Ladies, if a man chooses to walk away from you and run to another woman—especially when you’ve done nothing but love him right, support him, and pour goodness into the relationship—don’t see it as a loss. Count it as a blessing in disguise. Why? Because sometimes rejection is simply God’s redirection. A man who doesn’t recognize your value was never meant to carry the weight of your worth. Remember this: cheap thrills and bargain hunters are always looking for something quick and easy—they don’t have the patience or the depth to appreciate something rare, valuable, and truly priceless. And sis, that’s you.

How many difficulties could be smoothed over and almost entirely eliminated by patience. Patience always elevates and strengthens our character. We need it not only with others but also with ourselves.

Oh, to be loved by a calm person — someone who communicates with care, listens without judgment, speaks in a gentle voice, and holds the kind of patience that makes you feel safe, seen and free to be your true self.

Life is a gradual process, with time and patience we'll get to the mountain top.

1. Talk about business instead of gossips
2. Talk about helping the vulnerable instead of mocking
3. Talk about peace instead of instigating
4. Talk about growth instead of people’s failures
5. Talk about ideas instead of people’s secrets
6. Talk about forgiveness instead of revenge
7. Talk about plans instead of people’s mistakes
8. Talk about kindness instead of hate
9. Talk about purpose instead of distractions
10. Talk about impact instead of insults
11. Talk about reading instead of rumors
12. Talk about patience instead of pressure
13. Talk about responsibility instead of blame
14. Talk about unity instead of division
15. Talk about change instead of complaints
16. Talk about discipline instead of disorder
17. Talk about progress instead of problems
18. Talk about creativity instead of criticism
19. Talk about calm instead of chaos
20. Talk about learning instead of laughing at others
21. Talk about truth instead of twisting stories
22. Talk about love instead of judgment
23. Talk about solutions instead of spreading fear
24. Talk about gratitude instead of grumbling

25. Talk about humility instead of pride
26. Talk about health instead of people’s bodies
27. Talk about goals instead of gossip
28. Talk about support instead of sarcasm
29. Talk about prayers instead of plotting
30. Talk about lifting others instead of looking down on them

What we choose to talk about shapes our environment and reveals our values. Fill your words with things that build, heal, and uplift. Replace mockery with encouragement, and let your conversations become a source of light in dark places. Be known for spreading peace, not drama.

*The Marriage Advice ..*


1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

Sometimes you need patience in order to find true happiness. It won’t come fast and it won’t come easy, but it’ll be worth it.

Don't look back forward, infinite energy, infinite enthusiasm, infinite daring, and infinite patience then alone can great deeds be accomplished.

Waiting a Little Longer

I’ve stood at the edge of surrender,
Where silence grows louder
And time feels cruel—
But still, I wait.

Not because it’s easy,
But because somewhere within me,
A whisper says:
Hold on. Just a little longer.

I’ve wept in hidden corners,
Counted stars as questions,
Watched others bloom
While my soil stayed still.

But maybe delay is not denial.
Maybe the waiting is working—
Stretching my roots,
Preparing my ground
For something worth the patience.

So I breathe through the ache,
Sing softly to my hopes,
And water the unseen.

Because even in this quiet ache,
I believe—
That what’s meant for me
Will find me whole.

And so I stay,
Not in desperation,
But in strength.
In faith.
In love with the becoming.

Yes—
I’m waiting,
Just a little longer.
And that’s enough for now.

RELAX! SINGLENESS IS NOT A CURSE

I read about a beautiful lady who was waiting on God for a husband. She continued to wait but eventually began to groan with impatience. At every church meeting, she would approach her pastors and lament her ordeal, and they would encourage her to keep waiting.

One day, at a church program, she approached her pastor, looked him in the eyes, and expressed her feelings of despair. "Daddy, I have waited enough... I am getting weak. I have tried my best... I am getting tired already... Daddy, I repeat, I have waited enough..."

Her pastor looked back at her firmly and said, "If you are tired of waiting for the Lord, what else would you do? Would you return to the world simply because you are waiting for a partner? After all this waiting, there is only one option left for you: Wait for the Lord."

The next time her pastor saw her, she came to another program with her wedding pictures—she had married! Her pastor was taken aback. She was beaming with joy, smiling all around. We all thanked the Lord for her life and for answered prayers, even though it seemed strange.

However, not long after that, her pastor didn't hear from her again for some time. Then the news came that she had di€d. She passed away in the hospital after a long illness, with no one even noticing her absence. It was shocking that she di€d so quietly, and there wasn’t even an announcement of her d€ath among the congregation. She had been buri€d before her pastors learned the news. They later discovered that she had married a married man, and the brief time she spent after her wedding was a t€rrible experience. Eventually, she became seriously ill and passed away.

Dear Singles, Be patient... At the right time, God will settle you.

A relaxed sister is better positioned for marriage than a tensed up lady who is over-eager to shout "Yes" to any marriage proposal. ☹

Those who are too anxious to get married usually make marital mistakes. Until Adam was put to sleep, God couldn't reveal his wife to him. A relaxed mind is the magnet of God's miracle.

Do not coax people to propose to you. Do not scare potential suitors away by putting marriage thoughts in their mind.

There is nothing like getting too old for marriage.

I have never seen anyone di€ of marrying late. But I have seen many di€ because they marry wrong.

It is better to marry an angel at 40 than to marry a devil when you are 25. Do not make marriage look like a "do or die affair".

Singleness is not a Sin
Singleness is not a Bondage
Singleness Is Not A Curse
Singleness Is Not A Sickness,
Singleness Is Not A Pr0blem,
Singleness Is Not A Limitation.
Singleness Is Not A Shame.

You Can Be Single and Be All You Can Be
You Can Be single And Happy,
You Can Be single And Spiritual
You Can Be Single And Anointed,
You Can Be Single And Sound,
You Can Be Single And Successful,
You Can Be Single And Be Unique,
You Can Be Single And Be Fulfilled..

Never mourn Your Singleness because your present state is not your final state.

Marriage is glorious, beautiful, marvelous, exciting, tremendous, and very sweet but so also is singleness. So enjoy your singleness, make good use of it before getting married.

If you have not received a marriage proposal yet it simply means that you are too special for God to throw just anyone at you.

Relax. Don't lose hope and don't be too desperate. Trust in the Lord.

As the Lord lives, you are the next to be celebrated in Jesus name.

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

RELAX! SINGLENESS IS NOT A CURSE

I read about a beautiful lady who was waiting on God for a husband. She continued to wait but eventually began to groan with impatience. At every church meeting, she would approach her pastors and lament her ordeal, and they would encourage her to keep waiting.

One day, at a church program, she approached her pastor, looked him in the eyes, and expressed her feelings of despair. "Daddy, I have waited enough... I am getting weak. I have tried my best... I am getting tired already... Daddy, I repeat, I have waited enough..."

Her pastor looked back at her firmly and said, "If you are tired of waiting for the Lord, what else would you do? Would you return to the world simply because you are waiting for a partner? After all this waiting, there is only one option left for you: Wait for the Lord."

The next time her pastor saw her, she came to another program with her wedding pictures—she had married! Her pastor was taken aback. She was beaming with joy, smiling all around. We all thanked the Lord for her life and for answered prayers, even though it seemed strange.

However, not long after that, her pastor didn't hear from her again for some time. Then the news came that she had di€d. She passed away in the hospital after a long illness, with no one even noticing her absence. It was shocking that she di€d so quietly, and there wasn’t even an announcement of her d€ath among the congregation. She had been buri€d before her pastors learned the news. They later discovered that she had married a married man, and the brief time she spent after her wedding was a t€rrible experience. Eventually, she became seriously ill and passed away.

Dear Singles, Be patient... At the right time, God will settle you.

A relaxed sister is better positioned for marriage than a tensed up lady who is over-eager to shout "Yes" to any marriage proposal. ☹

Those who are too anxious to get married usually make marital mistakes. Until Adam was put to sleep, God couldn't reveal his wife to him. A relaxed mind is the magnet of God's miracle.

Do not coax people to propose to you. Do not scare potential suitors away by putting marriage thoughts in their mind.

There is nothing like getting too old for marriage.

I have never seen anyone di€ of marrying late. But I have seen many di€ because they marry wrong.

It is better to marry an angel at 40 than to marry a devil when you are 25. Do not make marriage look like a "do or die affair".

Singleness is not a Sin
Singleness is not a Bondage
Singleness Is Not A Curse
Singleness Is Not A Sickness,
Singleness Is Not A Pr0blem,
Singleness Is Not A Limitation.
Singleness Is Not A Shame.

You Can Be Single and Be All You Can Be
You Can Be single And Happy,
You Can Be single And Spiritual
You Can Be Single And Anointed,
You Can Be Single And Sound,
You Can Be Single And Successful,
You Can Be Single And Be Unique,
You Can Be Single And Be Fulfilled..

Never mourn Your Singleness because your present state is not your final state.

Marriage is glorious, beautiful, marvelous, exciting, tremendous, and very sweet but so also is singleness. So enjoy your singleness, make good use of it before getting married.

If you have not received a marriage proposal yet it simply means that you are too special for God to throw just anyone at you.

Relax. Don't lose hope and don't be too desperate. Trust in the Lord.

As the Lord lives, you are the next to be celebrated in Jesus name.

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

*Hard work is the seed, patience is the water, and life’s timing is the sunlight. You may not see the results instantly, but that doesn’t mean the process isn’t working. Stay consistent and for sure, one day, what felt like an invisible effort will grow into visible greatness, and people will call it luck. But you’ll know it was God and grind.*

*EXCELLENT MORNING! WISHING YOU ALL A BLESSED, FRUITFUL AND PROSPEROUS WEEKEND!*