• HOW MY CHILDREN DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE

    I am a medical doctor while my husband is a software developer. We both had good jobs until when the crises in NW and SW started and my husband lost his job and getting another well paid job became difficult, we both decided that I should travel to Canada for a job I got around that time and when I am stabilised, he would join me with the children. We are blessed with 2girls. We continued with our lives.

    December 2018, I decided to come to Cameroon for the festivities and to celebrate or 20th wedding anniversary. When I arrived, I noticed a tensed atmosphere between my daughters and their father. I thought it was the teenager – parent’s issue, so I ignored it. But when I noticed that my daughters would sometimes be rude to their father, I demanded to know what was going on. This became a matter of concern because, my daughters used to adore their father. I tried several times to get my daughters to speak with me but all they had to say was for me to talk to my husband. I had to ask my husband what was going on. He told me it was nothing he could not handle and that our daughters were keeping bad company in school and because of this, he decided to disallow them from going out and attending parties. He drops them in school and created time to pick them from school.

    I was happy as such strong hand is needed for teenage girls. I then ignored their attitude. Few days to when I was to travel back to Canada. I called my daughters to speak with them. After a long talk, they told me that daddy did not want them to go out because he was having sex with both of them. When my husband came back from the office, I confronted him and they repeated what they told me in his presence. My husband denied vehemently but the girls insisted that it was happening.

    I was confused and I sought the counsel of our pastor and his parents. They called our daughters and they said the same thing. I didn’t know who to believe. My husband kept begging me to believe him but I just was not ready to listen because I could not see reason why our children would lie about such. I made arrangement and took my children back to Canada with me despite the loans I had to take, for the extra costs.

    While I filed for divorce. I raised my children alone for about 3years. Then I heard the news that my now ex husband was getting married to someone else. I mentioned it to the girls and expressed how sad I was that a man that would do that to his daughters went scotfree because there is no evidence to push a case. I bursted out crying while apologizing to my girls about what he put them through. It was there that they confessed that their father did not touch them. That they lied because their father did not give them the freedom to do what they wanted and they wanted to leave Cameroon.

    My world shattered. where do I start from? How do I beg my husband? What do I say? Probably, I should have trusted my husband, but I was just trying to be a good mother. I lost a good man. How do I get him to forgive his children and I ? Can I still save my home ?

    Please help me.
    HOW MY CHILDREN DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE 😭😭😭😭 I am a medical doctor while my husband is a software developer. We both had good jobs until when the crises in NW and SW started and my husband lost his job and getting another well paid job became difficult, we both decided that I should travel to Canada for a job I got around that time and when I am stabilised, he would join me with the children. We are blessed with 2girls. We continued with our lives. December 2018, I decided to come to Cameroon for the festivities and to celebrate or 20th wedding anniversary. When I arrived, I noticed a tensed atmosphere between my daughters and their father. I thought it was the teenager – parent’s issue, so I ignored it. But when I noticed that my daughters would sometimes be rude to their father, I demanded to know what was going on. This became a matter of concern because, my daughters used to adore their father. I tried several times to get my daughters to speak with me but all they had to say was for me to talk to my husband. I had to ask my husband what was going on. He told me it was nothing he could not handle and that our daughters were keeping bad company in school and because of this, he decided to disallow them from going out and attending parties. He drops them in school and created time to pick them from school. I was happy as such strong hand is needed for teenage girls. I then ignored their attitude. Few days to when I was to travel back to Canada. I called my daughters to speak with them. After a long talk, they told me that daddy did not want them to go out because he was having sex with both of them. When my husband came back from the office, I confronted him and they repeated what they told me in his presence. My husband denied vehemently but the girls insisted that it was happening. I was confused and I sought the counsel of our pastor and his parents. They called our daughters and they said the same thing. I didn’t know who to believe. My husband kept begging me to believe him but I just was not ready to listen because I could not see reason why our children would lie about such. I made arrangement and took my children back to Canada with me despite the loans I had to take, for the extra costs. While I filed for divorce. I raised my children alone for about 3years. Then I heard the news that my now ex husband was getting married to someone else. I mentioned it to the girls and expressed how sad I was that a man that would do that to his daughters went scotfree because there is no evidence to push a case. I bursted out crying while apologizing to my girls about what he put them through. It was there that they confessed that their father did not touch them. That they lied because their father did not give them the freedom to do what they wanted and they wanted to leave Cameroon. My world shattered. where do I start from? How do I beg my husband? What do I say? Probably, I should have trusted my husband, but I was just trying to be a good mother. I lost a good man. How do I get him to forgive his children and I ? Can I still save my home ? Please help me.
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    I never imagined my life would fall apart over a slice of cake. But when Mason, my husband and partner of ten years, walked out on me and our three daughters, he shattered more than our family. He shattered every illusion I had about the man I thought I knew.

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    The gender reveal party was his idea. He wanted a spectacle—a moment. Something big. I didn't care for the fuss, but I agreed. For him.

    The cake he ordered for the occasion was perfect: a three-tiered showstopper with gold accents, lettering, and smooth, white icing. Inside, the color of the cream would reveal the baby's gender.

    Our backyard was packed with guests: Mason's younger siblings, my family, his family, and our closest friends. The only person missing was Thomas, my husband's father.

    My father-in-law (FIL) never understood gender reveals. "Too modern," he'd scoffed when I invited him. "You find out its gender when the baby's in your arms. All this fuss and expenditure? Nonsense."

    I didn't push him. He was set in his ways, and I knew his approval didn't come easy. But in hindsight, I wished he had come. Maybe the night wouldn't have spiraled into disaster.

    On that fateful day, my husband and I stood with the knife, ready to cut the cake. My hands trembled from nerves and excitement. Olivia clapped, Lyla bounced on her toes, and Everly tugged at my dress, babbling. We sliced the cake.

    The first piece fell onto the plate.

    Pink.

    We were having another girl!

    The world seemed to pause as we all took in the news, ready to celebrate!

    And then Mason snapped.

    "Are you kidding me?!" he barked. His voice cut through the silence like a whip!

    The next second, he exploded! His arm swung, grabbing the cake and chucking it across the yard. Frosting rained down on our stunned guests! I stood there, shocked and speechless like the rest of them!

    I gasped when my daughters' cries broke me out of my daze! Olivia's eyes were wide and wet. Lyla clung to my leg, whimpering.

    "I don't have time for this!" Mason's voice was a low, furious growl. "Another girl? Another girl?!"

    My heart pounded. "What the hell is wrong with you?!"
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    When my husband insisted on having a gender reveal party for our fourth child, I didn't anticipate things going so wrong. That day, he left me stranded with children to care for, and when I discovered the real reason, I wanted nothing to do with him! I never imagined my life would fall apart over a slice of cake. But when Mason, my husband and partner of ten years, walked out on me and our three daughters, he shattered more than our family. He shattered every illusion I had about the man I thought I knew. I'm Jules, 35. Mom to Olivia, my sweet, artistic six-year-old who could paint for hours without coming up for air. Lyla, four, my shadow and sweet cuddle bug. And Everly, nearly two, who was learning to string together the funniest sentences. Mason, 37, and I had built a life together or so I thought. He always said he wanted a big family, and when I found out I was pregnant again, his excitement was almost boyish! "It has to be a boy this time, Jules," he would whisper at night, his hand on my belly as if he could conjure up his deepest wishes with just a touch. "I can feel it." He was obsessed with the idea. He kept talking about names, about football games with his son. I laughed it off, telling him a healthy baby was all that mattered. But Mason… Mason was fixated, and I didn't realize it until it was too late. The gender reveal party was his idea. He wanted a spectacle—a moment. Something big. I didn't care for the fuss, but I agreed. For him. The cake he ordered for the occasion was perfect: a three-tiered showstopper with gold accents, lettering, and smooth, white icing. Inside, the color of the cream would reveal the baby's gender. Our backyard was packed with guests: Mason's younger siblings, my family, his family, and our closest friends. The only person missing was Thomas, my husband's father. My father-in-law (FIL) never understood gender reveals. "Too modern," he'd scoffed when I invited him. "You find out its gender when the baby's in your arms. All this fuss and expenditure? Nonsense." I didn't push him. He was set in his ways, and I knew his approval didn't come easy. But in hindsight, I wished he had come. Maybe the night wouldn't have spiraled into disaster. On that fateful day, my husband and I stood with the knife, ready to cut the cake. My hands trembled from nerves and excitement. Olivia clapped, Lyla bounced on her toes, and Everly tugged at my dress, babbling. We sliced the cake. The first piece fell onto the plate. Pink. We were having another girl! The world seemed to pause as we all took in the news, ready to celebrate! And then Mason snapped. "Are you kidding me?!" he barked. His voice cut through the silence like a whip! The next second, he exploded! His arm swung, grabbing the cake and chucking it across the yard. Frosting rained down on our stunned guests! I stood there, shocked and speechless like the rest of them! I gasped when my daughters' cries broke me out of my daze! Olivia's eyes were wide and wet. Lyla clung to my leg, whimpering. "I don't have time for this!" Mason's voice was a low, furious growl. "Another girl? Another girl?!" My heart pounded. "What the hell is wrong with you?!" ...
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