• *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.*

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name

    Kindly share..
    *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.* No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..
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    Condolence Visit To The Family of Late President Buhari

    The President of the Senate, Senator Godswill Akpabio on Wednesday, July 16, led some Senators to pay a condolence visit to the family of the late President, Muhammadu Buhari, in Daura, Katsina State.

    The deceased's son, Yusuf, Buhari's nephew, Alhaji Mamman Daura and other family members were on hand to receive the visitors.

    The National Assembly members also paid similar condolence visit to the Emir of Daura, Alhaji Faruk Umar Faruk where prayers were offered for the peaceful repose of the soul of the deceased.

    Finally the delegation visited the Governor of Katsina State, His Excellency, Dr Dikko Radda in Government House, Katsina, Katsina State.

    May the soul of our dear late President, Muhammadu Buhari rest in peace.
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  • BREAKING NEWS: NEW STATES TO BE OFFICIALLY ANNOUNCED BY THE SENATE!

    The Nigerian Senate has passed the final reading for the creation of new states after a nationwide tour across the six geo-political zones. The proposed new states are:

    South West
    - Ijebu State (from Ogun State)
    - Ibadan State (from Oyo State)

    South East
    - Anim State (from parts of Anambra and Imo States)
    - Adada State (from Enugu State)

    South South
    - Toru-Ibe State (from parts of Ondo, Edo, and Delta States)
    - Obolo State (from Akwa Ibom State)

    North East
    - Savanna State (from Borno State)
    - Amana State (from Adamawa State)

    North West
    - Tiga State (from Kano State)
    - Gurara State (from Southern Kaduna)

    North Central
    - Okura State (from Kogi State)
    - Apa State (from Benue State) in

    Official announcements are expected soon! Good development indeed! #Senate #StateCreation #Nigeriap
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  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 16/07/2025*

    Tinubu, Shettima, foreign leaders bid Buhari farewell in Daura

    Two minors escape from B’Haram four years after abduction

    27 farmers killed in fresh Plateau attack

    107 Yelwata victims still in hospital – Govt official

    Nigeria’s oil output soars above OPEC quota

    Marketers protest as Dangote moves to crash cooking gas price

    SEC moves against 79 suspected Ponzi schemes

    Awujale’s burial frees Yoruba kings from ritual slavery – Oluwo

    Taiwo Awoniyi back to full training after serious abdominal injury

    40% of adults in developing nations now save formally — W’Bank

    French PM proposes cutting national holidays to cut debt

    UN lauds Buhari for promoting peace, security in West Africa


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    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * Antimatter is the most expensive substance on earth, costing roughly $62.5 trillion per gram. Antimatter is composed of antiparticles, which are counterparts to the particles that make up ordinary matter.

    * Alongside Sudoku, chess has been named one of the best ways to improve the mind and memory.
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    Akpabio appeals judgment on Natasha’s suspension suit

    N’Central states mobilise joint security to crush bandits

    Over 420 federal roads completed or in progress-FG

    Finance minister defends Tinubu’s tough reforms

    U.S., UAE visa issuance: Fed Govt begins action on issues of concern

    We’re yet to receive formal communication from UAE on revised visa policy — FG

    FAAN, Customs collaborate to remove Nigeria from grey list

    FG unveils youth ambassador programme in A’Ibom

    2027: 300,000 voter cards uncollected in Ondo, says INEC

    IHS, UNICEF support 100 Osun schools with internet

    Abia varsity lecturers lament 12 months unpaid salaries

    UNIZIK suspends SUG election, VC to meet with students

    Western theories responsible for Africa’s intellectual crisis – LASU prof

    Buhari’s death wake-up call to improve health facilities – Archbishop Martins

    People never forget how you made them feel — Davido

    ValueJet lures tourists to Gambia with low fares

    Jumia Nigeria names Ojo as new CEO

    Addosser MFB targets national licence on 17th anniversary

    Lagos PDP chairmen reject council election results

    Oyegun picks ADC party’s card in Edo

    Ibas demands credible LG poll, reforms from Rivers boards

    Governor Nwifuru reshuffles cabinet

    Aiyedatiwa assigns portfolios to Ajanaku, Ajibefun, 14 other exco members

    Sanwo-Olu hails LASTMA’s tech transformation at 25th anniversary

    Oyo Assembly approves Makinde’s €55m French facility for health reforms

    Assembly committee tours erosion sites in Abia

    Lagos unveils N500bn MSME fund for women traders

    Ogun workers insist on Abiodun talks over pensions row

    Kwara, Oyo reschedule BECE over Buhari’s death

    2025 Tech Festival: Enugu to host AI Centre of Excellence

    LAWMA sweepers trained in bead making, fashion design

    Kwara residential building sealed over illegal waste disposal

    Police recover N5m ransom cash from suspected kidnappers in Delta

    Abducted Edo Chief Iman released after seven days

    ‘I Paid Ransom’, Edo Chief Imam Punctures Police Rescue Claim

    Rampaging cultists hack three to death in Lagos

    Kidney failure: First Class graduate seeks N45m for transplant

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    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1979, Iraqi president, Ahmed Hassan al-Bakr, resigned from his post citing health reasons. He promoted his Vice President, Saddam Hussein, to the post of President.

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    We should certainly count our blessings, but we should also make our blessings count. – Neal A. Maxwell


    Good morning


    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 16/07/2025* Tinubu, Shettima, foreign leaders bid Buhari farewell in Daura Two minors escape from B’Haram four years after abduction 27 farmers killed in fresh Plateau attack 107 Yelwata victims still in hospital – Govt official Nigeria’s oil output soars above OPEC quota Marketers protest as Dangote moves to crash cooking gas price SEC moves against 79 suspected Ponzi schemes Awujale’s burial frees Yoruba kings from ritual slavery – Oluwo Taiwo Awoniyi back to full training after serious abdominal injury 40% of adults in developing nations now save formally — W’Bank French PM proposes cutting national holidays to cut debt UN lauds Buhari for promoting peace, security in West Africa -------------------------- *DID YOU KNOW?* * Antimatter is the most expensive substance on earth, costing roughly $62.5 trillion per gram. Antimatter is composed of antiparticles, which are counterparts to the particles that make up ordinary matter. * Alongside Sudoku, chess has been named one of the best ways to improve the mind and memory. -------------------------- Akpabio appeals judgment on Natasha’s suspension suit N’Central states mobilise joint security to crush bandits Over 420 federal roads completed or in progress-FG Finance minister defends Tinubu’s tough reforms U.S., UAE visa issuance: Fed Govt begins action on issues of concern We’re yet to receive formal communication from UAE on revised visa policy — FG FAAN, Customs collaborate to remove Nigeria from grey list FG unveils youth ambassador programme in A’Ibom 2027: 300,000 voter cards uncollected in Ondo, says INEC IHS, UNICEF support 100 Osun schools with internet Abia varsity lecturers lament 12 months unpaid salaries UNIZIK suspends SUG election, VC to meet with students Western theories responsible for Africa’s intellectual crisis – LASU prof Buhari’s death wake-up call to improve health facilities – Archbishop Martins People never forget how you made them feel — Davido ValueJet lures tourists to Gambia with low fares Jumia Nigeria names Ojo as new CEO Addosser MFB targets national licence on 17th anniversary Lagos PDP chairmen reject council election results Oyegun picks ADC party’s card in Edo Ibas demands credible LG poll, reforms from Rivers boards Governor Nwifuru reshuffles cabinet Aiyedatiwa assigns portfolios to Ajanaku, Ajibefun, 14 other exco members Sanwo-Olu hails LASTMA’s tech transformation at 25th anniversary Oyo Assembly approves Makinde’s €55m French facility for health reforms Assembly committee tours erosion sites in Abia Lagos unveils N500bn MSME fund for women traders Ogun workers insist on Abiodun talks over pensions row Kwara, Oyo reschedule BECE over Buhari’s death 2025 Tech Festival: Enugu to host AI Centre of Excellence LAWMA sweepers trained in bead making, fashion design Kwara residential building sealed over illegal waste disposal Police recover N5m ransom cash from suspected kidnappers in Delta Abducted Edo Chief Iman released after seven days ‘I Paid Ransom’, Edo Chief Imam Punctures Police Rescue Claim Rampaging cultists hack three to death in Lagos Kidney failure: First Class graduate seeks N45m for transplant -------------------------- *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1979, Iraqi president, Ahmed Hassan al-Bakr, resigned from his post citing health reasons. He promoted his Vice President, Saddam Hussein, to the post of President. -------------------------- We should certainly count our blessings, but we should also make our blessings count. – Neal A. Maxwell Good morning *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com +234-8122200446*
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    Buhari Finally Buried In Daura, Katsina
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