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From Northern Monopoly to Yoruba Rotation?

A Deep Look at Buhari vs Tinubu Appointments and the Tribal Virus Slowing Nigeria

They say the more things change, the more they stay the same — but in Nigeria, it seems things just change tribally, not nationally.

Let’s start with the facts.

During President Buhari’s administration, key federal positions were overwhelmingly filled by individuals from the North. Not just the heads of agencies, but even their deputies. From EFCC to DSS, NNPC, NDLEA, NPA, NSCDC, NIS, FRSC, NPS, and nearly every other major institution — it was North on North. In fact, over 80% of these agencies had both leaders from the same region. It wasn’t governance; it was regional occupation.

Now enter President Tinubu. A new era, a new hope. But did we really leave tribal politics behind?

On the surface, Tinubu’s appointments show more balance. Agencies now have North–South or South–North combinations. There’s a visible attempt to mix things regionally. At least, on paper, it looks like a step in the right direction.

But here’s where it gets messy — almost all the Southern appointments under Tinubu are Yoruba. His tribe. From AMCON to the Army, Navy, DIA, DSS, and more, it’s still ethnic stacking, just done differently. We’ve moved from Northern monopoly under Buhari to Yoruba favoritism under Tinubu. Same wine, different tribal bottle.

WHY TRIBAL APPOINTMENTS ARE DESTROYING NIGERIA

1. They kill meritocracy — people are chosen based on tribe, not ability. That’s why institutions rot.

2. They destroy national unity — no one wants to believe in “one Nigeria” when only one group dominates.

3. They fuel ethnic tension and resentment — every tribe begins to see others as threats instead of partners.

4. They block true federal character — when only Hausa, Fulani, or Yoruba dominate, where are the Igbos? The Ijaws? The Ibibios? The Tivs? The Nupes?

5. They breed mediocrity at the top — because positions are shared like family inheritance, not national responsibility.

TINUBU VS BUHARI: WHO’S MORE TRIBAL?

Let’s be honest.

Buhari didn’t even pretend to balance. The North had it all. The South was an afterthought.

Tinubu is trying to mix things — but only if you're Yoruba. The Igbo man is still watching from the sidelines. South–South is barely noticed.

So the Obidients who cry “tribalism!” under Tinubu aren’t entirely wrong — but many of them were silent under Buhari.
And the Buhari loyalists who scream “Tinubu is fair” are conveniently forgetting how they defended Northern domination for 8 years.

Hypocrisy is the only thing everyone seems to share equally in this country.

IF NIGERIA MUST MOVE FORWARD...

We must kill tribalism in appointments. The presidency is not a tribal office. National agencies are not clan estates. Until we put merit and fairness above tribe, Nigeria will continue to crawl while other nations run.

Let appointments reflect federal character, not ethnic calculation. Let every Nigerian child — North, South, East or West — believe they can rise to the top without a tribal godfather.

Who did worse — Buhari or Tinubu?
Is Tinubu’s balance real, or is it Yoruba rebranding of old tribal games?
Can Nigeria ever break free from ethnic politics?

Drop your thoughts. Argue with sense. But speak your truth.


#WalaataPapers #NigeriaFirst #TribalismKills #TinubuVsBuhari #Obidients #Jagaban #ArewaPolitics #NaijaMustChange

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*My name is Tomorrow "not my real name",

I own a company, none of my staff knew me as the owner except the Manager and the Secretary. (I had told them not to disclose my identity).*
*I don't usually go for a visit.*


*One day, I visited the company and I saw my Ex wife, who had thrown me out of my own house. I asked the Manager and he said she is one of their staff.*
*I instructed the Manager to promote her to Personnel Officer, gave her a car, a bungalow, garden boy, security and other emoluments. An undeserved position though, of which he did.*

*A month later, I went there as a job seeker. As soon as she saw me with my application and CV, she rejected me outright, threw my application at my face, and immediately retrieved it from the floor and tore it to pieces and threw it into the waste bin. After regaling me with all my past, she informed me I would never get employment nor an opportunity at the company. Also, she swore on heaven and the earth that all this would happen. She boldly declared that the only way I’d get employment at the company was over her cold dead body*.

*I came the following day with another application and went on my knees to beg her, but she refused and spat into the waste bin and said even if I was the only bridge to cross to come to work, she would opt for a boat and called the security men to throw me out, so I left.*

*One day, I went to the company in my real identity and entered her office with the Manager who introduced me to her, she quickly knelt down crying and begging me, "the proposed rejected bridge.” She informed me that her entire family depended on her for survival. If her employment was terminated, she added, life would be absolutely horrendous not only for her but also her entire family. She even promised to remarry me.*
*We both stood there motionless and speechless which left the Manager befuddled.*

*Many things started racing in my head. Should I call for the police? Should I strip her of her current position to her former position? Should I cancel the unqualified benefits given to her? Should I accept such a woman back?*
*I'm still standing at her office indecisive.*

*If you were in my shoes, what would you do?*

*THERE IS TOMORROW*
*Whenever you are dealing with people, you must always remember that there is tomorrow and you might néed them tomorrow. You may end up needing help from the people who are asking for your help today, so help as much as you can.*

*Life is like a moving wheel, sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. Sometimes we destroy the bridges that we might need to help us cross back tomorrow. Sometimes we treat people as though there is never going to be tomorrow. We sometimes act as though we will never need help from anyone. Remember there's tomorrow.*

*Joseph helped the cupbearer in prison and later the cupbearer connected Joseph with Pharaoh. Imagine how Portiphar's wife felt when she heard that Joseph was now the Governor of Egypt, after she had falsely accused him. The brother who sold Joseph away ended up being fed by him. Don't ever think of going to the extreme with your offenders, they might be rescuers tomorrow. Always remember that there is tomorrow and it will surely come.*
*The little help you give to people today, will profit you tomorrow.*
*May the good Lord touch your heart to live your life knowing that there is tomorrow.*

*In Everything You Do, Always Remember That,There Is Tomorrow.*

*Have a blessed Sunday ahead, Pls share to others for them to know that THERE IS TOMORROW

Don’t Let people around you Stop You From Raising Your Boys Into Men

You’re not just raising boys.

You’re raising future protectors.

Future builders.

Future kings.

And if you let softness win in your home—if you let comfort replace character—you won’t just lose your sons…

You’ll unleash broken men into a world that already has too many of them.

Let’s be clear:

The world doesn’t care about a man’s feelings.

It only respects his function.

So if your wife thinks your discipline is “too harsh,” “too traditional,” or “too outdated”—remind her:

You’re not raising a pet. You’re preparing a warrior.

Let’s break it down:

—

1. You’re Not a Disciplinarian—You’re a Blacksmith

Your job isn’t to scold.

It’s to forge.

A boy’s ego must be shaped.

His emotions must be tempered.

His desires must be trained.

Because if you don’t train your son?

The streets will.

The courts will.

The morgue will.

And all that “gentle parenting” won’t mean a thing when he can’t hold a job, respect a woman, or lead his own family.

So stop letting softness sabotage strength.

And stop letting your wife treat your correction like cruelty.

—

2. Disagree in Private—Stand United in Front of the Kids

If she undercuts you in front of your son?

You lose him.

It’s that simple.

Because when Mom says “he’s too hard on you” or rolls her eyes when you speak?

She’s not protecting the boy.

She’s dividing the home.

A divided voice equals no voice.

And when your child sees you lose authority?

He stops listening.

Not just to you—but to all discipline.

So talk it out later.

But in front of the children?

You are the father. Period.

—

3. Provision Is More Than Money—It’s Authority

You want to lead?

Provide.

You want to enforce discipline?

Provide.

You want your sons to listen when you speak?

Provide.

Because the man who carries the weight has the right to set the rules.

You don’t need to buy Ferraris.

But you need to be the reason the lights stay on and the fridge isn’t empty.

Your wife can supplement.

But never surrender provision.

Because a man who doesn’t provide?

Gets parented by his own children.

—

4. Don’t Raise Another Man’s Child and Ignore Your Own

You’re not the savior.

You’re not Jesus in sandals.

You don’t need to “fix” the broken family she walked away from.

You need to build your own.

Every second you spend raising someone else’s child while yours goes without?

You’re training a son who will one day ask:

“Where were you when I needed you?”

And he won’t care about your noble intentions.

He’ll only remember your absence.

So unless he shares your DNA or your last name?

Let that child’s father do his job.

And do yours with your own.

—

5. Fight for Custody Like Their Lives Depend on It—Because They Do

Don’t let courts rob you.

Don’t let systems silence you.

Don’t let her take them away because “you’re not emotionally available.”

You are their father.

And the presence of a strong father reduces crime, depression, suicide, and dropout rates.

When Dad stays?

Kids thrive.

Especially boys.

So if they take them from you?

Fight.

With everything.

Your name.

Your legacy.

Your money.

Because your sons don’t just need a parent—they need a model.

And you are that model.

—

Final Word: You’re Not Raising Sons—You’re Building a Civilization

Don’t apologize for being firm.

Don’t shrink because she cries.

Don’t surrender because she calls it “toxic.”

The world is falling apart because men stopped fathering.

And wives started interfering.

Be gentle, yes.

But never passive.

Because one day your son will face storms you can’t stop.

And the only thing that will protect him…

Is the strength you had the courage to build into him.

So raise your voice.

Raise your standard.

Raise your boys into men.

R.I.P Actor Jerry Williams — Body Returns Home for Burial
The beloved actor Jerry Williams has sadly passed away, and his body has been returned home for burial. Fans, friends, and family are mourning the loss of a talented figure in the entertainment industry.
May his soul rest in peace. Stay tuned for updates on funeral arrangements and memorial events.
https://southtodayy.com/giangqhtv/r-i-p-actor-jerry-williams-body/

"Thank you, Mr. Tunji Malomo, for your bold and well-articulated piece. Only those who truly know our political history and are not blinded by loyalty to individuals over the truth will understand the weight of your words.

When people accuse His Excellency Rauf Aregbesola of betrayal, one wonders: "*How long must a man be loyal before he is allowed to have a mind of his own?"* l Is loyalty slavery? Or is it mutual respect?

*Let’s take a journey through the forgotten pages of history:*

1. *Tinubu's Betrayal of Afenifere:*
The Yoruba elders of Afenifere gave Tinubu a platform when he was a political nobody. But what happened after he tasted power? He threw them aside like yesterday’s newspaper and built his personal empire. That was the first great betrayal.

2. *The Abacha Chapter* :
Many may not remember, but Tinubu once sought favour from the same Abacha he later pretended to fight against. His exile was not born of sacrifice but of disappointment when Abacha refused him. He didn’t run because of democracy; he ran because his expectations were cut short.

3. *The June 12 Deceit:*
Even the late MKO Abiola’s family can not forget how Tinubu traded the June 12 struggle for personal gain. Kola Abiola himself exposed these betrayals. While some bled for the cause, others bargained for personal survival.

4. *Oyetola vs Aregbesola - Family Over Party:*
Aregbesola built Osun APC with sweat and sacrifice. But when it was time for succession, Tinubu chose blood over merit. Oyetola, his cousin, was handed the ticket. Even the one-term gentleman’s agreement was broken. If this isn’t betrayal, then what is?

5. *Alpha Beta and the Empire of Greed:*
How many bright minds brought ideas to the Lagos political table, only for Tinubu to pocket them and claim them as his own? Alpha Beta is just one of the many examples where brains were stolen, and loyalty was betrayed for profit.

6. *Aregbesola's Years of Service:*
For almost 30 years, Aregbesola served Tinubu with unquestionable loyalty. From the trenches of NADECO to the corridors of Lagos State, from Osun’s political storms to APC’s national battles. Yet, when he asked for fairness, he was branded a traitor...."

The Marriage Advice .

1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

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KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

React before you read

1 Laziness kills Marriage.

2 Suspicion kills Marriage

3 Lack of trust kills marriage.

4 Lack of mutual respect kills marriage.

5 Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice and anger kill marriage.

6 Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage.

7 Keeping Secrets from your Spouse kills marriage.

8 Every form of Infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc).

9 Poor Communication kills marriage.

10 Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

11 Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage.

12 Lack of inadequate or unenjoyable s€x kills marriage.

13 Nagging kills marriage.

14 Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage .

15 Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage.

16 Being too independent minded kills marriage.

17 LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending/partying, financial indiscipline kills marriage.

18 Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or Siblings kills marriage.

19 Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together kills not only marriage but your life.

20 Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

21 Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage.

22 FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

23 MALE CHAUVINISM kills marriage.

24 Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.

25 Not understanding your role and position , not taking responsibilty in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

26 Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage.

27 When anything threatens the position/security of a wife or husband, his or her reaction(s) will be detrimental to the marriage.

28 Lack of the Knowledge of & Obedience to the word of God kills marriage.

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