When a Father Walks Away—Everyone Pays the Price Let’s say it loud: The greatest crisis a child can face isn’t poverty. It’s not bullying. It’s not the cost of college. It’s a father who left. Whether he left through cheating, cowardice, or being pushed out— the result is the same: A child with no compass. A future with no blueprint. A legacy with no foundation. Let’s talk about it. — 1. Fathers Who Cheat Don’t Just Betray Their Wives—They Break Their Children That affair you had? It didn’t just destroy trust. It disrupted an entire bloodline. Because the day you became a father, you weren’t just a lover. You became a leader. And when the leader abandons the structure? The whole kingdom collapses. — 2. Women Who Weaponize the Law Are No Better Let’s not pretend: The law is on your side. The courts favor you. The world will call you brave—even if you’re petty. But just because you can destroy a man legally doesn’t mean you should. Pushing a father out because your emotions changed isn’t power. It’s generational sabotage. Children don’t care about your ego. They care about consistency. — 3. Science Confirms It—Kids Do Better With Fathers Present You can’t rewrite this. Studies show: – Boys raised without fathers are more likely to be violent. – Girls raised without fathers are more likely to be exploited. – And all children suffer emotionally when dad becomes a ghost. Single motherhood may be normalized. But it’s not ideal. And if you’re offended? Check the prison stats. Check the dropout stats. Check the depression stats. Father absence is not just a wound. It’s a curse. — 4. Men: Stop Starting Families You’re Not Ready to Lead You want to be a father? Then stop acting like a frat boy with responsibilities. – You don’t get to cheat because “she let herself go.” – You don’t get to start over and pretend your first family doesn’t exist. – You don’t get to “heal” by disappearing from your children’s lives. Leadership isn’t convenience. It’s covenant. And a man who can’t keep his vows shouldn’t expect loyalty from his children later in life. — 5. Women: Stop Removing the Father Just Because the Marriage Died You fell out of love? Cool. But that doesn’t cancel his role. You moved on? Great. But that doesn’t mean he disappears. When you turn your child against their father, you’re not protecting them. You’re punishing them. And they’ll resent you for it when they grow up. — 6. Children Aren’t Resilient—They’re Just Quiet Don’t be fooled. That smile is covering confusion. That silence is hiding trauma. That “I’m fine” is rehearsed. They notice: – When your new partner gets more attention. – When they stop being invited to things. – When love starts feeling like a competition. They’re not “adapting.” They’re breaking quietly. — 7. Masculinity Must Be Modeled—Not Just Taught Boys don’t become men through lectures. They become men by watching one. And if you’re not around? They’ll find masculinity in the streets, the screen, or the chaos. And none of those places build men you’d be proud of. — Final Word: You Don’t Stop Being a Father Because You Failed as a Husband Men: You may have lost the marriage. But don’t lose your mission. Women: You may be hurt. But don’t hijack your child’s future to soothe your ego. Because when a father walks away— Or is pushed out— Everyone pays. The kids. The legacy. The soul of the next generation. So whether you're the man who strayed, Or the woman who shut the door… Fix it. Because children don’t care who was right. They just want both parents to stay in the fight.

🌙✨ The Mystical Lunar Cycle🌙✨ Ever wondered how the moon’s phases shape our lives? From the New Moon to the Full Moon and back, the lunar cycle influences everything from energy levels to emotions. 🌑🌒🌓 This captivating visual breakdown reveals the waxing and waning phases of the moon, showcasing the celestial dance between light and shadow. 🌕💫 🔮 Embrace the power of each phase—whether it’s a time for new beginnings, reflection, or releasing what no longer serves you. Explore the lunar cycle and align your intentions with the rhythm of the universe. #LunarCycle #MoonPhases #CosmicRhythms #FullMoonEnergy #AstrologyVibes

LEAVE YOUR FEMALE STUDENTS ALONE! This is not just a warn!ng—this is a cr¥. A cr¥ for the girl child. A cr¥ for our schools. A cr¥ for sanity. Dear young male teacher, You are gifted. You are admired. Your presence alone makes the girls sit up, eager to learn. You speak with passion, you dress smart, you explain well—and you may not know this—but many of those girls in your class are secretly cru$h!ng on you. But listen carefully: Their admiration is not permission. Their smiles are not an invitation. Their boldness is not maturity. They are still children. Tender. VulnerabI3. Still figuring out their emotions. What they feel is not love—it is confusion dressed in admiration. They trust you. They believe in you. And when you cross that sacred line… you k!II something in them. You kiIIher confidence. You kiII her future. You kiII her right to grow up whole and safe. Let me tell you what many don’t talk about. There are girls walking around today—empty, br0ken, hiding pa!n under their makeup—because a teacher who was supposed to protect them u$ed them. Some dropped out of school with swollen bellies. Some ended up in danger0u$ relationships they didn’t deserve. Some can no longer focus in class. Some lost their voice. Some have never healed. And what’s worse? Many of them still blame themselves. You were supposed to be her mentor. Her light. Her guide. Instead, you became her first heartbr£ak, her first betrayaal, her first $hame. Let me say this loud and clear: If a girl student ever gets bold enough to come close, it is because you have already given her the signal. Yes—you may not have touched her yet, but your boundary is already weak. And weak boundaries are a silent invitation to destruct!on. Don’t tell yourself “it’s love.” It’s not. Don’t say “she started it.” She didn’t. Don’t say “others have done it.” That’s no excuse. The truth is: many male teachers have ru!ned the destiny of the girl child in the name of love. And nobody talks about it enough. Be different. Don’t become another reason why a girl can’t look a male teacher in the eye without f£ar. Don’t become the face she remembers every time the word “trust” is mentioned. Don’t destr0y a child to satisfy your weakness. You are not just teaching a subject—you are shaping a soul. So protect her. Guard your role. Be disciplined. Be a real man. Be the teacher she’ll write about with pride—not pa!n. Let this be the end of this madn€$$. Let the classroom be a place of growth, not trau.ma. If this message touched your heart, share it like fire. We must shout it louder until every teacher hears it: Leave the girl child alone. Let her grow. Let her breathe. Let her be safe.

SURVIVE was written for those struggling with mental health challenges, depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. When emotions are unstable, life can be unpredictable. Many hide their pain and go through life feeling empty on the inside. But God wants you to be made whole. After studying this book to the end, you will get practical steps that will help you break free from mental health challenges, depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. With that knowledge you will be able to help those around you going through a similar situation.

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

I was at the fueling station earlier today. While on the queue, the Napep man beside me also on queue to the same pump was on call with his wife. His phone had rang twice before he eventually picked. His wife mentioned that he didn’t drop any money for the children to eat, and in response, he said reminded her that he already told her he wanted to use the money left with him to buy fuel into his Keke so that he can work and send money. The call was audible as it was on speaker. The worried wife kept mentioning that the children were already crying. But he kept telling his wife that he would send money immediately he works. After the call, he was speaking with himself and talking how people weren’t going out as the normal days. With his eyes fixed at a particular spot of the keke. I was so bothered for him, his wife and the hungry children. When we got to the pump, the attendant could either sell to me or him as we were beside each other due to the position of our fuel tanks. And he told the pump attendant to sell for me. I immediately told the attendant to sell for him. “Oya, sell One thousand two hundred own” While he stretched his hand to give the attendant the money. Then I said young lady, Pls fill the tank of his keke” He looked at me like, No, she shouldn’t as he doesn’t have that money to pay. I told him not to worry, and that I will pay. And he said, since I started driving this keke, I have never bought full tank. With tears on his eyes, he went down and I carried him up. After I bought mine and as I was driving out of the staton, I didn’t know he was waiting for me just outside the gate. When I saw him, I stopped he couldn’t stop thanking me. I simply told him, I overheard the call with his wife wish caught my emotions. My parents taught me how to be kind to people. My dad would say, a help you render today is coming for you tomorrow. One thousand two hundred can not feed husband and wife, let alone with the children. I requested for his account details and sent him money. I equally asked him to call his wife and I spoke with her. When she sent her details, I sent her money to buy some food stuffs. He was literally in tears as I drove off, and I prayed for them that God eases their affairs. And the one reason why I share this— If life is kind to you, Pls extend it and be kind to people. Oluwanishola Akeju

Cristiano Ronaldo failed to contain his emotions after helping Portugal to their third international tournament triumph.

"After I became president, I asked my escort to go to a restaurant for lunch. We sat down and each of us asked what we wanted. On the front table, a man was waiting to be served. When he was served, I said to one of my soldiers: go and ask that gentleman to join us. The soldier went and conveyed my invitation to him. The man got up, took his plate, and sat down right next to me. While he ate his hands trembled constantly and he did not lift his head from his food. When we finished, he said goodbye without looking at me, I shook his hand and he left. The soldier told me: Madiba that man must have been very ill, seeing as his hands didn't stop shaking while he ate.- Absolutely no! The reason for his trembling is another. Then I told him: That man was the warden of the prison where I stayed. After he tortured me, I screamed and cried asking for some water and he humiliated me, laughed at me, and instead of giving me water, he urinated in my head. He is not sick, he was afraid that, I now being the president of South Africa, would send him to prison and do to him what he did to me. But I'm not like that, this conduct is not part of my character, nor of my ethics. ′′Minds that seek revenge destroy states, while those that seek reconciliation build nations. As I stepped out the door to start a new chapter in my life, I realized that in order to truly embrace my freedom, I needed to let go of all the anger, hatred, and resentment that had weighed me down. I knew that holding onto those negative emotions would only keep me imprisoned” - Nelson Mandela.. Copied! Keep following Oluwaseun E. Ajayi

Long-distance relationships are emotional traps for untrained men. You sit there texting, calling, promising her forever, While she’s out there collecting attention like it’s oxygen. You think she’s yours because of “love”? No, bro. She’s loyal to her options. Her environment. Her emotions. And when the right guy shows up and touches the right nerve, Your long-distance promise means nothing. Let me burn the fantasy: You’re in bed dreaming of her. Some other man is in her bed, giving her what you only type. You send good morning texts. He sends dopamine with eye contact and masculine presence. You plan FaceTime dates. He plans real ones, with his hands around her waist, not emojis on a screen. Women don’t stay loyal to absence. They stay loyal to presence, pressure, and power. And a man who lets distance test loyalty Is a man who's gambling with a loaded gun pointed at his pride. You think you're “building trust”? You’re just feeding her attention-starved ego while she's busy entertaining "just friends." You think love will carry the weight? No. Only masculine presence, real-world imprinting, and boundaries keep her in check. At Girls Approach, we teach men how to dominate the room, not text their worth across borders. If you can’t show up in person, you better show up in power. Otherwise? You're just emotionally funding her connection with the next bold guy in her city. Let the truth be told: A woman’s loyalty is as stable as the attention she receives. Distance doesn’t protect your bond. It exposes the illusion of one. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody. No whining. This is Girls Approach energy. This is dominance without desperation. If you’re not in her world physically, someone else will be. Step up or step aside. This is warfare. Get hard or go home. #girlsapproach ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

Long-distance relationships are emotional traps for untrained men. You sit there texting, calling, promising her forever, While she’s out there collecting attention like it’s oxygen. You think she’s yours because of “love”? No, bro. She’s loyal to her options. Her environment. Her emotions. And when the right guy shows up and touches the right nerve, Your long-distance promise means nothing. Let me burn the fantasy: You’re in bed dreaming of her. Some other man is in her bed, giving her what you only type. You send good morning texts. He sends dopamine with eye contact and masculine presence. You plan FaceTime dates. He plans real ones, with his hands around her waist, not emojis on a screen. Women don’t stay loyal to absence. They stay loyal to presence, pressure, and power. And a man who lets distance test loyalty Is a man who's gambling with a loaded gun pointed at his pride. You think you're “building trust”? You’re just feeding her attention-starved ego while she's busy entertaining "just friends." You think love will carry the weight? No. Only masculine presence, real-world imprinting, and boundaries keep her in check. At Girls Approach, we teach men how to dominate the room, not text their worth across borders. If you can’t show up in person, you better show up in power. Otherwise? You're just emotionally funding her connection with the next bold guy in her city. Let the truth be told: A woman’s loyalty is as stable as the attention she receives. Distance doesn’t protect your bond. It exposes the illusion of one. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody. No whining. This is Girls Approach energy. This is dominance without desperation. If you’re not in her world physically, someone else will be. Step up or step aside. This is warfare. Get hard or go home. #girlsapproach ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

“6 THINGS MEN WHO NEVER SIMP UNDERSTAND (THAT SIMPS WILL NEVER GET)” Some of you think you’re “nice guys.” Nah, bro—you’re a SIMP. Always chasing, begging, paying, pleading… And still not getting what you want. But there’s a class of men who NEVER go through that humiliation. Let me tell you the 6 codes those men live by. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. “ATTENTION IS CURRENCY—NEVER SPEND IT FOOLISHLY” A non-simp knows: the more you give a woman unnecessary attention, the less she values it. Simps? Always double texting, calling 10 times, replying stories in 2 seconds. Real men? They respond, not chase. They’re BUSY. They don’t overinvest attention. Result? Women respect them because their attention is rare. 2. “A MAN WHO WORSHIPS A WOMAN CAN NEVER LEAD HER” A non-simp knows: once you place her on a pedestal, you’ve put yourself under her feet. Simps? “My queen,” “You’re my world,” “I’m nothing without you.” Bro… even SHE will start believing you’re beneath her. Real men? They love, but they don’t worship. They admire, but they don’t lose frame. Women can only follow men they respect, not men who beg. 3. “A MAN WHO CAN’T WALK AWAY HAS ALREADY LOST POWER” A non-simp understands: The power to walk away is the power to lead. Simps? “I’ll do anything to keep her.” “She’s all I have.” “I can’t live without her.” Bro, you’ve surrendered your balls. Real men? They’re ready to walk away if respect is lost. They know: staying where you’re not valued is self-abuse. 4. “YOUR MONEY MUST SERVE YOUR MISSION—NOT HER EMOTIONS” A non-simp’s money builds himself first. Simps? “Babe needs money.” “Babe wants hair.” “Babe’s rent is due.” Their account balance = ATM for her lifestyle. Real men? They fund purpose, not parasitism. They help, but they never cripple their finances to sponsor a princess lifestyle. 5. “A MAN WHO CHASES WOMEN HAS NO TIME TO BUILD KINGDOMS” A non-simp knows: the more you chase, the more you waste time. Simps are marathon runners: From one DM to another. From one date to another. Meanwhile… kings are busy building empires. Money. Power. Value. And guess what? Women chase men who build. 6. “A WOMAN MUST QUALIFY FOR YOUR LEADERSHIP—NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND” A non-simp doesn’t audition for women’s approval. Simps? “Do you like me now?” “Am I good enough?” “Please give me a chance.” Bro… why are you applying for a job you created? Real men? They ARE the prize. Their standards select. A woman must qualify to sit beside him, not the other way around. BOTTOM LINE: If you’re still simping, you’re living life upside down. Stop chasing validation. Stop funding entitlement. Stop surrendering power. Start building YOU. Respect flows from strength. Women don’t follow men who beg. They follow men who lead. If this post burns you—it’s because you need it. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️