• Hello my friends can someone advise me on what to eat ths morning
    Hello my friends can someone advise me on what to eat ths morning
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  • Everyday, I Wait For A Text. Everyday I See You I Wait For A Hello. Everyday I Check Everyday I Tell My Friends How Much I Adore You. Everyday I Find Myself Let Down. But Everyday I Still Find Hope..
    Everyday, I Wait For A Text. Everyday I See You I Wait For A Hello. Everyday I Check Everyday I Tell My Friends How Much I Adore You. Everyday I Find Myself Let Down. But Everyday I Still Find Hope..
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  • “The Seeds He Rejected”
    — A Story of Regret, Strength, and Triumph


    Part 1: The Long Wait

    In a small town in Nigeria, lived a couple — Mr. and Mrs. Okonkwo. They were young and full of dreams when they got married. Mr. Okonkwo, a proud man from a traditional Igbo background, believed that his legacy could only continue through male children.

    Their first child, a girl named Chinonso, was born with beauty and a sharp mind. But Okonkwo smiled half-heartedly. “Next one will be a boy,” he said. Then came Adaeze, Ugochi, Amarachi, and finally Chidimma — all girls.

    Year after year, his frustration grew. Family members mocked him. Friends whispered behind his back. He began to blame his wife, Ebele, accusing her of failing to give him a “true heir.” Ebele cried in silence but never cursed him. She loved her daughters and raised them with dignity, teaching them to be strong, respectful, and prayerful.

    Part 2: The Breaking Point

    After Chidimma’s birth — their fifth daughter — Mr. Okonkwo changed completely. He became bitter, distant, and violent. One night, after a heated argument, he packed his bags and left. No goodbye. No explanation. Just abandonment.

    He remarried in another city, hoping for a son. Ebele, heartbroken but strong, vowed to raise her daughters alone. “We don’t need a man to define our worth,” she always told them. The girls grew up watching their mother struggle, sacrifice, and succeed — cleaning houses, selling vegetables, sewing clothes — just to keep them in school.


    Part 3: The Rise

    Time passed.

    Chinonso became a top engineer in an oil company.

    Adaeze became a renowned surgeon.

    Ugochi was awarded a scholarship abroad and became a lawyer advocating for women’s rights.

    Amarachi became a successful tech entrepreneur.

    Chidimma, the youngest, became a best-selling author and motivational speaker.


    They never forgot their roots — or their mother’s suffering. Together, they built her a beautiful mansion, and people in town began to call her “Mama Girls of Glory.”


    Part 4: The Regret

    Meanwhile, Mr. Okonkwo’s second marriage produced three boys. But none amounted to much. He had poured money into their lives but not discipline or love. They became entitled and lazy.

    One day, he fell ill and was abandoned by everyone — including the sons he had so desperately wanted. Word reached him that his daughters were now wealthy and influential.

    Pride kept him from reaching out — until one day, lying sick and broke on a hospital bed, he saw Chidimma on national TV, giving a speech titled “The Strength of a Woman.” Tears flowed down his wrinkled cheeks.


    Part 5: The Reunion

    Ashamed but desperate, he sent a message through a local pastor to Ebele. The daughters were shocked but didn’t speak in bitterness. Instead, Chinonso said:
    “Let’s show him the love he denied us.”

    They paid his medical bills. Ugochi ensured he had proper legal support. Amarachi even got him a small apartment. And finally, they brought him to the mansion he once walked away from.

    Ebele stood at the gate, now a graceful woman, older but radiant. He fell on his knees and cried, “Forgive me, Ebele. I was a fool.”

    She helped him up gently. “You lost 23 years of love… but God still gave you a second chance.”


    Final Words

    Mr. Okonkwo spent his final years surrounded by the very daughters he rejected. They took care of him, not out of obligation — but out of character, shaped by the love their mother planted in them.

    And when he passed, his tombstone read:

    > "Here lies a man who learned, too late, that daughters are blessings too."


    Moral of the Story:
    Children are not defined by gender. Value, love, and raise them all — because tomorrow belongs to anyone willing to rise, not just those society prefers.

    JB WORLD

    “The Seeds He Rejected” — A Story of Regret, Strength, and Triumph Part 1: The Long Wait In a small town in Nigeria, lived a couple — Mr. and Mrs. Okonkwo. They were young and full of dreams when they got married. Mr. Okonkwo, a proud man from a traditional Igbo background, believed that his legacy could only continue through male children. Their first child, a girl named Chinonso, was born with beauty and a sharp mind. But Okonkwo smiled half-heartedly. “Next one will be a boy,” he said. Then came Adaeze, Ugochi, Amarachi, and finally Chidimma — all girls. Year after year, his frustration grew. Family members mocked him. Friends whispered behind his back. He began to blame his wife, Ebele, accusing her of failing to give him a “true heir.” Ebele cried in silence but never cursed him. She loved her daughters and raised them with dignity, teaching them to be strong, respectful, and prayerful. Part 2: The Breaking Point After Chidimma’s birth — their fifth daughter — Mr. Okonkwo changed completely. He became bitter, distant, and violent. One night, after a heated argument, he packed his bags and left. No goodbye. No explanation. Just abandonment. He remarried in another city, hoping for a son. Ebele, heartbroken but strong, vowed to raise her daughters alone. “We don’t need a man to define our worth,” she always told them. The girls grew up watching their mother struggle, sacrifice, and succeed — cleaning houses, selling vegetables, sewing clothes — just to keep them in school. Part 3: The Rise Time passed. Chinonso became a top engineer in an oil company. Adaeze became a renowned surgeon. Ugochi was awarded a scholarship abroad and became a lawyer advocating for women’s rights. Amarachi became a successful tech entrepreneur. Chidimma, the youngest, became a best-selling author and motivational speaker. They never forgot their roots — or their mother’s suffering. Together, they built her a beautiful mansion, and people in town began to call her “Mama Girls of Glory.” Part 4: The Regret Meanwhile, Mr. Okonkwo’s second marriage produced three boys. But none amounted to much. He had poured money into their lives but not discipline or love. They became entitled and lazy. One day, he fell ill and was abandoned by everyone — including the sons he had so desperately wanted. Word reached him that his daughters were now wealthy and influential. Pride kept him from reaching out — until one day, lying sick and broke on a hospital bed, he saw Chidimma on national TV, giving a speech titled “The Strength of a Woman.” Tears flowed down his wrinkled cheeks. Part 5: The Reunion Ashamed but desperate, he sent a message through a local pastor to Ebele. The daughters were shocked but didn’t speak in bitterness. Instead, Chinonso said: “Let’s show him the love he denied us.” They paid his medical bills. Ugochi ensured he had proper legal support. Amarachi even got him a small apartment. And finally, they brought him to the mansion he once walked away from. Ebele stood at the gate, now a graceful woman, older but radiant. He fell on his knees and cried, “Forgive me, Ebele. I was a fool.” She helped him up gently. “You lost 23 years of love… but God still gave you a second chance.” Final Words Mr. Okonkwo spent his final years surrounded by the very daughters he rejected. They took care of him, not out of obligation — but out of character, shaped by the love their mother planted in them. And when he passed, his tombstone read: > "Here lies a man who learned, too late, that daughters are blessings too." Moral of the Story: Children are not defined by gender. Value, love, and raise them all — because tomorrow belongs to anyone willing to rise, not just those society prefers. JB WORLD
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  • I was flogged by my father for doing music – Wizkid
    I got pregnant at 17, during my secondary school days – Genevieve Nnaji
    I didn't even complete my university education – Bill Gates
    I once sold plantain – Inetimi Odon (Timaya)
    I used to serve tea at a shop to support my football training – Lionel Messi
    I slept under the bridge in Lagos – Ramsey Noah
    I sold rat poison – Patrick Okorie (Patoranking)
    I was an unwanted baby, my mother almost aborted me – Cristiano Ronaldo
    I was formerly a maid – Mercy Johnson
    My family was so poor that even poor people called us poor – Pastor E.A. Adeboye
    I was once a bus conductor – Atunyota Akpobome (Ali Baba)
    When I remember my past, it was poverty. When I pass on the road, people usually laugh at me – Duncan Mighty
    I was in the university for 9 years – Ayo Makun (AY)
    I was a school dropout – Mark Zuckerberg
    I grew up in a slum at Ajegunle – John Asiemo (Daddy Showkey)
    I begged for a chance to perform on stage for free for just 5 minutes, but I wasn't given the chance – Francis Agoda (I Go Dye)
    I once had no shoes – Goodluck Jonathan
    I was rejected from birth by my father because he didn't want a girl – Chika Ike
    I got pregnant when I was in SS3 and was banned from singing in church choir – Aituaje Iruobe (Waje)
    My family was the poorest in my village; I sold firewood, I was a butcher and also a hairdresser – John Okafor (Mr Ibu)

    ---

    WHAT’S YOUR STORY?
    Life will always give you 1,001 reasons to give up, but please don’t.
    Keep your head up, guard your peace, and stay joyful.

    GOD can convert:
    Discomforts Comforts
    Pains Gains
    Story Glory
    Shame Fame
    Losses Profits
    Tears Smiles
    Sorrows Joy
    Debts Credits
    Mess Message
    Foes Friends
    Dreams Realities

    Just Believe in God.
    #FromGrassToGrace #DontGiveUp #YourStoryIsValid #GodIsAble #KeepPushing #MotivationMonday #BelieveInYourself #Inspiration #RealLifeStories #AgainstAllOdds #GodDid #DestinyChanger #PurposeDriven #YouCanMakeIt #FaithOverFear #BetterDaysAhead #TestimonyLoading
    I was flogged by my father for doing music – Wizkid I got pregnant at 17, during my secondary school days – Genevieve Nnaji I didn't even complete my university education – Bill Gates I once sold plantain – Inetimi Odon (Timaya) I used to serve tea at a shop to support my football training – Lionel Messi I slept under the bridge in Lagos – Ramsey Noah I sold rat poison – Patrick Okorie (Patoranking) I was an unwanted baby, my mother almost aborted me – Cristiano Ronaldo I was formerly a maid – Mercy Johnson My family was so poor that even poor people called us poor – Pastor E.A. Adeboye I was once a bus conductor – Atunyota Akpobome (Ali Baba) When I remember my past, it was poverty. When I pass on the road, people usually laugh at me – Duncan Mighty I was in the university for 9 years – Ayo Makun (AY) I was a school dropout – Mark Zuckerberg I grew up in a slum at Ajegunle – John Asiemo (Daddy Showkey) I begged for a chance to perform on stage for free for just 5 minutes, but I wasn't given the chance – Francis Agoda (I Go Dye) I once had no shoes – Goodluck Jonathan I was rejected from birth by my father because he didn't want a girl – Chika Ike I got pregnant when I was in SS3 and was banned from singing in church choir – Aituaje Iruobe (Waje) My family was the poorest in my village; I sold firewood, I was a butcher and also a hairdresser – John Okafor (Mr Ibu) --- WHAT’S YOUR STORY? 💭 Life will always give you 1,001 reasons to give up, but please don’t. 🙏 Keep your head up, guard your peace, and stay joyful. 😊 GOD can convert: 💔 Discomforts ➡️ Comforts 😢 Pains ➡️ Gains 📖 Story ➡️ Glory 😳 Shame ➡️ Fame 📉 Losses ➡️ Profits 😭 Tears ➡️ Smiles 😔 Sorrows ➡️ Joy 💸 Debts ➡️ Credits 🤦 Mess ➡️ Message 👿 Foes ➡️ Friends 💭 Dreams ➡️ Realities Just Believe in God. ❤️ #FromGrassToGrace #DontGiveUp #YourStoryIsValid #GodIsAble #KeepPushing #MotivationMonday #BelieveInYourself #Inspiration #RealLifeStories #AgainstAllOdds #GodDid #DestinyChanger #PurposeDriven #YouCanMakeIt #FaithOverFear #BetterDaysAhead #TestimonyLoading
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  • *Why Do People Who Care a lot get hurt the most*

    Get answered today, and know where to change and where to improve on during your association with people!!!

    *Part 1 .*

    👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

    Caring individuals might get hurt due to their vulnerability, empathy, high expectations, and selflessness. These traits can make them more sensitive to others' emotions and experiences.

    Let's dive deeper into why caring people might get hurt:

    *Vulnerability*:

    1. *Openness*: Caring people tend to be open and receptive to others, which can make them more vulnerable to emotional pain.
    2. *Trust*: They often trust others easily, which can lead to hurt when that trust is broken.
    3. *Emotional investment*: Caring individuals invest emotionally in relationships, making them more susceptible to emotional hurt.

    *Empathy*:

    1. *Feeling others' pain*: Caring people can deeply feel others' emotions, including pain and suffering.
    2. *Compassion fatigue*: Constantly empathizing with others can lead to emotional exhaustion.
    3. *Blurred boundaries*: Empathetic individuals might struggle to set boundaries, leading to emotional overload.

    *High expectations*:

    1. *Idealism*: Caring people often have high ideals about relationships and people.
    2. *Disappointment*: When reality doesn't meet these expectations, they might feel disappointed or hurt.
    3. *Self-blame*: They might blame themselves for not meeting their own expectations.

    *Selflessness*:

    1. *Prioritizing others*: Caring individuals often prioritize others' needs over their own.
    2. *Burnout*: Constantly putting others first can lead to emotional burnout.
    3. *Lack of self-care*: Neglecting their own needs can make them more vulnerable to hurt.

    These factors can contribute to caring people getting hurt. However, it's essential to remember that being caring and empathetic are valuable traits that can also bring great rewards and connections.

    *Part 2*

    *Why do good People marry "bad" ones:*

    1. *Attraction to confidence*: Good men or women might be drawn to confident, outgoing partners, even if they have a "bad" reputation.
    2. *Desire to help or fix*: Some good men may feel a strong desire to help or fix someone they perceive as needing care or support.
    3. *Unconscious patterns*: Unconscious patterns or past experiences might lead good men to seek out relationships with women who fit a certain pattern, even if it's not healthy.
    4. *Complexity of human relationships*: Relationships involve many factors, and individuals can be complex and multifaceted.

    *Part 3*

    Here are some strategies for caring people to minimize hurt and disappointment:

    *Set boundaries*:

    1. *Learn to say no*: Establish healthy limits to protect your emotional energy.
    2. *Prioritize self-care*: Make time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.
    3. *Communicate needs*: Express your expectations and needs clearly to others.

    *Practice self-awareness*:

    1. *Recognize patterns*: Identify situations or people that consistently lead to hurt or disappointment.
    2. *Understand your emotions*: Develop emotional intelligence to better navigate complex feelings.
    3. *Develop self-compassion*: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding when faced with challenges.

    *Cultivate healthy relationships*:

    1. *Surround yourself with positivity*: Spend time with people who support and uplift you.
    2. *Foster mutual respect*: Build relationships based on mutual understanding, trust, and respect.
    3. *Let go of toxic relationships*: Distance yourself from people who consistently cause harm or stress.

    *Manage expectations*:

    1. *Be realistic*: Understand that people and relationships are imperfect.
    2. *Focus on the present*: Appreciate the current moment and don't overemphasize future expectations.
    3. *Practice gratitude*: Focus on the positive aspects of your relationships and life.

    *Develop emotional resilience*:

    1. *Learn from experiences*: Grow from challenges and use them as opportunities for personal growth.
    2. *Practice mindfulness*: Stay present and focused on the current moment.
    3. *Seek support*: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or professionals when needed.

    By implementing these strategies, caring people can reduce their risk of getting hurt and cultivate more fulfilling relationships.

    Hope now you understand where to work on dear and create your own peace.


    Thank you for reading but learn!🙏🏽
    *Why Do People Who Care a lot get hurt the most* Get answered today, and know where to change and where to improve on during your association with people!!! *Part 1 .* 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻 Caring individuals might get hurt due to their vulnerability, empathy, high expectations, and selflessness. These traits can make them more sensitive to others' emotions and experiences. Let's dive deeper into why caring people might get hurt: *Vulnerability*: 1. *Openness*: Caring people tend to be open and receptive to others, which can make them more vulnerable to emotional pain. 2. *Trust*: They often trust others easily, which can lead to hurt when that trust is broken. 3. *Emotional investment*: Caring individuals invest emotionally in relationships, making them more susceptible to emotional hurt. *Empathy*: 1. *Feeling others' pain*: Caring people can deeply feel others' emotions, including pain and suffering. 2. *Compassion fatigue*: Constantly empathizing with others can lead to emotional exhaustion. 3. *Blurred boundaries*: Empathetic individuals might struggle to set boundaries, leading to emotional overload. *High expectations*: 1. *Idealism*: Caring people often have high ideals about relationships and people. 2. *Disappointment*: When reality doesn't meet these expectations, they might feel disappointed or hurt. 3. *Self-blame*: They might blame themselves for not meeting their own expectations. *Selflessness*: 1. *Prioritizing others*: Caring individuals often prioritize others' needs over their own. 2. *Burnout*: Constantly putting others first can lead to emotional burnout. 3. *Lack of self-care*: Neglecting their own needs can make them more vulnerable to hurt. These factors can contribute to caring people getting hurt. However, it's essential to remember that being caring and empathetic are valuable traits that can also bring great rewards and connections. *Part 2* *Why do good People marry "bad" ones:* 1. *Attraction to confidence*: Good men or women might be drawn to confident, outgoing partners, even if they have a "bad" reputation. 2. *Desire to help or fix*: Some good men may feel a strong desire to help or fix someone they perceive as needing care or support. 3. *Unconscious patterns*: Unconscious patterns or past experiences might lead good men to seek out relationships with women who fit a certain pattern, even if it's not healthy. 4. *Complexity of human relationships*: Relationships involve many factors, and individuals can be complex and multifaceted. *Part 3* Here are some strategies for caring people to minimize hurt and disappointment: *Set boundaries*: 1. *Learn to say no*: Establish healthy limits to protect your emotional energy. 2. *Prioritize self-care*: Make time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul. 3. *Communicate needs*: Express your expectations and needs clearly to others. *Practice self-awareness*: 1. *Recognize patterns*: Identify situations or people that consistently lead to hurt or disappointment. 2. *Understand your emotions*: Develop emotional intelligence to better navigate complex feelings. 3. *Develop self-compassion*: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding when faced with challenges. *Cultivate healthy relationships*: 1. *Surround yourself with positivity*: Spend time with people who support and uplift you. 2. *Foster mutual respect*: Build relationships based on mutual understanding, trust, and respect. 3. *Let go of toxic relationships*: Distance yourself from people who consistently cause harm or stress. *Manage expectations*: 1. *Be realistic*: Understand that people and relationships are imperfect. 2. *Focus on the present*: Appreciate the current moment and don't overemphasize future expectations. 3. *Practice gratitude*: Focus on the positive aspects of your relationships and life. *Develop emotional resilience*: 1. *Learn from experiences*: Grow from challenges and use them as opportunities for personal growth. 2. *Practice mindfulness*: Stay present and focused on the current moment. 3. *Seek support*: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or professionals when needed. By implementing these strategies, caring people can reduce their risk of getting hurt and cultivate more fulfilling relationships. Hope now you understand where to work on dear and create your own peace. Thank you for reading but learn!🙏🏽
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    Good morning my friends
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  • If friends like you would have with a price tag on them, I would surely have been a millionaire. You are precious my friend. Thanks for being there.
    If friends like you would have with a price tag on them, I would surely have been a millionaire. You are precious my friend. Thanks for being there.
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  • *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.*

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name

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    *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.* No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. 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