Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs

Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing.

Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value.

Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income:

1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money
A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money.

2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man
If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible.

3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources
As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset.

4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom
Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny.

5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation
A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage.

6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men
No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done.

7. You Have No Voice Without Resources
In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke.

8. Survival Demands It
There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it.

Final Warning

Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire.

A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship

I was jogging this morning, and I noticed a person about half a kilometre ahead. I could tell he was running a little slower than me, and I thought, good, I shall try to catch him. I had about a kilometre I needed to turn off. So, I started running faster and faster. Every block, I was gaining on him just a little bit. After just a few minutes, I was only about 100m behind him, so I really picked up the pace and pushed myself. You would have thought I was running in the last leg of an Olympic competition. I was determined to catch him. Finally, I did it! I caught and passed him. On the inside, I felt so good. "I beat him." Of course, he didn't even know we were racing. After I passed him, I realised I had been so focused on competing against him that I had missed my turn. I had gone nearly six blocks past my turn, and I had to turn and go back.

Isn't that what happens in life when we focus on competing with co-workers, neighbours, friends, family, trying to outdo them, or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important? We spend our time and energy running after them, and we miss out on our own paths to our God-given destinies. The problem with unhealthy competition is that it's a never-ending cycle. There will always be somebody ahead of you, someone with a better job, nicer car, more money in the bank, more education, a prettier wife, a more handsome husband, better behaved children, etc. But realize that "You can be the best that you can be, you are not competing with anyone."

Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention to what others are, where others are going, wearing and driving. Take what God has given you, the height, weight, and personality. Dress well and wear it proudly. You'll be blessed by it. Stay focused and live a healthy life. There is no competition in Destiny. Run your own race and wish others well.

#2025, I am running my own race. I am not competing with you, folks.

HAVE A BLESSED WEEK AHEAD.

Being single for a long time can shift your entire perspective. At first, the silence may feel unfamiliar, even lonely—but over time, it becomes sacred. You learn to enjoy your own company, to trust your own rhythms, and to build a life that feels whole without needing someone else to complete it. The peace that comes from not compromising yourself, not constantly explaining your heart, becomes something you fiercely protect.
And maybe that’s why the idea of loving again feels more like a threat than a promise. It’s not about bitterness or fear—it’s about finally understanding the value of your own space, your own calm. You've tasted the kind of stillness that doesn’t depend on anyone, and it's made you question whether chaos, even in the name of love, is worth disturbing that. Maybe, just maybe, being only you is not just enough—it’s everything.

*REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD*


(Hard work alone no be enough. You need sense, strategy, and discipline to win.)

You wake up early every morning, hustle till your body complain, but at the end of the month, your bank balance still looks like an empty pocket thief struck. You ask yourself, “Why are rich like those guys?”

I get news for you:your habits and mindset does not sabotage your grind. Village people are not your problem, your own lifestyle is.

1. YOU WORK HARD, BUT YOU DON’T WORK SMART
You hustle physically, you run errands, you do odd jobs, but you never think about how to multiply that hustle. You run like rat with no cheese.

Meanwhile, other guys are using their brains to invest small small, learn skills, start side hustles, build passive income.

Working hard is good. But working smart is the key to escape a poverty trap.

What to do: Learn skills that pay well. Invest in knowledge, not just sweat.

2. YOUR MONEY HAS NO PLAN, NO TRACKING
When salary enter, you just spend anyhowly—no budget, no savings, no investment.

This is why every month, you are broke before payday.

What to do: Budget your money like a CEO. Know where every coin will go.

3. YOU CARRY TOO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR BACK
Your salary is not just for you — it’s for mama, uncle, cousin, friend, street people... you are playing Minister of Finance for everybody.

But no one does the same for you.

Reality: You can’t build wealth carrying 10 people. You must build yourself first.

What to do: Help when you fit, but put your future first.

4. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO SPENDING, NOT INVESTING
You spend on luxury, new gadgets, slay queen maintenance, designer labels… but when time to invest come, you suddenly “have no money again.”

This lifestyle is a silent killer. You build others’ businesses, not yours.

What to do: Switch your mindset from consume to invest. Use money to grow assets.

5. YOU LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK WITH NO EMERGENCY FUND
Every little emergency crashes your finances—no backup, no plan B.

So when things go wrong, you borrow, borrow, borrow until you fall into debt trap.

What to do: Save at least 3 months salary as emergency fund. Build cushion.

6. YOU FAIL TO MULTIPLY YOUR INCOME SOURCES
Relying on one salary? That’s like sitting on one leg and expecting to run marathon.

True wealth comes from multiple income streams—business, investments, side hustles.

What to do: Start small side hustles. Learn to create money streams outside salary.

7. YOU WAIT FOR MIRACLE WHILE DOING NOTHING
You pray and wait for miracle money. But no action follows.

Prayers without hustle andl procrastination with spiritual flavour.

What to do: Pray with your legs and hands. Action is the partner of blessing.

FINAL TRUTH:

Hard work is important, but without planning, discipline, and smart decisions, you will remain broke.

Village people are not then cause of your poverty; your habits and choices are.

If you want to escape the poverty cycle:

Hustle smart, not just hard.

Budget and track your money.

Cut unnecessary spending.

Build emergency funds.

Multiply your income sources.

Stop carrying unnecessary financial burdens.

Pair prayer with action.

If this post hit you hard, don’t just scroll. Change your mindset, change your life.

"The 12 Secrets the Rich Don’t Want You to Know"

We live in a world designed by the rich, for the rich. Everything from the media you consume to the advice you’re given is carefully curated to keep you trapped in the rat race while they soar higher. It’s time to pull back the curtain and uncover the truths the wealthy don’t want you to know. Brace yourself, because what you’re about to learn may shatter every illusion you’ve been sold.

The first secret is that hard work alone won’t make you rich. Yes, they encourage you to hustle and grind, but they know the truth: the path to wealth lies in leverage, not labor. While you’re breaking your back working overtime, they’re using other people’s time, money, and skills to build empires.

Second, they want you to believe money is evil. The more you associate wealth with greed and corruption, the less likely you are to pursue it unapologetically. Meanwhile, they know that money is simply a tool—a powerful one that can amplify your impact if used wisely.

Third, savings won’t make you rich. They push the “save and invest in a mutual fund” narrative, but they don’t follow it themselves. They invest in high-risk, high-reward opportunities: startups, real estate, stocks, and businesses that multiply their wealth exponentially.

Fourth, the school system is a trap. They fund educational systems that teach you to be obedient employees, not critical thinkers or risk-takers. You’re taught to work for money, while they learn to make money work for them.

Fifth, tax laws are written for the wealthy. They know the loopholes, the incentives, and the strategies to legally avoid taxes, while you’re stuck paying a significant chunk of your income. Wealthy people own assets, not salaries, and assets are taxed differently.

Sixth, debt is a weapon—but only if you know how to wield it. They want you to fear debt, but the rich use it as a tool to acquire more wealth. They leverage other people’s money (OPM) to buy assets that generate cash flow and pay off the debt themselves.

Seventh, your consumerism funds their lifestyle. Every time you buy a new gadget, trendy clothes, or overpriced coffee, you’re putting money directly into their pockets. Meanwhile, they’re investing in assets that appreciate over time.

Eighth, connections matter more than talent. They don’t want you to know that access to the right people will open more doors than any degree or skillset. They build exclusive networks that perpetuate their wealth and keep outsiders at bay.

Ninth, time is their most valuable asset. They don’t waste it on distractions or meaningless tasks. They hire people to do what they can’t or won’t do, freeing up their time to focus on wealth-building strategies.

Tenth, the stock market is rigged in their favor. While you’re hoping your portfolio grows steadily, they have insider information, access to high-frequency trading, and the capital to manipulate markets to their advantage.

Eleventh, failure is their greatest teacher. They embrace setbacks as learning experiences and take calculated risks without fear. You’ve been taught to play it safe, but the rich know that big rewards require bold moves.

Finally, they thrive on your ignorance. The less you know about money, investing, and business, the more they can exploit your labor, time, and consumer habits to enrich themselves.

So what’s the takeaway, men? Stop playing the game they’ve rigged against you. Educate yourself about money, learn to think like an investor, and prioritize ownership over consumption. Break free from the chains of mediocrity, and start building your own empire. It’s time to outsmart the system and claim the wealth and power they don’t want you to have.

When you are big, you are big, Chelsea FC has not been to champions league for two seasons,but the current UEFA ranking:

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1. REAL MADRID
2. MANCHESTER CITY
3. BAYERN MUNICH
4. LIVERPOOL
5. PSG
6. INTER
7. CHELSEA
8. DORTMUND
9. ROMA
10. BARCELONA

Sleeping beside your favorite person is heaven — not because of the bed, the blanket, or the softness of the night… but because of the soul beside you.

It’s the way your heart finally rests after a long, chaotic day.
It’s knowing you’re not alone in this world —
that someone chose you, again and again, even in their sleep.

It's in the way your fingers find each other in the dark,
how your legs tangle without meaning to,
how your breathing syncs like your hearts have always known the same rhythm.

It’s not just sleep — it’s healing.
It’s their presence that tells your scars to relax,
their warmth that teaches your mind to slow down.
It’s safety, comfort, trust… all in one silent embrace.

The world may be loud, but this… this is quiet love.
And it’s the kind that doesn’t need to be said aloud —
because it’s felt in the spaces where words don’t reach.

That is what heaven feels like: Two souls resting, loving, and belonging — all in one bed, in one moment.

Evang. Mike Bamiloye drums support for Gaise Baba X Lawrence Oyor's NO TURNING BACK song amid criticism spreading like ωildfiяe.

Never Going Back – A Soundtrack for This Generation

So Never Going Back by Gaise Baba and Lawrence Oyor, hit the internet and it went viral, young people love it, but recently, I have been seeing videos of a pastor and some Christians criticizing the song and I can’t stop thinking about the message of the song and the reactions it has sparked amongst us christians .

Here’s the thing: teenagers and young adults today are some of the most difficult people to reach with the gospel. Why? Because they’re constantly being influenced by friends, social media, entertainment, and everything in between. In a world that glamorizes drugs, promiscuity, money-worship, and “love” that fades faster than a Snapchat story, we finally get a song that boldly centers Jesus and personal transformation, that our youths are vibing too and some of us are criticizing it? What is wrong with us?

Let’s take a step back.

The lyrics say: "Ife Jesu lo wa mi ri, to gbami ku o"—“The love of Jesus sought me, found me, and died for me.” That’s the gospel, in Yoruba rhythm and sound! Yet all some people can talk about is Gaise’s hair color, his blinks, the headband on Lawrence’s head and the dance steps in the song. Really?

Someone said, “I go narrow, dem think say I no know road o.” Isn’t that what the Bible teaches? Narrow is the path that leads to life. Didn’t Jesus say He came for the sick, the lost, the sinners? Will every gospel singer be Dunsin and Nathaniel?

Instead of focusing on the outward appearance of the ministers, what if we focused our hearts on praying that:

Out of 4 million streams, at least 400,000 youths would genuinely surrender to Jesus.

Another 400,000 who are still searching would encounter the Holy Spirit and find salvation.

The rest would be stirred to rededicate their lives and stay rooted in Christ.

Wouldn’t that be worth celebrating?

Here’s the truth: whether we like it or not, someone is influencing your children, your teenagers, and your youth group. If they’re not listening to something like Never Going Back, they’ll be listening to something else and let’s be honest, a lot of what’s out there isn’t helping them know Jesus.

When we publicly condemn songs like this, directly or subtly, we shut the door to one of the few tools actually speaking the language of the street with the heart of the cross.

I’m not a pastor, but I know this: Jesus came and died for sinners. None of us regardless of titles, appearances, or backgrounds is better than another, we’ve all simply found favor of God and are trying to live a life that pleases our Heavenly Father.

So rather than criticize, let’s pray. Let’s encourage. Let’s support gospel expressions that speak to this generation in their own rhythm.

Haba!! some of us are still “saving the ark” and we are not even aware of it. May God help us all.

XoXo
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“Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”

2019.....On Sunday Afternoon in Abuja Lugbe by Federal housing opposite Mr Biggs....there was a viewing Center were we use to watch Football their.

One Sunday, Me & my Friend steps out to watch MANCHESTER UNITED match before heading to National Stadium to watch EFCC Football Club match.

After MANCHESTER UNITED match....me and my friend decided to sit back and wait till 4:30 before heading to Stadium to watch live match. We use to watch EFCC match because we train with them in Lugbe.

While waiting in the viewing center....RB Leipzig match came up and there is this guy that drives from Left wing.

I told my friend that this is the type of Player MANCHESTER UNITED should be signing. He laughed.

This afternoon l got a message from that my friend on WhatsApp because l no longer stay in FCT.

This is what he wrote "MANCHESTER UNITED have finally signed your dream Player" when l ask him "Which dream Player? He said MATHEUS CUNHA from Wolves....the player you said you like when we were in Lugbe.

That is when my last memory started working....have been watching this guy play for Wolves without recognizing him.

Well..... Welcome to Old Trafford MATHEUS CUNHA. Had it been l am one of United Scott.... MANCHESTER UNITED could have been the favorite to win Club World Cup and Fifa World Cup .

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The Monkey’s Regret

Tambo and Zubi had been friends for as long as either of them could remember. They were born in the same fig tree, played on the same vines, and grew up in the same stretch of the forest. Tambo was lively and restless, always eager to prove himself. Zubi was quieter, the kind of friend who listened more than he spoke, but when he spoke, it mattered.

One dry season, the elders of the forest announced a special event—a Fruit Gathering Day, where every animal was invited to bring the finest fruit they could find. It wasn’t a competition in name, but everyone knew it was. The best fruit would be praised, and whoever brought it would enjoy a bit of respect and admiration.

Tambo, never one to miss a chance to shine, threw himself into the task. But the drought had dried many of the usual fruit trees, and all he could find were half-ripe bananas and overripe guavas. Meanwhile, Zubi quietly climbed a remote tree by the stream and returned with a fruit neither of them had seen in weeks—a smooth, ripe plum, deep red and firm.

Tambo couldn’t stop looking at it.

The night before the gathering, he stayed awake turning the thought over in his head. “Zubi doesn’t even care for these things. He’s not interested in being praised. I could just take it for tomorrow… and return it after the gathering. It’s only one fruit.”

And so, he did.

Zubi was confused the next morning when he couldn’t find the plum. But he didn’t say much, just looked around for a while, then carried his bananas to the gathering.

Tambo presented the plum. Animals admired it. A few nodded their approval. The elders complimented him on the find. It wasn’t a grand victory, just quiet recognition. But Tambo couldn’t enjoy it.

When he looked at Zubi across the clearing, his friend’s face was calm—but distant. They walked home in silence.

Days passed. The easy laughter between them faded. Zubi still greeted him, still shared food, still offered help when needed—but something unspoken had settled between them, and Tambo felt it with every word that didn’t come.

He thought about returning the fruit, or confessing. But what would that change?

Months went by.

Then, during the next rainy season, the riverbanks overflowed. One morning, word came that Zubi had gone to help a stranded animal near the flooded stream and hadn’t returned.

Tambo ran without thinking. When he reached the edge of the swollen water, he saw Zubi holding onto a branch, stuck in thick mud, water rising fast. There were no crowds, no drama—just two friends in trouble.

Tambo found a long stick, waded into the edge of the water, and held it out. He slipped once but kept his grip. With effort and a quiet word of encouragement, he helped Zubi back to dry land.

No one cheered. There were no dramatic rescues or grand gestures. Just two monkeys sitting on wet ground, breathing hard, side by side again.

As they rested under a tree, Tambo finally said, “It was me. I took the plum that day. I thought it was just fruit, but I knew what it meant.”

Zubi looked at him for a long time before replying. “I knew,” he said simply. “But I also knew you’d come back.”

They didn’t talk about it again. But over time, the silence between them changed. Not quite like before, but honest, and steady.

Tambo never sought admiration again. What mattered most, he had nearly lost. And quietly, without words, he began to rebuild what truly mattered.

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Moral: Some mistakes aren’t fixed with words. They’re fixed with actions—and time.

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