*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

Floyd Mayweather: "People see the flash, the cars, the money, the jewelry. But what they don’t see is the years of sacrifice. They don’t see me running at 3 a.m. when everyone else is asleep. They don’t see me going to the gym, day after day, even when I don’t have a fight scheduled. I always say, 'Hard work and dedication.' That’s not just a slogan; that’s my lifestyle. If you want to be the best at anything, you have to be willing to outwork everyone. Talent is nothing without discipline, and discipline is nothing without consistency."

If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror. What is threatening about the choice they're making? What would it mean about you if you did it? How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of? People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person. But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices. And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people. When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents? What is that judgment trying to protect you from? What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this? It's eliciting an emotion in you. Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling. Can you meet that judgment with curiosity? Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them. What story are you projecting onto this person? Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have. Get curious. What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?

If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror. What is threatening about the choice they're making? What would it mean about you if you did it? How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of? People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person. But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices. And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people. When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents? What is that judgment trying to protect you from? What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this? It's eliciting an emotion in you. Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling. Can you meet that judgment with curiosity? Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them. What story are you projecting onto this person? Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have. Get curious. What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?

WHY YOUR SALARY IS NEVER ENOUGH? “Expenses always rise to match income.” That’s Parkinson’s Law. And it’s silently sabotaging millions of good people every payday. You used to survive on $300. Then you got a raise to $500. Suddenly, your life demands $500… plus $50 in debt. You didn’t upgrade your investments. You upgraded your wardrobe, the car you drive, the neighborhood you stay, your DSTV bouquet and your taste. So now… You’re earning more, but feeling poorer. You’ve got a better phone, but no emergency fund. You live in a better flat, but can’t survive two months without a salary. That’s the trap. The more money you earn, the more your lifestyle expands to swallow it. Parkinson’s Law turns your salary from seed into smoke. The key word is 'salary'. Conditions surrounding the salary embed a very dangerous mindset. - You MUST fight lifestyle inflation. Upon getting a raise, don't change anything in your life, rather save 100% of the extra for one year. - it's ok, if suddenly you look like the poorest at your workplace, but begin to lend workmates money collecting interest (20% minimum). Look for people with problems and help them. Teach everyone depend on you for emergencies. You will be surprised that soon, your boss's name will also be in your books inspite of his/her big paycheck. He/she has suddenly become your servant. - being among people who think a certain way can be your greatest blessing. Make sure the entire company raise finds its way to your pocket. Never feel bad doing this because you are actually helping them. - then start a second side hustle quietly and begin making money. Ensure that your side hustle doesn't affect your work. In the meantime, you MUST master delayed gratification. Do you see that every time your salary increases, you have two choices? 1. Look richer. 2. Become wealthier. One is for likes. The other is for legacy. Don’t let Parkinson’s Law keep you broke with a bigger paycheck. Beat it by planting your salary, not spending your harvest before it grows. Be wiser than your appetite. #Your network creates your networth #SalaryIsSeed

Regina, you’re like a child to me. You grew up in my presence. I remember when you and your mother used to come to my house — small, respectful girl. I watched you grow, and I honestly thought you had sense… that you’d marry someone close to your age. But no, greed carried you far. Private jets, designer bags, flying around the world — all for a lifestyle you could’ve worked for yourself. Instead, you married a man old enough to be your great-grandfather, all because you wanted luxury overnight. My dear, that’s not success. That’s shortcut. You think because you now have some fame and money, you can open your mouth and talk to me anyhow? When I talk, you should be listening. I’m the woman you wish to be — I built myself, no shortcuts, no sugar-coated help. Everything I have today, I earned it with my sweat. Don’t get it twisted — I won’t trade words with you again. I know you just want to trend. You and your husband have been quiet for a while, and this is your way of reminding Nigerians that you still exist. But me? I don't need stunts. My name speaks for itself. And please, don’t mistake marriage for maturity. If you insult me again, I’ll remind you of everything you’ve tried to sweep under the rug. This is your final warning. Don’t cross that line again."- Angela okorie fires back at Regina Daniels after she called her mad. #tinglespicey #mazitundeednut #fyp2025 #nonsmiraj #nollywoodonline #nollywoodcelebrities #PulseViral #nollywood #nollywoodchallenge #viral

✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ Founded in 2015 in Singapore, Shopee is a leading e-commerce company in Southeast Asia and Taiwan. In Brazil, we started operating in 2019 with a local team and offices in the city of São Paulo. We already have more than 3 million registered Brazilian sellers on the platform and we are the number 1 app in average monthly active users in the shopping category. The company is part of Sea Limited (NYSE: SE), a global consumer internet leader whose mission is to improve the lives of consumers and small businesses with technology through its three main businesses: Shopee, Garena and SeaMoney. We Stay Humble: We believe in always learning from the market and our competitors. We accept that we are not perfect, and that we will never achieve perfection. We work hard first, celebrate successes later. Why work with us? We value our employees, seeking to offer the best work environment, incredible opportunities, so that they develop and improve their skills daily. Our environment is vibrant and fosters a fun and collaborative work culture! And most importantly, here you can be who you are! After all, what makes you unique, makes us better! Our mission at Shopee is to be the most customer-centric company on the planet, and doing what’s best for our customers is where our energy comes from, which is why you’ll find us approaching things differently here. Instead, we’ll provide you with the training you need to solve problems for our customers. You’ll bring your unique personality to every customer conversation and deliver an exceptional support experience that your customers love. What qualifications do we need from you? Minimum age: 25 years What advantages will you bring? Hard-working, articulate and detail-oriented Friendly and customer-focused in all situations Ability to learn quickly and embrace change Comfortably multitask in high-energy environments. What benefits will you get? One of the benefits of joining Shopee’s customer service team is that you don’t need any previous customer service experience. When you join, you’ll receive training and a full equipment package. Plus, we offer a range of benefits, including: Shopee Employee Discount Enjoy lifestyle benefits and retail discounts with our Shopee Extras program Specialized training and ongoing opportunities to learn more and develop your skills Required roles: Online Customer Service Team Our company’s mission is to be a customer-centric company on a global scale. Our award-winning customer service team plays a key role in achieving this goal, starting with empowering our customers. You can see the changes we’ve made here. You won’t be asked to read from a script or memorize dialogue; instead, we’ll give you the training you need to solve customer problems. Inject your unique personality into every customer conversation and deliver exceptional service. What do you do as a Customer Service Specialist? As a Customer Service Representative, your goal is clear: prevent problems. Solve problems and keep customers happy. They are our customers’ first point of contact for questions via phone, chat and email. This includes everything from orders and products to payment issues and website descriptions. Our customer service advisors use a variety of tools to find, research and review solutions and communicate effectively with customers.

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Building wealth is a process that involves smart saving, investing, and increasing income while minimizing debt. Key steps include creating a budget, avoiding debt, investing regularly, and diversifying your portfolio. Educating yourself about finance and seeking professional advice can also be beneficial.  1. Financial Planning:  Set SMART goals: Define specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound financial goals. Create a budget: Track your income and expenses to identify areas where you can save more. Identify your goals: Determine what you want to achieve with your wealth, whether it's retirement, a down payment, or a comfortable lifestyle. 2. Income and Savings:  Increase your income: Explore opportunities to increase your earnings, such as a raise, side hustle, or entrepreneurship. Reduce your expenses: Identify areas where you can cut back on spending, such as entertainment, dining out, or subscriptions. Maximize your savings: Set a savings goal and automate your savings by transferring money to a savings account regularly. Build an emergency fund: Have a safety net of funds to cover unexpected expenses without relying on debt. 3. Investing:  Invest regularly: Start small and consistently invest in a diversified portfolio of assets like stocks, bonds, and real estate. Diversify your portfolio: Avoid putting all your eggs in one basket by investing in different asset classes and geographies. Consider retirement plans: Maximize your contributions to retirement accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs. Understand taxes: Be aware of tax implications for your investments and seek professional advice if needed. 4. Debt Management:  Pay off high-interest debt: Prioritize paying off credit cards and other high-interest debt to save on interest payments. Avoid debt: Be mindful of your spending habits and avoid taking on unnecessary debt. 5. Other Important Considerations:  Educate yourself: Learn about personal finance, investing, and wealth management through books, articles, or online courses. Seek professional advice: Consult with a financial advisor to develop a personalized wealth-building plan. Insure your wealth: Consider insurance coverage for your assets and liabilities. Stay disciplined: Building wealth requires time, patience, and consistency. Stay focused on your goals and don't get discouraged by setbacks

*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE* DATE: WEDNESDAY 4TH JUNE 2025 THEME: *DISRUPT EVIL PATTERNS* MEMORIZE Lamentations 5:7 Our fathers have sinned and are not; and we have borne their iniquities. READ Genesis 5:1-8, 11, 14 This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Adam lived an hundred and thirty years, and begat a son in his own likeness, after his image; and called his name Seth: And the days of Adam after he had begotten Seth were eight hundred years: and he begat sons and daughters: And all the days that Adam lived were nine hundred and thirty years: and he died. And Seth lived an hundred and five years, and begat Enos: And Seth lived after he begat Enos eight hundred and seven years, and begat sons and daughters: And all the days of Seth were nine hundred and twelve years: and he died. And all the days of Enos were nine hundred and five years: and he died. And all the days of Cainan were nine hundred and ten years: and he died. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY *Christ in you is the hope of glory, not shame!* MESSAGE A pattern simply means a perpetual structure or a customary way of operation or behaviour. God uses patterns to govern the universe. For instance, the universe runs on autopilot of divine ordinance. The sun rises from the east and always sets in the west on a daily basis. The moon orbits the earth approximately once in a month, the planets orbit the sun, electrons orbit the nucleus, this is the pattern of creation that secures universal control. The human body operates in a structured way by design. It is natural to use the restroom from time to time if your digestive system is actively engaged. A woman's monthly flow is regulated by a pattern. So everything in creation runs on a pattern. However, there are evil patterns that seek to frustrate the lives of people, making their lives bitter and unbearable. For instance, there are people who come from certain bloodlines with strange evil patterns. Firstborn(s) do not excel. There are families where firstborn(s) find it difficult to finish schooling, and there are patterns where firstborn(s) die in their prime. Evil family patterns operate on autopilot through family behavioural patterns. Certain lifestyles that are perpetuated overtime that has become the story of the family. Some families are notorious for alcohol, some with gross immorality, and some are known for prostitution. Today's text and memory verse both captured the ill effects of evil patterns and how they operate. It says that "the fathers have sinned and are not, and the children have borne their iniquities;" to bear the iniquities of the fathers simply means to continue the same lifestyles of the fathers and the consequences. The text elucidates in clear term how evil patterns perpetuate themselves in the lives of people generationally. Death was foreign to the human race until Adam sinned, and death came upon all things and thus reigned on all men even on those who have not sinned. [Romans 5:14] The good news is that you can disrupt the negative circle, and you can break the spell that sustains the evil patterns either in your life or in your family. We saw what looked like polygamy with Father Abraham and Jacob, but we saw a difference with Joseph even in a strange land. He chose to discontinue the trend. You may not be able to do anything about the history of your bloodline, but you can stop it from continuing with you. *The seed of God in you by the Holy Ghost is greater than the evil patterns in your bloodline* *Christ in you is the hope of glory, not shame!* Receive grace to disrupt and overcome every evil pattern that runs in your bloodline today in Jesus' name. Shalom, maranatha! ACTION STEPS 1. Prayerfully meditate on today's devotional guide again. 2. Ask the Lord to show you prevalent evil patterns in your bloodline that require a brutal approach to change. 3. Engage sustained militant prayers with relevant scriptures for a change. REMEMBER *Christ in you is the hope of glory, not shame!* PRAYERS Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. I receive grace to accept the responsibility to disrupt, overcome and destroy every evil patterns in my bloodline that threatens my glorious destiny in you and help me to fully maximise my destiny and to finish strong and unscathed in Jesus' name CONFESSION My life is full of God's Word and power by the Holy Spirit. I live by the operations of the Holy Spirit. I shall not see shame or failure or any reproach, and my end shall be peaceful and glorious in Jesus' name. Amen. AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID DAILY READING: Psalms 149-150; Hebrews 11-12; HYMN A mighty fortress is our God, A bulwark never failing : Our Helper He, amid the flood Of mortal ills prevailing. For still our ancient foe Doth seek to work his woe ; His craft and power are great, And armed with cruel hate " On earth is not his equal. 2 Did we in our own strength confide, Our striving would be losing, Were not the right Man on our side, The Man of God's own choosing. Dost ask who that may be ? Christ Jesus, it is He ! Lord Sabaoth is His name, From age to age the same : And He must win the battle. 3 And though this world, with devils filled, Should threaten to undo us: We will not fear; for God hath willed His truth to triumph through us. Let goods and kindred go, This mortal life also ; The body they may kill : God's truth abideth still, His Kingdom is for ever. PLEASE SHARE

LADIES, PAY ATTENTION‼️ A man calling you “baby” means nothing. A man moving into your house means nothing. A man calling you his girlfriend means nothing. A man giving you a baby means nothing. (Here’s where it might sting a little…) Even a man marrying you means nothing. You know what actually means something? A man who’s willing to change himself, his lifestyle, and his ways to keep you. That’s what TRULY means something.

*REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD* (Hard work alone no be enough. You need sense, strategy, and discipline to win.) You wake up early every morning, hustle till your body complain, but at the end of the month, your bank balance still looks like an empty pocket thief struck. You ask yourself, “Why are rich like those guys?” I get news for you:your habits and mindset does not sabotage your grind. Village people are not your problem, your own lifestyle is. 1. YOU WORK HARD, BUT YOU DON’T WORK SMART You hustle physically, you run errands, you do odd jobs, but you never think about how to multiply that hustle. You run like rat with no cheese. Meanwhile, other guys are using their brains to invest small small, learn skills, start side hustles, build passive income. Working hard is good. But working smart is the key to escape a poverty trap. What to do: Learn skills that pay well. Invest in knowledge, not just sweat. 2. YOUR MONEY HAS NO PLAN, NO TRACKING When salary enter, you just spend anyhowly—no budget, no savings, no investment. This is why every month, you are broke before payday. What to do: Budget your money like a CEO. Know where every coin will go. 3. YOU CARRY TOO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR BACK Your salary is not just for you — it’s for mama, uncle, cousin, friend, street people... you are playing Minister of Finance for everybody. But no one does the same for you. Reality: You can’t build wealth carrying 10 people. You must build yourself first. What to do: Help when you fit, but put your future first. 4. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO SPENDING, NOT INVESTING You spend on luxury, new gadgets, slay queen maintenance, designer labels… but when time to invest come, you suddenly “have no money again.” This lifestyle is a silent killer. You build others’ businesses, not yours. What to do: Switch your mindset from consume to invest. Use money to grow assets. 5. YOU LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK WITH NO EMERGENCY FUND Every little emergency crashes your finances—no backup, no plan B. So when things go wrong, you borrow, borrow, borrow until you fall into debt trap. What to do: Save at least 3 months salary as emergency fund. Build cushion. 6. YOU FAIL TO MULTIPLY YOUR INCOME SOURCES Relying on one salary? That’s like sitting on one leg and expecting to run marathon. True wealth comes from multiple income streams—business, investments, side hustles. What to do: Start small side hustles. Learn to create money streams outside salary. 7. YOU WAIT FOR MIRACLE WHILE DOING NOTHING You pray and wait for miracle money. But no action follows. Prayers without hustle andl procrastination with spiritual flavour. What to do: Pray with your legs and hands. Action is the partner of blessing. FINAL TRUTH: Hard work is important, but without planning, discipline, and smart decisions, you will remain broke. Village people are not then cause of your poverty; your habits and choices are. If you want to escape the poverty cycle: Hustle smart, not just hard. Budget and track your money. Cut unnecessary spending. Build emergency funds. Multiply your income sources. Stop carrying unnecessary financial burdens. Pair prayer with action. If this post hit you hard, don’t just scroll. Change your mindset, change your life.