• HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN


    Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose.

    And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent.

    If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here,

    1. Read, sis.

    I’m not saying become a professor overnight.

    But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts.

    Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips.

    2. Speak with sense.

    You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom.

    Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere.

    3. Dress like you respect yourself.

    You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes.

    Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class.

    4. Maturity in how you handle things.

    Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply.

    Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback.

    5. Improve your mindset.
    The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small.

    Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise.

    6. Don’t move with noise makers.
    Classy women are intentional about their company.

    Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day.


    7. Pray and glow differently.

    Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions.

    Real elegance comes from the inside out.HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN


    Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose.

    And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent.

    If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here,

    1. Read, sis.

    I’m not saying become a professor overnight.

    But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts.

    Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips.

    2. Speak with sense.

    You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom.

    Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere.

    3. Dress like you respect yourself.

    You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes.

    Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class.

    4. Maturity in how you handle things.

    Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply.

    Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback.

    5. Improve your mindset.
    The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small.

    Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise.

    6. Don’t move with noise makers.
    Classy women are intentional about their company.

    Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day.


    7. Pray and glow differently.

    Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions.

    Real elegance comes from the inside out.

    Every lady in the channel let's gather here with a blue
    HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose. And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent. If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here, 1. Read, sis. I’m not saying become a professor overnight. But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts. Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips. 2. Speak with sense. You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom. Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere. 3. Dress like you respect yourself. You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes. Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class. 4. Maturity in how you handle things. Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply. Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback. 5. Improve your mindset. The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small. Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise. 6. Don’t move with noise makers. Classy women are intentional about their company. Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day. 7. Pray and glow differently. Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions. Real elegance comes from the inside out.HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose. And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent. If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here, 1. Read, sis. I’m not saying become a professor overnight. But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts. Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips. 2. Speak with sense. You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom. Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere. 3. Dress like you respect yourself. You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes. Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class. 4. Maturity in how you handle things. Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply. Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback. 5. Improve your mindset. The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small. Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise. 6. Don’t move with noise makers. Classy women are intentional about their company. Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day. 7. Pray and glow differently. Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions. Real elegance comes from the inside out. Every lady in the channel let's gather here with a blue 💙
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  • *Cognitive Biases*

    💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻

    *Confirmation Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence.

    *Example:* Only following news sources you agree with.

    *Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate"

    *Sunk Cost Fallacy:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational.

    *Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested.

    *Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?"

    *Halo Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones.

    *Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent.

    *Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence.

    *Recency Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions.

    *Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year.

    *Fix:* Pull back and look long-term.

    *Optimism Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes.

    *Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do.

    *Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions.

    *Anchoring Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive.

    *Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer.

    *Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources.

    *Self-Serving Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures.

    *Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails.

    *Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes.

    *Negativity Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones.

    *Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter

    *Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception.

    *Availability Heuristic:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind

    *Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news

    *Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?""

    *Dunning-Kruger Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate

    *Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house

    *Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback

    *Framing Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions

    *Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat"

    *Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?"

    *Bandwagon Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do.

    *Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it.

    *Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?"

    *Endowment Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them.

    *Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs

    *Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?"

    🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading . Follow our WhatsApp Channel for more such content.*
    🧠 *Cognitive Biases* 🧠 💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻 🔰 *Confirmation Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence. ❇️ *Example:* Only following news sources you agree with. ✅ *Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate" 🔰 *Sunk Cost Fallacy:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational. ❇️ *Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?" 🔰 *Halo Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones. ❇️ *Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent. ✅ *Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence. 🔰 *Recency Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions. ❇️ *Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year. ✅ *Fix:* Pull back and look long-term. 🔰 *Optimism Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes. ❇️ *Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do. ✅ *Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions. 🔰 *Anchoring Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive. ❇️ *Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer. ✅ *Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources. 🔰 *Self-Serving Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures. ❇️ *Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails. ✅ *Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes. 🔰 *Negativity Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones. ❇️ *Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter ✅ *Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception. 🔰 *Availability Heuristic:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind ❇️ *Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news ✅ *Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?"" 🔰 *Dunning-Kruger Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate ❇️ *Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house ✅ *Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback 🔰 *Framing Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions ❇️ *Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat" ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?" 🔰 *Bandwagon Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do. ❇️ *Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?" 🔰 *Endowment Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them. ❇️ *Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?" 🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading 📖. Follow our WhatsApp Channel for more such content.* 🤗
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  • Title: My Arranged Marriage
    Episode 1: The Day My Bride Brought Her Ex to Our Wedding

    I always knew my family was chaotic, but I didn’t know they were diabolical until the day I walked into my own wedding and nearly fainted. Not because of cold feet — but because the bride, the woman I was supposed to marry, was sitting on the stage laughing with her ex-boyfriend, whom she brought along like a plus-one.

    Yes, her ex. To our wedding.

    Let me start from the beginning.

    It began two months ago when Mama burst into my room like a hurricane dressed in Ankara and holy anointing.
    "Obinna, your bachelorhood is a spiritual attack!"
    She clutched her Bible and her phone, scrolling through WhatsApp pictures of potential wives like it was Tinder for African mothers.

    I was 29, a civil engineer in Lagos, and deeply single—not because I couldn't find love, but because the last girl I loved used my rent money to buy a Brazilian wig and disappeared with a sugar daddy who sold building materials.

    So, when Mama insisted on arranging a marriage, I laughed. Until Papa added his voice.
    “If you don’t marry before July, forget your inheritance. We will donate your land to the church!”

    July was two months away.

    That was how I met Amaka.
    Photos first. Then video calls. She was pretty. Soft-spoken. From Enugu. A nurse. And, according to her mother, a virgin. (My cousin Ugochi whispered, “Aunty, check that thing well. These days, even calculators reset.”)

    I agreed to meet her. She smiled, giggled, and spoke gently. But something felt... rehearsed. Like she was playing a role.

    Still, the wedding date was fixed. Invitations printed. Cow bought. Church booked. DJ paid. Mama danced every night to Flavour’s songs as if the wedding was her own.

    And then the big day came.

    The hall glittered with decorations. Guests arrived in gele and agbada. My friends teased me “Obinna, you go finally chop life!”

    Then I saw her. Amaka. Dressed in white. Gorgeous. Smiling. Until I noticed the man sitting beside her, whispering in her ear and holding her hand.

    I frowned.
    “Who is that?” I asked my brother.

    My brother squinted. “I think he came with the bride.”

    “Came with the"

    Before I could finish, Mama appeared beside me, all smiles and sweat. “You look handsome, my son. Now go and smile at your bride.”

    “I will smile after I know who that guy is.”

    Mama hissed and walked off.

    So, I marched up to Amaka, heart racing. “Who is this?”

    She blinked, calm. “Oh! Meet Chuka. My best friend. He’s like… family.”

    Chuka stood, extended his hand, smiling like a goat that just chewed your exam script. “Nice to meet you, bro.”

    Bro?

    I ignored his hand. “Can we talk privately?”

    Amaka sighed, dragged me aside, and said the thing that nearly made me remove my agbada and run home in boxers.

    “I invited him because... well... he’s important to me. We dated for six years. He’s the one who taught me how to love. But my parents didn’t approve. So I had to settle for this... arrangement.”

    I stood still, blinking.
    “Settle?”

    “Yes,” she said. “But you’re kind. You’ll understand.”

    Ladies and gentlemen, I did not understand.

    My uncle, who saw me shaking like a leaf, whispered, “Is it heartbreak or hunger? Should we bring you small jollof rice to calm your nerves?”

    I wanted to run, but the hall was full, the gifts were stacked, and the caterers were serving. A pastor was waiting. A crowd was watching.

    Then I remembered what my grandmother once said:
    “If you must embarrass the devil, do it with boldness.”

    So, I climbed the stage, grabbed the mic, and said:
    “Ladies and gentlemen, I want to thank you all for coming. But I just found out that I am not the main actor in this wedding. I am an extra.”

    Gasps.

    Chuka choked on his zobo. Amaka’s face turned pale. Mama tried to grab the mic, but I raised my hand dramatically.

    “This wedding is cancelled. But don’t worry there’s plenty of food. Eat, drink, and take selfies. Just know that Obinna has left the chat!”

    I walked out, head high, heart free. That night, I ate the wedding jollof alone in my boxers and watched Nollywood movies till 2 a.m.

    A week later, I met Adaeze, my neighbor who had always lent me pepper without asking for it back. She knocked on my door with a plate of hot rice and a smile.

    And guess what?
    Title: My Arranged Marriage Episode 1: The Day My Bride Brought Her Ex to Our Wedding I always knew my family was chaotic, but I didn’t know they were diabolical until the day I walked into my own wedding and nearly fainted. Not because of cold feet — but because the bride, the woman I was supposed to marry, was sitting on the stage laughing with her ex-boyfriend, whom she brought along like a plus-one. Yes, her ex. To our wedding. Let me start from the beginning. It began two months ago when Mama burst into my room like a hurricane dressed in Ankara and holy anointing. "Obinna, your bachelorhood is a spiritual attack!" She clutched her Bible and her phone, scrolling through WhatsApp pictures of potential wives like it was Tinder for African mothers. I was 29, a civil engineer in Lagos, and deeply single—not because I couldn't find love, but because the last girl I loved used my rent money to buy a Brazilian wig and disappeared with a sugar daddy who sold building materials. So, when Mama insisted on arranging a marriage, I laughed. Until Papa added his voice. “If you don’t marry before July, forget your inheritance. We will donate your land to the church!” July was two months away. That was how I met Amaka. Photos first. Then video calls. She was pretty. Soft-spoken. From Enugu. A nurse. And, according to her mother, a virgin. (My cousin Ugochi whispered, “Aunty, check that thing well. These days, even calculators reset.”) I agreed to meet her. She smiled, giggled, and spoke gently. But something felt... rehearsed. Like she was playing a role. Still, the wedding date was fixed. Invitations printed. Cow bought. Church booked. DJ paid. Mama danced every night to Flavour’s songs as if the wedding was her own. And then the big day came. The hall glittered with decorations. Guests arrived in gele and agbada. My friends teased me “Obinna, you go finally chop life!” Then I saw her. Amaka. Dressed in white. Gorgeous. Smiling. Until I noticed the man sitting beside her, whispering in her ear and holding her hand. I frowned. “Who is that?” I asked my brother. My brother squinted. “I think he came with the bride.” “Came with the" Before I could finish, Mama appeared beside me, all smiles and sweat. “You look handsome, my son. Now go and smile at your bride.” “I will smile after I know who that guy is.” Mama hissed and walked off. So, I marched up to Amaka, heart racing. “Who is this?” She blinked, calm. “Oh! Meet Chuka. My best friend. He’s like… family.” Chuka stood, extended his hand, smiling like a goat that just chewed your exam script. “Nice to meet you, bro.” Bro? I ignored his hand. “Can we talk privately?” Amaka sighed, dragged me aside, and said the thing that nearly made me remove my agbada and run home in boxers. “I invited him because... well... he’s important to me. We dated for six years. He’s the one who taught me how to love. But my parents didn’t approve. So I had to settle for this... arrangement.” I stood still, blinking. “Settle?” “Yes,” she said. “But you’re kind. You’ll understand.” Ladies and gentlemen, I did not understand. My uncle, who saw me shaking like a leaf, whispered, “Is it heartbreak or hunger? Should we bring you small jollof rice to calm your nerves?” I wanted to run, but the hall was full, the gifts were stacked, and the caterers were serving. A pastor was waiting. A crowd was watching. Then I remembered what my grandmother once said: “If you must embarrass the devil, do it with boldness.” So, I climbed the stage, grabbed the mic, and said: “Ladies and gentlemen, I want to thank you all for coming. But I just found out that I am not the main actor in this wedding. I am an extra.” Gasps. Chuka choked on his zobo. Amaka’s face turned pale. Mama tried to grab the mic, but I raised my hand dramatically. “This wedding is cancelled. But don’t worry there’s plenty of food. Eat, drink, and take selfies. Just know that Obinna has left the chat!” I walked out, head high, heart free. That night, I ate the wedding jollof alone in my boxers and watched Nollywood movies till 2 a.m. A week later, I met Adaeze, my neighbor who had always lent me pepper without asking for it back. She knocked on my door with a plate of hot rice and a smile. And guess what?
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  • *Cognitive Biases*

    💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻

    *Confirmation Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence.

    *Example:* Only following news sources you agree with.

    *Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate"

    *Sunk Cost Fallacy:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational.

    *Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested.

    *Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?"

    *Halo Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones.

    *Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent.

    *Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence.

    *Recency Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions.

    *Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year.

    *Fix:* Pull back and look long-term.

    *Optimism Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes.

    *Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do.

    *Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions.

    *Anchoring Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive.

    *Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer.

    *Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources.

    *Self-Serving Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures.

    *Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails.

    *Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes.

    *Negativity Bias:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones.

    *Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter

    *Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception.

    *Availability Heuristic:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind

    *Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news

    *Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?""

    *Dunning-Kruger Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate

    *Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house

    *Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback

    *Framing Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions

    *Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat"

    *Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?"

    *Bandwagon Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do.

    *Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it.

    *Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?"

    *Endowment Effect:*

    💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them.

    *Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs

    *Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?"

    🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading .

    💁🏻‍♀️ Share with your friends as well.
    🧠 *Cognitive Biases* 🧠 💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻 🔰 *Confirmation Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence. ❇️ *Example:* Only following news sources you agree with. ✅ *Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate" 🔰 *Sunk Cost Fallacy:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational. ❇️ *Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?" 🔰 *Halo Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones. ❇️ *Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent. ✅ *Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence. 🔰 *Recency Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions. ❇️ *Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year. ✅ *Fix:* Pull back and look long-term. 🔰 *Optimism Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes. ❇️ *Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do. ✅ *Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions. 🔰 *Anchoring Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive. ❇️ *Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer. ✅ *Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources. 🔰 *Self-Serving Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures. ❇️ *Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails. ✅ *Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes. 🔰 *Negativity Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones. ❇️ *Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter ✅ *Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception. 🔰 *Availability Heuristic:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind ❇️ *Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news ✅ *Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?"" 🔰 *Dunning-Kruger Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate ❇️ *Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house ✅ *Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback 🔰 *Framing Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions ❇️ *Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat" ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?" 🔰 *Bandwagon Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do. ❇️ *Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?" 🔰 *Endowment Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them. ❇️ *Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?" 🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading 📖. 💁🏻‍♀️ Share with your friends as well.
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  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 14/06/2025*

    June 12: MKO Abiola’s family demands N45bn contract debt details

    Knocks as N’Assembly inserts N10.96tn into budgets in four years

    Rivers: Wike, Fubara in fresh reconciliatory meeting

    Again, herders kill 25 in Benue communities

    Only 2025-elected LG officials can run Osun councils – Electoral chair

    Viral Video: FCT Police arrest officers, launch investigation into alleged harassment

    Naira strengthens to ₦1,590/$ in parallel market, narrows gap with official rate

    NPFL announces August 22 new season kick-off date

    Bassey wins Fulham’s Player of the Year award

    Man who survived 1998 plane crash reacts after Air India survivor sat in same seat

    At least 78 killed by Israeli air strikes on Tehran

    Iran fires back at Israel after onslaught targets nuclear facilities

    Ukraine receives 1,200 dead soldiers’ bodies from Russia

    1,150 Nigerians studied in France, says French envoy


    -----------------------------
    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * The first political party to be founded in Nigeria was the Nigerian National Democratic Party (NNDP). It was established on 24 June 1923 by Herbert Macaulay, who is often referred to as the father of Nigerian nationalism.

    * A rainbow on Venus is called a glory and they appear as a series of coloured concentric rings.
    -----------------------------

    Tinubu, Oborevwori, Mbah, others celebrate ‘Uncle Sam’ at 90

    Senate urges FG to regulate cryptocurrency

    Bill for South-East sixth state passes second reading in Senate

    Rivers State NASS caucus condemns Senator Dickson’s remarks on emergency rule

    Radio Biafra: Court admits transmitter allegedly smuggled into Nigeria by Kanu

    Kanu incited IPOB’s sit-at-home order, DSS tells court

    Appeal Court acquits Ex-NIMASA DG Akpobolokemi of N754.8m fraud

    Court jails four Filipinos, eight Nigerians for internet fraud, cyber-terrorism

    Court jails Canada returnee three months for assaulting KAI official

    N976m subsidy fraud: EFCC declares oil firm boss wanted

    Chinese national arrested over terrorism

    Bauchi police nab notorious online scammer behind 40 fraud cases

    Military deactivates 21 illegal refineries, nabs 23 oil thieves

    FG engages Chinese firms to revive Ajaokuta Steel

    Keyamo orders probe of Air Peace/Oshiomhole face-off

    Umahi: Enugu-Onitsha dual carriageway to last 50 years as work begins on second lane

    Umahi defends Tinubu, says North has 52% of legacy projects

    Nigeria now reaching stability, after fuel subsidy removal — Minister

    Pipeline Surveillance: FG to go tough on saboteurs, prosecutes over 100 vandals

    FG inspects South-South annex of national cybercrime centre in Bayelsa

    Human trafficking: NAPTIP, DIA rescue 20 foreign victims, arrest three suspects

    Row over disruption of NDDC projects launch in Cross River

    I have no regret naming international conference centre after Tinubu – Wike

    Soyinka, Osoba, Fashola, Olu of Warri, others grace Uncle Sam’s 90th birthday

    Jonathan denies social media post on 2027 presidential bid

    Declare Ken Saro-Wiwa innocent, Amnesty International tells President

    NMA FCT threatens strike over sacking of three doctors

    PMAN CRISIS: Police probe exonerates Pretty Okafor of financial misconduct

    Health workers who contracted COVID-19 were abandoned – Forum chair

    Nigeria needs decentralised government — Agbakoba

    Only Tinubu can revive Nigeria – Tompolo

    Ikoyi Club hosts Phil-Ebosie Swimming Competition

    SUNU Assurances pays N3.28bn claims, records N3.59bn profit

    Bolt Drivers protest murder of member in Bayelsa

    Lagos Airport Drama: Oshiomhole unruly, attitude unacceptable — Airline operators

    I’ll sue if Tinubu lists me for national award – Sowore

    Obidient Movement slam Tinubu over ‘opposition’ in disarray’ comment

    Abure’s LP faction faults court ruling on Lagos council polls

    Katsina gov hails Abdulsalami’s statesmanship at 83

    Soludo: Tinubu rescued economy from collapse, restored financial solvency

    Mutfwang pardons two convicts, calls for efforts to strengthen democracy

    Ondo gov unveils N1.2bn conditional cash transfer scheme

    Anambra unlocks ₦12bn UBEC grant with Soludo’s ₦6.154bn release

    Cross River clarifies NDDC project inauguration, says no disruption occurred

    Lagos harmonises school calendar

    Imo Govt plans to relocate Owerri street traders

    Sokoto, UNICEF launch polio OBR round 2, deploy over 2,700 teams for campaign

    Windstorm destroys NYSC camp facilities in Gombe

    14 arrested in Jigawa over fake currencies

    Police arrest two as Anambra security operatives kill 17-year-old

    Bandits kill one, kidnap nine in two Niger communities

    Police arrest 19-year-old for kidnapping, murder in Anambra

    Outrage as P’Harcourt realtor strips female birthday celebrants naked at nightclub

    -----------------------------

    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1982, the Falklands War ended. After 74 days of fighting, British troops captured the capital, Stanley, prompting the Argentine forces to surrender and return the islands to British control.

    -----------------------------

    No one is any more or any less important than you are. – Marianne Williamson

    Good morning


    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 14/06/2025* June 12: MKO Abiola’s family demands N45bn contract debt details Knocks as N’Assembly inserts N10.96tn into budgets in four years Rivers: Wike, Fubara in fresh reconciliatory meeting Again, herders kill 25 in Benue communities Only 2025-elected LG officials can run Osun councils – Electoral chair Viral Video: FCT Police arrest officers, launch investigation into alleged harassment Naira strengthens to ₦1,590/$ in parallel market, narrows gap with official rate NPFL announces August 22 new season kick-off date Bassey wins Fulham’s Player of the Year award Man who survived 1998 plane crash reacts after Air India survivor sat in same seat At least 78 killed by Israeli air strikes on Tehran Iran fires back at Israel after onslaught targets nuclear facilities Ukraine receives 1,200 dead soldiers’ bodies from Russia 1,150 Nigerians studied in France, says French envoy ----------------------------- *DID YOU KNOW?* * The first political party to be founded in Nigeria was the Nigerian National Democratic Party (NNDP). It was established on 24 June 1923 by Herbert Macaulay, who is often referred to as the father of Nigerian nationalism. * A rainbow on Venus is called a glory and they appear as a series of coloured concentric rings. ----------------------------- Tinubu, Oborevwori, Mbah, others celebrate ‘Uncle Sam’ at 90 Senate urges FG to regulate cryptocurrency Bill for South-East sixth state passes second reading in Senate Rivers State NASS caucus condemns Senator Dickson’s remarks on emergency rule Radio Biafra: Court admits transmitter allegedly smuggled into Nigeria by Kanu Kanu incited IPOB’s sit-at-home order, DSS tells court Appeal Court acquits Ex-NIMASA DG Akpobolokemi of N754.8m fraud Court jails four Filipinos, eight Nigerians for internet fraud, cyber-terrorism Court jails Canada returnee three months for assaulting KAI official N976m subsidy fraud: EFCC declares oil firm boss wanted Chinese national arrested over terrorism Bauchi police nab notorious online scammer behind 40 fraud cases Military deactivates 21 illegal refineries, nabs 23 oil thieves FG engages Chinese firms to revive Ajaokuta Steel Keyamo orders probe of Air Peace/Oshiomhole face-off Umahi: Enugu-Onitsha dual carriageway to last 50 years as work begins on second lane Umahi defends Tinubu, says North has 52% of legacy projects Nigeria now reaching stability, after fuel subsidy removal — Minister Pipeline Surveillance: FG to go tough on saboteurs, prosecutes over 100 vandals FG inspects South-South annex of national cybercrime centre in Bayelsa Human trafficking: NAPTIP, DIA rescue 20 foreign victims, arrest three suspects Row over disruption of NDDC projects launch in Cross River I have no regret naming international conference centre after Tinubu – Wike Soyinka, Osoba, Fashola, Olu of Warri, others grace Uncle Sam’s 90th birthday Jonathan denies social media post on 2027 presidential bid Declare Ken Saro-Wiwa innocent, Amnesty International tells President NMA FCT threatens strike over sacking of three doctors PMAN CRISIS: Police probe exonerates Pretty Okafor of financial misconduct Health workers who contracted COVID-19 were abandoned – Forum chair Nigeria needs decentralised government — Agbakoba Only Tinubu can revive Nigeria – Tompolo Ikoyi Club hosts Phil-Ebosie Swimming Competition SUNU Assurances pays N3.28bn claims, records N3.59bn profit Bolt Drivers protest murder of member in Bayelsa Lagos Airport Drama: Oshiomhole unruly, attitude unacceptable — Airline operators I’ll sue if Tinubu lists me for national award – Sowore Obidient Movement slam Tinubu over ‘opposition’ in disarray’ comment Abure’s LP faction faults court ruling on Lagos council polls Katsina gov hails Abdulsalami’s statesmanship at 83 Soludo: Tinubu rescued economy from collapse, restored financial solvency Mutfwang pardons two convicts, calls for efforts to strengthen democracy Ondo gov unveils N1.2bn conditional cash transfer scheme Anambra unlocks ₦12bn UBEC grant with Soludo’s ₦6.154bn release Cross River clarifies NDDC project inauguration, says no disruption occurred Lagos harmonises school calendar Imo Govt plans to relocate Owerri street traders Sokoto, UNICEF launch polio OBR round 2, deploy over 2,700 teams for campaign Windstorm destroys NYSC camp facilities in Gombe 14 arrested in Jigawa over fake currencies Police arrest two as Anambra security operatives kill 17-year-old Bandits kill one, kidnap nine in two Niger communities Police arrest 19-year-old for kidnapping, murder in Anambra Outrage as P’Harcourt realtor strips female birthday celebrants naked at nightclub ----------------------------- *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1982, the Falklands War ended. After 74 days of fighting, British troops captured the capital, Stanley, prompting the Argentine forces to surrender and return the islands to British control. ----------------------------- No one is any more or any less important than you are. – Marianne Williamson Good morning *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*
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  • SO SÃD
    Pratik Joshi lived in UK for 6 years while his family was in India. Everyday he spoke to his wife only on video calls. He strûgg|ed and applied for visa so his family could come, the first one was rêjected. He didn’t give up, he applied again for a second time and the visa was granted.

    Pratik arrived in India to come take his wife and kids. They packed everything, said bye to neighbor’s and got on the plane to UK . Few minutes in the air the plane crãshed. All of them died , burnt to ashes.

    Dear God , why will you even let this kind of thing happen ? Well, you know best and in the light of your will and plan, someday we too will understand better.

    RIP to this family.
    SO SÃD😭🤦‍♂️🙏💔 Pratik Joshi lived in UK 🇬🇧 for 6 years while his family was in India🇮🇳. Everyday he spoke to his wife only on video calls. He strûgg|ed and applied for visa so his family could come, the first one was rêjected. He didn’t give up, he applied again for a second time and the visa was granted. Pratik arrived in India to come take his wife and kids. They packed everything, said bye to neighbor’s and got on the plane to UK 🇬🇧. Few minutes in the air the plane crãshed. All of them died 🤦‍♂️💔, burnt to ashes. Dear God , why will you even let this kind of thing happen ? Well, you know best and in the light of your will and plan, someday we too will understand better. RIP to this family.😭
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  • I marry early, just 20 years old.
    My husband na 24 that time.

    We love ourself well-well.

    E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle.

    We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby.

    But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain.

    I labour for almost 3 days.
    When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak.

    Two hours later, my pikin d!e.
    I cry tire.
    My husband too cry.

    But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again."

    Six months later, I carry belle again.
    After 9 months — another stillbirth.

    Third belle, the same thing happen.

    Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.”

    But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen.

    Some people say na spiritual matter.
    We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer.

    Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one.

    I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e.

    Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear.

    Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again.

    I tell my husband make we try adopt for now.
    Him agree.

    I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish.

    My husband vex.
    Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again.

    I begin follow the matter spiritually again.
    Different prophecies, no solution.

    One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money.

    Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million.
    She say e legit.

    I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out."

    I go borrow money.
    I give my friend 600k as first payment.

    One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me.

    I shock.
    My heart cut.

    I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter"

    Next day, police land arrest me.

    My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.”

    I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.”

    Just like play, I land prison.
    No lawyer.
    No family.

    My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence.

    My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her.

    She promise to help me too. Nothing happen.

    I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish.

    Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people.

    Different NGO dey come prison.
    Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope.

    Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out.

    Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me.

    She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail.

    When I reach house, my husband don move.
    Don remarry with three children already.

    When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match.

    That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.”

    She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills.
    From there I start my small baking business.

    But inside me, I still dey cry.
    I no even fit look mirror.
    I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope.

    One day, I go deliver wedding cake.

    As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house.

    I tell myself, “I go change this story.”

    I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type.

    I watch make-up beginners videos.
    I start to buy small affordable good clothes.

    I begin dey apply simple makeup.
    I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin.

    I begin see my beauty again.

    Customers begin notice.
    Begin compliment me.

    I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile.

    My self-confidence begin return.

    One day, I go deliver cake again.
    I dress well.

    The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business.

    But na love him come find.

    Him fine, young, tall — and kind.
    I open up tell am everything.

    He say, “Your past no be your name.
    Let’s build something new.”

    Today, I don marry again.
    I don born two boys through CS operation.

    Dem survive.
    My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years.

    My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again.

    I don finally become mama.

    Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story.

    ---

    To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you.

    The pain of stillbirth no be small thing.

    Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand.

    Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited.

    But make you hear this one: you never fail.
    Your womb no betray you.

    Your heart still be the heart of a mother.

    And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you.

    To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look —

    My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body.

    Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary.

    Self love dey build back self esteem

    You go rise again and glow in your own time.

    To the women wey their husband don abandon them —

    No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away.

    God never walk away from you.

    Stand up, dust your pain, start again.
    Look good, take care of yourself.
    You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again.

    To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles —

    May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears.
    Amen.

    @highlight
    I marry early, just 20 years old. My husband na 24 that time. We love ourself well-well. E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle. We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby. But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain. I labour for almost 3 days. When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak. Two hours later, my pikin d!e. I cry tire. My husband too cry. But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again." Six months later, I carry belle again. After 9 months — another stillbirth. Third belle, the same thing happen. Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.” But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen. Some people say na spiritual matter. We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer. Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one. I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e. Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear. Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again. I tell my husband make we try adopt for now. Him agree. I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish. My husband vex. Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again. I begin follow the matter spiritually again. Different prophecies, no solution. One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money. Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million. She say e legit. I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out." I go borrow money. I give my friend 600k as first payment. One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me. I shock. My heart cut. I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter" Next day, police land arrest me. My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.” I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.” Just like play, I land prison. No lawyer. No family. My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence. My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her. She promise to help me too. Nothing happen. I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish. Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people. Different NGO dey come prison. Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope. Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out. Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me. She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail. When I reach house, my husband don move. Don remarry with three children already. When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match. That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.” She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills. From there I start my small baking business. But inside me, I still dey cry. I no even fit look mirror. I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope. One day, I go deliver wedding cake. As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house. I tell myself, “I go change this story.” I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type. I watch make-up beginners videos. I start to buy small affordable good clothes. I begin dey apply simple makeup. I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin. I begin see my beauty again. Customers begin notice. Begin compliment me. I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile. My self-confidence begin return. One day, I go deliver cake again. I dress well. The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business. But na love him come find. Him fine, young, tall — and kind. I open up tell am everything. He say, “Your past no be your name. Let’s build something new.” Today, I don marry again. I don born two boys through CS operation. Dem survive. My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years. My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again. I don finally become mama. Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story. --- To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you. The pain of stillbirth no be small thing. Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand. Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited. But make you hear this one: you never fail. Your womb no betray you. Your heart still be the heart of a mother. And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you. To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look — My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body. Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary. Self love dey build back self esteem You go rise again and glow in your own time. To the women wey their husband don abandon them — No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away. God never walk away from you. Stand up, dust your pain, start again. Look good, take care of yourself. You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again. To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles — May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears. Amen. @highlight
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  • AIR PEACE DEBUNKS OSHIOMOLE’S ALLEGATIONS OF EXTORTION

    Our attention has been drawn to the deliberate falsehood being peddled by Senator Adams Oshiomole against Air Peace.

    The Senator lied blatantly when he accused Air Peace of extorting its passengers. We challenge Senator Oshiomole to bring one evidence of a passenger that was extorted.

    None of our staff ever extorted any passenger. In fact, no ticket was sold after the closure of check-in on that flight. Everyone who flew bought their ticket prior to the flight closure.

    Again, our flight was never overbooked as some of his videos alleged. In fact, the aircraft took off with over thirty (30) empty seats. It would have been in our interest to carry Oshiomhole and those others who missed their flights for lateness on this flight, instead of flying many empty seats; but we will never sacrifice our strict on-time performance for monetary gains.
    It’s absolutely false that he was offered preferential treatment and that he was fighting for others. Senator Oshiomole was not fighting for anyone. He came to the airport late and was told that he was late. He then began to forment trouble. He jumped on the baggage conveyor belt preventing the check-in process of other flights. He also barricaded the entrance gate and prevented access to the terminal. While he was doing all these, he also deliberately instigated other passengers against the Airline.

    We call on the Federal Airport Authority of Nigeria (FAAN) to release the CCTV coverage starting from the time Senator Oshiomole entered the airport, for Nigerians to see. His accusation of extortion is very defamatory. His conduct was very violent, unbecoming, unfortunate and above all, shameful.

    SIGNED
    MANAGEMENT

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