FACT ABOUT SHY PEOPLE

1. They can talk and chat openly even crack jokes with you on social media but in real life they are ice

2. They fit pass you for road simply because of their shyness🙍🏻‍♀️. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding

3. Very calculative, clingy, little touch of hot temper, romantic with one they love. They hardly fall in love but once they fall, it's over because they don't joke with that person

4. They hardly cheat. Before you see them, dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people and always like staying alone👌🏽.

5. They hardly talk in the midst of people but talkative when they are with their lovely one.
People usually sees them as too proud people but they are not.

6. They can endure alot but don't push them or take them for granted because once they decide, you have lost them kpatakpata✌🏽.

7. They are too emotional. They don't easily forget bad things someone did to them.

8. They hardly share their problems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through

9. You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them
They are unpredictable and stubborn

If you're in this table, gather here let's know ourselves

A MILLIONAIRESS HIRED A YOUNG MAN TO TEND HER GARDEN, BUT SHE NEVER IMAGINED WHO HE TRULY WAS

Autumn winds carried fallen leaves across the pathways, swirling them into playful patterns. Victoria stood near the window, gazing thoughtfully at her neglected garden. Over the years, it had become an unruly maze of tangled shrubs and towering grass—somewhere between a forgotten woodland and an abandoned lot.

“We really need to do something,” she murmured, speaking more to herself than anyone else.

She powered up her laptop and opened her inbox. A message from Elena Sergeyevna—a former acquaintance from the business world—caught her eye. Elena spoke glowingly of a young gardener: “Kirill is a true expert. In just a few months, he completely revived my garden, returning it to its former splendor.”

Victoria considered it. The estate had been hers for three years, ever since she resolved to start fresh. Yet the garden remained a project she continued to postpone.

Her thoughts drifted toward an old photo frame still resting on the shelf. The image showed her and Alexey—young, joyful, newly back from their honeymoon. She hesitated, then flipped the frame facedown. “No more dwelling on the past,” she told herself firmly.

Fifteen years had passed since Alexey vanished—without explanation, without a trace. Victoria still recalled every detail of that morning. He had risen early, as usual, kissed her on the cheek, and said, “I’ll be late tonight. Don’t wait for dinner.”

Those were the last words he ever spoke to her. He never returned. She had been desperate at first, frantically calling friends and acquaintances, yet no one had any answers. It was as if Alexey had disappeared into thin air—no clues, no sign of where he had gone. At times, it felt like he had never truly existed at all.

Later, a lawyer delivered divorce papers. Alexey hadn’t even met her in person. It took Victoria years to realize how little she had actually known about him. He had entered her life suddenly, won her heart with charm, and showered her with affection. But whenever conversation turned to his past, he skillfully evaded the topic with lighthearted jokes. She, blinded by love, had missed all the warning signs.

A phone call interrupted her thoughts. It was Elena Sergeyevna, checking in about the gardener. “Yes, have him come tomorrow at ten,” Victoria replied after a brief pause.

The next morning, she waited in her home office. At precisely ten o’clock, the doorbell rang.

A young man stood at the entrance—tall, well-built, with a confident stance and an observant gaze.

“Hello, I’m Kirill. Elena Sergeyevna mentioned you were looking for a gardener?” he said with a polite nod.

Victoria led him through the grounds, detailing the work that needed to be done. Kirill moved with deliberate precision, carefully surveying each corner, making notes in a small notebook, and asking thoughtful, technical questions.

“There’s a lot to tackle, but nothing too difficult. In two or three months, we can get everything into pristine condition,” he concluded after their walk.

His certainty was reassuring, and Victoria felt confident in her choice. They settled on the arrangements, and Kirill began work the following morning.

From her office window, she often found herself watching him. There was something captivating about the way he worked—every motion deliberate, without waste or urgency. It was as if he had an innate connection to nature, understanding exactly how to nurture it.

Gradually, the garden started to regain its former charm. The tangled weeds disappeared, paths took shape, and unruly hedges gave way to well-tended flowerbeds. Kirill worked tirelessly from dawn until dusk, pausing only briefly for lunch. Over time, Victoria grew accustomed to his constant presence. They occasionally chatted—discussing plants, the weather, literature. Kirill wasn’t just skilled; he had a natural gift for conversation.

Still, something about him sparked a quiet unease in Victoria…

TWO IS BETTER THAN ONE!
In today’s world, relationships can sometimes feel like just another item on life’s to-do list. But when you strip away the noise, one simple truth remains: two is better than one. That’s especially true when it comes to marriage.
Marriage isn't just about the fairytale moments or the highlight reels on social media. It’s about showing up—day in, day out—for your partner. It’s about building something that lasts through the highs, the lows, and all the everyday stuff in between.
So, why is two better than one?
For starters, life hits different when you have someone by your side. A strong marriage offers emotional support, companionship, and a safe space to be yourself. When one person is down, the other steps in. When one wins, both celebrate. It’s not just about sharing a life, it’s about multiplying the joy and dividing the stress.
Marriage also brings out the best in people. Living with someone who knows you inside and out means constantly being inspired, challenged, and encouraged to grow. Your partner becomes your teammate, your cheerleader, and sometimes, your biggest mirror. The journey isn’t always easy, but that’s what makes it meaningful.
Married couples often enjoy better mental and physical health, increased financial stability, and longer life expectancy. But more than statistics, it’s the everyday connection, the late-night talks, inside jokes, shared goals, that makes marriage so powerful.
Of course, no relationship is perfect. Marriage takes work, patience, and a whole lot of communication. But when both partners are committed, the rewards are undeniable.
So whether you're married, dating, or dreaming about the future, remember this: love isn’t about finding someone to complete you, it’s about choosing someone to do life with. Because at the end of the day, two really is better than one.

How to Build an Offer Staircase that Makes You Millions…


Last year, I helped my client in SA to build an offer staircase that makes her $599 dollars, daily. No jokes!

Every business needs an offer staircase: whether you sell physical, digital products, coaching, or paid services, you need an offer staircase.

Your offer staircase (also known as a value ladder) is the step by step journey your customer takes from their very first interaction with your brand to becoming a high ticket or loyal long term client.

Think of it like this:

Each step of the staircase moves your customer closer to deeper transformation, and higher investment.


Let’s break it down.


1. Free Value (The Welcome Mat)

This is where they discover you, trust you, and get a quick win.

Examples:

• Your posts
• Free guide, checklist, or mini-course
• Free webinar or challenge
• Lead magnet like a 30 Days of Content Idea guide
• Free community or newsletter

The goal here is to build trust and grow your audience.


2. Low Ticket Offer (The First Step)

This is a no brainer offer that gives a taste of your expertise.

Create any of the following and price it at 1k, 2k or 3k.

• A paid template or workbook
• A short masterclass or workshop replay
• A mini eBook or cheat sheet
• Low-cost digital product bundle

Turn followers into buyers and filter serious people.

Imagine making 50k daily from one low ticket product.
That’s 1.5m in 30 days.

10k daily is 310k in 30 days.

Create it once and it continues making millions for you.


3. Core Offer (Your Signature Transformation)

This is your main offer, the one that gets clients real results.

Price range can be from 10,000 to 150,000 Naira.

Examples:

• A self-paced course or group program
• Monthly subscription
• Done for you service, like web design, content calendar setup, etc.
• 1:1 strategy session

Goal: Deliver big transformation and position yourself as an expert.


4. High-Ticket Offer (Your Premium Room)

This is for your top tier clients who want deeper access, results, or done for you service.

Price range should be from 200,000 Naira upwards.

Examples:

• VIP Days or intensives
• Full service package, like complete marketing funnel setup, rebrand + strategy
• High level coaching or mentorship
• Corporate consulting or retainer packages

Goal: Maximise income and serve fewer people at a higher level.


5. Continuity / Membership (Ongoing Support)

This keeps your best clients in your ecosystem long-term.

Examples:

• Monthly membership or subscription community
• Inner circle mastermind
• Content club or strategy vault
• Alumni group coaching

Goal: Create recurring revenue and lifetime customer value.


Visual Summary of your Million Offer Staircase:

Step 5: Ongoing Membership / Retainer
Step 4: High-Ticket Offer
Step 3: Core Offer
Step 2: Low-Ticket Product
Step 1: Free Value / Lead Magnet


Your Turn:

Ask yourself:

• What do I currently offer at each level?
• Where are the gaps?
• What’s one product/service I can create to fill that gap?


I’m rooting for you.
You feel me?

Do what makes you happy. if na me go make you happy , marry me #jokes #comedy

TODAY'S BEST JOKES

1. Calling a fāt girl angel is wīckedness..
Can she fly?
Please call her "Rock of Ages"

2. I pity men that argue with wømen..
How can you be arguing with someone wey water never touch her head for a month now?

3. My sister, no mān is perfect.
Just choose your Dēmon and keep pouring anointing oil on him

4. Ladies, U are dāting 6 guys and you are mocking a prøstitute..
My sister, it's the same company, just that you are in a private sector and she is in a public sector

5. Don't fight in any Yøruba party ooh
Even their stew seff is a weapon

6. Yesterday, I gave my food to a bēggar and today the beggar gave me a book tittled "How to be a great cook"
Please what does that mean??

7. First day at boarding school, they served us rice, I was waiting for stew when a guy told me "my brother, this is jollof rice ooh..

8. Dear ladies, the silence you keep when you find money in your bøyfriends pocket, kindly do the same when you find him chēating

9. This is Nigeria where we don't change remote batteries, once you slap the back of the remote hardly..
It will come back to its senses

10. Embarracement is when you want to squeeze 10 naira note into offering box and fan blow it to the alter..
My neighbor was a vīctim

11. Never you marry a man or a woman you cannot joke 0r play with..
Marriage is not a mīlitary ground

12. Kīssing is an emotional things,
If you are kīssing and she doesn't close her eyes, my brother, that girl is a thīef

13. For those of you dating mārried man,
Continue!!.., the girl that will dēstroy your høme is still in jss2 rubbing Vaseline in her stomach

14. If everyone on social media was quite like you..
Many will dīe of depression,
So appreciate❤ me that take out time to entertain you.

Thank you all for supporting me keep following please

TODAY'S BEST JOKES

1. Calling a fāt girl angel is wīckedness..
Can she fly?
Please call her "Rock of Ages"

2. I pity men that argue with wømen..
How can you be arguing with someone wey water never touch her head for a month now?

3. My sister, no mān is perfect.
Just choose your Dēmon and keep pouring anointing oil on him

4. Ladies, U are dāting 6 guys and you are mocking a prøstitute..
My sister, it's the same company, just that you are in a private sector and she is in a public sector

5. Don't fight in any Yøruba party ooh
Even their stew seff is a weapon

6. Yesterday, I gave my food to a bēggar and today the beggar gave me a book tittled "How to be a great cook"
Please what does that mean??

7. First day at boarding school, they served us rice, I was waiting for stew when a guy told me "my brother, this is jollof rice ooh..

8. Dear ladies, the silence you keep when you find money in your bøyfriends pocket, kindly do the same when you find him chēating

9. This is Nigeria where we don't change remote batteries, once you slap the back of the remote hardly..
It will come back to its senses

10. Embarracement is when you want to squeeze 10 naira note into offering box and fan blow it to the alter..
My neighbor was a vīctim

11. Never you marry a man or a woman you cannot joke 0r play with..
Marriage is not a mīlitary ground

12. Kīssing is an emotional things,
If you are kīssing and she doesn't close her eyes, my brother, that girl is a thīef

13. For those of you dating mārried man,
Continue!!.., the girl that will dēstroy your høme is still in jss2 rubbing Vaseline in her stomach

14. If everyone on social media was quite like you..
Many will dīe of depression,
So appreciate❤ me that take out time to entertain you.

Thank you all for supporting me keep following please

A Boy asked a Girl in a Library,
"Do you mind if I sit next to you?"
The Girl replied in a loud angry voice
"I don't want to spend the Night with you!"
All the Students in the Library started staring at the Guy, he was embarrassed.
After a Couple of minutes, the Girl waled quietly to the Guy's table and said:
"I study Psychology and I know what a Man is thinking. I guess you felt embarrassed right?"

The Guy responded with a loud Voice:
"$100 For one Night? That's too Much!"

All the People in the Library looked at the Girl in shock.
The Guy whispered in her ears:
"I study Law and I know how to make someone feel Guilty."

Please don't go without foll0wing my pàge please for more jokes

You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet women who are more informed, you will meet women who acts as though they care more than your woman.

Also as a woman you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive body than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talks better than your man;

I mean men who knows how to say sweet words, crack jokes. Etc.
Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life.

And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they're. Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside.

Learn to appreciate your partner

Love your partner without any reservations.

Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doing well, be willing enough to open up to him/her.
Be satisfied please.

It takes commitment, and self control and discipline to stay faithful, and believe me it is achievable.

Love is never enough, self-discipline and relentless commitment is very essential when it comes to relationship/marriage.

Stay Faithful.
One Woman Is Enough!
One Man Is Enough!”

PLEASE READ THIS!!

1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends.

2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife.

3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies

4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow.

5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life.

6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future.

7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security.

9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart.

10. Put on your Wedding ring always

11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you.

12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity.

14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head.

15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.

16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them.

17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married.

18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted

19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away.

20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women.

21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor

22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs.

23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere.

24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details.

25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move

26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm.

27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties.

28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol.

29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure.

30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom.

31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow.

32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it.

33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it.

34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife.

35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that.

36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you.

37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down.

38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady.

39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about

40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere.

41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man.

42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection.

43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world.

44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that.

45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted

46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself.

47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife.

48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is

49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble.

50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife.

51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying.

52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you.

53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage.

54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife.

55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together.

56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife.

57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy

58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure.

59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage.

60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage.

God bless you .

16 HABITS A WOMAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE

WHAT ARE THE HABITS A WOMAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE?

1.Play with your husband. Don’t be too serious always. Put romance and playfulness in your daily schedule. Look for ways to laugh together. Say something funny and do something funny.

2.Invite and Take a bath with your husband, especially at night. Enjoy the pleasure of bathing together. Showering with your spouse is sweet, intimate, and a great way to get fully comfortable with each other’s bodies. Tell him to help you scrub your back as you bathe together. Play together in the bathroom.

3 Give your husband a serious shoulder, back, and neck massage in the bathroom, bedroom, and living room as often as possible. You don’t need to be an expert to give your spouse a good message. Ask your spouse to lie on his body.

4 Say “I love you” to your husband often. Tell him and show him you love him so much. It is not only women that are moved by what they hear. Men are moved by what they hear too.

5 Call, Or Send A Romantic Text Message To Your Husband. Call, email, or send a romantic text message to him when you’re apart so he knows you are thinking of him. Call him on phone whenever he goes out just to say, “I love you”, and you can’t wait to see him back home. Do it now!

6.When your husband comes back from the office, meet him as if this is what you have been waiting for all day. Smile at him. Give him a kiss and a hug. Don’t have a sour face. Smile when you see him always and welcome him home with a hug. Let him know you are happy to see him. Help him unbutton his shirt as he undresses after an outing.

7.When last did you buy a gift for your husband? Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind that he’d enjoy having this month. Buy him a new set of underwear. Buy him new pair of socks, belts, shoes, shirts, trousers, wristwatch or handset. Nothing is too small or big to give to your dear husband.

8 Give your “Husband of the Year Award”, “Father of the Year Award” or “Lover of the Year Award”. Organize a special ceremony to celebrate this. Dedicate any award you receive or any book you write to your spouse.

9.Celebrate his birthday elaborately. Don’t take his birthday for granted. Call his friends, your friends, and your families to remind them of his birthday. Tell them to call and pray for him.

10.Never allow family members or friends to treat him disrespectfully: Defend him before anyone who dishonors him or trivializes his position as your husband.

11.Appreciate his efforts. Men like to be appreciated. Nothing provokes a man to perform than appreciation.

12.Cook his food promptly. Specially serve him. Treat him like a king. Serve your husband as your king. Special plates are for your husband, not for your pastor or visitors. Don’t just cook his food alone, serve it specially. Don’t delegate it to someone else. Treat him like a VIP. Treat him like a special guest on the dining table.

13.Dress to attract your husband always. Every man loves a good-looking and attractive woman. Don’t stop looking good because you are now married. Walk like a beauty queen. Put on a smiling face, and properly compose yourself. Get attractive wear (gown) for private use. Invest in sexy attires that turn him on when you are with him.

14.Support his vision and buy books that pertain to his career and vision for him: PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND ALWAYS. Believe in your husband. Make him know that you believe in him and his vision. Be his number-one fan.

15.Make your bedroom a sex sanctuary. Keep it clean, neat, and smelling fresh at all times. Don’t use your bedroom as a place to throw your dirty laundry.

16.Continue to show love to your husband, even if you don’t receive it. God who sees your efforts will touch his heart. When God steps in, miracles happen. (Galatians 6:9).

YOU WILL NOT FAIL IN MARRIAGE IN JESUS NAME

God bless your relationship Pleas.!! Comment, shear.
[1/20, 5:45 PM] Simeon 'Segun Ojo: QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE.....

1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT.
She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her.

2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE.
Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected

3. SHE MULTIPLIES.
She will turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for.

4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED
Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too

5. SHE LOVES GOOD FOOD
She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too.

6. SHE'S FUN
Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company

7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP
When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone

8. SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD
You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued

9. SHE IS CONFIDENT
Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities

10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT
You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out

11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS
She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends. She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man

12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY
She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks phyically good

13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE
She is not afraid to make sexual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her.

PLEASE READ THIS!!

1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends.

2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife.

3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies

4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow.

5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life.

6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future.

7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security.

9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart.

10. Put on your Wedding ring always

11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you.

12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity.

14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head.

15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.

16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them.

17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married.

18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted

19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away.

20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women.

21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor

22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs.

23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere.

24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details.

25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move

26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm.

27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties.

28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol.

29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure.

30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom.

31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow.

32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it.

33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it.

34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife.

35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that.

36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you.

37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down.

38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady.

39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about

40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere.

41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man.

42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection.

43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world.

44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that.

45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted

46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself.

47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife.

48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is

49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble.

50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife.

51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying.

52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you.

53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage.

54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife.

55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together.

56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife.

57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy

58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure.

59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage.

60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage.

God bless you .