idibia
    #viralpost2025シ #ttendingreels #viralpost2025 #viralreelsシ #fypviralシ #viralreelsfb #viralreelsfacebook #reelstrending #followersreels #trendingreels #trendingnow
    "No Title Is Worth Losing Your Dignity" – Police PRO Reacts To Natasha Akide Adopting 2Face's Surname. ‘’A man who easily replaces a woman will do it again. How he treats women is reflection of his character... My fellow gender, no title is worth losing your dignity over. If he left her for you, don’t celebrate just yet your turn may come. Protect your…” - The Federal Capital Territory (FCT) police Public Relations Officer (PRO), SP Josephine Adeh, has issued a strong message urging women to protect their dignity, following Natasha Osawaru’s decision to adopt the surname of Nigerian singer 2Face Idibia #viralpost2025シ #ttendingreels #viralpost2025 #viralreelsシ #fypviralシ #viralreelsfb #viralreelsfacebook #reelstrending #followersreels #trendingreels #trendingnow
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  • BREAKING News: Saudi Arabian club Al Ahli makes a staggering €1 BILLION offer to Vinicius Jr., but he's reportedly turned it down!

    The offer includes:

    - A €1 BILLION salary, 20 times his current one

    - €200M per year for 5 seasons

    - Free agency in 2029

    - Opportunity to return to Europe before age 30

    - A job in Saudi football after retirement

    - Ambassador for the 2034 World Cup

    Saudi Arabia will make a formal €400M offer to Real Madrid soon, aiming to make Vinicius the face of the Saudi Pro League. However, Vinicius wants to stay at Madrid and create his own legacy!

    #SaudiProLeague #saudiarabia #footballplayer #Vinicius #realmadrid #soccer #trending #fyp
    BREAKING News: Saudi Arabian club Al Ahli makes a staggering €1 BILLION offer to Vinicius Jr., but he's reportedly turned it down! The offer includes: - A €1 BILLION salary, 20 times his current one - €200M per year for 5 seasons - Free agency in 2029 - Opportunity to return to Europe before age 30 - A job in Saudi football after retirement - Ambassador for the 2034 World Cup Saudi Arabia will make a formal €400M offer to Real Madrid soon, aiming to make Vinicius the face of the Saudi Pro League. However, Vinicius wants to stay at Madrid and create his own legacy! #SaudiProLeague #saudiarabia #footballplayer #Vinicius #realmadrid #soccer #trending #fyp
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  • Afrobeats star Davido claims his U.S. passport is worth more than a million dollars, emphasizing the freedom it grants him to travel without restrictions. Born in Atlanta, he holds dual citizenship, which he values highly. Unlike his team members, who often struggle with visa delays, Davido enjoys seamless international travel.

    #eejeeajoowo #fypviralシ #highlights #highlighteveryone #highlightseveryonefollowers2025
    Afrobeats star Davido claims his U.S. passport is worth more than a million dollars, emphasizing the freedom it grants him to travel without restrictions. Born in Atlanta, he holds dual citizenship, which he values highly. Unlike his team members, who often struggle with visa delays, Davido enjoys seamless international travel. #eejeeajoowo #fypviralシ #highlights #highlighteveryone #highlightseveryonefollowers2025
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  • When we realize that Nosa rex is a big lover of yansh ....when I say yansh I mean the big ones ooo no be small yansh as in big bunda ..we decided to dedicate this beautiful portrait to him. As a solid reminder of his legacy in Nollywood... Hope we did a good job..?

    Moral lesson-Odogwu pararan wey no get money na slay queen ...hellooooooooo

    #tinglespicey #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #highlighteveryonefollowers #PulseViral #viralreelschallenge #mercyaigbe #nollywood #ayrastarr #viral
    When we realize that Nosa rex is a big lover of yansh ....when I say yansh I mean the big ones ooo 🤣 no be small yansh as in big bunda ..we decided to dedicate this beautiful portrait to him. As a solid reminder of his legacy in Nollywood... Hope we did a good job..? Moral lesson-Odogwu pararan wey no get money na slay queen ...hellooooooooo 🤣 #tinglespicey #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #highlighteveryonefollowers #PulseViral #viralreelschallenge #mercyaigbe #nollywood #ayrastarr #viral
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  • "In 2001, I had to stop acting because I was going through a lot. I got an opportunity to travel to London, and I took it. I needed to clear my head after losing my mom because I was the one taking care of them.

    While abroad, I worked as a caregiver, taking care of both the old and young. My parents were waiting for me to return, but sadly, my mom passed away before she could fully enjoy the fruits of my hard work. I miss her dearly.

    When I finally returned home, I had saved enough money to start a business before going back into acting. I have been through a lot in this life. Unless I tell you, you would never know.

    I didn’t succeed in a day, and that’s why I love helping others."— Rita Dominic

    May our parents be alive to reap the fruit of their labour

    #tinglespicey #labakeolododo #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #ayrastarr #viralreelschallenge #nollywood #highlightseveryonefollowers
    "In 2001, I had to stop acting because I was going through a lot. I got an opportunity to travel to London, and I took it. I needed to clear my head after losing my mom because I was the one taking care of them. While abroad, I worked as a caregiver, taking care of both the old and young. My parents were waiting for me to return, but sadly, my mom passed away before she could fully enjoy the fruits of my hard work. I miss her dearly. When I finally returned home, I had saved enough money to start a business before going back into acting. I have been through a lot in this life. Unless I tell you, you would never know. I didn’t succeed in a day, and that’s why I love helping others."— Rita Dominic May our parents be alive to reap the fruit of their labour 🌹❤️🖤 #tinglespicey #labakeolododo #fypシviralシ2025 #mazitundeednut #ayrastarr #viralreelschallenge #nollywood #highlightseveryonefollowers
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  • WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT,
    READ THIS AND LEARN.

    "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father.

    "What for son?", his father asked.

    "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost".

    Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé.

    "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked.

    "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered.

    His father held him by the shoulder and said
    "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room".
    "Yes dad", Kola obliged.
    Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room.
    "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's
    father asked.
    "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance.
    "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father.
    They sat down.
    "Thank you dad"
    "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father.
    "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé.
    "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola.
    "Why do you want to have a big wedding?",
    father asked.

    "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied.
    "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé.
    "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé.
    "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father.
    "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola.

    "How many true friends do you really have?",
    I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father.
    Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other.
    "Countable", the fiancé answered.
    "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father.
    Silence.
    "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father.

    "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola.
    "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a
    committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage"
    Silence.

    The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence.

    "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father.
    "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé.
    "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for?

    People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt?
    Marriage is what is more important than a
    wedding", continued the father.
    "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's
    okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is
    just you and me, not people".

    The father spoke, "My son, in all the years
    you have been a man, you have never come
    to me asking for money, but now you are
    asking for money to put up a show? I look
    further, I look at your marriage. I admire
    how people come together in a wedding
    committee to raise money and I wonder,
    what if couples and people use that same
    energy to put up a business that will uplift
    families. Those members who will be part of
    your wedding committee, imagine if they
    become your investors, imagine if you build
    a company where you can make profit and
    feed your homes. Something sustainable."
    Kola and his fiancé nodded.
    "My son, I have longed for the day you
    would come and ask me to invest in your
    business idea. But today I will make the first
    move", the father said taking his cheque
    book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé.

    "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million
    naira, not for your wedding but as start up
    capital for a business of your choice. I am
    giving the cheque to your wife because as
    the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk
    with you in building an empire for your
    family. Focus on your family, give your family
    the best; forget about the public and
    opinions of people who don't matter. Build
    a future for your family. Build your family on
    a foundation of surplus not debt".
    "Thank you so much" said the fiancé.
    Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His
    father stood up too. The father and son hugged.

    "Thank you dad for being a great figure and
    your counsel. I don't know what to say. You
    have challenged me not to merely get
    married but to have a vision, a vision for my
    family. I don't know what to say" he spoke.
    The father held his shoulder, "You will make
    a great husband and father. I wish I had the
    same counsel when I was getting married,
    all those people I fed on my wedding day
    didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I
    was to organize an event and feed
    multitudes, I would do so for the less
    fortunate and those in need.

    Marriage is not for show.
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    WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, READ THIS AND LEARN. "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father. "What for son?", his father asked. "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost". Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé. "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked. "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered. His father held him by the shoulder and said "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room". "Yes dad", Kola obliged. Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room. "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's father asked. "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance. "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father. They sat down. "Thank you dad" "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father. "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé. "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola. "Why do you want to have a big wedding?", father asked. "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied. "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé. "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé. "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father. "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola. "How many true friends do you really have?", I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father. Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other. "Countable", the fiancé answered. "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father. Silence. "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father. "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola. "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage" Silence. The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence. "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father. "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé. "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for? People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt? Marriage is what is more important than a wedding", continued the father. "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is just you and me, not people". The father spoke, "My son, in all the years you have been a man, you have never come to me asking for money, but now you are asking for money to put up a show? I look further, I look at your marriage. I admire how people come together in a wedding committee to raise money and I wonder, what if couples and people use that same energy to put up a business that will uplift families. Those members who will be part of your wedding committee, imagine if they become your investors, imagine if you build a company where you can make profit and feed your homes. Something sustainable." Kola and his fiancé nodded. "My son, I have longed for the day you would come and ask me to invest in your business idea. But today I will make the first move", the father said taking his cheque book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé. "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million naira, not for your wedding but as start up capital for a business of your choice. I am giving the cheque to your wife because as the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk with you in building an empire for your family. Focus on your family, give your family the best; forget about the public and opinions of people who don't matter. Build a future for your family. Build your family on a foundation of surplus not debt". "Thank you so much" said the fiancé. Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His father stood up too. The father and son hugged. "Thank you dad for being a great figure and your counsel. I don't know what to say. You have challenged me not to merely get married but to have a vision, a vision for my family. I don't know what to say" he spoke. The father held his shoulder, "You will make a great husband and father. I wish I had the same counsel when I was getting married, all those people I fed on my wedding day didn't add value to my marriage. 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