I thought he was cheating because there was this one particular lady he always talked about. On the phone, he would mention her name. He would be online very late at night, and I would wonder who he was chatting with. I would call late at night, and the call would be waiting. You'd ask him and he would say, "Don't be jealous. I'm talking to Afrakoma."

He told me Afrakoma was a family nurse who took care of his dad and mom, and at one point took care of his elder sister. He talked to her often because she was close to his ageing parents. It made sense, but he was only a man, and you can't take what a man tells you line, hook and sinker, so I watched his hands whenever he typed his password. I even videoed his finger while typing and studied the pattern until I got it.

He was sleeping one night when I took his phone and went straight to his messages. I searched for Afrakoma but didn't see the name anywhere in his recent chats. I had to search for the name to find it. Their last conversation was a month ago. I thought, "So this guy has been lying to me? A month ago, and she was always the name he mentioned?"

I went through their chat anyway. They were talking about a certain medicine and how he reacted to it differently. Afrakoma was the one advising my boyfriend and encouraging him not to stop taking the medicine since it was the only thing available to help his situation. I scrolled and scrolled until I got to where the medicine's name was mentioned and what the medicine was supposed to do.

My boyfriend was on antiretroviral medication. He had HIV and had been on the drug for a very long time. They were talking about the last test that showed he was undetectable and what it meant going forward. My heart was racing. I thought I was positive, too. I started shaking. I put the phone down quietly and didn't utter a word about my discovery.

I did my own tests at different facilities. I was negative. I made the sign of the cross and decided to pull away from him slowly, without giving him a reason. He loved me so much. I knew he would break down and cry and do everything to convince me to stay if I told him what I'd found.

When it became obvious to him that I was leaving, he asked why, and I told him, "It's not about you. It's about me. I'm going through a lot, so please give me some time to find myself. When things come back to normal, I will come back."

It's been five months already. We talk as friends. He asks how I'm doing, but I keep telling him I'm still missing, so I'm trying hard to find myself. He told me, "You're not coming back, are you?" I answered, "I don't know, but don't wait. Just get someone else."

MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE. HERE ARE 14 SIGNS YOU ARE MATURE :

You are not scared to be alone.

You realize money is not evil. Lack of money is.

You know that you are your worst enemy and you are your best supporter too.

You realize that life's much better when no one knows anything about you.

You don't care what other people think about you anymore.

You stop chasing meaningless relationships and focus on improving yourself.

You focus more on the opportunity of learning than the risk of failure.

You don't stress about things that are out of your control.

You understand that 9-5 won't help you achieve financial freedom.

You understand that you get paid based on the value you are providing.

In the real world, grades aren't the only measure of value. Connections, background, and practical skills often surpass academic performance. While grades may open doors.

You understand that life's much better when you focus on improving yourself rather than partying every weekend.

You realize that in the end only your family and a few true friends will be there for you.

You also realize that in the end, even your family and friends will leave you, only the God remains with you. #moneyupacademy #MoneyUpAcademy

"Jay Z betrayed me, we were best friends and he abandoned me when I went to prison. He looked at me during my trial, and told me to my face "Yo! Don't worry about nothing bro, I got you" and I never saw him again.

When we were best friends he never had any issues on the streets. Any issues he ever had, I made sure I handled them. From his track 'Reasoning Doubt' when he tell you 'my man got his sh0t sprayed down on a uptown block', he was talking about me. I still got the scar right here. He never had no street issues.

When n*gg∆s r*bb3d him, I go see them. I always made sure I handled all his street situations. I'm talking about someone I took a bu||£t for. I could have got off the set, but I stayed and I took a bu||£t for him. And the craziest thing is I would still do the same thing for him now, despite the betrayal. That's just who I am"

____ Former Jay Z's best friend, DeHaven

"Jay Z betrayed me, we were best friends and he abandoned me when I went to prison. He looked at me during my trial, and told me to my face "Yo! Don't worry about nothing bro, I got you" and I never saw him again.

When we were best friends he never had any issues on the streets. Any issues he ever had, I made sure I handled them. From his track 'Reasoning Doubt' when he tell you 'my man got his sh0t sprayed down on a uptown block', he was talking about me. I still got the scar right here. He never had no street issues.

When n*gg∆s r*bb3d him, I go see them. I always made sure I handled all his street situations. I'm talking about someone I took a bu||£t for. I could have got off the set, but I stayed and I took a bu||£t for him. And the craziest thing is I would still do the same thing for him now, despite the betrayal. That's just who I am"

____ Former Jay Z's best friend, DeHaven

*IMPORTANT NOTICE!!!*

Good day, to be forewarned is to be forearmed. Let's take care of one another Ladies and Gents.
This is the story of a real case that happened in Abuja.
A friend was put to sleep in the bathroom of a movie theater, and everything was stolen from her, and she didn't remember anything, only that a woman gave her a perfume to smell.
I was also approached yesterday afternoon at about 3:30 pm. in the parking lot of the mall by two men who asked what kind of perfume I was wearing.
Then they asked me if I would like to smell a sensational type of perfume that they were selling at a sale price.
I probably would have accepted if I hadn't received this notice about THE PERFUME SHOCK.
The men remained between the parked cars, I imagine waiting for someone else to show up.
I stopped a lady who was walking towards them and warned her. I had been warned that in shopping malls or parking lots, there are people who approach you to offer you to SMELL THE PERFUME they are selling, but it is NOT actually perfume, IT IS AXTER.
When you smell it, you faint, and they take advantage of the opportunity to steal everything of value you carry.
PLEASE: copy this message and send it to your friends as they are operating everywhere!

Share to everyone that you know!

Good morning friends and family

A SIMP IS LIKE A WALKING DEAD

13 Hard Truths About Why Women Use Weak Men (And How You’re Letting It Happen)
Read this twice if you’ve ever been ghosted, played, or heartbroken by a girl you “treated like a queen.”

Let’s be real:

Simping doesn’t make you loyal. It makes you ******.

Women don’t respect the guy who bends over backward. They use him.
They collect his time, his money, his energy—and when they’re done, they vanish without saying thank you.

Let’s break it down:

1. She’ll Act Single in Public, But Collect ‘Girlfriend Benefits’ in Private

You’re paying her bills, driving her around, doing boyfriend duties…
Meanwhile, she’s posting thirst traps and replying “lol” to other men’s DMs.
You’re loyal to her. She’s loyal to attention.

2. She’ll Use Your Kindness as Leverage

You think being sweet makes her love you.
No sir—it makes her comfortable. She’ll keep you in her life because you’re useful, not because she’s attracted.
You're not her dream guy—you're her safety net.

3. She’ll Make You Compete With Other Men (And Call It “Being Honest”)

She’ll say, “I’m just talking to people, nothing serious…”
Yet she expects exclusivity from you.
You’re playing by boyfriend rules in a situationship built to drain you.

4. She’ll Withhold Sex to Control You

Once she knows you’re desperate to keep her, intimacy becomes a weapon.
She’ll give you crumbs and say, “I’m not in the mood,” while giving another guy the full buffet.
You’ll wait months… someone else is getting it tonight.

5. She’ll Say You’re Too Nice—Then Run to a Man Who Treats Her Like an Option

Truth bomb: Nice doesn’t attract. Strength does.
You’re emotionally available. He’s emotionally scarce.
Guess who she’s obsessed with? Not the one texting her good morning.

6. She’ll Use You for Free Therapy and Dump Her Emotional Luggage on You

She’ll vent. Cry. Trauma dump.
You’ll spend hours listening, thinking you’re building connection.
Then she’ll feel “better” and go back to chasing the guy who gives her butterflies and stress.

7. She’ll Leave You When You Finally Set Boundaries

You’ll say, “I don’t like that you go clubbing every weekend.”
She’ll call you insecure and controlling.
Bro, she was never going to change. She was waiting for an excuse to bounce.

8. She’ll Borrow Money and Never Pay Back
She’ll cry about rent.

You’ll send 30k. She’ll post her nails the next day.
You won’t ask for it back, because “you don’t want her to feel bad.”
Now she knows you’re a cash machine with emotions.

9. She’ll Publicly Humiliate You—Then Say You’re Too Sensitive

She’ll talk down on you in front of friends. Joke about your hustle. Compare you to her ex.
And when you react, she’ll say, “I was just playing.”
That’s not love. That’s disrespect wrapped in sarcasm.

10. She’ll Make You Feel Lucky to Have Her—Even Though She Brings Nothing to the Table

You’re the one planning dates, paying bills, calling, texting, doing everything.
What does she bring? Just her looks.
And you feel “lucky” to have her? Wake up.

11. She’ll Leave You Emotionally Drained—Then Say She’s the Victim

You gave her your heart, your loyalty, your peace.
She left you anxious, confused, and depressed.
Then she’ll cry on Instagram and call all men “toxic.”
The manipulation is spiritual.

12. She’ll Come Back When Her ‘Alpha’ Broke Her Heart

After getting played by the guy she really wanted, she’ll return with fake remorse.
“I miss you.” “You were the good one.”
She doesn’t love you. She loves your stability. And she’s only here till she heals enough to leave again.

13. She’ll Move on Fast—Because She Never Really Cared Like You Did

While you’re crying over her old texts, she’s laughing at brunch, collecting validation.
You gave your all to someone who gave you half. And the worst part? She doesn’t even feel guilty.

FINAL TRUTH:
You’re not unlucky with women.
You’re just addicted to being used because it feels like love.

The solution?
Stop being the man who chases. Be the man who builds.
The man who sets standards. The man who makes women EARN his time.
The man who knows his worth.

Women don’t respect simps. They respect structure.

Let her chase. Or let her go.

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Good morning friends and family. Let's ensure to join the renewable energy and be eco friendly. Stop the littering of plastic waste, ensure u learn the habits of recycling

IRNA News Agency:
Iran to remember Russia’s positive role in nuclear issue: Foreign Ministry spokesperson

Foreign Ministry spokesperson Esmaeil Baqaei says that Iran will remember Russia’s constructive and positive role in the Islamic Republic’s nuclear issue and that Tehran believes its Russian friends would play a key role in this respect if needed.

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I.R.G.C. seizes 1.5 million liters of smuggled fuel in the Persian Gulf

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Iran to pursue lifting of unilateral sanctions and prisoner exchange at SCO judicial summit

Tehran, IRNA – Deputy Foreign Minister for Legal and International Affairs Kazem Gharibabadi says that unilateral sanctions, prisoner transfers, and extradition of criminals are expected to be discussed at the Shanghai Cooperation Organization (SCO) Summit.

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China hails Tehran-Beijing relations ahead of Araqchi's visit

Chinese Foreign Ministry spokesperson has hailed the relation between Tehran and Beijing as sound and stable.

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Exclusive | Iran-U.S. talks are a ‘litmus test’ for diplomacy, says IRNA’s CEO

Tehran, IRNA – CEO of the Islamic Republic News Agency (IRNA) Hossein Jaberi-Ansari says the ongoing negotiations between Iran and the United States, mediated by Oman, represent a “litmus test” for diplomacy and an opportunity for both sides to gauge each other’s positions beyond media narratives and rhetoric.h

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TEN ATTITUDES OF SMART PEOPLE

1. They are usually quiet than others – Smart people often prefer to listen and observe rather than dominate conversations.

2. They are aware of their own ignorance – Smart people recognize the limits of their knowledge and are open to learning more.

3. They avoid bragging – Instead of bragging, smart people let their actions speak for themselves.

4. They are humble – Despite their intelligence, they remain modest about their abilities.

5. They may have fewer close friends – They find it difficult to connect deeply with others because of their unique perspective.

6. They ask insightful questions – Smart people question deeply, seeking to understand and analyze.

7. They identify flaws and loopholes – They often examine systems or arguments to find imperfections.

8. They enjoy reading – A love of books and continuous learning is common among intelligent people.

9. They have strong intuition – They can often sense the true intentions and feelings of others.

10. They avoid confrontation – Intelligent individuals generally avoid unnecessary arguments and conflicts.

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Berbatov: "I met Cristiano Ronaldo at Manchester United and he was different. He was deeply connected to the number 7, and I don’t blame him — he achieved everything with that number.
I know most people don’t believe in number curses or their connection to success, but Cristiano had a friendship-like bond with his number.
We had Rooney, Giggs, Scholes, Neville, Vidić, Ferdinand, Evra, and Van der Sar — but Cristiano was Sir Alex Ferguson’s golden boy.
Before the match, as we walked onto the pitch, our opponents felt defeated just by seeing the players.
It was amazing to be part of that terrifying squad."