DEAR YOUNG MAN,

He who lives trusting dies betrayed.

Let this sink in deep because it might save your life and sanity.

Never trust a woman blindly—their loyalty isn’t to you; it’s to their interests. Harsh truth? Yes. But it’s a truth that too many men learn the hard way.

Women don’t love you for who you are—they love what you bring to the table. They love your ability to provide, protect, and elevate their lifestyle. You’re not the prize to them; you’re the vehicle to the prize they desire. And the moment you can no longer provide that value? Many will discard you like yesterday’s leftovers without a second thought.

Why do you think so many men are blindsided in relationships or marriages? They think, “She’s different. She loves me for me.” Wrong. She loves the life you create, the image you project, and the stability you offer. Remove those factors, and you’ll see her true colors.

This isn’t about hating women—it’s about understanding the nature of relationships. Women are driven by self-interest, and honestly, it’s not even their fault—it’s biology. But you, as a man, must protect yourself. Don’t let sweet words and affection blind you to reality.

Ask yourself:
• Does she support your vision or just enjoy the benefits of your hard work?
• Is she loyal to your grind or only to the lifestyle it creates?
• Would she stand by you if you lost everything today?

Don’t give your full trust to anyone who hasn’t proven themselves over time. Test her loyalty, observe her actions, and protect your value. Love her? Sure. But love her with your eyes open, not with your soul exposed.

Trust cautiously, lead decisively, and always prioritize yourself. You’re not a pawn in someone else’s game—you’re the king, and you don’t put your crown in someone else’s hand .

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WARRI_PROVERBS NO DEY FINISH

1. Na person wey never see problem dey use English dey pray.
2. Book wey no gree enter head go enta exam hall
3. Goat wen get mind follow lion go catch fish, make e know say weda dem catch fish or not, Lion food don set oh.
4.who naked no dey chuck hand for pocket...!
5. wetin concern dog wit family planning?..
6.Na determination dey make Okada overtake trailer for road.
7. This one good, this one good na em mad man take dey gather plenty load.
8.Pikin wey go strong go strong.... No be say until dem name am Samson.
9.Na over confidence make February no complete.
10. Do you know who I am? Do you know who I am?..Naso hold up take dey start.
11.Head wey no wan think go carry load..
12. Hand wey stay long for pocket, know say nothing de that pocket.
13. Forget Trust If trust dey, Water nor for boil Fish.
16.No matter how lizard do press-up reach, e no fit get muscle pass crocodile .
17. E de clear pimple, e de clear pimple na so bleaching de start.
18. Feel at home, feel at home na eim dae make visitor spoil remote
19. Escort me, escort me naso slave trade take start.
20. It's a small world!! No mean say you fit trek from Naija go London.
21. Christianity is free, but you must buy Bible
22. Person nor dey use shame chop winch o
23.Make I chop this guy money, Make I Chop this guy money. Na so ashawo take start oh.
24. You no need spoon and cutlery to chop slap.
25. Jollof Rice wey dey for bottom of pot 2day go dey for top of cooler 2moro.
26. The patient dog ... Nah hungry go kill am.
27. Na I go do am later na e make fowl no fly like other birds.
28. No food for lazy man no be for pesin wey em mama get restaurants.
29. Who dey hold landlord rentage no dey fry stew way curry dey.
30. I am covered by the blood of JESUS E no mean say make u no lock door sleep oooh
31.) Pastor wey dey pray for mad person no dey Close eye.
32.) I need pikin, I nepost ikin, na e make woman no wear pant sleep.
33.) I know too much, i know too much na e make SAN no fit recite National Anthem.
34.) This write up good, this write up good, na e make me (the writer) no come know how to count 1,2,3 again.
35.) The tin wey make egg strong for port nai make yam also soft for port
36.) Pikin way Say e mama no sleep, he self no go sleep.
37.) Sun 2 hot e nor mean say fowl go Lane boiled egg.
38.) Monkey smart monkey smart, nah because tree near tree
39.) Na run wey nor serious, Na in woman de hold breast.
40.) Na cooperation dey make rice full pot
41.) Cockroach wey say him sabi acrobatic dance where cocks are doing general meeting don waka kurukere waka
42.) Say Lion dey sick, no mean say him wit cat na mate.
43.) This burial rich, this burial rich, na e make to die hungry elders.
44.) Had it been, there is an atom of truth in tortoise, e for don kiss person.
45.) Na economy recession make teacher use ruler measure yam.
46.) Pikin wen wan chop party rice, e no dey fear dance!!!
47.) Say cat sabi swim no make am catfish.
48.) E go beta, e go beta, na e make camel still dey cari load.
49.) I no be your mate. na e make slippers get size
50.) This boy fine, this boy fine na so she open leg for 37 boys
51.) Fish wen scatter for soup still dey inside the soup.

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THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A book written by Robert Greene that offers a series of strategies for obtaining and maintaining power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 laws:

1. Don't outshine the boss: Make your superiors feel superior. Don't expose your talent too much or you might trigger their insecurity.

2. Don't trust friends too much, use your enemies: Friends betray you more easily, but if you manage to win an enemy, they will be more loyal.

3. Hide your intentions: Keep people off balance so they can't anticipate your actions.

4. Always say less than necessary: Silence breeds power, and talking too much reveals your plans.

5. Protect your reputation at all costs: Reputation is the cornerstone of power.

6. Call attention at all costs: Be visible to be relevant.

7. Make others work for you and attribute it: Take advantage of the work and effort of others to your advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't run after others, make them look for you.

9. Win with actions, never arguments: Prove your point through actions, not words.

10. Avoid losers and unhappy: The misfortune of others is contagious; stay away from those who bring you down.

11. Make people depend on you: If others depend on you, you're in control.

12. Disarm with sincerity and selective generosity: Emotional disarmament will give you an edge.

13. When you ask for help, appeal to the interests of others: Appeal to what benefits others, not gratitude or compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a friend, act as a spy: Learn to extract valuable information from others without them noticing.

15. Crush your enemy completely: Do not let your enemy recover, or he will seek revenge.

16. Use absence to increase respect: The value of something increases with scarcity..

17. Keep others in suspense: Be unpredictable, you will confuse others and gain power.

18. Do not isolate yourself: Loneliness weakens you; engage yourself in the web of influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your independence so you don't get caught up in other people's affairs.

21. Pretend to be a fool to catch the sly: Let others think they have an advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the right time gives you the advantage.

23. Focus your forces: Keep your energy focused on what really matters.

24. Be a master at simulation and disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

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THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A book written by Robert Greene that offers a series of strategies for obtaining and maintaining power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 laws:

1. Don't outshine the boss: Make your superiors feel superior. Don't expose your talent too much or you might trigger their insecurity.

2. Don't trust friends too much, use your enemies: Friends betray you more easily, but if you manage to win an enemy, they will be more loyal.

3. Hide your intentions: Keep people off balance so they can't anticipate your actions.

4. Always say less than necessary: Silence breeds power, and talking too much reveals your plans.

5. Protect your reputation at all costs: Reputation is the cornerstone of power.

6. Call attention at all costs: Be visible to be relevant.

7. Make others work for you and attribute it: Take advantage of the work and effort of others to your advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't run after others, make them look for you.

9. Win with actions, never arguments: Prove your point through actions, not words.

10. Avoid losers and unhappy: The misfortune of others is contagious; stay away from those who bring you down.

11. Make people depend on you: If others depend on you, you're in control.

12. Disarm with sincerity and selective generosity: Emotional disarmament will give you an edge.

13. When you ask for help, appeal to the interests of others: Appeal to what benefits others, not gratitude or compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a friend, act as a spy: Learn to extract valuable information from others without them noticing.

15. Crush your enemy completely: Do not let your enemy recover, or he will seek revenge.

16. Use absence to increase respect: The value of something increases with scarcity..

17. Keep others in suspense: Be unpredictable, you will confuse others and gain power.

18. Do not isolate yourself: Loneliness weakens you; engage yourself in the web of influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your independence so you don't get caught up in other people's affairs.

21. Pretend to be a fool to catch the sly: Let others think they have an advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the right time gives you the advantage.

23. Focus your forces: Keep your energy focused on what really matters.

24. Be a master at simulation and disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

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Waiting is hard, especially when you’re praying for a breakthrough or a long-awaited answer. But God’s timing is perfect. He sees what you cannot and knows what’s best for you. The waiting season is not a wasted season—it’s where God refines you, strengthens you, and prepares you for the blessings ahead.

Use this time to grow closer to Him. Trust that the delay is part of His divine plan. When the right time comes, what you’ve been praying for will exceed your expectations.

Don’t give up in the waiting. God is working behind the scenes, and your miracle is closer than you think.

#SeasonsOfWaiting #GodsTimingIsPerfect #FaithfulInTheWait #TrustTheProcess #HopeInDelay #PatienceAndFaith #GodIsWorking #FaithJourney

We often strive to be strong, capable, and independent, but God’s power is most evident when we surrender our weaknesses to Him. He takes what we see as flaws and uses them to display His glory.

When you’re weary, lean into His strength. When you feel inadequate, remember He’s your sufficiency. When you’re broken, trust Him to make you whole. Your limitations are not a setback—they’re an invitation for God to show up in your life.

Let go of the pressure to do it all on your own. His strength is enough, and His grace is sufficient.

#StrengthInWeakness #GodsGrace #FaithAndSurrender #LeanOnHim #GodIsEnough #PowerInFaith #FaithfulLiving #InspirationDaily

You may feel like you’ve hit rock bottom, like the chapter you’re living is the end of your story. But God is the ultimate Author, and He never leaves His work unfinished. The pain, the trials, the setbacks—they’re just part of the process.

Your story is one of redemption, restoration, and victory. Hold on to hope. The season of struggle is temporary, but the blessings coming your way are eternal. Don’t give up when you’re so close to breakthrough.

Let your scars become your testimony. What seems like the end today will be the beginning of something beautiful tomorrow.

#YourStoryMatters #GodIsNotFinished #HopeInHardship #RedemptionStory #BreakthroughIsComing #TrustGodsPlan #InspirationForToday #FaithfulLiving

You were created for a reason. God didn’t place you on this earth by accident. There’s a purpose inside of you that only you can fulfill. But living with purpose requires intentionality—it means aligning your plans, actions, and heart with God’s will.

Purpose is not just about achieving big goals; it’s about making a difference in the lives of others. It’s about using your gifts, talents, and experiences to glorify God and bring hope to the world around you.

Stop waiting for the perfect moment to step into your calling. Start where you are, with what you have. Trust God to lead you, and He will equip you for every step of the journey.

#LiveWithPurpose #GodsCalling #FaithfulLiving #PurposeDriven #InspirationForLife #TrustGodsPlan #HopeAndFaith #KingdomImpact

The Commissioners List: What Akwa Ibom People Want to See

The air in Akwa Ibom is thick with anticipation, as citizens eagerly await the unveiling of the long-expected list of new commissioners. The wait has been akin to a suspense thriller, where the plot thickens with every passing day. People have been asking, "When will the Governor unveil the list?" Rumour mills have churned out predictions, and many had their hopes pinned on Wednesday, January 23, 2025, during the State House of Assembly’s plenary. Yet, when Rt. Hon. Udeme Otong, Speaker of the House, inquired if there was a message from the Governor, the Clerk’s response was a simple, almost deflating, “No.” And so, the Assembly adjourned to February 4th. The suspense continues.

As the days drag on, it’s easy for even the most patient Akwa Ibomite to feel the pinch of waiting. But if the list that finally lands is a masterpiece, surely it will be worth every second of the delay. The people of Akwa Ibom have high hopes, and what they truly desire is a well-balanced and forward-thinking Executive Council. Here’s a look at what Akwa Ibom people expect when the much-anticipated list finally arrives:

1. A Blend of Politicians and Core Professionals

The ideal list would feature a diverse team—a marriage of seasoned politicians with the expertise of professionals from strategic fields. Think of a Commissioner of Information who has worked in the world of journalism, someone with a keen understanding of media relations and the power of storytelling. A finance expert in the Ministry of Finance, whose knowledge and practical experience could balance the books without breaking a sweat. A Sports Commissioner who has both the administrative know-how and the passion to raise the state’s sporting profile. Of course, these professionals must also possess strong political acumen, as the corridors of power demand both expertise and influence.

2. Youthful Introductions to the Executive Council
While it’s easy to fall into the trap of recycling old names, Akwa Ibom needs a fresh wave of youth to step into the leadership roles. The leaders of tomorrow can only rise if given a seat at the table today. The youth are the lifeblood of any state, and offering them opportunities to serve is a step towards long-term growth and development. These young minds bring energy, creativity, and a sense of urgency to the table—qualities that the state needs in abundance.

3. Commissioners Who Can Drive the ARISE Agenda
Governor Umo Eno’s ARISE agenda is a vision of growth, transformation, and hope. But no agenda can succeed without the right people to execute it. Akwa Ibom’s citizens expect commissioners who don’t just sit in their offices and await directives but actively push the ARISE agenda forward in their respective ministries. Creativity, innovation, and a hands-on approach to leadership are the order of the day. We need action-oriented commissioners who are as dynamic as the vision itself.

4. Commissioners with Grassroots Connections
What good is a commissioner who speaks beautifully on television but has no genuine rapport with the people on the ground? Akwa Ibomites want commissioners who are close to the grassroots—leaders who engage with the people, understand their struggles, and address their needs. It's not about grand speeches but about real connections, about rolling up sleeves and getting involved in the day-to-day lives of citizens. It’s about empathy, understanding, and action on the ground.

5. A Strong, Transparent Leadership Team
In this day and age, transparency isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a necessity. Akwa Ibom’s citizens want commissioners who aren’t just good at their jobs but are also open, honest, and accountable. The era of secrecy and political games is fading, and people demand leaders who can build trust through transparency and integrity. After all, governance is a public trust, not a private affair.

6. Technologically Savvy Leaders
In an age where technology is at the heart of progress, Akwa Ibom people hope for commissioners who understand the power of digital transformation. Whether it’s improving public service delivery, boosting education, or facilitating e-governance, the state’s leaders must be forward-thinking when it comes to technology. The right blend of traditional leadership skills and modern digital tools could pave the way for a truly progressive Akwa Ibom.

In conclusion, the people of Akwa Ibom are waiting with bated breath, not just for a list of names, but for a team that will transform their state. It’s clear that they are asking for the best hands, people with the vision and skills to propel the state into a new era of prosperity. And while the waiting game continues, one thing is certain: Governor Umo Eno knows what the people want. So, let’s allow the Governor to continue cooking up the best possible team—after all, a perfectly cooked dish takes time, and good things come to those who wait. We trust His Excellency will deliver when the time is right.

Nsikakabasi Akpan holds a B.Sc in Political Science and Public Administration and writes from Ididep Community in Ibiono Ibom Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State.
24/1/2025.