• Those who dedicate themselves to pulling others down often become trapped in the very bitterness they create. Their eyes leave their purpose. Their strength leaks through the cracks of envy. Their growth is stunted by distraction.
    Those who dedicate themselves to pulling others down often become trapped in the very bitterness they create. Their eyes leave their purpose. Their strength leaks through the cracks of envy. Their growth is stunted by distraction.
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  • "Everything God has created has glory, the moon, the sun, the sky has glory."!!!
    "Everything God has created has glory, the moon, the sun, the sky has glory."!!!
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  • What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

    This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
    If you are open-minded, you can still read.
    Nobody knows it all.

    1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
    NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
    It will save you a lot.
    There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
    With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
    A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

    2. Have a family doctor very very important.
    See, no church will tell you this.
    Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
    Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

    3. Also, have a family lawyer.
    Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
    But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

    4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
    Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
    My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
    Get help if you can.

    5. Buy things in bulk.
    The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
    You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
    That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
    There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

    6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
    As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
    I don’t have to worry about it again.
    It helps me plan myself.
    Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

    7. Strive to have passive income.
    Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
    No matter what try and get something like that.
    It will save you from a lot of stress.

    8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
    This one is very, very important.
    Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
    You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

    9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
    You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
    Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
    Allow the kids air their opinions.

    Ask the kids:
    Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

    Same thing with your wife.
    Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
    This helps in uniting the family.

    Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
    Just make it a habit and a culture.
    It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

    Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
    And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

    This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
    I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
    You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.
    What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.
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  • Dear Sir 2Baba, the pride of Niger!a and beyond, what happened to you, Baba? Are you still there? Can you please bring your 0ld self back, or are you not seeing the trend and how everyone 0nline is making a M0¢kery of you, which is not supposed to be so?

    2Baba Can you for once forget about women and fo¢us on yourself? Do you know that people no loπger respe¢t you due to how your suddenly newfound love tr£ats you in publ!c? Just a few days ago, your new wife reportedly B0ught a new car for her mother as a birthday g!ft. You, 2Baba, could be seen standing like just a statμe instead of being respected and honored like a statue of liberty. Her mother coμldn't even say hi to you, not to mention hμgg!ng you, as she hμgged every other person in the video making rounds on the interπet. And to W0rsen it all, the people are using AI to create f∆lse narratives about you right now, and not only that, there's more to it. All of this I'm saying is in the public domain.

    2Baba, is this love or just for pleasure? Is it not high time you retrace your steps and uphold your integrity, peace, and ego?
    2baba do you know that you're bigger than that your new woman where your craft have taken you to is beyond her and her entire family's W£alth

    2Baba If you look well, you will get to see what I'm seeing in this, your new W0man. In my opinion, she's here to d£stroy you. She's the phys!¢al Del!lah. After D£al!ng with you, you will be on the other side of life singing "Kasongo ye ye, mobali na ngai.Kasongo nga nawe oh, zonga libala eh."

    2Baba What happened to your African queen, Annie? Why did you fall 0ut with your African queen, the girl of your dreams? Why do you suddenly d£sp!se her so much now? Well, that's you people's business, but hey, that W0man contributed to your growth. Do you know how mighty and P0werful you were then? Oh, how the mighty man has fall£n inside "toto". You allowed "toto" to get the best of you...2Baba, all I can say to you now is there is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn’t.

    FROM: WEALTHY FAMILY
    Dear Sir 2Baba, the pride of Niger!a and beyond, what happened to you, Baba? Are you still there? Can you please bring your 0ld self back, or are you not seeing the trend and how everyone 0nline is making a M0¢kery of you, which is not supposed to be so? 2Baba Can you for once forget about women and fo¢us on yourself? Do you know that people no loπger respe¢t you due to how your suddenly newfound love tr£ats you in publ!c? Just a few days ago, your new wife reportedly B0ught a new car for her mother as a birthday g!ft. You, 2Baba, could be seen standing like just a statμe instead of being respected and honored like a statue of liberty. Her mother coμldn't even say hi to you, not to mention hμgg!ng you, as she hμgged every other person in the video making rounds on the interπet. And to W0rsen it all, the people are using AI to create f∆lse narratives about you right now, and not only that, there's more to it. All of this I'm saying is in the public domain. 2Baba, is this love or just for pleasure? Is it not high time you retrace your steps and uphold your integrity, peace, and ego? 2baba do you know that you're bigger than that your new woman where your craft have taken you to is beyond her and her entire family's W£alth 2Baba If you look well, you will get to see what I'm seeing in this, your new W0man. In my opinion, she's here to d£stroy you. She's the phys!¢al Del!lah. After D£al!ng with you, you will be on the other side of life singing "Kasongo ye ye, mobali na ngai.Kasongo nga nawe oh, zonga libala eh." 2Baba What happened to your African queen, Annie? Why did you fall 0ut with your African queen, the girl of your dreams? Why do you suddenly d£sp!se her so much now? Well, that's you people's business, but hey, that W0man contributed to your growth. Do you know how mighty and P0werful you were then? Oh, how the mighty man has fall£n inside "toto". You allowed "toto" to get the best of you...2Baba, all I can say to you now is there is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn’t. FROM: WEALTHY FAMILY 📍
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  • 25 THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD SAY TO HER HUSBAND WITHOUT FEELING SHY.

    1. Honey, let's make love...

    2. Here are my free days...ovulation days...We can have r@w $€x as much as possible on days I'm free without getting pregnant (if you are using natural family planning method).

    3. I need more money...
    4. I don't like the way you chat with your ex...
    5. I just sent some money to your account for you to enjoy yourself this weekend...
    6. Pray for me...
    7. Send more money to your mum...
    8. I'm not comfortable with the way you touch ladies/give them too much attention...
    9. Let's pray over this...
    10. Kiss me...
    11. I love how you make l0ve to me....
    12. I love your p£nis...
    13. You are so handsome...
    14. Thanks for working hard to take care if us...
    15. Your sacrifice for our well being is beyond measure...you always amaze me...
    16. Your $exy body turns me on...
    17. You are such a man of wisdom! The Solomon of my life...
    18. I love you...
    19. Can you please, help me wash my panties...(when you are sick, tired, stressed and has no one else to help)
    20. Thank you for asking me to marry you...
    21. No man can ever catch my attention as you do...
    22. You are the best of all male species the good Lord ever created...
    23. You rock my world...
    24. God bless your mother for giving birth to such a great man like you...
    25. I love your mum...
    25 THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD SAY TO HER HUSBAND WITHOUT FEELING SHY. 1. Honey, let's make love... 2. Here are my free days...ovulation days...We can have r@w $€x as much as possible on days I'm free without getting pregnant (if you are using natural family planning method). 3. I need more money... 4. I don't like the way you chat with your ex... 5. I just sent some money to your account for you to enjoy yourself this weekend... 6. Pray for me... 7. Send more money to your mum... 8. I'm not comfortable with the way you touch ladies/give them too much attention... 9. Let's pray over this... 10. Kiss me... 11. I love how you make l0ve to me.... 12. I love your p£nis... 13. You are so handsome... 14. Thanks for working hard to take care if us... 15. Your sacrifice for our well being is beyond measure...you always amaze me... 16. Your $exy body turns me on... 17. You are such a man of wisdom! The Solomon of my life... 18. I love you... 19. Can you please, help me wash my panties...(when you are sick, tired, stressed and has no one else to help) 20. Thank you for asking me to marry you... 21. No man can ever catch my attention as you do... 22. You are the best of all male species the good Lord ever created... 23. You rock my world... 24. God bless your mother for giving birth to such a great man like you... 25. I love your mum...
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  • TALK FOR THE TODAY (Please Read &Share)

    8+8+8 RULES TO BALANCE LIFE

    The 8+8+8 rule offers a balanced approach to managing daily life. By allocating time into three 8-hour blocks, individuals can prioritize:

    1. Work (8 hours): Focus on professional or personal projects, ensuring productivity and career growth.

    2. Good Sleep (8 hours): Prioritize rest and rejuvenation for physical and mental health.

    3. Personal Time (8 hours): Divide this into three aspects:
    - 3F - Family, Friends, and Faith: Strengthen relationships, nurture connections, and explore spirituality.
    - 3H - Health, Hygiene, and Hobbies: Maintain physical well-being, practice self-care, and enjoy personal interests.
    - 3S - Soul, Service, and Smile: Cultivate inner peace, engage in community service, and spread positivity.

    This framework encourages:
    - Balance: Allocate time effectively across different areas of life.
    - Self-care: Prioritize physical, emotional, and mental well-being.
    - Relationships: Nurture connections with loved ones and build meaningful relationships.
    - Personal growth: Pursue hobbies, interests, and spiritual growth.

    By embracing the 8+8+8 rule, individuals can create a more balanced, fulfilling, and purposeful life.
    TALK FOR THE TODAY (Please Read &Share) 8+8+8 RULES TO BALANCE LIFE The 8+8+8 rule offers a balanced approach to managing daily life. By allocating time into three 8-hour blocks, individuals can prioritize: 1. Work (8 hours): Focus on professional or personal projects, ensuring productivity and career growth. 2. Good Sleep (8 hours): Prioritize rest and rejuvenation for physical and mental health. 3. Personal Time (8 hours): Divide this into three aspects: - 3F - Family, Friends, and Faith: Strengthen relationships, nurture connections, and explore spirituality. - 3H - Health, Hygiene, and Hobbies: Maintain physical well-being, practice self-care, and enjoy personal interests. - 3S - Soul, Service, and Smile: Cultivate inner peace, engage in community service, and spread positivity. This framework encourages: - Balance: Allocate time effectively across different areas of life. - Self-care: Prioritize physical, emotional, and mental well-being. - Relationships: Nurture connections with loved ones and build meaningful relationships. - Personal growth: Pursue hobbies, interests, and spiritual growth. By embracing the 8+8+8 rule, individuals can create a more balanced, fulfilling, and purposeful life.
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  • WHY THERE ARE NO PRESIDENTIAL ELECTIONS IN CHINA

    No Chinese citizen awakens one morning contemplating: “I shall vote for my president.”

    WHY?

    Because the Chinese president is not elected by the populace. He is chosen by members of the CHINESE COMMUNIST PARTY.

    But wait — this is not a political party in the conventional sense. It is not a local political club that anyone can join.

    NO.

    The Chinese Communist Party is an ELITE.
    You cannot simply join because you desire it.
    You gain entry only if you are SELECTED.

    And who is selected?
    ELITES.
    TRAINED individuals.
    EDUCATED individuals.
    POWERFUL individuals.
    People who have already demonstrated their capacity to think STRATEGICALLY, ECONOMICALLY, and POLITICALLY.

    Why this model?
    Why not allow the people to choose, as in other nations?

    Because China’s system is founded on a HARSH yet REALISTIC observation:

    Someone who is impoverished, who is uncertain if they will have food to eat tonight, who does not know if they will survive the night… cannot possibly possess the clarity of mind required to select a country’s president.

    Yes, it is difficult to accept.
    But it is the TRUTH.
    Someone who cannot comprehend their own life… cannot grasp the complexities of a nation.

    Do you genuinely believe that a person struggling with poverty, who knows nothing of geopolitics, economics, international relations, industrial strategies, or national defence… can wisely choose who should govern a power like CHINA?

    I do not think so.

    You may express emotional cries of “democracy, democracy,” but China is PRAGMATIC.

    It prefers to entrust the governance of its people to TRAINED MINDS, to individuals who have been SELECTED, SCRUTINISED, and TRAINED for this task.

    Because if you cannot govern your own life, how can you select a leader for 1.4 billion people?

    That is why, in China, it is not the people who vote.
    It is the Chinese Communist Party that makes the choice.

    And even to become a member of that Party, one must possess a certain LEVEL, a TRACK RECORD, and ACHIEVEMENTS.

    Power is not acquired through emotional ballots —
    it is attained through COMPETENCE, RIGOUR, DISCIPLINE, and EVIDENCE.

    In China, they do not gamble with the future of the nation.
    They do not rely on the uninformed majority.
    They assign responsibility to those who have proven their ability to shoulder the weight of reality.

    Something to ponder.



    HERE ARE 4 POWERFUL STRATEGIC LESSONS FROM THE CHINESE GOVERNANCE MODEL



    1️⃣. COMPETENCE OUTWEIGHS POPULAR OPINION

    LESSON: A nation or company flourishes when it is led by the most competent — not the loudest.

    China does not leave its fate to chance or popular sentiment.
    It selects leaders based on merit, experience, performance, and discipline.

    RESULT: In 40 years, it has evolved from a developing country to the second largest economy in the world — and soon possibly the first.

    While other countries elect leaders based on promises and slogans, China places STRATEGISTS at the helm of its future.



    2️⃣. ELITES ARE NOT A THREAT WHEN WELL MANAGED — THEY ARE A NECESSITY

    LESSON: If you desire elite results, you must have elites in charge.

    In China, membership in the Communist Party represents the pinnacle of meritocracy.
    You do not attain this through populism. You reach it through intelligence, rigour, loyalty, and results.
    These individuals make significant decisions for the country.

    This strategy has enabled China to lift over 800 million people out of poverty in 30 years, create giants like Huawei, Alibaba, and Tencent, and position itself as a global leader in technology, infrastructure, and AI.



    3️⃣. STABILITY IS PREFERABLE TO DEMOCRATIC CHAOS

    LESSON: Long-term development requires avoiding impulsive shifts in direction.

    China does not change course every five years.
    It plans for 30, 50, even 100 years ahead.

    Mega-projects like the Belt and Road Initiative, the development of megacities, or technological supremacy are planned across generations.

    Why? Because power is stable, centralised, and thoughtful.

    In contrast, other nations waste time creating and rescinding public policies after each election — resulting in instability, waste, and stagnation.



    4️⃣. GUIDED COLLECTIVE INTELLIGENCE IS MORE EFFECTIVE THAN THE ILLUSION OF FREEDOM

    LESSON: A population directed by a clear vision progresses more swiftly than one engulfed in disorder.

    China has made a bold decision: to train its elites and entrust them with the responsibility of guiding the masses.

    RESULT:
    Swift decisions, infrastructure constructed in weeks, a flourishing digital economy, and increasing global influence.

    Meanwhile, countries where “everyone expresses their opinion” struggle to build a simple bridge or enact a strategic law.

    China ACTS while others merely TALK.
    WHY THERE ARE NO PRESIDENTIAL ELECTIONS IN CHINA No Chinese citizen awakens one morning contemplating: “I shall vote for my president.” WHY? Because the Chinese president is not elected by the populace. He is chosen by members of the CHINESE COMMUNIST PARTY. But wait — this is not a political party in the conventional sense. It is not a local political club that anyone can join. NO. The Chinese Communist Party is an ELITE. You cannot simply join because you desire it. You gain entry only if you are SELECTED. And who is selected? ELITES. TRAINED individuals. EDUCATED individuals. POWERFUL individuals. People who have already demonstrated their capacity to think STRATEGICALLY, ECONOMICALLY, and POLITICALLY. Why this model? Why not allow the people to choose, as in other nations? Because China’s system is founded on a HARSH yet REALISTIC observation: Someone who is impoverished, who is uncertain if they will have food to eat tonight, who does not know if they will survive the night… cannot possibly possess the clarity of mind required to select a country’s president. Yes, it is difficult to accept. But it is the TRUTH. Someone who cannot comprehend their own life… cannot grasp the complexities of a nation. Do you genuinely believe that a person struggling with poverty, who knows nothing of geopolitics, economics, international relations, industrial strategies, or national defence… can wisely choose who should govern a power like CHINA? I do not think so. You may express emotional cries of “democracy, democracy,” but China is PRAGMATIC. It prefers to entrust the governance of its people to TRAINED MINDS, to individuals who have been SELECTED, SCRUTINISED, and TRAINED for this task. Because if you cannot govern your own life, how can you select a leader for 1.4 billion people? That is why, in China, it is not the people who vote. It is the Chinese Communist Party that makes the choice. And even to become a member of that Party, one must possess a certain LEVEL, a TRACK RECORD, and ACHIEVEMENTS. Power is not acquired through emotional ballots — it is attained through COMPETENCE, RIGOUR, DISCIPLINE, and EVIDENCE. In China, they do not gamble with the future of the nation. They do not rely on the uninformed majority. They assign responsibility to those who have proven their ability to shoulder the weight of reality. Something to ponder. ⸻ HERE ARE 4 POWERFUL STRATEGIC LESSONS FROM THE CHINESE GOVERNANCE MODEL ⸻ 1️⃣. COMPETENCE OUTWEIGHS POPULAR OPINION LESSON: A nation or company flourishes when it is led by the most competent — not the loudest. China does not leave its fate to chance or popular sentiment. It selects leaders based on merit, experience, performance, and discipline. RESULT: In 40 years, it has evolved from a developing country to the second largest economy in the world — and soon possibly the first. While other countries elect leaders based on promises and slogans, China places STRATEGISTS at the helm of its future. ⸻ 2️⃣. ELITES ARE NOT A THREAT WHEN WELL MANAGED — THEY ARE A NECESSITY LESSON: If you desire elite results, you must have elites in charge. In China, membership in the Communist Party represents the pinnacle of meritocracy. You do not attain this through populism. You reach it through intelligence, rigour, loyalty, and results. These individuals make significant decisions for the country. This strategy has enabled China to lift over 800 million people out of poverty in 30 years, create giants like Huawei, Alibaba, and Tencent, and position itself as a global leader in technology, infrastructure, and AI. ⸻ 3️⃣. STABILITY IS PREFERABLE TO DEMOCRATIC CHAOS LESSON: Long-term development requires avoiding impulsive shifts in direction. China does not change course every five years. It plans for 30, 50, even 100 years ahead. Mega-projects like the Belt and Road Initiative, the development of megacities, or technological supremacy are planned across generations. Why? Because power is stable, centralised, and thoughtful. In contrast, other nations waste time creating and rescinding public policies after each election — resulting in instability, waste, and stagnation. ⸻ 4️⃣. GUIDED COLLECTIVE INTELLIGENCE IS MORE EFFECTIVE THAN THE ILLUSION OF FREEDOM LESSON: A population directed by a clear vision progresses more swiftly than one engulfed in disorder. China has made a bold decision: to train its elites and entrust them with the responsibility of guiding the masses. RESULT: Swift decisions, infrastructure constructed in weeks, a flourishing digital economy, and increasing global influence. Meanwhile, countries where “everyone expresses their opinion” struggle to build a simple bridge or enact a strategic law. China ACTS while others merely TALK.
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  • What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

    This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
    If you are open-minded, you can still read.
    Nobody knows it all.

    1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
    NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
    It will save you a lot.
    There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
    With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
    A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

    2. Have a family doctor very very important.
    See, no church will tell you this.
    Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
    Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

    3. Also, have a family lawyer.
    Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
    But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

    4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
    Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
    My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
    Get help if you can.

    5. Buy things in bulk.
    The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
    You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
    That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
    There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

    6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
    As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
    I don’t have to worry about it again.
    It helps me plan myself.
    Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

    7. Strive to have passive income.
    Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
    No matter what try and get something like that.
    It will save you from a lot of stress.

    8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
    This one is very, very important.
    Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
    You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

    9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
    You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
    Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
    Allow the kids air their opinions.

    Ask the kids:
    Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

    Same thing with your wife.
    Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
    This helps in uniting the family.

    Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
    Just make it a habit and a culture.
    It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

    Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
    And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

    This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
    I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
    You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.
    What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.
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  • NO MATTER YOUR WEIGHT, IT IS ONLY GOD WHO HAS THE POWER TO CREATE WEALTH AND HELP YOU ACHIEVE IT.
    NO MATTER YOUR WEIGHT, IT IS ONLY GOD WHO HAS THE POWER TO CREATE WEALTH AND HELP YOU ACHIEVE IT. 📍📌
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  • To the Leadership of University of Calabar

    For students who have invested 7-8 years of their lives, many now in their final year, this directive to withdraw is not just disheartening; it is deeply unjust.

    Education is a contract built on trust: when a student commits time, effort, and money, the institution must keep its end of the bargain. These students did not over-admit themselves. They did not set the quotas. They did not create this crisis. These actions are of the school!

    It is unfair and frankly unacceptable to push the burden of a broken system onto young people who have only done what they were told would secure their future.

    I hope the University of Calabar rethinks this decision and finds a fair solution that doesn’t dump the weight on young people who’ve already given so much.

    Let’s do better. These students and Nigeria deserve better.

    Nigeria depends on the strength of its institutions.
    ~@aproko_doctor
    #SurvivingDentistryInUNICAL

    To the Leadership of University of Calabar For students who have invested 7-8 years of their lives, many now in their final year, this directive to withdraw is not just disheartening; it is deeply unjust. Education is a contract built on trust: when a student commits time, effort, and money, the institution must keep its end of the bargain. These students did not over-admit themselves. They did not set the quotas. They did not create this crisis. These actions are of the school! It is unfair and frankly unacceptable to push the burden of a broken system onto young people who have only done what they were told would secure their future. I hope the University of Calabar rethinks this decision and finds a fair solution that doesn’t dump the weight on young people who’ve already given so much. Let’s do better. These students and Nigeria deserve better. Nigeria depends on the strength of its institutions. ~@aproko_doctor #SurvivingDentistryInUNICAL
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  • What Peter Obi did by serving food at the event wasn’t about politics or seeking publicity.

    He was participating in the Jubilee of Hope, a special day created to reverse roles—where the rich serve the poor.

    It’s more than a kind gesture. It is a powerful reminder of equity, justice, and the kind of humanity we should all strive for.

    This tradition encourages people in positions of privilege to step into humility and service, even if only for a day.

    It speaks to the very heart of many faiths, especially the Catholic Church, which teaches that love is best shown through action.

    A serving senator, Chijinkem Ugwuanyi, was also there, serving food to others during the same event.

    That alone tells you this moment wasn’t about politics. It was about people.

    Maria Ude Nwachi
    What Peter Obi did by serving food at the event wasn’t about politics or seeking publicity. He was participating in the Jubilee of Hope, a special day created to reverse roles—where the rich serve the poor. It’s more than a kind gesture. It is a powerful reminder of equity, justice, and the kind of humanity we should all strive for. This tradition encourages people in positions of privilege to step into humility and service, even if only for a day. It speaks to the very heart of many faiths, especially the Catholic Church, which teaches that love is best shown through action. A serving senator, Chijinkem Ugwuanyi, was also there, serving food to others during the same event. That alone tells you this moment wasn’t about politics. It was about people. Maria Ude Nwachi
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  • Strife is a divisive agent which causes confusion, destroy unity, and create hostility in human relationships.
    Strife is a divisive agent which causes confusion, destroy unity, and create hostility in human relationships.
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