Be careful what you hear about somebody, you might be hearing it from the problem.
Not every story told is told with pure intentions. Sometimes the loudest person in the room, the one playing the victim or acting like the innocent party, is actually the root of the issue. People who cause pain, chaos, or destruction often try to rewrite the narrative before the truth has a chance to surface. They will speak first, speak the most, and speak in ways that gather sympathy, hoping others never stop to question their version of the story.
They spread rumors, twist facts, and leave out their own faults—because if they can make someone else look bad, they can keep hiding behind a mask. It’s a tactic of manipulation and self-preservation. And the sad truth is, many people fall for it without ever asking the other side of the story. That’s how good people get misunderstood, and how toxic individuals continue their damage unchecked.
Always remember: there are three sides to every story—what they said, what the other person experienced, and the truth that lives somewhere in between. Take your time to observe. Watch patterns, not performances. Listen to your intuition, not just the noise.
Be slow to judge, quick to question, and wise enough to know that the person pointing fingers might be doing it to keep you from seeing what’s on their own hands.
Not every story told is told with pure intentions. Sometimes the loudest person in the room, the one playing the victim or acting like the innocent party, is actually the root of the issue. People who cause pain, chaos, or destruction often try to rewrite the narrative before the truth has a chance to surface. They will speak first, speak the most, and speak in ways that gather sympathy, hoping others never stop to question their version of the story.
They spread rumors, twist facts, and leave out their own faults—because if they can make someone else look bad, they can keep hiding behind a mask. It’s a tactic of manipulation and self-preservation. And the sad truth is, many people fall for it without ever asking the other side of the story. That’s how good people get misunderstood, and how toxic individuals continue their damage unchecked.
Always remember: there are three sides to every story—what they said, what the other person experienced, and the truth that lives somewhere in between. Take your time to observe. Watch patterns, not performances. Listen to your intuition, not just the noise.
Be slow to judge, quick to question, and wise enough to know that the person pointing fingers might be doing it to keep you from seeing what’s on their own hands.
Be careful what you hear about somebody, you might be hearing it from the problem.
Not every story told is told with pure intentions. Sometimes the loudest person in the room, the one playing the victim or acting like the innocent party, is actually the root of the issue. People who cause pain, chaos, or destruction often try to rewrite the narrative before the truth has a chance to surface. They will speak first, speak the most, and speak in ways that gather sympathy, hoping others never stop to question their version of the story.
They spread rumors, twist facts, and leave out their own faults—because if they can make someone else look bad, they can keep hiding behind a mask. It’s a tactic of manipulation and self-preservation. And the sad truth is, many people fall for it without ever asking the other side of the story. That’s how good people get misunderstood, and how toxic individuals continue their damage unchecked.
Always remember: there are three sides to every story—what they said, what the other person experienced, and the truth that lives somewhere in between. Take your time to observe. Watch patterns, not performances. Listen to your intuition, not just the noise.
Be slow to judge, quick to question, and wise enough to know that the person pointing fingers might be doing it to keep you from seeing what’s on their own hands.
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