DEAR YOUNG MAN,

He who lives trusting dies betrayed.

Let this sink in deep because it might save your life and sanity.

Never trust a woman blindly—their loyalty isn’t to you; it’s to their interests. Harsh truth? Yes. But it’s a truth that too many men learn the hard way.

Women don’t love you for who you are—they love what you bring to the table. They love your ability to provide, protect, and elevate their lifestyle. You’re not the prize to them; you’re the vehicle to the prize they desire. And the moment you can no longer provide that value? Many will discard you like yesterday’s leftovers without a second thought.

Why do you think so many men are blindsided in relationships or marriages? They think, “She’s different. She loves me for me.” Wrong. She loves the life you create, the image you project, and the stability you offer. Remove those factors, and you’ll see her true colors.

This isn’t about hating women—it’s about understanding the nature of relationships. Women are driven by self-interest, and honestly, it’s not even their fault—it’s biology. But you, as a man, must protect yourself. Don’t let sweet words and affection blind you to reality.

Ask yourself:
• Does she support your vision or just enjoy the benefits of your hard work?
• Is she loyal to your grind or only to the lifestyle it creates?
• Would she stand by you if you lost everything today?

Don’t give your full trust to anyone who hasn’t proven themselves over time. Test her loyalty, observe her actions, and protect your value. Love her? Sure. But love her with your eyes open, not with your soul exposed.

Trust cautiously, lead decisively, and always prioritize yourself. You’re not a pawn in someone else’s game—you’re the king, and you don’t put your crown in someone else’s hand .

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THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A book written by Robert Greene that offers a series of strategies for obtaining and maintaining power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 laws:

1. Don't outshine the boss: Make your superiors feel superior. Don't expose your talent too much or you might trigger their insecurity.

2. Don't trust friends too much, use your enemies: Friends betray you more easily, but if you manage to win an enemy, they will be more loyal.

3. Hide your intentions: Keep people off balance so they can't anticipate your actions.

4. Always say less than necessary: Silence breeds power, and talking too much reveals your plans.

5. Protect your reputation at all costs: Reputation is the cornerstone of power.

6. Call attention at all costs: Be visible to be relevant.

7. Make others work for you and attribute it: Take advantage of the work and effort of others to your advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't run after others, make them look for you.

9. Win with actions, never arguments: Prove your point through actions, not words.

10. Avoid losers and unhappy: The misfortune of others is contagious; stay away from those who bring you down.

11. Make people depend on you: If others depend on you, you're in control.

12. Disarm with sincerity and selective generosity: Emotional disarmament will give you an edge.

13. When you ask for help, appeal to the interests of others: Appeal to what benefits others, not gratitude or compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a friend, act as a spy: Learn to extract valuable information from others without them noticing.

15. Crush your enemy completely: Do not let your enemy recover, or he will seek revenge.

16. Use absence to increase respect: The value of something increases with scarcity..

17. Keep others in suspense: Be unpredictable, you will confuse others and gain power.

18. Do not isolate yourself: Loneliness weakens you; engage yourself in the web of influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your independence so you don't get caught up in other people's affairs.

21. Pretend to be a fool to catch the sly: Let others think they have an advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the right time gives you the advantage.

23. Focus your forces: Keep your energy focused on what really matters.

24. Be a master at simulation and disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

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THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A book written by Robert Greene that offers a series of strategies for obtaining and maintaining power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 laws:

1. Don't outshine the boss: Make your superiors feel superior. Don't expose your talent too much or you might trigger their insecurity.

2. Don't trust friends too much, use your enemies: Friends betray you more easily, but if you manage to win an enemy, they will be more loyal.

3. Hide your intentions: Keep people off balance so they can't anticipate your actions.

4. Always say less than necessary: Silence breeds power, and talking too much reveals your plans.

5. Protect your reputation at all costs: Reputation is the cornerstone of power.

6. Call attention at all costs: Be visible to be relevant.

7. Make others work for you and attribute it: Take advantage of the work and effort of others to your advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't run after others, make them look for you.

9. Win with actions, never arguments: Prove your point through actions, not words.

10. Avoid losers and unhappy: The misfortune of others is contagious; stay away from those who bring you down.

11. Make people depend on you: If others depend on you, you're in control.

12. Disarm with sincerity and selective generosity: Emotional disarmament will give you an edge.

13. When you ask for help, appeal to the interests of others: Appeal to what benefits others, not gratitude or compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a friend, act as a spy: Learn to extract valuable information from others without them noticing.

15. Crush your enemy completely: Do not let your enemy recover, or he will seek revenge.

16. Use absence to increase respect: The value of something increases with scarcity..

17. Keep others in suspense: Be unpredictable, you will confuse others and gain power.

18. Do not isolate yourself: Loneliness weakens you; engage yourself in the web of influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your independence so you don't get caught up in other people's affairs.

21. Pretend to be a fool to catch the sly: Let others think they have an advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the right time gives you the advantage.

23. Focus your forces: Keep your energy focused on what really matters.

24. Be a master at simulation and disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

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Ten Books To Help You Prosper Financially and Mentally in 2025

1. Turn ChatGPT into a Cash Machine by Eric Mallon. Summary: This book gives seven simple but provably workable ways to make passive income from AI.

2. How to Get Rich Before 30 by A. B. Stanley. Summary: Mr. Stanley teaches how to have a wealth mindset, which opens your eyes to investable opportunities people miss due to a poverty mindset. Although the book is targeted at young adults, the insights are applicable to almost all age categories.

3. The Total Money Makeover by David Ramsay. Summary: He corrects wrong notions about money that most people pick up over time. Mr. Ramsay also has a radio show that airs Monday through Friday from 2–5 PM ET and is watchable live on YouTube.

4. The 80/20 Principle: Achieve More with Less, by Richard Koch. Summary: This is a time management book, which helps you put first things first, and by utilising your time and resources more effectively, Mr. Koch enables you to increase your productivity.

5. Rich Dad Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki. Summary: This book teaches you to differentiate between tangible assets and liabilities that you think are assets. It also teaches practical ways to get cash flow. Mr. Kiyosaki also addresses wrong assumptions that lower income earners teach their offspring about wealth.

6. The Algebra of Wealth: A Simple Formula for Success, by Scott Galloway. Summary: There is no better book to read in 2025 if your focus is to learn the cold, hard facts of how to profit from the financial markets with as little capital as possible.

7. Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth, By T Harv Eker. Summary: This volume focuses on the "mental attitudes that facilitate wealth.” Eker tells you how poor people program their kids to be inadequate and how to undo that programming and redirect your mind towards wealth creation.

8. Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill. Summary: Mr. Hill outlines a program that trains your subconscious mind to attract wealth. It is a thirteen-step program that has, over the years, helped many people of renown achieve success in various aspects of life. It is a total program designed to help you improve the quality of your life.

9. The Wealth Choice: Success Secrets of Black Millionaires, by Dennis Kimbro. Summary: This book is unique because, although the author is a successful entrepreneur, it is not about him. It features his interviews with some of the most successful Black entrepreneurs worldwide, who give insights into how they broke the glass ceiling and created wealth for themselves and others.

10. The Psychology of Money: Timeless Lessons on Wealth, Greed, and Happiness, by Morgan Housel. Summary: Mr. Housel uses short stories to change the reader's perceptions about money.

In 2025, focus on acquiring assets rather than showcasing your flashy lifestyle. Don’t buy and flash the latest Land Rover when you are not a landlord. Don’t flaunt flying in first class when you don’t even have your first business. Use your old iPhone so you can buy new stocks. Assets will give you access and help you assess better places and faces.

Reno Omokri

Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #TableShaker. Ruffler of the Feathers of Obidents. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Hodophile. Hollywood Magazine Humanitarian of the Year, 2019. Business Insider Influencer of the Year 2022. 21st Most Talked About Person in Africa, 2024.

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Quotes from Some "Wise Thinkers"

1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese

2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May

3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun

5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie

6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel

7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri

8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani

9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi

10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran

11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy

12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq

13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky

14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill

15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu

16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi

17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau

18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw

19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!

Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato

21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin

22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr

23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.
Che Guevara

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A calm response can be a powerful tool in settling disputes. When we respond peacefully, we create space for constructive conversation and understanding.

In the heat of the moment, it's easy to let emotions take over. But taking a deep breath and choosing calmness can completely shift the dynamic.

So, the next time you find yourself in a disagreement, remember: a calm response can be the key to resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships.

𝗚𝗢𝗗 𝗗𝗢𝗘𝗦𝗡'𝗧 𝗕𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗘𝗡𝗗 𝗧𝗢 𝗕𝗘

One thing I’ve learned in life is that God doesn’t bless who you pretend to be. He blesses who you really are.

So many of us wear masks trying to fit in, impress others, or appear “perfect.” But here’s the truth: God sees beyond the facade. He sees the real you the struggles, the fears, the dreams, and the beauty He placed in you. And it’s only when you embrace your true self that His blessings can flow into your life.

Stop shrinking yourself to fit into places you’ve outgrown. Stop pretending to be someone you’re not just to gain acceptance. God didn’t call or create the “perfect” version you’re trying to project. He called the raw, authentic you.

You see, authenticity attracts purpose. When you stand in the fullness of who God created you to be, that’s when doors begin to open, favor starts flowing, and your life aligns with His divine plan.

So ask yourself: Who am I when nobody’s watching? Am I brave enough to bring that person into every room I walk into? Because that’s the person God wants to bless.

Be bold. Be real. And let God bless the real you.

Happy new week everyone

Think about the last time you accomplished something meaningful. Did it happen by accident, or did you have a clear plan? The same principle applies to your finances—setting financial goals is the foundation of success.

Why Set Financial Goals?

Gives you direction and purpose.
Helps you focus your resources.
Motivates you to stick to your budget and save.
How to Set Smart Financial Goals:

Be Specific: Instead of saying, “I want to save money,” set a goal like, “I’ll save $10,000 in 12 months.”
Make it Measurable: Track your progress regularly to stay motivated.
Ensure It’s Achievable: Be realistic based on your income and expenses.
Set a Timeline: Deadlines create urgency and help you stay on track.
Break It Down: Divide big goals into smaller, manageable milestones.
Pro Tip: Write down your goals and review them often. The clearer your goals are, the more likely you are to achieve them.

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3. Saving vs. Investing: Which Should You Focus On?
Saving and investing are both essential to building wealth, but they serve different purposes. So, how do you know when to save and when to invest?

When to Save:

You’re building an emergency fund (3–6 months of living expenses).
You’re saving for short-term goals like a vacation or down payment.
You want easy access to your money without the risk of loss.
When to Invest:

You’re aiming for long-term growth (5+ years).
You’re comfortable with some level of risk.
You want your money to grow faster than inflation.
Key Differences:

Savings: Low risk, low reward. Best for safety and liquidity.
Investing: Higher risk, higher potential reward. Best for building wealth over time.
Pro Tip: Strike a balance. Build your savings first, then start investing to grow your money. Both are essential to your financial health.

#SavingVsInvesting #SmartMoneyMoves #FinancialFreedom #WealthBuilding #PersonalFinance #InvestingTips

You were created for a reason. God didn’t place you on this earth by accident. There’s a purpose inside of you that only you can fulfill. But living with purpose requires intentionality—it means aligning your plans, actions, and heart with God’s will.

Purpose is not just about achieving big goals; it’s about making a difference in the lives of others. It’s about using your gifts, talents, and experiences to glorify God and bring hope to the world around you.

Stop waiting for the perfect moment to step into your calling. Start where you are, with what you have. Trust God to lead you, and He will equip you for every step of the journey.

#LiveWithPurpose #GodsCalling #FaithfulLiving #PurposeDriven #InspirationForLife #TrustGodsPlan #HopeAndFaith #KingdomImpact

Land wey God create na him Una dey sell 3.4 million? #nikkitom #gada #nikkitom

The Secret to Financial Freedom: Passive Income Streams

Imagine waking up every morning knowing that money is flowing into your account, even while you sleep. That’s the power of passive income. Unlike active income, where you trade time for money, passive income allows you to build wealth with minimal effort once the system is set up.

So, how do you create passive income streams? Here are some ideas to get started:

1. Real Estate Rentals: Invest in property and earn rental income. It’s a tried-and-true way to build long-term wealth.


2. Dividend Stocks: Invest in companies that pay dividends, allowing you to earn a share of their profits regularly.


3. Create Digital Products: Write an eBook, create an online course, or design templates that can be sold repeatedly.


4. Affiliate Marketing: Partner with brands to promote their products and earn a commission for every sale.


5. Start a Blog or YouTube Channel: While it takes effort initially, once you have an audience, ad revenue and sponsorship deals can generate passive income.


6. Invest in Peer-to-Peer Lending: Platforms like LendingClub or Prosper allow you to earn interest by lending money to others.



Why is passive income important? It frees you from the 9-to-5 grind, provides financial security, and allows you to focus on things you’re passionate about. Start small, be consistent, and watch your income grow over time.

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