Good Afternoon guys happy new month may this month be our favorable month and our month of greater achievement and accomplishment.

SIX LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES THAT WE CAN LEARN FROM AN EAGLE 1. Eagles fly Alone and at High Altitudes. They don't fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds. MEANING; Stay away from narrow-minded people, those that bring you down. Eagle flies with Eagles. Keep good company. 2. Eagles have an Accurate Vision. They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km away. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it. MEANING; Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacles and you will succeed. 3. Eagles do not Eat Dead things. They Feed only on Fresh Prey. MEANING; Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past. 4. Eagles Love the Storm. When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagle uses the raging storm to lift itself above the clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the branches and leaves of the tree. MEANING; Face your challenges head on knowing that these will make you emerge stronger and better than you were. We can use the storms of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid of challenges, rather they relish them and use them profitably. 5. Eagles Prepare for Training; They remove the feathers and soft grass in the nest so that the young ones get uncomfortable in preparation for flying and eventually flies/ when it becomes unbearable to stay in the nest./ MEANING; Leave your Comfort Zone, there is No Growth there. 6. When the Eagle Grows Old, His feathers becomes weak and cannot take him as fast and as high as it should. This makes him weak and could make him die. So he retires to a place far away in the mountains. While there, he plucks out the weak feathers on his body and breaks its beaks and claws against the rocks until he is completely bare; a very bloody and painful process. Then he stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, new beaks and claws and then he comes out flying higher than before. MEANING; We occasionally need to shed off old habit no matter how difficult, things that burden us or add no value to our lives should be let go of. HAVE A GREAT DAY AHEAD ❤️👍

Good morning guys Thank God is Friday Happy weekend and last Friday of the month of March 2025.

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TOPIC - A LIFE OF DEDICATION TO GOD TEXT - ROMANS 12:1 How to present your body has qualifications 1). Holy 2). Acceptable - Whatever we are doing is living our lives for Christ. - The day you give your life to Christ is the same day you dedicate your life to God. And this process happens over and over. - If Christianity means nothing to you, then don't spoil it. Christianity is taking the form of God in obedience, commitment, trust in your conduct, consistency in your character, reliability. - Christianity is an identity and that identity is the badge of Christ. - Dedication is a shift in the normal you. - Dedication means when you set your spirit target/ goals and prioritize them. - A dedicated life is a life on the altar of sacrifice for a greater service. - You respond to God's love with your dedication - Romans 12:1. - Every step of sacrifice will be tried and must be approved - Philippians 2:6-8. - Sometimes your dedication to God is a reconciliation. KEY COMPONENTS AND ELEMENTS OF DEDICATION THAT CAN MAKE YOU EXPERIENCE A TRANSFORMATIVE LIFE (Continued) 1). Surrender your will Matthew 26:42, Mark 1:7 2). Obedience Genesis 22:2; 6:14 3). Be Passionate Philippians 3:4 4). Commitment

TOPIC: GIVING AS AN ACT OF FAITH AND DEDICATION TO GOD TEXT:2 CORINTHIANS 9:6, MALACHI 3:8-9 •Giving is an act of providing something, giving is making available your time, your resources, your money and also giving support. •Giving is without necessarily expecting anything in return. •When we say we give to God, it means we are assisting the work of God. •Giving is a selfless act. •When giving is done right, it leaves you with joy, knowing that someone has benefitted from your benevolence. •We give to deepen our faith and trust in God. •Our giving in the house of God is purposeful and not a vain act. •Every form of giving is principle guided and every principle operated in faith with all honesty, carries a heavy blessing for the operator - Luke 6:38 •Anyone that acts in the giving principle, will also receive the reward that the principle brings - Proverbs 11:4 •In church, giving comes in different ways: OFFERING, TITHING, SEED FAITH, VOWS, PLEDGES, FIRST FRUITS, WELFARE 1). OFFERING - Exodus 25:2 •Offering is a planned, sacrificial giving in service and it is usually set aside to be rendered as an act of worship to God. •Offering does not take a Christian by surprise, it's never an accident, but something you already know - Malachi 1:6-8 •Offering is a communication of your heart to God. •Offering is a contribution to the fund of the church to execute her charity work and other developmental works. •Everything you do has a way of coming back to you. •God gives every man a forbidden fruit to test his faith. Pass your test and don't fall. 2). TITHING - Malachi 3:10-11 •Tithe is a levy of one tenth of all your income. WHY DO WE TITHE? 1). Tithing is critical for us to honour God To acknowledge the source of your blessing. 2). You tithe to enlarge your resources - 2 Corinthians 9:8 3). Curses are broken. •You become free from financial deficit. 4). You are protected from enemies - Malachi 3:11 5). You will be able to overcome and conquer greed in your life. •Don't pretend not to know your tithe.

TOPIC:WORK OF FAITH TEXT:1 THESSALONIANS 1:1, JAMES 2:26, MARK 5:25 •The work of faith implies putting faith to work, it means practicing what we believe. •If you believe, but don't act on those things, it becomes useless. •It is your work that gives life to your faith. •It is your workings that makes your faith effective, take faith away and your work is defective. •Faith is sealed by your actions. •Faith is seen or made manifest by your works - Luke 5:1-7 •No work no faith - James 2:18 •Your work directs people to your faith, you know a man of faith by his workings and not by his talkings. •Your work of faith is your corresponding action in response to what you have heard - Romans 10:7 •It takes a man of faith to work. •What you have heard can only produce in your life if you act on what you've heard - Acts 14:8 •It's not only the hearing that brings results, but what you do with what you do afterwards - James 2:19 •Not acting on what you have heard is the same thing as not hearing. •Your works and confessions which you make on a regular basis, represents your work of faith - Joshua 1:8 •Your works can make faith effective or ineffective. •If there are no words to hear, then there will be no words to speak, and if there's no words to speak then there's no faith to act on - Romans 10:8-9 •Faith rides on words - Proverbs 4:23 •Speak right words, disassociate from people who always speak wrong words. •Stage 1 (Have faith) - Mark 11:22 •Stage 2 ( confessing ) •Stage 3 - (speaking, based on your faith you have) - Mark 11:23a •Stage 4 (you will have whatever you ask for) - Mark 11:23b •If you stand on stage 1 and refuse to enter into stage 2 and 3, then there will be no stage 4. •The workings of your faith is not the end result, but just the process that leads to the end result, which is the evidence of your faith.

TOPIC:ENFORCING YOUR RIGHT AND TAKING A STAND VIA THE WORD TEXT:1 CORINTHIANS 16:13 •To "watch" means to be vigilant, expecting something to happen. •Weakness is not of God. Power is God and it is what you have in your inner man. You are as big and strong as the one you carry inside. •Taking a stand via the word means, be fearless, be willing to push past every adversity. Don't see a situation and run away, else it will outclass you. •Your right has been given to you, you need to enforce your right and take a stand. •You need a word to liberate you out of every fear and issues of life. •Nobody fights where there's no courage - 1 Timothy 6:12 •There's a word for every war. •The provocation of your faith is to see the results of all that God has spoken concerning you - Hebrews 11:1-3 •If you say you have faith in God and you don't practice it, then you're outdoing yourself. •Faith is action. •By faith we understand God's word in your life. •Your understanding of God's word will always give shape to the results you have in your life. •Result is the outcome of a particular action with the desire to produce desirable or undesirable proofs - Hebrews 11:33-35 •When it is a desirable proof, it is what you want. When it produces undesirable proofs, it is what you don't want. •Lies contaminates the pureness of faith once it is considered. •Every lie is a bondage to keep you perpetually entangled in the same problem. •Taking a stand in faith is identifying your current position and acting out your faith in that direction - Luke 15:15 •Your current position propels you to speak the right word. Use the word to shape it in. •The daily confession has profound impact on your destiny. RESULTS THAT YOU CAN SEE WHEN YOU ENFORCE YOUR RIGHT IN GOD'S WORD 1). Renew's your mind. Transforms your attitude to align with God's word - Romans 12:2 2). Builds your faith. Strengthens you to trust God the more on every promise He has made - Romans 10:17 •Repeated confession of God's word creates new ground for God's word. 3). It protects and defends you - Psalm 23:1-3 •It makes you fearless. 4). It enhances your spiritual growth and improves your relationship with God - Galatians 5:1-2 Proverbs 18:21 •What you fail to speak, the devil will hold to it. •When you keep resisting him, he will flee.

Who wrote my letter?? (1king 21:9-10) And she wrote in the letters, saying, Proclaim a fast, and set Naboth on high among the people: And set two men, sons of Belial, before him, to bear witness against him, saying, Thou didst blaspheme God and the king. And then carry him out, and stone him, that he may die. (2sam 11: 14-15) And it came to pass in the morning, that David wrote a letter to Joab, and sent it by the hand of Uriah.And he wrote in the letter, saying, Set ye Uriah in the forefront of the hottest battle, and retire ye from him, that he may be smitten, and die. Jezebel wrote a letter for Naboth to be kill.... David also wrote a letter for Uriah Hittite to be kill.... My question to my dear reader's is, Who wrote ur letter & have u find out the content of the letter?? If Uriah Hittite & Naboth was opportune to read their letter they wouldn't have die such a death.. "Until u know who wrote ur letter & the content of the letter ur destiny still remain cover" What some families are going through today is at the result of what our forefathers wrote, that's why wen u see a young man that was about to be graduated from school running mad, check there was an handwriting But for this purpose the son of man came just to destroy the work of darkness I love what (Colossian 2:14) said, it read, Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us If u are still going through what ur forefathers wrote against u then u don't know Jesus, the Bible says that Jesus has erase every evil handwriting against u I pray for u in the name of Jesus, every satanic, demonic, ancestral, foundational, Marine, magician, witches & Witcher handwriting against ur life be blotted out now!! Every Handwriting of set back, rejection, promise & fail, disappointment, sickness, downfall, stagnation, curse, untimely death, labour without favour let such an handwriting be erase by fire by force Amen...

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THE LEVEL OF BATTLE THAT YOU FIGHT IN LIFE DETERMINE THE LEVEL OF GREATNESS IN YOU GOD'S CHOICE IS THE DEVIL'S 😈 TARGETS AND THE DEVIL 😈 ITSELF DOES NOT FIGHT AN EMPTY VESSEL, A MAN WITHOUT A DESTINY THE DEVIL 😈 FIGHT PEOPLE WITH GREATER DESTINY TO FULFILL SO WHAT EVER CHALLENGES THAT YOU'RE FACING IN LIFE NOW IS TO REMIND YOU THAT YOU'RE A CARRIER OF GREATNESS THAT IS DESTINED TO BE FULFILL IN LIFE.

TOPIC:UNDERSTANDING DOMINION AND INFLUENCE IN THE WORD TEXT:GENESIS 1:26-27, GALATIANS 4:30 •Whenever the Trinity comes together, creation takes place. •God has given man a domineering spirit to create and leave no vacuum. There is no space for emptiness. •Anything that is not in line with God's word is a lie from the devil. What Is DOMINION? •It is the exercise of control, power and authority over things. It implies a position of defeat, command, where you say things and watch it established. •Dominion is taking control and authority over things - James 4:7 What Is INFLUENCE? •Influence is power that affects or shapes your thoughts, feelings and actions until they are established - Romans 12:2 •Influence is using persuasion to navigate the power dynamics of control - Romans 8:38 •Wrong things, feelings will take you back to the wrong place. Have a domineering spirit. •The world is making everything it can to make you not know who you are. •What does not have the ability in the word has no ability in your life, put every disorderliness to order - Mark 11:23 • We have so many talkers, but not much activating their faith. •When you talk, activate your faith and have the right conduct towards what you believe. •Confession is good, but sustain it with the faith you have. •Understanding your influence and dominion in the word, makes you stand tall and higher than your challenges, because you know who you are. •As capital is important to a man's business, so is God's word His start up capital - John 1:1-3,14, 16 •What makes you a champion is when there's a fight. •Wherever the word goes, faith goes there, whatever the word touches, faith produces the results. •In everything you do, let the word be the start up capital of your faith. •God is not bound by anything, but Himself. Release yourself and refuse to be bound by anything too. •When you take the word of God into your mouth, your mouth will speak and faith is the power of creation, you become god over that situation. •You must use what God has given to you to change things.

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Topic:Love The Greatest Gift Text :1 Corinthians 13:13 •Hope, Faith and Love are all Christian virtues. Every child of God must possess all, but love is the greatest. •Hope (something you expect to happen), is also powerful, no doubt - 1 John 3:1-3 •A man who has Hope will purify himself, waiting on Jesus - Romans 5:1-5 •The day you lose Hope, that's the end, but the Bible says “Love is the greatest”. •Faith is also very powerful, because without it, it is impossible to please God - Hebrews 11:6 •Yet Love is still the greatest of all and there has to be a reason. •Until you're dead to self, Love is not operational in your life. Love enables you to conquer self. •A man of faith but not working in love, is promoting self - 1 Corinthians 13:1-2 •The sign of spiritual maturity is you walking in love. It’s not about you manifesting miracles. •When you walk in love, you don't offend and you don't get offended - Proverbs 19:11, 17:9 •A man who has power and authority but chooses not to misuse it, is a great man walking in love - Matthew 26:51-54, John 18:35, •When you refuse to be offended by someone's action, you're a blessed man - Matthew 11:1-6 •It's a certainty that offense will come, it's what you do when it comes that matters - Romans 14:4, 1 Corinthians 8:1-13 •Walking in love helps you to conquer bitterness, pride, envy, eventful heart strife, contentions, anger. And all these are kept by the devil, just to bring the believer down. •Don't rebuke anyone with bitterness - 2 Corinthians 16:14

#FEARS. 🪁TYPE.. MY FEAR'S ARE OVER, AM STRONG, AM BLESSED. So I write✍️ 🎯the biggest limitations to a fair life is fears. LET NO FEAR STOP YOUR RISING. 🎯The presence of fear is the beginning of your failure in life. NEVER ACCEPT ANY FORM OF FEARS NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU HAVE FALLEN IN LIFE. 🎯Untill your courage become bigger than your fears, you may never get to the top. DEAL WITH FEARS AND PICK BACK YOUR VISION'S 🎯Fear is torment to a creative mind. GET YOUR DELIVERANCE FROM FEAR BY TAKING BOLD STEPS. 🎯Every fears have a voice, that says you can't make it again. Tell fears you were wired to succeed from eternity past till eternity future. LET FEAR KNOW YOU EXISTED BEFORE TIME. 🎯Fear is a cage to great vision's. STAND BY YOUR WORDS AND SHUN FEAR. 🎯It is natural to experience fears but it is satanic to live in fears. DEFEAT FEAR'S BY WALKIN IN FAITH AND NOT BE MOVE BY SIGHT. 🎯You will be far from firm except you do away with fears. LET YOUR DREAM MATTER MUCH MORE TO YOU THAN THE FEAR'S THE DEVIL BRINGS AROUND YOUR MIND. 🎯The easiest way to be a slave in life , is to build fears around your existence. LET YOUR FOCUS SPEAK STRENGTH AND SELF ESTEEM THAT KILLS YOUR FEARS. 🎯Your biggest enemies in life is what you fear most. DON'T LET ANY FEAR BEND YOU BELOW YOUR STANDARD. 🎯If you can handle your fear, you will advance forward. DON'T MAKE FEAR YOUR PASSENGER AS YOU JOURNEY INTO DESTINY. 🎯Fear is subject to internal boldness. Be bold and fear will walk away. ENSURE YOUR DECISION CONQUER YOUR FEARS AT ALL COST. 🎯You can't be victorious if you make fears your companion. EXPEL FEAR WHEN CHALLENGE SHOW'S UP. 🎯What you fear , will always be a master over you . BE A MASTER OVER WHAT EVER THAT BIRTH FEARS AROUND YOU. Fears says all hope is gone ,run away ,hid yourself and give up on your dreams .NO .NO. NO.. ALWAYS TELL FEARS GOD HAS NOT GIVEN UP ON YOU AND MOVE ON I PRAY FOR YOU 🙏 every fear ,you are living in that has made you weak in your pursue in life. TODAY THAT FEAR DIES IN JESUS NAME 🙏 THE SPIRIT OF FEAR AROUND YOUR VISION, DREAM'S AND ASSIGNMENT IS ON FIRE 🔥 NOW IN JESUS NAME. IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST THAT FEAR OF DEAD , FAILURE, REJECTION IS OUT OF YOU NOW IN JESUS NAME 🙏 AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

MARRY YOUR MATE 6 MATES YOU MUST MARRY! One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate! You see that statement of ' Am I your mate?' does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on seven dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate. 1. #MARRY_YOUR_SPEAKING_MATE: Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don't marry someone that, when you are saying 'A' he or she will be saying ' Z' Once their is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can't enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can't engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate. 2. #MARRY_YOUR_SCHOOL_MATE: By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don't marry ' Mr Know all' or 'Miss Know all'. Don't marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your 'school' mate; someone who is ready to learn with you. 3. #MARRY_YOUR_SPIRITUAL_MATE: Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don't marry someone who's believe of God is different from yours. Two can't work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry. 4. #MARRY_YOUR_SPENDING_MATE: Don't marry someone who is stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A stingy guy in courtship won't suddenly become a generous husband in marriage. Don't marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ' My husband's money is our money, but my money is my money'. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labour , who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family. 5. #MARRY_YOUR_SEX_MATE: Marry someone you have sexual feelings for. Sexual feeling is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in every person. Sex plays a major role in the success of any marriage. Any man you don't have emotional feelings for, don't marry the person. If you don't have emotional feelings for that lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a sexual being. No matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won't be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won't be reading the Bible or worshipping God 24/7. You will have sex! You will romance! You will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone you can connect with sexually. It will help you to enjoy your marriage so much! 6. #MARRY_YOUR_SOCIAL_MATE: Don't marry someone you won't be proud to go out with. Don't marry someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially compatible with. Don't marry an anti- social person. You might be wondering if your can find all the 'mates' in one person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don't need to marry 6 guys/ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you. If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that for the guy/lady that will marry you. The promise of God for you is this : 'Seek and read from the book of the LORD: Not one of these shall be missing; none shall be without her mate. For the mouth of the LORD has commanded, and his Spirit has gathered them.' (Isaiah 34:16). Say it loud and clear 'I shall not lack a mate!' I hope this blessed someone reading?

HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP....✍🏾 1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other. 2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm. 3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still. 4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations. 5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long. 6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem. 7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally. 8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself. 9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back. 10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse. 11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other. 12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children. 13. When talking about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring. 14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced. 15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt. 16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children. 17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows. 18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged. 19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future. 20. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other.

BE PATIENT AND NEVER GIVE UP IN LIFE. Both fruits are hanging together on the same branch of the same tree. One of them is already ripe, while the other one may need more time to ripe. Nature is teaching us an important lesson through these guavas. When we see others around us achieving success while we have not, it does not mean we are unsuccessful. It simply means that the right time for us has not yet come. So, we must hold on, be patient, and not give up out of frustration. We might just be a few days away from reaching our ripened state. Remember, our time will come as well , but it requires patience and perseverance and prayers! Thank you for reading ❤

The way you treat your mother is the way life will treat you. A mother is the heart of love and life itself. She embodies unconditional love—a love like no other. Do not judge her. Have you ever taken the time to sit with her, to truly listen to her stories, to understand the life she lived before you came along? Perhaps she never told you about the struggles she endured, the silent battles she fought, or the scars she carries—scars that reopen every time memories resurface. She may have faced a painful childhood, a difficult youth, moments of loneliness, mistreatment, and hardship. Yet, she chose to keep her pain hidden, not wanting to burden you, not wanting you to see the shadows of her past. Out of love, she remained silent. Maybe silence became her refuge, her way of protecting herself from reliving the suffering. Honor her. Treasure her. Treat her with kindness, for she is a gift beyond measure. In doing so, you will invite blessings, peace, joy, stability, and a long, fulfilling life. And remember, how you treat your mother will reflect in the way others treat you. The love and respect you show will shape the way the world responds to you. There is only one mother. If you fail to cherish her now, regret may follow you in the years to come. And when sleepless nights come, it won’t be her presence keeping you awake—it will be the weight of your own neglect, the echoes of words unspoken, and the pain of missed chances that refuse to let you rest.

Always remember THIS AS STATED IN THIS VIDEO BY A FAMOUS BUSINESS EXPERT- ERIC WOORE , AS IT IS AT THE ROOT AND FOUNDATION OF EVERY BUSINESS . EAch time you notice that your business is not doing well again or never done well before. Just get into doing THIS AS SIMPLE AS ABC...TALK TO MORE PEOPLE ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS

WHEN YOU ARE 40 YEARS OLD OR ABOVE A. Two things to check as often as you can: (1) Your blood pressure (2) Your blood sugar. B. Six things to reduce to the minimum on your foods: (1) Salt (2) sugar (3) preserved meat and foods (4) red meat especially roasted (5) diary products (6) starchy products C. Four things to increase in your foods: (1) Greens/vegetables (2) beans (3) fruits (4) nuts D. Three things you need to forget: (1) Your age (2) your past (3) your grievances E. Four things you must have, no matter how weak or how strong you are: (1) Friends who truly love you (2) caring family (3) positive thoughts (4) a warm home. F. Four things you need to do to stay healthy: (1) fasting (2) smiling / laughing (3) trek / exercise (4) reduce your weight. G. Six things you don't have to do: (1) Don't wait till you are hungry to eat (2) don't wait till you are thirsty to drink (3) don't wait till you are sleepy to sleep (4) don't wait till you feel tired to rest (5) don't wait till you get sick to go for health check-ups otherwise you will only regret later in life. (6) don’t wait till you have problem before you pray to your God.

HEAR THIS: BEING AVERAGE IN LIFE IS NOT GOD'S STANDARD FOR OUR LIVES, IS AN INSULT TO GOD, WE WERE CREATED FOR EXCELLENCE, GREATNESS, AND IMPACT. "Average" is not a badge of honor. It's an insult to the God who created you for greatness. As children of God, we're called to excel, not settle for mediocrity. Average is not God's standard; excellence is. Why Average is an Insult: 1. It disregards God's unique plan for our lives. 2. It wastes the talents and gifts God has given us. 3. It lacks passion and dedication to God's kingdom. Consequences of Being Average: 1. Missed opportunities for impact. 2. Unfulfilled potential. 3. Lack of personal growth. The Problem with Average: 1. Settling for mediocrity 2. Ignoring God-given talents 3. Lack of passion and purpose 4. Missing opportunities for impact Rising Above Average: 1. Set God-honoring goals. 2. Cultivate a growth mindset. 3. Surround yourself with positive influences. 4. Seek mentorship and accountability. 5. Pray for wisdom and guidance. Breaking Free from Average: 1. Seek God's vision for your life 2. Identify and develop your strengths 3. Take risks and step out in faith 4. Surround yourself with positive influences God's Design for Excellence: 1. Created in His image (Genesis 1:26) 2. Empowered by the Holy Spirit (Acts 1:8) 3. Called to greatness (2 Peter 1:3-4) 4. Equipped for good works (Ephesians 2:10) You were created for more than average. Embrace God's extraordinary purpose and become the best version of yourself.