Marriages are becoming so bitter

"My wife and I don’t do red carpet. It is the same people that harass you for not takin' your wife to red carpet event that will sit back and point fingers at how you both look." — Ramsey Noah My wife and I have an understanding. And this is one of the reasons our marriage is still standing strong. We avoid the public eye because the public has a way of messing up relationships. Sometimes, my wife goes ahead of me into the event, so we don’t do red carpet. It is the same people that harass you for not taking your wife to red carpet event that will sit back and point fingers at how you both look. ~ Ramsey Noah

One of the noticeable flaws about some successful ladies is pride and arrogance. Money itself is not bad; it's not the root of evíl. It becomes evíl in the wrong hands. It's the Lord's desire that we prosper as our souls prosper. Your success and wealth shouldn't be a ticket to disrespect people, look down on others, and belittle men. Arrogance doesn't look good on anyone. Your success as a woman is more evident and soothing when you maintain your feminine charms. Bragging shouldn't be part of your approach. Queens are not loud. If you are a family oriented lady, pray for the grace to sustain success and wealth without it negatively impacting your marriage and home. Don't let success turn you into someone you are not or make you feel like you're in competition with men. Maintain your femininity; it's not inferiority, it's your power. Being feminine is a blessing. We are not in competition with men. The goal is to have a good life, and to propagate the gospel of God. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing. Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value. Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income: 1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money. 2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible. 3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset. 4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny. 5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage. 6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done. 7. You Have No Voice Without Resources In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke. 8. Survival Demands It There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it. Final Warning Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire. A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship

WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, READ THIS AND LEARN. "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father. "What for son?", his father asked. "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost". Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé. "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked. "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered. His father held him by the shoulder and said "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room". "Yes dad", Kola obliged. Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room. "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's father asked. "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance. "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father. They sat down. "Thank you dad" "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father. "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé. "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola. "Why do you want to have a big wedding?", father asked. "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied. "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé. "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé. "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father. "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola. "How many true friends do you really have?", I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father. Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other. "Countable", the fiancé answered. "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father. Silence. "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father. "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola. "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage" Silence. The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence. "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father. "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé. "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for? People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt? Marriage is what is more important than a wedding", continued the father. "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is just you and me, not people". The father spoke, "My son, in all the years you have been a man, you have never come to me asking for money, but now you are asking for money to put up a show? I look further, I look at your marriage. I admire how people come together in a wedding committee to raise money and I wonder, what if couples and people use that same energy to put up a business that will uplift families. Those members who will be part of your wedding committee, imagine if they become your investors, imagine if you build a company where you can make profit and feed your homes. Something sustainable." Kola and his fiancé nodded. "My son, I have longed for the day you would come and ask me to invest in your business idea. But today I will make the first move", the father said taking his cheque book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé. "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million naira, not for your wedding but as start up capital for a business of your choice. I am giving the cheque to your wife because as the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk with you in building an empire for your family. Focus on your family, give your family the best; forget about the public and opinions of people who don't matter. Build a future for your family. Build your family on a foundation of surplus not debt". "Thank you so much" said the fiancé. Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His father stood up too. The father and son hugged. "Thank you dad for being a great figure and your counsel. I don't know what to say. You have challenged me not to merely get married but to have a vision, a vision for my family. I don't know what to say" he spoke. The father held his shoulder, "You will make a great husband and father. I wish I had the same counsel when I was getting married, all those people I fed on my wedding day didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I was to organize an event and feed multitudes, I would do so for the less fortunate and those in need. Marriage is not for show. Pls follow Eunice home of fashion &hair Don’t forget to share to enlighten more people #highlightseveryone #fbreels23 #fypシ゚viralシ #fbyシvideo #highlightseveryonefollowers #highlightsシ゚ #fbyシviral #fbreelsvideo #reelsfypシ

A man can be the only provider in the house and still be a family oriented man. He will hustle and still make out time for family, and still value his home. Being a career woman is never an excuse to neglect your home, or to be less accessible by loved ones . Success shouldn't pave the core values of life. Unless you don't desire marriage or having a family, which is fine; otherwise, learn to balance your desire for success with being lovable. Many children have been emotionally traumat!zèd by their career driven parents. These parents seems to be physically present, but act like absent parents. Maintain a balance between fame, wealth, success, and being family oriented. You can be a loving mother and wife and still be a great woman of valor. You can be anything you want to be and still be lovely🥰 Just find a supportive partner, it makes it easier for you. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Sometimes, when a man thinks of marriage, it's mostly because he is in love, when a woman do the same, in most cases, it's simply because the clock is ticking. 80% of the time a marriage is peaceful and successful, it's mostly because the man is still very much in love and care unconditionally. When a man is tired, the marriage cracks. Men are the marriage and women are the beauty of the marriage. Shalom.

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31 Happy mother's day to all our Amazing mothers.

So, yesterday, a lady p@id my bi||s just because I wore my wedding ring o. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ok, wify asked me to help me get something for her yesterday as I was stepping out. And while I was at it, a lady walked down to where I was standing to b,uy too. "Oh, Oga Yenne, congratulations on your wedding" she greeted. "Thank you ma'am, good morning" I responded. "I hope you have not forgotten your wedding ring today again o" she asked. I laughed and told her I was with with it. "Makka see" she insisted. I showed her the ring and she nodded "that's good, no dey forget am again" I was busy with other things when I heard her ask "so how much xxxx did you b,uy? I want to p@y for you" "Ahhhhhh thank you ma'am" I screamed with excitement. I told her the amount and she paid with her ATM. **** Even when she not talk am, I know say nothing person go tell me, na that ring where I no forget for house make that woman p@y for my sh0pping. If this is how women are supporting their fellow women to encourage their husbands to be committed to marriage and to wear ring, I love it🙈 At least e save me money yesterday 🙈 I think our "online in-laws" are very intentional that I must stay married and be a responsible husband to my wife. Iyammmi. Because explain how I went to Big Stream last night to look for Tiger nut for wify and some ladies at the gate literally chased me away to go back to madam, asking what I was doing there in the night. It was a funny experience sha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Again, they also wanted to be sure I was with my ring. Iyammmi 🤣 I ran away o Well, I will intentionally forget it sometimes and wear it sometimes so that you people will be bu,ying me things to encourage me to remember to be wearing it. How about that🙈 I go use this ring chop una money.😜😜😜 Una never see something yet 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

14 Reasons Why You Keep Missing Your Mr Right( Potential Husband) If you do any of these , please change . 📌. TALKING LIKE MEGAPHONE: There is a way a lady should talk. She should talk like a Baby that you are not like an army Commander. Talking loudly like a megaphone, shouting, yelling will not help your course at all. 📌. MISS CONTROLLER: Some ladies are controllers. They always want to be in charge wherever they find themselves. It is good that you shouldn’t be naive and introverted where your mates are, but know when to calm down. They take over conversation without allowing Men to talk. They take over the life of a Man and behave like alpha and omega. No body is allowed to get to him except through you . Wise Men will read between the lines and FLEE. 📌. DIRTY LINNEN: Some ladies can’t just stop talking, as soon as they begin to eat, they begin to talk, exposing all their dirty past to a man within one hour of meeting him because of eating 300 naira fish pie. You are going to tell him about your past no doubt, but wait. You should even do that as soon as possible but study the environment and mood first . 📌. GLUTTONY: Eating like a glutton on their first date with a Man. Amaka why na??? You take Fried rice, Ofada, Jollof, fried plantain, beans, popcorn, fish, assorted meats, swallows, in your stomach alone? The Man thought you are done, but you ordered for malt drink, yogurt, coke, wine, and fruit juice to quench your thirst forgetting that his intention was to woo you and get serious with you. He will never come back. He will not allow your mouth to send him back to the village. 📌. CASH MACHINE: For someone who hasn’t propose marriage to you, You want to buy pant, you’ll call him. You want to fill gas , Oya you’ll call your ATM machine. You want to buy book, you’ll put a call through . Every small thing you want to buy, you are calling man first, Sorry ma, you are not ready for MARRIAGE yet. 📌. FAKE LIFE: They live a fake and cosmetic life. Borrowing clothes, shoes, and Bags to visit a Man that you are not sure of. Who are you trying to impress???. The Man will know that you borrow it when he never sees the cloth and shoes on you again. Why living a fake life? 📌. NO APPRECIATION: You’ve never been appreciative of anything you received. Wife materials are appreciative. You act as if it’s your right. You never appreciate even the smallest, how will you get more ??? I am too loaded to be wasted 💥

DON’T MARRY JUST ANY WOMAN, MARRY A WOMAN WITH COMMON SENSE. 1. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that respect in marriage is mutual, not one-sided. 2. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that you are not an ATM machine, and providing for the family is a shared responsibility when necessary. 3. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that love is not just about what she can receive but also what she can give. 4. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that being a man does not mean you don’t have emotions and that your struggles and mental health matter too. 5. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that submission does not mean slavery, and partnership does not mean control. 6. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that when you are tired or stressed, she should also be willing to support, whether by cooking, making things easier, or simply being considerate. 7. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that intimacy is not a weapon for manipulation or punishment but an expression of love that should be mutual and consensual. 8. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that disagreements are normal but should be handled with maturity, not silent treatment, disrespect, or emotional manipulation. 9. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that your dreams and aspirations matter just as much as hers and that marriage should be a place of support, not competition. 10. Marry a woman who loves your soul, not just your status, money, or what she can gain. Marry a woman who enjoys talking to you, not just demanding from you. May you not miss it in marriage