🩸The Silent Cry: The Real Dangers of Abortion Intro: A True-Like Story That Happens Every Day Ama was only 19, in her second year at the university. Bright. Ambitious. Full of dreams. But life doesn’t always go as planned. She found out she was pregnant. The father? A guy who had already moved on. Family? She feared the shame. Friends? Most encouraged her to "just take it out and move on." So one quiet afternoon, Ama walked into a backstreet clinic—no signboard, no license, just a promise of quick results. She came out with a heavy heart, bleeding… not just physically but emotionally and spiritually. Days later, Ama collapsed in her hostel. The infection had spread. Her womb was damaged. Her dreams of ever carrying a child again? Gone. This is not just Ama’s story. It is the story of thousands of young women across Ghana and Africa. Some survive. Some don’t. Most carry the scars forever. 🔴 What Is Abortion? Abortion is the deliberate termination of a pregnancy before the baby can survive outside the womb. While some abortions are carried out under strict medical guidance due to life-threatening complications, unsafe abortions—especially those done secretly, by untrained persons, or in unsanitary places—pose deadly risks. ⚠️ Dangers of Abortion (Especially Unsafe or Repeated) 1. Physical Health Risks Severe bleeding (hemorrhage): Can lead to death if untreated. Infections: Unsanitary tools or poor hygiene can introduce bacteria that damage reproductive organs or cause sepsis (blood poisoning). Womb perforation: Instruments can tear the uterus, leading to long-term complications or emergency surgery. Infertility: Damage to the womb or fallopian tubes can result in permanent infertility. Organ damage: Unsafe procedures can harm nearby organs like the bladder or intestines. 2. Mental and Emotional Trauma Depression, guilt, and regret are common. Post-Abortion Syndrome: A condition similar to PTSD, marked by anxiety, nightmares, emotional numbness, and self-blame. 3. Social and Spiritual Consequences Emotional distance from partners or family. Isolation due to fear or stigma. Spiritual guilt or disconnection for those with strong religious values. 💔 Common Myths That Push Women Toward Abortion “It’s just a small problem, take it out.” → No. Pregnancy involves two lives: the mother and the child. “Abortion is safer than giving birth.” → Only when done legally and under medical care. Unsafe abortions kill more women than childbirth in many places. “You can’t get pregnant again after just one abortion.” → Many women have faced infertility after a single poorly done abortion. 💡 What Should You Do Instead? Talk to a health professional: Seek counseling and support services. Look into adoption: Many families are looking to adopt children. Educate yourself: Know your body, understand protection, and make informed decisions. Join support groups: You're not alone. There are safe spaces to help you make the best decision. ❤️ The Way Forward for Ghana and Africa We need more education—not judgment. We need safe spaces, not silence. We need men to take responsibility, not escape it. We need communities to empower, not shame. Let’s protect our women, our daughters, and our sisters from the trap of unsafe abortions.

*💫WEDNESDAY MOTIVATION!* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U *Get Out of THE COMFORT ZONE* There is story I heard that inspired me: Two guys were walking home from work then one fell in a deep pit. The other one tried to pull out his friend and failed. Then he said LET ME QUICKLY GO AND GET A ROPE TO PULL YOU OUT. He went, and when he came back, he found his friend akamira panze achidongorera mugomba muya. Then he asked kuti wabuda sei? He said "MAWIRA NYOKA WENA! *Lesson* 🔥 *Sometimes we do not show our potential 😂due to comfort zone, when we are put in harsh and limiting conditions we will do great and mighty works,😂😂😂so stop being lazy about your life my sister and brother do wat is impossible to be possible...ndikuhwe uchiti haugoni kubuda musituation yauri...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾* 🔥 *You can come out of any situation, have the desire to be successful*. Tarisa chiri kukumhanyisa. *Don’t befriend what is chasing you*. Kusvika pakusavhunduka nhamo, pakufanana nesituation yako. Kuita mutwin wePoverty 🔥 _Kune maTriplets aSatani atiri kurwa nayo HUROMBO, HUROVHA, HUROMBE….zvinofambirana…ukapusa unomabereka. Kunzwira tsitsi nhamo._ 🔥 *Try to force yourself out of your comfort zone because being shy will not get you anywhere.Panobudika mwanasikana zvimwe makazorora chete. Come out of the comfort zone.* 🔥 Unonyara kutengesa apo hauna kana cent nekuti ukuzviti une Degree…. Degree kana Diploma kana 10 points haizi mari…Get out of the Comfort Zone. Enda unohodha bhero upinde muchiround. Pinda muchiround usaComfotwer nebeuaty nemahips, hatidye mahips nemaonini, usanyare vanhu heee Get out of that Comfort ZOne 🔥 _Kune vanhu vari comfortable nezvinhu zvisiri comfortable, kujairira zvinhu zvisingajairike. Kujairira kusiirwa weave, kujairira kuendeswa out, kujairira kurara pamubhedha wakabhovhoka, kujairira kurarwa. Don’t feel comfortable in an uncomfortable environment._ 🔥 Hanzi hee isu tatojaira isu, haaa muchirikurwadziwa isu tatojaira kurara pasi aaaah imi musajairire nhamo. Inzwa shungu kuti one day I want to change this situation 🔥 _Vamwe makazorora nekuti mukuchengetwa nevabereki, vamwe takazorora nekuti tikutemba sisi varikuUK, vamwe mazorora nekuti mukutemba kabasa kauri kutambira ka150USD. If you divide it by 30 days ndopaunoona kuti pazuva ukushandira $5._ 🔥 Mira muwire nyoka unobuda chete because its either dying or coming out of the pit. *Sometimes you need to be FIRED in order to be FIRED UP.* Panobudika chete 🔥 _Varume vane maperembudzi in Kings vakaona kuti tikagara pano tinofa, tikapinda muguta tinofa, tikaenda kuvavengi tinofa. Kusiri kufa ndekupi. Its Better tife tichienda kune chikafu._ 🔥 *Comfort Zone has killed many dreams, has killed a lot of potential and visions.* Comfort Zone yekuti uriEmployee muGovernment toshanda nguva yatinoda, Comfort Zone yekuti tinogara imba yaSisi or yeCompany. Comfort zone yekuti haubhadhare rent, Comfort Zone yekupihwa mari nevanhu aaah *Refuse to be comforted nemachunks…remember machunks is not Meat. I need real meat.* 🔥 Taramba kaupenyu kekuti haa zvirinani pane kushaya aaah we need the Best of Life…Usagare pana zvirinani enda pana zvakanaka 🔥 _Comfort Zone yekuti ndichiri mwana, ndine spare bedroom yangu, ndiri last born, ndiri musikana saka handina pressure, comfort zone yekuti ndine Degree, ndine Masters. Ko chako chii chaunacho cheupenyu._ 🔥 My sister regai muwire nyoka, I don’t know what type of snake that will fall in your comfort zone PIT, ndopaunoona kuti MaChunks haizi nyama, Zai harizi Chicken. Get out of the Comfort Zone before the Zone become uncomfortable. 🔥 *Some of you mukuda motivation but mira muwire nyoka indeed motivation will find you* Panobudika apa. 🔥 *The comfort zone is nothing else but a graveyard for your dreams & ideas* Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge 🔥 *Panobudika pauri, chandakadzidza kuti ukagarira tsono unosimuka chete.* Haaaa nhasi regai ndigumire pano. Blessed morning family,have a great day!🙏🏽 _With Love_❤️

What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.

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🔥 From Northern Monopoly to Yoruba Rotation? A Deep Look at Buhari vs Tinubu Appointments and the Tribal Virus Slowing Nigeria They say the more things change, the more they stay the same — but in Nigeria, it seems things just change tribally, not nationally. Let’s start with the facts. During President Buhari’s administration, key federal positions were overwhelmingly filled by individuals from the North. Not just the heads of agencies, but even their deputies. From EFCC to DSS, NNPC, NDLEA, NPA, NSCDC, NIS, FRSC, NPS, and nearly every other major institution — it was North on North. In fact, over 80% of these agencies had both leaders from the same region. It wasn’t governance; it was regional occupation. Now enter President Tinubu. A new era, a new hope. But did we really leave tribal politics behind? On the surface, Tinubu’s appointments show more balance. Agencies now have North–South or South–North combinations. There’s a visible attempt to mix things regionally. At least, on paper, it looks like a step in the right direction. But here’s where it gets messy — almost all the Southern appointments under Tinubu are Yoruba. His tribe. From AMCON to the Army, Navy, DIA, DSS, and more, it’s still ethnic stacking, just done differently. We’ve moved from Northern monopoly under Buhari to Yoruba favoritism under Tinubu. Same wine, different tribal bottle. ❗WHY TRIBAL APPOINTMENTS ARE DESTROYING NIGERIA 1. They kill meritocracy — people are chosen based on tribe, not ability. That’s why institutions rot. 2. They destroy national unity — no one wants to believe in “one Nigeria” when only one group dominates. 3. They fuel ethnic tension and resentment — every tribe begins to see others as threats instead of partners. 4. They block true federal character — when only Hausa, Fulani, or Yoruba dominate, where are the Igbos? The Ijaws? The Ibibios? The Tivs? The Nupes? 5. They breed mediocrity at the top — because positions are shared like family inheritance, not national responsibility. 💥 TINUBU VS BUHARI: WHO’S MORE TRIBAL? Let’s be honest. Buhari didn’t even pretend to balance. The North had it all. The South was an afterthought. Tinubu is trying to mix things — but only if you're Yoruba. The Igbo man is still watching from the sidelines. South–South is barely noticed. So the Obidients who cry “tribalism!” under Tinubu aren’t entirely wrong — but many of them were silent under Buhari. And the Buhari loyalists who scream “Tinubu is fair” are conveniently forgetting how they defended Northern domination for 8 years. Hypocrisy is the only thing everyone seems to share equally in this country. 🤯 IF NIGERIA MUST MOVE FORWARD... We must kill tribalism in appointments. The presidency is not a tribal office. National agencies are not clan estates. Until we put merit and fairness above tribe, Nigeria will continue to crawl while other nations run. Let appointments reflect federal character, not ethnic calculation. Let every Nigerian child — North, South, East or West — believe they can rise to the top without a tribal godfather. Who did worse — Buhari or Tinubu? Is Tinubu’s balance real, or is it Yoruba rebranding of old tribal games? Can Nigeria ever break free from ethnic politics? Drop your thoughts. Argue with sense. But speak your truth. 👇👇👇 #WalaataPapers #NigeriaFirst #TribalismKills #TinubuVsBuhari #Obidients #Jagaban #ArewaPolitics #NaijaMustChange

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Today was fun with all the Gada family in Abuja with our humble CEO.

*My name is Tomorrow "not my real name", I own a company, none of my staff knew me as the owner except the Manager and the Secretary. (I had told them not to disclose my identity).* *I don't usually go for a visit.* *One day, I visited the company and I saw my Ex wife, who had thrown me out of my own house. I asked the Manager and he said she is one of their staff.* *I instructed the Manager to promote her to Personnel Officer, gave her a car, a bungalow, garden boy, security and other emoluments. An undeserved position though, of which he did.* *A month later, I went there as a job seeker. As soon as she saw me with my application and CV, she rejected me outright, threw my application at my face, and immediately retrieved it from the floor and tore it to pieces and threw it into the waste bin. After regaling me with all my past, she informed me I would never get employment nor an opportunity at the company. Also, she swore on heaven and the earth that all this would happen. She boldly declared that the only way I’d get employment at the company was over her cold dead body*. *I came the following day with another application and went on my knees to beg her, but she refused and spat into the waste bin and said even if I was the only bridge to cross to come to work, she would opt for a boat and called the security men to throw me out, so I left.* *One day, I went to the company in my real identity and entered her office with the Manager who introduced me to her, she quickly knelt down crying and begging me, "the proposed rejected bridge.” She informed me that her entire family depended on her for survival. If her employment was terminated, she added, life would be absolutely horrendous not only for her but also her entire family. She even promised to remarry me.* *We both stood there motionless and speechless which left the Manager befuddled.* *Many things started racing in my head. Should I call for the police? Should I strip her of her current position to her former position? Should I cancel the unqualified benefits given to her? Should I accept such a woman back?* *I'm still standing at her office indecisive.* *If you were in my shoes, what would you do?* *THERE IS TOMORROW* *Whenever you are dealing with people, you must always remember that there is tomorrow and you might néed them tomorrow. You may end up needing help from the people who are asking for your help today, so help as much as you can.* *Life is like a moving wheel, sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. Sometimes we destroy the bridges that we might need to help us cross back tomorrow. Sometimes we treat people as though there is never going to be tomorrow. We sometimes act as though we will never need help from anyone. Remember there's tomorrow.* *Joseph helped the cupbearer in prison and later the cupbearer connected Joseph with Pharaoh. Imagine how Portiphar's wife felt when she heard that Joseph was now the Governor of Egypt, after she had falsely accused him. The brother who sold Joseph away ended up being fed by him. Don't ever think of going to the extreme with your offenders, they might be rescuers tomorrow. Always remember that there is tomorrow and it will surely come.* *The little help you give to people today, will profit you tomorrow.* *May the good Lord touch your heart to live your life knowing that there is tomorrow.* *In Everything You Do, Always Remember That,There Is Tomorrow.* *Have a blessed Sunday ahead, Pls share to others for them to know that THERE IS TOMORROW

Don’t Let people around you Stop You From Raising Your Boys Into Men You’re not just raising boys. You’re raising future protectors. Future builders. Future kings. And if you let softness win in your home—if you let comfort replace character—you won’t just lose your sons… You’ll unleash broken men into a world that already has too many of them. Let’s be clear: The world doesn’t care about a man’s feelings. It only respects his function. So if your wife thinks your discipline is “too harsh,” “too traditional,” or “too outdated”—remind her: You’re not raising a pet. You’re preparing a warrior. Let’s break it down: — 1. You’re Not a Disciplinarian—You’re a Blacksmith Your job isn’t to scold. It’s to forge. A boy’s ego must be shaped. His emotions must be tempered. His desires must be trained. Because if you don’t train your son? The streets will. The courts will. The morgue will. And all that “gentle parenting” won’t mean a thing when he can’t hold a job, respect a woman, or lead his own family. So stop letting softness sabotage strength. And stop letting your wife treat your correction like cruelty. — 2. Disagree in Private—Stand United in Front of the Kids If she undercuts you in front of your son? You lose him. It’s that simple. Because when Mom says “he’s too hard on you” or rolls her eyes when you speak? She’s not protecting the boy. She’s dividing the home. A divided voice equals no voice. And when your child sees you lose authority? He stops listening. Not just to you—but to all discipline. So talk it out later. But in front of the children? You are the father. Period. — 3. Provision Is More Than Money—It’s Authority You want to lead? Provide. You want to enforce discipline? Provide. You want your sons to listen when you speak? Provide. Because the man who carries the weight has the right to set the rules. You don’t need to buy Ferraris. But you need to be the reason the lights stay on and the fridge isn’t empty. Your wife can supplement. But never surrender provision. Because a man who doesn’t provide? Gets parented by his own children. — 4. Don’t Raise Another Man’s Child and Ignore Your Own You’re not the savior. You’re not Jesus in sandals. You don’t need to “fix” the broken family she walked away from. You need to build your own. Every second you spend raising someone else’s child while yours goes without? You’re training a son who will one day ask: “Where were you when I needed you?” And he won’t care about your noble intentions. He’ll only remember your absence. So unless he shares your DNA or your last name? Let that child’s father do his job. And do yours with your own. — 5. Fight for Custody Like Their Lives Depend on It—Because They Do Don’t let courts rob you. Don’t let systems silence you. Don’t let her take them away because “you’re not emotionally available.” You are their father. And the presence of a strong father reduces crime, depression, suicide, and dropout rates. When Dad stays? Kids thrive. Especially boys. So if they take them from you? Fight. With everything. Your name. Your legacy. Your money. Because your sons don’t just need a parent—they need a model. And you are that model. — Final Word: You’re Not Raising Sons—You’re Building a Civilization Don’t apologize for being firm. Don’t shrink because she cries. Don’t surrender because she calls it “toxic.” The world is falling apart because men stopped fathering. And wives started interfering. Be gentle, yes. But never passive. Because one day your son will face storms you can’t stop. And the only thing that will protect him… Is the strength you had the courage to build into him. So raise your voice. Raise your standard. Raise your boys into men.

Tragic News from Abuja: An unknown lady was found dëâd on Abubakar Street, off Alex Ekwueme Street in Jabi. This is a heartbreaking reminder for all ladies to prioritize their safety. The streets aren't as safe as they should be. Please be careful and aware of your surroundings. Her identity remains unknown Share this message to reach the family.

R.I.P Actor Jerry Williams — Body Returns Home for Burial The beloved actor Jerry Williams has sadly passed away, and his body has been returned home for burial. Fans, friends, and family are mourning the loss of a talented figure in the entertainment industry. 👇 May his soul rest in peace. Stay tuned for updates on funeral arrangements and memorial events. 👇 https://southtodayy.com/giangqhtv/r-i-p-actor-jerry-williams-body/

"Thank you, Mr. Tunji Malomo, for your bold and well-articulated piece. Only those who truly know our political history and are not blinded by loyalty to individuals over the truth will understand the weight of your words. When people accuse His Excellency Rauf Aregbesola of betrayal, one wonders: "*How long must a man be loyal before he is allowed to have a mind of his own?"* l Is loyalty slavery? Or is it mutual respect? *Let’s take a journey through the forgotten pages of history:* 1. *Tinubu's Betrayal of Afenifere:* The Yoruba elders of Afenifere gave Tinubu a platform when he was a political nobody. But what happened after he tasted power? He threw them aside like yesterday’s newspaper and built his personal empire. That was the first great betrayal. 2. *The Abacha Chapter* : Many may not remember, but Tinubu once sought favour from the same Abacha he later pretended to fight against. His exile was not born of sacrifice but of disappointment when Abacha refused him. He didn’t run because of democracy; he ran because his expectations were cut short. 3. *The June 12 Deceit:* Even the late MKO Abiola’s family can not forget how Tinubu traded the June 12 struggle for personal gain. Kola Abiola himself exposed these betrayals. While some bled for the cause, others bargained for personal survival. 4. *Oyetola vs Aregbesola - Family Over Party:* Aregbesola built Osun APC with sweat and sacrifice. But when it was time for succession, Tinubu chose blood over merit. Oyetola, his cousin, was handed the ticket. Even the one-term gentleman’s agreement was broken. If this isn’t betrayal, then what is? 5. *Alpha Beta and the Empire of Greed:* How many bright minds brought ideas to the Lagos political table, only for Tinubu to pocket them and claim them as his own? Alpha Beta is just one of the many examples where brains were stolen, and loyalty was betrayed for profit. 6. *Aregbesola's Years of Service:* For almost 30 years, Aregbesola served Tinubu with unquestionable loyalty. From the trenches of NADECO to the corridors of Lagos State, from Osun’s political storms to APC’s national battles. Yet, when he asked for fairness, he was branded a traitor...."