*WHEN LOVE CORRECTS YOU, IT'S A GIFT — NOT AN ATTACK*

In every relationship, there comes a moment when your partner sees something you might not — a habit, an attitude, or a silence that’s hurting you both.

Love isn’t just about sweet words or happy moments. Sometimes love shows up as correction — a wake-up call, a mirror reflecting what you need to see, even if it’s hard.

A caring partner might say:
“You’ve changed — what’s really going on?”
“That friend isn’t good for your peace.”
“You’re working too much and missing us.”
“This silence between us is growing — we need to talk.”

It’s natural to feel hurt or defensive when corrected. But ask yourself:
If your partner can’t tell you the truth, who will?
If you always defend your pride, how can love grow?

Healthy relationships aren’t about control or criticism — they’re about accountability and care.
Being corrected doesn’t mean you’re less loved. It means your partner wants the best for you — and for the life you’re building together.

If you only accept comfort and avoid correction, you risk staying stuck in patterns that quietly destroy love.
If you always want to be right, you might end up alone.

So next time your partner points out something hard, listen with your heart, not just your ears.
They aren’t trying to change you — they’re trying to protect what you both cherish.

Remember: Let love guide you. Let pride rest. Let growth begin together.. God bless us all. Please don't go without reacting

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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*Bond issuance* is when an entity *(like a government, company, or organization)* borrows money from investors *by issuing a bond.*

*BOND ISSUANCE AND BLOCKCHAIN/STABLECOINS INTERSECT IN SEVERAL WAYS, AND IT STANDS AS AN AREA OF INNOVATION, EXPLORING NEW WAYS TO RAISE CAPITAL, MANAGE DEBT, AND FACILITATE TRANSACTIONS*

Here's a simplified breakdown:

- *What is a bond?*: A bond is like an *IOU.* The entity borrows money from investors and promises to repay them with interest.

- *How does it work?*: The entity issues bonds to raise funds for various purposes (e.g., projects, expansion, or debt refinancing). Investors buy these bonds, essentially lending money to the entity.

- *Investor benefits*: Investors receive regular interest payments and get their principal amount back when the bond matures.

- *Entity benefits*: The entity raises capital for its needs and agrees to repay the borrowed amount with interest.

*Bond issuance and blockchain/stablecoins*

- *Tokenized bonds*: Blockchain technology allows for the creation of tokenized bonds, where bonds are represented as digital assets on a blockchain. This can increase transparency, efficiency, and accessibility in bond markets.

- *Stablecoins as a payment method*: Stablecoins, which are cryptocurrencies pegged to a stable asset (like the US dollar), can be used to facilitate transactions related to bond issuance, such as payments or settlements.

- *Blockchain-based bond issuance platforms*: Some platforms use blockchain to issue, manage, and trade bonds, potentially reducing costs and increasing efficiency.

- *Increased transparency and security*: Blockchain technology can provide a secure and transparent record of bond ownership, transactions, and payments, reducing the risk of errors or tampering.

Our God is an awesome God

Expect alot of goodies today. Love you all

In the beginning God created the Heaven and the earth.

Stop watering things that were never meant to grow in your life. When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn't mean they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over.

KINDLY LISTEN @EVERYONE

SEASONS TO NOTE WHEN DATING
Not Every “Sweet” Season Leads To Marriage!

Dating isn’t just a straight road to the altar. It comes in seasons, and if you’re not discerning, you may commit to the wrong person or leave someone right for you.

Here are the 4 key seasons every dating couple goes through and what to watch out for:

1. THE HONEY SEASON (Excitement Phase)

This is when everything feels perfect. The frequent late-night calls, butterflies in your tummy, sweet words, constant attention, and nothing is ever wrong about this person at this phase.

They seem like your answered prayer and the best thing that has ever happened to you.

At this phase, you need to be aware of those that show their best side, not their real side.
NEVER make long-term decisions in this phase. Enjoy it, but stay alert.

2. THE STORMY SEASON (Conflict Phase)

Here, disagreements begin to arise. You begin to see attitudes, temper, communication style and how they react under pressure.

This is the time to note if they handle conflict with maturity or manipulation.

You should find out if both of you talk things through respectfully.

This season reveals emotional intelligence, which is a must for marriage.

3. THE SILENT SEASON (Distance Phase)

At this phase, the energy suddenly drops. Calls are reduced. Excitement fades, and It feels like something’s wrong.

This is when to find out if you are emotionally connected beyond physical attraction.

Do you still enjoy each other’s company without constant entertainment?

This season tests depth. It is at this point that shallow relationships usually die.

4. THE DECISION SEASON (Clarity Phase)

This is the phase where you see them clearly. Their strengths, weaknesses, and patterns.

At this phase, you need to evaluate if you are aligned spiritually, emotionally and mentally?

Do you share the same values, goals, and faith convictions?

This is where you decide if this person is your future spouse or just a distraction.

However, you need to know that if you introduce s.e.x too early, these seasons become harder to discern, your judgement may be biased, emotions get clouded and red flags get ignored. You will begin to confuse lust for love.

Dating is not a game, it’s preparation for destiny.

I think as you grow older,you look for very different things in people.
Honesty. Loyalty. Respect. But most of all, you look for someone who will stand right by your side when the walls start crumbling down and the fires rage within. They are right there and, in that moment, you know they've got you.

*Cognitive Biases*

💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻

*Confirmation Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence.

*Example:* Only following news sources you agree with.

*Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate"

*Sunk Cost Fallacy:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational.

*Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested.

*Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?"

*Halo Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones.

*Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent.

*Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence.

*Recency Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions.

*Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year.

*Fix:* Pull back and look long-term.

*Optimism Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes.

*Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do.

*Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions.

*Anchoring Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive.

*Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer.

*Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources.

*Self-Serving Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures.

*Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails.

*Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes.

*Negativity Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones.

*Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter

*Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception.

*Availability Heuristic:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind

*Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news

*Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?""

*Dunning-Kruger Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate

*Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house

*Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback

*Framing Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions

*Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat"

*Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?"

*Bandwagon Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do.

*Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it.

*Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?"

*Endowment Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them.

*Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs

*Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?"

🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading .

💁🏻‍♀️ Share with your friends as well.

Your health revolution starts in your mind— or Never.

Take control, or watch your body become a hostage to diseases.

Every compromise with junk food or shortcuts is a slow betrayal of your future self.

Stop bargaining with quick fixes; your body isn’t a bargaining chip.

Hunger for better— fill those gaps with real, nourishing food (your cells are listening).

This isn’t a game you can “kind of” play—losing means surrendering your energy, time, joy.

But to win? You must claim relentless vitality.

Your plate isn’t just fuel—it’s your armor against decay,
your cheat code for thriving.

You’re built to outlast excuses.


Choose like it matters.

In the beginning was the word, and the word was with God, and the word was God.

Jordi Alba talking about the MSN trio partnership.

Jordi Alba talking about the MSN trio partnership.

Two steps a day if you can, dont miss a day without a step

Be at peace with all men

Your health revolution starts in your mind— or Never.

Take control, or watch your body become a hostage to diseases.

Every compromise with junk food or shortcuts is a slow betrayal of your future self.

Stop bargaining with quick fixes; your body isn’t a bargaining chip.

Hunger for better— fill those gaps with real, nourishing food (your cells are listening).

This isn’t a game you can “kind of” play—losing means surrendering your energy, time, joy.

But to win? You must claim relentless vitality.

Your plate isn’t just fuel—it’s your armor against decay,
your cheat code for thriving.

You’re built to outlast excuses.


Choose like it matters.

Your home is blessed already. Marriage guest.

*Cognitive Biases*

💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻

*Confirmation Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence.

*Example:* Only following news sources you agree with.

*Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate"

*Sunk Cost Fallacy:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational.

*Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested.

*Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?"

*Halo Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones.

*Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent.

*Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence.

*Recency Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions.

*Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year.

*Fix:* Pull back and look long-term.

*Optimism Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes.

*Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do.

*Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions.

*Anchoring Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive.

*Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer.

*Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources.

*Self-Serving Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures.

*Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails.

*Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes.

*Negativity Bias:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones.

*Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter

*Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception.

*Availability Heuristic:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind

*Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news

*Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?""

*Dunning-Kruger Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate

*Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house

*Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback

*Framing Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions

*Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat"

*Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?"

*Bandwagon Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do.

*Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it.

*Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?"

*Endowment Effect:*

💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them.

*Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs

*Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?"

🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading .

💁🏻‍♀️ Share with your friends as well.

My Husband's Wife Is His Mother (EPISODE 1)

If someone had told me that I wouldn’t get to spend my wedding night alone with my husband, I would have laughed in disbelief. But that night—my wedding night—was the first time I realized something was very wrong. And it all started with the sound of her slippers.

Flip. Flop. Flip. Flop.

I was in the bathroom, changing into my silk nightgown. I had planned this night down to the details. Candles. Perfume. The perfect playlist. After all the stress of wedding planning, I just wanted to hold the man I loved and breathe in the beginning of forever.

But the knock came.

It was soft at first. Then firmer. Then the voice.

“Oya open the door jare, make I lie down small. My waist is paining me.”

My husband laughed. Laughed.

“Shey I told you my mama doesn’t like hard beds,” he said, already heading for the door.

I peeked out from behind the bathroom door, confused. “What do you mean lie down?”

“She’ll just rest a bit. Don’t worry,” he said, brushing it off like it was normal. “She does this when she travels. The bed in the guest room is too small.”

“But... this is our wedding night,” I whispered, heart sinking.

He looked at me like I was being unreasonable. “Babe, it’s just for a bit. You know she’s old.”

Old? His mother was barely 60. Active. Loud. Controlling. She ran a shop, led the women’s group in church, and made sure to remind everyone that she raised her son "without a single coin from any useless man."

Still in disbelief, I watched as he opened the door and let her in.

She entered like she owned the room. Like she built it with her hands. She didn’t even look at me. Just removed her wrapper, fluffed a pillow, and slid into the middle of our bed.

My side.

“Put off that candle abeg,” she said, fanning herself. “You want to burn this house?”

I stood there frozen. My chest tightened. I looked at my husband, silently begging for support.

He sat beside her and smiled. “She’s just tired. Tomorrow, everything will be normal.”

But it wasn’t.

I barely slept that night. The three of us lay in that bed like sardines in a can. Every time I shifted, her leg brushed mine. At one point, she even snored. Loudly. I turned to face the wall, hot tears forming in my eyes.

This wasn’t what I signed up for.

---

The next morning, she woke before us and clapped her hands loudly.

“Wake up, wake up! This is not honeymoon o, this is my son’s house. I want to boil water.”

I sat up, dazed. My husband stretched lazily and gave her the same smile he gave me during our vows.

“Mama, you want me to carry the pot?”

“Ehen, now you’re talking.”

And just like that, they left me in the room. Alone. In my own marriage.

---

Later that day, I tried to talk to him.

“Why did she sleep in our room?” I asked gently, not wanting to seem disrespectful.

He sighed. “Babe, you know how close I am to my mom. It’s just for a while. She said she wants to be around until you're strong enough to manage things.”

“I’m not sick,” I replied, trying to control my voice. “And we just got married. Shouldn’t we be alone?”

He shrugged. “Just give her time. She’s adjusting too.”

Adjusting? She was adjusting?

What about me?

---

That evening, it happened again. She brought her wrapper, pillow, and blanket. No questions asked. She even had the audacity to say, “Ah, I like this mattress. Very firm. Good for my back.”

I stood by the bed, still in my wrapper, and didn’t know what to do.

“Mama,” I tried to speak, “maybe you can try the guest room again? We just—”

She turned her head sharply. “You want to chase me away from my son’s room? Is it now a sin for a mother to sleep beside her child?”

My husband kept quiet.

Dead silence.

I looked at him, pleading with my eyes.

He avoided my gaze and said, “Let’s not make this a big issue tonight. We’ll talk about it tomorrow.”

But tomorrow never came.

---

I started noticing little things. How she always sat between us when we watched TV. How she would call him to come lie down beside her during the day and rub her back. How she took over my kitchen and rearranged everything without asking. How she spoke to me like I was the house girl.

I wanted to be respectful. I was raised to honor elders. But this? This was not honor. This was intrusion. This was something else entirely.

A twisted triangle. A marriage with three corners.

And somehow, I was the outsider.

---

That night, I called my elder sister.

“Sis, she sleeps between us. Every night. She won’t leave.”

She paused. “What does your husband say?”

“Nothing. He acts like it’s normal. Like I’m overreacting.”

She hissed. “That’s witchcraft. Or madness. Or both.”

I laughed bitterly. “It’s not funny.”

“No, I know. But you need to take control before it gets worse.”

“How?” I whispered. “How do I fight a mother-in-law on her son’s bed?”

There was silence. And then her voice was firm. “You’re the wife. Start acting like it. Don’t let her settle.”

But it was already too late.

She had settled.

She had brought her pillow. Her slippers. Her authority.

And on the first night of my marriage, I learned that love is not always a fairytale.

Sometimes, it’s a bed with three people—and one of them isn’t going anywhere.

End of Episode 1
To Be Continue in Episode 2

Mummy Moreni

I think as you grow older,you look for very different things in people.
Honesty. Loyalty. Respect. But most of all, you look for someone who will stand right by your side when the walls start crumbling down and the fires rage within. They are right there and, in that moment, you know they've got you.