*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1963, 32 African countries formed a coalition against white rule. The Organisation of African Unity was founded to promote decolonization and end white minority governments in Africa. The OAU was replaced by the African Union in 2002.

* On this day in 1977, the first Star Wars film was released. George Lucas’ epic space opera is one of the most popular works in movie history.

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Believe in yourself and believe in love. Love something. – Andrew Wyeth

Good morning


*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*

I'm just a hotel waiter. I met Madam Iruoma when I went to deliver her dinner to her.

Madam Iruoma booked a VIP room in our hotel. It was literally the first time I met her. When I saw her that night, I noticed the worry on her face. Something was bothering her.

After serving her food, I left. I went to my colleague Mike. Mike is my paddy paddy in the hotel.

Bro did you observe anything strange with the woman that booked the room 002 VIP. I asked Mike.

Something like what? Bro I don't look at anybody's face in this hotel o, my work is to serve food. Mike said. That's bad bro, something is troubling her. I said.

Ayochidi I know you just newly started working here about a week ago, to keep your job, I suggest you mind your business. Anything troubling her will not pass her boyfriend or husband cheated on her. So she just come to relax her mind. Mike said to me. Really? I asked Mike. Or? Mike said.

Or she haven't received serious knacking for a long time. Mike said and let out a laugh. That's not funny bro. I said.

Few hours later Madam Iruoma called and I went and took her dishes away. I wanted to ask her what was bothering her, but Mike already told me it wasn't on my jurisdiction.

After work that night because I was on night shift, I went home the following morning. When I got home. My landlord was already outside waiting for me.

Ayochidi, you think you can hide forever abi? My landlord asked me. No sir, I started a new job a week ago, that's where I'm coming from. I said to my landlord.

Ayochidi! You have three days to come up with my rent. Three days. If I don't see my rent. When you return from where ever you go at night. You will see your things outside. My landlord said.

Sir give me till month end. I promise to pay by month end. I said. Three days! My landlord said and angrily left my house.

I went into my house and sat down. I was thinking of where to raise my rent in three days when a call came in from my mother in the village.

Hello brother; that was my baby sister calling. She used my mother's phone to call me. Brother, Waec will soon be closing registration. My little sister reminded me. Mma I will send the money soon. I said. And even Mommy's medicine has finish, we have to buy another set. My sister said. I will send the money. I said.

Life was really difficult, from thinking how to raise money. I slept off. I have been awake all night.

Again It was night; I went to the hotel. Madam Iruoma was still in the hotel. She had orderd for dinner. I went and served her dinner.

I was about to leave when she called me back. Can I speak with you? She asked me. Please come and sit. She said. Is there a problem? I asked her. No there's No problem at all. I just want someone to talk to. I have lodged here to two days now and I feel bored. She said.

Is everything okay? I asked her. Firstly what's your name? She asked me. My Name is Ayochidi. I replied. Ayochidi? Is that not like Igbo and Yoruba? She asked me. It is ma. I replied.

My name is Iruoma. She said. Nice to meet you ma. I said. Enough with the ma's. Call me Iruoma. She said.

She came close to me and started touching me. Ma, I don't think this is proper. I said. Are you a baby. She said. I don't understand. I said.

Just make me feel like a woman. Iruoma said. I think I have to go now. I said.

That day I left her room. But for the next two days she kept insisting that I personally continued delivering her food to her.

I have really thought about it. On the third day, when I went to deliver her food. She asked me what was it I wanted. I should name anything. And she would do it for me.

That was the very moment my entire life changed.

Your shares is my biggest motivation to continue...

To Be Continued.

Title: Room Service 1

My Name is Ayochidi and Writing Choose Me...002

iPhone users, what does this mean abeg ?

*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*



When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

20 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AS A WOMAN...!!!

1. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath... No man, not even your husband, will like to see you that way.

2. Do not leave cheap nail polish to wear off on its own, there's a reason they sell nail polish remover...

3. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t bother. Just pack your hair neatly.

4. Do not do artificial nails that make you look like a dragon queen, being simple is always sexy. Just try it once and you will love doing it always. Have you heard men talk about a lady being natural before? It's because they like natural women.

5. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!

6. Never do things for a man with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.

7. Never contradict what your man says in public.

8. Never stalk the man that left you for the other woman.

9. Do not share your best friend's personal life with every Tom, **** and Harry.

10. Women should never act on distress in relationships like checking your man’s phone, nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will simply release him to someone else by doing so.

11. Never dish out your entire family drama on a first date. The guy just wants to know about you.

12. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat healthy and work out but leave it at that.

13. Never over-accessorize. Stop looking like a Christmas tree.

14. Never leave home without lip-gloss, your phone and most of all your dignity.

15. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!

16. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk grasshopper.

17. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the wrong impression.

18. Never think you can threaten your man into submission. You simply get him irritated in the end.

19. Respect is reciprocal. You earn your man's respect if you respect him first. And finally,

20. Never wish to be like any other woman. There are others out there envying you for who you are... Be yourself!

*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

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15 WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR WIFE

Marriage is a beautiful union built on love, trust, and mutual respect. As a husband, one of your greatest responsibilities is to protect and care for your wife, ensuring she feels safe, valued, and cherished. In today's world, protecting your wife goes beyond physical safety; it encompasses emotional well-being, respect, and support. Here are 15 ways to protect your wife:

1. Make Her Know That She Is Number One In Your Life: A woman feels secure if you always make her know she is number one in your life. Show her and say it.

2. Be Bias Completely In Her Favour: Stand with her every day and let everyone know your stand. Don't let your wife be in doubt about your stand, let her know that you are biased in her favour.

3. Protect Her From Your Family: Never allow your family to intrude into your family life; they are not to come between both of you. Do not report her to them and do not bring them in to settle disputes between you and her.

4. Protect Her From Your Children: Do not allow your children to disrespect or dishonour her. Protect her if your children disrespect her.

5. Avoid Reporting Your Wife To Your Family, Friends And Fans: It is very wrong and childish to report your wife to your family or friends. Grow up, be a man and not a boy.

6. No Secrets: There’s never a good reason to keep a secret from your wife. I'm talking about where the money goes, where you’ve been, and what’s really going on in your life, your relationship and family. Honesty is essential.

7. No Female Friendship: You can be friends with other couples, but it’s a terrible idea for you to have a close relationship with any female whom you discuss everything with. It is totally unhealthy and will make your wife feel insecure.

8. No Pornography: Pornography is cancer that’s ruining the sex lives of countless married couples. Real life can never measure up to the hyper-sexualized world of pornography, and exposure to it can rob you of the chance for a natural and fulfilling relationship. No woman will feel secure with a man who is hooked on pornography. Flee from porn, it kills marriages.

9. Let Your Wife Know Your Co-Workers: Don’t exclude your spouse from that office Christmas party, and if possible, let her have at least, a little familiarity with the secretaries or assistants who work with you daily. Invite her for lunch occasionally. This will make her feel more comfortable and build trust. Allow her to be familiar with your world and to spot trouble if it arrives.

10. Negotiate The Family Budget And Then Stick To It: Decide with your wife how your family income will be used and what your financial goals are. Once those guidelines are set, failing to live within them is dishonest and unfair. If something unusual comes up, talk about it. But be transparent about who’s spending what.

11. Decide Together On Boundaries For The Children: Disagreeing on parenting can be toxic to your marriage and disastrous for your children. Talk about what the rules and expectations for the children should be, and then support your wife by sticking to your joint decision.

12. Beware Of Extreme Time-Consuming Hobbies: It’s fine to have individual interests, but if your hobby or passion causes you to spend time with others more than your wife, you might soon feel like you have more in common with those people outside. Limit the hours spent on separate endeavours each week and find something you enjoy doing together.

13. Be Loyal To Your Wife: Your wife needs to be able to count on you to speak positively about her and defend her if necessary. Avoid friends who love to engage in wife bashing or who find such behaviour as cute. Be ready to fight for your wife and defend her always. Never say anything about her in her absence which you never want her to hear, that is disloyalty.

14. Attend Church With Her: A recent study reveals that women feel more comfortable and secure with men that go to church with them than with a man who never loves to serve God.

15. Be Transparent With Phone And Internet: The only reason to have a cell phone or online password that your spouse doesn’t know is if you have something to hide. You should be completely comfortable with having your wife look at your phone, any social media accounts, text messages, or other forms of communication.

Let's share this on every platform, we continue to build better marriages together

Bisi Adewale

#bisiadewale #viral #trending #love #marriage #marraigelife #couplesgoal #goviral

People who seek genuine connection are less interested in sex. Asking for it too early can be a turn-off, especially for grown women.

Fewer men have mastered this, and are interested in genuine connection. A man who is interested in building with you won't just be interested in Szx, especially in the early phase of dating.
You will go on dates, spend time together and get to know each other. The funniest thing is that sex is always going to be here or there.

As I get older, I have really crave connection. The one that we can put our phones down and just talk. It's the weekend; here's what I truly want to do. Get into the car with her and drive to Germany for about 3 hours, stop in one steak house and just eat while we drive back to Switzerland.

Don't get me wrong, I love sex, and I think I'm good at it, too,, but if sex is going to ruin my connection with a grown, decent woman, I don't want sex. It can wait until we both are ready for it.

Don't rush into sex without knowing that person, especially if you seek a genuine connection. Invest time in deep talk with them. This is how deep connection is built.

Sex is not love. Conversation is love.

Be guided.