I’m currently working at a jail and constantly doing overtime to provide for my family and take care of bills/ debt. Every two weeks I work 120 to 130 hours to pay off debt , pay bills and support my wife and three kids (9,7,3). I always pay bills on time, have a 4 bedroom house, take vacations to time to time, and feel like i support my family well.My wife is Chinese and comes from a an extremely well off background where her parents owned business make a great deal of money and constantly give her large sums of money. My wife who’s stay at home doesn’t like to teach the children, stating it’s the schools job, even though both of the kids cant read or or write, gets upset every time I tell her we have to wait to get something so I just let her put it on credit to avoid argument, and gets upset everytime when we do go out that she has to contribute 20 or 40 on outing for snacks even though constantly getting extra income from family. Everytime I try to talk to her she screams calls me poor, a bad provider , a horrible father ( yet every day I’m off I spend taking the kids to parks or events, calls me slow, retarded ( head injury from military and learning disability’s) , bring up every thing from the past ,and just screams at me till I agree with her. I’m currently at the point where everything ends in argument even small issues, she uses the threat of divorce as a weapon, and I have anxiety attacks. I currently spend a lot of extra time at work doing extra overtime since work is peaceful. I don’t know what to do. I’ve been married for almost ten years and don’t even want to celebrate as I’m so dead inside. Is this relationship salvageable? Please keep in mind I’ve had plenty of talks alrea isdy.

*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 02/07/2025*

Nigeria’s economy grows 3.7% in H1

Day 4: Motorists lament as Lagos begins 101-Day Ogudu-Ifako bridge repairs

Students protest against renaming of Poly Ibadan

Marketers defy Dangote’s petrol slash, retain high pump prices

New national athletics coach Aliyu promises reforms

Naira depreciates to N1,585/$ in parallel market

Obi’s acceptance soaring in Northern Nigeria -Obidients

Super Eagles’ Osayi-Samuel announces exit from Fenerbahçe

Coco Gauff crashes out of Wimbledon

Televangelist Jimmy Swaggart dies at 90 after cardiac arrest

Israel says intercepted missile launched from Yemen

Trump threatens to set DOGE on Musk

French PM Bayrou survives no-confidence vote

Police rescue trafficked Ghanaian, caution public against fraudulent travel offers
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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* Remnants of liquor left in the bottom of a glass are referred to as the “heeltap.” When a toast is ended with “and no heel-taps!” it means to drain every last drop.

* People don’t sneeze in their sleep due to their brain shutting down the reflex.
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Black race not lazy, says Tinubu

I’m committed to building inclusive, thriving Nigeria – Tinubu

2026 Commonwealth Games: Tinubu receives King’s baton

Senate hosts African forum on reparation, repatriation of stolen artifacts

79 senators, S’East monarchs endorse Anioma State

Senate Postpones N/West Constitution Review Hearing To Honour Dantata

Reps urge finance ministry to offset Nigeria’s debt to OACPS

Beninese jailed two years for importing 1,960kg cannabis

EFCC arrests 31 suspected internet fraudsters in Nasarawa

BDC operator narrates role in N3.4bn cybercrime, money laundering trial

Troops kill terror kingpin Yellow Danbokkolo

DHQ takes delivery of 84 CNG-powered vehicles to enhance operations

Speakers seek govs’ support for legislative autonomy

Fed Govt to drive investments with Africans for Africa Fund

FGN bonds account for 79% of domestic debt stock

FG moves to harmonise 273 oil, gas fees

FG reviews oil field licensing, halts pipeline vandalism

FG disburses N32bn to strengthen primary healthcare services

INEC to provide supplementary regulations for election declaration, review – Yakubu

FG pledges commitment to promoting restorative justice in rights protection

FG targets safer waterways with local boat manufacturing

CAC unveils AI-powered business registration portal

Oyo-Ogbomoso road to be completed ahead of 2026 deadline — New contractor assures

Apapa Customs rakes in N1.3trn in six months

Alleged land allocation to Wike’s children in FCT sponsored blackmail – Aide

CONUA petitions UNIZIK over unpaid allowances

Rescind your decision to rename our institution, Ibadan Poly Alumni begs Makinde

Tuteria rewards top UTME student with N1m scholarship

Afreximbank upsizes Oando loan to $375m

Investors lose N150bn as market opens July in red

PZ Cussons rebounds with N5.54bn profit

SAA engages Nigerian travel firms on Mauritius route

Temporary disruption hits SIM services nationwide

Aregbesola emerges ADC Interim National Secretary

Atiku, Mark hold closed-door meeting with PDP leaders

2027: Atiku, Mark, Secondus rally PDP members, others to join coalition

FG’s threats, blackmail, patronage made members defect to APC – PDP leaders

Hurricane Tinubu: Delta, Akwa Ibom defend APC defections amid fresh attacks

No coalition can stop Tinubu’s re-election, says Edo ex-Deputy Governor

Lagos monarch dethrones six chiefs for ‘impersonating’ him at Labour Party campaign

Oyebanji assures investors of business business-friendly environment

Gov Mutfwang promises business-friendly environment in Plateau

Corps members safe in Benue, security improved — Gov

Makinde urges calm as students, alumni reject Ibadan Poly renaming

Poly Ibadan renaming: Oyo dep gov, officials meet student leaders behind closed doors

Ondo Assembly clears Aiyedatiwa’s commissioner-designates

Assembly summons AG over Sanwo-Olu’s proposal to delay LG law

Tinubu’s health policies can curb brain drain — Ex-Ondo governor Mimiko

Sanitation: Abia lawmaker condemns arrest of offenders without arraignment

Akeredolu’s death probe sparks tension in Ondo

No going back on single-use plastics enforcement – Lagos

Ilubirin housing project ready 2026 – LASG

Lagos distributes 8m clean cookstoves, targets $1bn carbon

Dantata’s burial brings together warring Kano emirs in Saudi

Residents laud Soludo’s fare reduction efforts

Lagos task force arrests 14,087, impounds 16,625 vehicles in one year

FCT police arrest three wanted kidnappers

30-year-old man kills mother in Jigawa

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1900, the Zeppelin took off for the first time. The rigid aircraft named after Count Ferdinand von Zeppelin, the inventor of the dirigible and founder of the Zeppelin Airship Construction Company, made its first flight over Lake Constance in Germany.

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Be open to learning new lessons, even if they contradict the lessons you learned yesterday. – Ellen DeGeneres


Good morning


*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com +234-8122200446*

1. Talk about business instead of gossips
2. Talk about helping the vulnerable instead of mocking
3. Talk about peace instead of instigating
4. Talk about growth instead of people’s failures
5. Talk about ideas instead of people’s secrets
6. Talk about forgiveness instead of revenge
7. Talk about plans instead of people’s mistakes
8. Talk about kindness instead of hate
9. Talk about purpose instead of distractions
10. Talk about impact instead of insults
11. Talk about reading instead of rumors
12. Talk about patience instead of pressure
13. Talk about responsibility instead of blame
14. Talk about unity instead of division
15. Talk about change instead of complaints
16. Talk about discipline instead of disorder
17. Talk about progress instead of problems
18. Talk about creativity instead of criticism
19. Talk about calm instead of chaos
20. Talk about learning instead of laughing at others
21. Talk about truth instead of twisting stories
22. Talk about love instead of judgment
23. Talk about solutions instead of spreading fear
24. Talk about gratitude instead of grumbling

25. Talk about humility instead of pride
26. Talk about health instead of people’s bodies
27. Talk about goals instead of gossip
28. Talk about support instead of sarcasm
29. Talk about prayers instead of plotting
30. Talk about lifting others instead of looking down on them

What we choose to talk about shapes our environment and reveals our values. Fill your words with things that build, heal, and uplift. Replace mockery with encouragement, and let your conversations become a source of light in dark places. Be known for spreading peace, not drama.

THE LAST PROMISE
PART 8
Weeks had passed since Andre had hugged Mary in her living room, and in that time, something between them had shifted.
Mary no longer jumped when her phone buzzed with his name. She no longer made excuses when he suggested they meet. Instead, she found herself looking forward to his messages, to the sound of his laughter, to the way his eyes crinkled when he smiled at her.
Andre had become her best friend
Every Saturday morning, without fail, Andre would show up at Mary’s doorstep with a bag of fresh fruits from the market—ripe mangoes, sweet pineapples, sometimes even the expensive strawberries she loved but never bought for herself.
"You need to eat better," he would say, grinning as he barged into her kitchen like he owned it.
Mary would roll her eyes but secretly love the way he fussed over her.
In return, she cooked for him.
At first, it was simple things—jollof rice, fried plantains, egusi soup. But as the weeks passed, she found herself putting more effort into it, making his favorite dishes, watching closely for his reaction when he took the first bite.
"Mary,"* he groaned one evening after tasting her ofada stew. "If you keep cooking like this, I’m never leaving."
She laughed, swatting his arm, but her cheeks warmed at the thought.
Andre in her home. Every day.
The idea didn’t scare her as much as it should have.
It happened slowly, then all at once.
One evening, as they sat on her balcony watching the sunset, Mary caught herself staring at Andre’s profile—the strong line of his jaw, the way his lips quirked when he was thinking.
Her stomach fluttered.
She looked away quickly, her heart pounding.
What was that?
Then, another time, when Andre reached across the table to wipe a speck of sauce from her chin, his thumb lingering just a second too long. Mary’s breath hitched, and she saw the way his eyes darkened before he pulled back.
Neither of them mentioned it.
But Mary lay awake that night, staring at the ceiling, wondering when friendship had started feeling like something more.
"Come over to my place tomorrow," Andre said casually one afternoon as they walked through the park. "I’ll cook for you this time."
Mary raised an eyebrow. "You? Cook?"
He smirked. "Don’t sound so surprised. I’ve been learning."
She agreed, curiosity getting the better of her.
The next evening, she stood outside Andre’s apartment, smoothing down her dress—a simple blue one she’d told herself wasn’t special, even though she’d spent too long picking it out.
Andre opened the door before she could knock.
"You’re early," he said, smiling.
Mary’s pulse jumped.
He looked good. Really good. His shirt was slightly unbuttoned, sleeves rolled up to reveal strong forearms. The scent of something delicious—spices, garlic, roasting meat—wafted from inside.
"I didn’t want to keep you waiting," she said, stepping past him.
His apartment was warm, lived in. Neat but not obsessively so. Books lined the shelves, a guitar leaned against the couch, and photos of places he’d traveled covered the walls.
It was so him.
Mary found herself smiling.
Andre hadn’t lied—he could cook.
The fried rice was perfectly seasoned, the chicken juicy, the salad fresh. Mary ate until she was full, laughing as Andre proudly recounted his many failed attempts before getting it right.
"There was smoke," he said, shaking his head. "So much smoke."
Mary giggled, sipping the wine he’d poured her. "I wish I’d seen that."
"No, you don’t," he groaned, but he was smiling.
After dinner, they moved to the couch. Andre put on a movie—some romantic comedy Mary had mentioned wanting to see weeks ago.
She was touched he remembered.
Halfway through, she realized how close they were sitting. Her leg brushed against his, and she didn’t pull away.
Andre’s arm was draped over the back of the couch, his fingers inches from her shoulder.
Mary’s heart raced.
She wasn’t sure who moved first.
One moment, they were laughing at a scene in the movie.
The next, Andre turned his head, his gaze dropping to her lips.
Mary’s breath caught.
Then he leaned in.
His lips were warm, softer than she’d imagined, tasting faintly of wine. For one dizzying second, Mary melted into it.
Then reality crashed over her.
She jerked back, scrambling to her feet.
"Mary—" Andre reached for her, his expression equal parts desire and panic.
"I have to go," she choked out, grabbing her purse.
"Wait, please—"
But she was already out the door, her heart pounding, her lips still burning.
Mary didn’t remember the drive home.
She locked the door behind her, sinking to the floor, her entire body trembling.
What had she done?
What had he done?
Her phone buzzed in her purse—once, twice, then continuously. Andre. Calling. Texting.
"Mary, please talk to me."
"I’m sorry. That was too much."
"Just tell me you’re okay."
She ignored them all, turning her phone face down.
She was angry.
At least, that’s what she told herself.
But the truth was scarier.
The truth was, for that one second before she panicked—she had *wanted* that kiss.
And that terrified her more than anything.
TO BE CONTINUED...

* I trusted you with my heart, believing our love was unbreakable. But your betrayal cut deeper than I ever imagined, turning every memory into a painful echo. I never thought the person I loved most would be the source of my greatest sorrow. Now, I’m left picking up the pieces, learning to heal from the storm you left behind, hoping one day I’ll find peace again*

PROTECTING your CHICKENS from SNAKES!!

Snakes are usually unexpected but shouldn't be a surprise when found around poultry.
It's important to keep snakes out of your chicken environment to keep the eggs, chicks, & even your chickens safe from snake attacks.

If you have snakes around your poultry, it's one sign that you have rodents in the poultry and most likely eating your chicken's feed.

Here are some of the ways you can implement to avoid these creatures in your homesteads:

1. RODENT CONTROL:
Rats love chicken feed and snakes love rats and mice. If you have too many rats running around your yard, chances of sighting a snake are high. Rodent control is therefore important. Ensure proper waste management – burn or properly dispose of any litter far away from the fowl run.

Too much garbage lying around is food for rats and junk items around the yard such as rubbles, old roofing sheets and wood piles provide a safe haven for rats and snakes. As you may be aware, rats breed so fast hence attracting the attention of these reptiles which may end up in your fowl run eating the chickens and eggs.

2. SNAKE REPELLANTS:
Planting snake repellant plants also helps to deter the creatures. These plants emit odours that irritate snakes. Some common examples include marigolds, lemongrass, wormwood, rosemary, thyme, garlic, garden rue and onions. Plant these around the chicken run and yard to provide a protective shield for the birds.

Snake pills from most veterinary shops also help excrete pungent smell that deter these reptiles. Smoke from burning tyres also irritates snakes from settling in the yard. Putting diesel around the perimeter of the yard or fowl run also ensures snakes do not cross the line. You can also put broken bottle pieces around the fowl run to deter snakes from crossing. Spraying a concoction of mahogany tree barks soaked in water around the yard also repels the serpents.

3. CUT DOWN TALL GRASS:
Ensure grass around the yard and fowl run is cut short at all times. Tall grass and thick bushes provide a safe home or hideout for snakes and even mosquitos.

4. COVER ANY FOWL RUN OPENINGS:
With the rains around, snakes are constantly looking for dry and warm places to stay. Fowl runs, homes and storerooms provide these ideal conditions. Ensure the fowl run has no openings that allow snakes to enter especially from the roof.

Cover any openings with mesh wire or plaster any holes or cracks where possible. The fowl run should be snake proof to protect the chickens at all times.

5. PRUNE TREES:
Snakes can climb trees and find ways to enter the fowl run through the roof. Ensure any nearby trees are pruned at all times.

6. COLLECT EGGS REGULARLY:
Snakes are mostly attracted to eggs more than the chickens. It’s only when chickens seem to be a predator when snakes do attack the birds.

Ensure eggs in nesting boxes are removed regularly during the day and remove the ‘temptation’ for snakes to enter the fowl runs.

7. KEEPING GUINEA FOWLS:
Those with guinea fowls (hanga) can testify these birds are very alert and make a lot of noise when they see intruders. Guinea fowls are not afraid of snakes and can fight off and kill these reptiles with ease.

However, guinea fowls can also end up bullying chickens hence you need to introduce them pretty early to ensure they can co-exist well.

8. CATS AND DOGS:
Cats are good at reducing rodent population and even fighting off snakes. Dogs too can help in spotting such intruders. Having these in the yard is a sure help when it comes to managing rodents and keeping snakes away.

CONCLUSION:
In the event you find snakes in the fowl run, it is always advisable to enlist the services of professional snake handlers than trying to manage this on your own.

Some snake species are poisonous and can harm you. Snake handlers know how to catch and rehabilitate these reptiles. Snakes have a purpose in the ecosystem, there is need to preserve them hence the need to call professionals for help.

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*Jigawa State Government Distributes Vehicles to School Principals & Directors*

The Jigawa State Government, under the leadership of Governor Mal. Umar Namadi, has launched the distribution of over 300 Corolla 2012 vehicles to government secondary school principals & directors across the state.

This initiative aims to enhance teaching and learning throughout Jigawa State.

Since assuming office, Governor Namadi has shown a strong commitment to improving education in Jigawa, demonstrating his high regard for its importance. He has consistently prioritized educational advancements, implementing policies and initiatives geared towards elevating the standard of learning and providing a more conducive environment for both students and educators in the state.

His efforts have also extended to the welfare of education personnel, as he has been widely praised for significantly increasing the salaries of teachers and other staff within the state's educational system

Learning Starts with Curiosity! 🥹

TEN ATTITUDES OF SMART PEOPLE

1. They are usually quiet than others – Smart people often prefer to listen and observe rather than dominate conversations.

2. They are aware of their own ignorance – Smart people recognize the limits of their knowledge and are open to learning more.

3. They avoid bragging – Instead of bragging, smart people let their actions speak for themselves.

4. They are humble – Despite their intelligence, they remain modest about their abilities.

5. They may have fewer close friends – They find it difficult to connect deeply with others because of their unique perspective.

6. They ask insightful questions – Smart people question deeply, seeking to understand and analyze.

7. They identify flaws and loopholes – They often examine systems or arguments to find imperfections.

8. They enjoy reading – A love of books and continuous learning is common among intelligent people.

9. They have strong intuition – They can often sense the true intentions and feelings of others.

10. They avoid confrontation – Intelligent individuals generally avoid unnecessary arguments and conflicts.
"Live purposefully"
Good morning
ENJOY YOUR DAY

WHAT IS THE WAY TO IMPROVE LIFE?

1).Don’t compare yourself. Everyone has got their own story to tell and so do you.

2).Reading writing, and staying happy with yourself.

3).Establishing boundaries when you need to.

4).Staying positive about what life has got to offer you.

5).Trying out new things every month or so.

6).Keeping up with your health.

7).Not falling victim to bitterness, hate or other negative emotions.

8).Finding peace.
Learning to “just keep swimming” no matter the weather.

9).Accepting people for who and what they are. Accepting yourself.

10).Learning something new every day even if its teeny tiny.

11).“Be a friend to get a friend”

12).Keeping your home clean.

13).Whether your surround yourself with many people or none is up to you.

14).Do what makes you feel good about your life.

15).Don’t follow protocol but do stay disciplined.

16).Last but not least, stand up for yourself. Don’t let people’s opinions rule over your life.

Cheers!

23 facts about Dr. Apostle Joshua Selman Nimmak.

1.Apostle Joshua Selman is the second of four children.

2. He’s a graduate of Ahmadu Bello University where he studied chemical engineering.

3. He is from Jos, Nigeria.

4. He gave his life to Christ at a very young age at one of his school’s fellowships.

5. He attended Benny Hinn school of ministry.

6. Apostle Joshua Selman has a very glaring and contagious love for God which he never tries to hide.

7. He believes very much in intimacy with God and always says that everything believers do should be from the strength of their secret place with God.

8. Apostle Joshua Selman lives a modest lifestyle. Most of the events in his life are private and unannounced. He is more interested in focusing on God, his goals and making impact than he is about publicizing these things.

9. Apostle Joshua Selman is said to have been a giver since he was little. When he was in a boarding school, everytime he was given his allowance to take back to school, he would share more than half of it amongst his siblings, and take whatever was left to school. Little wonder his life today is one that keeps giving.

10. Contrary to what you may have believed, he doesn’t eat only spiritual food. He eats physical food too. In fact, he loves ice cream and is vocal about it.

11. Growing up, Apostle Joshua Selman had always known he was a different child. His mum has been heard saying many times that when other children went out to play or visit friends, young Selman would be in a small room behind his father’s house reading the Bible and praying for hours.

12. Apostle Joshua Selman once shared that when he was in secondary school, he was made the time prefect in JSS2 and had the responsibility of waking up early. He said in those days, the Holy Spirit would wake him up at about 5am every morning so he could fulfil his duty and ring the bell.

13. He is an amazing singer. Apostle Joshua Selman is not just a teacher. He is a great singer too. One of the things that many people have said they love about him is his voice when he sings. Many times, while preaching, he uses songs to buttress the message and that singular act ministers to many.

14. Apostle Joshua Selman is an ardent believer of balance and moderacy. He is not extreme on anything. He believes that school of thoughts and beliefs should be balanced and not bias or extreme.

15. Apostle Selman is an ardent believer of process, preparation and seasons. He believes that men are made in their times of refining and process and this preparation is indispensable for sustainable success.

16. Apostle Selman is very humble and this is the testimony of everyone who has met him. Regardless of his obvious results and feats, he remains broken before God and meek before men. He is never seen struggling for the spotlight.

17. Apostle Selman is a sincere and deep lover of people. His actions towards and for people always shows his compassion and love for them.

18. Apostle Joshua Selman loves and is very passionate about the Body of Christ. He believes in oneness in the body and that we exist to complement each other.

19. Apostle Selman loves children and always makes them feel noticed and special. Just like our Lord Jesus did, he welcomes children into his bossom at all times

20. Apostle Joshua Selman is passionate about personal development and growth. He believes that people should never see graduation from any institution of any sort as a reason to stop learning. He believes in studying and reading wide and practices this in his own life by studying many books and learning from different platforms.

21. Apostle Joshua Selman has a very large library. Many times in his messages, he has said that he would gladly let go of any of his possessions but he’ll not be happy to let go of the books he possesses particularly the ones that carry his revelations from God.

22. Apostle Joshua Selman is nocturnal. He believes in using the night time to pray and study and he practices it. He has shared that most days, (when he is not ministering), he only gets to sleep at 5am.

23. Apostle is not just spiritual. He is Savvy and Streetwise. Try having a conversation with him on contemporary topics and you’d be amazed at how trendy, savvy and streetwise he his. Add his sense of humor to this and you have someone you’d spend hours with and lose track of time.

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